I have also had to walk through rejection after 30 years of marriage and being in ministry together. We raised 4 amazing kids who all love the Lord and continue to serve Him. And then he let his guard down and let another woman in. The worst part has been the way he blames me, trying to convince our kids that I was a narcissistic abuser, in an attempt to justify his adultery. But God! I know who I am in Christ. And I know that He has never left me or forsaken me. One of my favorite verses through this time has been: I said, ‘You are my servant’; I have chosen you and have not rejected you. So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. Isaiah 41:9b-10 NIV
That was beautiful ❤exactly what I needed to hear today. My heart has been so broken after 21 years of marriage. I have been in a dark place. But Jesus is bringing me through. ❤❤
I'm praying for you sis! 🥲 I love you and Jesus loves you MORE! Please dig deep and lean on Him through all of it the good the bad and the ugly and always remember who you are in Him! Sending warm hugs and blessings beautiful Amber 🧡
Sadly the church reject people in pain condemning us and telling us it's sin. Let us acknowledge others pain so they can walk through it and not deny it with Jesus
I can so relate to this as well... I was with someone that was a Christian and loved GOD and reached out to people... but in a 1 to 1 relationship I learned and realized that she had NPD. I never knew about that before... along with later on learning about the spirits of jezebel, ahab, and leviathan. It was a very difficult experience to go through. ONLY GOD can bring someone out and heal their heart of that type of abuse. 🙏
I was married in the ministry for 18 years 4 kiddos … i raised my kids by my self .. we had a visible public ministry as well ! My ex left me to walk into homosexuality… It was such a shock and deep deep pain. I totally agree with forgiveness! Just recently the Lord told me I was Grieving and I was surprised but I asked Jesus what was up with my emotions and heart ! Numbness! Pain! It’s been 17 years ! I have done everything known to do to get my heart whole ! James 1 is where I have been. God is always faithful to walk us through to the other side ! God Bless this young woman for sharing ! I so relate to the whole scenario !
wow this is so awesome i really needed to hear this cause i got married to a toxic abusive cheater in 2018 then divorced in 2020 which was hard to do with all the shutdowns. and so i started writing my story and i am writing story number 2. the first one is The Phoenix has risen, cause i have risen from my ashes. i have not been able to get it published yet but i at least wrote out my story of my toxic marriage. the second story/book will go more in depth about my life..
I’m wrecked by this podcast. I could relate so much with feeling rejected and having Jesus shine His love on me in those areas. Jesus, You are our everything. ❤ We repent for times we don’t listen to Your Holy Spirit. We want to know You more as our Lord, Saviour and Friend. We invite You to renew our hearts and minds to be focused and centered on You, Lord Jesus. We praise You, God. In Jesus name, Amen.
Thank you! for sharing. Great timing! 28 years genuinely devoted to loving my wife unconditionally. My heart has been ripped wide open, but now I see more of the sinsecurities that I am growing through to be more like Christ! Did He not go through worse that He can empower me to go through this darkness and light show!?!
January 29 -2023 - I went through a marriage similar but with heavy drug addiction on his part- I was thinking by being a good Christian wife by covering and just praying for him. It didn’t work and I ended falling backwards from my own trauma - thinking was wrong/ it’s not how skinny or beautiful or a good wife or spouse you are- it’s their issues- trauma, etc- We divorced after a long tormenting marriage. We both failed, we didn’t have the right community around us. I continued to pray for him after getting out of the turmoil and as I healed- God helped me to forgive - long story short he gave his life to God on his death bed- praise the Lord he’s in heaven. I’m healing and serving others now to be a healed healer. Thank you for your story. 🫶🏽
What about the victim scenario that fan mohler mentions often in regards to the one cheating and the dark lost place they are to be able to do such a thing. When do we help salvage and when do we say separate?
It probably depends mostly on the other person. Are they willing to repent, seek outside help, and take actual steps to change? (not just talk of change)
Dan Mohler doesn't have the corner on marriage advice for sure. The LORD knows what we need! But sometimes it's in the brokenness where we meet HIM and HE becomes our bridegroom! HE's faithful to NEVER leave us or forsake us! For those who are willing to do something, Focus of the Family has a program Hope Restored to walk couples towards healing! They are really having a great impact on marriages!
Todd I'm a new subscriber to your channel . There is something I do not understand God's word states we are to be holy in our lifestyles ! Why are so many christians going to Disneyland and watching ungodly Disney movies that promote homosexuality which is a lifestyle condemned in the word of God ! Please explain how this is justifiable in the eyes of God ! Thank you !
Because they havent truly made Jesus Lord of their life. They have not surrenderrd and dont have a relationship with Him. They do not read their Bibles( where true transformation happens)
Worry about your own salvation with fear and trembling. Your judging the homosexual as Soo Sinful when Jesus forgave the Prostitute who slept with hundreds of men. Don't be a religious bonehead. Christians are not perfect they sin duh. Grace!
God will sort that out one day. I can't understand either how some can live the life they do live. God's Word tells me how to live. I look full in His face and it hurts to see other so indifferent the Word.
The church needs to wake up the church is supposed to be a hospital in the leaders need to be healed as well before they are used as a leader this should be a prerequisite before they are even ordained and they need to be trained how to cancel the injured the Brokenhearted those that need to be delivered they need to be trained in Deliverance they need to be educated for what is coming in so that these people can be used for Christ they need to be they need to stop judging people in loving them instead
I feel like God hates me no matter what I do. I think it's because I was never good enough for my Mother. It's very hard for me to overcome the psychological affects of my life vs. Spiritual life....I don't ever have peace. What's wrong with me?
God has never hated you! He loves you to distraction! But you can't heal your own heart, so let Him get close to you and transform your mind and spirit!!!❤
God see’s you just like He saw Hagar. He’s not your Mom but He wants to nuture you like she didn’t. It’s a long process to overcome mother trauma, but God doesn’t hate you. If He was gonna hate you He wouldn’t have wasted His Son’s life on you. The proof of His love is He gave it when you could of cared less. He isn’t gonna renig now. No matter what you do.
God is not the same as your mother. Perhaps reading about being raised by narcissistic parent would help you to gain insight. If it rings true for you seeking further outside help with talk therapy and and spiritual counseling to see you free from the lies that bind. Freedom and justice and comfort be yours.
Kathryn... Jesus counts you worthy sweetheart ❤️ So much so He died for us to give you life. Working thru our "stuff" is hard but like this guest quoted and Jesus said "he's close to the broken hearted" it's true.. remind yourself God is good..even if it hurts the hurt passes.. but I pray the Holy Spirit gives you peace..GBU 💖
Hi. Todd. I. Need. Some. Prayers. I'm going. Throw. Legal stuff and can you pray for Me And i don't have god in my life i Need god in my life so i can have Him here with me Terry mccoy
SALVATION: To clarify the gospel of our salvation: Our gospel that saves us today is to believe that Jesus died on the cross, shedding His blood, was buried and rose from the dead for the forgiveness of our sins. I Cor 15:1-4. That's step one. Step two: We must put our trust in this gospel for the forgiveness of our sins and nothing else, to be saved. It's that simple. Jesus did the work necessary for our salvation. We cannot. Paul puts it this way: Eph 1:13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise, True salvation only comes when we believe that Jesus is our ALL SUFFICENT SAVIOR. We cannot add anything to His blood shed and work of salvation on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins. We are not saved by repenting (turning from sin), being baptized in water, walking an aisle, saying a prayer, confessing with your mouth, being “born again”, or following Jesus’ earthly ministry. Those are mostly "works" salvation. We are saved by grace, not works (Rom 11:6), through faith alone, in Christ work on the cross. It is a gift 100%. Rom 3:24 KJV Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus: Titus 3:5-6, I Cor 15:1-4 Rom 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. He came to save sinners, not people trying to make themselves righteous by doing some kind of good work, getting wet or turning from their sins, they cannot do totally anyway. Simply believe and put your trust in the new gospel Jesus gave to Paul for us today to be saved by. Then start reading Rom - Phil to understand what was written to us the body of Christ, so we could know what God wants from us and who we are in Christ, once we are saved. The books Paul wrote are the only place we find the gospel that saves us today. Then read the rest of your bible that is FOR us but not TO and ABOUT us. 94% of the bible is TO and ABOUT Israel, yes Israel. Don’t steal their mail and try to make it yours. And don’t be fooled by people who tell you, you need to do some good work to be saved or to stay saved or to prove that you are saved. That is not the gospel for us today which is a free gift of GRACE when we believe and trust in what Jesus did on the cross for our sins. Eph 2:8 KJV For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Eph 2:9 KJV Not of works, lest any man should boast.
When my whole world was destroyed by adultery Jesus was there. I didn't know Him before but i know Him now and He is so good to me!
I have also had to walk through rejection after 30 years of marriage and being in ministry together. We raised 4 amazing kids who all love the Lord and continue to serve Him. And then he let his guard down and let another woman in. The worst part has been the way he blames me, trying to convince our kids that I was a narcissistic abuser, in an attempt to justify his adultery. But God! I know who I am in Christ. And I know that He has never left me or forsaken me. One of my favorite verses through this time has been: I said, ‘You are my servant’; I have chosen you and have not rejected you. So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
Isaiah 41:9b-10 NIV
That was beautiful ❤exactly what I needed to hear today. My heart has been so broken after 21 years of marriage. I have been in a dark place. But Jesus is bringing me through. ❤❤
Psalm 139 💖
Cant be easy...some days will be real bad but you will see Gods faithfulness through it all. Praying for you amber.
I'm praying for you sis! 🥲 I love you and Jesus loves you MORE! Please dig deep and lean on Him through all of it the good the bad and the ugly and always remember who you are in Him! Sending warm hugs and blessings beautiful Amber 🧡
Sadly the church reject people in pain condemning us and telling us it's sin. Let us acknowledge others pain so they can walk through it and not deny it with Jesus
I thought we were to weep with those who weep....❤️
🤣 all the times its crazy! Haha
@@twoofhearts82you sound like one of those people in church who are rejecting people experiencing pain.
Idk what church you’re a part of that rejects pain but you need to get out lol
@@Ggsodapop my thoughts exactly! “It’s up to them…” 😮
I can so relate to this as well... I was with someone that was a Christian and loved GOD and reached out to people... but in a 1 to 1 relationship I learned and realized that she had NPD. I never knew about that before... along with later on learning about the spirits of jezebel, ahab, and leviathan. It was a very difficult experience to go through. ONLY GOD can bring someone out and heal their heart of that type of abuse. 🙏
This was absolutely beautiful. Thank You Jesus Christ, Son of God 🤍
I was married in the ministry for 18 years 4 kiddos … i raised my kids by my self .. we had a visible public ministry as well ! My ex left me to walk into homosexuality… It was such a shock and deep deep pain. I totally agree with forgiveness! Just recently the Lord told me I was Grieving and I was surprised but I asked Jesus what was up with my emotions and heart ! Numbness! Pain! It’s been 17 years ! I have done everything known to do to get my heart whole ! James 1 is where I have been. God is always faithful to walk us through to the other side ! God Bless this young woman for sharing ! I so relate to the whole scenario !
Psalm 139 💖
I would not be alive without him today, right now listening to you. God, lord Jesus Thank you for being there. Love you Jesus❤❤❤
wow this is so awesome i really needed to hear this cause i got married to a toxic abusive cheater in 2018 then divorced in 2020 which was hard to do with all the shutdowns. and so i started writing my story and i am writing story number 2. the first one is The Phoenix has risen, cause i have risen from my ashes. i have not been able to get it published yet but i at least wrote out my story of my toxic marriage. the second story/book will go more in depth about my life..
I’ve journey through your shoes.
& like you I came to the reality that Jesus is the lover of my soul 🤍
Oh that’s good. He is one who sticks closer than a brother. And every pain and sorrow is worth knowing Him
Keep me broken for the Lord, amen
So true. Thanks Betty Joyce for sharing your testimony
I'm enjoying seeing a gentler more intimate relational todd
TOTALLY AGREE & This message so many people can relate to, very encouraging!!!
I’m wrecked by this podcast. I could relate so much with feeling rejected and having Jesus shine His love on me in those areas.
Jesus, You are our everything. ❤ We repent for times we don’t listen to Your Holy Spirit. We want to know You more as our Lord, Saviour and Friend. We invite You to renew our hearts and minds to be focused and centered on You, Lord Jesus. We praise You, God.
In Jesus name,
Amen.
We gotta walk through the pain with God! The way you walked this out is exactly how I did in a scenario so I know the Holy Spirit led us 🌊🌹💕
I believe I remember her worshiping in The Jesus church and I've never heard such pure passionate worship. She stands out above all.
This is so powerful, thank you Betty for sharing your story. 💔😭
Thank you! for sharing. Great timing!
28 years genuinely devoted to loving my wife unconditionally. My heart has been ripped wide open, but now I see more of the sinsecurities that I am growing through to be more like Christ!
Did He not go through worse that He can empower me to go through this darkness and light show!?!
Thank you so much for this powerful interview. It has been a blessing for me and spoke to me personally. Thank you! Thank You Jesus!
Sooo Good
"Count it All Joy"
🦋🙏🏽💞💝💞
Wow! Thank you for sharing how good God truly is!!!!
This is so powerful! Thank you BJ and Todd!
Very close to my story, thank you for sharing, beauty from ashes ❤️✝️ ✨️✨️✨️
I did the same thing. Did not want anyone to think badly.
Wow ministered to me so deeply THANK YOU
Thank You Jesus ♥
Wow! Thank you so much for sharing this!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 Amen! Helpful!!!!!
Whew ...
that was good. I needed that.
Please pray for Pastor Esperanza she lost her husband and is in deep grief thank you
Amen. So good. Thank you! 💖
Yes and Amen. God Bless you sis
Jesus loves you all.
Amen!! I need to know how much it cost! 🙏❤️
WoW I am amazed be this, but God is our only one to turn too ,
So freeing Thank you
Awesome
That's what Ye said, if God can't forgive all sins, for all people, He can't forgive any.
Asking for prayers my son jimmy is diagnosed with schizophrenia
Praying that he would be set free from that and that Jesus would give him perfect and total peace!
Gaslighting 😔
January 29 -2023 - I went through a marriage similar but with heavy drug addiction on his part- I was thinking by being a good Christian wife by covering and just praying for him. It didn’t work and I ended falling backwards from my own trauma - thinking was wrong/ it’s not how skinny or beautiful or a good wife or spouse you are- it’s their issues- trauma, etc- We divorced after a long tormenting marriage. We both failed, we didn’t have the right community around us. I continued to pray for him after getting out of the turmoil and as I healed- God helped me to forgive - long story short he gave his life to God on his death bed- praise the Lord he’s in heaven. I’m healing and serving others now to be a healed healer. Thank you for your story. 🫶🏽
What about the victim scenario that fan mohler mentions often in regards to the one cheating and the dark lost place they are to be able to do such a thing. When do we help salvage and when do we say separate?
It probably depends mostly on the other person. Are they willing to repent, seek outside help, and take actual steps to change? (not just talk of change)
Dan Mohler doesn't have the corner on marriage advice for sure. The LORD knows what we need! But sometimes it's in the brokenness where we meet HIM and HE becomes our bridegroom! HE's faithful to NEVER leave us or forsake us!
For those who are willing to do something, Focus of the Family has a program Hope Restored to walk couples towards healing! They are really having a great impact on marriages!
Can't we be whole and still depending on God
I love you, Todd, but this was very frustrating. I never heard her story of what she was been through.
Todd I'm a new subscriber to your channel . There is something I do not understand God's word states we are to be holy in our lifestyles ! Why are so many christians going to Disneyland and watching ungodly Disney movies that promote homosexuality which is a lifestyle condemned in the word of God ! Please explain how this is justifiable in the eyes of God ! Thank you !
Because they havent truly made Jesus Lord of their life. They have not surrenderrd and dont have a relationship with Him. They do not read their Bibles( where true transformation happens)
Worry about your own salvation with fear and trembling. Your judging the homosexual as Soo Sinful when Jesus forgave the Prostitute who slept with hundreds of men. Don't be a religious bonehead. Christians are not perfect they sin duh. Grace!
God will sort that out one day. I can't understand either how some can live the life they do live.
God's
Word tells me how to live.
I look full in His face and it hurts to see other so indifferent the Word.
Why do you have a Disney character as your profile picture?
Message from SA. Guys we praise God for this message BUT my heart cries for him to that now sounds like the outcast. Where was the body to help him
real🏵️🌼
Poor girl ☹
Jesus was the only way
The church needs to wake up the church is supposed to be a hospital in the leaders need to be healed as well before they are used as a leader this should be a prerequisite before they are even ordained and they need to be trained how to cancel the injured the Brokenhearted those that need to be delivered they need to be trained in Deliverance they need to be educated for what is coming in so that these people can be used for Christ they need to be they need to stop judging people in loving them instead
Παρακαλώ θέλουμε μετάφραση και στα ελληνικα
tentire video. What’s the story? Beside broken and What is thIs there a link to who this person is and what she has overcome?
I feel like God hates me no matter what I do. I think it's because I was never good enough for my Mother. It's very hard for me to overcome the psychological affects of my life vs. Spiritual life....I don't ever have peace. What's wrong with me?
God has never hated you! He loves you to distraction! But you can't heal your own heart, so let Him get close to you and transform your mind and spirit!!!❤
Deliverance
God see’s you just like He saw Hagar. He’s not your Mom but He wants to nuture you like she didn’t. It’s a long process to overcome mother trauma, but God doesn’t hate you. If He was gonna hate you He wouldn’t have wasted His Son’s life on you. The proof of His love is He gave it when you could of cared less. He isn’t gonna renig now. No matter what you do.
God is not the same as your mother. Perhaps reading about being raised by narcissistic parent would help you to gain insight. If it rings true for you seeking further outside help with talk therapy and and spiritual counseling to see you free from the lies that bind. Freedom and justice and comfort be yours.
Kathryn... Jesus counts you worthy sweetheart ❤️ So much so He died for us to give you life. Working thru our "stuff" is hard but like this guest quoted and Jesus said "he's close to the broken hearted" it's true.. remind yourself God is good..even if it hurts the hurt passes.. but I pray the Holy Spirit gives you peace..GBU 💖
Hi. Todd. I. Need. Some. Prayers. I'm going. Throw. Legal stuff and can you pray for Me And i don't have god in my life i Need god in my life so i can have Him here with me Terry mccoy
If you haven't accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior, please comment back. I'd love to speak with you. God bless!
SALVATION: To clarify the gospel of our salvation: Our gospel that saves us today is to believe that Jesus died on the cross, shedding His blood, was buried and rose from the dead for the forgiveness of our sins. I Cor 15:1-4. That's step one. Step two: We must put our trust in this gospel for the forgiveness of our sins and nothing else, to be saved. It's that simple. Jesus did the work necessary for our salvation. We cannot. Paul puts it this way: Eph 1:13 In whom ye also trusted, after that ye heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation: in whom also after that ye believed, ye were sealed with that holy Spirit of promise, True salvation only comes when we believe that Jesus is our ALL SUFFICENT SAVIOR. We cannot add anything to His blood shed and work of salvation on the cross for the forgiveness of our sins. We are not saved by repenting (turning from sin), being baptized in water, walking an aisle, saying a prayer, confessing with your mouth, being “born again”, or following Jesus’ earthly ministry. Those are mostly "works" salvation. We are saved by grace, not works (Rom 11:6), through faith alone, in Christ work on the cross. It is a gift 100%. Rom 3:24 KJV Being justified freely by his grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus: Titus 3:5-6, I Cor 15:1-4 Rom 5:8 But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us. He came to save sinners, not people trying to make themselves righteous by doing some kind of good work, getting wet or turning from their sins, they cannot do totally anyway. Simply believe and put your trust in the new gospel Jesus gave to Paul for us today to be saved by. Then start reading Rom - Phil to understand what was written to us the body of Christ, so we could know what God wants from us and who we are in Christ, once we are saved. The books Paul wrote are the only place we find the gospel that saves us today. Then read the rest of your bible that is FOR us but not TO and ABOUT us. 94% of the bible is TO and ABOUT Israel, yes Israel. Don’t steal their mail and try to make it yours. And don’t be fooled by people who tell you, you need to do some good work to be saved or to stay saved or to prove that you are saved. That is not the gospel for us today which is a free gift of GRACE when we believe and trust in what Jesus did on the cross for our sins. Eph 2:8 KJV For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God: Eph 2:9 KJV Not of works, lest any man should boast.
Bringing awareness to christians to not patronize Disney period ! Look at what they stand for ? It's not Christ !
Where in the Bible does it mention that God established divorce as she said….
Please explain!
Probably referring to Matt. 5:32 and 1 Cor. 7:15. But people have come to various conclusions about how to apply them to real life situations.
The guy cheat on her and didn’t want to stay (she forgave him but he walked away )