Sista Working 3 Jobs Asks If She's Wanting Too Much By Asking Her Man To Help Her Financially

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  • @SuperPace-zl6nn
    @SuperPace-zl6nn 11 місяців тому +112

    This man is planning for a future, not one with you. Ma’am get yourself together and keep it pushing. Sorry love ❤

  • @csurams84
    @csurams84 11 місяців тому +134

    She said "I'm not broke" and then proceeded to explain the exact definition of broke 🤣🤣🤣

  • @techconic5613
    @techconic5613 11 місяців тому +31

    Hes saving up for his passport and trip to the DR 😂

  • @localone1597
    @localone1597 11 місяців тому +101

    I'd need to hear both sides. She works three jobs. He works. What does he pay for and what does she pay for? I'd have to see who is paying what.

    • @CyberData4
      @CyberData4 11 місяців тому +13

      She knew he was like this when she opened her legs. Got pregnant. Kept the seed. Gave birth.

    • @technofilejr3401
      @technofilejr3401 11 місяців тому +12

      @@CyberData4I got the impression that this is not her children’s father.

    • @jimmcdonald9490
      @jimmcdonald9490 11 місяців тому +3

      @@CyberData4 or did HE know wat she was like before she opened her legs is the real question 🤔

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 11 місяців тому +2

      She shouldn't be paying for anything. She shouldn't be at home cooking & cleaning 😂 ain't that what 99% of men say they want, a woman who cooks & clean 😂

    • @IntelInside2020
      @IntelInside2020 11 місяців тому +2

      ​@@bodhisattva2348 I agree if that's his kid.

  • @kayn2756
    @kayn2756 11 місяців тому +40

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
    How is she in a relationship if she works 3 jobs?

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 11 місяців тому +3

      Because ninjas will swear up & down these youtube streets they want traditional that they can't afford 😂😂😂

    • @csurams84
      @csurams84 11 місяців тому

      ​@@bodhisattva2348Blaming everything on men, as usual. Always a blame game with black women, instead of teamwork.

  • @blacksun6245
    @blacksun6245 11 місяців тому +5

    So this woman is just letting this man live in her house without working. He must be laying down pipe

    • @Lordamraphel
      @Lordamraphel 10 місяців тому +1

      They love breeding with Pookie.

  • @Pats007
    @Pats007 11 місяців тому +10

    Hell no to joint accounts

  • @saonedixon5476
    @saonedixon5476 11 місяців тому +32

    Three jobs, got damn!!! Where does she find time to relax.? I never worked two or three Jobs. I was to tried from the one job 😅

    • @kerry-j4m
      @kerry-j4m 11 місяців тому +6

      Several years ago,I worked 2 full time jobs for 10 months,it's not that hard ( I had weekends off from both jobs ) no girlfriends either,didn't have time for relation ships. LOL.

  • @_---__
    @_---__ 11 місяців тому +74

    Families that pay together stay together ❤️.

    • @truthserum6672
      @truthserum6672 11 місяців тому

      When he says he would tell his daughter the man is sorry. Is the moment you knew he was one of the simps that created the modern female entitlement..thanks Phil

    • @f.iyanda3838
      @f.iyanda3838 11 місяців тому +1

      Yep💪🏾

    • @jimmcdonald9490
      @jimmcdonald9490 11 місяців тому +5

      False

  • @williamgant1726
    @williamgant1726 11 місяців тому +35

    If you have 3 jobs....he doesn't need to be there. Period!!!💯

  • @michaelbrown8926
    @michaelbrown8926 11 місяців тому +69

    Teamwork makes the Dream work

  • @evos469
    @evos469 11 місяців тому +67

    Hes a boyfriend, not a husband he doesn't need to give you a thing. Also, Ma'am you're a single mother you need to be working anyway.

    • @mfati9077
      @mfati9077 11 місяців тому +15

      Yall are some brunch of sorry ass ninjahs😂❤

    • @kyrkwalters964
      @kyrkwalters964 11 місяців тому

      ​@@mfati9077Whatever

    • @kyrkwalters964
      @kyrkwalters964 11 місяців тому +2

      Facts

    • @FaithandPurpose828
      @FaithandPurpose828 11 місяців тому +11

      @@mfati9077 guess they are supposed to "feel" ashamed....ooooh😜

    • @informedRev13
      @informedRev13 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@mfati9077 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @topnotchtx
    @topnotchtx 11 місяців тому +22

    Anybody that has three jobs and broke needs Dave Ramsay now

  • @hotcocoa63
    @hotcocoa63 11 місяців тому +22

    Something ain't adding up with her story.

    • @mesoanto1031
      @mesoanto1031 11 місяців тому +2

      I am glad someone noticed

    • @Jay7682
      @Jay7682 11 місяців тому +3

      Agreed

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому +2

      Reminds me of brick lady, the chick who claimed she was kidnapped, amber herd etc.

    • @blaclabel4762
      @blaclabel4762 11 місяців тому +1

      It’s a hole in her story

  • @patremagilbert682
    @patremagilbert682 11 місяців тому +6

    Best she leave him

  • @Passbu
    @Passbu 11 місяців тому +28

    I’m pretty sure she was approached by multiple “lames” who had good jobs and were respectful. Life with your choice. You picked that man

    • @FlyTyBlizzy
      @FlyTyBlizzy 11 місяців тому

      She got a bum ass baby

    • @12_door_tycoon
      @12_door_tycoon 11 місяців тому +5

      She’s lying about something. I don’t believe this story at all. 🤷🏽‍♂️

  • @rashiqs4400
    @rashiqs4400 11 місяців тому +7

    He should be working 3 jobs, not the wom

    • @csurams84
      @csurams84 11 місяців тому

      She's clearly lying, lol. And, why shouldn't women take their ashy asses to work like everyone else???

  • @rubychew6535
    @rubychew6535 11 місяців тому +14

    This man needs to go. He is not being responsible for the household. She is not asking her luxury. A woman shouldn't have to work three jobs.

  • @Seikuken
    @Seikuken 11 місяців тому +2

    A man that don’t wanna work that’s a sorry man. She should leave him tbh

  • @mwp446678
    @mwp446678 11 місяців тому +33

    Phil, I disagree with you about men working three jobs. Regardless of gender, men and women should not be working three jobs.

    • @hazelboyce7230
      @hazelboyce7230 11 місяців тому +8

      Did he say it was ideal or did he say men can do it and keep moving but eventually it breaks women down mentally and physically?

    • @truebengalsfan
      @truebengalsfan 11 місяців тому +4

      A single man can do 3 jobs most women will leave or cheat if he working 3 jobs

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@truebengalsfanExactly and then they'll say "you never home, you work too much, you don't give me enough attention". 🤨

    • @truebengalsfan
      @truebengalsfan 11 місяців тому +2

      @@TheMegatron673 for many woman who want a provider can't seem to accept that he will probably have to work a lot

  • @styner3
    @styner3 11 місяців тому +56

    Tells us she's not broke then explains how broke she is.

  • @Moharp751
    @Moharp751 11 місяців тому +107

    Something seems off about her story.
    1. How much debt are you in that it requires 3 jobs to pay your bills?
    2. The things she bring up aren’t reflective of needs but wants.
    3. Why come to the internet with this rather than speaking to your partner?
    4. If she has 3 jobs, when is she active in her relationship?
    5. No one told her get 3 jobs to begin with. How do you work 3 jobs and need to ask for $10?
    There’s a lot that isn’t adding up, feels like brickgate all over again

    • @spacedye2001
      @spacedye2001 11 місяців тому +17

      1 Student loans and owning a home can easily add up.
      2 She isn’t asking for much. If her partner can’t do the bare minimum he needs to go.
      3 She has talked to him multiple times
      4 She had 3 job temporarily and stopped due to her partner’s complaints
      5 Her lazy ass man made her get a 3rd job

    • @Armandrea
      @Armandrea 11 місяців тому +7

      She said she’s had a kid and didn’t realize how expensive it is to take care of one.

    • @constantinejr
      @constantinejr 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@ArmandreaIs it his kid or he playing step daddy?

    • @Armandrea
      @Armandrea 11 місяців тому

      @@constantinejr I don’t know. She didn’t make it clear.

    • @joimonae4090
      @joimonae4090 11 місяців тому +5

      if she paying for child care thats hella expensive

  • @rahkriga
    @rahkriga 11 місяців тому +55

    Crazy how women can get multiple jobs....but we have brothers out here that are struggling to find one job and they want to work. The PC people KNOW what they are doing with this dynamic, which is to cause division between blk men and blk women. Its just sad that blk women dont see it, and hold it against blk men...

    • @swacfan2791
      @swacfan2791 11 місяців тому +8

      Like my grandpa always told me. Work for yourself. Never beg another man for means to support yourself and your family. Never give another man that kind of power over you. Hold your own strings.

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 11 місяців тому

      Or black men are lazy & black women work harder. If you don't want that division then create your own businesses, like other communities do, & hire your own women, like other communities do, problem solved 😎

    • @thedarkknight4956
      @thedarkknight4956 11 місяців тому

      Be real these lazy young black dudes ain't looking for jobs, they just wanna be in the streets

    • @guuledmohamed357
      @guuledmohamed357 11 місяців тому +6

      ​@@swacfan2791when the system is only one offering a means of income until u get ur own passive income its not really much of a choice unless u advising everyone on here to trap 😂

    • @swacfan2791
      @swacfan2791 11 місяців тому

      @@guuledmohamed357 Spoken like someone who's only known city life. Country folk are always personified to be dumb on movies and TV shows, but the real dummies live in the city l swear. Only men with no skills would resort to selling drugs. Can you weld? Can you ride, break, shoe, or train a horse? Can you fly a crop duster? Can you chop wood 🪓? Can you build a house with your own two hands? Can you raise your own food such as livestock? Can you grow your own food? Can you drive a manual transmission? Can you even cook or sew? I bet the answers are no, naw, and nope. Those are examples of being your own man. I came straight out of high school with these skills, but the only thing you could think of is selling drugs. I may be a simple country boy or bumpkin as a city or "urban" person might say, but I don't need food stamps, government assistance for housing, and I don't live in a box unit that you might call an apartment. Trap? Living in the city is a trap! Wake up!

  • @robinsonfamily222
    @robinsonfamily222 11 місяців тому +82

    3 jobs sounds very stressful and exhausting. Do people not know how to live frugal and cook healthy meals on a budget? Some things you should just keep to yourself.

    • @spacedye2001
      @spacedye2001 11 місяців тому +12

      Living frugal isn’t the answer. The economy is tough for one person especially with a kid.

    • @Capgpro1
      @Capgpro1 11 місяців тому +10

      Most things you should keep to yourself.

    • @DoubeEdged7
      @DoubeEdged7 11 місяців тому +4

      ​@@spacedye2001that's more reason to be frugal

    • @jrock7561
      @jrock7561 11 місяців тому +3

      Doing that stuff isn’t enough. The cost of living is sky high and blacks are excluded from real participation in the economy. Miss me with the few who make it because their stories are tough and they usually have to be exceptional. 😊

    • @melanatedmantra6607
      @melanatedmantra6607 11 місяців тому

      Isn't it amazing how these BW don't seek likewise hard working BM? Sounds like they want these lazy a.. Pookies. You get what give.

  • @Chitownbrotha30
    @Chitownbrotha30 11 місяців тому +11

    That's more on her than him because she is allowing that. Boundaries, set them....

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому

      Yup and then when men set boundaries or have certain standards they are shamed for it.

  • @biblicalwisdomministries
    @biblicalwisdomministries 11 місяців тому +6

    They wanted to be equal. They got it!!!

  • @lifewells4122
    @lifewells4122 11 місяців тому +41

    If you have 3 jobs, then you shouldn't need to ask anyone for anything.

    • @theoriginal668
      @theoriginal668 11 місяців тому +4

      🤣🤣

    • @bbpersonalpage1613
      @bbpersonalpage1613 11 місяців тому +4

      So he should live there RENT free ??

    • @djkut
      @djkut 11 місяців тому +1

      Agree and to be fair the same goes for the men, he shouldn't be asking her to cook, clean, and give him some ass either!

    • @RillaLord32212
      @RillaLord32212 11 місяців тому +2

      Yahtzee!!!

  • @andrewbaker5824
    @andrewbaker5824 11 місяців тому +7

    Something sounds like she is leaving key information out. I need to get his side of the story.

    • @thedarkknight4956
      @thedarkknight4956 11 місяців тому

      His side of it is him playing video games all-day.

  • @victorhaywood9995
    @victorhaywood9995 11 місяців тому +56

    Now, we can say be strong and independent.
    This is a perfect example of a person using you.
    Do what you need to do for the child.

    • @symonelewis1690
      @symonelewis1690 11 місяців тому +1

      This video is definitely not the only example of a woman having a man that is using her.

    • @miguelstigler9170
      @miguelstigler9170 11 місяців тому +2

      YEP 💯 💯 💯

  • @willmallory9085
    @willmallory9085 11 місяців тому +6

    5:27 Uncle: the boyfriend doesn't see her as a long term relationship, only sex. That's why he's not sharing.

  • @michelegreshan1539
    @michelegreshan1539 11 місяців тому +5

    Bye Bye Birdie. Ain’t taking care of no one. But me

  • @joemomma3208
    @joemomma3208 11 місяців тому +39

    I worked 4 jobs all at the same time and didn’t need help. What kinda debt is she in to need help from a man?

    • @sevenp.8640
      @sevenp.8640 11 місяців тому +7

      I don't think it's about being in debt, I think it's more so about wanting help from her mate, not just a man. There are a few variables, we don't know how much the bills are, if her child has extra need, her spending habits. . .I could keep going.

    • @joemomma3208
      @joemomma3208 11 місяців тому +5

      “you have not cause you ask not” ask and ye shall receive! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @keyblade287
      @keyblade287 11 місяців тому +1

      4 part-time jobs at once?

    • @joemomma3208
      @joemomma3208 11 місяців тому +2

      one full time job a 3 seasonal part time jobs in the evening and on sundays

  • @csauls
    @csauls 11 місяців тому +3

    3 jobs...so retail? HER child. Where is the father?

    • @DaMixWizard
      @DaMixWizard 11 місяців тому +1

      That’s a pookie that’s living with her. He’s not that child’s father. That’s why he said you’re away from your child too much working 3 jobs. Meaning… I’m not watching your ex-boyfriend’s child.

  • @jakecopeland7845
    @jakecopeland7845 11 місяців тому +6

    Who he think he is, Jody on "Baby Boy?" 🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @norrismannjr
    @norrismannjr 11 місяців тому +4

    She sounds like she's paying like she weigh! He's not into her like that.

    • @Lordamraphel
      @Lordamraphel 10 місяців тому +1

      Lmao! She’s trying to make Pookie stay.

  • @dougduncan9222
    @dougduncan9222 11 місяців тому +4

    I hate my lady even having one job. Always trying to get her to let me just take of her and she focuses on the home

  • @djkut
    @djkut 11 місяців тому +5

    Simple fix, if he's not helping out, especially if you're a good woman, move around! Stop giving him booty, stop cooking for him, do for you and your child, only. And just tell him he can stay at his own place and you stay in yours and find a guy that you guys work together constructively to have a healthy relationship.

  • @judahrise5022
    @judahrise5022 11 місяців тому +7

    I've learned not to just listen to one side of a story...

  • @michelegreshan1539
    @michelegreshan1539 11 місяців тому +21

    She’s paying the bills. Girl. Leave that alone

  • @Irvington81
    @Irvington81 11 місяців тому +76

    She’s strong and independent 💪🏽
    She got this

    • @Nightrain349
      @Nightrain349 11 місяців тому +6

      😂 I don't care if she is or isn't. Keep it moving.

    • @tjepic5256
      @tjepic5256 11 місяців тому +11

      She also said "my child" not ours

    • @AhminaIsmael
      @AhminaIsmael 11 місяців тому

      I’ve never heard a black women refer to herself as these things. & if they are, it’s because the man in their life is weak and dependent…. Probably somewhat like you.

    • @jimmcdonald9490
      @jimmcdonald9490 11 місяців тому

      @@tjepic5256 red flag on the play 🚩

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 11 місяців тому

      We clearly did not watch the same video 😒 SHE HAS A MAN!!!

  • @mikesercanto9149
    @mikesercanto9149 10 місяців тому +1

    The boyfriend needs to be working!

  • @hybridPeople358
    @hybridPeople358 11 місяців тому +3

    This is insane. She's afraid of him.

  • @darkpower6406
    @darkpower6406 11 місяців тому +4

    Phil you are assuming that she's telling the truth!

    • @FlyTyBlizzy
      @FlyTyBlizzy 11 місяців тому

      I think she is because they love picking the bummiest of bums and then have they babies

  • @monekibapearson5706
    @monekibapearson5706 11 місяців тому +7

    "That's on her if she works 3 jobs she wants to live above her means i don't feel sorry for her."

  • @tankcoatpink
    @tankcoatpink 11 місяців тому +7

    Danggg 3 jobs 😂, I’m only working 2 😂, that’s a lot of hours right there 😂😂. Someone give her a handclap thoo.

  • @bossbradley
    @bossbradley 11 місяців тому +40

    3 jobs and you srill broke. You dont need a man. You need financial discipline!

    • @proactivemimi6473
      @proactivemimi6473 11 місяців тому +1

      😄😂

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому +1

      Perfect example of a woman not living within her means. She probably got a hell of a lot of debt and payments and it's getting rough for her.

    • @alwayssomething8344
      @alwayssomething8344 11 місяців тому +1

      @@TheMegatron673perfect example of a somebody defending a nobody. A complete bum. Only people who would talk about that woman is a hateful person who’s a bum just like him or just evil 😈

  • @karenchandler2921
    @karenchandler2921 11 місяців тому +1

    Yeah, leave him alone

  • @theadventurekidz-scienceho843
    @theadventurekidz-scienceho843 11 місяців тому +9

    Does anyone listen to 🚩 these days!

  • @Mohamedhassan-eu6wx
    @Mohamedhassan-eu6wx 11 місяців тому +4

    Does he pay the rent and bills? He seems greedy and likely probably has a side chick.

  • @ronaldtyson-jx6qm
    @ronaldtyson-jx6qm 11 місяців тому +2

    If u got a man and working 3 jobs u single

  • @LMLification
    @LMLification 11 місяців тому +10

    He is a prime example of someone wanting a traditional partner while expecting expecting that person to do certain unconventional tasks. While complaining that she is not “at home with the kids,” he feels she should work herself into an early grave and pay all their bills. He probably doesn’t even help with anything at home either!

    • @bodhisattva2348
      @bodhisattva2348 11 місяців тому

      That's 99% of black men 😂😂😂 I AIN'T BUILT FOR MULE LIFE.

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому

      Isn't that what most women want? A man to pay all the bills while she can sit at home and cheat while he at work.

  • @professionalpookie
    @professionalpookie 11 місяців тому +8

    What exactly is a real man Phil?

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому +2

      A REAL man works multiple jobs, pays all the bills, pays for kids that ain't his, fund her life style blah blah blah. 🤨

    • @professionalpookie
      @professionalpookie 11 місяців тому +3

      @@TheMegatron673 🤣🤣🤣

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому +3

      @@professionalpookie I was laughing while typing that too. 😁

  • @donaldmcgee6334
    @donaldmcgee6334 11 місяців тому +15

    I disagree with you Phil. This is what happens when you shack. He's not her husband.

  • @gregkelly5060
    @gregkelly5060 11 місяців тому +2

    You shouldn't be working 3 jobs. He should be working & leading the household alleviating stress within the home. But reality he ain't marrying you. In this situation.

  • @reneenelson6818
    @reneenelson6818 11 місяців тому +8

    Young lady, he is not it!!! Please move on, time waits 4 no man. Go be happy with some1 worth your time young lady. Great stroy bro Phil

  • @carlreynolds7043
    @carlreynolds7043 11 місяців тому +5

    I get what Phil is saying but a needy woman can be very annoying. I hate when a woman is always needing something, it can be a turn off.

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому

      My brother'a girlfriend is basically like that and he jumps whenever she says something. He got into a car accident one time after he picked her up from work. I always felt that her ass needs to get her license and take herself to and from work.

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 11 місяців тому +5

    There needs to be more to this story ( I need to hear his side). I think if a man pays the bills, he shouldn't be required to pay for her nails and stuff like that. Is she living beyond her means?

  • @vze21gwa
    @vze21gwa 11 місяців тому +3

    Why is it that women can find jobs faster than men? There is something very wrong with America.

  • @polketex5043
    @polketex5043 11 місяців тому +7

    Not enough information.
    Your jumping to conclusions on the man when it's little information given and parts of her story isn't adding.
    Like you saying the man should do this and that but we don't know what THEIR relationship dynamic is like and what does she need 10-20 dollars for every day? Fast Food? Like cook something😂😂

    • @LMLification
      @LMLification 11 місяців тому +2

      She mentioned that she only asks on her day off and is putting that 10, 20 or 50 dollars back into the household. That might be her day to run errands for the home. If he doesn’t want to even discuss their finances as a couple living together, then he should just move out and end the relationship.

  • @landonbrown9943
    @landonbrown9943 11 місяців тому +7

    These the type of dudes they like…

  • @oliviaharris3118
    @oliviaharris3118 11 місяців тому +1

    This is not a hard choice to make break up with him

  • @thetravelg166
    @thetravelg166 11 місяців тому +1

    If she got 3 jobs, how on earth is she broke??

  • @rashiqs4400
    @rashiqs4400 11 місяців тому +2

    He is not a good man, he isnot a team player

  • @frizellruckerjr3968
    @frizellruckerjr3968 11 місяців тому +1

    Phil, That is true. If she's over 25, it will be tough.

  • @CHI-TOWN-CHICAGO
    @CHI-TOWN-CHICAGO 11 місяців тому +4

    LMBAO! Ladies it's 2024!

  • @melanin_love7
    @melanin_love7 11 місяців тому +26

    She needs a new man asap

    • @12_door_tycoon
      @12_door_tycoon 11 місяців тому

      LOL how many men want an overweight single mom who wants to hit them up for cash twice a week. Definitely not me.

    • @alvinsimba734
      @alvinsimba734 11 місяців тому +3

      She needs to review herself and the man doesn’t even see a future with her, he is probably looking for the one and once he gets one he is gone. That woman is immature by a long shot especially when you share details like this, that should be kept in the house. I don’t blame the guy in this case.

    • @mesoanto1031
      @mesoanto1031 11 місяців тому +2

      Who wants a beggar?
      Who wants a damaged woman with kids?
      Who wants someone else's baby mama?

    • @FlyTyBlizzy
      @FlyTyBlizzy 11 місяців тому

      Lol a single mother

  • @gigijerrie322
    @gigijerrie322 11 місяців тому +2

    She can ask all she wants......go just walk away.....u really do need to spend MORE time with your child......😮😢😮😢😮

  • @TheMegatron673
    @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому +1

    I thought she was strong and independent? She'll figure it out. 🤨

  • @kikayei
    @kikayei 11 місяців тому +3

    For all we know, she’s probably working 3 part-time jobs. There’s no way she’s working over 80 hours per week. And Mr. Scott, no working man should pay for his wife’s vanity needs, especially if she has a job to pay for it herself.

  • @12_door_tycoon
    @12_door_tycoon 11 місяців тому +19

    I like Phil but you are at least 20 percent Simp. That’s not his kid. She never said that. You are assuming that.

    • @htkme7612
      @htkme7612 11 місяців тому +14

      They always assuming something from a one sided story that's always missing key details!!

    • @12_door_tycoon
      @12_door_tycoon 11 місяців тому

      @@htkme7612 💯💯💯

  • @ericpetteway3841
    @ericpetteway3841 11 місяців тому +4

    1rst problem boy..friend 2nd problem why she still with him, and not finding a HUSBAND, that supports / grows with her 3rd problem stop using the term “bro”, we need to understand our role/ title in every relationship. I pray she does better

  • @mannyrobinson5987
    @mannyrobinson5987 11 місяців тому +1

    That is your boyfriend momma. Not your husband. He technically doesn’t have to do a thing for you.

  • @melvinlovejones
    @melvinlovejones 11 місяців тому +2

    This is the epitome of broke-on-broke dating.

  • @donaldmcgee6334
    @donaldmcgee6334 11 місяців тому +2

    She can cover her own luxuries.

  • @mybrotha8144
    @mybrotha8144 11 місяців тому +12

    Because he’s not your man. He’s playing you. Come on man $10? Yo man can’t give you $10? Are you sure you’re dating a man and not a boy?

    • @mesoanto1031
      @mesoanto1031 11 місяців тому +4

      $10 today
      20 tomorrow
      50 next week
      $200 next month
      The wants just keep increasing

    • @LMLification
      @LMLification 11 місяців тому +2

      @@mesoanto1031She only asks on her day off because that’s going back into the home they both share. IF she really is paying all or most of their living expenses, then that’s not much, especially if he’s not even helping with their chores at the very least.

    • @mybrotha8144
      @mybrotha8144 11 місяців тому

      @@mesoanto1031 I feel you, but it seems like they’ve been together for a while and she just asked for $10 so I don’t think she’s constantly asking for something. And let’s be honest this isn’t $10 back in the 1980s this is $10 in 2024 $10 is pretty much a toothbrush and toothpaste if a man can’t afford that? Then he ain’t no man in my eyes.

  • @judahrise5022
    @judahrise5022 11 місяців тому +4

    Phil old skool simpn!!! Took 100% of her story as truth 😅😅😅

  • @informedRev13
    @informedRev13 11 місяців тому +4

    Agreed, Phil!💯💯💯💯💯

  • @_CPerk
    @_CPerk 11 місяців тому

    Here’s the kicker…he’s probably broke too and don’t have It. Time to cut ties and start over.

  • @PlatPodMediaCEOSean
    @PlatPodMediaCEOSean 11 місяців тому +1

    The internet is the best and worst thing to ever happen to humanity. SMH. I’m banning all internet in my pod on Mars.

  • @dnah02
    @dnah02 11 місяців тому +1

    Budget budget budget cook at home. But that man needs to be working is as+ off. At least until he can get a better paying job where 1 income can cover bills, savings, and investing.

  • @Kiki-ko1cr
    @Kiki-ko1cr 11 місяців тому +1

    How you find time for 3 jobs? Why not work just one job? This is crazy!

  • @olly2027
    @olly2027 11 місяців тому +5

    Do we know if he is the father?

  • @technofilejr3401
    @technofilejr3401 11 місяців тому +4

    3:32 Phil something is off on this story. She sounds like one of those chicks who has a lot of wants but doesn’t prioritize her needs.
    Don’t assume she isn’t materialistic.
    8:31 Also she never said the child was his. She said “Her child” not “our child “.

  • @keturaequalizer
    @keturaequalizer 11 місяців тому +1

    This is why most of my single and divorced friends don`t want a serious relationship. They tell me its cheaper for them when they are on their own and its also stress free. They have decided to keep to the companionship arena. 🤷🏽‍♂

  • @yapadyahbanyahawada3011
    @yapadyahbanyahawada3011 11 місяців тому +15

    In truth, how many times have we seen people make up stuff for their benefit. This is a one sided Incredible story. My question is, what did she do to receive this treatment? Sorry not sorry; how many sisters choose pookies and ray rays like this every day over respectable men? She chose him, stop crying.

  • @stephenfoster1257
    @stephenfoster1257 11 місяців тому +1

    What bills at her age does she have that requires her to work 3 jobs?How much debt is she in?

  • @Cherrybaby12
    @Cherrybaby12 11 місяців тому +1

    I am appalled, and quite frankly sick to my stomach at these women publicizing their personal situations on the Internet to be viewed and reviewed and different podcasts, including this one (And you know I love you, uncle Phil) but I hate this for us.

    • @TheMegatron673
      @TheMegatron673 11 місяців тому

      You notice how the majority of men don't express their issues on social media but women do? 🤨

  • @gregoryjefferson6311
    @gregoryjefferson6311 11 місяців тому +8

    If you have to ask ,,,,,,, your " roommate " ,,,,,,, for $20-40 dollars , you need a new roommate . Not only is that not your man , he's not your friend .

  • @hundreds2696
    @hundreds2696 11 місяців тому +19

    He’s making sure the house is good.
    That’s enough, no other race of guy is asked to do all this

    • @12_door_tycoon
      @12_door_tycoon 11 місяців тому +10

      Yeah Phill simpin. He does that sometimes. Notice she called the kid “my son.” So basically that’s not his kid. Ain’t no man dying to get hit up for cash twice a week by a single overweight mom.

    • @ManOfAlkebulan
      @ManOfAlkebulan 11 місяців тому +6

      The lady said she pays all the bills.

    • @Nightrain349
      @Nightrain349 11 місяців тому +1

      Hell with all that I ain't doing it.

    • @MsRenaissance
      @MsRenaissance 11 місяців тому

      @hundreds2696 What do you mean no other race of men are asked to do all this?? You C|○wns still don't understand manhood do you? All other races take care of their households. That's why the women in other communities can sit in their feminine energy because they don't have to be battering doing 3 jobs to help their men. There are some cultures like in some Asian abd African household where the man is responsible for woman's entire family. But aside from those cases men of other communities know how to provide for their home. We just have the Dustiest and some of the most w○rthleßs ones.

    • @Peace12105
      @Peace12105 11 місяців тому +1

      @@12_door_tycoonwell I’d like to see what he looks like because he’s there before people start talking about her looks..

  • @samuelmahmud1909
    @samuelmahmud1909 11 місяців тому

    Great video coverage Phillip 💯 3 sides to every story, but what if she is saying is true... Dump Him!

  • @michelegreshan1539
    @michelegreshan1539 11 місяців тому +2

    What do you need them for. You can do bad by ya self love

  • @jcorone2000
    @jcorone2000 9 місяців тому

    How you have three jobs and still need to borrow 10, 20, 30 dollars from anyone? She needs a financial adviser and not a man.

  • @frizellruckerjr3968
    @frizellruckerjr3968 11 місяців тому +1

    She needs to work with him. Treat him with kindness and call it a day. You made the choice. Women can change men like underwater. GET a man to talk to him. His Father, Grandfather, Pastor, Uncle, Coach, etc. He needs help. The next man might be just as bad or worse.

  • @Samba652
    @Samba652 11 місяців тому

    If what she say is 100 percent true ,then shes a good woman but he is no good and is an ungrateful man and he is not doing what he supposed to do !

  • @anthonythompson1680
    @anthonythompson1680 11 місяців тому

    It's all about having a honest conversation and the financial arrangements are whatever the two people agree upon. That can vary from one relationship to another. The art of conversation can solve most problems.

  • @charliepruitt517
    @charliepruitt517 11 місяців тому

    $50? He's complaining over $50. That's 2 bags of groceries. And he has a problem with that. What happened to being a partner.

  • @princessdiva6671
    @princessdiva6671 10 місяців тому +1

    STOPPPPP BEING STUPID FOR HIM 😮 He's only using you 😡 If u stay then u just getting what u DESERVEEEE TOO GET 😡 IT'S CALLED YOU'VE BEEN ( PLAYED - USED )

  • @jeannettegordon8064
    @jeannettegordon8064 11 місяців тому +8

    SMH

  • @onur-a-k
    @onur-a-k 11 місяців тому

    That man is smart and proves it by giving her nothing 😂

  • @keithmagnifico4164
    @keithmagnifico4164 11 місяців тому

    Sweetheart is not in a relationship. She's single and don't even know it.