TODD WHITE'S ADVICE ON MARRIAGE
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- Опубліковано 21 лис 2017
- TODD WHITE GIVES ADVICE TO HUSBANDS.
"...understand covenant with Jesus..."
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This is so important.
Eric Gilmour 😭😭😭
Despite what a lot of Protestants teach marriage is for life there are no exceptions, well done Todd for teaching the Biblical position
I say amen to what Todd said. Marriage is meant to last. However there is a very important point that some people might neglect and it is the choice of the partner which should be very carefully made with the wisdom of the Father. God has a purpose for each of us and our close relationships should be in line with that purpose. This is especially relevant for marriage. My desire is to marry according to God's heart for me.
Seth Landry absolutely beforehand. But me and my husband didn't know God when we married. I got saved..he then made a decision but then ran from truth..But absolutely I have such a passion for marriage..Todds testimony of his marriage confirms God is the redeemer when those of us who didn't choose with God before we got saved...he turns it all around x
Lou King Amen!
Lou King I hear the sound of redemption from these words of yours. May the Lord use you mightily for the thriving and restoration of many many married couples.
Seth Landry You are very right and my exact thoughts! After we have carefully made the choice of a spouse under God and we apply these principles, things become easy. However if we made our own choice and run into trouble there still is Grace to overcome, it starts with making your way back to the cross. There is deliverance for the lawful captive. God's goal is to save!
Amen! 🙏
This short message is really so powerful.... thanks Tod..we love you and Your ministry.
It is so good to see within this comments section that there are so many men (and younger men) who seek to please God by Seeking Him first. I pray God continue that desire within their hearts. Therefore their desires line up with His abundant Good desires for their life, and therefore, they and their wife (of God's choosing) shall both find satisfaction primarily in Christ and therefore be more able and willing to love each other as they Should.
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Amazing advice! Thanks for sharing!
I never get tired of hearing you speak, your words Inspire me. Marriage is the most amazing thing if God is always at the centre of it.
Man I'm on a divorce process...please pray..I still love her and my girls..
Geovany u have to pray dear
Love never fails. Even after divorce. Pray feverently.
Geovany me too
I want restoration so bad
@Geovany God heals, according to your faith: search the scriptures for yourself and you will see this to be true. This includes healing of a marriage.
Therefore, have faith for a full restoration of your marriage and you to your wife and children whom you love dearly. I stand in agreement with you in your prayer of thanks that God will restore your marriage, if you will stand in agreement with my prayer for your marriage to be restored.
If you need more reassurance, I encourage you to listen to this video again. And also, ask God, aloud in prayer, to help build your faith and trust in Him (if it does not look like He has done so already) God is more than willing to help you fulfill His desire to trust Him and to build up your faith. All you need to is to let Him.
In short, it would be very unwise to let pride keep you from accepting God's help, by attempting to do everything yourself in your Own strength. . .But I assume you know this. But I kindly remind you anyway, just incase you did not know, or forgot.
Yesssssss!!! So many people don't want to here this extremely painful yet purely beautiful truth💖💖💖
Amen brother Todd. Thank you Holy Spirit for the truth that convicts and loves us to be like Jesus.
YES! so good! loved it
Great Todd. I can witness that if Christ lives in you and you love her in Christ He will make us able to bear our cross and then we discover that that cross (in Christ and His love, not out of it) becomes our love for her as could never be without Him. Todd God may bless you for the wisdom you share. Amen
Amen! 🙏
Powerful I love my wife thank you Father God
I got engaged today. ❤️
So good !
Thanks Todd I’m not wavering He has shown me a Love I never knew… and I Love this new found love.
So awesome.
My desire is to marry who the Lord has blessed for me
That’s my daily prayer
@Daniel Pratt and @Nombulelo Ndlela ,
Seek God and His Kingdom with All your heart, mind, and soul, and all that you desire will be added unto you. This is true because when you seek God and His Kingdom with All your heart, mind, and soul, His abundant Good desires become your desires. And He loves very much you and also very much loves fulfilling all that is good that He wants for your life.
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But do not forget, because it is our spirit that is renewed in Him, not our flesh, we still will make our own selfish choices once in a while and then suffer consequences for them, and others' choices sometimes too . . . But be steadfast and never let all that keep you from praising God for all the God He Has brought about in the world.
Everything that is truly good is truly from him.
And everything that is not is not truly from him.
. . . Though, the father of lies will try to trick you into blaming God for some things that cause sadness and/or loneliness, and sadly, sometimes succeeds . . .
@@nombulelondlela6004 why are you messaging my partner
@daniel Pratt, who is your partner lol?
@Elizabeth, thank you so much 🙏
thankyou for sharing todd
May someday soon I can find that I have so much to give.
Been married over 50 yrs.MARRIED BEFORE we were saved. One shoe doesn't fit all but I chose to stay the course regardless of the cost.Maintained a forgiving attitude but I warn you , you reap what you sow and it can be for a life time.But if you don't let it harden you , you will learn invaluble lessons. Not just for you but for others with marriage problems. One thing stands sure ,your relationship with God will deffinitely grow. Not all pastors have you or your marriage's best interest at heart. Som have their own agenda or some doctrine outside Gods word.Seek the Lord if there is no peace in his counsel. Sometimes seperation is necessary till things can be reconciled . Sometimes you just make the best of a bad siduation till God lrads you into a win win siduation. Both husband and wife should experience victory.
Gods wisdom works and it does better sometimes without you putting your finger in thr pudding. When things seem impossible count the cost. If really no peace (follow after peace)it may be best to seperate.
Hope this helps someone. Love in Christ
U got that right Tod
Yes yes yes AMEN
Would love to post my testimony here but all I can say is amen Todd. Xxxx there stuff I still don't understand but all I know from experience is a supernatural love is given when we surrender to the love God has for our partners.i only found a few among many who agreed with me that God can reach the unreachable in the natural. When his love for them grips your heart no circumstances will change it...addiction adultery abuse you name it. It's a ministry of reconciliation back to the Father not in the natural that's the most important. You become an interceser ..Christ becomes enough for us. .not a marriage xxx
Lou King if you want to share your testimony go to yahweh stories! on youtube.
Amen!
Help me Jesus
This struck a chord!
Mind blown!!! So good!!!!
Sylvia C hey how u doing, sorry to have bothered u. I just thought I would ask how are u doing.
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Cameo Lopez hey how are u doing. God Bless You. In JESUS name
Cameo Lopez, I seen where u watch Sid Roth watch the show where Jesse Duplantis is on his show it's so awesome. U may like it
I love Todd. What about abuse? persistence unrepentented emotional and psychological abuse? My loving father told me it was time to leave and as is beloved daughter he wanted to protect me. My former husband is not a believer and loves the world.
I remarried and I was adulterous and I believe this. What do I do?
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If you repent of your adulterous re-marriage and return to your covenant spouse, God will forgive and restore your covenant marriage. The covenant you made with your first spouse still stands and that is the covenant that God honours.
Todd the higher ground when a man or women violates the marriage covenant through unfaithfulness is to forgive and continue with the marriage, however, Jesus did teach the only grounds for divorce is adultary because by committing this act the person who was unfaithful was consideredthe the other to be dead and nullifying the marriage covenant.
Being allowed to biblically doesn't mean it's God's desire, nor a given that you should. Everytime you lust you commit adultery, and yet God doesn't divorce you. Every moment of idolotry is adultery. Just look at the book of Hosea. What we're 'allowed' to do and what we should do are not necessarily the same thing.
Todd come to Kohima
People love to forget the Bible says just a couple verses before that submit one to another. There is no footnote or clause that says with the exception of husband's to wives. I've heard the great Billy Graham preach this before.
Todd has preached on this reality as well. Heard it myself. This is a short car ride video. not meant to be an exposition on the topic.
I don't think that Jesus just fixes everything because you love him. We live in a fallen world and unfortunately even if you get saved, you still need to be transformed and that can take a lifetime depending on just how many trials you have been through. Marriage is for the earth and not for heaven. I mean most people live their lives going after getting married which won't even be in heaven. I believe that Jesus can teach you how to love but it is not going to solve all your marriage problems nor does Jesus solve all of our problems period. Take me for example. I got saved at 13, I love Jesus and have spent a ton of time in His presence. Yet I have also spent almost my entire life being verbally abused by my family to the point where I have CPTSD and constantly fight getting myself out of flashbacks. Tell this to a religious person they want to just quote scriptures at you or tell you to get into the presence of God. Not all problems that are in the earth are solved by heaven. Why do you suppose? Maybe the reason is that is who we become that is important and what we walk through is part of that becoming. So loving your wife in the natural is more about the man that you become? Can you do it in of yourself? No but what can you do apart from Jesus? I think that is the point. So while I agree there is super on our natural, I believe also that not every thorne in the flesh is removed for a reason. Would I love to be healed? One day I may be, but has one moment in the presence of God healed me yet? No. I think it pays to be a little bit practical. I think if I marry the man that is in my life, sure I would love him through Jesus however if he cheated on me I would be so outta there. Just saying. I don't care if I spent my life single because I have pretty much spent it living as a nun. haha He would be so out of my life. We cannot fix others and I don't think "loving someone via Jesus" means allowing bad behavior in your life. It's why I do not talk to my family, because I am not ok with being abused. It nearly killed me from the health issues it causes. Sometimes you have to be practical too
The cross is transformation, our lives are being confirmed into His image.... it's a change if perspective & what you believe....Romans 12:2...believe you're transformed & you'll live that way
@@kimsvlog8765 +Aimie Montgomery- Aimie - I didn't say it, but I apologize for the response you got regarding your post about how your family abused you and it made you physically ill.. That response was insulting. Kim --The cross transforming us doesn't change the fact that families and spouses can and do abuse you to the point of even severe physical sickness, and when one is disabled already, it sure doesn't help your situation. When your spouse claims to be saved and treats you like you hardly exist because your disabilities keep him from what he wants from you, so he decides instead to make your life more miserable than the pain from the disabilities already does..How would Aimie's living transformed end her being abused? Or mine? I KNOW that I have been transformed by Christ, but it doesn't stop the pain of his daily neglect and abuse. We CAN be transformed in Christ, but that does NOT change how anyone treats us, neither can we change any another person who does NOT want to be changed. It CAN change how we react IF we have the means to either stop or get away from that abuse. Not all of us do. The Bible commands that we "comfort one another", and sorry, if I were Aimee and you had given ME that advice, I'd be insulted. You clearly have NO idea what it is like to be made physically ill from another's abuse - of ANY kind, no matter where we are ub Christ, -fact is that we DO lean on Him..and I pray you NEVER do. Aimie, my prayers are with you, I KNOW your pain ALL too well. Praise God, you ARE away from it. Of course, it always hurts more when it's your own family. Or spouse....
THE BIBLICAL TEACHING ON DIVORCE AND REMARRIAGE, by Leslie McFall. Critical reading for Everyone.
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What if the divorce and remarriage had already happened?
Flora Blauvelt don't worry bro! 1 John 1:9. You keep living all for His glory in your new marriage. Condemnation is the devil's game. Your past is past, it doesn't have to define your future, so don't let it! ;) blessings ❤️
So a wife is the representative of Christ for her husband and vice versa...
No... husband/Christ, wife/Church ..marriage is a reflection of Christ & His Bride.
I agree with almost everything you say Todd Love you so much !!❤️ But I will say that in some cases a person should leave . Abuse physical emotional or sexual . Abuse of your children. And even cheating is a form a abuse . I don't believe God wants us to stay in such cases .. I feel it is important to address that !
Please Todd ur such an influence to people . I pray Jesus show u that u should address people not stay in abuse including cheating as a form of a abuse .
If one of your daughter's was married to a man who refused to listen to God . Who constantly watched porn or cheated , hit her constantly belittled her or her children perhaps molested them ..would u say yes stay ???
I say forgive, try again and if it doesnt work go separated ways... DO NOT TAKE THE ABUSE IN ANY TYPE OF WAY!! DONT GET SICK FOR ANYONE..GOD BLESS!
NO KIDDING.
Amen to the message! Sadly Todd has joined Copeland in falsehood, but May the true Gospel of Christ still go forth!
What are u talking bout
Todd White is the real deal. Let's not believe lies.
Totally Scriptural....“And Jesus said to them, "Because of your hardness of heart he wrote you this commandment. But from the beginning of creation, 'God made them male and female.' 'Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.' So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate."
And he said to them, "Whoever divorces his wife and marries another commits adultery against her, and if she divorces her husband and marries another, she commits adultery."”
Mark 10:5-9, 11-12 ESV
1st Corinthians 11:14 KJB Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long hair, it's a shame unto him?
The teaching is of contentious or Controversy? Which a Nazarite is. Is one who sets himself apart to the Lord. Numbers 6 and Psalms 87 bro. Bless you man
@jesusYESreligionNO I Corinthians 11:16 "But if anyone seems to be contentious, we have no such custom, nor do the churches of God."
clearly states we aren't under such customs.
I'm sorry, but I can't agree with you Todd White. When you look into history, there were such a great men as Zinzendorf or Wesley, and many others, who definitely had perfect relationship with God but they had horrible marriage. And it wasnt because of lack of praying but they simply didn't care about their wifes. You can't advise men to focus on Jesus. Even it sounds wonderful and spiritual. If you don't focus on loving your wife too, your marriage will end pretty badly.
There's no way they had perfect relationship with God. No one does. Maybe they had lots of revelation and a good relationship, but perfect? By focusing on Jesus you will love your spouse well. By focusing on Jesus you'll do your job well. By focusing on Jesus you'll love one another well. You cannot be in perfect relationship with jesus while simultaneously sinning against man. This is why the psalmist, in recognizing his sin against another said "I have sinned against God". Any man who loves his wife would recognize his sin against her parents if he harmed her, for she is their child.
Jan Andrýsek He saying by making your relationship with God through his son First, you will be able to love your spouse as Christ loves the church. It's an order thing and s prior thing. You love your spouse then you have children, but those kids never come before your spouse, they are fruit of your relationship with your spouse. You spend time with your children and love them but the order is your spouse first.
John Wesley was NEVER married...he was I religious nut who was in love w/ a young woman almost half his age & struggled w/ "flesh" desires because of her but wouldn't marry her because he made his "own" vow of celibacy to God when God didn't call him to it...I read his biography.
Jan Andrýsek it is impossible to have a perfect relationship with God and a terrible marriage... this defies spiritual reasoning
He lost me at, "I suppose you can search the scriptures..." Well, yeah. That is what we are called to do for all life. The very things he was describing about who we are and Who God is come directly from the scriptures. What God commands, forbids, or allows in scripture (whether I want to support my feelings or opinions or not) is still true and worthy of trust, because God said it. There are many marriages that have gone through adultery and are able to go through the process of reconciliation, and when that happens, that is wonderful and that is what most people would hope for. But the reason that Jesus states that a spouse is lawfully permitted to divorce because of porneia is because that is how much importance God puts on the sanctity and importance of the covenant of marriage. It's not to be trifled with, because He said so. And a man or a woman who is ongoing and unrepentant in their sexual sin against their marriage can only be saved whenever he/she is given over to the enemy in hopes of dealing with the consequences, in hopes of repentance and return. A spouse that decides (under much godly counsel) to divorce his/her wife for unrepentant sexual sin is not sinning or acting unbiblically. They are actually following what God has provided.
Jesus says in Mark 10, Moses allowed a certificate of divorce because of hardened hearts.
From reading your post
I pray that “habitual sexual sin” of a spouse doesn’t hardened a heart. The love spouse can still see God, still see love and pursue reconciliation through Gods eyes.
We all were born broken, and God didn’t break his covenant with us because of our sin, he pursued us more...
We need to understand when the Lord says “I desire mercy, not sacrifice”
Solid on this topic......still a wolf though.
Need to look up the biblical definition of a wolf. Otherwise you're simply doing the enemy's work even if you don't know it.
You need to get some discernment. Justifying the wicked is an abomination. He is part of the ecumenical movement that is leading to the one world religion. WAKE UP AND BE NOT DECEIVED!!!!!! MANY CALLED, FEW CHOSEN.
Awakened Won you ever met him? How can you judge what you’ve never met. If you had he’d tell you the same as he tells all who call him a wolf “I love you”
Todd white preaches the gospel, and doesn’t compromise. He often talks to muslims and tells them the truth of jesus as king and lord. He prays to one god. I only glorify god now because god used this guys preaching to save me. I spent hours a day as a 15 yo watching his videos and having my mind blown over what the gospel actually means and I am jesus’ because of it. He’s on the right side :)
What does God say about abuse? An unrepentant abuser?
Love love love. Forgive. Pray pray pray. Forgive. Forgive. Ask JESUS to protect you, guide you, shield you and be your refuge. HE will do exactly these. Just never seek divorce, trust GOD to change your husband and protect you. I’ve seen JESUS change my dad at the age of 16. My dad is not who he was before. My mother still has her husband of 35+ years because of prayer and choosing to forgive unconditionally and the man he is now makes me forget who he was then. & For my mother she is the most joyful, strong, and sweetest woman I know. THANK YOU JESUS CHRIST!!! HEAVENLY FATHER BE GLORIFIED!!!!#longsuffering #loveneverfails #loveconquersall
@@ark198989 no, & this is the problem w/ the church...yes God wants restoration in marriage & favor the family unit, however He DOES not want women & children to be abused & the church keeps excusing this behavior rather than confront it & women are left in that situation waiting on God to change it while they are being abused.. is that the heart of God? God also will not force anyone to change, we have free will & some people will refuse God's help & intervention & divorce IS not option for the safety & well being of the woman & sometimes children. I was abused & no one did a thing!! After 14 years, he refused God's help & change while I got left there to continue to deal w/ it...then when I left, he decided to start to get his life together but uses the bible to tear me down & manipulate...the church needs to open their eyes!!
Kim's vlog Greetings, May HEAVENLY ABBA bless you and keep you beLoved. Keep the faith, JESUS is coming. 🙏😊🌹🙌
@@ark198989 people die this way. God hates divorce because he sees it as violence against women. So can't you see, God hates violence against women. This is why there are exceptions for divorce.
Study the word. God does end covenants. That's how we have the new covenant. God divorced Isreal. Under the new covenant Jesus gives the same principle as before. Every situation is different and you should ask the Lord what to do, not man. Just because you are a son under the new covenant and that won't change. Doesnt mean you are the bride. He isn't marrying his son because that would be weird. God is a relational being. He speaks in terms of relationship. We have wives husband's fathers mothers sons daughter etc. Your right about Christ and the church and loving each other in that way. You should have a relationship with the Lord where you are experiencing that love and being taught to love in that way. Teaching people that they shouldn't look to the word to see what God standard for continuing in a marriage is not correct. This has held people in abusive relationships for years. This comes from a lack of understanding. God isn't going to put up with it but he wants you to. Whom the Lord loveth he corrects. Being an enabler of abuse in any form weather they are doing it to you or theirselves is not how God operates. He does want them free and for the marriage to be how he intends. If they aren't and don't want to be than that is their choice. I lay before you life and death choose life. Choose. The gospel is about telling people they have a choice but they have to choose it. Freedom is available do you want to be free? This is what the Lord has shown me you have to ask him to show you. Things get lost in translation or misinterpreted. We are all learning.
I think Todd your the kind of man that distorts the truth of Gods word. He does not need more of your kind in the world do not make light of people stepping out side of their marriage vows you have said some other things that were not so Jesus and God are one they are not separate Jesus is God and God is Jesus they are holy.
I’ll be honest. Just that mustache alone is enough for me not to trust this guy. 🤷🏻♂️
He looks like predator from the movies
i have advice for you Todd: repent or perrish
What specifically do you have against him?
he denies the diety of christ its a prosperity ghospel and about feeling goed. the firetunnel is at least spiritual dangeroues. and it remind me strongly of kundalini. you should watch ministry of witchcraft about todd white heidi baker bill jonson and john bevere. what he and his buddys do is twisting the ghospel and preaching another christ its a doctrine of demons. i wish him the best like a christian should do. i hope that you follow NO man. christ alone can save us.he was and is and will ever be god. bless you
hakim nemer
Ok I just watched the first twenty minutes of that video but its an hour and 43 minutes long and I don't really feel like watching the whole thing. My assessment based on the first twenty minutes is that the guy who made the video is jumping to conclusions and although he does have some good points I can't take him seriously because he's clearly making these guys look even worse than they are. I agree that not all miracles are from God and that we should test the spirits. The thing about Todd is that I haven't seen him do that energy ball thing. I've only seen him do healings and preach the Gospel. Also I don't think that he denies the diety of Christ.
ihe says he believes that jesus was born as a man and not as God. thats wrong and heresy. he also believes that jesus went 3 days to Hell when the bible clearly says he gives his spirit into his fathers arms and before he died he said it is finished. todd preaches a gnostik jesus. look at the people he is teaming up with and asking for millions to build the kingdom of God together with is diabolik friend kenneth copeland. please dont be decieved that are lying signs and wonders. dont believe me check it with scripture. love and blessings
Can you show me evidence that he thinks Jesus is only a man?
Suddenly, this charlatan is an expert on marriage? You mean God did not give him a word of knowledge on marriage? God has talked to him so many times what happened?
Interesting never have heard from the wife.
I'm not sure what your point is but what he's saying on marriage is so biblical and spot on. Can't complain about true teaching.
Dirk Friedrichsen The point? If you have listened to some of his other messages which are flat out frauds now he wants to illicit credibility by being an expeet on marriage? And then this message without the requisite miracle, a word of knowledge or hearing from God or some such nonsense like "God told me". Give me a break.
He's the kind of guy who puts scripture first. He studies it everyday. A lot of people have criticized him and he's actually repented of certain things and changed. He didn't grow up in a Christian environment so he's had a lot to learn but he's actually changed in a positive way over the years.
Instead of bashing and tearing down, how about encouraging and building up. I use to be the former but Jesus changed me for the better. God bless you
J.R. Lopez This guy is as Satanic as they get, because he dazzles you with some swirl, some tidbit of spiritual knowledge you lap it up like you were listening to Jesus Himself while at the same time overlooking all the other garbage he has you mesmerized on.
So good!
I see you!
Alexandru Horatiu Mesesan love you dude