you're kind of right, but so is he. Also a lot of people chose to be here. bro also uses filter to hide his acne scars and wears make up so @lemongrab7635
He didn't say yall aren't supposed to have feelings. He said masculine men don't let their emotions control them. But really, that's not just for men. Adults in general should operate like that.
asking my girlfriend what she wants is just me being courteous and loving and nothing beyond that. i love her and what she wants is important to me, even if it’s a small thing like where we’re going to go for lunch. that’s not feminine dude i just care about her
Exactly. Can't say masculine men are providers and then expect us to make all the decisions on our own. If my girlfriend wants to be provided with ice cream and I bring her a salad instead because it's what I FEEL she should eat, then I'm not providing quality, just quantity.
You need to lead if you want to eat that, she gone eat that too or don’t it’s simple, 99% of women never know what they want, remember the moment you get emotional attached you already lost her
"Being emotional is feminine. You need to be stoic" This is so tired and played out. If you think this way, the only emotion you'll show is anger and be deeply depressed.
@@user-ex3nl8k0l Yeah well I'm the opposite of you and it's not true. I have a powerlifting total of 1715 lbs. I have 20 inch biceps. Women don't care at all. You only get some women who are into niches or you get stuck with crazy women who want you to beat up their ex.
Dude u need education or what? All the things he summed up were literally just facts... if u enjoy being feminine man then have fun marrying a masculine woman who you are probably gonna divorce with in a few years and then become depressed af.
Remember, not letting your emotions control you doesn't mean to invalidate them or bottle them up. It is healthy for everyone to talk about their feelings with a partner or a close friend.
Ofc talking a bit about your emotions with your closed ones can be good and healthy but the video wants to say that you should be still able to control it in most situations and be stronger than it as a man. For example, being agressive in public is a no go for men.
Imagine, someone working 60 hour weeks in construction who goes 50/50 with their spouse is less masculine then the sole provider sitting down for most of their day creating UA-cam content.😂
alright, I'm a feminine male... and so what? I'm still satisfied with my life... I'm smart, I make enough money for being able to buy everything I want, I have as many girls as I want, I am good at sports, I am a great musician, I have the best friends I could ever ask for... and all of that while splitting bills 50/50 and being emotional 🥺
Don't take this too seriously. Your statement seems like a healthy balance. Having some feminine personality traits is a good thing and doesn't make you a feminine man. Also he's trying to make feminine personality traits look like a bad thing but same can be done to masculine personality traits. In fact, neither feminine personality traits nor masculine personality traits are bad by nature. Even attraction and sexual preferences are very individual. Many women treasure men with some feminine traits and a good overall balance.
If you make money and if you're actually smart, that's very good then for you. But going after many girls is just childish, letting emotions control yourself is an absolute no go and splitting bills equally won't last long trust me. U may be happy now with your feminity but don't think it will be forever lmao.
Women are indecisive. You should know that. No, I'm not misogynistic. Even women that are close to me like my mom understand women are indecisive. You should know her interests but you should also understand that most women tend to be indecisive and you should try to plan dates yourself and be clear and concise about time and location.
It doesn't and you already know this. To me it means your emotionally mature enough to respect and be caring to those you love. This video is hilarious
Actually, I ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch and eat to make her happy. I know exactly what I want, I choose to put her first and make her happy, above my needs.
Exactly, I put her wants first because I know she does the same for me and has made SO many sacrifices to be with me. And whenever she's too indecisive, I'll make the decision for her.
That may work for you, and I hope it continues to. The only issue is most women really are indecisive and think like kids. They’re pampered people and just need to be told what is going to happen. For example my girlfriend will hmm and ahh about a restaurant if I ask. So I just say “we’re going… at …. Get ready for ….” And she does. Plus since I’m paying I go where I want to eat. My mate does it how you do it though and it works for him. Each to their own
nice, a girlfriend but if you want to get married and stay married, you'll stop asking your gf what she wants all the time real women want a leader that knows where he's going, not somebody that's always asking her what she wants because you're too afraid that she won't go along with your ideas
Just remembering that, as Jung pointed out, every man has an inner feminine side. Embrace your masculinity, but don't suffocate yourself in the process
Honestly, I’d choose the feminine man over a toxic masculine one every single day of the week. Ain’t nothing wrong with crying sometimes. It’s normal. Why is it okay to laugh when you’re happy, yell when you’re angry… Why can’t you cry when you’re sad? Also, there’s nothing wrong with being affectionate towards your partner and allowing them to make decisions.
I don’t believe any of this is true. As a man who’s been through a lot sometimes being sensitive is what keeps you level and stable and a good support for those around you on top of that being 50/50 is perfectly fine you have to consider peoples situations and lifestyle choices before you give a one sided based opinion that could have real effects on young men this just sounds like some bs alpha male crap
I like having quality time with the woman I’m with so yeah I’d say I’m needy, want a deeper relationship. Would also say everyone’s emotional, being human… knowing when to let those emotions out is key
From what I heard, he makes a lot from these videos so he can provide for his girlfriend. A real man puts providing the woman in his life with the best life possible above the opinions of broke jealous haters. I disagree with a lot of what this guy says, but he’s right for following the money. Money will pay for their dates and the college education of any children they may have. Simply “working for a living” won’t necessarily do that depending on what the work is.
@@johnmartin4641 thank you. I had no idea that money can be used to provide for a girlfriend and pay for kids education. You can actually use the money for stuff?
@@johnmartin4641 the contradiction is insane, just because he needs to provide for his girlfriend coming to the internet and telling false information to get money won’t make him right
My dad earned way less compared to my mom, he is not at all a feminine man. A guy let’s his emotions take over when needed. A man doesn’t have to bottle his emotions at all cause if he does he will be depressed and broken. Trust me I know what it feels holding feelings for 3 years in college without trusting anyone there. I talked again with some high school friends and they helped me with my head and got me on the right path again. Men talk to other men about their feelings. Nothing feminine about that.
Well if i had to break down all the 4 traits in men that are not nessecarily feminine: 1. This is just on upbringing, it just means that you have a very bright neurology and/or your hormonal levels(testesterone) are chipping up. A lot of men who take steroids experience this. Stoicism isn't about being unemotional, but more like not letting negative emotions lead your actions. Which doesn't nessecarily have to do with your emotiveness. 2. Europeans are feminine men?... I don't think this man understands what equality in relationships means 3. This just means that you like to be center of attention which isn't a bad thing because this is what the stereotype of "alpha" is about(not that it is valid, but the channel is built upon it. ) 4. This is just being courtoues and thoughtful about your partner's needs. Which is a masculine trait. Conclusion: 2 of the 4 traits are in fact masculine, while the other 2 are prevalent in masculine men. Don't let some internet alpha tell you what makes you masculine and not.
@@officialbenzine4075 Brother seek help, no where in my comment did I even mentioned anything like that. You probably need to learn how to read and evaluate more in life before you start typing.
Austin you don't know what it means to have emotional intelligence and maturity or maybe you dont know you need it as a man,I grew up with my dad and my elder brother who lacks both and trust me they wasn't there for me,I was sometimes lonely and was jealous when I see other relationship between brothers and father-sons and yeah I figured out most masculine stuffs on my own because of that. I'm not saying you should be soft or overly emotional I'm saying you should be cold hearted and emotional at the same time cause you need both in this world(50/50);As a true and masculine man you need to have emotional intelligence&maturity and you need to have that dawg, aggressive,cold heart but you need to know when to use it💯
Asking people what they don't do is not a bad thing. Saying "we're doing this whether you like it or not" is controlling, it's better and less toxic to ask people to okay it. That's just dumb.
Disagree. A masculine man is proud of his partner and takes pride in his everlasting relationship, loves cares and provides for his partner, and honours her as his other half. Find God young man. Loose the ego and cynicism, the devil made a bid for you. Just my 10 cents.
Asking what the other wants to eat or watch has nothing to do with feminists of masculinity. It's making sure your partner also wants that or making sure what ur partner wants. It's called respect. But yah I wouldn't expect you to understand
Jesus never worked or married (not a provider), he preached “love one another” and got angry from time to time (pretty emotional), he constantly surrounded himself with disciples that followed Him where ever he went (sounds needy and clingy), etc! But He’s God! I would rather be with a real man like Christ than with men today who only pretend to be masculine being all “stoic” as if you know what that actually means!
You forgot the last one. Obsession skin care facial care, defined jawline and like doing eyebrows and putting facial creams. That is all feminine traits.
Yeah this dude is like super obsessed with what he looks like but probably doesn't have any other beneficial skills in society. How did being a pretty boy become the ultimate goal of men today?
Well sire its akso good to ask your lady what she wants. Its good to be comfortable with being vulnerable to. To be vunerable you haft to achieve feeking secure enough to be vulnerable. The stronger i feel the more im willing to be vulnerable and its healthy. Its cool to welcome that side of yourself but people can also act weak with it.
Tbh to the internet right now, I exhibit all the first traits for masculinity but the last one is the hardest one to overcome. Sometimes I really don’t care where we eat lol
@@Dean543-cc3fdbecause he said that “what do you wanna watch?” is feminine (even though it is just being generous). and wearing hoop earrings is a feminine thing to do. make it make sense.
@@jamie_s7 You literally went to all comments about earrings to talk crap about Austin because you’re mad he gets play and you don’t🫵🫵😂😂😂 Tell tale sign with guys like you getting defensive in these type of videos that you haven’t touched a female since the last time your mom hugged you🤣🤣
In this economy it’s almost impossible for the man to be the sole provider you’re talking about a time that no longer exists, yes a very few amount of men can but not all men
In this video, as I see it, this guy really gives very good advice to everyone, like, not being emotional and thinking things through, being okay with solitude and independence and being determined, but classifying certain actions as feminine is absurd, we all have certain ways. And that's why it doesn't mean that if you do x you're a woman or y you're a woman that's how I see it.
The last one though, I say that stuff because I’m trying to be polite. I want the person I’m around to be happy, not upset if I chose a shit dinner, or a shit movie. Ik people are gonna be like “oh you’re not supposed to care” but that kinda defeats the purpose of being polite.
I believe I understand your point and Austin's. From my experience, it would be best to consider your date's preferences, but it would be preferable for you to come with a variety of options for her to choose from afterwards. Ideally, you should have experience with all these choices and have data on your date beforehand (through your exchanges) to then present these options to her. It's a subtle way to lead a woman. If she feels like she's generating ideas for you all the time or taking the initiative before you, one step ahead of you, she'll feel like she's leading you and you risk the friendzone (especially on the first day of the date). She might come up with a lame excuse not to hurt your feelings. You definitely shouldn't force a choice on her or make decisions without considering her feelings; that would be toxic in her eyes. Instead, you should lead while taking her feelings into account
@@atuanyaalpheusthememeparod1605I think he called you out and offended you badly😂Your reaching so hard whats next your gonna call him feminine for breathing?
I would absolutely appreciate not having the mental load of having to make all the decisions. If a man knows what I like, it would be a real treat to just have him decide. A huge turn on too
So if I ask simple questions and I’m not always assertive over every little thing, then I’m not a masculine man? Get over yourself. Not everyone needs to be like Andrew Tate
@@jamie_s7 I wear studs buddy nice try tho, I just want to combat idiots like you lmao hoop earrings are far from feminine, plenty of “masculine” guy celebrities wear hoops😂😂😂 no wonder you’re still a virgin…
Everyone is too worried what they are and what category they belong to alpha sigma beta who cares in 100 years none of it will mater live life the way you want and the rest of the world can suck it were a spec of dust in this universe live while you can don’t limit your self to someone else’s opinion 😂
@TerioTyrone just finished a 4 year hitch doing flatbed as a truck driver now I work in the oilfield don’t remember the last time I ate Doritos or played a video game on a couch and like the last post said you and the world can suck it what about not caring about other peoples opinion did you not understand?
The provider thing is dependent on the reason/frame for doing that. Lots of guys go 70/30 with a girl not because they’re a “man” but because they’re scared to put their foot down and go 50/50 on things, so just want to appease their girl. Context is everything. No one would say a guy paying for their girls handbags, food, everything is more of a “man” than a guy who has financial boundaries obviously.
Everyone thinks he is a man these days and can tell you whether you are a man or not... Of course, masculinity has rules and conditions, but who are you?
Brothers, instead of trying to behave like a masculine man, just become one. You might think," well I am one", but simply speaking, the reality of thing is, the traits he mentioned jere are largely found in women. The matter of fact is, if you can build a credible source if income for yourself, provide your partner with happiness of being able to do whatever they want, and actually focusing on work rather than being commanded by you whimsical nature of whether you want to talk to your partner for the next hour or finish your work and talking to them at a break, which you took after finishing everything, depends entirely upon you. So, it's not about the final result, it's the journey which builds a man's character.
Guys sorry, but the many of you who got offended by what he said are just proving his point 😂. Only the dudes who feel targeted by what he said are defending themselves in this comments
I'm not offended, though I am concerned about the display of toxic masculinity and how it may affect young men - especially those without positive examples of masculinity in their lives. I'm a middle-aged, married, wealthy, successful, active member of my community, and a very involved father. I can see right through this bullshit video, but a young man without enough real world experience may see this and think this toxic world view is what a real man should be, and it's not. There's no point in your life where pretending to be something you're not is manly. Be the best you can be with the cards you've been dealt. Be pleasant and considerate of others. Give help when you can. Accept help when you need it. That's what being a man is about.
So merely disagreeing is being offended? I’ve read thru quite a few comments and most from what I’ve seen (keyword), they’ve been dissecting his points and disagreeing. Austin gives valid advice often, however he also generalises a lot and applies a one size fits all approach to many things. I look past that tho, just because someone says something you don’t agree with per se, doesn’t mean they don’t have any valuable information to offer you. He’s a bit cocky at times, but you can’t blame him can you 😂
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 Except that's also him not being HIMSELF. That's him being herself if anything. A "man," doesn't do that. It's should be an obvious prerequisite to be manly before being masculine... but I guess not.
as a woman, i love when a man spends hours on the phone with me. if we have really short phone calls, i will become uninterested because i know there’s another man that’s willing to spend more time with me. and my female friends agree.
@@TT-qz9ri its my preference. i dont shame men for having preferences so why should they shame me? my boyfriend spends hours on the phone with me everyday. idc if its selfish because at the end of the day, I have the man that I want. I don't call men selfish for wanting a woman that is traditional and modest and perhaps shorter than him.
If she loves fake men then oh well .. Imma be me. If I were a chick id rather be with real than fake alpha pretenders that just always act hard up. But I get most women love lies so yah fake it to make it guys it works well or just dont GAF
It sounds like he doesn’t speak from experience. More so that he heard something somewhere and made a list for the internet. How much emotion you feel or how emotional you get has nothing to do with how masculine you are. It’s how you control them is what dictates. If you’re human and a good person you’ll feel a lot of emotion. But strength is what you do with it.
all of these are completely fine , i encourage men to do these even more specially nowdays, after a man got his stuff together he should want a women to take care of him
#1 being stoic does not mean you are masculine. If you think you are logical because you do not feel emotion, you could not be more wrong. Nobody is absent of emotion. You simply cannot feel it; with more emotional insight you will learn your actions you once thought were logical are wholly driven by emotion. You are flawed You are a person worthy of love
Dude this is bs just let people express however they want. I bet if you had a daughter you wouldnt like anyone calling her a lesbian is she had a masculine side.
if i ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch or where she wants to eat im not indecisive im just taking her feelings into account of what we do and often its idk anyways so then i pick
A masculine men wouldn't watch videos about his masculinity to begin with
You just did
It's almost like u can control what pops up on shorts...
Exactly, this is for feminine men.
you're kind of right, but so is he. Also a lot of people chose to be here. bro also uses filter to hide his acne scars and wears make up so @lemongrab7635
it's okay all in life needs to be learn
A masculine man is a man who is comfortable in his manhood and doesn't need UA-cam videos to tell him if he's masculine or not.
Yep.
Cuck
Yes.
Real
yea.
If men were not supposed too have feelings god would not of made us that way.
Exactly
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He didn't say yall aren't supposed to have feelings. He said masculine men don't let their emotions control them. But really, that's not just for men. Adults in general should operate like that.
Masculine men are not idiots who believe everything they see, bring yourself out of poverty into the wealth of knowledge dont become a sheep.
They believe what they know and see above anything they hear
😂😂😂😂 go cry about it
That has nothing to do with masculinity, there are loads of poor masculine men and some feminine rich guys. Being rich isn’t a masculine trait
@@allaboutwwe9269I sorta tot feminine men are men with a vagina😂 cos what you said is facts. Some so called feminine men are stupidly rich.
@@allaboutwwe9269I think they were speaking figuratively about being intellectually poor… though they did phrase it weirdly.
And that’s enough internet for the day
Feminine men spotted
Honestly 😂
Honestly😅😂😂
Cheers to the most masculine man on the internet
It's true. It doesn't mean you need to change your entire personality but these are feminine traits
All these internet gurus always talk about stoicism, yet they do the most talking and expressing themselves on the internet. 😂
They don’t even know who tf invented the term.
That doesn't make them less stoic lmao
@@maksim3417Austin is kinda lady like. Let's be real.
Coaches doesn't play but they do have more knowledge than the player.
@@edmondsaunders7165 how?
asking my girlfriend what she wants is just me being courteous and loving and nothing beyond that. i love her and what she wants is important to me, even if it’s a small thing like where we’re going to go for lunch. that’s not feminine dude i just care about her
Exactly. Can't say masculine men are providers and then expect us to make all the decisions on our own. If my girlfriend wants to be provided with ice cream and I bring her a salad instead because it's what I FEEL she should eat, then I'm not providing quality, just quantity.
You need to lead if you want to eat that, she gone eat that too or don’t it’s simple, 99% of women never know what they want, remember the moment you get emotional attached you already lost her
So dont Loving her is the key?@@7.62Fendi
It doesn't make you a feminine dude but asking her what she wants puts her in the decision making role. Just don't do it too often
@AlQaedaFendi so being a douchebag with no feelings is key?
#7 you are a influencer who thinks you are the definition of masculinity
Lmfao
Lmfaoooooooo bro has the biggest ego
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He definitely ain't perfect but these are still feminine traits. No one said you have to be masculine but these are still feminine traits
"Being emotional is feminine. You need to be stoic"
This is so tired and played out. If you think this way, the only emotion you'll show is anger and be deeply depressed.
You got stoicism COMPLETELY wrong
@@maksim3417 I know that's not what Stoicism actually is, but too many people think that's what it does mean.
@@handeggchan1057 Ah ok
Agreed
coping so hard
Man idgaf I’m tryna be happy fuck that
Rs, what man lets another man tell him who to be. Nothing bad about this guidance but should be taken lightly
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Fr bro
Stay feminine and broke then brokee
real men don't give single fcks on these kind of vids 😂
Austin went from a motivational callisthenics athlete to an off brand Andrew Tate + Bro science tips for working out sometimes
And heria continued and it paid of
He's being diverse ,overall he's giving help & advice in being a better & more structured Man
#1 You watch these videos and take them seriously
He is not wrong. I'm mostly a feminine man and feminine women doesn't like these qualities unless you want to date masculine women .
@@user-ex3nl8k0l Yeah well I'm the opposite of you and it's not true. I have a powerlifting total of 1715 lbs. I have 20 inch biceps. Women don't care at all. You only get some women who are into niches or you get stuck with crazy women who want you to beat up their ex.
Dude u need education or what? All the things he summed up were literally just facts... if u enjoy being feminine man then have fun marrying a masculine woman who you are probably gonna divorce with in a few years and then become depressed af.
Sir this is a Wendy's
Remember, not letting your emotions control you doesn't mean to invalidate them or bottle them up. It is healthy for everyone to talk about their feelings with a partner or a close friend.
Most ppl dont get this
Fax
Yeah, being stoic and not exhibiting emotions is a leading reason why men have a high suic. rate
Ofc talking a bit about your emotions with your closed ones can be good and healthy but the video wants to say that you should be still able to control it in most situations and be stronger than it as a man. For example, being agressive in public is a no go for men.
Imagine, someone working 60 hour weeks in construction who goes 50/50 with their spouse is less masculine then the sole provider sitting down for most of their day creating UA-cam content.😂
I see the logic in this 😂😂😂
Exactly
Yeah and with all this inflation going on you have to keep track of your budget
Shows she doesn't just want free food
Most dudes who go 50/50 are playing the smart game if u think abt it do that until ur 35 and find a girl freshly 22
Masculine man doesn't need a feminine man to tell what masculinity is.
Dude does a little too clean n sweet. Like he looks in the mirror and says I'm the shitm
Don't listen to this guy .
Imagine saying a man is feminine while wearing earrings 😂
EXACTLY
He's not talking about what a man wears or stereotypical feminine mannerisms he's talking about nuances and intangibles that make a man feminine.
@@chrisjudd6you said it brother
Ok, that is kind of funny lol 🤣
Loo
alright, I'm a feminine male... and so what?
I'm still satisfied with my life... I'm smart, I make enough money for being able to buy everything I want, I have as many girls as I want, I am good at sports, I am a great musician, I have the best friends I could ever ask for...
and all of that while splitting bills 50/50 and being emotional 🥺
Don't take this too seriously. Your statement seems like a healthy balance. Having some feminine personality traits is a good thing and doesn't make you a feminine man. Also he's trying to make feminine personality traits look like a bad thing but same can be done to masculine personality traits. In fact, neither feminine personality traits nor masculine personality traits are bad by nature. Even attraction and sexual preferences are very individual. Many women treasure men with some feminine traits and a good overall balance.
Will it be bad if my wife will have more musculine traits than me? @@NoviusInfernalBerserk
Plenty of girls but can't get a girlfriend 😄
If you make money and if you're actually smart, that's very good then for you. But going after many girls is just childish, letting emotions control yourself is an absolute no go and splitting bills equally won't last long trust me. U may be happy now with your feminity but don't think it will be forever lmao.
@@lou6574who needs a girlfriend when you can just have a new chick every weekend
What do you wanna eat?
What do you wanna watch?
Didn't know being considerate of other people's interests makes me a feminine man😂😂😂😂
Women are indecisive. You should know that. No, I'm not misogynistic. Even women that are close to me like my mom understand women are indecisive. You should know her interests but you should also understand that most women tend to be indecisive and you should try to plan dates yourself and be clear and concise about time and location.
It doesn't and you already know this. To me it means your emotionally mature enough to respect and be caring to those you love. This video is hilarious
@@mueezyasirthat may be true but it’s still good to ask those questions because not all women are the same y’know
Actually, I ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch and eat to make her happy. I know exactly what I want, I choose to put her first and make her happy, above my needs.
Exactly, I put her wants first because I know she does the same for me and has made SO many sacrifices to be with me. And whenever she's too indecisive, I'll make the decision for her.
That may work for you, and I hope it continues to. The only issue is most women really are indecisive and think like kids. They’re pampered people and just need to be told what is going to happen. For example my girlfriend will hmm and ahh about a restaurant if I ask. So I just say “we’re going… at …. Get ready for ….” And she does. Plus since I’m paying I go where I want to eat.
My mate does it how you do it though and it works for him. Each to their own
nice, a girlfriend
but if you want to get married and stay married, you'll stop asking your gf what she wants all the time
real women want a leader that knows where he's going, not somebody that's always asking her what she wants because you're too afraid that she won't go along with your ideas
@@billybob-wx2reWhat about doing something that she doesn’t like or not interested in?
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Thanks for the information Jake from State Farm
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Lol
Hahaha now I can't unsee it😂
"What are you wearing jake from state" uh Khakis
Lmao 😂
Just remembering that, as Jung pointed out, every man has an inner feminine side. Embrace your masculinity, but don't suffocate yourself in the process
Masculine men follow Christ! 🙌🏽
Amen brother
No wrong
@@aurora0534 Maybe the ones that follow the church and man, they're wrong. I pray the Lord gives you wisdom and guidance friend🩵
They follow Mahadev and bajrangbali (hinduism 😎) 🚩
Amen!!!❤
Honestly, I’d choose the feminine man over a toxic masculine one every single day of the week. Ain’t nothing wrong with crying sometimes. It’s normal. Why is it okay to laugh when you’re happy, yell when you’re angry… Why can’t you cry when you’re sad? Also, there’s nothing wrong with being affectionate towards your partner and allowing them to make decisions.
Lol yet when you're gonna try to start a long term relationship with this type of dreamboy u got, you're gonna realize it won't work out lmao.
I often think Austin is a caveman who found a Time Machine and is masquerading as what he thinks a modern man is.
Are you srsly gonna act emotional now bcs of some simple facts? Get your shi together lmao.
#5 You’re overly obsessed with your looks
b-but sir im only 12
uhhh i have never even gotten another like on my comment except for mine on any other of my comments so thanks
Same here lmao
Then be 20 or 25 real men don't let age control them they control their age
I’m 13
@@Bussman.Yh man.. i didn’t like it when i was born so i wanted to become a man
Go to sleep kid
I needed to hear this
I don’t believe any of this is true. As a man who’s been through a lot sometimes being sensitive is what keeps you level and stable and a good support for those around you on top of that being 50/50 is perfectly fine you have to consider peoples situations and lifestyle choices before you give a one sided based opinion that could have real effects on young men this just sounds like some bs alpha male crap
Facts
@TerioTyrone🤓
@TerioTyronestoic men are extinct that type of many is similar to the woman that’s a virgin til marriage, that also doesn’t exist
@@Donutkushboth types still exist they are just very rare
@TerioTyrone gg
I like having quality time with the woman I’m with so yeah I’d say I’m needy, want a deeper relationship. Would also say everyone’s emotional, being human… knowing when to let those emotions out is key
Guy spends his time sitting in front of a camera while real men actually work for a living
hes tryna say something out there for the internet, he doesnt spent all day long on screen, make it make sense
@@mrqwerty4792dick rider spotted
From what I heard, he makes a lot from these videos so he can provide for his girlfriend. A real man puts providing the woman in his life with the best life possible above the opinions of broke jealous haters. I disagree with a lot of what this guy says, but he’s right for following the money. Money will pay for their dates and the college education of any children they may have. Simply “working for a living” won’t necessarily do that depending on what the work is.
@@johnmartin4641 thank you. I had no idea that money can be used to provide for a girlfriend and pay for kids education. You can actually use the money for stuff?
@@johnmartin4641 the contradiction is insane, just because he needs to provide for his girlfriend coming to the internet and telling false information to get money won’t make him right
My dad earned way less compared to my mom, he is not at all a feminine man. A guy let’s his emotions take over when needed. A man doesn’t have to bottle his emotions at all cause if he does he will be depressed and broken. Trust me I know what it feels holding feelings for 3 years in college without trusting anyone there. I talked again with some high school friends and they helped me with my head and got me on the right path again. Men talk to other men about their feelings. Nothing feminine about that.
Well if i had to break down all the 4 traits in men that are not nessecarily feminine:
1. This is just on upbringing, it just means that you have a very bright neurology and/or your hormonal levels(testesterone) are chipping up. A lot of men who take steroids experience this. Stoicism isn't about being unemotional, but more like not letting negative emotions lead your actions. Which doesn't nessecarily have to do with your emotiveness.
2. Europeans are feminine men?...
I don't think this man understands what equality in relationships means
3. This just means that you like to be center of attention which isn't a bad thing because this is what the stereotype of "alpha" is about(not that it is valid, but the channel is built upon it. )
4. This is just being courtoues and thoughtful about your partner's needs. Which is a masculine trait.
Conclusion: 2 of the 4 traits are in fact masculine, while the other 2 are prevalent in masculine men. Don't let some internet alpha tell you what makes you masculine and not.
Thank You For This Information 💚💚💚💚🦅🦅🦅🦅
This is the same guy who said every man should have a gay best friend lol
lmao when
Your usual on point bro but this one idk
😂 Brother Ehhhh… What that? I mean the 50/50 thing got me blown, niccas out here struggling you talking bout its feminine.
So you think its normal to not be paid more than your wife? U need to learn a lot in life I see.
@@officialbenzine4075 Brother seek help, no where in my comment did I even mentioned anything like that. You probably need to learn how to read and evaluate more in life before you start typing.
Austin you don't know what it means to have emotional intelligence and maturity or maybe you dont know you need it as a man,I grew up with my dad and my elder brother who lacks both and trust me they wasn't there for me,I was sometimes lonely and was jealous when I see other relationship between brothers and father-sons and yeah I figured out most masculine stuffs on my own because of that.
I'm not saying you should be soft or overly emotional I'm saying you should be cold hearted and emotional at the same time cause you need both in this world(50/50);As a true and masculine man you need to have emotional intelligence&maturity and you need to have that dawg, aggressive,cold heart but you need to know when to use it💯
If you're happy, stay the way you are
Right! Ty!!
Women want to be equal to men and all this equality, so yea, it's 50/50 and I'm that 50/50 guy. That doesn't make a man not masculine.
Asking people what they don't do is not a bad thing. Saying "we're doing this whether you like it or not" is controlling, it's better and less toxic to ask people to okay it. That's just dumb.
If you are a human being with emotions that happens to be a man like this comment
Masculine men don’t call their girlfriend or wife a partner.
Ahahah facts
Wtf...
What do they call them?
Disagree. A masculine man is proud of his partner and takes pride in his everlasting relationship, loves cares and provides for his partner, and honours her as his other half. Find God young man. Loose the ego and cynicism, the devil made a bid for you. Just my 10 cents.
@@user-pl9wu1xy3m girlfriend or wife
Asking what the other wants to eat or watch has nothing to do with feminists of masculinity. It's making sure your partner also wants that or making sure what ur partner wants. It's called respect. But yah I wouldn't expect you to understand
Bro sometimes masculine men cry tooo
@user-br9ru9nw8f and they marry with bros not with women 🙈🥺✅
boys have emotions too
Masculine men don’t wear stupid earrings
Jesus never worked or married (not a provider), he preached “love one another” and got angry from time to time (pretty emotional), he constantly surrounded himself with disciples that followed Him where ever he went (sounds needy and clingy), etc! But He’s God! I would rather be with a real man like Christ than with men today who only pretend to be masculine being all “stoic” as if you know what that actually means!
You forgot the last one. Obsession skin care facial care, defined jawline and like doing eyebrows and putting facial creams. That is all feminine traits.
😂😂 say it
Yeah this dude is like super obsessed with what he looks like but probably doesn't have any other beneficial skills in society. How did being a pretty boy become the ultimate goal of men today?
it's still good to take care of youself on those points, but i agree that the obsession about those things can become very negative for you
Defined jawline is a feminine trait? Complete opposite😂
defined jawline is one of the most masculine traits kid you must be mad he called you out🤣🤡👎
Wow, you are really deep in the masculine realm. These signs are so true.
Bro must be so insecure inside
I genuinly think you are, reading your comment lol
Well sire its akso good to ask your lady what she wants. Its good to be comfortable with being vulnerable to. To be vunerable you haft to achieve feeking secure enough to be vulnerable. The stronger i feel the more im willing to be vulnerable and its healthy. Its cool to welcome that side of yourself but people can also act weak with it.
Great list, i see alot mfs acting like this and it's easy to spot. I'm so thankful to be raised around masculine men 💯
Dude, are you ok? What's wrong with being feminine as a man?
Now this video and these commercials really made me very happy 😊
Soooooo many emotionally intelligent folks in here. I love it 😊
I really wouldn’t need another man to evaluate how manly I am. A bit gay isn’t it?
Tbh to the internet right now, I exhibit all the first traits for masculinity but the last one is the hardest one to overcome. Sometimes I really don’t care where we eat lol
Says the guy wearing hoop earrings
What does that have to do with anything??
@@Dean543-cc3fdbecause he said that “what do you wanna watch?” is feminine (even though it is just being generous). and wearing hoop earrings is a feminine thing to do. make it make sense.
@@jamie_s7 You literally went to all comments about earrings to talk crap about Austin because you’re mad he gets play and you don’t🫵🫵😂😂😂 Tell tale sign with guys like you getting defensive in these type of videos that you haven’t touched a female since the last time your mom hugged you🤣🤣
LMAO..Austin reframing the Feminine Man. Next Level Mind Screw...😂😂😂😂
In this economy it’s almost impossible for the man to be the sole provider you’re talking about a time that no longer exists, yes a very few amount of men can but not all men
One of the Masculine trait i like is don't care about people's opinions and focus the goal that they want.💯
I have a feeling this is gonna piss off a lot of people lol
It just did
Well…you not wrong lol
Well cause spitting some really great brain rot.
Welcome to 2024
In this video, as I see it, this guy really gives very good advice to everyone, like, not being emotional and thinking things through, being okay with solitude and independence and being determined, but classifying certain actions as feminine is absurd, we all have certain ways. And that's why it doesn't mean that if you do x you're a woman or y you're a woman that's how I see it.
The last one though, I say that stuff because I’m trying to be polite. I want the person I’m around to be happy, not upset if I chose a shit dinner, or a shit movie. Ik people are gonna be like “oh you’re not supposed to care” but that kinda defeats the purpose of being polite.
I believe I understand your point and Austin's. From my experience, it would be best to consider your date's preferences, but it would be preferable for you to come with a variety of options for her to choose from afterwards. Ideally, you should have experience with all these choices and have data on your date beforehand (through your exchanges) to then present these options to her. It's a subtle way to lead a woman. If she feels like she's generating ideas for you all the time or taking the initiative before you, one step ahead of you, she'll feel like she's leading you and you risk the friendzone (especially on the first day of the date). She might come up with a lame excuse not to hurt your feelings. You definitely shouldn't force a choice on her or make decisions without considering her feelings; that would be toxic in her eyes. Instead, you should lead while taking her feelings into account
Austin just sounds feminine like what are we doing here? Lmao!
I'm surprised he didn't say that you don't do 15 pullups.
It's a feminine on camera calling someone feminine smh that's like me calling someone a Nigerian scammer while being a Nigerian scammer lmfao.
@@atuanyaalpheusthememeparod1605I think he called you out and offended you badly😂Your reaching so hard whats next your gonna call him feminine for breathing?
I would absolutely appreciate not having the mental load of having to make all the decisions. If a man knows what I like, it would be a real treat to just have him decide. A huge turn on too
So if I ask simple questions and I’m not always assertive over every little thing, then I’m not a masculine man? Get over yourself. Not everyone needs to be like Andrew Tate
Bro is doing everything but fitness on his channel .
Bro is wearing earrings talking about how not to be a feminine man 😂😂😂
Earrings make you feminine??😂😂😂
@@Dean543-cc3fdYes
@@tru3boc I can smell your funky room through the screen
@@Dean543-cc3fdbro went to all the earrings comments to defend himself 💀
@@jamie_s7 I wear studs buddy nice try tho, I just want to combat idiots like you lmao hoop earrings are far from feminine, plenty of “masculine” guy celebrities wear hoops😂😂😂 no wonder you’re still a virgin…
Sign No.4 - you’re born after 2005 and have less testosterone than a deceased grandmother, caring more about how your perm looks than anything else
Everyone is too worried what they are and what category they belong to alpha sigma beta who cares in 100 years none of it will mater live life the way you want and the rest of the world can suck it were a spec of dust in this universe live while you can don’t limit your self to someone else’s opinion 😂
@TerioTyrone just finished a 4 year hitch doing flatbed as a truck driver now I work in the oilfield don’t remember the last time I ate Doritos or played a video game on a couch and like the last post said you and the world can suck it what about not caring about other peoples opinion did you not understand?
@TerioTyrone Some people's life plans are good though.
@TerioTyrone Yea yea yea keep coping.
@TerioTyroneyou Just explained school Philosophy lvl of thoughts. Are we really free in society, or do we need to do certain Things?...
@TerioTyrone Why tf are you obsessed with other people's life bruh 😂
I'm a woman and I need to be more feminine. I have some masculinity traits because yoh. God knows.
s-sir i'm n-not s-sure a-about t-that
u tryna copy my comment???😂
@@Controller.player-chris wdym(ﾉ◕ヮ◕)ﾉ*.✧
@@kellystortenbecker3055i have almost the exact same comment and 160 likes on it or smth
@@Controller.player-chris Lemme see becuase i wasnt trying too
The provider thing is dependent on the reason/frame for doing that. Lots of guys go 70/30 with a girl not because they’re a “man” but because they’re scared to put their foot down and go 50/50 on things, so just want to appease their girl. Context is everything. No one would say a guy paying for their girls handbags, food, everything is more of a “man” than a guy who has financial boundaries obviously.
Dude that thing about asking people what they want to do is just being kind not feminine it’s chivalrous
Agree on just the second one everything else is garbage
Everyone thinks he is a man these days and can tell you whether you are a man or not... Of course, masculinity has rules and conditions, but who are you?
Yes, real men dont simp for their girlfriends or let them go to clubs
@@s66s46 I totally agree
Brothers, instead of trying to behave like a masculine man, just become one. You might think," well I am one", but simply speaking, the reality of thing is, the traits he mentioned jere are largely found in women. The matter of fact is, if you can build a credible source if income for yourself, provide your partner with happiness of being able to do whatever they want, and actually focusing on work rather than being commanded by you whimsical nature of whether you want to talk to your partner for the next hour or finish your work and talking to them at a break, which you took after finishing everything, depends entirely upon you. So, it's not about the final result, it's the journey which builds a man's character.
I always see people talk about feminine men but never seen someone talks about masculine women
There both an issue right now
@@crucialwulf350 masculine women are a much bigger issue, especially among black women.
@@crucialwulf350 What's the issue?
@@humicroav215beta
@@humicroav215u need to wake up fr
only the first one, i haven't been in those situations to know but i can say that i don't need to talk on phone, i hate talking on phone
Wow cool Andrew Tate also adopted a parrot next to his stray pitbulls😂😂😂
Shut
Up
I only lacking in the last one but well get there 🗣️🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
Guys sorry, but the many of you who got offended by what he said are just proving his point 😂. Only the dudes who feel targeted by what he said are defending themselves in this comments
exactly
Nuh uh
I'm not offended, though I am concerned about the display of toxic masculinity and how it may affect young men - especially those without positive examples of masculinity in their lives.
I'm a middle-aged, married, wealthy, successful, active member of my community, and a very involved father. I can see right through this bullshit video, but a young man without enough real world experience may see this and think this toxic world view is what a real man should be, and it's not.
There's no point in your life where pretending to be something you're not is manly. Be the best you can be with the cards you've been dealt. Be pleasant and considerate of others. Give help when you can. Accept help when you need it. That's what being a man is about.
Fatherless men are going to do Fatherless things and that is cry like women 😂
So merely disagreeing is being offended? I’ve read thru quite a few comments and most from what I’ve seen (keyword), they’ve been dissecting his points and disagreeing.
Austin gives valid advice often, however he also generalises a lot and applies a one size fits all approach to many things. I look past that tho, just because someone says something you don’t agree with per se, doesn’t mean they don’t have any valuable information to offer you. He’s a bit cocky at times, but you can’t blame him can you 😂
The way he expresses is very condescending. Feminity has inner enduring strength. Masculinity has outer resilience.
man whats the deal with having to pay for everything. My gf loves to take me to dinner the same way I love to pay for her
Yes and shaping your eyebrows makes you masculine.
Takes a masculine man to be himself.
He’s being himself by wearing makeup, and putting on a dress with high heels 👠. He’s masculine?
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9right... He isn't
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9Sure. Sounds like that takes guts. Could you do that?
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 bars 🎯👌🏽
@@GojoTheHonoredOne9 Except that's also him not being HIMSELF. That's him being herself if anything. A "man," doesn't do that. It's should be an obvious prerequisite to be manly before being masculine... but I guess not.
as a woman, i love when a man spends hours on the phone with me. if we have really short phone calls, i will become uninterested because i know there’s another man that’s willing to spend more time with me. and my female friends agree.
selfish, think about it from the man's perspective maybe they aren't trying to spend HOURS with you doesn't mean they hate you
@@TT-qz9ri its my preference. i dont shame men for having preferences so why should they shame me? my boyfriend spends hours on the phone with me everyday. idc if its selfish because at the end of the day, I have the man that I want. I don't call men selfish for wanting a woman that is traditional and modest and perhaps shorter than him.
😂 masculine men dont Overdose on Red Pill Content neitha champ
this guy look like the guy that looks like a minecraft dirt block 💀💀
It sucks to see that this is me
Don't believe this clown. Pave your own way. YOUR WAY.
What WE gonna do about it?
He’s a moron. Masculinity and femininity are fluid, subjective topics whose identifiers constantly change. Be your own kind of man.
He’s full of shit. Masculinity and femininity are fluid, subjective topics that constantly change over time. Be your own kind of man.
Don’t let a man who can’t pronounce “women” let you feel inferior.
Being more masculine is a process that gets better over time and reasonable expirence
nothing wrong with a feminine men
Yea , you watch anime, POINT INVALID
People will accuse you of being gay due to our increasingly judgmental society
@@DARK-MEME-LORDgeez aren't you fun at parties?
@@Mr.Mayhem...lmao an anime nerd talking about party’s and you didn’t even use the joke right
If she loves fake men then oh well .. Imma be me. If I were a chick id rather be with real than fake alpha pretenders that just always act hard up. But I get most women love lies so yah fake it to make it guys it works well or just dont GAF
It sounds like he doesn’t speak from experience. More so that he heard something somewhere and made a list for the internet. How much emotion you feel or how emotional you get has nothing to do with how masculine you are. It’s how you control them is what dictates. If you’re human and a good person you’ll feel a lot of emotion. But strength is what you do with it.
Agreed. So many emotional guys in the comments are fine with not improving and would go 50/50 and have the ladies decide for them.
Or maybe we arent emotional n smart enough to actually kno what 50/50 truly menans. Yall would kno too if yall werent too busy wit a mouthful of meat.
It embarrassing but fatherless men are going to do Fatherless things
all of these are completely fine , i encourage men to do these even more specially nowdays, after a man got his stuff together he should want a women to take care of him
No man needs a woman to take care of him.
I agree with Mr. Dunham. All these are true
#1 being stoic does not mean you are masculine. If you think you are logical because you do not feel emotion, you could not be more wrong. Nobody is absent of emotion. You simply cannot feel it; with more emotional insight you will learn your actions you once thought were logical are wholly driven by emotion.
You are flawed
You are a person worthy of love
Dude this is bs just let people express however they want. I bet if you had a daughter you wouldnt like anyone calling her a lesbian is she had a masculine side.
if i ask my girlfriend what she wants to watch or where she wants to eat im not indecisive im just taking her feelings into account of what we do and often its idk anyways so then i pick