Homegirl was just waiting until she got the ring. She's a golddigger, same as the family. I bet if OP said he got fired, she would instantly call off the engagement.
This girl doesn’t love you she sees you as her personal bank it’s time you drop her before it gets worse. It’s very obvious she has been bragging to her family about the amount of money you make .
NTA. Unless you ignore the Red flags. RUN.
Homegirl was just waiting until she got the ring. She's a golddigger, same as the family. I bet if OP said he got fired, she would instantly call off the engagement.
Leave her she's using you for money
Leave her
This girl doesn’t love you she sees you as her personal bank it’s time you drop her before it gets worse. It’s very obvious she has been bragging to her family about the amount of money you make .
RUN
LOANS require collateral. and Interest. And a written repayment agreement.
Put her to test by telling her u got fired and fined or sued or something and about to lose most of ur money. See if she stays.
They are gaslighting you.
No run