- THE GIRL I WANTED TO MARRY WILL BECOME MY SISTER IN LAW - Brother in my opinion you really need to try and become able to get married to her in the first place otherwise don't let her get married to your brother. Tell your parents about your past. Because if it happens the awkwardness will continue forever causing alot of problems for everyone. In a nutshell, either marry her or stop your brother from getting married to her.
He should tell whole thing to his brother, brothers will understand parents won't. Tell his brother to reject her & he should tell his parents that I like the girl.
@@bilalsajjad Junaid bhai once mentioned that write down in comments if you think you can help someone. No bad intentions. Just wanted to add my opinion/solution. I hope the right person reads it too.
It doesn't matter Mrs Swag, we respect your privacy and i love audio podcast bcoz we can focus on other tasks as well while listening to audio podcasts ❤️
06:28 I can't believe you guys didn't elaborate on the brother's dilemma . Whether this 21 year old marries the girl or not, his brother definitely shouldn't be marrying her. These two lovebirds have a long history together which I'm assuming the brother doesn't know about. What happens if the brother finds out about it 10 years from now when they have kids? Why are you causing unnecessary drama in his life and ruining the lives of both your girlfriend and your brother? Stop being a coward and tell your family about your relationship with the girl.
About that 10 years thing, agar pata bhi lag jai ke aisa mamla hoa tha to wo bara bhai Kia kar le ga. Baat 10 years purani ha , its not like wo bara bhai 10 yrs baad bhi apna chota bhai ko aa kar maray ga ya qatl karne aa jayiga. Furthermore , i agree with u that he should tell his condition to his parents regarding his relationship with that cousin. Otherwise, koi drama wala scene nahi ha. 10 saal purani baat koi consider nahi karta.
Lastly jo aap ne baat ki ke his brother should not marry her, if he knows that ke oss kay brother ka bhi koi connection ha, then he shouldn't marry her, like that's what I believe. But if he doesn't know any of this and marries her then it's none of his business. It actually all depends on wheather that 21 yr old tells to his parents or not.
I don't have any of these issues, but I still listen to these podcasts to educate and develop. These podcasts should be turned into sessions and taught in institutions.
@@HTrntrs I mean yes it's good but it's no way near the level that you would want it to be part of curriculum of universities and so on. He's just a guy giving his opinion
Its just you need to understand each other give rights and give space to each other There should mostly be a mutual consent and both should be happy on most decisions No marriage is perfect until you try to make it Ps. An advice from a 17 year old after listening and understanding what I've learnt from ganjiswag's videos
it's pretty simple think before saying discuss about things not argue and try to understand each others and both sides needs to do this cuz relationship can't work when 1 is doing all compromises and fulfilling promises a relationship can work without love but not without respect so yeah try to respect her space and make sure she respects you man nowadays there are karens present in Pakistan too toxic women and man both are always behind u so save yourself from them too
Your wife is a amazing lady, her intellectual is sometimes more than you. Looking forward to seeing her regularly in these podcasts. Atleast once a week to bhabhi jee ki podcast zaror ani chahiye. May allah bless her🙌
You guys are off the game today! Khala being Abused Q: Get her to learn some skills like vocational training, Sewing etc. Akhuwat Foundation, Kashf Foundation gives interest free loan for small businesses for such purposes.
I think we are living in the last age of life on earth. There was a time when girls and daughters were buried to death and again, now: we bury them alive by being unable to see someone's reality and making decisions blindly on behalf of them. Allah Give us Hidayah!! Otherwise, negativity in relationships will intoxicate the whole society!!!!
For the first question boy in love with his sister in law to be, I would say don't disclose your physical closeness with your cousin, that might spoil her image because people here are very judgemental. Sit with your parents and tell them that you are interested in your cousin and you can't accept her as your brother's wife or if parents are not understanding you can talk to your brother about this. He might understand you. But I would say never share that roof meetings or kissing scene with anybody these things become so toxic for women even after ages. Good luck and take care.
54:48 *For USA Waale Bhai:* If you or your wife have any friends in the US, then ask them if they can let you stay with them for some time, if they agree, then in that time you and your wife can both work and make some living, and get your own house.
This. Or just manage to save up some money to start their own life. Also, FINALLY I hear a story about a husband married from Pakistan who’s dealing with tons of BS and not the wife. Feel sad for him but glad for once the guy isn’t the A-hole.
Move out. It's insane you still living with in-laws. That's the problem. Work (you both) and move out of house and raise your son. Your wife need to support you. May be good idea to go out for a vacation and discuss with her. In USA you can do so many things. Stop looking other and cut off from people who are adding burden on you. Family first specially your son!
First of all I would like to thank Mrs swag for being a part of this podcast. I have learnt a lot from junaid sir (things that I didn't learn from 17 years of education and nondody from my family or relatives ever discussed that 'brown family thing'). I am a woman and I like to stay private and that's completely fine and I can relate to every single thing you mentioned. I highly appreciate you because you came and explained everyone about your notion regarding this matter although that was never compulsory for you. This gesture shows you are such a humble human being and I have not seen you, never met you in person but still I have huge respect for you in my heart. As far as your family is concerned that's your decision if you want them on camera or not and the very important point regarding the consent of the child, you have already discussed that, shows how concerned you are about your kids. Kudos to you for being so smart and responsible woman. Your privacy is highly respected and appreciated. Boundaries are life saviours Love from Islamabad ❤️
01:09:52 You must've left him when he asked you to convert. Because it shows his mentality that religion is first for him not you. You could've lived with him without converting. And you're giving money to his family. And guy is still not supporting you. The guy is selfish
@@erumyaseen I can understand, if they have good sincere people around them, they will get them involved and motivated so just make good friends. Join Social Groups etc, do the math. Gotta strive to survive in this cruel world.
@@HassanAchieved Firstly it's "land", secondly of course Linked in is just an avenue and not the most used one anyways for PK. It's more for well established jobs. For PK, rozee.pk is far more useful. Establish profile there. use FB jobs page. That works brilliantly. Use location filters
For the girl in US set hostage, please if someone is well connected with attorney circles, there are solicitors who offer their services voluntarily or any professional referral to discuss with them and link that girl with lawyer could at least take her out of that heinous cell . There must be civil charitable societies in US sponsoring legislative assistance “regardless of their resident permit status” Too easy for me to type but will take a lot I know. My prayers are with her Anand feel pity on her ruthless dad.
The girl can find some good attorney contacts by joining and posting on Soul Sisters Pakistan. If you are listening, girl, we only live once, please grant yourself the bare minimum human right: Freedom!
Brother really respect your contribution towards our society, yes you are doing this for us as well as yourself(mainly). My point is, just don't ruin your mentally state because of money (involves marketing of yourself)
BIG UPS to Mrs. Swag for talking about online privacy 👏👏 To me, it's despicable how people are showing off their lives online, and letting companies like Facebook and TikTok store their personal data for 'advertisement'. Seems like y'all are literally happy about being controlled by corporations when they feel like doing so.
Such an amazing guy 4:20 see how he empowered his wife. He keeps his life reserved that is why I love him my UA-cam channel is a result of inspiration from his side. Love you Junaid Akram Allah bless you all.
and so are expectations are from women side:: highly qualified masters from a top uni, earns 2-3 lakhs pak rupees or abroad with 10,000USD atleast, seperate house, owns a car, young, handsome fair skin, big eyes , ,what the hell
Yeah and all these qualities can be in a woman. It is not necessary that a woman should be wearing jeans or short clothes to feel independent and successful, many women in Pakistan are MashaAllah succeeding, and their dressing is modest.
I’m sorry for all the girls out there, specially at 1:26:00, a girl got betrayed by a man even after knowing him in for years! And I can’t even relate to it that properly k aik khulli dhulli aurat ko qaid kar diya. I’m sorry to all girls. Inshallah I will strive to fight such monsters even if it has to be my close friends.
The major problem of drivers in Pakistan is that if someone has a Suzuki or a Hiace, they always mess with the people with good cars because they know that the person with the Prado will save his car because Suzuki repairs cost something around 1000 rs While if you have to repair a prsdo it will cost you millions
Its good ro see junaids face on the podcast since it makes the video more interacting. What u guys can do for your videos is keep the normal setup junaid sitting in his usual position n his wife can sit behind the camera n he can talk to her like he talks to the camera man. It wont show her face but she'd still be part of the podcast since we can hear her. I think all of can agree to this idea it will make podcasts more fun.
01:09 - Girl in Melbourne Conversion pe hi baat khatam karni thi. Why can't people be in love and let their partner be what they want to be and what they want to believe. Sorry Junaid bhai totally disagree with you on this. No point in converting anyone to any faith just for marriage.
I HONESTLY WAITED FOR THIS SOOOOO BADLY! YOU'RE A TRUE INSPIRATION FOR PEOPLE OF PAKISTAN! ESPECIALLY THE YOUTH! YOU NEED TO BE THE POWER! MORE SUPPORT TO YOU! PROUD OF YOU MAN!
If someone want privacy and don’t wanna being see why forcing or even talking about it … all is matter she trying to solve some people problems and trying to give positive in life and you guys should appreciate it and take positive way ..
The guy living in US can easily start working a minimum wage job, if they are a couple 2 people on minimum wage (usually you get 2-3$ more than minimum wage at most places) can easily afford a 1 bed apartment, if you have been living there for 5 years and still can't do anything in a country like US then idk what you've been doing
For the 1st one, 06:28 - 15:05 - The girl I wanted to marry will become my sister-in-law Junaid always say k pyar wyar sara gapshap hai ya bhool jata ..awein goals banao zindagi mai... yeh woh and most of the time I agree with him except this case.. LOVE is a real thing and can happen anytime to anyone.. one may get into relationship as I did for almost 3 years.. 1st 2 relationships were like awein hi but the 3rd one was serious for me and I loved her so much and vice versa.. I was studying at that time in Europe and we used to talk every day... but then she vanished (woh alag qissa hai) and trust me I can't get her out of my mind.. Now I am Alhamdulillah in a much better situation then I ever was in every way but she's stuck in my mind for every minute that passes since last 10 months.. can't even sleep properly.. I am successful but I am depressed ONLY bcz she's not with me... SO MY ADVICE IS THAT IF YOU REALLY , I MEAN REALLYYY LOVE HER, JUST GET HER!!!!! Aur agar bhabi ban gai toh phir sari umer bhai sy bhi rishta torrna parrega without him knowing.. and if you say she loves you too then aap dono mai mistakes honi hi honi hain future mai bhi... Kisi tarah bs nikah krlo.. rastay khul jatay hain agar mehnat karo aur distract na ho infact you'll get focused on your other life goals... I used to be focused when she was with me.. did my bachelors in mechanical engineering from 30th ranked university worldwide.. Got an internship, got admission in MS.. but when internship started.. she left.. and and since then I am living worst time of my life DESPITE CAREER AND ECONOMICAL GROWTH.. Choice is yours to make... may Allah ease it for me and all of you.. stay blessed.. Allah hafiz MISHAL AHMAD... Just writing this name, kya pata woh by chance hi dekhly.. mojzay hotay rehty.. :) BTW only she'll understand meaning behind this name so don't bother ;) peace
Before getting married, it's essential to discuss and clarify important aspects like lifestyle, career, and having children. Living together should be about creating peace, support, and love for each other. If one partner is unhappy or disturbed, it affects the other's peace and happiness. We see many examples of this in real life. Everyone faces problems, challenges, and hurdles, but it's crucial for both partners to understand that you cannot face these battles alone. There are many wonderful people who do understand this, and I hope every man and woman gets to experience the happiness and joy that marriage can bring. Ameen
06:28 For sister in law question, if both are same age, there's rare chance of both getting married. Second, she is the eldest daughter so she couldn't hold. At least, you should tell your brother if possible so at least he can reject this proposal so you don't have to face her as sister in law. Otherwise, you may end up leaving home and settling somewhere else to avoid interaction with her. I remember I like my cousin who was 3.5 year younger than me to get married with. My brother was engaged to another elder cousin of another Khala by my family but that was broken. So my family engaged my elder brother who was 5 year older than me to that cousin whom I liked. I told my family that I wanna marry her. At least you shouldn't cancel this engagement because in general it would be weird for me having sister in law 4 year younger than me. I promised that I will not tell my brother about that and that was my mistake. Even though my family arranged my brother Nikkah to her. My family live in US BTW and came back. I didn't attend the ceremony by making academic excuses. After two years, I visited my Khala to accept my cousin as bhabhi. Still, I have decided that I will not live with her when she came to US until I get married. I know you are in relationship but I wasn't but this may he helpful to tackle your situation. Please talk to your brother ASAP.
I have been following you since a long time and have watched all your ask ganji swag episodes. You are an amazing person but I believe in some topics your wife has some amazing perspective . I would like to suggest your wife to also start 'Ask Mrs Swag'
This guy in US with in laws problems. You can contact me. I am usually considered do it all ad know it all and guide people with many things. Many families in US do similar things. I am in California. I have been in US since I was 17 and know both Pakistani culture and US very well. Things could be very easy in US if you are willing to be completely independent and do what it takes
@WAJID NABI JOKHIO my question is for women who have been living in USA for long time and is citizen and so is husband. But having issues to get out of problems.
Your wife’s advices are extremely passive aggressive and sometimes, illogical. To the girl that she advised to give her guy an ultimatum of 6 months, PLEASE DONT DO THAT. Don’t ruin your own relationship because the mother has a problem. Mothers are extremely protective and egoistic when it comes to their sons, and sometimes it takes time to get through to them, but they eventually come around. Understand that you’re in a rare situation, where you’ve changed your religion and are not being accepted by the muslim family. The best solution is to be strong, and work with the guy and try to explain to convince the mother again and again. It will take time but she will come around. It’s difficult but since you’re in a rare situation, solutions will be difficult. Please understand this and dont listen to the silly advise that was given to you here. Best of luck!
1:05:30 I live in California. America is not welfare state but I think first of all the guy should apply for low income rental home which should be affordable it may take year or two even if only husband is working because they will charge him certain percentage of income whatever is it. It would be late if kid be school going. Kid need to get out of this environment ASAP.
I wanna share one incident... I was driving is Lahore Bahria .. one man suddenly came on service lane without looking on the road .. my side mirror hit his arm and my car was damaged.. people on the road were like ameer baap ka beta hi ... he doest know how to drive.. ( tho I have my liesance and everything) .. like why? He came in road .. it's his mistake.. if I have a good car so it means I am bigra hoi larka ?????? That's so sad!
1st question ka simple answer ha agr krni h shadi khd tou kr lo. Agr khd nhi kr skty to appny bai ko bta do k meri girlfriend rhi h wo previously tou parents ko bol dy ko interested nhi ha shadi krny mein us lrki sy
A little request when you make episode with your wife then plz turn on only your side camera( not your wife side) because when you listen someone 👀 contact is so important. Thank you.
Junaid bhai atleast ap camera me ajaya karen, Bhabhi ko behind the camera rakha karen. Wo feel nahi aati apko dekhe begher. BTW really appreciate your work.
1:9:52 how can she convert simply she can follow her religion. He follow his own religion and they can still live happily,why this people just want to convert everyone.
Then they say love jihad is a myth and anti muslim. Such stories add fuel to fire. Why can't the boy change? Why can't he learn some other religion. Half inheritance , half testimony in court , halala etc. Every religion has faults but Islam has most faults. 4 shadiyan bhi jayaz hai,jannat mein 72 hoor bhi hongi Sirf husband devorce de sakta hai Apostate ko jane se marne ka law hai Etc etc
@@jatinkamwal280 really man love jihad isn't a myth they won't let her girl marry to hindus and they wanna convert hindu girls. Dissapointed with junaid
@@jatinkamwal280 Excuse me I don't know what is your source of knowledge about Islam. Only stereotypes, First of all, in Islam men has the financial responsibility not women that's why men get more inheritance and doesn't get any dowry. Women get dowry when getting married. Women can ask for the right of divorce during marriage contract and can ask for khula later where women can for divorce to her husband with some money or can go to court for asking divorce. Third, women doesn't have social responsibilities in Islak that's why there witness is half. Keep in mind women will no longer depend on Man at heaven. Islam was the first religion who give right women of divorce, inheritance, education and work. I am not Hindu nor studied Hindu book so I am not gonna speak aganist hinduism. But I know the status of women in Hinduism where they have no rights to re marry after the death of husband. No right to divorce. I have seen in star plus drama where women stand whole dinner to serve men in the family. You hindus gonna criticize women rights in Islam even though your ancestor used to burn wife after the death of husband called Sati. So please don't indulge in our religious matter by spreading misconceptions. Otherwise you are forcing me to say Hindusim has most flaws out of every religion in the world. In fact, Hinduism promotes patriarchy. For your kind info, it is not mandatory to kill Apostle in Islam unless he or she do violence and hate speech.
@@MSthesmart can a Muslim girl marry a Hindu in Pakistan? Does Islam allows it? There are many Muslim men in India who have married Hindu women . Like sharkukh and Aamir khan Widow remarriage is promoted in vedas. Sati was only followed by certain sects . There are no record of sati in our epic mahabharat and Ramayan
I request the fans to ask questions concise. Keep it to the point. Don't drag and repeat. If it's a long email, try to state that in start, and again try to keep it to the point.
The first three minutes of the podcast The fact that Mrs. Swag had to explain that... (don't have the words). The level of entitlement, we, the people feel that we have. Neither Mr. Swag, nor his wife owe us any explanation. They are making content for us, educating us, answering our queries for FREE and the awam has the audicity to do this. If you can read this Mrs. Swag, we are really sorry to make you feel that you have to explain anything. You owe us nothing. Please kuch unimportant logo ki wja se podcast me ana mat chorye ga, it's a request. Thank you.
Guys, and specifically Mrs. Ganjiswag, please don't clarify yourself if you guys are speaking for the rights of women. These people who criticize you, are not worth your clarification. Decent people will understand you anyway and please don't get bogged down with those comments and opinions. I hope you get what I am saying. You both are doing great service. Stay blessed !
The lady is right. Bangladesh is now a booming economy because they utilize women work force who even labor from home. Those guys who are blaming you they will only realize when they see their sister in same condition. I know we live in US yet my three cousins and my own sister is divorced because jo Junaid nay kaha hai larki overseas wali chaheye lakin hamaray ghar kay toxic backward principles ko follow karay. Hum blackmail nhi hotay divorce kara letay hain before any kids since first experience. My two cousins are happily married again. My elder cousin is coming to US InshaAllah with two kids.
5:54 remind me of Christopher Robin when he was relentlessly bullied by boys at school due to his fame . He asked Milne,( father) to write a book for him not on him when he was young . So yeah you're right junaid
- THE GIRL I WANTED TO MARRY WILL BECOME MY SISTER IN LAW -
Brother in my opinion you really need to try and become able to get married to her in the first place otherwise don't let her get married to your brother. Tell your parents about your past. Because if it happens the awkwardness will continue forever causing alot of problems for everyone. In a nutshell, either marry her or stop your brother from getting married to her.
Agreed
He should tell whole thing to his brother, brothers will understand parents won't. Tell his brother to reject her & he should tell his parents that I like the girl.
Yr aik hi ghar me atay jatay, moo takratee achay lagay gai kya..
@@bilalsajjad Junaid bhai once mentioned that write down in comments if you think you can help someone. No bad intentions. Just wanted to add my opinion/solution. I hope the right person reads it too.
@hassan arif your reply is better than Junaid and his wife!
I can respect her privacy its okay must be cute couple MashaAllah
It doesn't matter Mrs Swag, we respect your privacy and i love audio podcast bcoz we can focus on other tasks as well while listening to audio podcasts ❤️
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She is totally right , for me privacy is biggest thing
06:28 I can't believe you guys didn't elaborate on the brother's dilemma . Whether this 21 year old marries the girl or not, his brother definitely shouldn't be marrying her. These two lovebirds have a long history together which I'm assuming the brother doesn't know about. What happens if the brother finds out about it 10 years from now when they have kids? Why are you causing unnecessary drama in his life and ruining the lives of both your girlfriend and your brother? Stop being a coward and tell your family about your relationship with the girl.
Yeah exactly especially if they have made out illegally.
Which is why there is a Disclaimer before podcast begins
@@iftunasrin 💯😂
About that 10 years thing, agar pata bhi lag jai ke aisa mamla hoa tha to wo bara bhai Kia kar le ga. Baat 10 years purani ha , its not like wo bara bhai 10 yrs baad bhi apna chota bhai ko aa kar maray ga ya qatl karne aa jayiga. Furthermore , i agree with u that he should tell his condition to his parents regarding his relationship with that cousin. Otherwise, koi drama wala scene nahi ha. 10 saal purani baat koi consider nahi karta.
Lastly jo aap ne baat ki ke his brother should not marry her, if he knows that ke oss kay brother ka bhi koi connection ha, then he shouldn't marry her, like that's what I believe. But if he doesn't know any of this and marries her then it's none of his business. It actually all depends on wheather that 21 yr old tells to his parents or not.
These were worst experiences, ever heard!
May God help everyone out there suffering from any trouble. Aameen!
I don't have any of these issues, but I still listen to these podcasts to educate and develop. These podcasts should be turned into sessions and taught in institutions.
True. I think the same.
Lol stop bootlicking
@@human_hope khairiyat?
@@HTrntrs I mean yes it's good but it's no way near the level that you would want it to be part of curriculum of universities and so on. He's just a guy giving his opinion
@@human_hope But at least smth of that nature should be taught, as our parents are rather shy to teach us our basic rights n stuff.
Before listening to your podcast, I never realised that how blessed I am to have supportive parents.
Listening to these emails scares me if I will be able to be a good husband. I pray that Allah makes us the kind of husbands we ought to be.
I think the same about my sis
Its just you need to understand each other give rights and give space to each other
There should mostly be a mutual consent and both should be happy on most decisions
No marriage is perfect until you try to make it
Ps. An advice from a 17 year old after listening and understanding what I've learnt from ganjiswag's videos
it's pretty simple
think before saying
discuss about things not argue and try to understand each others
and both sides needs to do this cuz relationship can't work when 1 is doing all compromises and fulfilling promises
a relationship can work without love but not without respect so yeah try to respect her space and make sure she respects you
man nowadays there are karens present in Pakistan too
toxic women and man both are always behind u so save yourself from them too
@Usama Fayyaz both sides needs to learn more
and he said he is worried that will he be a good husband if he was women he would say about being a wife
We need more man like you. I wish you the best .
Your wife is a amazing lady, her intellectual is sometimes more than you.
Looking forward to seeing her regularly in these podcasts. Atleast once a week to bhabhi jee ki podcast zaror ani chahiye.
May allah bless her🙌
I wish our society had aware and educated people like you guys
yeah but instead we have Karens and toxic people surrounding us
wish we will change our mentality to become better
@@sarwath_fatimee3865 more like Phuppo Furkhandas
You guys are off the game today!
Khala being Abused Q: Get her to learn some skills like vocational training, Sewing etc. Akhuwat Foundation, Kashf Foundation gives interest free loan for small businesses for such purposes.
@WAJID NABI JOKHIO OK, thanks for the correction, I heard the name, Akhuwat gives interest free for sure.
Bro. Respect their opinions. Atleast they aren't degrading the questioner or the victim being addressed. Preferably, read the initial disclaimer.
i dont know why im addicted to junaid akram podcasts
We all are! ♥︎
I think we are living in the last age of life on earth. There was a time when girls and daughters were buried to death and again, now: we bury them alive by being unable to see someone's reality and making decisions blindly on behalf of them. Allah Give us Hidayah!! Otherwise, negativity in relationships will intoxicate the whole society!!!!
Ur words 💯
For the first question boy in love with his sister in law to be, I would say don't disclose your physical closeness with your cousin, that might spoil her image because people here are very judgemental. Sit with your parents and tell them that you are interested in your cousin and you can't accept her as your brother's wife or if parents are not understanding you can talk to your brother about this. He might understand you. But I would say never share that roof meetings or kissing scene with anybody these things become so toxic for women even after ages. Good luck and take care.
54:48 *For USA Waale Bhai:*
If you or your wife have any friends in the US, then ask them if they can let you stay with them for some time, if they agree, then in that time you and your wife can both work and make some living, and get your own house.
And have an restraining order simple
This.
Or just manage to save up some money to start their own life. Also, FINALLY I hear a story about a husband married from Pakistan who’s dealing with tons of BS and not the wife. Feel sad for him but glad for once the guy isn’t the A-hole.
Move out. It's insane you still living with in-laws. That's the problem. Work (you both) and move out of house and raise your son. Your wife need to support you. May be good idea to go out for a vacation and discuss with her. In USA you can do so many things. Stop looking other and cut off from people who are adding burden on you. Family first specially your son!
1:27:55 - classic Junaid bhai " Tu hai kaun"
You should do more videos like this with your wife. Views from both of your sides make the video much better and impactful
First of all I would like to thank Mrs swag for being a part of this podcast. I have learnt a lot from junaid sir (things that I didn't learn from 17 years of education and nondody from my family or relatives ever discussed that 'brown family thing'). I am a woman and I like to stay private and that's completely fine and I can relate to every single thing you mentioned. I highly appreciate you because you came and explained everyone about your notion regarding this matter although that was never compulsory for you. This gesture shows you are such a humble human being and I have not seen you, never met you in person but still I have huge respect for you in my heart. As far as your family is concerned that's your decision if you want them on camera or not and the very important point regarding the consent of the child, you have already discussed that, shows how concerned you are about your kids. Kudos to you for being so smart and responsible woman. Your privacy is highly respected and appreciated. Boundaries are life saviours Love from Islamabad ❤️
Man you're doing a lot for us. Plus your sense of humor is next level. Mr. Ganji and Mrs. Ganji make the perfect couple.
Agreed with mrs junaid. This is all about privacy and not to disclose your personal life with everyone.
God blessed you both..
01:09:52
You must've left him when he asked you to convert. Because it shows his mentality that religion is first for him not you. You could've lived with him without converting. And you're giving money to his family. And guy is still not supporting you. The guy is selfish
Yup
Love Jihad. We should start converting Muslim women to Hinduism now.
You're a godsend, Junaid!! Your videos are therapeutic!! SO PROUD!! 🔥❤️❤️ Keep these videos coming!! You're a ray of hope in such depressing times!
Introvert Guy! Develop a Trusty and Worthy Group of Friends Circle who can get you placed better eventually into the society.
Introverts find it difficult to start conversation with someone let alone develop a trustworthy group
@@erumyaseen I can understand, if they have good sincere people around them, they will get them involved and motivated so just make good friends. Join Social Groups etc, do the math. Gotta strive to survive in this cruel world.
@@HassanAchieved Firstly it's "land", secondly of course Linked in is just an avenue and not the most used one anyways for PK. It's more for well established jobs. For PK, rozee.pk is far more useful. Establish profile there. use FB jobs page. That works brilliantly. Use location filters
Congratulations for 50 episodes
Privacy is most important particularly in a society like ours and in general as well. +1 to Mrs. Swag 3:00
For the girl in US set hostage, please if someone is well connected with attorney circles, there are solicitors who offer their services voluntarily or any professional referral to discuss with them and link that girl with lawyer could at least take her out of that heinous cell . There must be civil charitable societies in US sponsoring legislative assistance “regardless of their resident permit status”
Too easy for me to type but will take a lot I know. My prayers are with her Anand feel pity on her ruthless dad.
Even if this girl on Green Card she F**K them... I live in Houston TX and have an attorney in my circle hit me up I might help.
The girl can find some good attorney contacts by joining and posting on Soul Sisters Pakistan. If you are listening, girl, we only live once, please grant yourself the bare minimum human right: Freedom!
Brother really respect your contribution towards our society, yes you are doing this for us as well as yourself(mainly).
My point is, just don't ruin your mentally state because of money (involves marketing of yourself)
Yo not because of money, is channel pe to junaid ki reach hee nae hai.
For last girl i hope things change around you and you find all happiness more then deserve
This session really helps alot Junaid !
I was just waiting for you to upload a video and here it is. I'm so happy... You rock Ganji
BIG UPS to Mrs. Swag for talking about online privacy 👏👏
To me, it's despicable how people are showing off their lives online, and letting companies like Facebook and TikTok store their personal data for 'advertisement'. Seems like y'all are literally happy about being controlled by corporations when they feel like doing so.
Allah bless you both partners.. Really two sensible people together giving opinions on issues.. Great 👍
Such an amazing guy 4:20 see how he empowered his wife. He keeps his life reserved that is why I love him my UA-cam channel is a result of inspiration from his side.
Love you Junaid Akram Allah bless you all.
You both are right. Keep your privacy in your circle.
Our public is so non-sense and ignorant. They don't know how to respect any other person.
So basically everyone wants Victoria Secret models, foreign passport, academically qualified but with hijab, house wife and stays within home :D
and basically you are accusing everyone
and so are expectations are from women side:: highly qualified masters from a top uni, earns 2-3 lakhs pak rupees or abroad with 10,000USD atleast, seperate house, owns a car, young, handsome fair skin, big eyes , ,what the hell
Yeah and all these qualities can be in a woman. It is not necessary that a woman should be wearing jeans or short clothes to feel independent and successful, many women in Pakistan are MashaAllah succeeding, and their dressing is modest.
such toxic things
women demands are pretty similar but sadly both sides will endup marrying there PHUPPO KI BETI OR BETA
@@sarwath_fatimee3865 no marrying a cousin is not bad. But bullying one due to lack of these qualities is bad
10:06 "Bhabhi ko Chabbi de di" :D I laughed hard there lol.
Flow chart !!!! 😂
That part is hilarious.
Request: Please make a podcast on professional etiquettes.
I’m sorry for all the girls out there, specially at 1:26:00, a girl got betrayed by a man even after knowing him in for years!
And I can’t even relate to it that properly k aik khulli dhulli aurat ko qaid kar diya. I’m sorry to all girls.
Inshallah I will strive to fight such monsters even if it has to be my close friends.
The major problem of drivers in Pakistan is that if someone has a Suzuki or a Hiace, they always mess with the people with good cars because they know that the person with the Prado will save his car because Suzuki repairs cost something around 1000 rs
While if you have to repair a prsdo it will cost you millions
Ur wife is such an amazing lady u r very lucky stay blessed
Its good ro see junaids face on the podcast since it makes the video more interacting. What u guys can do for your videos is keep the normal setup junaid sitting in his usual position n his wife can sit behind the camera n he can talk to her like he talks to the camera man. It wont show her face but she'd still be part of the podcast since we can hear her. I think all of can agree to this idea it will make podcasts more fun.
01:09 - Girl in Melbourne
Conversion pe hi baat khatam karni thi.
Why can't people be in love and let their partner be what they want to be and what they want to believe.
Sorry Junaid bhai totally disagree with you on this.
No point in converting anyone to any faith just for marriage.
I HONESTLY WAITED FOR THIS SOOOOO BADLY! YOU'RE A TRUE INSPIRATION FOR PEOPLE OF PAKISTAN! ESPECIALLY THE YOUTH! YOU NEED TO BE THE POWER! MORE SUPPORT TO YOU! PROUD OF YOU MAN!
Ma'am we all respect your privacy
Atleast I do
And its your right which noone can take away from yourself
57:15 🤣🤣 junaid bhai’s reaction
Lots Of Love And Respect For you junaid bahi. MOST sensible Person. Mashaa Allah
57:15 Mother OF Twists
Alfred Hitchcock and Quentin Tarantino died hearing these Twists
HAHAHAHAHA OH SHIT SUCKHS!!
If someone want privacy and don’t wanna being see why forcing or even talking about it … all is matter she trying to solve some people problems and trying to give positive in life and you guys should appreciate it and take positive way ..
Mr. Ganjiswag not coming sloww
Hear your podcast everyday😎
Junaid Bhai That film's name was "Lipstick under my Burkha" 1:04:41
The guy living in US can easily start working a minimum wage job, if they are a couple 2 people on minimum wage (usually you get 2-3$ more than minimum wage at most places) can easily afford a 1 bed apartment, if you have been living there for 5 years and still can't do anything in a country like US then idk what you've been doing
Mrs Swag should start her own channel and make her own content.
Bhai ideas nae do , junaid bhai complex ma ajynge!!
@@hassancharania5636 😂😂
She doesn't want to be on the internet as she said, she want a low-key private life
App mashwaray na do 🤣
@Urdu Writes who said farigh log UA-cam pe content create kartay ha?
Sir we respect your decision of not revealing your wife's face
yeah
It is not his decision. It is his wife's decision. Itna podcasts sun kr bhi smjh ni ai kya?
AmaziNg epi..Ur wife is Intelligent woMan i like listening to her as well..Good Job Keep it up!
For the 1st one, 06:28 - 15:05 - The girl I wanted to marry will become my sister-in-law
Junaid always say k pyar wyar sara gapshap hai ya bhool jata ..awein goals banao zindagi mai... yeh woh
and most of the time I agree with him except this case..
LOVE is a real thing and can happen anytime to anyone.. one may get into relationship as I did for almost 3 years.. 1st 2 relationships were like awein hi but the 3rd one was serious for me and I loved her so much and vice versa.. I was studying at that time in Europe and we used to talk every day... but then she vanished (woh alag qissa hai) and trust me I can't get her out of my mind.. Now I am Alhamdulillah in a much better situation then I ever was in every way but she's stuck in my mind for every minute that passes since last 10 months.. can't even sleep properly.. I am successful but I am depressed ONLY bcz she's not with me...
SO MY ADVICE IS THAT IF YOU REALLY , I MEAN REALLYYY LOVE HER, JUST GET HER!!!!!
Aur agar bhabi ban gai toh phir sari umer bhai sy bhi rishta torrna parrega without him knowing.. and if you say she loves you too then aap dono mai mistakes honi hi honi hain future mai bhi...
Kisi tarah bs nikah krlo.. rastay khul jatay hain agar mehnat karo aur distract na ho infact you'll get focused on your other life goals...
I used to be focused when she was with me.. did my bachelors in mechanical engineering from 30th ranked university worldwide.. Got an internship, got admission in MS.. but when internship started.. she left.. and and since then I am living worst time of my life DESPITE CAREER AND ECONOMICAL GROWTH..
Choice is yours to make... may Allah ease it for me and all of you.. stay blessed.. Allah hafiz
MISHAL AHMAD... Just writing this name, kya pata woh by chance hi dekhly.. mojzay hotay rehty.. :)
BTW only she'll understand meaning behind this name so don't bother ;) peace
Sir your sense of humor is great.
Big Fan of yours ❤
what a balanced and thoughtful lady she is 😍
Before getting married, it's essential to discuss and clarify important aspects like lifestyle, career, and having children. Living together should be about creating peace, support, and love for each other. If one partner is unhappy or disturbed, it affects the other's peace and happiness. We see many examples of this in real life. Everyone faces problems, challenges, and hurdles, but it's crucial for both partners to understand that you cannot face these battles alone. There are many wonderful people who do understand this, and I hope every man and woman gets to experience the happiness and joy that marriage can bring. Ameen
06:28
For sister in law question, if both are same age, there's rare chance of both getting married. Second, she is the eldest daughter so she couldn't hold.
At least, you should tell your brother if possible so at least he can reject this proposal so you don't have to face her as sister in law.
Otherwise, you may end up leaving home and settling somewhere else to avoid interaction with her.
I remember I like my cousin who was 3.5 year younger than me to get married with. My brother was engaged to another elder cousin of another Khala by my family but that was broken.
So my family engaged my elder brother who was 5 year older than me to that cousin whom I liked.
I told my family that I wanna marry her. At least you shouldn't cancel this engagement because in general it would be weird for me having sister in law 4 year younger than me.
I promised that I will not tell my brother about that and that was my mistake.
Even though my family arranged my brother Nikkah to her. My family live in US BTW and came back.
I didn't attend the ceremony by making academic excuses.
After two years, I visited my Khala to accept my cousin as bhabhi.
Still, I have decided that I will not live with her when she came to US until I get married.
I know you are in relationship but I wasn't but this may he helpful to tackle your situation.
Please talk to your brother ASAP.
I have been following you since a long time and have watched all your ask ganji swag episodes. You are an amazing person but I believe in some topics your wife has some amazing perspective . I would like to suggest your wife to also start 'Ask Mrs Swag'
This is saddening episode, but many things to learn from this episode.
Addicted of your Podcasts
22:00 ye wali story ap ne pehli b sunai thi junaid bhai. I remember in your previous podcasts.
I respect her choice n Wisdom! what a brave soul more power to her ❤❤❤
I like you but now I love your wife’s intelligence and the way she answers the question
Love
Hira Afzaluddin (Florida )
Nice comment
Usama Mushtaq ( Lahore)
@vision k chota bheem ko mera salam kehna xD
@vision k rajkumari Indumati ❤️🙌
made for eachother
@vision k what
1:13 she is perfect she knows she cant control everyone thats why she avoids all the negativity 💯💯💯
This guy in US with in laws problems. You can contact me. I am usually considered do it all ad know it all and guide people with many things.
Many families in US do similar things. I am in California. I have been in US since I was 17 and know both Pakistani culture and US very well. Things could be very easy in US if you are willing to be completely independent and do what it takes
@WAJID NABI JOKHIO my question is for women who have been living in USA for long time and is citizen and so is husband. But having issues to get out of problems.
Mashallah junniwag and hairyswag may you guys live happy af
Yarrrr apki wife k talking style exactly meri khala jaisa h or mjhe itni familiar c feel hoti hn ❤️
unable to find any of your podcast on Spotify
It isnt available in pak
@@shikamaru7394 ohh
46:12 i guess you are talking about Daar ul Amaan
I have been following these podcasts since ep 1 and i am now a huge fan... many congrats for hitting half a century 🤗🤗👍
To much addicted to ur Podcasts & PSL❤
Your wife’s advices are extremely passive aggressive and sometimes, illogical. To the girl that she advised to give her guy an ultimatum of 6 months, PLEASE DONT DO THAT. Don’t ruin your own relationship because the mother has a problem. Mothers are extremely protective and egoistic when it comes to their sons, and sometimes it takes time to get through to them, but they eventually come around. Understand that you’re in a rare situation, where you’ve changed your religion and are not being accepted by the muslim family. The best solution is to be strong, and work with the guy and try to explain to convince the mother again and again. It will take time but she will come around. It’s difficult but since you’re in a rare situation, solutions will be difficult. Please understand this and dont listen to the silly advise that was given to you here. Best of luck!
"Houston acting like London"🕵️🙋🏼♂️
Fleet🔥🔥
1:05:30
I live in California. America is not welfare state but I think first of all the guy should apply for low income rental home which should be affordable it may take year or two even if only husband is working because they will charge him certain percentage of income whatever is it.
It would be late if kid be school going. Kid need to get out of this environment ASAP.
I wanna share one incident... I was driving is Lahore Bahria .. one man suddenly came on service lane without looking on the road .. my side mirror hit his arm and my car was damaged.. people on the road were like ameer baap ka beta hi ... he doest know how to drive.. ( tho I have my liesance and everything) .. like why? He came in road .. it's his mistake.. if I have a good car so it means I am bigra hoi larka ?????? That's so sad!
Bike lelo 👍😂
I feel so bad for the girl who wrote last email
1st question ka simple answer ha agr krni h shadi khd tou kr lo. Agr khd nhi kr skty to appny bai ko bta do k meri girlfriend rhi h wo previously tou parents ko bol dy ko interested nhi ha shadi krny mein us lrki sy
We need more intellectual partners like you guys in Pakistan.
I’m just so sad for Khala , I will pray for her. Allah asaani paida kery. Ameen
Ameen
A little request when you make episode with your wife then plz turn on only your side camera( not your wife side) because when you listen someone 👀 contact is so important.
Thank you.
Junaid bhai atleast ap camera me ajaya karen, Bhabhi ko behind the camera rakha karen. Wo feel nahi aati apko dekhe begher.
BTW really appreciate your work.
1:9:52 how can she convert simply she can follow her religion. He follow his own religion and they can still live happily,why this people just want to convert everyone.
Then they say love jihad is a myth and anti muslim.
Such stories add fuel to fire.
Why can't the boy change?
Why can't he learn some other religion.
Half inheritance , half testimony in court , halala etc.
Every religion has faults but Islam has most faults.
4 shadiyan bhi jayaz hai,jannat mein 72 hoor bhi hongi
Sirf husband devorce de sakta hai
Apostate ko jane se marne ka law hai
Etc etc
@@jatinkamwal280 really man love jihad isn't a myth they won't let her girl marry to hindus and they wanna convert hindu girls. Dissapointed with junaid
@@jatinkamwal280
Excuse me I don't know what is your source of knowledge about Islam.
Only stereotypes,
First of all, in Islam men has the financial responsibility not women that's why men get more inheritance and doesn't get any dowry.
Women get dowry when getting married.
Women can ask for the right of divorce during marriage contract and can ask for khula later where women can for divorce to her husband with some money or can go to court for asking divorce.
Third, women doesn't have social responsibilities in Islak that's why there witness is half.
Keep in mind women will no longer depend on Man at heaven.
Islam was the first religion who give right women of divorce, inheritance, education and work.
I am not Hindu nor studied Hindu book so I am not gonna speak aganist hinduism.
But I know the status of women in Hinduism where they have no rights to re marry after the death of husband. No right to divorce. I have seen in star plus drama where women stand whole dinner to serve men in the family.
You hindus gonna criticize women rights in Islam even though your ancestor used to burn wife after the death of husband called Sati.
So please don't indulge in our religious matter by spreading misconceptions.
Otherwise you are forcing me to say Hindusim has most flaws out of every religion in the world.
In fact, Hinduism promotes patriarchy.
For your kind info, it is not mandatory to kill Apostle in Islam unless he or she do violence and hate speech.
@@MSthesmart my reply got deleted.
Anyways it's a waste to argue in comment section.
@@MSthesmart can a Muslim girl marry a Hindu in Pakistan?
Does Islam allows it?
There are many Muslim men in India who have married Hindu women .
Like sharkukh and Aamir khan
Widow remarriage is promoted in vedas.
Sati was only followed by certain sects .
There are no record of sati in our epic mahabharat and Ramayan
Literally I've become a big fan of your wife
Respect all abt his wife not showing herself but deep inside me I still want to see her😀
We'll go to London
@@samuelkhan99 WELL Iam in London.
@@sarahshahzad9071 lol. Speak to Junaid Akram and make further arrangements
@@sarahshahzad9071 yeah I think you can
I request the fans to ask questions concise. Keep it to the point. Don't drag and repeat. If it's a long email, try to state that in start, and again try to keep it to the point.
Lieraly starting my day with Ask Ganji Swag, haven't even left the bed yet, 7:33AM in SG 😂❤️✌🏻🇸🇬
Man hearing these email i am glad I am a good husband and keep my wife happy and give her freedom.
Ask her if you're a good husband or not. Don't decide it yourself.
who are you to give her freedom?
The first three minutes of the podcast
The fact that Mrs. Swag had to explain that... (don't have the words). The level of entitlement, we, the people feel that we have.
Neither Mr. Swag, nor his wife owe us any explanation. They are making content for us, educating us, answering our queries for FREE and the awam has the audicity to do this.
If you can read this Mrs. Swag, we are really sorry to make you feel that you have to explain anything. You owe us nothing. Please kuch unimportant logo ki wja se podcast me ana mat chorye ga, it's a request. Thank you.
Your wife is awesome!!!!
Great work.
May Allah increase you in knowledge
Ameen.
He is talking about IBA 33:09 where he does a Course in Business communication.
59:26 😁😁😁ARY bhi dekhte honge.
Guys, and specifically Mrs. Ganjiswag, please don't clarify yourself if you guys are speaking for the rights of women. These people who criticize you, are not worth your clarification. Decent people will understand you anyway and please don't get bogged down with those comments and opinions. I hope you get what I am saying. You both are doing great service. Stay blessed !
The lady is right. Bangladesh is now a booming economy because they utilize women work force who even labor from home.
Those guys who are blaming you they will only realize when they see their sister in same condition.
I know we live in US yet my three cousins and my own sister is divorced because jo Junaid nay kaha hai larki overseas wali chaheye lakin hamaray ghar kay toxic backward principles ko follow karay.
Hum blackmail nhi hotay divorce kara letay hain before any kids since first experience.
My two cousins are happily married again.
My elder cousin is coming to US InshaAllah with two kids.
5:54 remind me of Christopher Robin when he was relentlessly bullied by boys at school due to his fame . He asked Milne,( father) to write a book for him not on him when he was young . So yeah you're right junaid
Definitely feel the same as you guys do about some of your questions. They are enraging at some times.