Re-Play Love And Marriage How To Love A Woman! Final

February 2022 Series
Love And Marriage Part 2
How To Love A Woman!
Overseer Andre Landers
Man’s responsibility to the woman.
1.Have a Christ-like love for her.
2.Commit himself to her spiritual development
3.Care for her as much as he cares for himself.
Be clear and confident about who you are, Be affirmed by your relationship with God! We all need affirmation but there is no source of affirmation like that which comes from God! Christ gave up his life for his bride.
We must become comfortable with it not being about us! We have to learn how to serve her. Sacrifice, it’s not about being right but loving rightly!
It is important to follow God’s order but that does not mean her role prevents you from certain tasks around the house!
A woman can grow spiritually while she is single! Please don’t misunderstand! But married, we as men are called to grow her spiritually. Jesus was committed to our spiritual well being, So should the man be for his wife!
Her opinion should be considered when making a decision about where to worship, and when no agreement can be reached the man is responsible to make the decision and is held accountable for the outcome! If you make a decision and it negatively affects her growth you made the wrong decision!
It’s not about Lordship its about leadership! We seek to Equip and Influence through action and example!
It’s important that he cares for her as much as he cares for himself. A man that can’t love his wife has trouble loving himself! Abuse, abandonment, adultery reveal internal chaos within! It is not the fault of the wife but proof of a flaw in the man! There is an emptiness, a void or unhealthy view of oneself! It is an unrighteous attempt at repairing a broken self image! It’s unsettling. This is why self love has become such a priority or rallying cry for women! If a man won’t do what God’s word commands, I must do it myself, I will not be denied! If he won’t love me I will love myself!
Sounds good and empowering, until you find a man who wants to love and lead! Now we have a power struggle!
Today’s Scripture:
Ephesians 5:25-29 (NLT)
Philippians 2:5 (NKJV)
Ephesians 5:21 (NLT)