Good video. True, no matter how in sync you feel you are with someone, they can't read your mind. Everyone is slightly different, so it's better to communicate when there's expectations had or feelings involved.
I deleted tiktok in early 2021 because of this...I recently got with my boyfriend at that time and those type of videos kept popping up, especially the TAROT CARD ONES💀like please.. Remember everyone social media is not reality and it is BAD for your mental health... To this day I have been with my bf for 3 years. Try to distance yourself from social media, u dont have to do what i did and go cold turkey, but try not to get too attached and just doom scroll.lots of love.thank you for talkin ab this I havent seen anyone talk ab it like you have.❤
I read something once about people needing to monitor their partners' messages to validate their insecurities to where it becomes abusive. "When you’re in a relationship, you open yourself up to heartbreak and risk. If you’re snooping because you feel entitled to not have your heart broken, that’s more entitlement than empowerment.”
1) I think you’re absolutely correct about the attachment style comment. When people make content they reach the people that it most likely resonates with and then it starts to ripple out to people who don’t even think that way and then all of a sudden everyone starts to think that way. When people ask those weird things like would you still love me/like me if I was a worm? I get so annoyed. Like I don’t know what you got going on, but don’t ask me those kind of stupid things. 2) if your boyfriend not only “fails the test” but absolutely disrespects you in the process (like the woman who was told that she wasn’t special) have some self respect and don’t post it!!
Absolutely loved this video. Yes pleaseeeee, more healthy relationship trends. The internet thrives off discourse and toxicity. I hope that people wake up choose themselves, choose to do the inner work so that we can have discernment when it comes to participating in this vicious cycle. Great video❤️
The orange peel theory though is real good. U can tell alot from a person and how they feel toward u. Bc if i dont like someone ima say im not peeling that shit. But someone i truly love ill do it for.
If all it took was an orange to break up was it really that strong of a relationship
Good video. True, no matter how in sync you feel you are with someone, they can't read your mind. Everyone is slightly different, so it's better to communicate when there's expectations had or feelings involved.
so true 💕
and also all the music, all the songs about breakups about betrayal and eternal whining
I deleted tiktok in early 2021 because of this...I recently got with my boyfriend at that time and those type of videos kept popping up, especially the TAROT CARD ONES💀like please.. Remember everyone social media is not reality and it is BAD for your mental health... To this day I have been with my bf for 3 years. Try to distance yourself from social media, u dont have to do what i did and go cold turkey, but try not to get too attached and just doom scroll.lots of love.thank you for talkin ab this I havent seen anyone talk ab it like you have.❤
Yess big on reducing doom scrolling. Thanks ❣
I read something once about people needing to monitor their partners' messages to validate their insecurities to where it becomes abusive.
"When you’re in a relationship, you open yourself up to heartbreak and risk. If you’re snooping because you feel entitled to not have your heart broken, that’s more entitlement than empowerment.”
1) I think you’re absolutely correct about the attachment style comment. When people make content they reach the people that it most likely resonates with and then it starts to ripple out to people who don’t even think that way and then all of a sudden everyone starts to think that way.
When people ask those weird things like would you still love me/like me if I was a worm? I get so annoyed. Like I don’t know what you got going on, but don’t ask me those kind of stupid things.
2) if your boyfriend not only “fails the test” but absolutely disrespects you in the process (like the woman who was told that she wasn’t special) have some self respect and don’t post it!!
This is when a husband having the bag pays off😂
Absolutely loved this video. Yes pleaseeeee, more healthy relationship trends. The internet thrives off discourse and toxicity. I hope that people wake up choose themselves, choose to do the inner work so that we can have discernment when it comes to participating in this vicious cycle. Great video❤️
Thank you, and beautifully said. ❣
Parents love their kids unconditionally and the kids grow up expecting the same unconditional love from their spouse.
Bingo.
Babygirl, at least get a headphone mic next time please. Keep it up tho! Cool ideas
It’s giving disorganised attachment low-key. People testing their partners can get too far and manipulative honestly. 😅
The orange peel theory though is real good. U can tell alot from a person and how they feel toward u. Bc if i dont like someone ima say im not peeling that shit. But someone i truly love ill do it for.