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A quote told to me by my college psychology teacher "Freud isn't the "Father of Psychology" because his theories were right, but instead because people studied psychology to prove him wrong."
And they did because you can think for yourself just ignore others wether you agree with them or not. It just depends who you choose to believe how you perceive you’re reality.
"Ida is rebellious to authority, has no remorse for hurting others, and enjoys breaking the law" me: "I see Antisocial Personality Disorder tendencies going on" Freud: "were you not breastfed long enough as an infant?"
Actually , breastfeed and nursing an infant can have a huge impact on the gene expression of a human . Check out the rat baby nursing studies showing the effects of epigenetics changes in the genes of the infant mice
@@okbutwhatif9905 I wouldn’t say conspiracy theory, but it’s how Freud made his psychoanalysis “foolproof”. To any detractors, Freud could just claim repression.
Yeah of course, he is the weirdo, and that big share of porn content about "moms" is just a coincidence. It's so easy to devalue all someone else's work by labeling it a crank
@@vorun7710 doesn't prove anything. deadass everything exists on the Internet, there's porn of anthropomorphic aeroplanes why would people stop at mothers?
@weedcat420 bruh i thought this was really ridiculous until i heard that part of his theory. literally almost all radical feminists are fatherless shitheads and they almost always seem to have a great inferiority complex towards men
@@Nebulisreconx Fair. But to my experiance, people often take a 'this model applies' or 'this statistic/average sais that' as those things being an absolut and definition of reality. While its actually just an average or a model. So Im just clarifying by stating it. Yes. Im stating the obvious. But the obvious has to be stated oftentimes, just to make sure people understand.
I am a parent coach and I have a master's degree in mental health. I must say, from the cases I have seen, Freud's psychosexual development theory does make a lot of sense! It might not make sense straight away, but as you dig deeper, a lot of things do hold up. I remember I met a father who's a very typical OCD sufferer, as he said and I quote - I constantly feel the need to tidy up the stuff, and I know I am good at this, but I never experienced joy when cleaning up. And I asked him something about his childhood, and he told me he had to use diapers till the age of 6. I know it's probably too vain to draw any serious conclusion, but Freud's idea that unremembered trauma can cause changes in personality development is wildly accurate.
i don’t think so.. i can play a role sure but some people are neat and some are not. but not really linked to their childhood. if u have siblings some might turn out neat and the other might be very messy. like if u mental health as well. it’s just dependent on everhthing. i have a twin brother and one sister that is 1 year old and we grew up the same way, but we’re all so different just like every other sibling. so it’s unfair to say it’s based on that. genetics plays a huge role.
@@stephysun there is no “cleanliness gene” there are actually very few actual “genes” that determine our behavior/let alone our risk for certain disorders. A lot of times someone uses the phrase “genetically predisposed” all it really means is you share characteristics with someone who’s more likely to do/end up somewhere than someone else is. One of the biggest reasons being patters of behavior. This is why if you come from a family of lower socio economic status that follow a specific ethnicity or demographic’s cultural norms they will say “you are genetically predisposed to be [blank]” there’s no actually gene causing that community’s issue, it is just actually that the community is mimicking and promoting behavior that will lead to certain consequences/outcomes and you happen to share genes with them. What I’m saying is in an overwhelming amount of cases are conclusions that are not derived from performing proper data science. If they were they would just say “you are more likely” not “you are genetically predisposed” but most patients/people reading articles (articles looking to generate ad revenue and get clicks) do not possess the cognition to differentiate correlation from causation. These wild claims for “genes” being responsible for everything now are lazy generalizations stemming misinterpretations of real data.
@@stephysun also your brother not being clean doesn’t mean he had trauma but if say your brother’s “feeling dirty” all the time is certainly evidence of trauma. This feeling does not have to manifest itself in one’s cleanliness of physical spaces like the room specifically to still be true. But also not having a clean room 24/7 is pretty normal depending on the context. Before we can establish your brother is or is not behaving out of the norm we’d have to establish a baseline of his other “normal” behaviors first and then cross reference those results using unbiased psychoanalysis of his behaviors and his own testimony of how he sees himself (unbiased testing that your brother is unaware of the fact the testing/questions are trying to evaluate how clean/proper he see’s himself) eventually if you asked the right questions the right way he would tell on himself and unconsciously disclose that there are parts of his psyche that feel as if he is not clean/proper enough hinting at some sort of inadequacy that more than likely does point to trauma experience during the developmental phases of “self”. There have yet to be any compelling evidence to suggest that these theories are incorrect because applying them actually works to help people pinpoint and target breakdowns in their personality that prevent them from achieving their goals. Secondly these phases are all instrumental not only to the development of self but all survival skills. It makes a lot of sense that Mother Nature would hard program these phases in us so that we can survive but also prosper. Maslow’s “heirarchy of needs” theories actually further proves a lot of Freudian psychology as well through completely unrelated experimentation.
@@Nikelaos_Khristianos jungs idea of the archetypes is not that unaccepted in modern psychoanalysis. Edit: what do you even mean by „modern psychology“?
@@hunterhunter2215 Apologies, clarification: I mostly refer to the indignant fact that if one brings up Freudian or Jungian psycho-analysis in academia these days, you do run the risk of literally being laughed out the room, at least in a psychology lesson. (Despite the fact that psychology is just theories!) Conversely, I've personally found Jungian theory to be really quite useful in English Literature considering how much of the hero's journey envisioned by Joseph Campbell is based on Jung's heroic archetypes, especially when examining classical texts from the ancient world. Lastly, I do actually agree with your point about the archetypes, they've achieved a new sort of relevance in today's world. (Albeit, for better or worse, thanks to characters like Jordan Peterson).
Since the theory was developed in the early 1900s it can't be all perfect, but we've got to admit that bringing the concept of the unconscious, and the effect of childhood experiences on personality into the limelight was a great accomplishment at that time. I do believe that psychedelics hold a promising future by bringing out our repressed thoughts and emotions. Cheers to Freud for that.
@@matswessling6600 Very little? There are very big differences in people who, say, grew up rich and spoiled whos mummy and daddy would buy them anything they wanted and never got told no and someone who grew up in poverty without a father and an abusive household. VERY big differences.
Therapist: “Suzy, I see you have a problem with authority..and you get into abusive relationships...were..you not potty trained well as a child?” Suzy: *starts to sob*
Freud was the first to develop a comprehensive theory of development, personality, and a structural model of the psyche. He identified some patterns and correlations that are correct but the mechanisms he used to explain a causal relationship were off and actually reveal his own personality, he projected on to an unknown to fill in the blanks. He was correct in saying that eventually we would understand neurobiology and the biological basis of behavior at a level capable of better answering the questions he was creating these theories to answer. We take for granted that we are able to think in these terms today, without Freud it would be a very different world. What he was wrong about is not nearly as important as how he taught us to think about psychological development.
THIS I also think we are focusing way too much on the bad examples and not on the fact that he did explain how we are conditioned to behave goes back to how we managed to perceive the reality around us from a young age, through limited sensations at that time
Well in psychoanalysis, identifying the repetitive pattern of a person's behaviour is important. Why does he or she keep picking someone that don't love them, why does he or she keep feeling the sense of being abandoned, why can't he or she love someone? What's important in child is because they have a deveolping mind and a lot of complex feeling cannot be fully understand by them, or even us. So when there is a trauma happening to a child, they relied on competent adult to share their mind to figure it out for them. While most of the time those adults never came, and way too many unsolved issue just preserved to the adult life and gradually became an obvious especially when the growing people started to have their own work, lifestyle, money, sex or other things. It's not really as easy as it seems when a lot of things were due to child's trauma in Freud's work.
Watching the kids go through the latent phase almost made me cry. The whole video was like "Hans is doing fine, Ernst and Ida....are not." And then they reach the latent phase, and the video switches to "So anyway, all these kids are having a good time. Ernst and Ida are happy, they're learning, Hans is vibing through life-" and I almost cried, I felt so much relief for them. I guess I got attached.
какие мужчины девушкам нравятся волосатые или не волосатые ? девушкам нравится член ? девушкам нравится куни?от какого размера члена больно ?какой размер члена для вас большой ? какое впечатление у вас было когда впервые увидели мужской член ? какой впечатление было когда впервые увидели порно ?было ли вам больно при потери девственности?
They could probably help each other through the pitfalls of life. Especially if they are close enough to share and discuss their feelings with each other.
I prefer the "Neurosis can be treated by talking." Instead of the "This man is mad, lock him away! give him lots of sedatives and electroshock therapy. If he still acts up lobotomy." Despite the hinderance of Nazism and the hatred of the Jews at the time, I still think that his approach of "I know nothing, let's start from the beginning" to be really a mark of the time and reminds me of when surgeons started washing their hands before operating. Great video!
I dont think Freud was accurately describing the human condition as much as he was trying to find and figure out his own problems. I believe he projected his own conclusions of himself onto everyone else. I dont believe women walk around with penis envy (except the feminists) any more than i believe boys want to kill their fathers and sleep with there mothers.
At college, I've seen many students complain about Freud's theories not making any sense. But that's the whole point. He relied on his own personal experiences rather than the scientific method to develop his theories because he was a psychiatrist, not a scientist. Also, it was a completely different world back then. Female hysteria was considered to be a physical illness caused by a literal "wandering womb." When you take that into perspective, Freud's works were really revolutionary.
@@carsonbarnesharp If you dont think it doent apply, you are just ignorant, doesnt mean it is a recepie book bro its just a video, his theory is way more than that, also psycology helps a lot of people and there are a lot of theorys that can help you... thinking that they dont work... so what does?
@@carsonbarnesharp to be fair, they used to apply to one very specific group of society: Freud's test pool. That is to say, middle-aged, upper class Norwegian men who fancied their mothers.
Because he made the foundation for modern psychology and a lot of his theories were right. I've never encounter an actual psychologist, not one, that disregards Freud's influence in psychology; ironically enough the ones who do that aren't psychologists at all.
Probably because he was one of the first? But it was an old time, he was a man with his other social privileges, so his understanding of human psychology is expected to be rigged with all these systematic bias resulting in... penis envy? (I wish he didn't have one, would have more theories proven right 😏) Even now, so many people (some psychologists included) are trying to mainstream the socio-political parameters in the discourse of mental health which is quite individualistic at this point, so.. meh 🤷🏽
@@Anamika00004 Penis envy is not particularly biased; it has a well-established theory that is based on development. People tend to forget that Freud was one of the first individuals that took women's issues seriously. Back then people didn't really think much about what a woman could go through because they would accredit that to the fact that they were women and that's how they were, however, Freud started using psychoanalysis on women who suffered from ptsd due to abuse and helped them to improve their lives by actually listen to what they had to say, which eventually led to the foundation of many other things that were unexplored at the time. Ironically enough, not many of his theories have been proven wrong, contrary to popular belief, but people still debate certain situations because psychology is not entirely understood yet.
I see this as the first draft of psychology, based on the worldview and the conditions of his time. It's not really wrong, but it looks at things from a very specific point of view. It's like someone would study the shadow of an elephant and make theories of what an elephant is.
Fun Fact: Freud also thought that the reason women wanted to marry other men was because they have a deep internal desire to sleep with their own fathers, while simultaneously hating their mothers for keeping her husband to herself. According to Freud, this leads to women marrying men similar to their fathers, to kinda get the next best thing. I would take any theories this man had with a gigantic grain of salt.
Well actually, there is some evidence that supports straight women do end up picking men that reminds them or is similar to how her father was in her childhood. Not exactly because she wants to sleep with her father, per se, but likely just because it's familiar, and humans are more comfortable with familiar.
You dont get out much do you? Its not uncommon for women to pick partners similar to their parents or family. Just look at them. Look at people around the world. Theres a reason interracial couples are not as common as you would think. There is a reason we STILL talk about Freud today. Take your grain of salt elsewhere. There is evidence.
@@GimbalLocksOnly It’s not about women picking partners of the same race or with the same hair color. Freud thought they picked them based off of how similar their genitals were to that of their fathers.
@@GimbalLocksOnly The takeaways from this are 2 things: 1- Even if you didn’t think it was, assuming that interracial couples are not desired by women is racist. I would work on that. 2- Work on your attitude, and don’t be a jerk. Maybe you meant it as a joke, but starting off your comment with, “You don’t get out much, do you,” is an excellent way to make everyone think of you as a grade A asshole.
@@zildiun2327 ...how similar their genitals are to that of their fathers? Um, pal, I don't know about your family, but most families don't just stare and catalog each others genitals for future reference... I may be wrong, but that just sounds weird. Edit: ah, I misread. I see you now said that is what FREUD thought, not you yourself. My mistake.
But what about the part about young boys and girls finding out about their anatomy differences? At what age should they be taught about that? I always thought you should only teach them if they happen to notice and ask questions?
I think it's important to point out that these theories are one of the most influential in modern psychology - current therapies developed leading on from this (psychoanalytic psychotherapy) or in critical discourse with it (CBT). Freud published his works more than 100 years ago, when people with mental health problems ended up in asylums and psychology and psychological health was not realy a concept.
Wrong. It was prescribed to cure a morphine addiction to a close friend. At the time, cocaine was seen as a kind of cure-all. From headaches to things like indigestion and depression. It wasn't known whether or not it could cure and addiction, and so he decided to test it first on himself. He then moved on to say it was acceptable and gave it as a treatment to his friend.
@@Blula cocaine was used by everyone back then. Literally. It was used for headaches and pains, and pretty much everything else. So was heroine and such. They didn't have a ton of medical knowledge, and due to that what they gave was ethical and morally correct. It was seen as the best possible course of action, and so action was taken. Saying it doesn't make it any better, despite that being the absolute best medical knowledge at the time is like saying prescribing antidepressants is stupid and unethical because 150 years from now we'll have something that'll solve that without side-effects. They did what they could with the knowledge they had.
And I'm a bit jealous of women, though it's an unfounded jealousy. Maybe just because I liked my mother more than my father. His penis envy idea is weird.
“Ida, like all women, maintains penis envy throughout her whole life” I don’t know how to tell you that not all women are envious of penises, lol, this is just kinda hilarious
@@FMAYasha12 in spanish we have a word for you .. 'empanada' meaning you are so well cooked inside the pasty of your echo chamber of conditioning that you cannot see the arrow in its flight to your heart. If you attend to this youtuber's use of blatant-yet-perfectly-pc racist stereotyping u will catch my drift i assure you. But first... less 'pan' for you..
@@DrBe-zn5fv I’m so sorry but everything you say only confuses me more and more, lol. If you think I agree with the video, I was literally making fun of it, but I think maybe you’re overthinking all this, lol.
@@FMAYasha12 its fact. But as humans,as u know moral values, emotional intelligence etc, your penis envy is not shown outside but it still exist deep inside your subconscious mind.
I also was someone who tough that all of Freud’s work were madness. But we need to be humble and find out by ourselves how does he develops his ideas by reading his books. Although many say that they’re boring, they are quite interesting and sometimes even fun to read, because often some concerns linked to our daily life are related (The Interpretation of Dreams is a nice book that all of that can be finded, and not very hard to read). Anyway, let’s be humble. Either being right or wrong, Freud dedicated years of observations and study to develop his conclusions, and many of them I would say that most of people who read it got it wrong.
I think that most of the comments overlooked the simplicity of the message he was trying to convey. Just because one of these things happened to you doesn't mean that you will become that way, it just increases the chances of you becoming that way, especially over time.
@@chronicallytiredmedstudent i mean its about the subconcious no one is saying you literally want to fuck your mum its about how you will perceive future relationships and how you will be attracted to people similar to her
@@vinichenzo4811 he is weird... But his method is... Effective to say at least... His way of dealing with problem can be sum up as: "You have a psychological problem? Let me guess, childhood sexual abuse?" It's not right all the time... But 100% work 30-40% of the time.
@@wilhelmvonn9619 He once recommended cocaine to one patient as a way to cure his addiction to morphine. He ended being addictive to both and he said it was his fault for having a bad administration lol
That is nothing biological though. That mindset is induced by society and is also one reason why there are sex offenders with dominance as motive. Surprisingly or kind of fitting by this video, more female sex offenders commit rape or molest with the sense of dominance as motive than men do.
@@Mi_Fa_Volare I know what redit you would fit perfectly in! r/IknownothingbutimgonnapretendIdoanywaystomakemystupidandobviouslywrong/idioticargumentsseemvalid.
Freud is smart in many respects. Some ideas and statements, such as the personal tyrant all men obey, are often well thought out. However, I often consider this theory from Freud to be overly simplistic. It's an idea based on how our community can effect us more so than the effects of other environmental elements or our relationship with our bodies. No proper explanation on body dismorphia. No explanation on why a child may look up to an adult of a different gender. No explanation on why people develop different love languages, which I'm just starting to understand myself. Same goes with the subject of sexuality. Why do some find larger bodies attractive while others hold an attraction to smaller bodies. Example of this is the question of why some find a big buttocks attractive, some find a small one attractive, and others hold no attraction at all. This is more important than it appears. Going by the example of a woman having penis envy, that may not be what often develops. A woman may hear the guys they are attracted to talk about attraction to the smaller, which may make her become self conscious of her weight. Likewise, comments of a larger size may have the inverse of her feeling like she's too inadequate to attract a mate. Things may especially be difficult for a woman who hears all of this, but is attracted to someone who doesn't have that attraction. Therefore, she may try to emphasize that part, which may put off the mate she's after. Going back to penis envy, this can effect guys, too. Some guys tend to avoid subjects relating to nudity simply because they feel their penis is inadequate for pleasure and procreation. The subject of body size may also play a part. A guy with a large upper body can be considered strong and reliable to the women around him, but he may have insecurities and assume he's overweight. Just the same, a man who's "lean and sculpted" may view himself as "too weak" or "scrawny" to attract a mate. This negative view a man may hold of his body can be as frustrating to his mate. Even a woman confident in her body who simply wish to have personal enjoyment may find it difficult if he feels he can't deliver. Then there's the matter of appearance outside of biology. A subject that is especially difficult to properly explain. Some may find a bare upper body to be interesting and attractive. Others may not care, but will change their mind based on attire and any use if make up. To note, I do include tan sprays as a type of make up. In each instance of poor relations with ones own body, very little of Freud's theory accounts for every problem. Some of it may be upbringing, as suggested. However some of it can also be the environment, the present social experience, and whether or not there's a healthy relationship with ones own body. That's why I say this theory if Freud is too simple.
Hi Neko Vermillion, thank you for the insightful comment! It's so encouraging for us to see that our videos can entice educated discussion and contributions from people who know a lot about the topic :)
@@sprouts Often there is contradiction and miscommunication. Which is the big thing I wanted to bring up. There are often conflict due to such problems. Thankfully, I am understood.
@@ryand4787 I did talk about more than attraction. Such as the point of self consciousness being effected by others within the environment. Which is why I mentioned a man who's uncomfortable with his body having relationship problems. It's far more than him being attracted to someone. It's also a matter of him feeling confident in his body. Same with women. People do tend to have their personalities completely change, often to unhealthy degrees, due to the people around them belittling them for their body. The same can go with how they act, but that's a more difficult subject to discuss.
Have you ever read or studied Freud ? Real question, you cannot say psycho sexual developement is a simplistic theory if you actually read Freud. Besides this theory goes beyond Freud. Theres a LOT of authors who contributed their part.
The impact of developmental psychology is why Freud is so influential and popular. He may have gotten some of the specifics wrong, but you can't deny the development of our childhood plays a huge role in how how we are as adults. With a lot of meditation and therapy I was able to figure out the reason why I am gay. I lacked the emotional support I needed from my father and I was molested as a child = associating pleasure with men, and trying to fullfil the emotional void that my father left me. I also believe you can be born gay, but nurture plays a bigger role in my opinion.
@@sleepynoodles6425 MMmmm maybe through hypnosis, but it's hard to not like men that I've found attractive for so long.. my neurons are all set for that. But to find women attractive is a question I wonder, I'm open to that.
Freud's work shows how academia was back when he theorized this. This was constructed in the context of traditional christian values. This context formed the understanding what "normal" and "healthy" meant in his work. "Perversion" as a sin was undisputed, as was the female subordinate role in society and the family. As our society evolves past monolythic value systems, Freud's work loses a lot of relevance, though there was still a lot of good observations around childhood neurological development, we need to recontextualize his findings. Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis. Would be really cool to see a similar video on some of the critiques of Freud in the future. Especially the later stages are heavily disputed.
" Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis." This!!! Could not agree more! It seems crazy to me how eager we are to oversimplify reality in an attempt to construct an "easy" model, instead of attempting to complexify our models to fit reality!
Like elementary school; which are the most important school we will ever attend, because it's the foundation of all higher education. Likewise so is Freud. His psychoanalysis is the foundation upon which modern psychology is based.
Dad: "Son, you are experiencing what is called Oedipus Complex, just as I predicted yesterday, understand that what you are going through is normal and that it has no effect on your mother or I, RISE ABOVE YOUR IMPULSES SON, FORGE YOUR OWN WAY." *Shakes fist triumphantly* Son: *Existential crisis*
Freud, because of the context he was his whole life, made him had an interpretation of this phases based on misogynist (penis envy). Most of what he wrote was heavily judged.
I dont remember being 3, it's been far too long. When my parents told me of my babyhood, my mom said I was always over protective of her, and refused my father permission to get near her. My dad was an all around good guy and he though I was just a baby needing my mother, since he was often at work and I wasn't as comfortable with him. Just my assumptions, but this really did let me go too far, I was a cocky teenager who tried to be a shit to my dad. I wish i had told him how much he meant to me when i had the chance. If anyone young is reading this, appreciate your parents, you'll regret if you dont and the time comes only once
I can relate. My sister was a daddy's girl and I was essentially a momma's boy. My sister and I are 10 years apart so when I was coming up, my father wasn't really around because of work at that time so I developed a strong relationship with my mother. I saw my father knock my mom to the ground one night, I'm sure he was drinking because it was his birthday, he didn't hit her but I came into the room and saw him standing over her. Being 4-5 years old the only thing I could do was attempt at hitting him in his back then he stopped. Afterwards me and my dad had some friction, similar things happened in middle school. I figured I was big enough to take him on and he had to restrain me. Fast forward to being 18 and we had a full on brawl, he tackled me for making a joke and I lost it. Not gonna lie I kinda beat his ass lmao, I knew then I was finally able to take him on and took the opportunity to let it all out. We ended up apologizing to each other and we've been alright ever since. I've had my mother in my face a few times, acted like I put hands on her when I didn't so my dad would jump in obviously. My childhood was kinda messy, I know I was loved but there was so much conflict and sometimes emotional neglect that I'm not sure if I had a good or bad childhood. When my mother started to basically switch on me like I was suddenly the bad guy it hurt me so much, I didn't have anyone to turn to.
Didn't have a dad till I was 9 years old and still respect both genders equally and am in a healthy, and build upon respect, relationship.. I suppose I was able to deal with that "trauma" throughout my life or couple of therapies that I was in, actually helped getting on the right path.. Nonetheless, this Video was super informative and super interesting.. definitely wanna see more
I still don’t have a father, but I don’t hold any traumas about it. Then again I guess you miss more something that you once had rather than something you never had. I don’t feel any pain because I was never promised a father figure. But for people with divorced or missing parents, I guess that security was taken from them. Breaking that promise, but that’s just a theory.
As someone who grew up with an abusive father and later had problem in becoming a man. I can confirm that the way you are treated as a child has a lot of effect in your adulthood. I am now 29 and have read a Freuds work and it had helped me change myself for the better, it helped me rewire my brain and impulses at early adulthood. I think Freud was a genius of his time. The man taught me that nothing in this human mind happens without a reason.
This is a generalization. This may apply to some people but nothing is 100% fact for everyone. There's so much more contributing factors that are simply not talked about.
Yeah, logically, but this video is just presenting Freud's theory how it is. Keep in mind Freud is the father of psychoanalysis: before him, little to no research. So of course his vision is gonna be simplistic, outdated and backwards. Yet it still is the basis of later research and it definitely contributed a lot back in its time. We all know Freud's theory is not accurate and overly simplistic, doesn't mean it's any less historically relevant.
I'm gonna say what I told my Psychology teacher a few years ago: we don't have enough evidence. If more people were willing to talk honestly about this stuff, we could conclusively say whether Freud was right or wrong.
but you have to take into consideration that Freud was addicted to cocaine and that none of his theories were backed up by evidence. He was convincing his patients that they had gone through childhood trauma that they don’t remember. He’s theories are subjective and not scientific, so most probably he’s wrong.
@@karenkfoury7047 why though?? It makes perfect sense and most gais are like this they have daddy issues, they were more enmeshed with mother and many admitted to be s3xually molested that's why a lot says that they don't only feel s3xual feelings towards men, they also feel romantic and emotional ones and that's the reason why having absent father and feeling different from other men and difficulty in developing sense of manhood, when u think about it and apply to our modern world u will see it makes perfect sense and he wasn't wrong about it. It's only people don't want to accept it and instead trying to look for biological evidence for being gai because by saying it's how they are born and they can't change or control these feelings it makes it easier to pass it to society and make it acceptable but if people start to see it as something cause by trauma then it means there is treatment and a hope for change and this what most people don't want to happen so they reject his ideas
@@rihamashraf167 You're wrong although we can say that the reason of having a different sexuality is not completely identified Moreover, your theory only explains gay and lesbian sexualities, but how about the other ones then? Parents pay an important role in our mental development but there's no scientific proof to your theory And even if your theory was true, you still couldn't judge these people because they cause nothing bad to society. They don't have any mental problems, that is the other reason it isn't treated. Compared to someone who went through emotional neglect as a child and faces mental issues and illnesses as an adult to face that, 'developing' (because that's not how it works) a different sexuality doesn't cause any disorders, a gay person can be still as healthy as a heterosexual one
A lot of french therapists practice Freudian based Psychoanalysis. If nothing else, the french mental health system has proven that freud's Theories are completely ineffective if not downright harmful when used to treat mental illnesses and psychological disorders.
You have to present how this evolved into the actual world’s psychology because presenting it as valid science today it’s like saying radium is good for clocks.
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Psychology became a field of science because of Freud. Not because he was an inspiration, but because they wanted to disprove some of mad theories he said.
I'm just gonna say he was right about everything being about sex, the way he interpreted the reasons was him trying to feel smart and use his intellectual status to claim what he felt inside but you can't do that so that's where he fucked up but trust me everything is about sex and sexuality
@@garytrunsik2712 not everything is about sex human beings are a lot more complicated than that + some people lack sexual desires so it's not an essential part in everyone's life and can't be the cause of everything
Well i did actually , because he would beat my mom like once a week , and have frightening shouting with possibility of beating my mom , every other day . And i was always anxious of a fight breaking out between them every day , every minute .
Lmao hearing about "penis envy" in Freud's theories was one of the reasons it took me so long to realize I was trans. Heads up, most girls don't want a penis 💀
Kids might be curious why boys and girls have different bodies, but it’s not really normal to instantly be like “Why can’t I have that?” I was a little surprised when I first learned about penis envy because I was like ‘????? Why would I? I’m a girl?’ But my teacher asked as though it’s super common to be jealous
"Love this content! It’s amazing how much value you provide for parents looking to help their kids grow and learn. I’m definitely going to share this with my friends.
I see this in animal rescues too. Kittens and puppies taken out too soon/too late from their moms and siblings end up having certain problems or odd behaviors later as they grow. Ones that had aggressive parenting or rejective parenting also displayed some issues later. The latest kitten I rescued was separated from his mother too early. He projected his dependencies onto me especially when it came to feeding formula. He lacked certain survival skills and grew up with separation anxiety but I gotta be honest his dependent behavior that makes him a cuddlebug is very cute.
this video at the start says that this was Sigmund Freud's theory. Sigmund Freud's theories about psychology and sexuality are often ridiculed for their absurdity.
I know that when a girl sees a boy's penis she may think that "I am glad that I don't have one". And of-course she may think like "What's that? I want one of those" too. The same condition is same for boys too. There are boys who tells their parents that they want flat genital between their legs when they see girls' bodies or they may think the opposite. I mean it's not a general and stable behavior for all, so it's not a right theory. As a kid I always thought that male's genitals are like tumors. It can be hurt easily and I was glad that I don't have one of them. In fact I was feeling so lucky.
@@dwarampudivivekreddy1869 Definitely. Of-course, now the idea seems ridiculous to me. But when I was a little child I was thinking like that in my mind. Of course my thoughts weren't right but I never envied a penis. I want to explain that the idea is not right for all girls and boys. It's not a right theory. If it was a right theory, I wouldn't mind it. Because scientific truths are just the truths on the light of evidence. But I wanted to explain why this idea is not true for all.
@Anurag Saini I am happy that you love your own body and gender. That makes a man or woman more beautiful and charming, I think. I am happy that you don't have periods too. Periods can be reaaaaly annoying. But I am not saying having a female genital better. That would be ridiculous. Those were my thought when I was little. Now I don't think like that of-course.
While the specifics make no sense, the framework of trauma later affecting adult behavior seems to be the only logical part of Freud’s weird Oedipus stuff...
I don't know about the "storing all memories" thing, but I absolutely believe we have a lot of stuff locked up in our brains that doesn't see the light of day much. I also believe that every little choice we make, and experience we have can push us in a certain direction, whether only a little, or a lot.
I took psych 101 as a senior in HS. After, I took Abnormal Psych and because my FAVORITE psychologist was/is Carl Jung, my professor gave me Jungs book, Synchronicity. I love hearing discussions of the dream world. I do have an enoRMous question of an additive to, "dream- world..."
I will never understand why people are so pressed about others stating their sexuality/preferences. Straight people (including myself) make jokes all the time about what we find “appealing” and stuff yet the moment someone of LGBTQ+ does it it’s seen as annoying or weird. Like,what sort of double standard. . . I dunno. It’s weird.
My dad wasn't around during my upbringing and i ain't agressive towards women nor have a fixation on my mother and I'm sure that I'm straight, ol boi Freud was on sum serious drugs when he made this shit.
It completely aligns and explains the some of the root cause reasons for Narcissism and codependency behaviours in adults .It's such a terrible thing that most these Narcissist and codependent adults do not realise they aren't emotionally healthy and need a therapist . They never seek that help and end up abusing their own children and causing irreparable scars to their innocent kids .This abuse keeps passing on from generation to generation and hence becomes a vicious cycle of abuse
4:30 FALSE!!!! So absolutely false! There is all the social conflict during this time. Being an outcast due to difference in skill, social abilities or lifestyle one is born into. Worst of all, bullying happens here the most. How we are taught about the world, and how to approach thinking and learning. We can get stuck on mindsets or illusionary views of the world. And finally, being denied discovering our own interest and following them. For ecample, parents who want their child to be a medical doctor, while the child just wants to tune cars. This phase is littered with conflict, and in my opinion, can even destroy any progress or achievement from previous phases.
this video at the start says that this was Sigmund Freud's theory. Sigmund Freud's theories about psychology and sexuality are often ridiculed for their absurdity.
@@vepply i’m not just that if u guys a whole batch of people and raise them in the same environment, each personality, behavior, morals and values will be different.
I think that whether he was right or wrong, at least he was trying to bring light and understanding to aspects of development that most psychologists still don’t usually bring up, and this is so important, I think it should be further studied and evaluated to better the statements and make them more factual than theoretical however psychology is a really grey area even today because we don’t have the technology to completely prove everything, some things really we just have to rely on theories for now and how these theories fit a lot of people
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I took advanced psychology in high school and I have to admit, you covered this topic better than my high school teacher did in 9 minutes...
Not sure if I should be glad or sad. 😂
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I think you are suscribed to the same channels I am
The fact that psychology is teach during high school surprise me😂
Again man, u always here
A quote told to me by my college psychology teacher
"Freud isn't the "Father of Psychology" because his theories were right, but instead because people studied psychology to prove him wrong."
And they did because you can think for yourself just ignore others wether you agree with them or not. It just depends who you choose to believe how you perceive you’re reality.
this makes a lot of sense😭
It was a revolutionary idea that trauma affects one's personality and mannerisms
Exactly none of his theories were falsifiable
Yeah.
Patient: Doctor I don't get it... Why am I like this?
Therapist: Hmmmmm... Say, *at what age did you learn to shit in the toilet?*
Lol good one😆😆😆😆
LMFAO
"They never taught me"
PLSNXNANZW LMAOO
thank tou stranger, i laughed. Here's my like.
"Ida is rebellious to authority, has no remorse for hurting others, and enjoys breaking the law"
me: "I see Antisocial Personality Disorder tendencies going on"
Freud: "were you not breastfed long enough as an infant?"
Breastfeeding does increase social bonds so it technically holds up.
It’s more complex than just labeling them based on certain traits/symptoms
Actually , breastfeed and nursing an infant can have a huge impact on the gene expression of a human .
Check out the rat baby nursing studies showing the effects of epigenetics changes in the genes of the infant mice
Holy moly maccaroni, Freud said something dumb and you said something smart. That must mean you're really smart and Freud dumb 😮
Me: “WTF I don’t desire a sexual relationship with my mother!”
Freud: “Yes you do, your subconscious is just repressing that.”
@@okbutwhatif9905 I wouldn’t say conspiracy theory, but it’s how Freud made his psychoanalysis “foolproof”. To any detractors, Freud could just claim repression.
ara ara
@@okbutwhatif9905 "us Vs them" it's just another part of the big lie...
I'm sad I got the joke
superego
Pissed my pants, became a doctor.
Hahahaha 😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Hence why it's just a theory
Coincidence?I think not!!!!!
Let's goo i shit and pissed so I'm gonna be something too
Maybe not a good one?
"Genital Phase: Puberty to death"
Someone make this movie please
Fund me pls.
Sounds metal af
It's already been made: www.imdb.com/title/tt0069280/?ref_=ttpl_pl_tt
Your living it. We all are
@@wretchedexcess1654 what in the thunderfuck did you recommend
Freud was just a guy that had a mommy fetish, and created a theory so he wouldn't look weird.
It did make interesting story tropes
@Sisaac 20 Homofobia.
@@VaultDwellerAlexwhich one
@@commontouch1787 oedipus complex
Yeah of course, he is the weirdo, and that big share of porn content about "moms" is just a coincidence. It's so easy to devalue all someone else's work by labeling it a crank
@@vorun7710 doesn't prove anything. deadass everything exists on the Internet, there's porn of anthropomorphic aeroplanes why would people stop at mothers?
I often think Freud just had a lot of weird experiences as a child and developed his theories in an attempt to normalize them
Totally agree
Agreed
If you read on his family, you'll see it is all fucked up. His mother was the same age as his half brother who he fantasised about becoming his father
You didn’t notice you went through these stages after you learned about them?
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"penis envy" this made me laugh lol, I didn't expect to see it in this video
All women...ha!
@weedcat420 feminism
@weedcat420 bruh i thought this was really ridiculous until i heard that part of his theory. literally almost all radical feminists are fatherless shitheads and they almost always seem to have a great inferiority complex towards men
*P E A N U S I S P O W E R*
hence, the strapon!
Sex and childhood exist.
Freud: Oh, everything in the human mind is related to this!
I mean, its IS related.
But not defined.
Freuds theories are ultimatively only models and estimations.
@@ethribin4188 redundant explanation as all theories are by definition not facts including the theory of relativity and evolution
@@Nebulisreconx they are the closest we have to facts, scientific theories have to be proven to be accepted
Ever heard of this thing called "introverted intuition"?
@@Nebulisreconx Fair.
But to my experiance, people often take a 'this model applies' or 'this statistic/average sais that' as those things being an absolut and definition of reality.
While its actually just an average or a model.
So Im just clarifying by stating it.
Yes. Im stating the obvious.
But the obvious has to be stated oftentimes, just to make sure people understand.
I am a parent coach and I have a master's degree in mental health. I must say, from the cases I have seen, Freud's psychosexual development theory does make a lot of sense! It might not make sense straight away, but as you dig deeper, a lot of things do hold up.
I remember I met a father who's a very typical OCD sufferer, as he said and I quote - I constantly feel the need to tidy up the stuff, and I know I am good at this, but I never experienced joy when cleaning up.
And I asked him something about his childhood, and he told me he had to use diapers till the age of 6.
I know it's probably too vain to draw any serious conclusion, but Freud's idea that unremembered trauma can cause changes in personality development is wildly accurate.
I agree. I am doing a clinical internship, and Freud's theory makes sense in a way.
i don’t think so.. i can play a role sure but some people are neat and some are not. but not really linked to their childhood. if u have siblings some might turn out neat and the other might be very messy. like if u mental health as well. it’s just dependent on everhthing. i have a twin brother and one sister that is 1 year old and we grew up the same way, but we’re all so different just like every other sibling. so it’s unfair to say it’s based on that. genetics plays a huge role.
There you go, that’s exactly how this stuff works.
@@stephysun there is no “cleanliness gene” there are actually very few actual “genes” that determine our behavior/let alone our risk for certain disorders.
A lot of times someone uses the phrase “genetically predisposed” all it really means is you share characteristics with someone who’s more likely to do/end up somewhere than someone else is.
One of the biggest reasons being patters of behavior. This is why if you come from a family of lower socio economic status that follow a specific ethnicity or demographic’s cultural norms they will say “you are genetically predisposed to be [blank]” there’s no actually gene causing that community’s issue, it is just actually that the community is mimicking and promoting behavior that will lead to certain consequences/outcomes and you happen to share genes with them.
What I’m saying is in an overwhelming amount of cases are conclusions that are not derived from performing proper data science.
If they were they would just say “you are more likely” not “you are genetically predisposed” but most patients/people reading articles (articles looking to generate ad revenue and get clicks) do not possess the cognition to differentiate correlation from causation.
These wild claims for “genes” being responsible for everything now are lazy generalizations stemming misinterpretations of real data.
@@stephysun also your brother not being clean doesn’t mean he had trauma but if say your brother’s “feeling dirty” all the time is certainly evidence of trauma.
This feeling does not have to manifest itself in one’s cleanliness of physical spaces like the room specifically to still be true.
But also not having a clean room 24/7 is pretty normal depending on the context.
Before we can establish your brother is or is not behaving out of the norm we’d have to establish a baseline of his other “normal” behaviors first and then cross reference those results using unbiased psychoanalysis of his behaviors and his own testimony of how he sees himself (unbiased testing that your brother is unaware of the fact the testing/questions are trying to evaluate how clean/proper he see’s himself) eventually if you asked the right questions the right way he would tell on himself and unconsciously disclose that there are parts of his psyche that feel as if he is not clean/proper enough hinting at some sort of inadequacy that more than likely does point to trauma experience during the developmental phases of “self”.
There have yet to be any compelling evidence to suggest that these theories are incorrect because applying them actually works to help people pinpoint and target breakdowns in their personality that prevent them from achieving their goals. Secondly these phases are all instrumental not only to the development of self but all survival skills. It makes a lot of sense that Mother Nature would hard program these phases in us so that we can survive but also prosper. Maslow’s “heirarchy of needs” theories actually further proves a lot of Freudian psychology as well through completely unrelated experimentation.
Anything: exists
Freud: *S E X*
🤣🤣🤣 Most of his stuff I agree with, but yeah🤣
It's in line with a lot of theories that foresees unity as the deepest/highest/most important objective of life
😂😂
Legit dude. The man was obsessed with it
@M K So you're calling me dumb? Mate, this was a joke, why are you so serious about it?
Jung: What if psychology is about more than..
Freud: Sex! It's all sex you charlatan!
What's sad is neither are taken particularly seriously in modern psychology.
@@Nikelaos_Khristianos jungs idea of the archetypes is not that unaccepted in modern psychoanalysis.
Edit: what do you even mean by „modern psychology“?
🤣
He’s like Robert California
@@hunterhunter2215 Apologies, clarification: I mostly refer to the indignant fact that if one brings up Freudian or Jungian psycho-analysis in academia these days, you do run the risk of literally being laughed out the room, at least in a psychology lesson. (Despite the fact that psychology is just theories!)
Conversely, I've personally found Jungian theory to be really quite useful in English Literature considering how much of the hero's journey envisioned by Joseph Campbell is based on Jung's heroic archetypes, especially when examining classical texts from the ancient world. Lastly, I do actually agree with your point about the archetypes, they've achieved a new sort of relevance in today's world. (Albeit, for better or worse, thanks to characters like Jordan Peterson).
Pissed my pants, I am an Machine Learning Scientist.
LMAO 🤣🤣🤣
Since the theory was developed in the early 1900s it can't be all perfect, but we've got to admit that bringing the concept of the unconscious, and the effect of childhood experiences on personality into the limelight was a great accomplishment at that time.
I do believe that psychedelics hold a promising future by bringing out our repressed thoughts and emotions. Cheers to Freud for that.
I agree. People used to think dinosaurs looked like kangaroos based on remains, now we know a lot more about them.
but childhood experiences has very littlre effect on personality though so...
@@matswessling6600how is this
@@matswessling6600 Very little? There are very big differences in people who, say, grew up rich and spoiled whos mummy and daddy would buy them anything they wanted and never got told no and someone who grew up in poverty without a father and an abusive household. VERY big differences.
@@SnowMexicann not really.
Therapist: “Suzy, I see you have a problem with authority..and you get into abusive relationships...were..you not potty trained well as a child?”
Suzy: *starts to sob*
I dont want to be angry anymore, i just want to shit in a potty
@@ovahlord1451 Meanwhile, Ida maintains her p€n!§ envy and still wants her own one. ¯\_( ᐛ )_/¯
How did you know I got an *_anal expulsive personality_* due to trauma?
This theory and the examples are absolutely ridoculous.
I was badly potty trained….
Freud was the first to develop a comprehensive theory of development, personality, and a structural model of the psyche. He identified some patterns and correlations that are correct but the mechanisms he used to explain a causal relationship were off and actually reveal his own personality, he projected on to an unknown to fill in the blanks. He was correct in saying that eventually we would understand neurobiology and the biological basis of behavior at a level capable of better answering the questions he was creating these theories to answer. We take for granted that we are able to think in these terms today, without Freud it would be a very different world. What he was wrong about is not nearly as important as how he taught us to think about psychological development.
Very good point
I think if Freud came back to witness modern psychology today, he'd be proud of how it's advanced
Perfect because i was a little confused by the video at first. Im like he wrote this verbatim?? 😂
@@mikef55More like freaked out. I doubt he'd be able to gladly accept so many changes that has happened.
THIS
I also think we are focusing way too much on the bad examples and not on the fact that he did explain how we are conditioned to behave goes back to how we managed to perceive the reality around us from a young age, through limited sensations at that time
I feel like EVERYTHING in Freud's work is due to child trauma
Well mostly. Soecially from age 0 to 7. Where our whole subconsios is malleable and programmed
That or sex
@@ThatFanBoyGuy or both at the same time
Well in psychoanalysis, identifying the repetitive pattern of a person's behaviour is important. Why does he or she keep picking someone that don't love them, why does he or she keep feeling the sense of being abandoned, why can't he or she love someone? What's important in child is because they have a deveolping mind and a lot of complex feeling cannot be fully understand by them, or even us. So when there is a trauma happening to a child, they relied on competent adult to share their mind to figure it out for them. While most of the time those adults never came, and way too many unsolved issue just preserved to the adult life and gradually became an obvious especially when the growing people started to have their own work, lifestyle, money, sex or other things.
It's not really as easy as it seems when a lot of things were due to child's trauma in Freud's work.
or sex. mostly both at the same time. thats why almost all of his stuff was debunked.
Watching the kids go through the latent phase almost made me cry. The whole video was like "Hans is doing fine, Ernst and Ida....are not." And then they reach the latent phase, and the video switches to "So anyway, all these kids are having a good time. Ernst and Ida are happy, they're learning, Hans is vibing through life-" and I almost cried, I felt so much relief for them. I guess I got attached.
какие мужчины девушкам нравятся волосатые или не волосатые ? девушкам нравится член ? девушкам нравится куни?от какого размера члена больно ?какой размер члена для вас большой ? какое впечатление у вас было когда впервые увидели мужской член ? какой впечатление было когда впервые увидели порно ?было ли вам больно при потери девственности?
Did you have conflict during your phallic phase
@@h0lysm0k3z i need a tone indicator for this one. are you being serious or joking?
@@ayyymacaroni /j lol
@@ayyymacaroni Did you have conflict during your phallic phase? (not joking)
Plot twist: Hans, Ernst, and Ida are all in a polyamorous relationship with each other now.
I think that’s a happier ending right there ☺️
They could probably help each other through the pitfalls of life. Especially if they are close enough to share and discuss their feelings with each other.
Awwe :)
They're polyam and support each other through everything.
The good ending
“Genital: phase 3-6”
Me who thought we were all the same down there until I was about 11:
Me too but till 12
8
I actually knew we were different down there from a very young age, but just didn't know why or truly understand until now.
Same man
I thought we all have wee wee,😂
Freud was one of the weirdest/wildest theories for sure lol.
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@@jacknap1marshall792 simp
@@jacknap1marshall792 You have mommy issues
@@jacknap1marshall792 slow down with that Id man
@@jacknap1marshall792 I've never seen someone Simp on UA-cam, wow
I prefer the "Neurosis can be treated by talking."
Instead of the "This man is mad, lock him away! give him lots of sedatives and electroshock therapy. If he still acts up lobotomy."
Despite the hinderance of Nazism and the hatred of the Jews at the time, I still think that his approach of "I know nothing, let's start from the beginning" to be really a mark of the time and reminds me of when surgeons started washing their hands before operating.
Great video!
True.Freud was ahead of his time in some ways, especially his progressive views on homosexuality.
My mom: thinks I’m crying because I peed my diaper and not because I’m hungry
Me later in life: *beats my wife*
Ahhh, a true gamer i see
@@magnofajo6159 a true gamer needs no inferior object such as a wife.
@@Eduardesuper so it's come down to this so much for the be fruitful and multiply all right that's it I'm stepping out
@@sitdowndogbreath I dont get what you mean
no I think it's psychology Ryt but got gave us time to understand
But that's just a theory, a game theory
A life theory! Thanks for watiching!
@@simonecinquetti1091 a sex theory (I mean... It's Freud). Thx for watching.
Bruhhh . From the channel game theorist
*inserts meme* Annnd Cut
Oops, wrong channel!
Bruh I never wanted to throw away my dad when I was little
I agree but in my case I tend to rival in my crush's brother.
Same here he did it on his own
I dont think Freud was accurately describing the human condition as much as he was trying to find and figure out his own problems.
I believe he projected his own conclusions of himself onto everyone else.
I dont believe women walk around with penis envy (except the feminists) any more than i believe boys want to kill their fathers and sleep with there mothers.
Lmao I never even had a dad
@Arturo Solis I had a rivalry with my father but never in wanting to have sex with my mom kind
At college, I've seen many students complain about Freud's theories not making any sense. But that's the whole point. He relied on his own personal experiences rather than the scientific method to develop his theories because he was a psychiatrist, not a scientist. Also, it was a completely different world back then. Female hysteria was considered to be a physical illness caused by a literal "wandering womb." When you take that into perspective, Freud's works were really revolutionary.
My wife: WHY ARE YOU SO AGGRESSIVE TOWARDS ME?!?
Me: Sorry, my dad was never around
Understandable, have a nice day 👍
Daddy issues
@utf 8 are you joking
utf 8 I-
Attention ⚠️ You people call him mad and theories crazy because of moral values taught by your parents/society.
This is why few in the 21st century take Freud's theories seriously: They are completely cracked.
Cracked, Like you apparently.
@@carsonbarnesharp If you dont think it doent apply, you are just ignorant, doesnt mean it is a recepie book bro its just a video, his theory is way more than that, also psycology helps a lot of people and there are a lot of theorys that can help you... thinking that they dont work... so what does?
@@carsonbarnesharp to be fair, they used to apply to one very specific group of society: Freud's test pool. That is to say, middle-aged, upper class Norwegian men who fancied their mothers.
Yeah. Because most cant comprehend Freud. It's not just about grasping his ideas, it's about having the wisdom to know where to apply them.
@@carsonbarnesharp I know right, 😂 truly the most representative demographic of the human race ever.
The more I learn about freud the less i understand why he was so influencial
this shit right here is why people did psychology specifically to prove freud wrong
Because he made the foundation for modern psychology and a lot of his theories were right.
I've never encounter an actual psychologist, not one, that disregards Freud's influence in psychology; ironically enough the ones who do that aren't psychologists at all.
Probably because he was one of the first? But it was an old time, he was a man with his other social privileges, so his understanding of human psychology is expected to be rigged with all these systematic bias resulting in... penis envy? (I wish he didn't have one, would have more theories proven right 😏) Even now, so many people (some psychologists included) are trying to mainstream the socio-political parameters in the discourse of mental health which is quite individualistic at this point, so.. meh 🤷🏽
@@Anamika00004 Penis envy is not particularly biased; it has a well-established theory that is based on development.
People tend to forget that Freud was one of the first individuals that took women's issues seriously. Back then people didn't really think much about what a woman could go through because they would accredit that to the fact that they were women and that's how they were, however, Freud started using psychoanalysis on women who suffered from ptsd due to abuse and helped them to improve their lives by actually listen to what they had to say, which eventually led to the foundation of many other things that were unexplored at the time. Ironically enough, not many of his theories have been proven wrong, contrary to popular belief, but people still debate certain situations because psychology is not entirely understood yet.
But his findings seem to hold up till today
I see this as the first draft of psychology, based on the worldview and the conditions of his time. It's not really wrong, but it looks at things from a very specific point of view. It's like someone would study the shadow of an elephant and make theories of what an elephant is.
It's very wrong
Fun Fact: Freud also thought that the reason women wanted to marry other men was because they have a deep internal desire to sleep with their own fathers, while simultaneously hating their mothers for keeping her husband to herself. According to Freud, this leads to women marrying men similar to their fathers, to kinda get the next best thing. I would take any theories this man had with a gigantic grain of salt.
Well actually, there is some evidence that supports straight women do end up picking men that reminds them or is similar to how her father was in her childhood. Not exactly because she wants to sleep with her father, per se, but likely just because it's familiar, and humans are more comfortable with familiar.
You dont get out much do you? Its not uncommon for women to pick partners similar to their parents or family. Just look at them. Look at people around the world. Theres a reason interracial couples are not as common as you would think. There is a reason we STILL talk about Freud today. Take your grain of salt elsewhere. There is evidence.
@@GimbalLocksOnly
It’s not about women picking partners of the same race or with the same hair color. Freud thought they picked them based off of how similar their genitals were to that of their fathers.
@@GimbalLocksOnly
The takeaways from this are 2 things:
1- Even if you didn’t think it was, assuming that interracial couples are not desired by women is racist. I would work on that.
2- Work on your attitude, and don’t be a jerk. Maybe you meant it as a joke, but starting off your comment with, “You don’t get out much, do you,” is an excellent way to make everyone think of you as a grade A asshole.
@@zildiun2327 ...how similar their genitals are to that of their fathers? Um, pal, I don't know about your family, but most families don't just stare and catalog each others genitals for future reference... I may be wrong, but that just sounds weird.
Edit: ah, I misread. I see you now said that is what FREUD thought, not you yourself. My mistake.
I think it’s important to point out that these theories are widely discredited in modern psychology
But what about the part about young boys and girls finding out about their anatomy differences?
At what age should they be taught about that? I always thought you should only teach them if they happen to notice and ask questions?
No shit Sherlock!?!
I think it's important to point out that these theories are one of the most influential in modern psychology - current therapies developed leading on from this (psychoanalytic psychotherapy) or in critical discourse with it (CBT). Freud published his works more than 100 years ago, when people with mental health problems ended up in asylums and psychology and psychological health was not realy a concept.
You are funny :)
@@trueamnisias o started to believe these are these actual theories or not??
*Freud:* _"Everything is about my meat."_
Your Profile picture makes that sentence so much better
lol i can relate
Little buscemi? -JACK
He's Jewish
Freud's ideas are discussed, but his paving the way for free thought and his contributions to science are undeniable.
Keep in mind this is the person who prescribed cocaine to cure cocaine addiction
WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND WOULD DO THAT?
Wrong. It was prescribed to cure a morphine addiction to a close friend. At the time, cocaine was seen as a kind of cure-all. From headaches to things like indigestion and depression. It wasn't known whether or not it could cure and addiction, and so he decided to test it first on himself. He then moved on to say it was acceptable and gave it as a treatment to his friend.
@@criminalchicken499 oh okay then
@@criminalchicken499 Honestly that doesn't make it any better...
@@Blula cocaine was used by everyone back then. Literally. It was used for headaches and pains, and pretty much everything else. So was heroine and such.
They didn't have a ton of medical knowledge, and due to that what they gave was ethical and morally correct.
It was seen as the best possible course of action, and so action was taken.
Saying it doesn't make it any better, despite that being the absolute best medical knowledge at the time is like saying prescribing antidepressants is stupid and unethical because 150 years from now we'll have something that'll solve that without side-effects. They did what they could with the knowledge they had.
It really rubs me the wrong way that Freud thought that "all women" are jealous of men. Don't get ahead of yourself there mate.
I mean well scientifically your are an underdeveloped male. JS
@Seth K technically it's more like you're an overdeveloped female
@@emilyrencken lol
Thought the same and was wondering why I had to look so long for a comment like yours ^^
And I'm a bit jealous of women, though it's an unfounded jealousy. Maybe just because I liked my mother more than my father. His penis envy idea is weird.
“Ida, like all women, maintains penis envy throughout her whole life” I don’t know how to tell you that not all women are envious of penises, lol, this is just kinda hilarious
his only purpose in putting out this schlock is to hate on his own pallid kind like a good little soyboy wokey ---- check the racist 'art' work
@@DrBe-zn5fv I’m sorry, but I literally didn’t understand a single word you said.
@@FMAYasha12 in spanish we have a word for you .. 'empanada' meaning you are so well cooked inside the pasty of your echo chamber of conditioning that you cannot see the arrow in its flight to your heart. If you attend to this youtuber's use of blatant-yet-perfectly-pc racist stereotyping u will catch my drift i assure you. But first... less 'pan' for you..
@@DrBe-zn5fv I’m so sorry but everything you say only confuses me more and more, lol. If you think I agree with the video, I was literally making fun of it, but I think maybe you’re overthinking all this, lol.
@@FMAYasha12 its fact. But as humans,as u know moral values, emotional intelligence etc, your penis envy is not shown outside but it still exist deep inside your subconscious mind.
I also was someone who tough that all of Freud’s work were madness. But we need to be humble and find out by ourselves how does he develops his ideas by reading his books. Although many say that they’re boring, they are quite interesting and sometimes even fun to read, because often some concerns linked to our daily life are related (The Interpretation of Dreams is a nice book that all of that can be finded, and not very hard to read). Anyway, let’s be humble. Either being right or wrong, Freud dedicated years of observations and study to develop his conclusions, and many of them I would say that most of people who read it got it wrong.
Dude was a pdf, and rationalized is urges
this is weird
And not factual sooo
yeah Freud was weird
Yeah I don't buy it.
True
As another has said, that's Freud. He was a very weird dude.
I think that most of the comments overlooked the simplicity of the message he was trying to convey. Just because one of these things happened to you doesn't mean that you will become that way, it just increases the chances of you becoming that way, especially over time.
My thoughts exactly!
Am i the only one who didnt think anything in this video was crazy?
@@vinichenzo4811 YES!!! I thought the exact same thing!
@@chronicallytiredmedstudent i mean its about the subconcious no one is saying you literally want to fuck your mum its about how you will perceive future relationships and how you will be attracted to people similar to her
@@vinichenzo4811 he is weird... But his method is... Effective to say at least...
His way of dealing with problem can be sum up as:
"You have a psychological problem? Let me guess, childhood sexual abuse?"
It's not right all the time... But 100% work 30-40% of the time.
While this theory is a pain to digest, I can agree that shaming your kid for failure (like failing to potty train) does make you more misserable.
Notice how the calmest and least traumatizing phase is when Freud would have his earliest clear memories
I wonder if the enormous amounts of coke he snorted had anything to do with his theories😬
Ofc his theories are all bullshit
I doubt it...seeing by 90% of child cognitive development toys and school teachings are used today and promoted by other researchers
My psychology class is about to go on to this shiz.
Its the only way good ideas are created. Its a brain stumulant, so ideas are created more easily as the mind gets more clear.
@@skillertime779
I promise you, cocaine is NOT the only possible way to have good ideas
Freud's nose candy sure affected him a lot.
So your saying I'm not dumb, I just pissed my pants too early.
Freud did not have normal childhood...
I'm no psychologist, but I think this ideas were the result of his cocaine addiction.
shows
Lol
He actually recommended cocaine as an aid to clear thinking. Yeah right ...
@@wilhelmvonn9619 He once recommended cocaine to one patient as a way to cure his addiction to morphine. He ended being addictive to both and he said it was his fault for having a bad administration lol
@@asturianix9820 Hell yeah
"Penis envy" is an allegory to women envying men's strength and stamina, but even when I know this I still chuckled when hearing this lol.
You don't get it
That is nothing biological though. That mindset is induced by society and is also one reason why there are sex offenders with dominance as motive. Surprisingly or kind of fitting by this video, more female sex offenders commit rape or molest with the sense of dominance as motive than men do.
I cut my comment short, because UA-cam deleted my complete one within a second. That shows that they must be hiding something.
@@Mi_Fa_Volare I know what redit you would fit perfectly in!
r/IknownothingbutimgonnapretendIdoanywaystomakemystupidandobviouslywrong/idioticargumentsseemvalid.
@@Mi_Fa_Volare hey, chill, the video was academic, showing freud theory from 20 century, not 2020 decade .-.
Freud is smart in many respects. Some ideas and statements, such as the personal tyrant all men obey, are often well thought out.
However, I often consider this theory from Freud to be overly simplistic. It's an idea based on how our community can effect us more so than the effects of other environmental elements or our relationship with our bodies. No proper explanation on body dismorphia. No explanation on why a child may look up to an adult of a different gender. No explanation on why people develop different love languages, which I'm just starting to understand myself.
Same goes with the subject of sexuality. Why do some find larger bodies attractive while others hold an attraction to smaller bodies. Example of this is the question of why some find a big buttocks attractive, some find a small one attractive, and others hold no attraction at all. This is more important than it appears. Going by the example of a woman having penis envy, that may not be what often develops. A woman may hear the guys they are attracted to talk about attraction to the smaller, which may make her become self conscious of her weight. Likewise, comments of a larger size may have the inverse of her feeling like she's too inadequate to attract a mate. Things may especially be difficult for a woman who hears all of this, but is attracted to someone who doesn't have that attraction. Therefore, she may try to emphasize that part, which may put off the mate she's after.
Going back to penis envy, this can effect guys, too. Some guys tend to avoid subjects relating to nudity simply because they feel their penis is inadequate for pleasure and procreation. The subject of body size may also play a part. A guy with a large upper body can be considered strong and reliable to the women around him, but he may have insecurities and assume he's overweight. Just the same, a man who's "lean and sculpted" may view himself as "too weak" or "scrawny" to attract a mate. This negative view a man may hold of his body can be as frustrating to his mate. Even a woman confident in her body who simply wish to have personal enjoyment may find it difficult if he feels he can't deliver.
Then there's the matter of appearance outside of biology. A subject that is especially difficult to properly explain. Some may find a bare upper body to be interesting and attractive. Others may not care, but will change their mind based on attire and any use if make up. To note, I do include tan sprays as a type of make up.
In each instance of poor relations with ones own body, very little of Freud's theory accounts for every problem. Some of it may be upbringing, as suggested. However some of it can also be the environment, the present social experience, and whether or not there's a healthy relationship with ones own body.
That's why I say this theory if Freud is too simple.
Hi Neko Vermillion, thank you for the insightful comment! It's so encouraging for us to see that our videos can entice educated discussion and contributions from people who know a lot about the topic :)
@@sprouts
Often there is contradiction and miscommunication. Which is the big thing I wanted to bring up. There are often conflict due to such problems.
Thankfully, I am understood.
@@ryand4787
I did talk about more than attraction. Such as the point of self consciousness being effected by others within the environment. Which is why I mentioned a man who's uncomfortable with his body having relationship problems. It's far more than him being attracted to someone. It's also a matter of him feeling confident in his body. Same with women.
People do tend to have their personalities completely change, often to unhealthy degrees, due to the people around them belittling them for their body.
The same can go with how they act, but that's a more difficult subject to discuss.
Have you ever read or studied Freud ? Real question, you cannot say psycho sexual developement is a simplistic theory if you actually read Freud. Besides this theory goes beyond Freud. Theres a LOT of authors who contributed their part.
@@nok460 Yup, actually saying Freud's theory is simplistic is not really knowing or reading his work.
The impact of developmental psychology is why Freud is so influential and popular. He may have gotten some of the specifics wrong, but you can't deny the development of our childhood plays a huge role in how how we are as adults. With a lot of meditation and therapy I was able to figure out the reason why I am gay. I lacked the emotional support I needed from my father and I was molested as a child = associating pleasure with men, and trying to fullfil the emotional void that my father left me. I also believe you can be born gay, but nurture plays a bigger role in my opinion.
Thats really interesting
Would resolving your past trauma change your sexual orientation in your case? Dont answer if youre not comfortable sharing
@@sleepynoodles6425 MMmmm maybe through hypnosis, but it's hard to not like men that I've found attractive for so long.. my neurons are all set for that. But to find women attractive is a question I wonder, I'm open to that.
So perverts had a traumatizing childhood , sad that thats most ppl on the internet :/
However, this doesn't justify their behavior. But yeah, I agree with you.
True indeed
Its more Complex than that. Its kinda true tho
Then it creates a cycle :|
@@someoneunspecial1729 yes
Freud's work shows how academia was back when he theorized this. This was constructed in the context of traditional christian values. This context formed the understanding what "normal" and "healthy" meant in his work. "Perversion" as a sin was undisputed, as was the female subordinate role in society and the family. As our society evolves past monolythic value systems, Freud's work loses a lot of relevance, though there was still a lot of good observations around childhood neurological development, we need to recontextualize his findings. Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis.
Would be really cool to see a similar video on some of the critiques of Freud in the future. Especially the later stages are heavily disputed.
Wasn’t Freud an atheist, though?
" Turns out, reality is a lot more complex than any simplified model of psychoanalysis."
This!!! Could not agree more! It seems crazy to me how eager we are to oversimplify reality in an attempt to construct an "easy" model, instead of attempting to complexify our models to fit reality!
EXACTLY!!
Freud: * mentions that people have sexual desires *
Asexuals: 👀
freud would tell you that your subconscious is just being repressed, most likely due to trauma
asexuals dont exist
@@Пальцерезка yeah no you’re wrong
they were exposed to to much interest
👀👀
Like elementary school; which are the most important school we will ever attend, because it's the foundation of all higher education. Likewise so is Freud. His psychoanalysis is the foundation upon which modern psychology is based.
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And/or because taught by people on such, if not also methodically and willing in full awareness?
Dad: "Son, you are experiencing what is called Oedipus Complex, just as I predicted yesterday, understand that what you are going through is normal and that it has no effect on your mother or I, RISE ABOVE YOUR IMPULSES SON, FORGE YOUR OWN WAY." *Shakes fist triumphantly*
Son: *Existential crisis*
Typical anime training arc for a child
Son: “Are you telling me to kill you, and then marry mom? That’s fucked up, dad.”
This feels like a joke.
I kind of wish it was
It is
@@digimonalvatrax2738 its not sadly
Take it with a grain of salt. The man was a freak
Freud, because of the context he was his whole life, made him had an interpretation of this phases based on misogynist (penis envy). Most of what he wrote was heavily judged.
everytime a girl call her boyfriend “dady” frued soul gains a little power
Some random a**hole
Me: he probably didn’t sh*t in the toilet until 7
I dont remember being 3, it's been far too long. When my parents told me of my babyhood, my mom said I was always over protective of her, and refused my father permission to get near her. My dad was an all around good guy and he though I was just a baby needing my mother, since he was often at work and I wasn't as comfortable with him. Just my assumptions, but this really did let me go too far, I was a cocky teenager who tried to be a shit to my dad. I wish i had told him how much he meant to me when i had the chance. If anyone young is reading this, appreciate your parents, you'll regret if you dont and the time comes only once
Well funny how i kinda had the same relation with my mother at the same age except it was maybe coz my father was abusive
I can relate. My sister was a daddy's girl and I was essentially a momma's boy. My sister and I are 10 years apart so when I was coming up, my father wasn't really around because of work at that time so I developed a strong relationship with my mother. I saw my father knock my mom to the ground one night, I'm sure he was drinking because it was his birthday, he didn't hit her but I came into the room and saw him standing over her. Being 4-5 years old the only thing I could do was attempt at hitting him in his back then he stopped. Afterwards me and my dad had some friction, similar things happened in middle school. I figured I was big enough to take him on and he had to restrain me. Fast forward to being 18 and we had a full on brawl, he tackled me for making a joke and I lost it. Not gonna lie I kinda beat his ass lmao, I knew then I was finally able to take him on and took the opportunity to let it all out. We ended up apologizing to each other and we've been alright ever since. I've had my mother in my face a few times, acted like I put hands on her when I didn't so my dad would jump in obviously. My childhood was kinda messy, I know I was loved but there was so much conflict and sometimes emotional neglect that I'm not sure if I had a good or bad childhood. When my mother started to basically switch on me like I was suddenly the bad guy it hurt me so much, I didn't have anyone to turn to.
Didn't have a dad till I was 9 years old and still respect both genders equally and am in a healthy, and build upon respect, relationship.. I suppose I was able to deal with that "trauma" throughout my life or couple of therapies that I was in, actually helped getting on the right path.. Nonetheless, this Video was super informative and super interesting.. definitely wanna see more
@Demeter greek yes
You must've had good people or at least role models in your life. 😊
I still don’t have a father, but I don’t hold any traumas about it. Then again I guess you miss more something that you once had rather than something you never had. I don’t feel any pain because I was never promised a father figure. But for people with divorced or missing parents, I guess that security was taken from them. Breaking that promise, but that’s just a theory.
Work on your grammar and say super more
As someone who grew up with an abusive father and later had problem in becoming a man. I can confirm that the way you are treated as a child has a lot of effect in your adulthood.
I am now 29 and have read a Freuds work and it had helped me change myself for the better, it helped me rewire my brain and impulses at early adulthood.
I think Freud was a genius of his time. The man taught me that nothing in this human mind happens without a reason.
Imagine listening to this without rheadphones and your parents hear “the oral phase” “the oral phase”
This is a generalization. This may apply to some people but nothing is 100% fact for everyone. There's so much more contributing factors that are simply not talked about.
Yeah, logically, but this video is just presenting Freud's theory how it is. Keep in mind Freud is the father of psychoanalysis: before him, little to no research. So of course his vision is gonna be simplistic, outdated and backwards. Yet it still is the basis of later research and it definitely contributed a lot back in its time. We all know Freud's theory is not accurate and overly simplistic, doesn't mean it's any less historically relevant.
YES. This is just a probability guide, and shouldn't be taken 100% seriously.
I'm gonna say what I told my Psychology teacher a few years ago: we don't have enough evidence. If more people were willing to talk honestly about this stuff, we could conclusively say whether Freud was right or wrong.
but you have to take into consideration that Freud was addicted to cocaine and that none of his theories were backed up by evidence. He was convincing his patients that they had gone through childhood trauma that they don’t remember. He’s theories are subjective and not scientific, so most probably he’s wrong.
That's why you ask stuff anonymously, so people will answer it honestly.
@@karenkfoury7047 why though?? It makes perfect sense and most gais are like this they have daddy issues, they were more enmeshed with mother and many admitted to be s3xually molested that's why a lot says that they don't only feel s3xual feelings towards men, they also feel romantic and emotional ones and that's the reason why having absent father and feeling different from other men and difficulty in developing sense of manhood, when u think about it and apply to our modern world u will see it makes perfect sense and he wasn't wrong about it. It's only people don't want to accept it and instead trying to look for biological evidence for being gai because by saying it's how they are born and they can't change or control these feelings it makes it easier to pass it to society and make it acceptable but if people start to see it as something cause by trauma then it means there is treatment and a hope for change and this what most people don't want to happen so they reject his ideas
@@rihamashraf167 You're wrong although we can say that the reason of having a different sexuality is not completely identified
Moreover, your theory only explains gay and lesbian sexualities, but how about the other ones then?
Parents pay an important role in our mental development but there's no scientific proof to your theory
And even if your theory was true, you still couldn't judge these people because they cause nothing bad to society. They don't have any mental problems, that is the other reason it isn't treated. Compared to someone who went through emotional neglect as a child and faces mental issues and illnesses as an adult to face that, 'developing' (because that's not how it works) a different sexuality doesn't cause any disorders, a gay person can be still as healthy as a heterosexual one
A lot of french therapists practice Freudian based Psychoanalysis. If nothing else, the french mental health system has proven that freud's Theories are completely ineffective if not downright harmful when used to treat mental illnesses and psychological disorders.
Best Channel to learn psychology.... Fully recommended ..Doing Masters in psychology, these videos are very helpful, keep going on Team Sprouts
I really like the contrast between the greys and oranges, it kind of highlights what to focus on. Great job on the fascinating video!
I'm still trying to decode the color message. 43,252,003,274,489,856,000 attemtps so far, no luck.
You have to present how this evolved into the actual world’s psychology because presenting it as valid science today it’s like saying radium is good for clocks.
UA-cam algorithm: hey, you, watch this
Me: wtf, why
Freud: clearly mommy issues
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Thank you so much! We appreciate it :)
@@sprouts thank you for the great explanations! 😃
It was way better explained here than my actual psychology class.
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"Wait, it's all trauma?"
"Always has been" *BANG*
I expected that
Psychology became a field of science because of Freud.
Not because he was an inspiration, but because they wanted to disprove some of mad theories he said.
I'm just gonna say he was right about everything being about sex, the way he interpreted the reasons was him trying to feel smart and use his intellectual status to claim what he felt inside but you can't do that so that's where he fucked up but trust me everything is about sex and sexuality
@@garytrunsik2712 not everything is about sex human beings are a lot more complicated than that + some people lack sexual desires so it's not an essential part in everyone's life and can't be the cause of everything
Freud is a timeless genius for his ability to not only observe and detect these behaviors but to express them amazingly through words also.
wtf when I was lil I never fantasized about murdering my dad I always looked up to him 😂😂
Oh, so that’s just me, ok
I may Dislike my dad time to time. you’ll go to jail If you Murdered your dad.
Never murder but I can’t say I looked up to him
Yeah same
Well i did actually , because he would beat my mom like once a week , and have frightening shouting with possibility of beating my mom , every other day . And i was always anxious of a fight breaking out between them every day , every minute .
me: i dont like apples
freuds: yes you do, but your brain is repressing it.
me: tf
Adolf,is he a jew?
@@peepeepoopoomyguy7457 perhaps
"The boys conflict in this faze is a rivalry with their father"
Me, who doesn't have a father: 👁_👁
Are you the chosen one, conceived by mediclorians?
Wow you're really an exception to the most supreme theory of life smh
@@aesop1451 nah, the only older guy I've interacted with I was pretty cool with
@@BlueHat1 I wouldn't really same I'm questioning my sexuality, having an obsession with my mother, or being over competitive with other guys so eh
Freud: So...on a scale of 1-10 how fixated on your mother and aggressive towards other women are you?
Thanks
Thank you so much Lata :)
Oh boo hoo, Ernst has a good relationship with his mother and isn't sure about his sexuality. Must be trauma!
Chill
I mean granted freuds theory is like pretty old i think and it’s still just a theory not a law I think you should chill a bit lmao
Chill out
This makes sense as much as a cat singing opera
Yes the cat simply sings
Much less actually
Lmao hearing about "penis envy" in Freud's theories was one of the reasons it took me so long to realize I was trans. Heads up, most girls don't want a penis 💀
Kids might be curious why boys and girls have different bodies, but it’s not really normal to instantly be like “Why can’t I have that?”
I was a little surprised when I first learned about penis envy because I was like ‘????? Why would I? I’m a girl?’ But my teacher asked as though it’s super common to be jealous
Speak for yourself will you
@SunshineTRAP then what kind of dysphoria you have?? Being against our genitals is the main reason why we are dysphoric
@@levipromovies who are you talking to? Just to be sure
@@oofoof6180 Talking to gavin
"Love this content! It’s amazing how much value you provide for parents looking to help their kids grow and learn. I’m definitely going to share this with my friends.
I see this in animal rescues too. Kittens and puppies taken out too soon/too late from their moms and siblings end up having certain problems or odd behaviors later as they grow. Ones that had aggressive parenting or rejective parenting also displayed some issues later.
The latest kitten I rescued was separated from his mother too early. He projected his dependencies onto me especially when it came to feeding formula. He lacked certain survival skills and grew up with separation anxiety but I gotta be honest his dependent behavior that makes him a cuddlebug is very cute.
I'm sorry.......did he say "like all women" @ 3:51???
Its kinda weird
Bruh I'm pretty sure normal women don't have "penis envy"
What’s the problem?
this video at the start says that this was Sigmund Freud's theory. Sigmund Freud's theories about psychology and sexuality are often ridiculed for their absurdity.
I know that when a girl sees a boy's penis she may think that "I am glad that I don't have one". And of-course she may think like "What's that? I want one of those" too. The same condition is same for boys too. There are boys who tells their parents that they want flat genital between their legs when they see girls' bodies or they may think the opposite. I mean it's not a general and stable behavior for all, so it's not a right theory. As a kid I always thought that male's genitals are like tumors. It can be hurt easily and I was glad that I don't have one of them. In fact I was feeling so lucky.
I think female genitals also hurt when they were kicked or something but pain is common for both
@@dwarampudivivekreddy1869 Definitely. Of-course, now the idea seems ridiculous to me. But when I was a little child I was thinking like that in my mind. Of course my thoughts weren't right but I never envied a penis. I want to explain that the idea is not right for all girls and boys. It's not a right theory. If it was a right theory, I wouldn't mind it. Because scientific truths are just the truths on the light of evidence. But I wanted to explain why this idea is not true for all.
@@asya2792 😇😇😇
@Anurag Saini I am happy that you love your own body and gender. That makes a man or woman more beautiful and charming, I think. I am happy that you don't have periods too. Periods can be reaaaaly annoying. But I am not saying having a female genital better. That would be ridiculous. Those were my thought when I was little. Now I don't think like that of-course.
@@asya2792 I thought the same thing. I never had penis envy. I agree dealing with periods is a pain, but I never wanted to be a man.
as a visual learner, this is a big help for me.
While the specifics make no sense, the framework of trauma later affecting adult behavior seems to be the only logical part of Freud’s weird Oedipus stuff...
Man, Freud was really reaching 😂
The huge amount of coke he snorted probably helped
I don't know about the "storing all memories" thing, but I absolutely believe we have a lot of stuff locked up in our brains that doesn't see the light of day much. I also believe that every little choice we make, and experience we have can push us in a certain direction, whether only a little, or a lot.
This is quite unsettlingly accurate, thank you...I think!
I took psych 101 as a senior in HS.
After, I took Abnormal Psych and because my FAVORITE psychologist was/is Carl Jung, my professor gave me Jungs book, Synchronicity. I love hearing discussions of the dream world. I do have an enoRMous question of an additive to, "dream- world..."
*Laughs in Asexual*
ha ha ha
wait how do I laugh in asexual
*Laughs in nobody gives a fuck*
@@DrMan-nh3bg facts.
You're lucky UA-cam is so blindly restricting...
I will never understand why people are so pressed about others stating their sexuality/preferences. Straight people (including myself) make jokes all the time about what we find “appealing” and stuff yet the moment someone of LGBTQ+ does it it’s seen as annoying or weird. Like,what sort of double standard. . . I dunno. It’s weird.
My dad wasn't around during my upbringing and i ain't agressive towards women nor have a fixation on my mother and I'm sure that I'm straight, ol boi Freud was on sum serious drugs when he made this shit.
It completely aligns and explains the some of the root cause reasons for Narcissism and codependency behaviours in adults .It's such a terrible thing that most these Narcissist and codependent adults do not realise they aren't emotionally healthy and need a therapist . They never seek that help and end up abusing their own children and causing irreparable scars to their innocent kids .This abuse keeps passing on from generation to generation and hence becomes a vicious cycle of abuse
4:30 FALSE!!!!
So absolutely false!
There is all the social conflict during this time.
Being an outcast due to difference in skill, social abilities or lifestyle one is born into. Worst of all, bullying happens here the most.
How we are taught about the world, and how to approach thinking and learning. We can get stuck on mindsets or illusionary views of the world.
And finally, being denied discovering our own interest and following them.
For ecample, parents who want their child to be a medical doctor, while the child just wants to tune cars.
This phase is littered with conflict, and in my opinion, can even destroy any progress or achievement from previous phases.
this video at the start says that this was Sigmund Freud's theory. Sigmund Freud's theories about psychology and sexuality are often ridiculed for their absurdity.
For Freud, our childhood experiences shapes our personalities and behavior as adults
Is this supposed to be sarcastic or smth?
yeah could be a portion of it but genetic plays a huge role. that’s why everyone is different
@@stephysundon't downplay nurture!
@@vepply i’m not just that if u guys a whole batch of people and raise them in the same environment, each personality, behavior, morals and values will be different.
there a experiment with 3 austistic twins that lived with different families and shows the differences between them
I think that whether he was right or wrong, at least he was trying to bring light and understanding to aspects of development that most psychologists still don’t usually bring up, and this is so important, I think it should be further studied and evaluated to better the statements and make them more factual than theoretical however psychology is a really grey area even today because we don’t have the technology to completely prove everything, some things really we just have to rely on theories for now and how these theories fit a lot of people