Take Your MIND OFF Problems: Part 1: BK Shivani at San Francisco (English)
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- Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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Join BK Shivani to understand the need to stop focusing on uncertainty in the outer world, and create a sense of certainty in our inner world. One way of living is to blame others for our unhappiness and pain, and wait for them to change. Another way is to recognize that people and situations have nothing to do with our state of mind.
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Thank You 🙏! So content of being mindful with no reaction to a chaotic day last week ! I was thriving in mindfulness to not react, wasn’t an easy task ( all who heard said they would have lost it reacted screamed : was never that extreme American way) Guess getting stronger in my inner journey ! Even though I was a practitioner of mindfulness , so grateful to your discourses, Sister! 🙏 The contentment received was far greater ! I I want to keep perfecting these moments as it is the only to make my journey stronger as in general I got my nature that I am content ! ☮️
She is Angel 👼 love from Toronto Canada 🇨🇦
It was great seeing you at the SF lecture! When you asked the question, "Anyone responsible for your emotions?" One person in particular came to mind: my mother. All my life I've been waiting for her genuine approval, for her to say: "Good job," (and not change her mind), like she has done so many times in the past. And, because this uncertainty would confuse me as a child, I found myself needing and seeking approval from EVERYBODY. It was a habit I developed and I was like a wave on the ocean. What a tormented way to live! So, I'm grateful at least in later life to have found the true meaning of the words you use so often in your lectures: "Sankalp se srishti, NOT srishti se sankalp." What a game changer!!! Thank you so much, Sr. Shivani, for literally saving my sanity (or showing me how to save my OWN sanity). Om shanti.
It's great to know you found your peace. Are you working there? Or brought up there?
Animal Love Thank you! I was visiting there. Have a blessed day. Om shanti.
Thank you to God for everything. Congratulations on your wonderful success. Keep flying in God's love.
Also please take care not to create a single negative thought for your mother. Everyone is doing their best, based on their capacity and their sanskars. So let us continue to accept and respect them for who they are.
BKShivani Thank you for the encouraging words! That means a lot to me. There's one more thing please, Sr. Shivani, I heard you mention in one of your videos that you actually cured someone with OCD. I'd like to know more about that as I have been afflicted with OCD since the age of about 8 years old. It would be a true miracle to finally be free of this plague once and for all. Do you still do interventions for OCD and is there a way to contact you in that regard? Sincerely, BM.
di u r shiv baba's angel..u r d most beautiful soul ...u change my life u r making me a better person day by day ..i want to meet u once in my life ..plz allow me to feel ur pure n strong vibration ..thank u shiv baba who send u in dis world ...thank u di
You are awesome
I truly love listening to her. She always grounds me. 🙏🏻very blessed to have found her.
Definitely our Mind Influences the Situation.. So, Always be Happy... Thank U Shivani Sister...👏👌👍👏👌👏👏👏👏👏
Thank you BK Shivani !!! I Love you and I appreciate you.
Your English is so fluent , clear and nice .
The power of healing.Humanity deserves Peace Blissfulness
I am happy blessed abundant peaceful and gratitude to almighty god for this🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💖🧚♂️
Thanks Sister Shivani! 💐🙏🏽
Di you are very soft spoken ....really God's child....who wants spread HIS thoughts to the wordly people
I play your talks while I am in bed it's do calming thank you
You are great Didi,,we enjoy your blessings.
Simple comparison to the mic and the brother who brought it to you was brilliant! How often I have been on either side of the equation. Our thoughts are so powerful. I love the saying "The mind is like a camera; it develops what you focus on." We have options. Choose thoughts wisely.♡ Thank you Sister Shivani. Thinking of you in your birthday month! 5/31 will be 50 years this world was blessed with your presence. 🥰🎊🎉💕
When she says" thik kro " she is really so cute , i feel too happy when i watch her videos ....❤️
dear sister, l am happy to listening your thoughts. gloria
Thanks very much you are changing lives. God bless you.
Ur words r with Immense energy and penetrate my subconscious mind with great ease...
You made my day Di 🙏❤️
💖💖💖💖I love you so much sivani sister 💖💖💖💖💖💖 love and peace always ❤️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ om Shanti
How nicely you explain every situation in so simple way dear di. Love you ❤️God bless you.
I am blessed happy abundant and peaceful soul 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
one of the best speaker I heard
🙏🏻🌹🌹OM SHANTI 🌹🌹🙏🏻
Om shanti! 🙏🏼
We always hear the phrase "Times are uncertain", but was there really ever a time in which everything was certain? Even when we were living in caves, we were never certain if we would be safe from the wild animals roaming around and if we would have enough food that day. One thing for certain is there will always be times that are uncertain.
Om shanti sister
Simply amazing, sis i always love to listen you. It helps me wonderfully
om shanti Di love u very much
Om shanti di
Om shanti 🙏
God bless u always
Om shanthi Didi. Thanks sister
Om Shanti di😊😊😊
बहुत बहुत शुक्रिया
We are responsible for our actions and thoughts not others .
Ty u sooo much 🙏
ॐ शांती
Om Shanti didi
peace peace and peace ❤❤💗💙💚
Om shanti di🙏🏻💖💗🧚♂️
Om shanti Didi 😊 😊
Om Sai Ram
Om shanti akka...
thank you sister .
Om shanti 💖🧚♂️💗
Om Shanti Shivani Sister🙏🏻🙏🏻
Am so grateful for ur inspiring talks...Thank you so much🙏🏻🙏🏻
Now my problem is I myself is the mic....need to change or shift myself only.....which am trying my best everyday.
Any help & kind words to work on myself....please suggest.
Thanks 🙏🏻
om santi shivani didi u r wonderful women in this peaceful world. we r accept thos who r same .
ॐ शान्ति 🙏🙏🙏
Om Shanti didi 🙏🙏
Thank you
Thank uu sooo much for the video mam...LOVE uu soo much mam..om santhi and be happy always baba aur all the gurus and all the beautiful souls in this entire UNIVERSE
Om shanti 🧚♀️Sister your soothing .. super healing discourse videos have been my emotional doctor ever since the " om shanti om " days when I most needed them .. it's not that I need your guidance any less now , infact now as have grown older n have more responsibilities than before , I get empowered by your magical words all the more .. But sister despite a very submissive acceptance of the teaching from brahmakumaris (especially you ) n after being able to understand every single detail of the concept I still tend to get vulnerable and weak .. I'm an overtly emotional person n my will power has not being supporting me to overcome my so called little flaws like vulnerability n insecurities.. though I have been lecturing people on d same n have a few dozens of followers myself who got a life changing experience after being counselled by me .. I have shared nothing with them but just pure authentic knowledge which I have absorbed from your teachings., so my question is, when others can get better with my efforts towards them ,then y can't I myself get the real peaceful life ..
Superb
Being happiness always is not possible.If we accepet things, people, situation as it is..
Then olny it will be possible
Where can I find the part2 of this video. Please share .🙏
Om Shanti Sister 🙏
✒ only I am responsible for my emotions 🙂
Question: Ms. Shivani suggests that no one is responsible for how we feel, they don't have the power to be in our mind, but we allow them to affect us to any level.
It sounds logical and it makes sense. But taking it a step further. As she said that the brother thought and did what is right and he walked away. We're the ones affected by it. Now the question is, if a person is wrong about what they are believing to be right, and are adamant about it. What should we do in such a case? The example given is of a stranger. But what if that person is someone close? If this situation arises every now and then?
Om shanti.
It applies to anyone, whether a family member or a colleague. As per your role and responsibilities you can keep your respect intact for that person and give advise, request or instruct the person who you believe is doing something that is not right for him. Only thing is to do so without creating anger or pain. The vibrations are very important and they decide how the other person reciprocates. Also need to understand that the other person will have a justification or a sanskar which prompted him towards it.
So internally you can send him blessings for him to change, and externally take suitable action as required, based on your role. The intention should be reformation and not control or punishment.
Spiritual empowerment through daily study and meditation helps us to remain stable always, no matter how many situations come and how big they are.
Thank u didi
🙏🏻
I have a question,
If I share my good memories or my good life updates in social media, will that affect me? As people may get jelous, may send me bad vibration.
So will that affect me by their thoughts?
The energy of jealousy if created by someone does reach you because energy travels. If you protect yourself by keeping your vibrations at a higher level, they cannot harm you. Otherwise you would absorb people's low vibrations and get depleted.
Daily spiritual study and meditation empower the soul and keep our vibrations constantly high. Other low vibrations like jealousy or hatred cannot touch us then.
@@bkshivani Thank you.. I will remember.
here, you are throwing a ball (wrong thought - the word Jelous), you 100% would get it back.
Wow you have
Angel
Aauumm
didi why parents dont want to see mistakes of their children and blame others for their pain
"Does this mic and the brother that placed this mic, influence my thoughts? Or do I influence the mic?"
Namaste.
You're so beautiful beautiful Didi
You have such an angel face
🙏🤗🌼🌸💐😊
Om santhi thank you mum
FUCKING LOUD ADS IN THE MIDDLE... UA-cam I HATE U FOR THAT
Who is responsible? If a wife is beaten every time by her husband.and she is having a painful life because of him. So who is responsible??????????? Please answer me.
Are you okay? Leave him immediately.
But u r saying that we should accept the people as they are..
@@nuzhatkhan3530 You can never change someone who treats you badly, and it's also not your job, so don't even try. Don't accept abuse. Walk away.
Me i hallp you
Om Shanti
Om shanti 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Didi I am loving to listen to your discourse every single day n I feel the shifts happening in my life 🙏🏻 you are really a divine soul n so m i is wat I have started believing 🙏🏻
God's angel thank u sooo much😊
Yes
pooja patil
True
Always a pleasure to watch your videos. Thanks a lot.
im a practicing Muslim but i am so glued to her talks. bless her
Me too
You are not a Muslim, you are a human being like everybody else but chose to or probably was made to believe in the tenets of Islam. Whichever belief one chooses, it is just the journey by different mode of transport, we all end up at the same destination.
@@aby1thomas i agree i am a human being first having a spiritual experience
I am a peaceful soul
I am A powerful soul
I am a healthy soul
I am a happy soul
I am thankful to God for my beautiful life
Very logical and yet emotionally filtered , worldly guidance
Always a pleasure to watch your videos. Very inspiring and motivating. Keep up the great work. Learned a lot.
Didu so sweet to see your latest videos of USA tour.
Beautiful n excellent knowldge.
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Sister u r my life when I listen u I enter new world very happy and peace
dear sister, l am happy to listening your thoughts. gloria
Much love to this soul♥️♥️♥️
Om Shanti!....U r the gift of God ..
Sister, i can feel him communicating to me through you. My body name is Ankita. I get disturbed too frequently by kalyugi energy these days. Almost everyday. But Its surprising that your everyday facebook post relates exactly to whatever is on my mind that day. I am still trying to establish strong relation with him. Can you please thank him on my behalf.
Thanks for Spritual Knowledge and Guidance. Beautiful Video .
Powerful words..i am yet to learn all the wisdom this divine lady gives out to the world....Om Shanti
Thank u so much didi very inspiring
Plz help me .....plz......meri 3yrs ki beti h jo ki sabke satha aram se ghulmil jati h ...aur mere makan malik ka beta jo ki 22yrs old h....uske sath meri beti ki achhi dosti h....bt wo ladka hamesha meri beti ko apne sath lejata h ghumane ....mujhe dar lagta h ....me mana nai kr pa rahi hun.....ham yanha pe 10days hua h aye hen ....me kisi ko janti v nai hun achhe se.....me kya karun....meri beti hi mere satha nai rehna chahti usko ghumna h to me kya karun......plz ans me plz sister.....plz....maa hun na jamana ittna khrab h dar lagta h mujhe
Why are you still waiting for advice? Use your common sense! Do not hesitate to say *NO!* Dont you know about the Kathua rape case of an eight year old girl? There are very sick people in this world, but they can blend in with people around them and you will never notice their intentions. If you have a shred of doubt that this 22 year old man is showing a little too much interest in your daughter, just do *EVERYTHING IN YOUR POWER* to keep him away from her. If you hesitate now to speak, you may *regret* it for the rest of your *life* . Your daughter is too young to take decisions. If you are a responsible mother, then you will know enough to let your daughter know that *YOU* are her parent and *YOU* make the rules that she has to follow. *YOU* have to be strict and let her know that just because she wants to go out with the 22 year old man, does not mean she will be allowed. True love of a parent for her child does not mean that the parent will fulfill all of the child's wishes. She may be angry at you for now, but after many years she will be mature enough. Have a discussion alone with your daughter. Be bold and authoritative and make it clear to your daughter that she will not be allowed to go anywhere with this man. Tell her that when this man comes to your house, she will not make a fuss about going out with him, or else she will face punishment. Enforce some discipline in your daughter. If necessary, distract her from this situation and engage her in different activities like playing board games with you, or reading children's coloured story books; maybe you could meet up with parents of her friends in school and take her to her friend's house to play. Since you are new to this place, it will also help you to know more people. After getting to know them, you all could even discuss about sending your children to art & craft classes, dance classes or any other co-curricular activities, so that you can keep your daughter busy in free time. And occasionally, you should make the effort to spare some time to take your daughter to parks or other places yourself.
If the man comes and insists too much about it, be *brave* and firmly say NO. Do not show any sign of fear or hesitation in front of him. Just tell him frankly that you will no longer allow your daughter to go out with him, and tell him that your daughter is not interested. Do not let him talk to your daughter when he comes to your house; keep her inside. Tell the man that your daughter is busy nowadays because of studies and co-curricular activities, and to play with her friends. Make any good excuse. Let him indirectly know that you want him to stay away from her. He should get the message in a few days. You, too, try to avoid talking to him. Do not be rude, but maintain your distance. Remember: DO NOT HESITATE TO SAY NO. YOU MAY REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. Maybe in future you find out that the man actually was not bad and had no evil intentions towards your daughter. HOWEVER, you cannot *RISK* it. IF this man has some bad intentions, he will try EVERYTHING to gain your trust. You have to be wise and not fall for his words. It is always better to be on the SAFE SIDE, especially when you are new to a place. You don't have to worry about what he or anyone thinks of you for being so careful and concerned about safety. If the man is sensible, he will understand that any mother will be concerned about the safety of her 3 year old child, especially in a new and unfamiliar place. If the man is sensible, he will respect your concerns and stop doing something which is worrying you. And remember that your daughter is your number one priority in life. I expect that the man will leave your daughter alone if you act wisely and DO NOT SHOW ANY FEAR. However, *if* even after you spoke to him MANY times, he does not change and you feel that your daughter is at RISK, then you have to FORGET about everything else and LEAVE that house, before something terrible happens. There are some bad people around us, but there are MANY MORE good people. I am sure that IF this man does not change even after being told many times, you can simply get out of this house and find another rented house from GOOD people. MONEY should NOT be a concern when it comes to the SAFETY of family.
Best of luck, and start *NOW!*
Enjoyed watching 🙏🏻💐
so good. thank you very much
Great angel Di 😍
morning pe aap ko sunna its a wonderful experience💞💞💞☺
Pearls of wisdom which has worked wonders for me
U are really Gift from god to all human beings shivani ji. Love u so much
listen to this feel that my youtube channel growing
Om shanti sister🌹🌸🔷🌸🌹
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