Humare ek bahut kareebi rishtedaar ne jab first time mujhe galat touch kiya tab main sirf 14 years ki thi . Usi waqt maine unki dono index fingers ko buri tarah marod diya aur directly ankho mein dekhkar apne words ko jitna ho sake utna poweful banake bola , " dubara aisa nahi hona chahiye, main aise logo ko maaf nahi karti " . Ghar mein kisi ko nahi bataya kyunki maa papa bahut dukhi ho jate , unka uspar bharosa tut jata . But uski dubara kabhi aisa karne ki himmat nahi hui . Meri shadi ho chuki hai , 2 bachhe hain . Meri beti jo 17 years ki hai wo marshal arts mein black belt hai . Usko marshal arts ki tranning dilwane ka reason yahi tha ki aise logo se wo mujhse jyada behtar tareeke se nipat sake . Aur ye Depression apne par havi tabhi hota hai jab hum situation ko apne hath mein nahi lete . Jo hua wo hath mein nahi tha but ab usse kaise niptna hai aur kya karna hai wo to humare hath mein hai na . Be strong girls .
As a 18 y.o Man, I have massive respect for all the Mothers and Sister. It is my primary responsibility to protect each and every female around me🙇♂️👑
Wow! I know there are a lot of bad people but there are a lot of people like you to. Thank-you. We girls are always thankful for you guys who stand up for us. Restores our faith in humanity.
I was 7 years old I had no idea about sex , abuse,bad touch one of my cousin brother used to rape me very often then I moved to another city still today I am not able to tell my parents about it . I can't do anything. I feel like I hate my body..... first time I am sharing this in text ..... I am very proud that you shared your truma on social media with your pic you are very strong woman I am proud of you❤
@@bindu6298 I'm 16 years old and approx 7 to 8 boys are in my life who tried to do such things with me. 1 from my school , 1 my brother's friend , 3 relatives , 1 uncle , 2 boys near my apartment . When I was 9 years old a boy who is my relative do such things that I can't even tell to anyone . I experienced depression around 1 year and I also have trauma , I have so many health problems because of my depression . And I can't tell these things to my mom because she already taking so much tension because of my health problem and I don't wanna tell her these things , my father died 3 years ago and if I tell these thing to my mom she can't handle herself . I think I am a burden on my parents .
When I was 5 or 6 years old. I can't remember properly. My maternal uncle tried to abuse me sexually and that meantime naani came to that room and he stopped. I guess she didn't notice anything. I was so innocent to understand this. But now I realised how disgusting his behaviour was.
I also went through the same when I was 8 now I am 21 still trying to heal but I still feel that those things are still happening he is still touching and all.. and i didn't told my parents about these.. I have stopped making frnds but ek dost bna tha aur usko maine sab btaya tha par ab woh chor gya mujhe sirf ek galti ke liye..I am trying to heal after some time I will also try to take therapy sessions..😣
@@theeducator8574is there any reason that you are making fun of those of us who were sexually abused as children, who wish to offer to support others going through the same thing?
This is the biggest problem of our society. Chahe apka beta ho ya beti . Relative chahe male ho ya female. Sab par najar rakhe. Koi apke bacche ke sath time spend kare to uske jaane ke baad bacche se pyar se baat kare . Bacche ke friend bane jisse ki wo koi baat share karne se na dare aur apne baccho ko self defence ki training dilaye . Good touch bad touch ki knowledge must hai . ❤
This thing also happens me but I took courage in second turn also but that even 2 times frightened me deeply until I met my bf ...who became my therapist ...and 4 years now even with no physical relationship he is with me ...and always said the day u will be over to that trauma I am with u ❤
Same thing happened to me when i was 7-8 years old. My family and I used to live in a rent house that time. The next door neighbour sexual assault me like touching inappropriately and used to kiss me harshly and told me not to tell my parents bcz he said that if i told my parents he will hurt me and my parents. Now i am 15 years old i have really severe social anxiety and depression. I don't like people when they touched me. I used to cry so much in nights thinking about it. This incident created a childhood trauma for me. After crying endless night i finally told my parents. They comfort me and then i started crying again. This is not the first time i was assaulted... i was also assaulted when i was 12 years old. This makes me hates myself and i used to blame myself...WHY I DIDN'T TELL MY PARENTS BEFORE??? Thats why tell ur parents about ur problems. Bcz i am suffering so much...
Same problem also happened with me but my family not support me nd tell me you are wrong nd i suffered many problems in my life now nd my step mother always mentally nd physically harrassed me nd I can't disscus about it with my frds or anyone becoz i think nobody couldn't help me now i just feel that god always with me nd help me always I'm not alone god always around with me
Young one you sharing will help others to heal, took me 45 yrs you are love light and a spiritual guiding light happiness and healing vibes to you 🙏❤️🩹
Same happened to me with my one of the relative ,he started touching me when i was in class 4 and as year passed when ever he finds me alone he use to touch my private parts and even put my hands in his pants and asked me to touch his private parts …. After fews years when i passed my class 10 i meet one of my friend and told him about it, he then incouraged me to speak this truth infront of my parents , my parents believed me and took hard step against my that relative … now i feel safe and thankful for that friend me who then helped me to come out of this trauma❤
You are very brave as it takes a lot of courage to show your scars to world and heal them your own. Bless you beta. May Almighty bless you with happiness and peace.
I was five, i looked upto him as a father figure, he was my mother's sister's husband. He touched me inappropriately when I was just five. I told this to his wife who was like my second mother , she silenced me fearing that she'll lose everything if I say anything to anyone. I kept quite he continued, he would always take inappropriate pictures of me and as a kid i hated it but noone opposed it. He would ask me about how my nipples looked. He would touch my breasts when he tried to teach me swimming, he would often grope my butt whenever he got a chance to. I would sit in the front seat and he would change his gear in a way where he can brush his fingers against my thigh. I never said anything but one night when i was thirteen, we were sleeping in the same bed , maasi was between us I was asleep when i felt something opening my pants i look down and i can't see cause of no light but i was sure that it was my uncle who was not at his place when i looked. I told my maasi and she was devastated she was about k*ll herself when i had to step and say it was probably a nightmare so she wouldn't do it for her son. I was shattered but i just moved on and decided i would never go there back again. After 9 years of assault i thought it stopped, all of it, when after a year suddenly he started texting me on whatsapp unaware that his number was saved. He already used to text me on instagram before but deleted them before i could take a screenshot. But this time i had to catch him red handed. He texted me really disturbing things mentioning how sexy i looked in hot pants and how he couldn't help but jerk off to my images, and he wants me to do the same thinking about him. He lied to be an salesperson thinking idk who he actually is. When i revealed it to him that ik , he blackmaildd me by saying taht if i tell anyone about this then my maasi is gonna die. I hesitated at first but eventually i brought up the courage to speak to my mom. Till date my parents don't know that he molested me for over 10 years they just know about some incidents but all of this still haunts me till this day and it will continue to.
Oh god, u dont worry, there is someone called God up there, he will bring u justice when he will fall under his knees when he sees hellfire in front of him, u go brave girl , you have the courage and capabilities to do anything in life because ur a women , a proud women 💪❤️
My sister there are bad people around you don't fear them or anybody make yourself strong and file a case against the accused and make them pay for their crime prabhu is with you always
Yes... Actually this is the fault... where we are keeping mum expecially when person is our own relative... parents think everything will be fine with time but this is not the case.
I’m so proud of you daughter & special thanks go for Your beloved parents for their unwavering support for you to survive this far. Hope you continue to do law n make yourself proud. All the very best ❤
Bothers, too. Oh god!!! These are demons!! Please, we are here with you!! We this generation we need to fight against it. Laws are severe now. We have to report it immediately!! We need to voice out!! It's a must!! We really need to stop it so our children don't face it!!
You are such a brave person sister but sometimes one can't gather the courage a to tell her mother and have to tolerate it in silence. and if she told them they just ignore it by saying u r misunderstanding it . i can understand ur pain.😢😢
Ek bachi me itni smjh niii hoti hai......... Wo janbujhkar chup niii rehti..... Use dar rehta hai.... Apne maa baap par bharose ki Kami rehti hai..... Or ye cheeez sirf maaa baaap kese apne bachi se pesh ate hai uspar depend karta hai.
@@fiend_queen3702 ha aapki baat sahi hai,,,,but hamare close sabse jyada ma hoti hai,,,bhale vo kuch legal action na le us samay but vo us aadmi se savdhan rahegi,,,ha,,,aur parents ko bhi in sab cheejo pe jaroor baat rakhani chahiye,,bachho ke samne,,,ab to logo ke pass jankari ke liye,, social media hai,,,,pahle to log in sab bato pe baat bhi nahi kerate the,,,hamara bachha thoda shai hai,,,ek ma se behtar koi nahi samgh sakta
@@bhashasingh3756 close sabse jyada maa hoti hai jab dusro se compare kare..... Agar individually dekha jaye to kai baar maaa bhi chup reh jati hai...... Kitni sari ladkiyan hai jo rape ke baad suicide karli kyuki family support nii mila... Unki bhi maa thi tab. Or me baat kar rii hu ek bachi ki, matured ladki ki niiii. Badi hone ke baad ek baar ke liye vo khud ke liye lad le par ek bachi nii lad pati. Or vo apni maa se kitni close ho sakti hai ye sirf or sirf depend karta hai us maa baap ke behaviour par. Vo bachi apni Dil ki baaat kehna chahti hai..... Tadapti hai andar se ..... Agar fir bhi vo apne maa baap se chhupa rakh rii hai to isme galti sirf or sirf maa baap ki hi hai.......
@@fiend_queen3702 aap ki baat bhi sahi hai apni jagah,,per shayad hi koi ladki ho jiske sath ye sab na hua ho,,,kisi ke sath Kam to kisi ke sath jyada,,iske liye un sabko bhi jaha milni chahiye,,,jo apne ban ke ye sab kerta hai,,,. Sex education bahoot jaroori hai,,,adhiktar case me aisa gharwale hi jyada karte hai,,kanoon ka der bhi inhe nahi,,,,kuch nahi to samajik bahiskar to ham ker hi sakte hai,,,,
Don't panic... Ye ghtiya harkat krne wale hamare samne kuch nii hai ....... Koi ese harkat karne ki kosish bhi kre na salo ko bata dena unki asli aokat... Don't worry at that time.... Feel that point as you have a chance to show your heroism..... Sath hii apne se chote ya jinhe nhi pata unko bhi bataye taki wo inn sab se naa gujre...... Be strong my dear girls 💕💕💕.... Jay Maa Durga 😊
90% of girls have the same experiences.Relatives,neighbours ,friends.....those who are supposed to accompany someone through the hardships of their life gives them the hardest to survive......Parents should teach their children about bad touch. They've to provide a comfort zone for them to share whatever they want to. We might think its hard to say no ...but trying to reach out for yourself will erase the darkest era from our life.Stay safe girls.Stand out for yourself.And don't even think we are not pure.Thats the hardest part .Just think of it this way those parts of our body are renovated by our own body....those cells are not out there girlies....a virtual hug for all girlies who survived the darkest side and is way more strong to experience beautiful era of your life❤❤
The same thing happened to me. I was around 5 years old. It continued until lockdown. He would bribe me with gifts and threaten me. Hed touch me, kiss me and force me to do the same. Its extremely sad that almost every girl ive talked to has experienced this. I havent told my parents, and I dont think I ever will.
🥺🥺🥺this things can really have big impact on our 😢😢 life . I was lucky enough 🥺🥺 that my mom teaches me all this things at an early age like what is good touch and what is bad touch . Her way of teaching that thing was 😓😓 wrong but now i realised what she tecaher my was actually right . Maybe her way was wrong 😶 but now i realised hee intention were not wrong teaching me about this things 🥺. Because of that learnings only i was able to save myself 🥺🥺from some evil people. Mom i love you you are great 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️
If anything wrong happens with any girl please girls immediately talk to your parents please don't tolerate such a cruel behaviour of someone else. I know sometimes it can be difficult for some girls to tell their parents but please speak up for yourself don't let anyone ruin your life. Be brave.
I faced these to but i am still not able to tell it to my parents its soo breaking the inner soul. Any boy or my bf touchs me its fell like the same it was the one of the reason of my breakup i don't fell comfortable with any boy touch
Kuch logon ko mera comment pad kar vishwas nahi hota hoga . Is thara ka sexual assault sirf ladkiyon ke saath nahin ladkon ke saath bhi hota . It was our male teacher when i was in 9th standard. Unke hi PG tha usme saare 10th standard ke boys the . Un ladkon ko wo sexually use kiya tha bahut baar . Par unko yeh pata nahin tha ki jo wo kar rahe hai wo galat hain . Baat realise huwa sabko aur pata chala ki us teacher hamare school me kaam ke liye aane se pehle baaki schools me jaha par tha waha ke ladkon ko bhi ye se hi sexually assault kiya, sirf ladkon ko hi nahin ladkiyon ko bhi usne sexually parishaan kiya ( just like the girl in this above short) . Phir iske baat hamare school ka ek 10th ladke ne suicide kiya. Phir sab kuch pata chala aur usko police station leke gaye phir 2-3 months me wo jail se wapas aaya . Ek ladke ka jaan aur unginat ladke aur ladkiyon peace usne apni satisfaction ke liye use kiya aur use punishment kya mila kuch bhi nahin . Uske PG mera dost bhi tha wo abhi bhi us incident se bahar nahin aaya hain.Wo bolta hai ki jab bhi vo kushi se haste hue apne family ya phir apne frnds ke time spend karta rahta hai tab use Achanak se ye incident yaad aane lagti hain aur kabhi bhi kushi se rah nahi pata hain.
Horrible incident with your friend Pls advice him to take therapy And move on God give you strength to save other humans from the same incident I pray for you
Kis year ki baat hai? Aur do mahine me bahar aa gya matlab kya? POCSO ACT me kab se itni jaldi bail milne lagi? Aur wo bhi jab mamla multiple sexual assault aur suicide ka tha?
The same thing happened with me... when i was 10 it stopped when my period starts Me mom ko nahi bataya me sochti thi mere baat koi nahi manenge par ajj mughe pata chala mere jaisi or ek log ki sath bhi hui haa and now i am 12 and i am too rude for him and even sometimes he want to tuch me but i said 'i hate you' but now i get strength from you dii i can feel your pain very well i hope you are okay now...❤
इंडिया में आवाज कम उठाया जाता है गलत के खिलाफ लोग, ऐसे चाचा को बदनाम कर के परिवार से अलग रखना चाहिए😠 हर इंसान मेंटली स्ट्रॉन्ग नही होता आपका एक स्टेप किसी को भी मेंटल ट्रॉमा देने के लिए काफी है😊
INDIA mai jaroorat se jayada awaaz uthaye jati hai, jaa kr supreme courts mai cases dekh lo 4 crore pending hai ........ Problem ye hai courts saal ki 160 days government leaves par rahte hai or justice nahi dete ...
Parents please trust your child, not your relative. Stand up for them. Close relatives are the maximum abusers. They take advantage of the innocence of the kid.
When i was in 3rd 4th standard a teacher in my school used to touch me inappropriately , back then i even didn't know about abuse and harrashment now whenever i think about it i feel so disgusted and never open up about it,,
Yesterday night only I experienced this!!! How can youtube be so relatable sometimes!!!?? I am very scared coz I am unable to even identify him as a good or bad one coz at day time my uncle is super protective and cares a lott but yesterday night he hugged me that felt so uncomfortable..I slept with him for the first time and..huh I'll not tell my parents coz we are so close to him and i know it was my fault that I permitted him or let him touch..my whole chest was under his arm yesterday night.😢
Do you think that Your family relation with that monster is more important than your life and happiness? Just tell your parents about it and file a fir against him under POCSO ACT(if you are minor) Or call Children helpline no 1098 if you are minor. Tell them your problems and may be they will try to solve it. Make sure that you voice record every conversation
Jab koi aadmi kisi ladki ko galat tareeke se touch karta hai to hum ladkiyo ko sikhate Hain ki chup rehna aur kisi se baat nhi karni par hume yeh baat ladko ko sikhani chahiye ki vo is tarah kisi bhi ladki ko na touch kare aur na hi gandi nazar se dekhe. Agar ladke is baat ko samajh jay to aisa kisi ke sath na ho. Be strong and tell this to boys not girls.
Bruh the same is going with me and I don't really want to leave my studies but this trauma and depression and this toxic relationship I have is literally killing me and I tried committing suicide but i survived but now I don't have the will to live..
Me tumhari tarah iss chiz se gujar chuka hu. Me ek ladka hu. Just like u,,,6 months tak mujhe ek teacher ne sexual abuse kiya ussi tareek se. Mami papa ko kisi tarah bata diya. Me kafi jyada bakt tak depression me chala gaya. Meri health aur looks bigad gaye the. Aur study par itna focus nahi rehe paya to marks v girne lage. Poor looks & poor health ki wajese.. college me mujhe ladkiya v chidane lage. Dosto ne bahat bully kiya. Ek din ...chhat se kud kar suicide karne ke liye socha tha. Par itna himmat nahi tha mujhme. Baad me hostel chhor kar....bahar akela ek rent house me rehne laga. Wo akela pan!!😢😢 Phir v dhire dhire akele pan ki aadat ho gayi . Ek time pe ..me ek extrovert ladka tha...par aab me puri tarah introvert ban gaya hu.
Bhai, kabhi bhi apni problems mat chupana. I know ki bachpan se ladko ko aise sikhaya jata hai, aur tumhe bhi kehte hue sharam aati hogi. But tumhare liye laakhon behen khadi hain, you are very strong jo us din tumne suicide attempt nahi kiya. I hope tumhara trauma jaldi thik ho jaye, aur tum khul ke jee pao dobara.
Sir Please get up and take therapy Jo log bully Kiya tha wo hi apko aa kar bolenge ki aap ne to Kamal kar diya aap ne apne apko transform kar liya Pls take stand for you. Take it as nightmare
Just one request to all mummy papa, plz for God sake dont ask ur children to shut their mouth, just bcz log kya bolega. U r the God, plz stand by us.. Else this story will continue... Plzzzzzz
For the childrens ---- She did brave job that she said her mother your parents will understand it or not is another thing if not understand that is another thing but first you should share them many don't share and the evil act continues in this case also she told her mother after so long if she would have said earlier the evil act would have stopped earlier just share your problems to your parents don't hesitate they are your parents they will understand and will find a solution and will take action For parents ----- please try to be vocal with your kids so that they can share their problems with you and can pore their heart out to you so no other kid think even ones to share this type of evil act with you and also teach them to be brave To the culprit ---- always remember may be parents of the culprit forgive you not take you to jail but god never forgives such sins first of all they should thing doing such evil act they should think if someone would to this his mother or daughter how would he if if good then nothing can be done of such a person who don't have any emotion of his own blood
"Before doing something, just think that how the person's life will get affect"
~a wise man
😂😂😂😂😂 do you really think a criminal will think about it 😂
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Wtf why don’t you people stick to your own language
“How the persons life will get affect “ 😂 😂
Indians 🙄
Humare ek bahut kareebi rishtedaar ne jab first time mujhe galat touch kiya tab main sirf 14 years ki thi . Usi waqt maine unki dono index fingers ko buri tarah marod diya aur directly ankho mein dekhkar apne words ko jitna ho sake utna poweful banake bola , " dubara aisa nahi hona chahiye, main aise logo ko maaf nahi karti " . Ghar mein kisi ko nahi bataya kyunki maa papa bahut dukhi ho jate , unka uspar bharosa tut jata . But uski dubara kabhi aisa karne ki himmat nahi hui . Meri shadi ho chuki hai , 2 bachhe hain . Meri beti jo 17 years ki hai wo marshal arts mein black belt hai . Usko marshal arts ki tranning dilwane ka reason yahi tha ki aise logo se wo mujhse jyada behtar tareeke se nipat sake . Aur ye Depression apne par havi tabhi hota hai jab hum situation ko apne hath mein nahi lete . Jo hua wo hath mein nahi tha but ab usse kaise niptna hai aur kya karna hai wo to humare hath mein hai na . Be strong girls .
Hatsoff❤
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@@MercelenaGomesnaam tu dhang ka rakh
@@kasturik2294 q tere baap ka kya jata hey?
Right
These uncles are never punished. They always move free and remorseless.
As a 18 y.o Man, I have massive respect for all the Mothers and Sister. It is my primary responsibility to protect each and every female around me🙇♂️👑
Respect to you bhaiya :) 🙌
Respect to you bhaiya ❤️
Wow u r a great person 👏
Wow! I know there are a lot of bad people but there are a lot of people like you to. Thank-you. We girls are always thankful for you guys who stand up for us. Restores our faith in humanity.
wise man 💗
I was 7 years old I had no idea about sex , abuse,bad touch one of my cousin brother used to rape me very often then I moved to another city still today I am not able to tell my parents about it . I can't do anything. I feel like I hate my body..... first time I am sharing this in text ..... I am very proud that you shared your truma on social media with your pic you are very strong woman I am proud of you❤
21st century m harmazadi bankr rahogi,tumhari jaise ladkio ko hi gande words milte hai,Jo himmat nakre
Is harami ki sachai duniya ko batwo.. online nhi offline..sadi karna hai kya use jo himat nhi horaha
@@junejuly7969watch ur words b4 saying.understand her trauma she is suffering
Be strong
@@junejuly7969people like you need mental help
I think 90% girls experienced such things in there life including me .
Well, who tried to abuse you?
@@bindu6298 I'm 16 years old and approx 7 to 8 boys are in my life who tried to do such things with me. 1 from my school , 1 my brother's friend , 3 relatives , 1 uncle , 2 boys near my apartment . When I was 9 years old a boy who is my relative do such things that I can't even tell to anyone . I experienced depression around 1 year and I also have trauma , I have so many health problems because of my depression . And I can't tell these things to my mom because she already taking so much tension because of my health problem and I don't wanna tell her these things , my father died 3 years ago and if I tell these thing to my mom she can't handle herself . I think I am a burden on my parents .
Yaa you are right most of them are relatives
When I was 5 or 6 years old. I can't remember properly. My maternal uncle tried to abuse me sexually and that meantime naani came to that room and he stopped. I guess she didn't notice anything. I was so innocent to understand this. But now I realised how disgusting his behaviour was.
Wese hum girls ko koi samjhta nahi h but humari chupi ka fayda sab uthate h😞
Proud on you.... I am also victim of sexual abuse,and going through panic attacks. It was good that you told your parents
Praying that you are in a better place soon!
I also went through the same when I was 8 now I am 21 still trying to heal but I still feel that those things are still happening he is still touching and all.. and i didn't told my parents about these.. I have stopped making frnds but ek dost bna tha aur usko maine sab btaya tha par ab woh chor gya mujhe sirf ek galti ke liye..I am trying to heal after some time I will also try to take therapy sessions..😣
@@monicanath4859bro do u even know what that means?m
@@theeducator8574is there any reason that you are making fun of those of us who were sexually abused as children, who wish to offer to support others going through the same thing?
@@monicanath4859 because females lie
This is the biggest problem of our society. Chahe apka beta ho ya beti . Relative chahe male ho ya female. Sab par najar rakhe. Koi apke bacche ke sath time spend kare to uske jaane ke baad bacche se pyar se baat kare . Bacche ke friend bane jisse ki wo koi baat share karne se na dare aur apne baccho ko self defence ki training dilaye . Good touch bad touch ki knowledge must hai . ❤
This thing also happens me but I took courage in second turn also but that even 2 times frightened me deeply until I met my bf ...who became my therapist ...and 4 years now even with no physical relationship he is with me ...and always said the day u will be over to that trauma I am with u ❤
Good
He is a blessing for u❤
Wow,you are so lucky to have such boy in your life..may god bless you both alwys❤❤❤
Wow,you are so lucky to have such boy in your life..may god bless you both alwys❤❤❤
So brave ! More courage, love and support to you ❤
May Lord ShivShiva heal your wounds sister.🫂 love and powers to you
Same thing happened to me when i was 7-8 years old. My family and I used to live in a rent house that time. The next door neighbour sexual assault me like touching inappropriately and used to kiss me harshly and told me not to tell my parents bcz he said that if i told my parents he will hurt me and my parents. Now i am 15 years old i have really severe social anxiety and depression. I don't like people when they touched me. I used to cry so much in nights thinking about it. This incident created a childhood trauma for me. After crying endless night i finally told my parents. They comfort me and then i started crying again. This is not the first time i was assaulted... i was also assaulted when i was 12 years old. This makes me hates myself and i used to blame myself...WHY I DIDN'T TELL MY PARENTS BEFORE??? Thats why tell ur parents about ur problems. Bcz i am suffering so much...
Take therapy they will tried to remove these scars from you
Same problem also happened with me but my family not support me nd tell me you are wrong nd i suffered many problems in my life now nd my step mother always mentally nd physically harrassed me nd I can't disscus about it with my frds or anyone becoz i think nobody couldn't help me now i just feel that god always with me nd help me always I'm not alone god always around with me
Yes ur not alone
Don't worry you can share with us. We are here to understand you, most of the girls suffer from this Trauma... I can understand you ❤
Young one you sharing will help others to heal, took me 45 yrs you are love light and a spiritual guiding light happiness and healing vibes to you 🙏❤️🩹
Uh got a good mother, cherish her
I feel your pain Dear..loads of courage and strength
Same happened to me with my one of the relative ,he started touching me when i was in class 4 and as year passed when ever he finds me alone he use to touch my private parts and even put my hands in his pants and asked me to touch his private parts …. After fews years when i passed my class 10 i meet one of my friend and told him about it, he then incouraged me to speak this truth infront of my parents , my parents believed me and took hard step against my that relative … now i feel safe and thankful for that friend me who then helped me to come out of this trauma❤
Sadly this has become the story of every girl in the world. You are not alone didi. The world is a sick place to live in.😭😭
You are very brave as it takes a lot of courage to show your scars to world and heal them your own. Bless you beta. May Almighty bless you with happiness and peace.
She is lying lol 😂
I was five, i looked upto him as a father figure, he was my mother's sister's husband. He touched me inappropriately when I was just five. I told this to his wife who was like my second mother , she silenced me fearing that she'll lose everything if I say anything to anyone. I kept quite he continued, he would always take inappropriate pictures of me and as a kid i hated it but noone opposed it. He would ask me about how my nipples looked. He would touch my breasts when he tried to teach me swimming, he would often grope my butt whenever he got a chance to. I would sit in the front seat and he would change his gear in a way where he can brush his fingers against my thigh. I never said anything but one night when i was thirteen, we were sleeping in the same bed , maasi was between us I was asleep when i felt something opening my pants i look down and i can't see cause of no light but i was sure that it was my uncle who was not at his place when i looked. I told my maasi and she was devastated she was about k*ll herself when i had to step and say it was probably a nightmare so she wouldn't do it for her son. I was shattered but i just moved on and decided i would never go there back again. After 9 years of assault i thought it stopped, all of it, when after a year suddenly he started texting me on whatsapp unaware that his number was saved. He already used to text me on instagram before but deleted them before i could take a screenshot. But this time i had to catch him red handed. He texted me really disturbing things mentioning how sexy i looked in hot pants and how he couldn't help but jerk off to my images, and he wants me to do the same thinking about him. He lied to be an salesperson thinking idk who he actually is. When i revealed it to him that ik , he blackmaildd me by saying taht if i tell anyone about this then my maasi is gonna die. I hesitated at first but eventually i brought up the courage to speak to my mom. Till date my parents don't know that he molested me for over 10 years they just know about some incidents but all of this still haunts me till this day and it will continue to.
Oh god, u dont worry, there is someone called God up there, he will bring u justice when he will fall under his knees when he sees hellfire in front of him, u go brave girl , you have the courage and capabilities to do anything in life because ur a women , a proud women 💪❤️
Thank God I am hindu...maa Durga and Kali..tum Muslim log burkhe m log samaj society se darte raho
I am from West Bengal yaha ladki kabhi chup nhi rehti...agar kuch ho to Durga roop lelti hai
Wb is only state jaha ki ladkiya kisi se nhi matlab kisi se and kisi bat se nhi darti
@@junejuly7969 and what makes you say that I'm a muslim ?
My sister there are bad people around you don't fear them or anybody make yourself strong and file a case against the accused and make them pay for their crime prabhu is with you always
Huge respect for you Dear…Stay strong
Even I had gone through the same situation and it felt like shit. Still couldn't get out of the trauma. I'm 25 btw.
Speak about your feelings, go for therapy sessions..don’t what some did to you affect you. You’re strong n brave ..thanks for sharing.
U will heal.i did
Abundance of Krishna's blessings and strength to you
Take care dear
Some scars stay forever...i wish i have that much power to punish him but i can't...
Teach your children bad and good touch
Protect your girls from near ones. first and then the outside world.
Very rightly said
yes it is true... but firstly we have to teach these people how to respect girls....
😢😢😢😢😢 but most parents want to keep mum on such topics😢
Yes... Actually this is the fault... where we are keeping mum expecially when person is our own relative... parents think everything will be fine with time but this is not the case.
I can feel your pain. And I am proud of your courage to share your pain with your mom.
How can you feel her pain😂😂
Are you a girl😢😢💔
I’m so proud of you daughter & special thanks go for Your beloved parents for their unwavering support for you to survive this far. Hope you continue to do law n make yourself proud. All the very best ❤
Be brave woman's we can protect ourself and its posible ......
How these bad people devastate the innocent lives. More power to you sister.
I hope everyone from her family sees this and breaks ties from that guy even his wife he doesn't deserve one!
I'm happy you survived, your stronger this way 😊❤
These abusive behaviour starts from family itself. Uncles and brothers are all the first culprit
Bothers, too. Oh god!!! These are demons!! Please, we are here with you!! We this generation we need to fight against it. Laws are severe now. We have to report it immediately!! We need to voice out!! It's a must!! We really need to stop it so our children don't face it!!
I m sorry...we failed as a society to give safe n happy childhood. I'm really very sorry
So sorry you went through this! Prayers for healing and peace!
I have experienced this in my life my teacher but thank God my bff saw that and told it to principal
You are such a brave person sister but sometimes one can't gather the courage a to tell her mother and have to tolerate it in silence. and if she told them they just ignore it by saying u r misunderstanding it . i can understand ur pain.😢😢
Please apne parents ko jaroor bataye,,,,unse jyada aapke liye koi is duniya me lad nahi sakta,,,aise rakshas her jagah hai,,,,aur aage bhi honge
Ek bachi me itni smjh niii hoti hai......... Wo janbujhkar chup niii rehti.....
Use dar rehta hai.... Apne maa baap par bharose ki Kami rehti hai.....
Or ye cheeez sirf maaa baaap kese apne bachi se pesh ate hai uspar depend karta hai.
@@fiend_queen3702 ha aapki baat sahi hai,,,,but hamare close sabse jyada ma hoti hai,,,bhale vo kuch legal action na le us samay but vo us aadmi se savdhan rahegi,,,ha,,,aur parents ko bhi in sab cheejo pe jaroor baat rakhani chahiye,,bachho ke samne,,,ab to logo ke pass jankari ke liye,, social media hai,,,,pahle to log in sab bato pe baat bhi nahi kerate the,,,hamara bachha thoda shai hai,,,ek ma se behtar koi nahi samgh sakta
@@bhashasingh3756 close sabse jyada maa hoti hai jab dusro se compare kare.....
Agar individually dekha jaye to kai baar maaa bhi chup reh jati hai......
Kitni sari ladkiyan hai jo rape ke baad suicide karli kyuki family support nii mila... Unki bhi maa thi tab.
Or me baat kar rii hu ek bachi ki, matured ladki ki niiii. Badi hone ke baad ek baar ke liye vo khud ke liye lad le par ek bachi nii lad pati.
Or vo apni maa se kitni close ho sakti hai ye sirf or sirf depend karta hai us maa baap ke behaviour par. Vo bachi apni Dil ki baaat kehna chahti hai..... Tadapti hai andar se ..... Agar fir bhi vo apne maa baap se chhupa rakh rii hai to isme galti sirf or sirf maa baap ki hi hai.......
@@fiend_queen3702 aap ki baat bhi sahi hai apni jagah,,per shayad hi koi ladki ho jiske sath ye sab na hua ho,,,kisi ke sath Kam to kisi ke sath jyada,,iske liye un sabko bhi jaha milni chahiye,,,jo apne ban ke ye sab kerta hai,,,. Sex education bahoot jaroori hai,,,adhiktar case me aisa gharwale hi jyada karte hai,,kanoon ka der bhi inhe nahi,,,,kuch nahi to samajik bahiskar to ham ker hi sakte hai,,,,
Really?? But parents are the one who says ki kisi ko kuch mat batana or vo Ulta hame hi blame krte he mene bohot cases me dekha he esaa
Don't panic...
Ye ghtiya harkat krne wale hamare samne kuch nii hai
....... Koi ese harkat karne ki kosish bhi kre na salo ko bata dena unki asli aokat...
Don't worry at that time.... Feel that point as you have a chance to show your heroism.....
Sath hii apne se chote ya jinhe nhi pata unko bhi bataye taki wo inn sab se naa gujre......
Be strong my dear girls 💕💕💕.... Jay Maa Durga 😊
Her uncle is DEVIL 👺🤬. Girl we all are with you❤❤❤
Parents bhi nhi smjhte tb trauma double ho k hit krta hai 😢
Same😭
Fr
What a sick man, I am glad you told your mom, you did the right thing.
U r lucky to have such understanding parents who have knowledge about mental health 😢
Stay strong
girl you are literally so strong! always stay strong. forget the past and focus on rebuilding urself. be strong!
Sending lots of love and strength to you ❤
I’m so sorry for you I hope you’re okay ❤❤❤❤
The pain we go through is unexplainable..please stop bullying and doing bad to anyone..the pain and trauma is real🙏
Bet that doggo helped u during bad times😢
🖤💖🤍🖤 all my understanding... and empathy
God bless you❤❤❤
90% of girls have the same experiences.Relatives,neighbours ,friends.....those who are supposed to accompany someone through the hardships of their life gives them the hardest to survive......Parents should teach their children about bad touch. They've to provide a comfort zone for them to share whatever they want to. We might think its hard to say no ...but trying to reach out for yourself will erase the darkest era from our life.Stay safe girls.Stand out for yourself.And don't even think we are not pure.Thats the hardest part .Just think of it this way those parts of our body are renovated by our own body....those cells are not out there girlies....a virtual hug for all girlies who survived the darkest side and is way more strong to experience beautiful era of your life❤❤
God bless you with lots of love happiness and good health❤❤😊😊
The same thing happened to me. I was around 5 years old. It continued until lockdown. He would bribe me with gifts and threaten me. Hed touch me, kiss me and force me to do the same. Its extremely sad that almost every girl ive talked to has experienced this. I havent told my parents, and I dont think I ever will.
tell your parents about your problems or else it will become a big problem
🥺🥺🥺this things can really have big impact on our 😢😢 life . I was lucky enough 🥺🥺 that my mom teaches me all this things at an early age like what is good touch and what is bad touch . Her way of teaching that thing was 😓😓 wrong but now i realised what she tecaher my was actually right . Maybe her way was wrong 😶 but now i realised hee intention were not wrong teaching me about this things 🥺. Because of that learnings only i was able to save myself 🥺🥺from some evil people. Mom i love you you are great 🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️
Sad it happened. But, thank God you came out of it. Please go ahead with life
God Bless You Sister ❤
If anything wrong happens with any girl please girls immediately talk to your parents please don't tolerate such a cruel behaviour of someone else. I know sometimes it can be difficult for some girls to tell their parents but please speak up for yourself don't let anyone ruin your life. Be brave.
You are courageous girl
So sad that happened to u pls don’t blame yourself …
Brave girl😢
Inspiring and sad at the same time 🙌🏽❤
salute to you and your spirit for crossing all the Obstacles
God bless you ❤
Lots of courage and love for you sis❤️
I faced these to but i am still not able to tell it to my parents its soo breaking the inner soul. Any boy or my bf touchs me its fell like the same it was the one of the reason of my breakup i don't fell comfortable with any boy touch
You are brave sister
Proud of you
You did really well ❤
Kuch logon ko mera comment pad kar vishwas nahi hota hoga .
Is thara ka sexual assault sirf ladkiyon ke saath nahin ladkon ke saath bhi hota .
It was our male teacher when i was in 9th standard.
Unke hi PG tha usme saare 10th standard ke boys the .
Un ladkon ko wo sexually use kiya tha bahut baar .
Par unko yeh pata nahin tha ki jo wo kar rahe hai wo galat hain .
Baat realise huwa sabko aur pata chala ki us teacher hamare school me kaam ke liye aane se pehle baaki schools me jaha par tha waha ke ladkon ko bhi ye se hi sexually assault kiya, sirf ladkon ko hi nahin ladkiyon ko bhi usne sexually parishaan kiya ( just like the girl in this above short) .
Phir iske baat hamare school ka ek 10th ladke ne suicide kiya.
Phir sab kuch pata chala aur usko police station leke gaye phir 2-3 months me wo jail se wapas aaya .
Ek ladke ka jaan aur unginat ladke aur ladkiyon peace usne apni satisfaction ke liye use kiya aur use punishment kya mila kuch bhi nahin .
Uske PG mera dost bhi tha wo abhi bhi us incident se bahar nahin aaya hain.Wo bolta hai ki jab bhi vo kushi se haste hue apne family ya phir apne frnds ke time spend karta rahta hai tab use Achanak se ye incident yaad aane lagti hain aur kabhi bhi kushi se rah nahi pata hain.
Horrible incident with your friend
Pls advice him to take therapy
And move on
God give you strength to save other humans from the same incident
I pray for you
Kis year ki baat hai? Aur do mahine me bahar aa gya matlab kya? POCSO ACT me kab se itni jaldi bail milne lagi? Aur wo bhi jab mamla multiple sexual assault aur suicide ka tha?
@@Arya_Rajput131 2019 ki baat hain.
August me arrest Kiya Gaya tha , October end thak wo wapas aagaya
Please …. Teach each and every child to tell as soon as possible if an abuse happen . As long as they keep it private it is dangerous to their future
GOD BLESS YOU DIDI STAY STRONG ❤️🙇
God bless her ❤
The same thing happened with me... when i was 10 it stopped when my period starts
Me mom ko nahi bataya me sochti thi mere baat koi nahi manenge par ajj mughe pata chala mere jaisi or ek log ki sath bhi hui haa and now i am 12 and i am too rude for him and even sometimes he want to tuch me but i said 'i hate you' but now i get strength from you dii i can feel your pain very well i hope you are okay now...❤
You should tell your parents
@@himanibist3488 i know but I am afraid what will they think 😢
Pls don't stop or don't give up your life and carrier for someone mistake.... be strong and cheer up u have your whole life ahead
Same i also have been in it but i never told my parents i was just 9 year old that time and now i am 11 years old i crying now seeing this video😢😭😭😥😢
इंडिया में आवाज कम उठाया जाता है गलत के खिलाफ लोग, ऐसे चाचा को बदनाम कर के परिवार से अलग रखना चाहिए😠 हर इंसान मेंटली स्ट्रॉन्ग नही होता आपका एक स्टेप किसी को भी मेंटल ट्रॉमा देने के लिए काफी है😊
Kis kis ko alag kroge khabhi bua ka beta khabhi jija to khabhi koi aur har ghar main esa hai aur family bhi hat baat daba deti hai
@@dikshakumari1802dabane ka hi toh mza hai 😂 chahe baat ho ya b....
@@theeducator8574 jee bilkul bahoot maza hai tera gala daba dene main jao apni maa ki daba lo
@@theeducator8574apni maa ke dabana😊
INDIA mai jaroorat se jayada awaaz uthaye jati hai, jaa kr supreme courts mai cases dekh lo 4 crore pending hai ........
Problem ye hai courts saal ki 160 days government leaves par rahte hai or justice nahi dete ...
Parents please trust your child, not your relative. Stand up for them. Close relatives are the maximum abusers. They take advantage of the innocence of the kid.
U r so brave dear sis.. Nd ur parents r so good 💞💞
When i was in 3rd 4th standard a teacher in my school used to touch me inappropriately , back then i even didn't know about abuse and harrashment now whenever i think about it i feel so disgusted and never open up about it,,
I was abuse when I was 6by my cousin but I haven't courage tell my parents I stil remember this now I'm mum I take care of my chilrens
God bless u dear🌼🙏may u have all happiness in ur life🙏this never must be happen with any girl🙏💯🙇♀️🙇♂️
Yesterday night only I experienced this!!! How can youtube be so relatable sometimes!!!?? I am very scared coz I am unable to even identify him as a good or bad one coz at day time my uncle is super protective and cares a lott but yesterday night he hugged me that felt so uncomfortable..I slept with him for the first time and..huh I'll not tell my parents coz we are so close to him and i know it was my fault that I permitted him or let him touch..my whole chest was under his arm yesterday night.😢
Do you think that Your family relation with that monster is more important than your life and happiness? Just tell your parents about it and file a fir against him under POCSO ACT(if you are minor)
Or call Children helpline no 1098 if you are minor. Tell them your problems and may be they will try to solve it. Make sure that you voice record every conversation
Girl you should avoid him now ....
In starting these things happens...
Beware of him ...
And always share these things to parents ..
Tell your mother as early as possible
Inform ur parents and be careful and its never ur fault in this pls gurl stay strong i hope u recover and get out of this situation soon❤❤
Ladies, remember, it's not your fault. You are the victim here. If you feel that something is wrong, please please inform your parents right away.
It's not as easy as it looks.......❤
Jab koi aadmi kisi ladki ko galat tareeke se touch karta hai to hum ladkiyo ko sikhate Hain ki chup rehna aur kisi se baat nhi karni par hume yeh baat ladko ko sikhani chahiye ki vo is tarah kisi bhi ladki ko na touch kare aur na hi gandi nazar se dekhe.
Agar ladke is baat ko samajh jay to aisa kisi ke sath na ho.
Be strong and tell this to boys not girls.
Proud of you that you overcome from the nightmare but there are so many girls who also are sexually harassed
God bless u
Its takes lot of courage to say u r personal life..many should come forward and punish the culprits.
God is with you ❤
😢 every girl had passed from this situation in her life at once😮
My real brother has done such things with me and also in school when i was little my classmates made me do many Irellavent things
I am crying because this really happened to me when I was 7 and now I am 11😢
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢so bad your uncle was 😢❤
It's not All Men but everytime it's A Man.
May God bless you ❤❤❤
so brave...kuddos...🎉
Bruh the same is going with me and I don't really want to leave my studies but this trauma and depression and this toxic relationship I have is literally killing me and I tried committing suicide but i survived but now I don't have the will to live..
nhi bhen esa mat socho sab theek ho jayega
Me tumhari tarah iss chiz se gujar chuka hu.
Me ek ladka hu. Just like u,,,6 months tak mujhe ek teacher ne sexual abuse kiya ussi tareek se.
Mami papa ko kisi tarah bata diya.
Me kafi jyada bakt tak depression me chala gaya. Meri health aur looks bigad gaye the. Aur study par itna focus nahi rehe paya to marks v girne lage.
Poor looks & poor health ki wajese.. college me mujhe ladkiya v chidane lage. Dosto ne bahat bully kiya.
Ek din ...chhat se kud kar suicide karne ke liye socha tha. Par itna himmat nahi tha mujhme.
Baad me hostel chhor kar....bahar akela ek rent house me rehne laga.
Wo akela pan!!😢😢
Phir v dhire dhire akele pan ki aadat ho gayi .
Ek time pe ..me ek extrovert ladka tha...par aab me puri tarah introvert ban gaya hu.
Mere saath bhi huya.mai bhi ek lardka hu😢
Bhai, kabhi bhi apni problems mat chupana. I know ki bachpan se ladko ko aise sikhaya jata hai, aur tumhe bhi kehte hue sharam aati hogi. But tumhare liye laakhon behen khadi hain, you are very strong jo us din tumne suicide attempt nahi kiya. I hope tumhara trauma jaldi thik ho jaye, aur tum khul ke jee pao dobara.
Sir
Please move ahead in life GH olden doors are waiting for you
Don't worry bro, take a stand for yourself. You are not alone. We girls support you.
Sir
Please get up and take therapy
Jo log bully Kiya tha wo hi apko aa kar bolenge ki aap ne to Kamal kar diya aap ne apne apko transform kar liya
Pls take stand for you.
Take it as nightmare
Just one request to all mummy papa, plz for God sake dont ask ur children to shut their mouth, just bcz log kya bolega. U r the God, plz stand by us..
Else this story will continue...
Plzzzzzz
❤God bless you
For the childrens ---- She did brave job that she said her mother your parents will understand it or not is another thing if not understand that is another thing but first you should share them many don't share and the evil act continues in this case also she told her mother after so long if she would have said earlier the evil act would have stopped earlier just share your problems to your parents don't hesitate they are your parents they will understand and will find a solution and will take action
For parents ----- please try to be vocal with your kids so that they can share their problems with you and can pore their heart out to you so no other kid think even ones to share this type of evil act with you and also teach them to be brave
To the culprit ---- always remember may be parents of the culprit forgive you not take you to jail but god never forgives such sins first of all they should thing doing such evil act they should think if someone would to this his mother or daughter how would he if if good then nothing can be done of such a person who don't have any emotion of his own blood