POV: Double Standards (girl version) part 2…
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- Опубліковано 26 вер 2024
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Fr Pink tax is so annoying, JUST LET ME BUY MY DAMN SHAMPOO WITHOUT ME HAVING TO GO BROKE 😭😭😭
FR THOU and companies say the quality for female products are better when it’s literally the same thing in different colours 💀
@@Akira-o7tI mean if they’re the same thing in different colors just buy the guy version lol. I actually do believe there’s a quality difference which is why I pay more and use girl razors a lot of the time
Or buy men products are often the same like women
@@Akira-o7tNah, men's clothes have much better fabric and they're actually cheaper... Not to mention they cover more. And men's skincare products are much better than women's, we still have a bunch of products containing ethanol. So I started buying men's stuff, even the razor. For clothes, I'd simply get them altered for $0,3 instead of paying $10 more for worse fabric with a tacky design.
@@dwi5582i wanna move to whatever country u live in, in my country, its all just womens skincare, so we really dont have a choice but to get subjected to pink tax either way. but the skincare works just fine for me, the only skincare ull ever see for a man in here is a 5 in 1
We're not even gonna talk about how EXPENSIVE period products are😭
I saw a$57 one
Fax, they must be hella expensive to make then
for real 😭😭
@@biglaw3216 they are not lmao. You acting like they fit diamonds in them or something. Have you even seen a sanitary pads before? It's mostly just cotton and fabric.
They are priced high because the companies know that we have no choice but to buy them.
@@pancakesxoxo1064 BRO WHAT?!?
Bro I didn’t even think about the dad bod mom bod comparison but you’re SO right wtf
As a female don’t forget we all have issues the other doesn’t..double standards aren’t exclusive to us..
@@hahahehe8915
There's literally a male version if this video, let other women talk about their issues
@@hahahehe8915ofc you call yourself that
@@tuteca I don’t care. You all sit here and act like we’re the only ones with issues..people literally talk about men’s lives being easy and how they’re treated “so well” when we all know that’s a load of bull shit. No one has it easy. There’s no need to fight about it. Ironically if this were the guys video and the roles were reversed in the conversation you’d have a different opinion on it wouldn’t you..?? It wouldn’t be “there’s a female version. Let men talk about their issues”..would it?
@@hahahehe8915 your mad because a female said that the mom bod and dad bod comparison was correct? not once then the original comment say that "ugh men have it so easy the dad/mom bod comparison was so right!" Lastly, i dont know about the comment that you replied would say this but I would say "theres a female version let men talk about their issues." not trying to come of rude or anything, just had sm to say :)
lets be honest... the only people that get distracted by sholders are the teachers.
Learn to spell before you comment bro bro
@@rynostudios8454womp womp
@@rynostudios8454 cry about it Lil bro
@@49.somanshisharma51 what exactly am I crying about?
FR
Trust me if a boy is drooling over a girl's shoulder he fr needs therapy and help
Edit : Thanks for the likes 👍 😊
Dude for real, I always thought that shit was so lame, dress code was pretty stupid in general though tbh
@@anthonyfox585 well except for the skirts rule at my school, and the crop top rule. Some rules do make sense.
In Japan, some schools forbid girls to wear their hair in a ponytail because “the back of their necks are sexy”
@donotSTrAYfromyourdesTINY that's the stupidest rule I've ever heard all day-
Fr like what
Omg the mom postpartum/early motherhood body and the dad bod I SWEAR ITS SO UNFAIR. Thank you for raising awareness for that.
What's unfair is working minimum wage waking up at 5 having to deal with Karen's and an angry boss.
@@arthurstoller4841someone had a bad day at work 😂
@@arthurstoller4841 what r u talking about?? that has nothing to do with the comment above
bro some men struggle with having a dad bod, a couple years back at a family party, my uncle with a dad bod was there, and so was my other sporty uncle with abs, my other uncle had kept staring and felt jealous, dad bods look terrible
@@yit-330 😑 I was stating what was unfair..
Once when I was at High school( I was the only guy in the class)a teacher pointed at the girl sitted next to me and yelled: “ Cover your shoulders!!! You’re distracting your classmate!”
I stood up and replied “I’m gay, miss. And my shoulders are not covered too”
She was speechless
I applaud you for that
Top 10 things that never happened
and then everyone clapped
@@somerandomguy7652bruh
@@sunsetkleebruh 😑
That “Pink Tax” should be illegal💀
What you mean?? It's true girls products (razors deodarent) is way more expensive
Ikr tapons are so expensive
Even if you aren't a girl lol and still use them
@@emilyyuen6044yeah and they’re saying it should not exist..
PINK TAX SHOULD BE ILLEGAL I AGREE! ☝️
Thank you, Clara, you make us all feel like we’re not alone 🥰🥰
i love youuu💕🎀
Cause fr thou these problems are so real and occurs for everyone but it’s never really taken seriously.
@@ClaraDaoi love you toooo 💖💗💓❤💖💗💓❤💖💗💓
@@ClaraDaoaww u r soo pretty!
@@ClaraDao We got a confidence queen! Ily
This is why I loved my dad sm, he literally dropped this sentence infront of my mom: "our child doesn't deserve my last name, it should have your's instead. It's as beautiful as you."
Like... that was so sweet of him. He was such a sweetheart, he always tried to make everyone happy and tried to make me laugh as a baby all the time 😭
We all need ppl like him ngl
Your dad sounds amazing! Thats so wholesome 😭❤️
W Dad
your dad must've been amazing.
Your dad is amazing
That’s one good dad
Why is everything like that soooo true woman are treated so bad.
Men are treated worse
@@biglaw3216nope,nope and nope prove it right now I will argue and prove you wrong
@@Idontknowwhattosay-rq3zt look up Norah Vincent
@@biglaw3216 what do you mean that's "all I need to know"?
1. Sexually abused is higher with woman
2. A lot of religions see woman as lesser then men
3. The beauty standards are impossibly high
4. You cant list a thing a teen girl cant get bullied for
5. Woman are seen as weak
6. Woman are expected in a lot of cultures to get married and have kids
7. Woman have trouble getting jobs because they are seen as weak or stupid
8. If a woman owns a business it wont do aswell as if a male owned it for no reason
9. If a woman chooses a class like wood work in school the rumours would be horrible
10. If you dont have big tits ure ugly
11. If you have big tits dont show them of or your a slut
12. If your a woman and a virgin you are scared
13. If you are woman and not a vigin you are a whore
14. If your woman dont wear makeup you are selfish and full of your self
15. If your a woman and wear makeup your insecure
16. If a woman is only friends with girls she is seen as sexcist
17. If a woman is only friends with guys shes a pick me
And the list gouse on and on try to even get 13
@@biglaw3216rapist shut uppp
She deserves way more subs for all that she went through!
She didnt go through it shes giving examples
@@idkanymorefshe went through most of them like all women
@@zizojaezekeom3565oh wow, shiver me timbers, sounds so bad… i feel so bad for all the women out there paying more for their razor than i do, and all the women out there forced to cover their shoulders😣 sounds so horrible waaahhh
@@iverhjulstad7678your just a kid who doesn't see how hard it is people like u are arrogant and don't try to understand people feelings
@@iverhjulstad7678women shouldn't be criticized for what they wear because I'm pretty sure boys aren't animals and can control my self
"Women are supposed to do that.. I'll never change my name for a woman"
Toji : It might seem crazy what I'm boutta say....
Tbh fushiguro fits more than zenin anyways
@@treessssssss i agree
THIS WAS EXACTLY WHAT I WAS THINKING!!
That is totally fine. What ? Name changing of women 😅
Zenitsu in corner; *.*
no one should ever be treated differently because of their gender or anything
No one SHOULD, the world operates on what is and what is is that men have it harder
@@biglaw3216men have it harder??? stop causing gender wars just respect both
@@veliwu081. not causing a gender war if I’m stating facts
@@biglaw3216men definitely do not have it harder, the only time a man would have it harder is if he’s trans, gay, or if he’s trying to get a job but the person is a weirdo and is only hiring women so he can stare at their chest.
@@Amitisaaaa bro what?💀
This is so true!! Once when I was in class the shirt I was wearing fell down, exposing my bra strap and my shoulder. I got in trouble by the teacher for breaking dress code when I didn't even realize it happened. She said that I'm being a distraction and to go change into my gym shirt. I had to go change and got a tardy because of a freaking accident.
A lot of men say they'd leave their gfs when they gain weight
And majority of men abandons their wives when they get sick (cancer/brea cancer)
Not true at all, women themselves are obsessed with skinnyness, most men like some curves.
@@sxoresx"curves" naturally come with a round belly. The curves or curvy you're referring to are unrealistic and are onoy seen in celebs and porn who do liposuction.
@@sxoresxI guess some, yeah. I work out so I’m pretty toned, not really curvy but oh well, I’m attractive to me and that’s really all I care about.
@@LocalRikaEnthusiast True ofc its most important to be comfortable in your own skin, I was just calling it out because you can't just make a standard and blame its hardship on men.
@@sxoresx yeah. I get called unattractive by people all the time by men, it’s honestly funny considering they have literally ALL been single. They’re all like “yeah you’re not even curvy” and it’s so dumb. Like damn you don’t even have a girl and you’re saying that?? Makes no sense sometimes.
The school dresscode one is SO real. Like shouldnt boys be able to control themselves? (From the teachers perspective, i dont mean that boys get actually ”disrtacted” by automaticly looking at a girls shoulder. The dresscode is not their fault) Cuz personally I dont get discrtacted from seeing a boys shoulder :/
It's not the boy classmates, it's bc the male teachers are pedos. Your classmates won't even notice.
This whole channel and it's fanbase seem to be the type to think that only boys in this world are the ones who're privileged and girls are the only ones struggling, and girls are still oh so kind and accept boys and they are the best. This kinda Billie eilish ass thinking style is what'll ruin humanity as a whole
@@SelkietokcreatorrrLMAO it’s called being civilised humans unlike animals👍🏻
I think the teachers are the ones getting distracted, plus, what do people see in SHOULDERS
@@Selkietokcreatorrrboys men will say but they can nothing for bc of their hormones.. aaah good to be Nonbinary and not this Cis nonsense with their toxic sexist gender rules
the dad bod one is so real because why is there not even a term for a “mom bod” because women always have to be thin and desirable even when they’re the ones that have pushed out a whole child and are usually expected to be the baby’s primary caregiver (spend all their time with the baby). i’m not saying men don’t struggle as dads ofc they do but it’s crazy that the parent that literally gave birth is expected to just “bounce back” to how she looked before
I have to say if you let people dictate of how to see your self you need help because everyone is beautiful
@@Larry1301No, you're wrong. Not everyone is beautiful.
@@ENTP2323 you're right! you're a prime example.
@@ENTP2323 well that sounds like a skill issue
@@ENTP2323 and also don’t talk down about yourself
I'm a mom. The first 3 years I struggled. I was 180lb before pregnancy. Ended up at 225lb by the end which was fine. Until after I gave birth. And it had been 6 months and I wasn't losing weight. I was only gaining. My highest was at 250. Turns out my thyroid had slowed down and it makes it insanely hard to lose weight. Got medication for it.. and started losing. Within a year and a half I had finally dropped the 80lbs. But the whole time I had my family telling me I still looked "puffy" and my face/chin was always looking bigger and with the postpartum and all the shit my family kept saying and asking like why I was still so big was killing me. Ended up making the postpartum depression so much worse and I ended up on several medications at very high strengths. I was taking a minimum of 8 different pills a day. STOP TELLING MOMS THEY NEED TO LOSE THE BABY WEIGHT!!!!!! be fucking supportive sometimes there's other shit medically imbalanced that makes Weight loss nearly impossible. Or yknow they're busy taking care of the fricken little human being they just destroyed their body in order to bring into this world! All those months are havoc on your body and after birth it doesn't just magically all go away and get better! Keep your mouth shut if you're going to shame them for baby weight. You have no idea what is going on mentally or physically and have no room to say a fricken word to them. And have no idea the amount of harm your little comments might do
Rant over sorry.
We should all be treated all equally and no double standards
Cuz without them life would be like a movie!
Edit : double standards is when a gender is treated better than the other in a certain situations
Isn't double standards that both are equal?
idk what double standards mean
We're all of equal value, but we're not all the same. Some differences in standards are productive, some are bigoted. I encourage you to think critically.
No, it’s that they’re unequal. One is treated better, and the other is treated worse
@@62818bthat one gender/person is treated better then the other. For example in the video the price tags for Men’s and women’s products
I’ve learned never point out when a male is acting on double standards, they get so verbally violent when they feel their sense of ego is being challenged. Thought not gonna lie, I never thought asking for a little bit of empathy and equality was “challenging” anyone aside rude people
Something I've learned.
If someone has double standards, they're not gonna be accepting of any type of criticism. If they could take criticism, they wouldn't have double standards.
Male or female. Both get violent
It’s important to realize that there are double standards going both ways. I’m a man and I can tell you from experience that there are a lot of thinks we just can’t do that women can without a second thought. It’s really not helpful to just point out one side because that will always put the other side on the defensive.
Then make a video so we can learn from it @@-caspo-
@@Cantmakeupmymindonaname I don’t think that would make any difference.
As a boy I can totally agree with this, but not only women struggle but both. Men get scolded for being soft, girly, etc, and women get criticized for being a tomboy. This is so unfair like what is wrong with people’s expectations? Let men and women express themselves.
And we women also get criticized for being "too girlish" cuz that means we have "no personality" it honestly just makes me sick
@@CiciChess Fr its so annoying if women can’t be to boyish or girlish then what can they be? Society really needs to make a decision
Then they say "Be yourself" like bro don't say that ifu dont actually mean it, telling us that and then judging us
It's because of how society and what they believed have changed once people started to think certain things especially in the 1900s, that's whenever things like that started to get shamed more than ever
Exactly thats why now I just don't care I let people say what they say 😂 it's also why I don't get girl products they are too expensive so I get the guy ones cuz they are just as good 😅
Every girl in my family (sans grandmas) have kept their maiden name and i fully intend to do the same :) no one should have to feel pressured to change their name. The legal age to marry (most places) is 18. That means you've hat that name for AT LEAST 18 years! It would be weird to suddenly change it.
Of course i understand if people want to do it to feel closer to their spouse but you should never feel pressured to
Jeez, this girl appeared all of a sudden with a bunch of videos and I cant stop watching, how can a human being be this gorgeous, she looks like she's sculpted help
ahh thank youu 🥺💕💕
Agreed her hair is everything 🧜🏻♀️
She is drop dead gorgeous and her hair is beautiful
I know what it's like, I am a woman myself, and it feels like we're not allowed to do anything like we're not allowed to even breathe it's annoying, like, let us be, we don't care about whatever you boys think, although some men out there are careful and generous, but not all men are like that, not all men respect.
Neither do women, it's honestly only fair to think about it in the prospect that everyone acts and is just different
You can breathe don’t be dramatic 💀
ngl this is kinda exaggerated I know women go through a lot but so do guys imo, and belittling men by saying "only boys do it" is a bad sentiment since women also shit on women it aint just guys, guys arent the problem everyone is
Reall
@@arianastan13 it's literally harder to breathe because bras-
I told my brother and sister inlaw That i didn't want to change my last name to for my future husband jokingly, they got so sensitive and mad and lectured me about how no man would want me or want to change their last name for me... Thanks for the fcking confidence
No les hagas caso, si no quieres no lo hagas
@@lilith75Because it's my name?
@@lilith75Then I guess your name is very long and ugly, that's why you can't wait to change it.
Seriously, I can't understand those self-centered person. Your culture is not the only one in the world. Wake up baby, you're not alone.
In other culture, it's normal for the wife to keep her name. And she can decide to change it.
@@lilith75 that's a you problem. Not everyone's last name is 'ugly'
@@lilith75 dawg, I already said , just because your surname is ugly doesn't mean everyone's is. My surname is beautiful.
People really need to raise more awareness of this. Thank you Clara
No we don’t, they’re fine the way they are
Got one for you, when men do sex jokes it slides easy and when women does sex jokes it's seen as "unclassy" "weird" or "uncomfortable"(talking with pass experiences)
YES!!! i arleady did one sex joke before and everyone looked at me in a weird way when the boys do sex jokes is "Normal"
@@alicetanelli yeah like i legit have the same humor as my dad and when my dad does his jokes it's all cool and funny but when it's me it always get akward
I like them
Or when a girl wears a certain outfit all of a sudden she’s gay or she wants to be different but if a boy were to come to school In a dress as a joke everyone would laugh
I mean imo men really only make those kinda jokes in their friend groups or some other group who share the same humor. Like if we just randomly do it somewhere then It would be awkward for us too. But I kinda get what you’re saying since generally women don’t make those kind of jokes so it would probably be more awkward for them
Double standards are real
Teachers need to ask themselves this question,
is it the girl’s fault for the boys drooling over her sholders for having them exposed,
or the boy’s fault for not being able to control himself?
We cant control it. We have raging hormones. What are we supposed to do?
@@sandels5805Is that supposed to be an excuse? It’s shoulders 💀
@@sandels5805 HELP YOU LITERALLY CAN
@@sandels5805First of all who the hell gets attracted to shoulders, are you saying girls can’t be comfortable because you can’t control yourself?
@@coconanatataI can definitely control it and I do yet I can’t account for all men out there. If you get stalked for wearing revealing clothes. It’s on you.
The fact that a woman’s literal entire identity is expected to change when they get married is actually insane
A last name is not their whole identity calm down
@@biglaw3216 it’s MUCH more than just the last name hun
@@shawn-oldaccountl6748 that’s what I said hun
@biglaw3216 Okay, then change your last name to your wife's if it's not that big of a deal. It may not be the whole identity, but it's a huge part of it.
@@DwynTwo lol my parents ain’t letting that happen
“coVeR Up YoUr ShoulDErS ThE bOyS WiLL GeT DistRactEd”
*_Oh yeah cuz the boys gonna start drooling over a shoulder_* 💀
Fr no one’s gonna be like “Aw dude do you SEE the shoulders on that chick? Yeah there so fine 🤭” 💀
Where i went to school this rule actualy aplied to both genders and it Had a Lot more to do with Teenagers beeing gross and sweaty than it was about sexualisation, like Cover your armpits more than the shoulders
@@mariannehorn1375That's understandable
my comeback is "but the boy right here show his shoulders and it distract me" the teacher was speechless 💀
@@lilithcrawler-mj3xr fr
The last one is so true, people have always been so rude to my mom about her weight even though she looks amazing and she’s an amazing mom so who cares ❤
Ngl I feel like men definitely get more criticism about weight I've never seen a fat women bullied only fat men irl
@@Hackツ are you a woman by chance? do you hang out with women? because the fatshaming me, my mom and my friends go through is insane.
@@Hackツ both genders get bullied about their weight and yes men do get bullied but I feel like while women may not get bullied online many cultures and people still bully them irl becuz they understand it hurts
@@Hackツ Fat women get roasted to oblivion just for existing. You must have selective hearing.
@@Hackツwhy did you feel the need to bring up how men face more insults towards their bodies when this person was showing appreciation to their mother? Always find some damn way to bring up men don't you and you have to be blind or never interact with ladies if you believe women don't get shredded into the ground for their weight like everyday, even if they're not fat
But mom bods are so pretty!! my mom just had her 5th kid and she looks so much healthier it makes me so happy
Bro names for like shampoos for women "cherry blossom pop 🥰😘🌸♥️" and for men "Violent Explosion Alpha T-rex 💯🗣🗣‼️😈😈"
Personally i will happily smell like violet explosion Alpha volcano T-rex
@@stormy1853what 😭
Don’t we all want to smell like Violent Explosion Alpha T-Rex?
@@LocalRikaEnthusiastI don’t know if I want to smell like a giant lizard mixed with ash
@@stormy1853me too
my mom didn’t change her name after marrying my dad. love that for her lol
Ppl shouldn't take the name always of the men 🤡 ppl should take the name what sounds better
Yeah same
You can chose not to do that?
Mine aswell
@@kermitthefrog4830yep
I literally saw this at a store.
Grey razor with five blades: $5.00
Pink razor with five blades: $7.50
The razors had the same design and same manufacturers.
*Screw you, Gillette. I know Venus is part of your company.*
oh nahh 💀💀
Then just buy the grey one. What’s the big deal?
You also have to take into consideration about how much each product is bought and if the pink one takes a higher price to make. Because if the pink one takes a higher price to make or if more people buy that one, they would increase the price to gain more profit
@@RedNuii It's not a big deal. I'm simply disgruntled by the fact that a lot of women pay more to shave than men do. It's dumb. We both have skin, and we both get hair on it.
@dhyeypatel6904 Yeah, so I just did some research, and nothing said that it costs more to make something pink. It's actually more expensive because of the societal standards that say women should buy the pink razor and not the gray or blue one. Basically, pink tax profits off of sexism because why not. Man, that sucks!
I absolutely fucking HATE double standards!!!
To bad that’s life
I love how you do both boy and girl POVs!
yep.
I wouldnt call the boy’s pov realistic lmao
Nah the first one is so true 💀 like the boys in my school literally walk around shirtless sometimes and then they keep their pants down and show off their boxers like it’s a trophy or smth
And yet teachers and schools have the audacity to say that us girls are being immature and inappropriate by showing our legs or shoulders 😭
It's so true...
I think shirtless men thing is pretty 'erotic' that I do not get why they think it is okay...
Because we have raging hormones
@@sandels5805 that is unscientific. Stop lying.
@nana5.10 they do it on purpose!
Thank you for understanding, im a single mom but my brother and dad keep saying "if you dont do this how are you going to have aman in your life?" I told myself that I need to be alone so that I can figure myself out, people think because im alone that im sad, some people are just capable of vibing by themselves.
So true. Thats why I dont care anymore😊
In the country where I was born, women weren't allowed to do many things before 2000, and in the past years, if you were a woman, you must change your last name, but now everything has changed but it still unfair many things 😢❤
Then don't accept what the sexist says and give a f like me and fight!!! Ik it's hard ik that bc I'm Nonbinary and trans or LGBTQ get a lot of hate specially on Instagram.. but I still fight u need to lern to give a f about toxic ppl
As a guy I can confidently say that my last name is ridiculously long and I’ll most likely change it to my wife or husband’s 😂 I’ve always found the “always change to husbands “ thing silly
Unlucky my last name is lit Ly
slay.
Your not a guy
@@ppatel16t5i0 and you're not a mature human being.
@@wani_1711how so?
Thank you so much for not only yalking about girl struggles but also boy struggles! This is what true feminism is
Where did she talk about boy struggles? Lmfao
@@i_killed_john_wicks_dog her other videos? or are you slow
@@cohock show me one
u have hands @@i_killed_john_wicks_dog
no the first one is so true and its like when people have like problems with random old men and then people ask what they were wearing as if its their fault it happened
I’ve been through body shaming and double standards but Clara helped me a lot through it
Thanks Clara ❤
💕💕 love youuuu bb
Nobody deserves to be body shamed bc all bodies are beautiful
me being transmasc: ha i’ve experienced both sides of this and it’s fucked up
take care of yourself yall. people can be jerks. women deserve better :)
Men and women deserve better
yo fellow transmasc!
@@renhengceo yooooo
men already do @@aurorahicks8959
The saddest thing is, when a wife's unfertile, people will say to husband, "Divorce your wife and get a new one!" but if the husband's unfertile, people will say to wife, "You must accept your husband condition. You both can adopt a kid." this is normal thing in my place
My mother didn't change her last name after getting married because it was just easier that way, and she's taken pride in that. She's says its better in her work environment, that way the respect that she gains is from her own name alone and not my dad's. It also shows how you don't have to take someone's last name to show your married they're are many others ways, through loving sctions, the rings, and just being humble about it.
In my country the mom always keeps her last names, and when they have the kids, the kids get both the dads and moms last name
I bet she will be the best mom , bestie , friend , sister you have ever met
In my country you can't change your last name after marry, you can just use it informally with your family/friends if you want, but your last name for every official thing remain your birth one
the world is so unfair to women, like theres barely any bad words used on men only on women. thank you clara for this video! ❤
even the language of Chinese has MANY MANY MANY misogynistic influence. a whole language. lots of misogyny.
This isnt true
@@taylorbenson6284explain
The western world is pretty fair to women. They do have some disadvantages but they also have some advantages.
I politely disagree. Men are considered more dangerous than women are, and are discriminated if they aren’t, by both genders. Many men are looked down upon from some women because they believe that they are simply trying to hook up with them for fun. I’m not disagreeing with your comment entirely, because there are certainly some phrases used on women in which they shouldn’t be. However, there *are* comments towards men made by either gender, and probably much more than you may think.
In the song „Pretty distraction” is a line that describes the school dress code very well. “They told her to cover up her shoulders cause the boys couldn‘t focus. Maybe they should teach him to control his own actions, but thats not what happens”
I love that song frr
Melanie Martinez also did a song similar called "strawberry shortcake" and the line was "instead of making me feel bad for the body I got, just teach him to keep it in his pants and tell him to stop"
My mom is a queen. Even though she got married, she kept her last name 💪 may the family stay strong
You have no clue why women change their last name during marriage do you
may the family stay strong💪🏻
@@biglaw3216 well, if your so sure of yourself, go on, explain
@@wani_1711 💪
@@cheesy_artist because when the father walks his daughter down the isle he is handing her off to her future husband and by doing that they change their last name to the husband’s to show a sign of trust and respect in the future husband
as an boy in korea i've been called gay just because i use lotion for my skincare and because i look like a girl but clara u have inspired us to take action for this femnine/mausuline hate thx Clara btw i subbed :D
Its really hard livin in this society with all these double standards stereotypes etc especially i live in a rural area so ive heard a lot of SLUT SHAMING BODY SHAMING hooo the list goes on. My relatives have literally asked me to loose weight, not to wear tight clothes, dont wear gold, etc. They even said that i was trying to ATTRACT the boys and mind that i heard all these and they said all of these when i literally JUST 13😑😑. I was always skinny and never imagined i would gain weight and that happened during covid when i literally couldnt even step out of my door. I was already being insecure and was having a hard time(depression). Also was homesick bcz i left MY home country to come to india which is my PARENTS home country. And yeah in short i had a REALLY tough time and these people just made it even worse JUST bcz im a girl😪
Har har har har har💀
@@Monkeyman-c8b "har har har" 🤓
@@CL0WNP4RTY huh?
Get well soon luv
@@themidwestemo I'm all well now thank you☺️🙏I'm currently 16. I fighted depression, started loving myself utmost, removed all those negative people from my life, I'm also thinking positive things so ye I'm doing quite well now😉
My school is doing a petition to make school dress code more fair for girls 💪💪💪
To be honest i cant even trust nobody anymore because how they are now in days I bet pepole back in the 60s knew way better than this but you are a wonderful girl and you are so Sweet!
I hate the fact that it's female teachers telling us to cover up
thank you you are so positive and i think youre the most beautiful woman in the world
Clara, you are truly an inspiration. You cover both girl and boy edition of double standards, that is so cool and deserves more attention!
Mom bods >> dad bods
No one can convince me otherwise
I love how u do boys and girls versions, bc we all suffer just in different ways
The changing names one is so true.
My mother never changed her name for my father and at school whenever they were brought up,
everyone assumed my parents were divorced 🧍
ikr it’s so unfair!! 😪
My parents aren't even married lol
@@OnlyOneGreyToBeatThemAllThat's pathetic and it means you're a bastard
@@OnlyOneGreyToBeatThemAllWhich country do you live in??
@@adityasingh-ps1lf why?
Thanks for support. Your so pretty with and without anything. I’m proud of you for trying and I’m proud of you for doing it. We’re here to support you 24/7!
i know islam isn't for everyone & i totally respect that but seeing the changing your name for your husband thing really made me appreciate the small things about it. you're actually encouraged to keep your own surname in islam because you're not your husband's property and representing your family lineage is super important too. i just love it. i don't know if other faiths also support this so please lmk!! ❤ & another sidenote, pink tax is just so horrible. i have an extremely heavy flow & products are just so expensive - no matter what you use or have access to. & i feel guilty needing to repurchase things even though it's a basic human necessity. i wish there was more empathy for people who deal with periods 😢 i can't even imagine being in a situation where you can't gain access to or afford period products 😞
In my cultures, womans keep their last names which is their father's last name not the husband's.
thankyou for raising awareness that there should be equality for EVERY gender
In my school we can’t wear shorts when it’s summer because „we will distract the boys” AND I’M STILL IN PRIMARY SCHOOL
Just wear shorts then? And if the school says just boys can then should all girls wear it bc they can't just kick all girl out at once U need to be a big group and fight so get all girls and fight together
@dowon_btw
That’s right! My mom even talked to our class teacher and it’s now better but still some teachers say to us that we can’t wear that. I remember one day when our math teacher said to one girl that she shouldn’t wear shorts and when me and my gf heard that we went to school in shorts the next day :D (sorry if my english is bad. It’s not my native language)
@@TsukasaYugi-uwuWhich country do you live in?
@adityasingh-ps1lf
Poland but it's not in all schools
It's sad that some part of the world is still being terrible to women
The razor one is so real 😭
I was peer pressured into being a pick me in third grade to impress my friends from getting a lot of guys.
Love you Clara sm💗🫶🤗😽
it’s like the boys r always the teacher’s favorite..
😭😭😭
its the opposire most of the time 😭
That’s not true
Nope it's just that they're pedophiles
Where? Lol 😅 Everywhere I go girls are the teachers' favorites while boys being the rascals, terrorists and bla bla bla. Idk what universe you're living in. Lmfao
“Are you crazy u have to take ur husbands last name, people will think it’s weird if you don’t”
My mom and dad:
💀
Where are you from honey?
Fr💀💀
This is the reason why I want to stay single guys have the craziest expectations like they want a girl with curves yet they aint expected to do any changes to their bodies and the next person who tells me I have to cover my shoulders that im distracting them like how on earth are shoulders revealing like the hell.
I mean, any boy is lying by saying they don't want a "sexy" girl/ woman. Same with women wanting 6+ feet tall men. There is nothing wrong with that. Coming from a skinny boy who knows fat boys. I've been called called out for being skinny, mainly by other boys, but even a girl before. It's not anything that's gonna make me cry, but the same thing happens with fat peoples, as you probably know. Girls are judged more serverly (most girls will lie about your body being beautiful) because they have a beauty standard, mainly fat girls are judged more serverly. Boy's do not have a beauty standard above their heads, Boy's weren't made to look extremely attractive naturally. (obviously, there are a lot of boys who are very attractive) regarding boy's showing their shoulders and girl's showing their shoulders. Me personally, I'd say it depends where you are for girls. You should be allowed to show you're shoulders but the only reasoning I could see as to why to not show them is, Boy's having less mature minds then girls. Aswell as possibly being distracted by it. For boy's, no one really cares about his shoulders. (espcially in school when they arent as big as they can be)
That fact that my mom got married and never had to change her last name and to this day, she still has the same exact last name as she did when she got married.
La belleza de esta mujer es inexplicable,
Esta chica me hace olvidar mis inseguridades, muchas gracias chica!!❤
Dress code in school: Have you never seen shoulders or something?
Changing last name: It’s your last name so nobody can tell you to change it
Pink tax: What’s even the point of it? Like even for the same thing? Stop charging women more for absolutely no reason
Mom bod: What’s even the problem? That just means you’re eating your meals and treating yourself with food and pregnancy is hard just leave women alone
Dress code: raging hormones
Changing last name: very important tradition
Pink tax: the quality is better
Other men: taking my wife's last name isn't manly.
Toji Fushiguro:...isn't manly?🗿
Toji be a real one for that
Omg you look sooo pretty rn!
I feel like pink tax and dress codes and bodies are the three huge ones here. Thank you SO MUCH for spreading awareness. I love you sm and you make me feel way more comfortable in my own skin. 💜✨ (I DIDNT MEAN TO START A FIGHT, the fact that people are starting fights about this is ridiculous. Grow tf up because this video is for women 😭😭 if you need validation or wtv she MAKES VIDS FOR MEN SO STOP- 😭😭💀)
Well men and women aren’t equal so you can’t expect the same for everyone
Ofc she’s not gonna talk about how car insurance and bank loans will cost more for men because why would she do that? Cuz she’s always trying to be the victim
@@biglaw3216 Hmmmm... it's almost like it's that way because women earn less than men...
@@biglaw3216there's videos for men too, stop crying.
@@biglaw3216they should be, just BC we don't have same body doesn't mean we should be treated better or worse
Off topic but YOU LOOK SO PRETTY AAAAA
I like that she does these for men and women bc it rly is on both sides.
Hi Clara! I love your videos! Can you do a double standards video for people who are trans, nonbinary and/or genderqueer? If not that’s totally okay!
Honestly, one double standard I despised in HS was the bullying you got for not shaving as a "girl". I'm non-binary, so I found it strange back then (and still now, but I understand the reason) that boys didn't have to shave, but girls "did" for "hygiene".
Turns out I found it to be a double standard because I didn't like the idea of people knowing what my genitals were based off my outward appearance. My body, fine, that I don't care to alter, but the clothes I wore and way I cut my hair? Why do we have to dress and groom ourselves up to the point where people can easily categorise us based on private parts. Shouldn't the shape of a person's body be enough? And if not, so what, unless you're interested in them romantically and s*xually, it's none of your business what they've got.
Men must shave as well... I dont like seeing hairy people around who also smell bad.
The dress code thing is so true! What are we teaching kids these days? We should be teaching the boys not to stare at people’s shoulders like legit that’s creepy, and we should teach girls to express themselves!
Obviously you dont know what its like to have raging hormones.
We shouldnt be teaching kids to dress half naked.
@sandels5805 "Obviously you don't know what it's like to have raging hormones" bro women go through periods once a month, trust me, we know about "raging hormones". However if your "raging hormones" cause ME to have to restrict myself, there's a problem. Maybe if your "raging hormones" distract you, try and pay attention to the class instead of drooling over girls' shoulders, freaking weirdos
"People shouldn't dress half naked" agreed; now apply that standard to BOTH genders and suddenly it's not an issue anymore 🤷♀️
@@sandels5805if you think tanktops and clothes of that sort are “Half naked” then sorry man. I don’t give a fuck how bad your hormones are. You’re a creep. A girl wearing a tanktop because it’s hot is NOT her trying to Show herself off for People like you. And if Fucking Shoulders Are making you act Up then By god I hope your going to therapy for how Messed up That is. And even if none of my arguments held up, you’ve gone through this comment section And Blasted the same Argument. So your Putting down women’s issues. And saying it’s Their fault’s for being HUMAN and wanting to Dress how THEY LIKE. Why should They be forced into not Expressing themselves or dressing comfortably if it’s MAINLY men who “Can’t control themselves” because women dressing how they like is “Distracting”.
@@sandels5805ITS SHOULDERSSS. SHOULDERS. LITERAL SHOULDERS. IT ISNT HALF NAKED OMFG
I agree with everything but the first one. There’s a drastic difference in the width of the sleeves, if a girl wore a tank top like the guy did then there wouldn’t be a problem. I’m not saying the girls shouldn’t be allowed to wear tank tops to school cause I personally think it’s not that big of a deal but yea
What teachers think boys are gonna think when they see 0.0000000000000001% of a girls shoulder: omg bro that shoulder is so cute i cant even focus on my homework!😫😫😫
What they actuaually think: ugh when is class gonna end this girl is blocking the clock🙄
My mother never changed her last name nor added my father's name and no one in my family or relatives follow this husband's last name tradition 😊
Even me & my sister have different last name not matching one another😂😂.
But we all look so similar to each other 😂😂😂
Your so adorable clara thanks for posting body loving videos ❤😊
It's honestly sad, I'm glad you can bring it to light tho, thank you for spreading massages that aren't talked about enough🖤
Love how she does one for boys and girls 😭😭
Ain't nobody forcing y'all to change your last names
Women get kinda forced bc the men's have a to big ego (often) and are too proud to change theirs
Fax
She acting like it’s a problem💀
Yeah we basically get shamed into it and people make us feel like we are doing something wrong just because we don't want to change our damn name. Even after you stay with your own name people will still tell you that you made a bad decision and try to make us feel like we don't love our husbands because of it.
@@snakeuhatessprite8638 just don't fall into peer pressure
SO BASICALLY A MAN WON'T CHANGE HIS NAME FOR A WOMAN BUT THE WOMAN SHOULD CHANGE HER NAME FOR THE MAN!!!???!!!
Yeah... basically.
I’m a male, and we a uniform code in my school; but for some odd reason, they let us boys like half take off the uniform shirt (like the collar/shirt(head) hole can hang around our necks) as long as we have an undershirt (tank top) . I always felt bad for the girls because their never allowed for that. Say, if they had an undershirt or something that does cover their torso(LIKE AN UNDERSHIRT) then there should be no issue, right? Wrong. Several girls got dress coded at my school for doing that, and I’ve been pissed at my teachers for it because most of the girls are my friends.
As an ex bisexual, I can confirm the shoulders of men were hotter than the shoulders of women
“Ex bisexual”? What
@ash_g8st944 I'm not so sure of the context of this comment, but sexuality is a fluid and ever changing thing in all of us.
Yes, people can be born straight, and later in life slowly transition into homosexality. And the other way around too.
Most of us though, will just shift preferences with age. I'm 30, and I think men in their 40s are the most attractive. In my 20s, I thought men in their 30s were attractive.
It's all normal and natural and good.
@@lepapercastle you can’t switch your sexuality that never changes
@@ash_g8st944 If that's what you got from my comment, then you didn't read it to learn anything or to question me, you read it and immediately found a reason to say something stupid.
I said nothing about "switching up" a sexuality. That would imply that it is a choice. I didn't say that either. I said, as people age, their sexualities can evolve and sometimes, dramatically.
So, with that, stay in school kid. You need it bad.
@@lepapercastle I never meant it as your sexuality being a choice I just didn’t really thought about how I should describe it and how does your sexuality evolve your born gay or your born straight and why are you so mean to me for no reason
As a arab girl we arabs don't take our husband last name. We stay in our father last name even if we married 🌚
But it is still about men
@@7prudent
Yh but it is like that we stay in our fathers last name