Super nanny doesn't teach the kids to behave. She teaches the parents and just helps undo whatever issues the parents have already instilled in their kids.
That’s cuz most of the time their misbehaving is caused by the way parents are handling it or not handling it. Sometimes it’s not, but sometimes it is.
i don’t think people are realizing this. this doesn’t just sound like perfectionism, this sounds like straight up OCD. making the kids wear the same thing, making them all eat the same frozen dinner, constantly cleaning until early hours of the morning, freaking out when people go through her clothes, ruin her clean vaccume tracts, and they constantly say that her blood was boiling the whole time. this is not normal perfectionism. this is obsessive and compulsive.
@@chevysmith6723 OCD is an anxiety disorder and this was an opinion straight from my OCD boyfriend. there are many different types of OCD. the one you described is definitely one of them, which is what my boyfriend has. i do agree that OCD isn’t just “the fact that this isn’t clean makes me mad” or “omg this isn’t straight!!!”, her behaviour isn’t either of those. it’s almost as if she believes something horrible will happen if things aren’t the way they are, or she will get very angry
@@alexlepanpan65 I didn't see it that way but I can see your perspective. From mine, it seems like she only cares about "the image", not necessarily that she thinks something bad will happen. It could be OCD or another anxiety disorder but she's definitely high strung.
@@chevysmith6723 i have ocd and i can confirm that there's diff types. and her cleaning and wanting things to be organized it stereotype, yes but people do have it like that. i get so upset when i do see the shampoo and conditioner bottle aren't right next to each other.
Can we talk about how lovely the husband is? Getting emotional over not spending enough time with his wife, telling her he misses her, and that he hopes she doesn't feel pressure from to keep the house perfect. That's so rare to see and so lovely.
Isn't he an amazing man? If he weren't though, he would not stick around while his wife is making little mommy clones to present to the world. Hubby was the only part of this family close to perfect when Jo began helping this family.
listening to that man talk about his wife made me cry. he clearly has so much love for her and his children. bless his heart. the world needs more men like him.
But there's an issue there matching outfits, perfection , cleanest house, something in her past or the way she was raised there's to way or her parents were the same and nothing but perfection was accepted, or the opposite súper caos, abandonment , dirty house
The dad trying the time out chair saying "ive seen some of your stuff. Im not sure im doing it right but I'm trying" was adorable. It really shows how they have been trying period (at least him)
It makes me angry to hear that this poor girl with sensory processing issues is being treated like she’s a brat for being rightfully upset at what’s happening to her. It’s just very upsetting to watch and it makes me grateful for how aware we are of these things today.
Mom’s dismissal of her kid complaining the sweater is itchy drives me crazy. If the kid has sensory issues or just sensitive skin, then of course it will be itchy for her and not mom.
As someone who grew up with eczema, and lack of resources to actually take care of it, nothing burns my blood like "it's ok for me, so it's ok for you"
the dad didnt make things worse by actually listening to his child at the start about the sweater. It was too big and she cried for HOURS because it itched her! poor girl
@@sammygreen066in that way he made it worse, but modern research shows the best practice is to get to their level and see what’s up, and empathise with them rather than telling them to get over it. So he was half way there
Just because that sweater doesn’t make Mommy or the other two itchy doesn’t mean that it doesn’t make Myleigh itchy. I don’t wear wool sweaters they make me itchy. That sweater was also way too big.
Agree. I have some sweaters make me itchy because of the fabric or it being sensitive on the skin. Just because on thing works for someone doesn’t work for another one.
Yeah, just seeing the kid saying its itchy made me itchy since I understand how uncomfortable it felt. I'm glad my mom started to understand how I felt about it.
@@lavenderdagoat especially children. If my mum would've put my sister and me in the same clothing every single day and expected us to be perfectly behaved, that would've went downhill QUICKLY
This! You can give small children an element of autonomy (within reason, e.g. the weather) by engaging them in the activity and offering choices... It's not that hard.
Right. I was wondering that too who cares if she doesn't like it grab another one? As long as it's clean without holes we're good 👍 lol no need to micro manage 😋
"My blood boils when the kids walk over my vacuum tracks" Then WHY DID YOU HAVE CHILDREN?!?! Felt bad for the husband. He obviously worships his wife and loves his kids...but she obviously has some issues that she needs help to overcome
That mother just sounds really controlling with her kids.. she’s treating them like her dolls and dressing them however SHE wants. She’s not taking into consideration about what the children want, they’re humans too and they are allowed to have opinions!!
It’s even more interesting than that the mom and the daughter have the same personalities and it is not working out; they’re both trying to control things and nobody’s getting their way.
@@karla9redI think maybe Tami put too much emphasis on the kids & her perfection. It has happened where moms, & sometimes dads, put so much focus on the kids that they forget about their marriage.
My mother dressed me and my three other sisters, in the exact same outfits until I was in my teens and I kept protesting wearing kids clothes at 16. We had no individual clothes at all, and she matched us down to the shoes and hair styles. So I’m soooo glad that she made the mom realize her control issues, before it was too far.
There's a chunk missing??? When Jo is supposed to be reviewing the footage with them it just repeats the part of them "sorting and separating" instead???
"What do you want for lunch?" "This." "NO. We're all going to have the same thing." Like...what?? You just asked her what she wanted! You're gaslighting her.
Is no one gonna acknowledge that the 2 hours the mom spent getting her kids "ready" with the sweaters, they didn't even go anywhere. Why did it matter so much that they had to wear the sweaters inside, then get them ready again to go to the store? They were already ready, like what?
Miley has sensory processing disorder. How did nobody notice? She doesn’t like her hair touching her head, her clothes touching her body etc. She’s so uncomfortable bless her
I noticed it too. Poor girl was probably miserable. And most likely when this was filmed it probably wasn't normal for kids to be like that so no one thought of it
Yea the poor kid probably has sensory issues or sensitive skin and the way the mom ignores it and says "if it doesn't itch me it doesn't itch you" it's not okay
I’m super surprised that Nanny didn’t bring up sensory issues to the mother ~~ I have them and it was torture to hear that little girl so frustrated by Mom not believing her !!!
As someone with hypresensitive tactile senses, I think the fit over the sweater is 100% fair and understandable. Things that feel fine to other people can feel like sandpaper to hypersensitive people, and even more so when they're that little.
This! I was the weird kid for wearing short shorts in winter (even in the coldest one where it was 5C), but I haven’t worn long pants in 10 years and my legs feel so much better.
I bet you the troublesome one has autism or adhd, and that’s where her sensory issues and desire for the same foods come from. It hurts me to see the mom dismiss her so much 😩
Came here to say this!!! ND comes in many forms, and Mom appears like she could potentially have similar issues with rigidity 👀 I’d never diagnose someone on the internet, but it does appear like the Mom and eldest exhibit many ND symptoms.
@@cosplayergalmum is 99% OCD, and maeli most definitely has some kind of sensory issues. Sensory processing disorder is its own thing, so it doesn’t have to come with autism or adhd. It still could though. Same food is part of sensory processing as well.
Interesting that at 35:30, the mum still thinks Jo turned the children into “really good girls” when she didn’t change the girls, she changed the mum and dad to be better, more structured parents. She changes the parents not the kids. Hope the mum gets that.
Now that's a GREAT DADDY! HEe adores his children and his wife. Mommy just needs the Nanny to teach her structure and discipline. The parents love each other so much so let the kids play with their toys and learn to pick the mess up after super!
Ysah, when Super Nanny started in Brazil my parents were grinning malicious and making anoying coments as if the show was about putting kids in their place. When the show started and everybody realised it was actually the parents who get educated and scolded they never put on that show anymore. Mind you, me and my sister weren't even misbehaved.
As someone with sensory issues, no. No, no, no, NO. I cannot stand that mother for not listening to her child complaining about the itchiness of that sweater. I can feel the itchiness myself just LOOKING at the thing!
"i need some of your techniques i dont know if im doing this right" "i mean... What do i do, handcuff her to the bench? Haha" poor guy is trying, his wife needs therapy
I relate to the one kid who is saying it’s itchy. I have sensitive skin AND sensory issues. So im very picky about my clothes and all of that. When I was younger though my mom would feel the inside and tell me I just need to wear it off. It never worked and I kept complaining. She finally realizes I have sensory issues and just lets me wear what I want (within reason obviously) so I feel so bad for the little kid. The mom needs to workout that she has kids not dolls. And not everything is the same for everyone.
I felt for that little girl and the itchy sweater. Sweaters itch me too so when I have to wear it, i wear an undershirt so it doesn’t touch my skin directly.
Never ask young children what they want to eat if you want to make the same for all the children. That was just setting the kids up to throw fits not getting what they wanted to eat.
I agree. They seem totally blind to their children's needs. Sensory issues can be so traumatic for kids, too, very distressing. The parents seem to just want perfect silent submissive children. The mum also seems so depressed. Its really upsetting to watch.
He is the "Angel" because he still can't walk over the vaccum hypoallergenic rug, and can't say "Mom, can I wear my favourite dinosaur shirt instead of the same sweater my three sisters are wearing?"
I don't understand how these children can't get themselves dressed 😱 As parents we are meant to be there to support our kids, encourage them and teach them how to do things. They were so happy to have the control and decisions in what they were going to wear!
12:20 notice that Tammy us smiling cause Joe said the EXACT opposite of chill out and that they need to show more power instead. she's so happy lol ❤ Edit: 13:31 never mind Joe just told her to chill out about her perfection thing and she's starting to sniffle and tear up.... 💧
Man I just turned 27 and can’t imagine the amount of pressure/responsibility these two have. Im glad I didn’t listen to my baby fever because I don’t think I would be able to handle kids 😂
@@155chipmunkz Absolutely. Never wanted them. Never had them. Never regretted my decision. But to each their own. Rescue cats/kittens. That's my thing. 😺
The fact 13:54 that mother says that she doesn’t like joe criticizing the perfect house she has is just crazy, joe is saying that he wants more time to spend with her
I’m gonna say this about the mother. The mother should not have to make her kids look like her!! She can let her kids choose what they want to wear! Kids can have their own sense of style. And the mother isn’t even letting them choose the outfits that they want to wear!! What is that attitude for?! And the children’s clothes. If the sweater makes them itchy, get another shirt that is another soft material that doesn’t make them itch!! Clothes themselves don’t only have to look good, but people have to feel comfortable in them!! I’m very pissed about this behaviour from the mother.
@@silvestremanz5166 Thank goodness! Mom was more worried about appearance and wanting everything to be perfect than giving time to Shawn and listening to her children’ need
@@silvestremanz5166 Where did you see this? I looked everywhere, after watching the show on UA-cam, wondering if they were still together, and hoping they were.
Mom wants so bad to be perfect that she is causing the chaos that she's trying to prevent. My dad has OCD and he acts like this as well and I fully think mom has OCD and anxiety. She's a good mama, but she needs help. I truely feel like shes doing her best and stressed out along with the OCD. She's just overwhelmed, but she can do it.
She could have sensory issues and doesn't like the shirt or has sensitive skin I was just like her when I was young with some fabrics they were so itchy and I was forced to wear them I was miserable I feel for her she just wants to be comfortable in her own clothes
Super nanny doesn't teach the kids to behave. She teaches the parents and just helps undo whatever issues the parents have already instilled in their kids.
Oh yeah 100%
That’s cuz most of the time their misbehaving is caused by the way parents are handling it or not handling it. Sometimes it’s not, but sometimes it is.
@@desinyguignard6989 Exactly, either the parents created the behavior or are perpetuating it.
@@DragonFries12 yep, wether they meant to or not. Most of the time they don’t know what they’re doing.
@@desinyguignard6989 yeah, parenting is tough
The baby just chilling in his high chair like “eh, she’ll be back eventually” 😂😂😂
He just seems so used to it 😂😂😂
🤣😭
Youngest child vibes
I think he got his dad's personality
"Finally freedom"
The baby is so well behaved even I forgot he was there 😅😂
Sisters: REEEEE
Baby: 😒
so did the mother
Lol true
😂😂😂😂
Well behaved or used to being forgotten
i don’t think people are realizing this. this doesn’t just sound like perfectionism, this sounds like straight up OCD. making the kids wear the same thing, making them all eat the same frozen dinner, constantly cleaning until early hours of the morning, freaking out when people go through her clothes, ruin her clean vaccume tracts, and they constantly say that her blood was boiling the whole time. this is not normal perfectionism. this is obsessive and compulsive.
It's anxiety. OCD is more like walking back into your house 15 times to make sure the bathroom light is off.
@@chevysmith6723 OCD is an anxiety disorder and this was an opinion straight from my OCD boyfriend. there are many different types of OCD. the one you described is definitely one of them, which is what my boyfriend has. i do agree that OCD isn’t just “the fact that this isn’t clean makes me mad” or “omg this isn’t straight!!!”, her behaviour isn’t either of those. it’s almost as if she believes something horrible will happen if things aren’t the way they are, or she will get very angry
@@alexlepanpan65 I didn't see it that way but I can see your perspective. From mine, it seems like she only cares about "the image", not necessarily that she thinks something bad will happen. It could be OCD or another anxiety disorder but she's definitely high strung.
@@chevysmith6723 yeah, i agree. i could be completely wrong and she may just be extremely self conscious lol
@@chevysmith6723 i have ocd and i can confirm that there's diff types. and her cleaning and wanting things to be organized it stereotype, yes but people do have it like that. i get so upset when i do see the shampoo and conditioner bottle aren't right next to each other.
Can we talk about how lovely the husband is? Getting emotional over not spending enough time with his wife, telling her he misses her, and that he hopes she doesn't feel pressure from to keep the house perfect. That's so rare to see and so lovely.
Isn't he an amazing man? If he weren't though, he would not stick around while his wife is making little mommy clones to present to the world. Hubby was the only part of this family close to perfect when Jo began helping this family.
Her kids are not rugs that u step on
@@eeveeandpikachu123Nor are they the crust of the sandwich.
He is fantastic! Tough (navy seals!) and very sweet and warm at the same time.
But they divorced, and he remarried
listening to that man talk about his wife made me cry. he clearly has so much love for her and his children. bless his heart. the world needs more men like him.
Unfortunately, they ended up divorcing.
@@addie-eileenpaige6460they did?
That is very sad. He was so sweet with her.
He doesn't even use her name, just refers to her as 'my wife'. Can I adopt their children, please? Because they're all brilliant are deserve better
@@addie-eileenpaige6460really? How You know that.. sad to hear🥹
Mom needs to learn that she has kids, not dolls
Facts
AMEN THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS
She has 4 kids not 3 lol
But there's an issue there matching outfits, perfection , cleanest house, something in her past or the way she was raised there's to way or her parents were the same and nothing but perfection was accepted, or the opposite súper caos, abandonment , dirty house
Rosa McDonald Facts
The dad trying the time out chair saying "ive seen some of your stuff. Im not sure im doing it right but I'm trying" was adorable. It really shows how they have been trying period (at least him)
I loved how Haley just immediately started being good after seeing the flower pots. That was adorable.
I loved how Haley just immediately started being good after seeing the flower pots that was adorable
It makes me angry to hear that this poor girl with sensory processing issues is being treated like she’s a brat for being rightfully upset at what’s happening to her. It’s just very upsetting to watch and it makes me grateful for how aware we are of these things today.
I have extremely severe SPD and autism and I can never wear normal clothes my grandma makes them I feel so bad for her
@@WereLonelyRizzlersi have this issue too (i also have autism) it makes my mum frustrated sometimes but well
(5:48)“Nothing is ever good enough.” Says the lady who states she needs ‘everything to be perfect’ and makes her kids wear the same thing everyday
I’m so glad someone said it. My literal reaction was, “says the one who needs everything to be perfect! Geez!”
Sounds like something the mom has heard growing up, or has felt growing up
I thought the same thing
I thought the same thing!
Yeah agreed
Mom’s dismissal of her kid complaining the sweater is itchy drives me crazy. If the kid has sensory issues or just sensitive skin, then of course it will be itchy for her and not mom.
Yep! the dismissal really got me saying “really?”
As someone who grew up with eczema, and lack of resources to actually take care of it, nothing burns my blood like "it's ok for me, so it's ok for you"
@@Catzbe I have it as well
Leave, because this mother just wanted to harm her child!!!
Mom seems narcissistic
The mother asks "What do you want for dinner" Kid decides. Moms says " oh no. not that!" Meltdown! Big Surprise!
Color me shocked
Exactly Imao
That’s why you give them 2 choices. That way you can make what you want but they think they are picking it.
Yesss, I was thinking the exact same thing
@@killereria9945 as Jo says give ‘em two choices n move it on
The father is adorable. He's patient, kind, sensitive. He's a loving husband and father.
the dad didnt make things worse by actually listening to his child at the start about the sweater. It was too big and she cried for HOURS because it itched her! poor girl
I think she meant he made Tammy’s aggression worse. Like he made it worse in Tammy’s eyes.
@MTHz17 he defo made it worse by telling the kid "mom says" instead of presenting himself as equally in charge and united with the mom
@@sammygreen066in that way he made it worse, but modern research shows the best practice is to get to their level and see what’s up, and empathise with them rather than telling them to get over it. So he was half way there
Poor dad was trying to make child and wife happy and in the end he still lost
The dad was wrong for reinforcing the mom. The girl wanted more control over her own body
i think the mom likes the idea of having kids more than actually having kids
The reality of having kids is always worse than the idea of it for every mom
not nice
@@christinesonnenberg7713 doesn't mean it's not true
Yeah tbh she doesn't seem to enjoy motherhood.
@@avalonroyce does any mum enjoy motherhood tho?? My mums got 7 kids but is miserable abt 99% of the time. 💀
Just because that sweater doesn’t make Mommy or the other two itchy doesn’t mean that it doesn’t make Myleigh itchy. I don’t wear wool sweaters they make me itchy. That sweater was also way too big.
Agree. I have some sweaters make me itchy because of the fabric or it being sensitive on the skin. Just because on thing works for someone doesn’t work for another one.
She could also have sensory issues
Yes,totally agree,wool makes me itch like mad !!!!
Yeah, just seeing the kid saying its itchy made me itchy since I understand how uncomfortable it felt. I'm glad my mom started to understand how I felt about it.
Technically the other girls never said it wasn’t itchy. I bet it’s itchy for them too
So beautiful to see how much the hubby loves his wife and wants to support her. That love he has for her is rare and beautiful!
Wow....this mum worked so hard to make the changes. I'm so proud of her!
They’re divorced and I’m glad the dad got away
@@hannahscott6604 I hope he got full or majority custody
@@merakiabomination593wait they’re divorced?
@@hannahscott6604 when did they got divorced?
I literally saw the baby twice during the whole 38 minutes. I forgot the baby too 😂😂
Poor bby
What baby?
@@inkedfeathers7834Leighton
Um
The way Jo smiles at that baby when they first meet - omg, it melted me. Her love of children is so sincere.
Mom needs therapy for her OCD and control issues. It's not fair to the kids to suffer.
Tbh my mom had it and didn’t change much
Exactly. Not everyone wants to wear the same thing, not everyone wants to eat the same thing.
Fr
Fr bro
@@lavenderdagoat especially children. If my mum would've put my sister and me in the same clothing every single day and expected us to be perfectly behaved, that would've went downhill QUICKLY
The kids in the car is terrifying. Those 4 year olds should still be in seats. How is she controlling about their clothes but not their safety?
Yep. they should be harnessed
That's what I said. Why are they not in boosters
Because nobody sees them in the car. Mum only cares about outward appearance
I think this is very old, rules were different back then.
@@Yakumoki my best friend’s son was born in 2003. We knew better then. I can assure you.
if mum had just given her child some autonomy and said, "ok Miley, what did you want to wear today?" that would have saved 2 hours.
Frr😂😂,
This! You can give small children an element of autonomy (within reason, e.g. the weather) by engaging them in the activity and offering choices... It's not that hard.
All because she wants them to match..
Right. I was wondering that too who cares if she doesn't like it grab another one? As long as it's clean without holes we're good 👍 lol no need to micro manage 😋
Exactly. Basic parenting advice.
She's teaching them that what they look like matters more than how they feel. Excellent parenting 🙄.
She’s teaching them that what they look like matters more than how they feel excellent parenting
They do tho,people will treat you different based on ur appearance...
My mom never tough me that and now i struggle
It is all about balance~
@@nellenearmstrong584bro u copied the exact comment
@@nellenearmstrong584u flipping put the exact same thing like bro u ain’t gonna get the likes for just copying someone’s comment..
I love watching Jo interact happily with kids, it's so adorable
I love watching Jo interact happily with kids it’s so adorable
Ten minutes in and it’s already clear Mum has some kind of control/anxiety issue.
She definitely has some serious issues...
@@Oohmyymiaa mmhm
My guess is OCD
@@airsickspace9272 definitely some cluster B soup being cooked here.
Yea its called OCD and perfectionism
"My blood boils when the kids walk over my vacuum tracks"
Then WHY DID YOU HAVE CHILDREN?!?!
Felt bad for the husband. He obviously worships his wife and loves his kids...but she obviously has some issues that she needs help to overcome
@@nyhumareal These kind? What? Real live ones?
@@nyhumareal They MADE the children like this.
Indeed!! She went on to have not 1 but 4 Children!!! So she needs to losen up!!
Its all good
@@mnat28 she's already loosened up considering 4 kids lmao
That mother just sounds really controlling with her kids.. she’s treating them like her dolls and dressing them however SHE wants. She’s not taking into consideration about what the children want, they’re humans too and they are allowed to have opinions!!
It radiates narcissism tbh
@@hannahscott6604 exactly
It’s even more interesting than that the mom and the daughter have the same personalities and it is not working out; they’re both trying to control things and nobody’s getting their way.
@@pjschmid2251 daughters are learning to exhibit the tendencies from mom.
Just wait until they are teenagers. If this controlling mom thinks the girls are difficult now... she has no idea how difficult life can be?
The mom treats the kids the same and that's the real problem. She doesn't meet each kids individual needs 😢💔
The mom treats the kids the same and that’s the real problem She doesn’t meet each kids individual needs
@@nellenearmstrong584why did you copy the comment?
@@Dogsdramathey do that to almost every comment💀
@@nellenearmstrong584 how did u pick and choose which comments to do this to
It's just sad to see mom treat the kids to wear the exact same sweaters.
Ok but the husband though...expressive, loving, good looking. Dang.
Yessss he’s cute
the whole package
He divorced her and remarried
Imagine wanting your kids to look the same and not individual
Major yikes
When it is twins it is cute for pictures, but when one or both say no it is time to stop. Even the Dad thought it was ridiculous.
@@jesussaves7849 Exactly
@@Sleepyyy.1 ya if I had twins I’ll have them match till they did grow out of it I mean some teens actually liked twinning
Mean spirited
The dad crying made me so sad. He loves her sooooooooooo much but she can’t focus on him because she’s a neat freak
According to Supernanny wiki, they got divorced😔
@@karla9red nooo 😭
Its a W dad overall🥲
@@karla9redI think maybe Tami put too much emphasis on the kids & her perfection. It has happened where moms, & sometimes dads, put so much focus on the kids that they forget about their marriage.
@@karla9red😭😭
My mother dressed me and my three other sisters, in the exact same outfits until I was in my teens and I kept protesting wearing kids clothes at 16. We had no individual clothes at all, and she matched us down to the shoes and hair styles. So I’m soooo glad that she made the mom realize her control issues, before it was too far.
There's a chunk missing???
When Jo is supposed to be reviewing the footage with them it just repeats the part of them "sorting and separating" instead???
Yeah, I was confused about that as well.
She probably did but they didn’t include it for sum reason
My toddler looks homeless some days. But you know what? She’s happy, healthy, safe and isn’t a disrespectful tyrant.
Lol that cracked me up😂
It made me laugh but I still think it's really sad for the mom to say
When the mom says that the sweater isn’t itchy drives me crazy. Everybody likes different clothes and should be able to pick what they want to wear
When the mom says that sweater isn’t itchy drives me crazy Everybody likes different clothes and should be able to pick what they want to wear
2 hours to get em ready….and they STAYED IN 😂😂😂 WHYYYYYY 😅
Literally ! I have 2 boys ! They usually walk around in underwear all day 😂🙄
Makes no sense. I only get them ready when we leave the house!
Right! Some fights are not worth picking
Moms more worried about appearances than what is going on in the house….
Exactly! That’s crazy!
YES!
Mom with OCD and Miley with clearly sensory issues... Poor girl.
Mom with OCD and Miley with clearly sensory issues poor girl
@@nellenearmstrong584whats the point in even repeating it
Sensory issues! It's an itchy jumper.🙄
Another clueless person making medical up diagnoses … 🙄
"What do you want for lunch?"
"This."
"NO. We're all going to have the same thing."
Like...what?? You just asked her what she wanted! You're gaslighting her.
What do you want for lunch This No we’re all going to have the same thing like what you just asked her what she wanted you’re gaslighting her
That’s so mean 😢
That’s not gaslighting
@@Emcostanza it is if she then tells her to stop freaking out for 'nothing' or acts as if she needs disciplining. She's literally driving her crazy.
That's not gaslighting.
Is no one gonna acknowledge that the 2 hours the mom spent getting her kids "ready" with the sweaters, they didn't even go anywhere. Why did it matter so much that they had to wear the sweaters inside, then get them ready again to go to the store? They were already ready, like what?
Yeah that was hella weird to me
Lol I’m a year late but it’s a sign of OCD
But they did "go" somewhere: they were dressing to look nice for the cameraman and us.
Miley has sensory processing disorder. How did nobody notice? She doesn’t like her hair touching her head, her clothes touching her body etc. She’s so uncomfortable bless her
I immediately recognized that too.
I couldn't find her Instagram but haeley seems to be doing good parents r divorced she likes to travel I think
I noticed it too. Poor girl was probably miserable. And most likely when this was filmed it probably wasn't normal for kids to be like that so no one thought of it
because it barely known about in 2006.
@@allisonickes8173 yeppp
Mom has to learn that she is raising children and not puppets. Who cares if they walk through the lines in the carpet.
If you cannot control one or two children, why have more.
Probably some OCD there.
Exactly
This video is so sad
It’s a carpet. You walk on it. Why is she upset about that?
That poor baby the entire episode was just like.. “Why is she unhappy? I’m chilling out. “Where’s mom?”
The dad is just sooo emotional and adorable!
When he said that he left the Navy for his wife and she hardly spends time with him and constant bloody cleaning, I felt for him.
Istg it feels like those type of sweet and sensitive men always end up with women who are cold I dont understand it
When the little girl said " it's ichy!😓" my heart broke
Yea the poor kid probably has sensory issues or sensitive skin and the way the mom ignores it and says "if it doesn't itch me it doesn't itch you" it's not okay
@@Hazardousscrunkly or autism. Who knowz
I Think the Dark haired twin also oppose being dressed the same. She want to be an individual not just one of the twins or sisters
I’m super surprised that Nanny didn’t bring up sensory issues to the mother ~~ I have them and it was torture to hear that little girl so frustrated by Mom not believing her !!!
As someone with hypresensitive tactile senses, I think the fit over the sweater is 100% fair and understandable. Things that feel fine to other people can feel like sandpaper to hypersensitive people, and even more so when they're that little.
This! I was the weird kid for wearing short shorts in winter (even in the coldest one where it was 5C), but I haven’t worn long pants in 10 years and my legs feel so much better.
She says "I'm a perfectionist" like she's proud of it! That's nothing to be proud of!
definitely OCD, especially with the vacuum trails
No it's not
Thet outfit isn't even perfect it's ordinary casual clothes. She's just controlling
@@asamanyworlds3772 Yes, it is. She's literally caring about the fact that the "vacuum trails" are messed up. It's called OCD and it's annoying.
@@Supersoccerchic That's not OCD. OCD isn't about cleaning and being perfect!
I bet you the troublesome one has autism or adhd, and that’s where her sensory issues and desire for the same foods come from. It hurts me to see the mom dismiss her so much 😩
Came here to say this!!! ND comes in many forms, and Mom appears like she could potentially have similar issues with rigidity 👀 I’d never diagnose someone on the internet, but it does appear like the Mom and eldest exhibit many ND symptoms.
Yes this ! ! It really made me upset seeing the child nit get her needs met : ( and the mom seems so have some potential ocpd or smthn like that..
@@cosplayergalmum is 99% OCD, and maeli most definitely has some kind of sensory issues. Sensory processing disorder is its own thing, so it doesn’t have to come with autism or adhd. It still could though. Same food is part of sensory processing as well.
Yeah they both radiate that to me
@@harmony8623 oh wow, I didn’t know that! You’ve all taught me something new 🥰 thank you!
Interesting that at 35:30, the mum still thinks Jo turned the children into “really good girls” when she didn’t change the girls, she changed the mum and dad to be better, more structured parents. She changes the parents not the kids. Hope the mum gets that.
I think she does, tho she did help with the kids structure same with the parents I'm sure the mom thinks that she and the dad changed for the better
I'm 29 with zero kids. I couldn't imagine being 27 with four.
Omg the "car bingo". Our version was "the shut up game". It worked surprisingly well
I am 31 With 0kids ...i watch this show as birthcontrol🤣🤣
Oh Yes! Who can keep quiet the longest? lol
@@juoanjuo your comment just made my day!
We used to play monkey of the week. The first kid to speak was the monkey. It really worked
Currently 27 and can’t imaging having 1 kid let alone 4!
I REALLY hope the mom sticks to the things she was taught from Jo
That's what we hope for everyone on this show
@@indigoproxima Yeah.
but i sadly seriously doubt it, not with that level of perfectionism. that just takes time & attention.
“It dosent how you look like, it’s who you are” Children are more intelligent than what we led on.
It doesn’t how you look like its who you are Children are more intelligent than what we led on
Doesn’t
That comment broke my heart
The blonde saying ‘headache headache headache’ was so cute but also so sad.
Why ask the girls what they wanted for lunch if you were not going to take their suggestion, and just made what you wanted to make?
turtleneck sweater on a 4 yr old!!? And with wet hair, my neck is itchy just watching them.
My skin in crawling just watching it
Aren't you supposed to wear like an undershirt at least underneath it?
Just thinking about the fabric on my skin gives me goosebumps 😢
I was once forced to wear one... "i made this for you, you DONT like itt" ... or the diminishing "isnt it not good enough for you"??
Now that's a GREAT DADDY! HEe adores his children and his wife.
Mommy just needs the Nanny to teach her structure and discipline.
The parents love each other so much so let the kids play with their toys and learn to pick the mess up after super!
I love how the baby’s just chilling in the high chair ❤😂
And has almost nothing to do with it😂😂
27 with 4 kids 🥴. Meanwhile I’m 27 and stressed about taking my puppy to training.
to be fair, 4 kids seems quite "eventfull" at any age ;)
Lmao it’s about the “problem children” but at the end of the day it’s always the parents fault 😂😂😂
Ysah, when Super Nanny started in Brazil my parents were grinning malicious and making anoying coments as if the show was about putting kids in their place.
When the show started and everybody realised it was actually the parents who get educated and scolded they never put on that show anymore.
Mind you, me and my sister weren't even misbehaved.
@@AramatiPaza culpa é SEMPRE dos pais. SEMPRE!
"mommy has the same sweater on and it doesnt itch me" me: who has something on under and we see it on the camera!! they do not!
No matter how many episodes I watch I can't get over how cool Jo's car is.😅
Lol, it does look nice
Same it looks so amazing🤣
I want it lol
That’s just what our taxis look like lol
"It doesnt matter what you're wearing it matters who you are" right on!!
Husband "I miss you"
Wife "I don't like how he criticizes my perfection issues".
That woman is never gonna relent on her own.
OCD is an illness.
mom needs to stop and realise that her children aren’t perfect dolls they are just children who wants to have fun
"I wouldn't wish twins on my worst enemy" Wow.
I was looking for this comment. I dono why this lady had kids lol
Ikr? Ungrateful.
When she said that I felt hurt cus I’m a twin. Those girls are in that phase where they act up. It’s the toddler phase. I was like that too.
She definitely does not know what the word love means.
I adore my twinlets, wouldn't change it
"That's just the way I am" always comes from people who are not willing to change despite knowing that their behavior is not okay.
As someone with sensory issues, no. No, no, no, NO. I cannot stand that mother for not listening to her child complaining about the itchiness of that sweater. I can feel the itchiness myself just LOOKING at the thing!
"i need some of your techniques i dont know if im doing this right" "i mean... What do i do, handcuff her to the bench? Haha" poor guy is trying, his wife needs therapy
I love how this shows how fast change can come from something as simple as punishment based parenting to rewarding good behavior
+ love, + working out issues U have.
I relate to the one kid who is saying it’s itchy. I have sensitive skin AND sensory issues. So im very picky about my clothes and all of that. When I was younger though my mom would feel the inside and tell me I just need to wear it off. It never worked and I kept complaining. She finally realizes I have sensory issues and just lets me wear what I want (within reason obviously) so I feel so bad for the little kid. The mom needs to workout that she has kids not dolls. And not everything is the same for everyone.
Same thing for me. Everything in my room from my sox to my bedsheets is soft
I felt for that little girl and the itchy sweater. Sweaters itch me too so when I have to wear it, i wear an undershirt so it doesn’t touch my skin directly.
Never ask young children what they want to eat if you want to make the same for all the children. That was just setting the kids up to throw fits not getting what they wanted to eat.
Also I love the dad so much. We need more men in the world like him
"I like everything to be perfect." Honey...You have *kids*. Ain't possible to get everything perfect with them
The Mom is so cold and the Dad is so affectionate. I sure hope she has thawed out for her husband's and kid's sakes.
I'm pretty sure they're divorced
@@ecbrent2 Why
@@eddyvos2628 On the SuperNany wiki.
@@eddyvos2628 I think the dad saw how the mom was treating the kids. So that might be why
They're over
Miley has serious sensory issues and her mother could care less if as long as they look perfect
I agree. They seem totally blind to their children's needs. Sensory issues can be so traumatic for kids, too, very distressing. The parents seem to just want perfect silent submissive children. The mum also seems so depressed. Its really upsetting to watch.
Saying she COULD care less means she DOES care. Please learn grammar.
@@155chipmunkz seriously you have nothing better to do than go on to random UA-cam comments and corrects people on there Grammar
no she doesn’t. she does it every single day . stop youtube diagnosing
@@RicheeBeI have sensory issues. Things like this (but more controlled) happened every day when I was kid. I agree with no UA-cam diagnosing tho.
Like how mum says this is the angel of the family. Wow 😮 if that isn’t favourites then I don’t know what is.
And he's the angel because he has to be. He's the forgotten child. Mom is running around with the other 3 and forgets about the baby!!
oh brother
She’s a narc
He’s the Angel because he isn’t big enough to do anything.
He is the "Angel" because he still can't walk over the vaccum hypoallergenic rug, and can't say "Mom, can I wear my favourite dinosaur shirt instead of the same sweater my three sisters are wearing?"
Jo: "The naughty chair isn't one of my ideas!'
Also Jo in literally every single episode: "This is the naughty chair..."
Baby in the high chair was thinking yeah im having some quiet time.. let the ladies argue lol
😂😂😂😂😂
I don't understand how these children can't get themselves dressed 😱 As parents we are meant to be there to support our kids, encourage them and teach them how to do things. They were so happy to have the control and decisions in what they were going to wear!
lmaooo the sis saying headache, headache, headache, headache…
😂😂😂
tulip which sister said that
@@samanthamartin9254 4:46 the oldest sister said that I think or the twin sis lmao
She's amazing. Very real yet fun. I loved that part as well
Picking fights she doesn't need to pick.
Let them pick clothing that is reasonable
Long as its suitable to the weather give them options
Ridiculous
This show is the perfect example of how kids are expressing their parents wounding, shadow energy, and trauma.
12:20 notice that Tammy us smiling cause Joe said the EXACT opposite of chill out and that they need to show more power instead. she's so happy lol ❤
Edit:
13:31 never mind Joe just told her to chill out about her perfection thing and she's starting to sniffle and tear up.... 💧
Man I just turned 27 and can’t imagine the amount of pressure/responsibility these two have. Im glad I didn’t listen to my baby fever because I don’t think I would be able to handle kids 😂
I’m forever childfree.
@@155chipmunkz
Absolutely. Never wanted them. Never had them. Never regretted my decision.
But to each their own.
Rescue cats/kittens. That's my thing. 😺
"That's just the way I am".
Even if it destroys my relationship with my kids and husband! Cuz
"THAT'S JUST THE WAY I AM".
the "good apple" bit at the end quite literally brought me to tears, that was adorable
I have NEVER seen anyone bathe the kids in the morning. Lets just compound the chaos for absolutely no good reason 🙄
The fact 13:54 that mother says that she doesn’t like joe criticizing the perfect house she has is just crazy, joe is saying that he wants more time to spend with her
Why is she having kids when she can't handle them ? You can't have the house perfectly clean with kids
you are supposed to learn what works as you go.
BECAUSE SHE CAN’T KEEP HER LEGS CLOSED.
Of course she can have the house spotless! Haven't you watched "Annie"? LOL. Just kidding 😂✌🏼
That's totally sensory issues, I couldn't and still can't wear turtle necks, I feel for them
yeah, i have sensory processing disorder and i totally related to that girl… poor her! 😭
And the poor little girl had nothing on under the sweater to help lessen the sensory overload!
@@autisticexperienceswithnena it's frustrating for everyday living!
I don’t like how velvet feels.
@@155chipmunkz totally valid, textures can be the issue too!
Her: “I wouldn’t wish twins on my worst enemy.”
Twins: 💀
Preech
I’m a triplet.
@@Miracle12348And I'm an identical twin. Talk about being homogenized. We were called Jean/Jan since nobody knew who was who.😢😢
I’m gonna say this about the mother. The mother should not have to make her kids look like her!! She can let her kids choose what they want to wear! Kids can have their own sense of style. And the mother isn’t even letting them choose the outfits that they want to wear!! What is that attitude for?! And the children’s clothes. If the sweater makes them itchy, get another shirt that is another soft material that doesn’t make them itch!! Clothes themselves don’t only have to look good, but people have to feel comfortable in them!! I’m very pissed about this behaviour from the mother.
Shawn is the best husband on this show
They split up and he got remarried
And one of the best dads too!
@@silvestremanz5166 Thank goodness! Mom was more worried about appearance and wanting everything to be perfect than giving time to Shawn and listening to her children’ need
He was too good for her fr
@@silvestremanz5166 Where did you see this? I looked everywhere, after watching the show on UA-cam, wondering if they were still together, and hoping they were.
This dad is so attractive and emotional. 💛
That woman scored big time when she found, and married that man!
right he's so sweet
But he didn't
To bad she ruined it
He deserves someone so much better
Right on!
I wonder why mom has such incredible control issues. She’s the center of conflict in the house.
Mom wants so bad to be perfect that she is causing the chaos that she's trying to prevent. My dad has OCD and he acts like this as well and I fully think mom has OCD and anxiety. She's a good mama, but she needs help. I truely feel like shes doing her best and stressed out along with the OCD. She's just overwhelmed, but she can do it.
She could have sensory issues and doesn't like the shirt or has sensitive skin I was just like her when I was young with some fabrics they were so itchy and I was forced to wear them I was miserable I feel for her she just wants to be comfortable in her own clothes
Not allowing the kids to be individuals is crazy. Her not wanting to wear the sweater is good, it’s individuality!!