How much money do you think they (judges,court, lawyer's,etc.) get if no child support is awarded through federal subsidies (aka taxes)? Therefore it leads to know this is a legalized money scheme by our country to make men slaves to the machine and socializing the country in one shot while ruining the future generations. Yet nothing is done.
I haven’t had a chance to see my son in 5 years. I’ve flown to Sacramento from las Vegas 8 times and when I get there it’s always an excuse why I can’t see him. I’ve bought 6 plane tickets for him and they never show up to the airport. It’s not right.
This is typical behavior with American narcists women end day all them are same not matter what's a men married w a ángel and divorced from devil on person
You caught that too. I would have called that out immediately. This was on recording and he could loose his license. But we live in a country where this sort of thing goes unchecked and rarely corrected.
@evrettej All of you who voted in this election, are they gonna fix this part of the legal system or are they going to let men suffer like this again? Think about it and realize the system itself is staying exactly as it is. Trump isn't fixing this, and neither was Kamala.
Going through this now. She won’t allow him to see his child without supervision because she is afraid he will be able to exert influence and disrupt her tyranny.
This judge shouldn't have a judge. He is not impartial at all. She has done something illegal and ignores a court order and he's talking to her like the dad is at fault
That's just it. There is no court order for parenting time yet. It's only an agreement between the parties. She can withhold parenting time because she doesn't agree to it. But, when the friend of the court report is submitted, there will be a hearing that will be deciding parenting time. Whether she likes it or not. This hearing is just the beginning of that process. It most likely will be standard parenting time because they can't work it out themselves. Then she can be held in contempt for not following court orders. She's in control now, but not for long.
Wait, so he was awarded 50/50 custody but wasn’t entitled to seeing his daughter unless the mom agreed? Theres no way the courts see this as fair to both parties And then the judge starts to give the mom help? Im sure there’s no bias at all!
Yeah, so they can add up all the days the mother didn’t allow the father to see their child as a way to force the father into paying more money. “Oh, he’s been a deadbeat, he hasn’t helped at all, I’ve been doing it all by myself”, yet she’s been refusing that same help all that time. A lot of judges nowadays allow these immature women to weaponize the very system their job it is to enforce. It’s goofy man, these judges build their retirement messing over the men in family courts, there is an incentive to do so. They should all be fired
@ so many cases like this. And it’s really just to get more money out of the dad. I wish politicians cared about these issues that affect men daily. They would get my vote 100%
If I understand it right it was an agreement not a court order. And she has physical custody. So essentially it was a verbal agreement between mom and dad with no recourse if she didn’t follow the agreement. The shit part is that if the father didn’t pay. Hold support it would be held against him.
He's doing it so she can't complain later that she was given bad advise or wasn't aware of the importance of the fact that she will be treated like a lawyer despite having no training. He is pro-actively shutting down a means of appeal if the future hearing doesn't go her way.
The courts even now are so incredibly biased towards these toxic women it's almost impossible for men to get a fair hearing. It's disgusting and the worst part is they are denying children the input of the father while being left with the mother to brain wash them into believing it's the father that's abandoned them.
Fun fact a woman can drop the child over at the man’s house leave and never return but also still have you on child support. This happens a lot ask your local office. You will have to get a lawyer and then go from there. But how are men supposed to put aside money to afford a lawyer while being on child support ?! Don’t know. You can literally have proof and you still have to pay about 4k-8k in lawyer fees
If you as a man prove that you have physical custody of your child via the mom giving up the child to you then she is no longer entitled to support and the father is actually entitled to support. You just have to file with your local court which depending on the state often times doesn't require a lawyer to do or prove.
This is a good point. The problem to my is that there's no plan or desire for split custody by default in the case of an oow birth or divorce. The custody goes to the mom by default a lot of the times and the dad has to bare most of the financial burden associated with going to court and getting custody.
Women who withhold visitation with the dad for no good reason, are vile. It only damages the kids. This judge is horrible. Why in God’s name is he calling her by her first name? Eyebrow raising.
@12:02 absolute audacity for this judge to give this woman free legal help. All he has to do is tell her she'll be treated like a lawyer. Gloves off on this nasty excuse of a 'mother'
If he can come by to see his child, because its really because you miss him and want to see him, then he can take his child home for the weekend smh She's a goof ball
If more woman were held in contempt for this maybe more woman would stop this crap. But if it was man best believe he’d be locked up. As a woman I am so disgusted the courts allow this.
DECADES of mothers ABUSING THE SYSTEM ON PURPOSE and they STILL haven’t done anything to give the fathers any type of power whatsoever, not even the power to stop paying child support if she is proven to break the parenting rules
@@Reezy12333 the court system is like chess. You cant win unless you know how to play. And yes you can use this. Its true. The courrt system basically has people running to the steps yelling but in order to win you gotta read those books
We are not supposed to know law's that's where the phase " ignorance is no accuse" , because we know right and wrong intuitively. " THE LAW is for the lawless" and "he who lives by THE LAW will die by THE LAW".
This happened to me, a lot like this. She eventually lost custody when my daughter was 10. My daughter still loves and sees her mother but she thinks shes an idiot. She knows what she did, she knows what it cost her own childhood and she resents her mother for it. She loves the fuck out of me. She recognizes the struggle I had to go through just be her father and today were best friends. I have a relationship with her that is crazy strong because we were both victims of her mothers stupid actions. Like this mother.
I have a similar story, my daughter has cut her mentally disturbed mother out of her life, her mother has never had contact with her grandchildren and they are now young adults.
When I was young I used to pick my daughter up on the bus and bring her back to my home and her mom would tell me to bring her right back or she will call the police on me. I'm so glad I survived all of that!
It's time for father's that are willing to get a Lawyer to start getting Laws changed in favor of Father's Rights. Start Petitioning Congress to change the Laws.
I'm in! It's crazy how many women's health committees are in congress. Yet every time men try to create them, they go no where. Women always talk about women this and women that, and good for them. It's our turn to start fighting for our respect and dignity too!
I just want to say I’m a 57 yr old female I’m old school and I also enjoy your show. I agree with most of everything you say. Modern women of today are out of their minds. It’s disgusting and I’m not for any of it
This is not a problem of today. Respectfully, women of your generation are even worse when it comes to parental alienation. Just that there was no camera to expose them. Gen-z is in many ways, more conservative that the 3 previous generations
It is so upsetting that we don't know the whole story between both parents, but I've experienced the judge denied me every weekends because the mother said she can't trust me and with out proof she agreed with the mother my eyes open wide and looked at my lawyer can they do that. It sucked that I could do anything.
Yes and he appears to be very familiar with her, it makes you wonder if there isn't some history between them. Whatever the case he shouldn't be a judge he's biased as hell.
I would have called that judge out immediately for giving advice. The fact that its recorded should help the father if he had the money to pursue further litigation..
Bet judge wouldn't be so nice if he stopped child support. He is a man trying to be a dad not an ATM machine To the people who plan on running for president in 4yrs if you want the male vote fix family court
It’s despicable that the court system considers “ Standard parenting time for fathers “ to be the 2nd , 3rd and 5th ( if that month has 5 weekends) weekend each month and typically a Wednesday or Thursday during the week.
I would stop paying her child support until she allows the father to get time with his child since it was just an agreement to pay her child support and not ordered to by the court
my brother is going through this after his divorce. She had an attorney and he didn’t. He all but gave up his rights. She claimed she’d never keep his daughter away from him. And has sole power of visitation and time. And moved from Ga to NY anytime he tries to arrange for individual time it’s a problem or it depends on who he’s dating. Hindsight he should’ve known better she did the same to her first baby daddy. She wasn’t even raising that child yet kept him another state away from the dad.
These mothers don't care that when they punish the fathers because they fight get their way, they are also punishing their children. Your children will grow up to resent you, especially this day in age, being able to save messages and record calls from your phone is a saviour for dad's and mum's being punished by spoiled brat Co parent. Save everything and only communicate through text so it's all in black and white. Get a court order that it has to be written
I fought for my kids. Never will I just roll over and say oh I'll just wait till they get older. I fought hard in a mother state where mothers mostly get custody. In the end I got full custody of both my kids without a lawyer. Never underestimate the will of a man that is dead set on getting what he wants.
@evrettej for every story of a father's victory comes 10 stories of defeat. I don't have any answers but I know plenty of men, with means, who have lost to family court.
And what's with the judge calling this woman by her first name? He acts as though he personally knows her. Could he be a friend or something of that? If so, he should recuse himself.
what a racket. lawyers and attorneys diddling around for months and multiple hearings at who knows what cost…unless there is credible evidence of abuse, not sure why we have to over-think that it’s in the best interest of the child(ren) to see both parents as much as possible.
Look.Honest to God, I’m going through this right now. The greatest thing you can do is study the civil rules of procedure and best interest factors. She’s not being coached. He’s telling HIM what he has to do to put this in his favor. You MUST learn the rules to the rule book. This is mainly about procedure. Forget anything else you’re learning right now, and learn the law. Learn to case cite, and read between the lines. Court is show and tell. And on GOD, I’m snitching on everything shorty done did. I’m out for blood. I haven’t truly enjoyed contact my son in 3 years. It’s difficult when you have to learn a discipline other than your primary. Imagine graduating with a medical degree and going through initial training, and having to learn at the same time. The only thing an Attorney can do for me is teach me legalese and make the burdensome tasks of thinking and doing in their primary, Law, while I am in mine, Medicine. God bless that Judge. I truly hope homie was listening. The magistrate coordinating my case ain’t busting chops. He’s giving guidance this exact way. Prepare like an Attorney, and WIN like an Attorney. I EXPECT TO WIN!
I have seen judges provide a little guidance for people that are not represented by a lawyer (men and women), it isn't uncommon. They aren't going to give legal advice, but will at least tell them what they should have to prepare for the next hearing/trial. It will still be up to that person to submit motions, provide evidence and prove their case.
He's a White Knight. All White Knights secretly believe she will have sekks him. It is absolutely horrifying this scumbag has been doing this for thirty years!
Thank you so much for showing this madness. I have a friend who’s been going through this for years. He doesn’t even need a lawyer anymore because he knows the e law better than most of the lawyers he’s hired! The system is broken
So the judge has time to give her legal advice but doesn’t have time to work out the child seeing the dad? It’s clear that she has no intention, or incentive, to allow dad any visitation. And it’s crazy ironic the plaques that she has on the wall in the background - “love never fails” - unless your vindictive ex doesn’t allow your child to see their father with the courts looking away while it happens. Shame on the judge for allowing (and effectively promoting) this to happen! Also, calling her by her first name (while she has a different last name than the father) and then calling the father by his last name says everything that you need to know… Shameful!
11:37 the problem is that judges are incentivize to go with wood can be monetized the most. so if the judge in this case switches custody to the father, then the mother would have to pay child support. With the mother pay child support more than likely she makes less money that that’s less child support payment and that’s less money. The judges will receive in their funds.
Went through this nobody cares or even wanted to help me my son will be 23 next year haven't seen him since 2 years old so in the end i am the one who carries the pain with the child while the other parents feels justified. Reflecting back on my experience and where i am at now i don't care anymore and his mother will pay for her crimes against maybe not in this life but she will get it. Many women wonder why they get treated like trash but yet they never ever see the damage in their wake of lies and emotional deception 💯
Judges should be disbarred if they provide assistance or additional information to the offending party or their defense. This can significantly alter the outcome of the case.
Dreadful abuse of the legal system. Mother is a classic example of narcisstic mean disgraceful entitlement. Why is it that Mom is automatically given custody , Dad pays child support etc yet has to fight for the right to have his child in his life equally ?
This is one of the main reasons why i dont want a child. This is one of my biggest fears in life. I do whats right for my child and i end up dealing a bitter baby mother. I want a family of my own someday. I dont want to ever have to deal with the court system. The court system always sides with the mother more than the father. Good fathers do a lot for their kids, and the bitter baby mothers tell kids that they aint ish. It's not right.
My son is in the same situation. He hasn’t seen his daughters in 3 years, but his paychecks are garnished without fail for child support. His lawyer wants $5k he doesn’t have to take his ex to court.
Disgusting!! The dad wants to be there in his child's life and Continues to pay child support yet the "mom" will NOT let them have contact much less a loving relationship.🤔 "Mom" DON'T use your child as a bargaining chip.🤨🤯
My son’s situation. My son has spent a fortune. The courts made the judgement in his favor. But she refuses to comply and the courts do nothing to back their own order. The police will not get involved. And every time my son had his time she would accuse him of something outrageous and my son would have to pay his lawyer to fight the case. Not once was she punished for filing false accusations.
Any state that allows abortion at any time must also allow the man to abort his financial responsibilities for that child. If a mother has the choice to murder her child, the man has the choice to pay for the child.
This is absolute lunacy. As a childess 35 year old, I feel for these dudes. The amount of anger and despair must be unbelievable. I don't know how you even get up in the morning, let alone go to work. This stuff is anti-child, anti-man, and flat out anti-human. It almost feels like a lack of right to self-defense in a very real way. Slavery without the ability to action. The state has completely over stepped. Thats putting it lightly. The way they weigh these cases in favor of these overweight and unhinged dependas needs to be overhauled.
@ Yes bro, they do. In addition, everything a child is placed in foster care, the state agency gets the average of $50,000 from the Feds and the agent(s) on the case gets a percentage of that. That’s why they be quick to wanna take your child away.
I will never understand how male judges continually allow men to be screwed.
These ev'il women must be held accountable. This us why men are no longer commiting to women. It's not worth the risk.
@@florenbaron7111just choose better.
@@lmichelle80sbaby the laws applies regardless of who he chooses therefore you have a point... choose better...none of them!👍💯
They are White Knights. They secretly believe these monster women will have sekks with them.
Because the state gets a % of every child support payments, so they are incentives to screw people's wallets as much as possible.
Another bitter baby momma exposed yet society turns a blind eye to this devilish behavior. 👀
Tbh this is part of the reason why our birth rates are declining
How much money do you think they (judges,court, lawyer's,etc.) get if no child support is awarded through federal subsidies (aka taxes)? Therefore it leads to know this is a legalized money scheme by our country to make men slaves to the machine and socializing the country in one shot while ruining the future generations. Yet nothing is done.
Men, never marry a modern woman. They abused the privilege.
I haven’t had a chance to see my son in 5 years. I’ve flown to Sacramento from las Vegas 8 times and when I get there it’s always an excuse why I can’t see him. I’ve bought 6 plane tickets for him and they never show up to the airport. It’s not right.
This is typical behavior with American narcists women end day all them are same not matter what's a men married w a ángel and divorced from devil on person
This judge is lousy! He should NOT be giving legal advice to mom.
You caught that too. I would have called that out immediately. This was on recording and he could loose his license. But we live in a country where this sort of thing goes unchecked and rarely corrected.
Should recuse himself
It's OK - she is a woman! If it was a man... 🤨
@evrettej All of you who voted in this election, are they gonna fix this part of the legal system or are they going to let men suffer like this again? Think about it and realize the system itself is staying exactly as it is. Trump isn't fixing this, and neither was Kamala.
He's a White Knight. He secretly thinks she will have sekks with him. All White Knights are like this.
Every Judge and prosecutor in the family court system should have their cases audited and reviewed for bias ad misandry.
Going through this now. She won’t allow him to see his child without supervision because she is afraid he will be able to exert influence and disrupt her tyranny.
This judge shouldn't have a judge. He is not impartial at all. She has done something illegal and ignores a court order and he's talking to her like the dad is at fault
That's just it. There is no court order for parenting time yet. It's only an agreement between the parties. She can withhold parenting time because she doesn't agree to it. But, when the friend of the court report is submitted, there will be a hearing that will be deciding parenting time. Whether she likes it or not. This hearing is just the beginning of that process. It most likely will be standard parenting time because they can't work it out themselves. Then she can be held in contempt for not following court orders. She's in control now, but not for long.
Wait, so he was awarded 50/50 custody but wasn’t entitled to seeing his daughter unless the mom agreed? Theres no way the courts see this as fair to both parties
And then the judge starts to give the mom help? Im sure there’s no bias at all!
Yeah, so they can add up all the days the mother didn’t allow the father to see their child as a way to force the father into paying more money. “Oh, he’s been a deadbeat, he hasn’t helped at all, I’ve been doing it all by myself”, yet she’s been refusing that same help all that time. A lot of judges nowadays allow these immature women to weaponize the very system their job it is to enforce. It’s goofy man, these judges build their retirement messing over the men in family courts, there is an incentive to do so. They should all be fired
@ so many cases like this. And it’s really just to get more money out of the dad. I wish politicians cared about these issues that affect men daily. They would get my vote 100%
If I understand it right it was an agreement not a court order. And she has physical custody. So essentially it was a verbal agreement between mom and dad with no recourse if she didn’t follow the agreement. The shit part is that if the father didn’t pay. Hold support it would be held against him.
All that "FREE" legal help to the mother.
He's doing it so she can't complain later that she was given bad advise or wasn't aware of the importance of the fact that she will be treated like a lawyer despite having no training. He is pro-actively shutting down a means of appeal if the future hearing doesn't go her way.
The courts even now are so incredibly biased towards these toxic women it's almost impossible for men to get a fair hearing. It's disgusting and the worst part is they are denying children the input of the father while being left with the mother to brain wash them into believing it's the father that's abandoned them.
That judge needs to be removed from that case!
That judge should be removed, period.
sad. using children as props to hurt others.
The judge knows exactly what he's doing
He's a White Knight. He secretly believes she will have sekks with him. I would not be surprised if some of these whores had sekks with him.
He's a White Knight and like all White Knights he believes she will have sekks with him.
Child support should only have to be paid if the other parent gets to see their kids.
Child support should be only after a 10 year marriage dissolved. Other than that, do away with child support.
Fun fact a woman can drop the child over at the man’s house leave and never return but also still have you on child support. This happens a lot ask your local office.
You will have to get a lawyer and then go from there. But how are men supposed to put aside money to afford a lawyer while being on child support ?! Don’t know. You can literally have proof and you still have to pay about 4k-8k in lawyer fees
If you as a man prove that you have physical custody of your child via the mom giving up the child to you then she is no longer entitled to support and the father is actually entitled to support. You just have to file with your local court which depending on the state often times doesn't require a lawyer to do or prove.
This is a good point. The problem to my is that there's no plan or desire for split custody by default in the case of an oow birth or divorce. The custody goes to the mom by default a lot of the times and the dad has to bare most of the financial burden associated with going to court and getting custody.
Female priv&ilege
Women who withhold visitation with the dad for no good reason, are vile. It only damages the kids. This judge is horrible. Why in God’s name is he calling her by her first name? Eyebrow raising.
It also damages the fathers.
@12:02 absolute audacity for this judge to give this woman free legal help. All he has to do is tell her she'll be treated like a lawyer. Gloves off on this nasty excuse of a 'mother'
If he can come by to see his child, because its really because you miss him and want to see him, then he can take his child home for the weekend smh She's a goof ball
If more woman were held in contempt for this maybe more woman would stop this crap. But if it was man best believe he’d be locked up. As a woman I am so disgusted the courts allow this.
Laughing at the word salad that these courts use is something they gonna have to answer to God for
The judge calling the mother by her first name is wrong. Makes me wonder if something is going on there
I don’t think that lawyer appreciates the judge.
Does anyone think, if it was vice versa, do you think the judge would have told all that stuff to the man?
I think he only wants sekktual favors from her.
DECADES of mothers ABUSING THE SYSTEM ON PURPOSE and they STILL haven’t done anything to give the fathers any type of power whatsoever, not even the power to stop paying child support if she is proven to break the parenting rules
People aren't supposed to "NEED" a lawyer to get justice. That tells me that it's not about what's right.
The system has never been about what’s right lol it’s all about money
@@Reezy12333 the court system is like chess. You cant win unless you know how to play. And yes you can use this. Its true. The courrt system basically has people running to the steps yelling but in order to win you gotta read those books
@ nah, winning is based on if the system benefits or not hence why men get put on sc with no hesitation.
We are not supposed to know law's that's where the phase " ignorance is no accuse" , because we know right and wrong intuitively. " THE LAW is for the lawless" and "he who lives by THE LAW will die by THE LAW".
@Reezy12333 What is sc?
This happened to me, a lot like this. She eventually lost custody when my daughter was 10. My daughter still loves and sees her mother but she thinks shes an idiot. She knows what she did, she knows what it cost her own childhood and she resents her mother for it. She loves the fuck out of me. She recognizes the struggle I had to go through just be her father and today were best friends. I have a relationship with her that is crazy strong because we were both victims of her mothers stupid actions. Like this mother.
Your daughter will NEVER forget that. She is lucky to have you in her life. The best of luck to you both. 👏🏾 👏🏾
I have a similar story, my daughter has cut her mentally disturbed mother out of her life, her mother has never had contact with her grandchildren and they are now young adults.
When I was young I used to pick my daughter up on the bus and bring her back to my home and her mom would tell me to bring her right back or she will call the police on me. I'm so glad I survived all of that!
BW are the worse mothers!! Did she also threaten you with child support if you didn't give any amount of money she asked for or demanded?
It's time for father's that are willing to get a Lawyer to start getting Laws changed in favor of Father's Rights. Start Petitioning Congress to change the Laws.
I’m for this. I am shocked a movement hasn’t started already, but I’d definitely back it fully
I'm in! It's crazy how many women's health committees are in congress. Yet every time men try to create them, they go no where. Women always talk about women this and women that, and good for them. It's our turn to start fighting for our respect and dignity too!
Agreed. People have to take advantage of the declining birth rate and let it be known that men will have less children because of the unfair laws.
Yall dont realize the basis of this male space here on youtube started with this premise! Theyre called mens rights activist
All this nonsense, the mother just needs to comply and let the father see his child. Can't stand women like this!!
I love this Judges reaction when she answered the lawyers question about visitation. I’m glad that he has real common sense!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I just want to say I’m a 57 yr old female I’m old school and I also enjoy your show. I agree with most of everything you say. Modern women of today are out of their minds. It’s disgusting and I’m not for any of it
This is not a problem of today. Respectfully, women of your generation are even worse when it comes to parental alienation. Just that there was no camera to expose them. Gen-z is in many ways, more conservative that the 3 previous generations
It is so upsetting that we don't know the whole story between both parents, but I've experienced the judge denied me every weekends because the mother said she can't trust me and with out proof she agreed with the mother my eyes open wide and looked at my lawyer can they do that. It sucked that I could do anything.
Dont miss that the judge called her by her first name multiple times.
I think he's already banging her.
Yes and he appears to be very familiar with her, it makes you wonder if there isn't some history between them. Whatever the case he shouldn't be a judge he's biased as hell.
That judge is a disappointment!!
She doesn't deserve shit
No, she does deserve shit.
Does she work..?
I wonder how much of tax payer money for this "child support" racket does this judge get for his retirement?
If im not mistaken, its 20 to 30%
Did the judge give Alison legal advice?
I would have called that judge out immediately for giving advice. The fact that its recorded should help the father if he had the money to pursue further litigation..
Bet judge wouldn't be so nice if he stopped child support. He is a man trying to be a dad not an ATM machine To the people who plan on running for president in 4yrs if you want the male vote fix family court
I after and if Trump was smart enough this would be the perfect time to place laws in order to make the family court system fair towards men
Judge should be disbarred !!!
At least disciplined..!
I believe this is not a judge but a judicial master
It’s despicable that the court system considers “ Standard parenting time for fathers “ to be the 2nd , 3rd and 5th ( if that month has 5 weekends) weekend each month and typically a Wednesday or Thursday during the week.
She seems like an awful person who likes to belittle him
Hands up if this is too familiar in here 🤚. If you don't have the money for a lawyer, you're screwed.
They aren't supposed to give legal advice and he is telling her what to do. He is not being partial!
These judges need to be more open. How would they feel if it was their children. If more would do that then these cases world go better
This video is an example of the Court system and the family laws bias against men. This is BS. This video makes me upset.
The judge is biased af
I would stop paying her child support until she allows the father to get time with his child since it was just an agreement to pay her child support and not ordered to by the court
That smirk
my brother is going through this after his divorce. She had an attorney and he didn’t. He all but gave up his rights. She claimed she’d never keep his daughter away from him. And has sole power of visitation and time. And moved from Ga to NY anytime he tries to arrange for individual time it’s a problem or it depends on who he’s dating. Hindsight he should’ve known better she did the same to her first baby daddy. She wasn’t even raising that child yet kept him another state away from the dad.
Friendly reminder that mandatory paternity testing before the birth certificate is signed penalizes nobody except gold diggers and scammers.
The gentleman is very smart to get a lawyer.
These mothers don't care that when they punish the fathers because they fight get their way, they are also punishing their children. Your children will grow up to resent you, especially this day in age, being able to save messages and record calls from your phone is a saviour for dad's and mum's being punished by spoiled brat Co parent. Save everything and only communicate through text so it's all in black and white. Get a court order that it has to be written
This judge should be pulled out of court. Horrible.
The divorce laws need to change
I would pay my CS and wash my hands of the situation! I'll wait till my kids get older and reconnect with them!
Amen
I fought for my kids. Never will I just roll over and say oh I'll just wait till they get older. I fought hard in a mother state where mothers mostly get custody. In the end I got full custody of both my kids without a lawyer. Never underestimate the will of a man that is dead set on getting what he wants.
@evrettej for every story of a father's victory comes 10 stories of defeat.
I don't have any answers but I know plenty of men, with means, who have lost to family court.
@@evrettej Good for you, however, a man should not have to FIGHT, for his kids 🤷🏽
And what's with the judge calling this woman by her first name? He acts as though he personally knows her. Could he be a friend or something of that? If so, he should recuse himself.
what a racket. lawyers and attorneys diddling around for months and multiple hearings at who knows what cost…unless there is credible evidence of abuse, not sure why we have to over-think that it’s in the best interest of the child(ren) to see both parents as much as possible.
Look.Honest to God, I’m going through this right now. The greatest thing you can do is study the civil rules of procedure and best interest factors. She’s not being coached. He’s telling HIM what he has to do to put this in his favor.
You MUST learn the rules to the rule book. This is mainly about procedure. Forget anything else you’re learning right now, and learn the law.
Learn to case cite, and read between the lines.
Court is show and tell. And on GOD, I’m snitching on everything shorty done did. I’m out for blood.
I haven’t truly enjoyed contact my son in 3 years. It’s difficult when you have to learn a discipline other than your primary. Imagine graduating with a medical degree and going through initial training, and having to learn at the same time.
The only thing an Attorney can do for me is teach me legalese and make the burdensome tasks of thinking and doing in their primary, Law, while I am in mine, Medicine.
God bless that Judge. I truly hope homie was listening. The magistrate coordinating my case ain’t busting chops. He’s giving guidance this exact way.
Prepare like an Attorney, and WIN like an Attorney. I EXPECT TO WIN!
I have seen judges provide a little guidance for people that are not represented by a lawyer (men and women), it isn't uncommon. They aren't going to give legal advice, but will at least tell them what they should have to prepare for the next hearing/trial. It will still be up to that person to submit motions, provide evidence and prove their case.
Why is the judge wasting time coaching thr woman!
He's a White Knight. All White Knights secretly believe she will have sekks him. It is absolutely horrifying this scumbag has been doing this for thirty years!
Lesson learned be careful who you sleep with
That doesn’t change anything lol the Christian women do it too
Thank you so much for showing this madness. I have a friend who’s been going through this for years. He doesn’t even need a lawyer anymore because he knows the e law better than most of the lawyers he’s hired! The system is broken
This judge needs to be disbarred.
*HER:*
“But why do I have to cooperate with the court? I’m the mother.”
So the judge has time to give her legal advice but doesn’t have time to work out the child seeing the dad?
It’s clear that she has no intention, or incentive, to allow dad any visitation.
And it’s crazy ironic the plaques that she has on the wall in the background - “love never fails” - unless your vindictive ex doesn’t allow your child to see their father with the courts looking away while it happens.
Shame on the judge for allowing (and effectively promoting) this to happen!
Also, calling her by her first name (while she has a different last name than the father) and then calling the father by his last name says everything that you need to know… Shameful!
I agree with your comments. Thank you for all your work.
That lawyer did nothing for that man 😤
11:37 the problem is that judges are incentivize to go with wood can be monetized the most. so if the judge in this case switches custody to the father, then the mother would have to pay child support. With the mother pay child support more than likely she makes less money that that’s less child support payment and that’s less money. The judges will receive in their funds.
“Isn’t 6pm anytime?” gotcha bih 😂
Went through this nobody cares or even wanted to help me my son will be 23 next year haven't seen him since 2 years old so in the end i am the one who carries the pain with the child while the other parents feels justified.
Reflecting back on my experience and where i am at now i don't care anymore and his mother will pay for her crimes against maybe not in this life but she will get it.
Many women wonder why they get treated like trash but yet they never ever see the damage in their wake of lies and emotional deception 💯
Sounds like she takes the child support. Looks like she would want him in her daughter’s life. 😮.
Historically that's the way it goes in Washington State! It's highly unlikely Mom will see any punishment in those courts!
These mom’s need to be arrested for failing to obey a ruling.
I tell my son never to put himself into this situation.
Judges should be disbarred if they provide assistance or additional information to the offending party or their defense. This can significantly alter the outcome of the case.
Dreadful abuse of the legal system.
Mother is a classic example of narcisstic mean disgraceful entitlement.
Why is it that Mom is automatically given custody , Dad pays child support etc yet has to fight for the right to have his child in his life equally ?
It’s a matter of she hates her more than she loves her own child. End of story.
This is one of the main reasons why i dont want a child. This is one of my biggest fears in life. I do whats right for my child and i end up dealing a bitter baby mother. I want a family of my own someday. I dont want to ever have to deal with the court system. The court system always sides with the mother more than the father. Good fathers do a lot for their kids, and the bitter baby mothers tell kids that they aint ish. It's not right.
That so called judge belongs in prison! Let him play mummy & daddy!!!
You should never hate the child’s parent more than you love the child!
Trump administration change these laws asap
The father has the right to see his child. Where the Justice .
The judge advised her and scolded him.
She clearly hasn't washed her hair
So basically, if a child is born out of wedlock, the court will automatically make the father financially responsible, but give him no legal rights.
Yhe judge said the secret out loud "We even used to play with this..." I am so thankful my son never had children!!
My son is in the same situation. He hasn’t seen his daughters in 3 years, but his paychecks are garnished without fail for child support. His lawyer wants $5k he doesn’t have to take his ex to court.
Just found your channel and I absolutely love your content especially the court ones. Please never stop 🤣
While men have been in disfavour with our legal system, we are now in The Age of Aquarius. Slowly it will change, while women don't even notice it. 🤫
Actually, I thought we were reentering the Stone Age.
You Wouldn't Believe Me, If I Told Ya.😒
Seems not fair only one has a attorney to speak for him
Looks like the crazy girl from Teen Mom.
Disgusting!! The dad wants to be there in his child's life and Continues to pay child support yet the "mom" will NOT let them have contact much less a loving relationship.🤔 "Mom" DON'T use your child as a bargaining chip.🤨🤯
I'm starting to see why men choose to be out of the child's life. This is infuriating.
My son’s situation. My son has spent a fortune. The courts made the judgement in his favor. But she refuses to comply and the courts do nothing to back their own order. The police will not get involved. And every time my son had his time she would accuse him of something outrageous and my son would have to pay his lawyer to fight the case. Not once was she punished for filing false accusations.
Any state that allows abortion at any time must also allow the man to abort his financial responsibilities for that child. If a mother has the choice to murder her child, the man has the choice to pay for the child.
What an absolutely ludicrous statement. Grow up.
Whtf did i just watch? Seems really odd the judge knows this girl by first name.
This is absolute lunacy. As a childess 35 year old, I feel for these dudes.
The amount of anger and despair must be unbelievable. I don't know how you even get up in the morning, let alone go to work.
This stuff is anti-child, anti-man, and flat out anti-human. It almost feels like a lack of right to self-defense in a very real way.
Slavery without the ability to action. The state has completely over stepped. Thats putting it lightly.
The way they weigh these cases in favor of these overweight and unhinged dependas needs to be overhauled.
Overnights count towards child support payments, they are important.
Just incase you don't know, these judges get a percentage of the CS for their retirement.
What?
@ Yes bro, they do. In addition, everything a child is placed in foster care, the state agency gets the average of $50,000 from the Feds and the agent(s) on the case gets a percentage of that. That’s why they be quick to wanna take your child away.