The fact that many girls at their young age in this family got pregnant makes me think that maybe sexual education does not have a high priority in their family
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Mybe they just skip theory and rush to practice 😂😂
Great7Lemons yep bad parenting making their kids think having a kid at 16 is okay and not teaching them how to use protection because protection now a days in the pull out method
I think their parents prohibited them from attending her baby shower, all parents are concerned about their children after seeing these teens get pregnant.
@@Xxpumpkinqueen13 I kind of agree, but is it too much effort to text that something came up and you can't go? It's not just about being a teenager, it's about being a good friend. I know for a fact I would be, and I do feel bad for Tyra since she considered them good friends, that's gotta hurt if people who you've known for nearly 10 years can't be there for you when you need them.
@@verymuchadisappointment168 Yeah , you are right . If you belong to a strict family your visit to your friend's house or hanging out with your friend is controlled by your parents . In that case if they are prohibited from going to her baby shower by their parents they could have made an excuse to her , but not even informing at all was a bit rude.
Lol, that's a funny thought. Assuming the oldest female lives until she's 100 (already a long shot for most people), each generation would have to start reproducing at the ripe old age of 6 years old... Not really feasible. Maybe 10 generations, though, if they all started at 10 years old. The morals involved is another thing, though...
No one. The teen's mother's probably think that a boyfriend "spending the night" is normal and cute. Its obvious theres no rules or structure when it comes to boys and sex in that family
Your country needs to get actual sex education for everyone. I got it and I went to a private Catholic all girls school... so... How come they are being so dumb?
I'm 34 with a 12 and 7 year old. At 22 I felt so young and that I missed out on things my friends got to do. I was pregnant shortly after turning 21 so I went to a bar 1 time. Not that drinking is the best thing, but your friends are enjoying their lives and you're suck at home with responsibilities. Although, at this stage in my life I'm glad my kids are self sufficient and I not babies. I couldn't imagine having a baby now. I enjoy sleeping in 😂
@@studentathlete7751 I care more abt peoples lives and how situations impact them more than I care for the sake of my own entertainment but I do respect your opinion
@@danielatamara7171 I think it's because parents don't want to glamorize teen pregnancy, or "celebrate" something that they want to steer their children away from. Teen pregnancy permanently alters the course of a young girl's life. Allowing your teen daughter to celebrate almost sends the message that she is in an ideal situation. No doubt she needs support, and a precious life is on the way. It's just not something I would want to encourage my teen daughter to celebrate. I definitely wouldn't want to give her the wrong message, and have her think this is an appropriate time in a young girl's life to irresponsibly enter motherhood, when they're not prepared emotionally, mentally or financially.
It's still lovely that she said that. She needs encouragement, not hate. If her daughter grows up very close and attached to Mom and willing to listen to what Mom is wanting to read her, to tell her, to share with her -- then perhaps she won't be in the same position in a few years.
@@marthashaebanyan-bady4259 My brother is 21 and has a 2 year old daughter. He loves her to death but all the time he is saying he wish he would have waited to have kids. His wife left him, walked out without her wallet or shoes, all because they were living with my mom and my mom wanted her to get a job. Now my brother is a single father and has been for almost 2 years and not getting a damn bit of help from her, child support is a joke. You know damn well if it were the other way around, she would get her way and my brother would go to jail. This little girl gets to grow up without a mother, all because they wanted to be STUPID and not even TRY to wear protection. All these teenagers think "oh its okay, we will get jobs later and if we need help, we can get food stamps and other government assistance." I'm pretty sure everybody has heard of the game "The Sims" and even THAT tries to teach you that without money or a job, you wont last long and before you know it, social services will end up coming and taking them away. THE ONLY encouragement we need to be giving is to the people who are already parents by showing them these videos so they can imagine their son or daughter being in this position and how cruel it would be to being a child into this world without a dime or anything to your name. If that's your definition of good parenting, just don't!
I had my daughter at 19 & lost ALL of my "friends" They were all moving on to colleges, partying, enjoying their freedom & youth. Its understandable but it still sucked. I then realised a few years before that, I hadn't been there for a friend who got pregnant at 16. Karma is a bitch & she got me good!
:( In about 7th grade, one of my friends got pregnant. I had actually forgotten about it until she brought it up sometime in the past couple years. She reminded me that I was literally the only friend who stuck around at that time. I've been an absent friend to others as well, not knowing they were even pregnant or just not being around much due to life. They held it against me for some number of years. It was during this time that I seriously felt like *I* had lost my friends bc I *wasn't* a mom. Oh yes. I'd been told I wasn't invited bc I had no kids, that type thing. So as much as I feel for any girl who loses friends during a pregnancy, plenty of them abandon non mother friends later. Guess which last longer, pregnancy or parenthood lol At least, that was my experience. I realized there was a mommy club & I'm not allowed to go. It is what it is. Then in my late twenties, my mom friends started asking me to babysit & stuff. Sure. I love kids. Kids love me. So yeah, it took years but I eventually got accepted into the mommy club though I have no kids still. They finally healed enough to give me a chance. I've never been pregnant so idk about that experience, just many pregnant friends over the years. I've observed both sides to this. They cry about it but will take it out on their friends or even other non mommy females due to this resentment from what I've seen. It all works out.
@@lovelywhit431 it will all turn out perfectly as it should be. 💜💜💜 It might hurt along the way, probably will & for that I'm sorry. It sucks. But I know it WILL get better for you. Life's just like that. Ups & downs. Sometimes more downs but it sure as hell makes one appreciate the ups so much more. Much love to you hun
I mean you can’t expect your friends to stop progressing because you got pregnant they made the decision to not get pregnant so they could party and go to college no offense they are not obligated to remain friends with you because of your decision to become a parent
@@sidthekid456 umm who says they have to stop "progressing"? Any TRUE friend can go to school, party ect and still make time for friends who do other things for fun BESIDES drinking. If they don't, they're not real friends in the first place. Period.
You can still have that talk and the teens are still going to go out there and do stuff. My daughters father's parents told him about protecting himself and yet he still did the opposite
They live to multiply. All girls too. The cycle keeps going on and on. They should be expecting 15 o 16 yrs after, they'll be having granddaughters too. God keeps on giving them girls as a lesson but they dont get it.
“When ur pregnant u find out who ur real friends are.” No, ur teenage friends are being teenagers. They don’t have the capacity to check on their “mom-friends” bc they’re still kids. Chill.
All she wanted from her friends was to go to the baby shower though, they couldn't even be bothered to text her that they couldn't make it, please tell me how that's too much to ask for?
It’s the same as a birthday, not literally but event wise, if they can’t let her know that they can’t come or simply come then they were never their for her. Just because she’s pregnant doesn’t meant they all of a sudden don’t have the capacity to check on their friend.
Unpopular opinion: her boyfriend seems genuine. The way he cared that she lost her friends, and feels bad about the whole situation shows he cares about her. Sure he's not excited about changing diapers but I believe the baby will grow on him.
Well... technically as soon as u have a few periods your body is ready to carry a child. Especially if u get your menarche between the ages of 11-14 years old. What is definitely not developed is your mind. Your frontal lobe does not finish developing till your mid 20’s early 30’s (feel free to correct me im still in school , im not an expert... yet haha)
Why would you say something so sadly that's so sad that you would say something as bad asas she looks like she's not 38 she looks like she's 48 people need to start learning how to respect people's feelings cuz what that old saying says what comes around goes around it really does so remember that when you're down and out and somebody puts a foot up your ass let's see how you feel then because usually a person that is a true-hearted person will give you a hands up not a foot up in the ass think about it you don't need that kind of stuff when you're having stuff in your life going on bad you need people to cheer you on and if you don't know that then you must not be a good person let's hope to God that you can understand where I'm coming from if not you need to start reading the Bible may God be with
My 18 y/o friend is pregnant with a baby girl and I can’t imagine abandoning her over it. I went to her baby shower and it was so beautiful. Being pregnant that young must be terrifying and it’s not recommended but it’s what she wants. Me and my family will be by her side to help her through this tough time. She has lost friends but she’s now surrounded by people that will help and support her.
My baby cousin's mother ( which is my aunt but she's my age , 19, so I find it weird lol) is struggling and my mom and I gladly babysit the baby and we support and I love kids so But I actually used this as a lesson for what I already know. Never get myself in this situation. Heck , I'm her age and I'm more pissed at my uncle because he's way older than her and still courted and sweet talked her into bed but besides that, I definitely happily support her nonetheless But I can't call her aunty because it's weird, you're my age lol
Ever think that parents wouldnt allow them to talk to their friend anymore? Before I went into high school my mom warned me that if any of my friends got pregnant that I wouldnt be allowed to talk to them. That they would be a bad influence on me. She wouldnt even let me watch Juno. Every think of that?
@@Luvlymarshmellow666 @MarshMellow Sounds like a terrible parenting choice to not teach your child compassion for others but rather to shut people out for fear that you "might turn bad like them !!". Yikes
a 16 yr old vs. an 18 yr old getting pregnant is very different. i love babies and love baby showers but my mom would probably not let me go to a 16 yr olds baby shower bc it’s inappropriate
Diosa Mamii stop talking like all men are like that just because yours sucks. My sons father changed diapers, fed him, got up in the middle of the night, does everything for him. Call your man pathetic and lazy yet you still slept with him.
lalalarebecca23 i mean if you consider your man to be a boy be my guess lady😂😂😂 read the comment carefully then take it up the ass you read my comment and you directly assume i couldve been speaking about your little boy so you sure about that🧐🧐
Diosa Mamii what do you call your man? A BOYfriend. for saying boys are lazy and pathetic you’re calling everyone’s BOYfriend lazy and pathetic. Learn to put a proper sentence together and word your shit right. Stay in school
As she opened gifts she said "I wanted a book so I could read to her, because I'm weird like that".. lol, because reading to a child is definitely what's "weird" about this.
I think she means it was weird of her to want a book because you usually get diapers, blankets, and clothes. I was the only person who brought books to my cousin’s baby shower.
la Jama fam maybe when you where in school but modern kids don’t think reading is weird at all and we all know how important it is. The stereotype about teenagers is so inaccurate when compared to modern teens🙄🙄🙄
I’m the daughter of a teen mom. She was 16 when she was pregnant with me and married to my father he was 25. I had my first child when I was 19 my last at 24. My boys r grown with no children of their own just yet. I tried to break the cycle
What did you tell them, to help them? How difficult it was for you, that they should protect themselves while out & about and not trust that birth control is always the girl's responsibility, etc? Whatever you did with them obviously worked, so congratulations. :)
Well people your age and your moms age were mature at that time when you were young. You knew you had huge big responsibilities to take care took it serious and you did. Now a days 19 year olds act and have the mindset of a 6 year old , In fact I know this one girl she is 18 with a kid shes just a horrible horrible mother she had the opportunity to get in the Medical Assistant program for free her answer was oh I do not have time she choose to continue working at walmart oh but she sure as hell have time to party drink and bouncing from man to man. This proves that the z generation is ridiculous.
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 it's amazing how you just insults and generalise an entire generations just because of few bad apples. There are just as many F up people in every generation, its just gen z got the most media coverage.
She can’t get mad for her friends not wanting to show up. At the end of the day these are kids. Most teens don’t want to involve there selves in adult responsibilities. Of course there going to live there life.
why are you saying that? maybe some women just want to have children. Feminism is a woman doing whatever she wants with her life, and if they're happy having babies let them be. They could turn around and tell you the exact same thing. "hey I have the most precious thing in my life and what do you have, a career". It's all opinions and points of view. You are not better than anyone, I am not better than anyone either, just because I choice was to get my PhD in clinic psychology, I do not have the right to look at someone as less than me, nor do you.
@@nia5449 Agreed to what you say. It's completely one's choice to wear what they want, have babies whenever they want and do whatever they want. Being a mother is the most beautiful experience in the life of a women. But being a mother is big responsibility too. Right from diapers to education, medical expenses to toys requires money. My point here is be independent before being a mother. Baby doesn't want it, he needs it. Having a baby is a big decision. Only go for it whenever you are financially independent so that you won't have to beg to others for feeding your child. As simple as that. Go and check her FB page. She's single, dependent on parent and still a child having child. SET YOU PRIORITIES RIGHT ALL GIRLS OUT THERE. It just a prescription. Follow it if you want. WISE IS A MAN WHO LEARNS FROM HIS MISTAKES, WISER IS THE MAN WHO LEARNS FROM OTHERS.
vrushali nakil i had a baby at 17 got pregnant at 16 and you aren’t wrong in my opinion. I dont regret having my son because i feel like he definitely was the thing i needed to change but still i wish i would’ve been able to have him at a time where i was already done with college and stable. i also tell females and guys dont have a kid until you’re stable and ready to make everything about that baby.
yes well I am mid thirties, a chemical engineer with a masters and a pHD, therefore a Dr, and I have three children, and speak fluently in French and German, and and and, so what? we are all different. God bless.
This breaks my heart. My sister got pregnant at 17 and I saw how hard it was for her. It definitely changed my perspective on teen pregnancy. I don’t want to judge but the cycle seems to repeat itself, which is clear in this family. I wish them the best and hope their babies break out of that cycle
@@updownstate Just because the mom was a teen mom that is no excuse for the daughter to say oh hey I am going to get pregnant NO! My aunt was a teen mom now her daughter is 31 and having her first kid. So there you have it NO EXCUSES!
@@updownstate Not sure where you got that information from. But my cousin never become a teen mom. My cousin went to college earn her degree. And had her first when she was ready.So you saying is cultural makes no sense. You can't point fingers at people just because they had teen parents.
I feel like TLC should cancel this show. They are encouraging teen pregnancy which shouldn’t be taken lightly. Bringing a baby into this world is not an easy task. You need to be there for the child both to do physically and mentally. This is just stupid
I think they should show it all over because some countries need to start doing sex education the right way. Instead of telling kids to only abstain, tell them that it’s hard and if they ever have sex there ways to do it safely and prevent stds and pregnancies. They should also tell them what being a mum is about and what’s at stake thus this show. Lastly they should tell them they have a choice if they become pregnant plus parents should be encouraged not to shun them or force them into marriage like Sarah Peilin did.
I just have to say this... your friends... were your friends. It wasn’t they who changed but you.. you were like them in every way...until you got pregnant.. then you were different.... you became an outsider.. with issues only you had.. you had nothing in common anymore... your moral values were not what they aspire to follow... they want to be kids awhile longer, to be high school students....you chose adulthood.
You’re right ! When a teen mom makes an adult decision to make and keep a baby there is no more socialising ! Teens in general want to enjoy life and create memories without being tied down ! It’s unrealistic for a teen parent to expect everyone will be there for them when they should be concentrating on their little family.
That's so true, I'm an adult now but when i was younger all my girlfriends got pregnant back to back and we had nothing in common anymore and i slowly distance myself from them.
Bill browning that was true for me even at 21. My friends were still in school and working towards careers. All of our lives were just starting out, but when I got pregnant our paths changed completely. Most of them have had kids by now, but they’re all in the newborn stage while I’m sending my youngest to kindergarten.
Exactly! Once you decide to become a teen mom your priorities change from your friends and they can no longer call you up to hang out or do these things because you have responsibilities to take care of. All friendships end like this because people’s priorities change they act as if they never experienced this
“I wanted a book so bad so I could read to her, cause I’m weird like that.” Spoken like a true child... It’s not weird, it’s called being a Momma! 🤦🏼♀️
"true friends". All these girls are in high school. In high school no one is a whole human being. Mentally or physically. This family is just a statistic. Aside from their reality tv pay check. It is tragic.
@Mia-Jalila that’s not at all true, she just had really bad friends. I would stand by my friends through anything and I know who would do the same for me
from this video he looks like a decent person. i feel like he’ll definitely stick around. he seemed like he actually cared about her when talking about how she lost friends. although it’s not the most ideal situation teen mothers deserve all the praise
Same thing with me I didn't know I was with my only one son my child was born when I was are about 20 or 21 I don't remember maybe 22 the year 2017 I have only one kid whoo
As someone who was pregnant in her early twenties I do kind of sympathize because I lost a lot of my friends when I became pregnant. But the friends I gained are definitely the best ones ive ever had!
You know when baby showers come along & it's time for games, their family members are pros. It's like the Olympic games & everyone has had plenty of practice.
M Sch Because people from your age group generation at the time you were in high school you all acted mature and actually had respect for older people now a days high schoolers act like they know everything when in reality the are all stupid.
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 Actually my high school was in the region of France that had the most teen pregnancy in the country. The coal mines shutting down had caused a lot of poverty. I had a friend who had a baby at 14 and was in a shelter because her step dad had thrown her out of the house. She wasn’t the brightest but she was trying to be a good mama the best she could. There was also a lot of incest where I lived. Highest rate of incest and highest rate of alcoholism.
I remember many years ago, my sister wanted to go to a friend's baby shower. They were seniors in high school. My mom forbade it. I was two years younger than her, and really didn't understand the situation back then. Now I see why my mom didn't let her go.
I feel so bad for her. Even though her friends might not be going through that same stage of having kids I think they should definitely still be there for her through all of this. I know I would if one of my friends got pregnant.
this whole episode is just them being upset about loosing their friends, what did you expect was going to happen? you thought you were gonna gain friends?
Being pregnant doesn’t automatically mean you loose all your friends... And I feel bad for her coz she probably though she was closer with them than she actually was
@@cherrypancake9584 I mean if you wanted to keep your teen friends you shouldn’t have been stupid enough to get pregnant. While I’d support my friends I don’t want to have to be with a crying baby when I want to hang out. Family won’t always be there to raise a teens baby( as they shouldn’t) and I don’t like children nor do I want any so I’d rather not be bothered caring for them since I’ve had enough of looking after children in my own family.
for most teens and young adults, they cant even fathom having a baby at that age. They do not understand the gravity of the event. Your family does because theyve had babies.
I feel bad that no one showed up for her , but at the same time it’s like wouldn’t you think they don’t have anything in common anymore like you have a child I don’t. Sn: I would have definitely showed up for the babyshower I love stuff like that!
i dont blame her friends for not showing up. like they are still kids and having a friend your age pregnant can effect them and they are still kids living like kids so if you chose to get pregnant at such a young age then you should've known that people would leave your life or act differently around you cause they are still kids and shouldn't be worrying or having to check up on a mum their age.
It's the fact that parents won't allow their daughters to attend a teenage friend's baby shower while most of the teens nowadays are engaged in a premarital sex (protected or not). Why just let them go?! Let them see their consequences if they made the same mistakes. Parents should be possibly aware of the things that might happen to their children.
I’m was so close to likely your comment but the “let them see the consequences if they make the same mistake” part is just scream nosy church auntie vibes I can’t And @Srs Lee no one goes to a baby shower and thinks “I’m going to take one 18 years of responsibilities just for one party” they might like the way it looks and think about doing something similar *when* they have a baby but not the other
Baby shower are a big fun party. I don’t think anyone would walk away from that thinking about consequences😂💀 maybe have them baby sit a new born or look at how much baby stuff cost
I wonder if my girlfriends felt this way about me cause i myself did this, only cause i didn't feel it was ok to get pregnant so young and i still wanted to be a kid and have my fun.
I have a friend who got pregnant during high school. We went our separate ways because her baby became her life now. Being a Mother is different than being a high schooler. A high schooler is suppose to have freedoms to do as they please. A Mother does not. Her focus is on her baby. Not to say that we don’t talk or meet when we can, but life changes after children. Your life is no longer yours. In respect of that, I chose to not see her as often so she can take care of her baby. I didn’t leave because I wasn’t a good friend. I left because she doesn’t have the same freedoms as me anymore.
I agree with her friend when she said if you’re not coming then at least say oh I can’t come. It’s much more respectful to announce you won’t be able to show up.
When I was young my friend got pregnant at 14, and when my parents found out they didn’t let me hang out with her anymore and she was no longer allowed at our home and family parties. I was sad and mad about this bc I wanted to be a good friend and show my support, but now I realize that my parents were doing what they believed was the best for me.
Maria Escamilla yes at 14 you should be still playing outside with your friends, not having sex. Teens nowadays only care about having a relationship and being with someone. Instead of enjoying the one life given to them. And that’s coming from me who started dating my husband, at 14. I still kept my youth. And now I’m 19 and married to him. We’re enjoying our life without kids, for now. There’s so much life to start a family with but rn I’m still a teen/kid. I don’t want a kid😂
koolk22 That’s different, while it was gross because that was the only purpose of a woman, the old men had money and could provide for them. Kids these days aren’t having kids with men that can provide a better life they’re having kids with other children who obviously wouldn’t be able to take care of a wife and child.
BellaAndJohn Have you ever heard of records and accounts? They kept records of who got married and the ages they got married. There were a lot of 35 year old men with 14 year old girls.
HOW MANY OTHER PREGNANCIES WILL OCCUR BECAUSE OF CORONAVIRUS QUARANTINES? I’m trying NOT to get my chick pregnant so I can keep my money for car parts.
Her boyfriend is the boyfriend everyone wants. He seems so sweet and she is so lucky to have him. That is the boyfriend that will never leave their girlfriends no matter what!!!!
One of the hardest lessons is learning the friends you thought that would be there forever actually don’t care about you, especially the ones you’ve known since elementary school. After graduation* friends slowly grow apart/you stop taking altogether. It’s a part of life we all go through, still sucks.
her friends’ parents may not have condoned their daughters to hang out with a young girl that is pregnant, let alone celebrate that. They may have been too shy or felt bad to reach out and let you know.
Poor young mother, she is doing such a wonderful job and has such a sensitive soul. Your true friends are there for you no matter what. Good on you for having that blessing of a baby. You do whatever you love with your life and raise that child to have a wonderful loving home xo
I feel so bad that none of her friends showed up. Like if my friend got pregnant as a teen, I would still be there for them. Like that is rude, if I was her friends I totally be there for her every step of the way
‘You loose alot of friends’ I had mates I went school with who ended up having a baby very young, tbh it wasn’t anything bitter the older you get you kind of just stop being friends and start making new ones anyway. I also I felt like we were just different people, we didn’t have anything common any more. Our priorities were very different, we didn’t had much to talk about, it was all very dragged and forced. I wished them all the best but I just didn’t want to be around all of that especially when I come from a family who don’t believe in sex before marriage! There was no way I was gonna introduce them to my family and make them worry about me. I don’t think there needs to be any shaming done if people just don’t want to be surrounded by it anymore. You made your decision and you should let others make theirs. Pressure should never force a friendship.
My Aunt was a teen mom. Her mom was against it (Because her mom is the only one grinding since she is still going to school, and her papa passed away) but she accepted her granddaughter with all her love. I'm so happy they're now a good happy family, the father takes good care of the child and also supports the familu.
It’s so gross your sister 16 and she had a baby you’re 18 you’re about to have a baby and your cousin is whatever how old oh that’s different but you should be getting a baby when you’re like 20 to 25 but when you’re a teenager come on
Regardless of if her friends weren't allowed to go or didn't want to go to her baby shower, she still wanted that support from her "friends." I had a friend who had a baby when we were 16 and although we weren't necessarily talking at the time, I still supported her when we got back on good terms. I still check on her and her daughter and send gifts when her daughter's birthday comes around.
This is actually something that happens even with adults, having friends but then you decide to have a family you invite them to the festivities and they never show up or stop talking to you. It's not just with teen moms it happens all the time, some people aren't just ready to settle down and some might but the people who distance from you it's because they're also not ready to mature and take responsibility as it is. This happened to me without being a teen mom and it's hard cuz people have different points of view and they just think having to stop talking or hanging out because they wanna keep partying and puke in an ubers car. I like party's but I also like having my stability of being a mom and responsible. It's just what it is
The fact that many girls at their young age in this family got pregnant makes me think that maybe sexual education does not have a high priority in their family
Mybe they just skip theory and rush to practice 😂😂
Great7Lemons no just very very low collective intelligence, they really don’t scream smart what so ever.
@ lol😂😂😂
And the grandmoms are young too. Both in their 30s
Great7Lemons yep bad parenting making their kids think having a kid at 16 is okay and not teaching them how to use protection because protection now a days in the pull out method
After hearing that all 3 teens were moms or pregnant, I SPRINTED to the comments
Same 😂
Same bruv😂😂
omg same lmao
I knoww me too
OMG SAME 😂
They’re mad at their friends not being there for them... girl, they’re doing HOMEWORK.
Right! Seriously those girls are still in high school, they’re teens, not adults at all!!
I think their parents prohibited them from attending her baby shower, all parents are concerned about their children after seeing these teens get pregnant.
But they could still say something like I cant, instead of saying they will and dont...
Stop hating on them... What they need is love
@@Xxpumpkinqueen13 I kind of agree, but is it too much effort to text that something came up and you can't go? It's not just about being a teenager, it's about being a good friend. I know for a fact I would be, and I do feel bad for Tyra since she considered them good friends, that's gotta hurt if people who you've known for nearly 10 years can't be there for you when you need them.
@@verymuchadisappointment168 Yeah , you are right . If you belong to a strict family your visit to your friend's house or hanging out with your friend is controlled by your parents . In that case if they are prohibited from going to her baby shower by their parents they could have made an excuse to her , but not even informing at all was a bit rude.
If they keep this up they’ll have 15 generations all living at once
Colonel Breadsticks 🤣🤣🤣
For some reason that sounds pretty cool
For some reason that sounds pretty cool
Lol, that's a funny thought. Assuming the oldest female lives until she's 100 (already a long shot for most people), each generation would have to start reproducing at the ripe old age of 6 years old... Not really feasible. Maybe 10 generations, though, if they all started at 10 years old. The morals involved is another thing, though...
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Damn every woman in this family is a teen mom. Someone has to break the cycle. This should not be the norm.
sup_ monica it’s sad that it is for them and it’ll probably keep going
There’s also not a husband/man in sight I don’t know why they don’t learn from each other’s mistakes that teen pregnancy leaves you alone
It’s their choice tho and she’s technically an adult and if that’s how they want to live their lives it’s theirs to live not yours
It’s not *just* their lives. Their kids are involved too. They deserve better.
I saw a pun right here: they dont have their cycle
"It kind of grosses me out.... I don't like the smell"
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he's an immature bitch, what do you expect?
Okay no discrimination or anything but why does EVERY SINGLE TEEN GIRL IN THEIR FAMILY HAVE A BABY?!
Bad parenting
Grace Slays
No protection
The south
Grace Slays I’m mean it with all the discrimination, control your fucking children
@@sanicthehedgehog1260 The south x2
34 and a Grandma? Who's supervising these kids?! I'm 34 and I have an 8 year old! These woman need to stop repeating the same mistakes!
Wow. You don't look like 34 😊
No one. The teen's mother's probably think that a boyfriend "spending the night" is normal and cute. Its obvious theres no rules or structure when it comes to boys and sex in that family
Your country needs to get actual sex education for everyone. I got it and I went to a private Catholic all girls school... so... How come they are being so dumb?
I’m 34 and omg I forget people my age can by grandparents 🤭
I'm 34 with a 12 and 7 year old. At 22 I felt so young and that I missed out on things my friends got to do. I was pregnant shortly after turning 21 so I went to a bar 1 time. Not that drinking is the best thing, but your friends are enjoying their lives and you're suck at home with responsibilities. Although, at this stage in my life I'm glad my kids are self sufficient and I not babies. I couldn't imagine having a baby now. I enjoy sleeping in 😂
WHY DOES EVERY TEENAGE GIRL IN THIS FAMILY HAVE A CHILD
Cause it’s the norm for teenage girls to get pregnant 🤰 😅😂🤣.
@Arinator_forever parents can only do so much they can’t force their kids to listen
@@studentathlete7751 no...it’s not
@@justautumn5935 but it’s good for our television 📺 entertainment 😅😂🤣
@@studentathlete7751 I care more abt peoples lives and how situations impact them more than I care for the sake of my own entertainment but I do respect your opinion
34 and a grandma????? holy crap. Im 33 and have no kids, I can't imagine.
HannahRachel Xo I’m 34 with no Kids too, it’s mind boggling people our age are already grandparents jeez
Cat women 😹
@@MelaniaRose
Yuo need my seed 💜😋😹
My mom is 32 and she has my brother and me
I would literally rather die
It’s just a fact that a lot of parents won’t let their teen daughters attend a underage friend’s baby shower.
Love Muffin why?
@@danielatamara7171 I think it's because parents don't want to glamorize teen pregnancy, or "celebrate" something that they want to steer their children away from. Teen pregnancy permanently alters the course of a young girl's life. Allowing your teen daughter to celebrate almost sends the message that she is in an ideal situation. No doubt she needs support, and a precious life is on the way. It's just not something I would want to encourage my teen daughter to celebrate. I definitely wouldn't want to give her the wrong message, and have her think this is an appropriate time in a young girl's life to irresponsibly enter motherhood, when they're not prepared emotionally, mentally or financially.
@@Summer77700 okay, but its still incredibly rude and really shows just how much these parents trust their daughters
@@sara_daria2 I think it's less about trust, and more about sending the wrong message to impressionable young girls. Take care!
Summer Very well said !
"I wanted a book so I could read to her, because I'm weird like that". Actually hun, that's what normal parents do.
It's still lovely that she said that. She needs encouragement, not hate. If her daughter grows up very close and attached to Mom and willing to listen to what Mom is wanting to read her, to tell her, to share with her -- then perhaps she won't be in the same position in a few years.
@@marthashaebanyan-bady4259 "If only she would have waited a few years."
@@marthashaebanyan-bady4259 My brother is 21 and has a 2 year old daughter. He loves her to death but all the time he is saying he wish he would have waited to have kids. His wife left him, walked out without her wallet or shoes, all because they were living with my mom and my mom wanted her to get a job. Now my brother is a single father and has been for almost 2 years and not getting a damn bit of help from her, child support is a joke. You know damn well if it were the other way around, she would get her way and my brother would go to jail. This little girl gets to grow up without a mother, all because they wanted to be STUPID and not even TRY to wear protection. All these teenagers think "oh its okay, we will get jobs later and if we need help, we can get food stamps and other government assistance." I'm pretty sure everybody has heard of the game "The Sims" and even THAT tries to teach you that without money or a job, you wont last long and before you know it, social services will end up coming and taking them away. THE ONLY encouragement we need to be giving is to the people who are already parents by showing them these videos so they can imagine their son or daughter being in this position and how cruel it would be to being a child into this world without a dime or anything to your name. If that's your definition of good parenting, just don't!
@@xXAce_TnTXx"if it were the other way around" as if the majority of ppl who don't pay child support are men 💀
I had my daughter at 19 & lost ALL of my "friends" They were all moving on to colleges, partying, enjoying their freedom & youth. Its understandable but it still sucked. I then realised a few years before that, I hadn't been there for a friend who got pregnant at 16. Karma is a bitch & she got me good!
:(
In about 7th grade, one of my friends got pregnant. I had actually forgotten about it until she brought it up sometime in the past couple years. She reminded me that I was literally the only friend who stuck around at that time.
I've been an absent friend to others as well, not knowing they were even pregnant or just not being around much due to life. They held it against me for some number of years. It was during this time that I seriously felt like *I* had lost my friends bc I *wasn't* a mom. Oh yes. I'd been told I wasn't invited bc I had no kids, that type thing. So as much as I feel for any girl who loses friends during a pregnancy, plenty of them abandon non mother friends later. Guess which last longer, pregnancy or parenthood lol
At least, that was my experience. I realized there was a mommy club & I'm not allowed to go. It is what it is.
Then in my late twenties, my mom friends started asking me to babysit & stuff. Sure. I love kids. Kids love me.
So yeah, it took years but I eventually got accepted into the mommy club though I have no kids still. They finally healed enough to give me a chance.
I've never been pregnant so idk about that experience, just many pregnant friends over the years. I've observed both sides to this. They cry about it but will take it out on their friends or even other non mommy females due to this resentment from what I've seen.
It all works out.
I know this is going to be me 😕
@@lovelywhit431 it will all turn out perfectly as it should be. 💜💜💜
It might hurt along the way, probably will & for that I'm sorry. It sucks. But I know it WILL get better for you. Life's just like that. Ups & downs. Sometimes more downs but it sure as hell makes one appreciate the ups so much more.
Much love to you hun
I mean you can’t expect your friends to stop progressing because you got pregnant they made the decision to not get pregnant so they could party and go to college no offense they are not obligated to remain friends with you because of your decision to become a parent
@@sidthekid456 umm who says they have to stop "progressing"? Any TRUE friend can go to school, party ect and still make time for friends who do other things for fun BESIDES drinking. If they don't, they're not real friends in the first place. Period.
They are still babies themselves. What are their mums thinking? Should of had a talk about birth control.
not likely in the South
In the south we learn about birth control lol they are just dumb lol
You can still have that talk and the teens are still going to go out there and do stuff. My daughters father's parents told him about protecting himself and yet he still did the opposite
Should of?
They live to multiply. All girls too. The cycle keeps going on and on. They should be expecting 15 o 16 yrs after, they'll be having granddaughters too. God keeps on giving them girls as a lesson but they dont get it.
You can tell How disappointed they were saying they were Grandmothers
Such a shame my generation
Well...they did the same thing they can't judge
I mean, the parents should be ashamed. not the kids.
Boomers did the same
umm, our generation isnt the only one with teen parents
Honestly, they should take on the responsibility of raising those babies. They are still young and could give the children a normal life.
“When ur pregnant u find out who ur real friends are.”
No, ur teenage friends are being teenagers. They don’t have the capacity to check on their “mom-friends” bc they’re still kids. Chill.
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
PERIODT people don't have the capacity to understand that
Exactly! It’s like just because you chose to have unprotected sex and become a mom doesn’t mean the whole world stops for you
All she wanted from her friends was to go to the baby shower though, they couldn't even be bothered to text her that they couldn't make it, please tell me how that's too much to ask for?
It’s the same as a birthday, not literally but event wise, if they can’t let her know that they can’t come or simply come then they were never their for her. Just because she’s pregnant doesn’t meant they all of a sudden don’t have the capacity to check on their friend.
Unpopular opinion: her boyfriend seems genuine. The way he cared that she lost her friends, and feels bad about the whole situation shows he cares about her. Sure he's not excited about changing diapers but I believe the baby will grow on him.
Lmao no way a 19 year old fuck boy like that is sticking around
Dad your name is someone who is nonexistent in most families
carrissa joy no one mentioned race?
carrissa joy nobody mentioned race, he just has a fuckboy vibe and look to him
My uncle was like that about his unborn baby and now she's his whole world and they're inseparable.
THEIR BODY AIN'T EVEN DEVELOPED YET WTF
Yeah thats exactly what I said
wym they had a period so it kinda is-
Well... technically as soon as u have a few periods your body is ready to carry a child. Especially if u get your menarche between the ages of 11-14 years old. What is definitely not developed is your mind. Your frontal lobe does not finish developing till your mid 20’s early 30’s (feel free to correct me im still in school , im not an expert... yet haha)
LITERALLY. This is why I abstained until I was in college. I thought boys were gross. Lmao
I know right, these girls are kids who know nothing of the world and yet... its sad
Im sorry but the girls mom does not look 38!! She look more like 48!.
38???? Damn, I am 40 and I look way younger!!!!! That's a hard 38.
Why would you say something so sadly that's so sad that you would say something as bad asas she looks like she's not 38 she looks like she's 48 people need to start learning how to respect people's feelings cuz what that old saying says what comes around goes around it really does so remember that when you're down and out and somebody puts a foot up your ass let's see how you feel then because usually a person that is a true-hearted person will give you a hands up not a foot up in the ass think about it you don't need that kind of stuff when you're having stuff in your life going on bad you need people to cheer you on and if you don't know that then you must not be a good person let's hope to God that you can understand where I'm coming from if not you need to start reading the Bible may God be with
@Chief Tahchawwickah 🤣🤣🤣🤣😬
Chief Tahchawwickah why you out here trolling these white people 😂
The aunt too!!! A lot of unhealthy habits appearing on their faces. To me they do not look like physically or mentally healthy people.
Someone has to break this generation of young pregnancies. The moms had them young and now they having babies . Hopefully the new babies don’t
They have all girls....sorry to say but history might repeat itself again
Statistically they probably will
plot twist: the babies are already pregnant!
Teen pregnancies are statistically at a low point...
Kendra Strange it’s not even about Stats that wasn’t my point 3 generations had babies young when will it end
My 18 y/o friend is pregnant with a baby girl and I can’t imagine abandoning her over it. I went to her baby shower and it was so beautiful. Being pregnant that young must be terrifying and it’s not recommended but it’s what she wants. Me and my family will be by her side to help her through this tough time. She has lost friends but she’s now surrounded by people that will help and support her.
My baby cousin's mother ( which is my aunt but she's my age , 19, so I find it weird lol) is struggling and my mom and I gladly babysit the baby and we support and I love kids so
But I actually used this as a lesson for what I already know. Never get myself in this situation. Heck , I'm her age and I'm more pissed at my uncle because he's way older than her and still courted and sweet talked her into bed but besides that, I definitely happily support her nonetheless
But I can't call her aunty because it's weird, you're my age lol
Ever think that parents wouldnt allow them to talk to their friend anymore? Before I went into high school my mom warned me that if any of my friends got pregnant that I wouldnt be allowed to talk to them. That they would be a bad influence on me. She wouldnt even let me watch Juno. Every think of that?
@@tsukinoasuna3574 YOUR UNCLE?!?!?
@@Luvlymarshmellow666 @MarshMellow Sounds like a terrible parenting choice to not teach your child compassion for others but rather to shut people out for fear that you "might turn bad like them !!". Yikes
a 16 yr old vs. an 18 yr old getting pregnant is very different. i love babies and love baby showers but my mom would probably not let me go to a 16 yr olds baby shower bc it’s inappropriate
When he said he would never change a diaper I gasped, he better be changing diapers!
FR he like was nah I never changed no diapers I was dieing the look on his face haha
Diosa Mamii stop talking like all men are like that just because yours sucks. My sons father changed diapers, fed him, got up in the middle of the night, does everything for him. Call your man pathetic and lazy yet you still slept with him.
diosa mamii get burned😅👍yo lalalarebecca23 that was a good one👏👏
lalalarebecca23 i mean if you consider your man to be a boy be my guess lady😂😂😂 read the comment carefully then take it up the ass you read my comment and you directly assume i couldve been speaking about your little boy so you sure about that🧐🧐
Diosa Mamii what do you call your man? A BOYfriend. for saying boys are lazy and pathetic you’re calling everyone’s BOYfriend lazy and pathetic. Learn to put a proper sentence together and word your shit right. Stay in school
As she opened gifts she said "I wanted a book so I could read to her, because I'm weird like that".. lol, because reading to a child is definitely what's "weird" about this.
Ansley Navert I noticed that same comment and thought, “What?” 😂
They’re still dumb kids in high school and consider reading nerdy or uncool
Ansley Navert That’s sad! Not even just sad, but pretty damn pathetic!
I think she means it was weird of her to want a book because you usually get diapers, blankets, and clothes. I was the only person who brought books to my cousin’s baby shower.
la Jama fam maybe when you where in school but modern kids don’t think reading is weird at all and we all know how important it is.
The stereotype about teenagers is so inaccurate when compared to modern teens🙄🙄🙄
I’m the daughter of a teen mom. She was 16 when she was pregnant with me and married to my father he was 25. I had my first child when I was 19 my last at 24. My boys r grown with no children of their own just yet. I tried to break the cycle
What did you tell them, to help them? How difficult it was for you, that they should protect themselves while out & about and not trust that birth control is always the girl's responsibility, etc? Whatever you did with them obviously worked, so congratulations. :)
Well people your age and your moms age were mature at that time when you were young. You knew you had huge big responsibilities to take care took it serious and you did. Now a days 19 year olds act and have the mindset of a 6 year old , In fact I know this one girl she is 18 with a kid shes just a horrible horrible mother she had the opportunity to get in the Medical Assistant program for free her answer was oh I do not have time she choose to continue working at walmart oh but she sure as hell have time to party drink and bouncing from man to man. This proves that the z generation is ridiculous.
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 it's amazing how you just insults and generalise an entire generations just because of few bad apples. There are just as many F up people in every generation, its just gen z got the most media coverage.
A 25 year old man getting involved with a 16 year old minor girl like that is illegal.
I mean at 19 your legally an adult so you're not a teen mom😂
I feel like her boyfriend is going to leave her
Yes please🤣💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
FR but I feel like he won't do that
@@Ste_z he seems pretty nice actually
Pretty sure he started date her friend and got them prego! Althought that might be one of the other girls
@@dorisbain9281 no that's not him your talking about another Alex
She can’t get mad for her friends not wanting to show up. At the end of the day these are kids. Most teens don’t want to involve there selves in adult responsibilities. Of course there going to live there life.
True my classmate got her gf pregnant.He Invited our whole section but all of us didn't come coz it was exam that day of the baby shower
Dahyunee Lisaneee wait wtf you mean they not only skipped the exam to do their baby shower but wanted everyone to skip the exam to go????? What????
I also think parents might think she would be a bad influence
@@itskaymclaughlin71 another reason for us not go but we went to the baptism
'There selves'
I'm 25, single, a civil engineer and persuing my post graduation in advanced construction management. Don't make a baby until you make your career.
why are you saying that? maybe some women just want to have children. Feminism is a woman doing whatever she wants with her life, and if they're happy having babies let them be. They could turn around and tell you the exact same thing. "hey I have the most precious thing in my life and what do you have, a career". It's all opinions and points of view. You are not better than anyone, I am not better than anyone either, just because I choice was to get my PhD in clinic psychology, I do not have the right to look at someone as less than me, nor do you.
@@nia5449 Agreed to what you say. It's completely one's choice to wear what they want, have babies whenever they want and do whatever they want. Being a mother is the most beautiful experience in the life of a women. But being a mother is big responsibility too. Right from diapers to education, medical expenses to toys requires money. My point here is be independent before being a mother. Baby doesn't want it, he needs it. Having a baby is a big decision. Only go for it whenever you are financially independent so that you won't have to beg to others for feeding your child. As simple as that. Go and check her FB page. She's single, dependent on parent and still a child having child. SET YOU PRIORITIES RIGHT ALL GIRLS OUT THERE.
It just a prescription. Follow it if you want.
WISE IS A MAN WHO LEARNS FROM HIS MISTAKES, WISER IS THE MAN WHO LEARNS FROM OTHERS.
you a loser.
vrushali nakil i had a baby at 17 got pregnant at 16 and you aren’t wrong in my opinion. I dont regret having my son because i feel like he definitely was the thing i needed to change but still i wish i would’ve been able to have him at a time where i was already done with college and stable. i also tell females and guys dont have a kid until you’re stable and ready to make everything about that baby.
yes well I am mid thirties, a chemical engineer with a masters and a pHD, therefore a Dr, and I have three children, and speak fluently in French and German, and and and, so what? we are all different. God bless.
She thinks reading to her kid makes her weird? Oh goodness......
I read this comment exactly when she said it in the video
Pretty sure she meant reading to her baby bump, not the actual baby itself
I think she meant wanting a book instead of like diapers and stuff
iM nOt liKE oTHeR giRLs
Im QuiRkY
This breaks my heart. My sister got pregnant at 17 and I saw how hard it was for her. It definitely changed my perspective on teen pregnancy. I don’t want to judge but the cycle seems to repeat itself, which is clear in this family. I wish them the best and hope their babies break out of that cycle
Your mother gets pregnant young your chance of getting pregnant young skyrockets. It's cultural.
@@updownstate Just because the mom was a teen mom that is no excuse for the daughter to say oh hey I am going to get pregnant NO! My aunt was a teen mom now her daughter is 31 and having her first kid. So there you have it NO EXCUSES!
@@juliebatalia7946 I'm talking statistics, not making excuses. So breathe.
I hope the father of your sister’s baby didn’t leave her behind like an unmanly coward.
@@updownstate Not sure where you got that information from. But my cousin never become a teen mom. My cousin went to college earn her degree. And had her first when she was ready.So you saying is cultural makes no sense. You can't point fingers at people just because they had teen parents.
I feel like TLC should cancel this show. They are encouraging teen pregnancy which shouldn’t be taken lightly. Bringing a baby into this world is not an easy task. You need to be there for the child both to do physically and mentally. This is just stupid
It's actually showing how bad it is, thus girl is miserable
I don't think so. Watching this kinda slaps tho. It really depends how you view the show.
It’s not encouraging it at all, it’s showing the hardships
I dunno, it doesnt really glamorize it like 16 and pregnant. This has more of a warning behind it.
I think they should show it all over because some countries need to start doing sex education the right way. Instead of telling kids to only abstain, tell them that it’s hard and if they ever have sex there ways to do it safely and prevent stds and pregnancies. They should also tell them what being a mum is about and what’s at stake thus this show. Lastly they should tell them they have a choice if they become pregnant plus parents should be encouraged not to shun them or force them into marriage like Sarah Peilin did.
The 16-year-old sister looks like she’s 12 years old....
ikr I was like she has a kid wtf!
I thought Tiarra was 14.
@@quinntreasure4424 16 is still a kid tho
Why do all these “teens” look like they are in their 30’s?
They all look like Walmart shoppers
Because they're all mothers when they're supposed to because that's why they look so old and it's gross
@@alligurl_fabulous you look 50 tf?
Bigtruckseriesreview Motorsports pregnant hormones maybe?
😂😂
What the fuck kind of insult is that?
I love how Alex's friends came and brought diapers and wipes I just love that ❤
I’m 16 and don’t even know how to take care of myself
Same bro same
That's kinda sad
I'm 22, even I don't know how to do that
25 here, it doesn't get better
17, still trying
I just have to say this... your friends... were your friends. It wasn’t they who changed but you.. you were like them in every way...until you got pregnant.. then you were different.... you became an outsider.. with issues only you had.. you had nothing in common anymore... your moral values were not what they aspire to follow... they want to be kids awhile longer, to be high school students....you chose adulthood.
Damn that's harsh but truth as far as I can tell.
They'll just take it out on every non pregnant, non mommy female they encounter afterwards. NBD
You’re right ! When a teen mom makes an adult decision to make and keep a baby there is no more socialising ! Teens in general want to enjoy life and create memories without being tied down ! It’s unrealistic for a teen parent to expect everyone will be there for them when they should be concentrating on their little family.
That's so true, I'm an adult now but when i was younger all my girlfriends got pregnant back to back and we had nothing in common anymore and i slowly distance myself from them.
Bill browning that was true for me even at 21. My friends were still in school and working towards careers. All of our lives were just starting out, but when I got pregnant our paths changed completely. Most of them have had kids by now, but they’re all in the newborn stage while I’m sending my youngest to kindergarten.
Exactly! Once you decide to become a teen mom your priorities change from your friends and they can no longer call you up to hang out or do these things because you have responsibilities to take care of. All friendships end like this because people’s priorities change they act as if they never experienced this
“I wanted a book so bad so I could read to her, cause I’m weird like that.” Spoken like a true child... It’s not weird, it’s called being a Momma! 🤦🏼♀️
Not trying to promote what she was saying. But I’ve seen 25 year old women say the same kind of stuff. Some people just have quirky personalities
"true friends". All these girls are in high school. In high school no one is a whole human being. Mentally or physically. This family is just a statistic. Aside from their reality tv pay check. It is tragic.
Later you will see them involve me n MLM harassing people to join pyremed scheme
Not to be stereotypical, but cheerleaders don’t always make the best friends or so I’ve heard😢☹️
Erin Fletcher some cheerleaders are mean, but two of my good friends are cheerleaders! So some are nice
Erin Fletcher Ummm... really??? Lol yea ok! 🙄
You watch too many movies.
I dont even have cheerleaders in my school....heck i dont even hve girls in my school....😢
@@proplayershicago7417 wait
How to check that ur friends are genuine
Ans: get pregnant (according to five teen moms)
😂😂😂😂😂😂
If you have to say “when you get pregnant you find out who your true friends are” at their age 🤦🏼♀️ that is honestly just sad
Feel bad for her though
I love your name. I'm a crybaby too.
I wonder if Alex’s friends went to the baby shower for him, or for the free food 😂
Shii I woulda went for the free food too
@@ravenelmasri4441 She had friends of almost a decade and they didn't show up.
Well at least they showed up lmao
@@azekielfenton2082 facts, girls only like eachother when they can get something out of it
@Mia-Jalila that’s not at all true, she just had really bad friends.
I would stand by my friends through anything and I know who would do the same for me
Imagine Being A Grandma In Your Early 30s 😟
It’s sad they didn’t learn from each other and repeated the same thing
It’s not sad it’s great 😅😂🤣
People on this show: 14-18 pregnant Me:18, look 14, never been kissed lol
Kaitlyn mood! Apart from the kiss part 😅 I’ve been kissed 3 times 😮😮
haha same but I'm 16
Haha same but im 23 🙃
Same
@@rosemoon_princess_kitty8723 same :(
5:37 the man in the back me on Valentine's Day💀💀💀💀
Hahaha
My guy🤣🤣🤣
Why would somebody think to make a show outta this? Don’t glorify teen pregnancy
kobe jones is it glorifying or bringing awareness?
It's raising awareness of it
Fair enough. There seems to be way too many teen pregnancy shows on air these days. Need something fresh for young people.
Love Muffin I agree, but’s just like everything sex sales and obviously so do the after affects of sex also! 😂
Because it’s mind blowing that every single one of these woman didn’t lead from their Fuck up
Did anybody told them how to use condoms ??? Jesus 🙄
exactly !! that's like very easy , the easiest thing ever !!!
Condoms break dumbass
Sara McDade did the condoms break for the whole family? Cus this seemed to have happened to all of them
Also birth control...like there are really no excuses
@@berriessylvie1522 they probably shared the broken one
from this video he looks like a decent person. i feel like he’ll definitely stick around. he seemed like he actually cared about her when talking about how she lost friends. although it’s not the most ideal situation teen mothers deserve all the praise
He didn't stick around. Teen fathers rarely do.
@@lauraswann5543 awe. that’s horrible. i hope they’re both doing better without him then
Who else is in quarantine
me
literally the whole world should be
Everyone is dummy.
In isolation. I do not want it.
kayla Philip meeee
She didn’t realize after 5months? Wtf
That Notting new it dose happen,,,
Same thing with me I didn't know I was with my only one son my child was born when I was are about 20 or 21 I don't remember maybe 22 the year 2017 I have only one kid whoo
Personally I was 5 months and it just looked like I gained a few pounds I didn’t start getting a bump until I was 7 months
Jazmin Hidalgo that happens with most ppl
SuzieVert not really, it all just depends on your body structure and genetics, everybody’s different
As someone who was pregnant in her early twenties I do kind of sympathize because I lost a lot of my friends when I became pregnant. But the friends I gained are definitely the best ones ive ever had!
It's kinda like once you turn 20 in this family. You are too old to have a baby
Connie Clark 20 is the new 30 I guess🤷🏾♀️
@Bruh Who Asked? People still have kids at 30, you should put something like 50 because that’s when you start to become infertile
Age 34, and a grandmother.....maybe this corona social distancing will help reduce babies having babies
Eugenicist.
People like this always claim to be pro-choice then turn around and say shit like this “babies having babies” is just disrespectful
Man, I'm sorry to say but what's happening right now is the opposite 😂
“I really wanted a book so I can read to her....because I’m weird like that. “ 🙃
You know when baby showers come along & it's time for games, their family members are pros. It's like the Olympic games & everyone has had plenty of practice.
Always. 😂
I’m 35 and had a baby last year. I can’t picture being a grandma at my age. 😆
I’m 22 and while I don’t hav a child yet, I would MURDER my future child if they got pregnant that early. 😂
M Sch Because people from your age group generation at the time you were in high school you all acted mature and actually had respect for older people now a days high schoolers act like they know everything when in reality the are all stupid.
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 Actually my high school was in the region of France that had the most teen pregnancy in the country. The coal mines shutting down had caused a lot of poverty. I had a friend who had a baby at 14 and was in a shelter because her step dad had thrown her out of the house. She wasn’t the brightest but she was trying to be a good mama the best she could. There was also a lot of incest where I lived. Highest rate of incest and highest rate of alcoholism.
@@msch7620 wow so it so so diffrent then Americans?
@@amazingflowers92vaz38 Lots on similar stories everywhere right.
I remember many years ago, my sister wanted to go to a friend's baby shower. They were seniors in high school. My mom forbade it. I was two years younger than her, and really didn't understand the situation back then. Now I see why my mom didn't let her go.
I feel so bad for her. Even though her friends might not be going through that same stage of having kids I think they should definitely still be there for her through all of this. I know I would if one of my friends got pregnant.
this whole episode is just them being upset about loosing their friends, what did you expect was going to happen? you thought you were gonna gain friends?
Being pregnant doesn’t automatically mean you loose all your friends...
And I feel bad for her coz she probably though she was closer with them than she actually was
@@cherrypancake9584 I mean if you wanted to keep your teen friends you shouldn’t have been stupid enough to get pregnant. While I’d support my friends I don’t want to have to be with a crying baby when I want to hang out. Family won’t always be there to raise a teens baby( as they shouldn’t) and I don’t like children nor do I want any so I’d rather not be bothered caring for them since I’ve had enough of looking after children in my own family.
@@onepunch2310 oh go fuck yourself you dunce
@@MinSuga-ze9vt you must be a teen mom...
Y'all are so harsh these are KIDS that made MISTAKES. No one deserves to be alone everyone needs a friend
for most teens and young adults, they cant even fathom having a baby at that age. They do not understand the gravity of the event. Your family does because theyve had babies.
“Having three girls together, they can grow up together”
Yeah and become a teen mom too like you guys.
Daughters of teen moms are 3 times more likely to become teen moms themselves.
I feel bad that no one showed up for her , but at the same time it’s like wouldn’t you think they don’t have anything in common anymore like you have a child I don’t. Sn: I would have definitely showed up for the babyshower I love stuff like that!
i dont blame her friends for not showing up. like they are still kids and having a friend your age pregnant can effect them and they are still kids living like kids so if you chose to get pregnant at such a young age then you should've known that people would leave your life or act differently around you cause they are still kids and shouldn't be worrying or having to check up on a mum their age.
It's the fact that parents won't allow their daughters to attend a teenage friend's baby shower while most of the teens nowadays are engaged in a premarital sex (protected or not). Why just let them go?! Let them see their consequences if they made the same mistakes. Parents should be possibly aware of the things that might happen to their children.
Very smart opinion on the matter. Make it a learning experience and to be there for the poor friend.
if your daughters see a big fun party it might end up doing the opposite
I’m was so close to likely your comment but the “let them see the consequences if they make the same mistake” part is just scream nosy church auntie vibes I can’t
And @Srs Lee no one goes to a baby shower and thinks “I’m going to take one 18 years of responsibilities just for one party” they might like the way it looks and think about doing something similar *when* they have a baby but not the other
Baby shower are a big fun party. I don’t think anyone would walk away from that thinking about consequences😂💀 maybe have them baby sit a new born or look at how much baby stuff cost
Yeah you gonna lose your friends. You guys have nothing in common anymore. I learned that as well when I got pregnant. I lost all my so-called friends
I wonder if my girlfriends felt this way about me cause i myself did this, only cause i didn't feel it was ok to get pregnant so young and i still wanted to be a kid and have my fun.
I have a friend who got pregnant during high school. We went our separate ways because her baby became her life now. Being a Mother is different than being a high schooler. A high schooler is suppose to have freedoms to do as they please. A Mother does not. Her focus is on her baby. Not to say that we don’t talk or meet when we can, but life changes after children. Your life is no longer yours. In respect of that, I chose to not see her as often so she can take care of her baby. I didn’t leave because I wasn’t a good friend. I left because she doesn’t have the same freedoms as me anymore.
I agree with her friend when she said if you’re not coming then at least say oh I can’t come. It’s much more respectful to announce you won’t be able to show up.
Kind of weird the younger sister go pregnant before the older sister
Wtf is wrong with them🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
i can’t believe her 16 year old sister had a baby almost a year and a half BEFORE HER
Her sister had a kid 8m before she did
It’s videos like this that stop my baby fever right in its tracks. I can wait.
Smh, this is lack of parenting
wow she’s the younger sister and she already had a baby. that blew my mind.
Usually it’s the older sister that becomes a teen mom first and then the younger sister.
Now she's 18 with 2 kids and the cousin also has 2 kids
alex has good friends, they even brought gifts like they r supposed to. mad respect.
When I was young my friend got pregnant at 14, and when my parents found out they didn’t let me hang out with her anymore and she was no longer allowed at our home and family parties. I was sad and mad about this bc I wanted to be a good friend and show my support, but now I realize that my parents were doing what they believed was the best for me.
Maria Escamilla yes at 14 you should be still playing outside with your friends, not having sex. Teens nowadays only care about having a relationship and being with someone. Instead of enjoying the one life given to them. And that’s coming from me who started dating my husband, at 14. I still kept my youth. And now I’m 19 and married to him. We’re enjoying our life without kids, for now. There’s so much life to start a family with but rn I’m still a teen/kid. I don’t want a kid😂
koolk22 That’s different, while it was gross because that was the only purpose of a woman, the old men had money and could provide for them. Kids these days aren’t having kids with men that can provide a better life they’re having kids with other children who obviously wouldn’t be able to take care of a wife and child.
koolk22 you don’t know what was going on in the 1400’s😂
BellaAndJohn Have you ever heard of records and accounts? They kept records of who got married and the ages they got married. There were a lot of 35 year old men with 14 year old girls.
You’re blessed with good parents
honestly so heart warming to see the boyfriend being there for her unlike others
HOW MANY OTHER PREGNANCIES WILL OCCUR BECAUSE OF CORONAVIRUS QUARANTINES?
I’m trying NOT to get my chick pregnant so I can keep my money for car parts.
💀
Yeah dont be a ricer #drewpeacock
Well you already have your baby CAR you wash change the tires and oil hahaha🤣🤣😂
My dude just wrap it and pull out 😂
There will be a generation of corona boomers
Ey yo, stuck inside in my house and watching random videos on my recommendations cause im board af cheack
Same here sis
I have other things I should be doing but...
Bored***
Her boyfriend is the boyfriend everyone wants. He seems so sweet and she is so lucky to have him. That is the boyfriend that will never leave their girlfriends no matter what!!!!
It's easy to fake charm for the camera.
He’ll probably leave. Just the responsibility of a baby that early on means his life is pretty much over
He left her.
One of the hardest lessons is learning the friends you thought that would be there forever actually don’t care about you, especially the ones you’ve known since elementary school. After graduation* friends slowly grow apart/you stop taking altogether. It’s a part of life we all go through, still sucks.
You were just friends to pass this time together. Sad but true.
her friends’ parents may not have condoned their daughters to hang out with a young girl that is pregnant, let alone celebrate that. They may have been too shy or felt bad to reach out and let you know.
Poor young mother, she is doing such a wonderful job and has such a sensitive soul. Your true friends are there for you no matter what. Good on you for having that blessing of a baby. You do whatever you love with your life and raise that child to have a wonderful loving home xo
Well, the only thing I can say. The parents did a great job, NOT..
"I've never changed a diape-"
*spits out lemonade*
BOI YOU BETTER START OR I-
Don't clown him, it is easy to learn
I feel so bad that none of her friends showed up. Like if my friend got pregnant as a teen, I would still be there for them. Like that is rude, if I was her friends I totally be there for her every step of the way
Mom: If your friend got pregnant, would you go and get pregnant too!
These girls: Yes
I love how the boyfriend feels bad for her
He really cares
This is why strong fathers are needed in the home, not my daughter!
‘You loose alot of friends’ I had mates I went school with who ended up having a baby very young, tbh it wasn’t anything bitter the older you get you kind of just stop being friends and start making new ones anyway. I also I felt like we were just different people, we didn’t have anything common any more. Our priorities were very different, we didn’t had much to talk about, it was all very dragged and forced. I wished them all the best but I just didn’t want to be around all of that especially when I come from a family who don’t believe in sex before marriage! There was no way I was gonna introduce them to my family and make them worry about me. I don’t think there needs to be any shaming done if people just don’t want to be surrounded by it anymore. You made your decision and you should let others make theirs. Pressure should never force a friendship.
its nice to see a nice father on this for a change! sending love and best wishes, im sure they will raise a lovely child X
He left her.
My Aunt was a teen mom. Her mom was against it (Because her mom is the only one grinding since she is still going to school, and her papa passed away) but she accepted her granddaughter with all her love. I'm so happy they're now a good happy family, the father takes good care of the child and also supports the familu.
Aight no hate but the girls in this fam rly gotta learn how to keep their legs closed 🤦🏽♀️
Exactly
@Ana Paula Casta�eda De La Cruz or birth control
especially coz they are soo young
It takes two but I agree 💯. Birth control is 💯 the female’s responsibility. It’s her body and should have more respect for herself.
@@Hank760 birth control is not 100% the girls responsibility. What kind of stupidity is that
It’s so gross your sister 16 and she had a baby you’re 18 you’re about to have a baby and your cousin is whatever how old oh that’s different but you should be getting a baby when you’re like 20 to 25 but when you’re a teenager come on
Leah Thompson and 20-25 is still too young, many educated women would barely still be starting their careers
@@eloisaduarte2954 It is better then a stupid 15 to 18 teenager having a kid.
It’s so nice that their mums are so supportive of them and are helping them for the baby shower 🥰
Honestly good on that family for being so supportive
Beening a teen mom really steals the youthful years.
Regardless of if her friends weren't allowed to go or didn't want to go to her baby shower, she still wanted that support from her "friends." I had a friend who had a baby when we were 16 and although we weren't necessarily talking at the time, I still supported her when we got back on good terms. I still check on her and her daughter and send gifts when her daughter's birthday comes around.
This is actually something that happens even with adults, having friends but then you decide to have a family you invite them to the festivities and they never show up or stop talking to you. It's not just with teen moms it happens all the time, some people aren't just ready to settle down and some might but the people who distance from you it's because they're also not ready to mature and take responsibility as it is. This happened to me without being a teen mom and it's hard cuz people have different points of view and they just think having to stop talking or hanging out because they wanna keep partying and puke in an ubers car. I like party's but I also like having my stability of being a mom and responsible. It's just what it is
the babies are lucky theyll get to spend longer time with their mother and grandmother than the rest of us
Not lucky being raised BY a child. They’re missing out on so much. There’s too much struggle and neglect involved
I'm 32 and not even a mom! I can't even wrap my mind around being a grandmother in 2 years. And thankfully I won't have to!
I’m these girls age and I haven’t even had a boyfriend and these girls are having baby showers and planning their wedding