This Empress KNOWS HER WORTH, so she’ll leave you ONCE, and stand on it.

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  • @hermestrismegistus4283
    @hermestrismegistus4283 23 дні тому +14

    Oh, another message clearly for me. 😂😂😂

    • @jesspucketttarot
      @jesspucketttarot  23 дні тому +1

      🤣🤗🩷

    • @allysmith8673
      @allysmith8673 23 дні тому

      😂❤ so true...
      ✨🌻X

    • @hermestrismegistus4283
      @hermestrismegistus4283 23 дні тому

      I have a narcissistic ex and just lost my new girl I was dating this morning. Not sure she was a real Empress but compared to my ex she's the Empress for sure.. She made a strong decision to stop dating. I actually totally respect it because she showed compassion towards me when ending it

  • @Kay32776
    @Kay32776 23 дні тому +31

    In March, he posed a very odd question: “if I had an ex living in the house because they can’t make it financially on their own, would you still date me?” (Insert a heathy pause) I replied “I would never put myself in that position.” Spot on download you shared today.

    • @ellenkelley5353
      @ellenkelley5353 22 дні тому +1

      Good for you! Your reply is similar to but more elegant than what I would say:"NFW"!

  • @Catharina40
    @Catharina40 23 дні тому +18

    My sweet empress you deserve so much more than this cheap empty attention my love🤗❤

  • @ForeverSingle10000
    @ForeverSingle10000 23 дні тому +15

    So needed this. I had no idea my commitment to him was making me look like a page in his eyes. Warped thinking. Some people just want to be treated like shit so let them be.

  • @donnamccallie2770
    @donnamccallie2770 23 дні тому +14

    His loss. Whoops! 😂

    • @Hobolove1
      @Hobolove1 23 дні тому +1

      Yes thank you !! 💯

  • @katherynemero4118
    @katherynemero4118 23 дні тому +8

    Im starting to think that this whole process was designed to turn the people who could be an Empress into an Empress. Maybe we never to see ourselves as Empress quality. Our self esteem is low enough to the point where we devalue ourselves and seek out people that can't see our value. Because this masculine has made me realize that every single relationship I have is with a person that doesn't see me, that doesn't care about me, that knocks me down and uses what I offer. Friends, family, coworkers, everyone I thought I cared about. They are all terrible. I still can't genuinely say I am an Empress because it feels like hubris to me. I am not perfect. I have made mistakes. I wish I could say that I have taken the high road for this entire situation, but I didn't. ok. Ive learned the lesson. I see what I was doing wrong. Ive had to leave so many people.
    I don't know where to go from here.

    • @Chamsiee
      @Chamsiee 23 дні тому +2

      I felt the same. We finally see ourselves. Congratulations to us 🎉❤

  • @queenofclarity
    @queenofclarity 23 дні тому +7

    I had to learn many lessons to get here to Empress status. I’m more reserved, silent, and patient. I am also undoing unhealthy habits that led to having these unhealthy relationships. I’m taking full responsibility for my behaviors and I’m holding myself accountable for each one. I’m not responsible for his. If he felt that it was his duty to show me where I needed more work, then he wasn’t an Emperor himself. The man God has for me will stand beside me as we both seek the Lord for guidance, not his dominance over me because he knows “better” than me, then he should be a role model not a dictator. He chose who he could control and I left with my final lesson learned. And I’m thankful because I have emerged into the beautiful Empress I am today.

    • @TheSUPERGIRL51
      @TheSUPERGIRL51 22 дні тому

      Nobody will ever understand how much pain and anger I went through to become this calm and quiet and to become an Empress! No more PeoplePleaser & F***EgoMindGames from nobody

  • @tiay3545
    @tiay3545 23 дні тому +15

    Its not that he doesn't know... he chose that selfishness. I value myself. God will provide for me or a godly man will who will know how to treat me with loyalty and respect. Yes this empress will show him how to leave someone for good!

  • @the_healedgoddessproject
    @the_healedgoddessproject 23 дні тому +45

    No Empress would ever engage in any sort of trauma bond. Or toxic game, like this. Or have a need for external validation.

    • @LoveLinsay
      @LoveLinsay 23 дні тому +25

      Even the empress is human.

    • @user-lx6hi6pl5f
      @user-lx6hi6pl5f 23 дні тому +6

      ​@@LoveLinsay took the words out of my mouth

    • @natashahiggins2383
      @natashahiggins2383 23 дні тому +12

      Pre empress becomes the empress through the pain right?

    • @nanac.6248
      @nanac.6248 23 дні тому +8

      Unfortunately we're not all perfect like you. 😒

    • @tcwyman5611
      @tcwyman5611 23 дні тому +5

      The Empress is a "new energy coming in", and is NOT the "karmic". That is why Jess says that he "over-invests in the karmic, and UNDER-invests in the Empress". T' aint happenin' no mo'!!

  • @Hobolove1
    @Hobolove1 23 дні тому +4

    I totally agree with you… What goes around comes around not to mention KARMA !!! 💯

  • @AlchemyOfInteraction
    @AlchemyOfInteraction 23 дні тому +8

    lmao “fill your void with another void!”

  • @PatienceLoveWinzzzz
    @PatienceLoveWinzzzz 23 дні тому +4

    What he dished out he got back . I can’t feel bad for him . 😂 wish them well .

  • @Chamsiee
    @Chamsiee 23 дні тому +4

    Rise and shine my empresses ❤

  • @Jp-1sr5wt
    @Jp-1sr5wt 23 дні тому +6

    No none of that. Wasn’t seeking a come up and never wanted him for status . My intentions and emotions were pure. I saw best friend, lover and companion. I saw a family and I didn’t care if we were in a one bedroom apartment. I wanted the love and the blended family and the grand babies.
    I don’t play those games because I know what they feel like and I think playing games like that is trash .
    But it’s sad that the inauthenticity and the manipulation wins. That she gets seen as the better person because she’s jerking him around in such a disrespectful manner .
    I would never have put him through it in the first place as that’s all beneath me. To me that’s not love, it’s abuse to play a sick game like she played.
    Then the fact that he knew how painful it was when he went through it and then thought it was ok to do it to me was just so fucked up.
    He’s just done so much damage…. It’s unbelievable..

    • @janicetorto887
      @janicetorto887 23 дні тому

      Oh my Goddess, exactly what I am dealing with

  • @gbtruth6959
    @gbtruth6959 23 дні тому +2

    I loved him deeply for almost 7 of the 8 years we were in the “situation-ship! I think I stayed because the way he acted made me feel like there’d never be someone else who love me or perhaps love is just a myth and I was stupid because I was still believing in a fantasy. Anyway, year 8 he asked me to be in a relationship with him and I said no not only because dealing with him had been heartbreak after heartbreak over the years but also because I’d found out about his criminal past and sexual involvement with other men! We still talked a few times after that and then about a month later he blocked me. This was in March. End of June, I found out that he had gotten married in April! I don’t know why but I’ve been upset about it ever since and I don’t even know why. I wonder if I just need to get a spiritual cleansing or something.

  • @marthamasden7573
    @marthamasden7573 23 дні тому

    That's crazy i heard that song on the radio today. I aint missing you at all🎉he left for a harem of karmic, its been 2 years now and he still won't sign the divorce papers. I cut those cords a long time ago, he won't let go. I built a solid foundation all on my own and have been celibate working on my business, I'm healed and helping others heal thier trauma bonds and advocate for injustices. Standing strong on business 💪

  • @user-gw4xr9us7n
    @user-gw4xr9us7n 23 дні тому +2

    I”am absolutely loving the Empress message
    from my understanding.
    I would like to say is “God” added, “God blesses those who do not fall away because of Him.” “Anyone with ears to hear should listen and understand!”Take God’s yoke upon you. Let the Lord teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”
    ‭‭ “Those who live in the shelter of the Most High God” will find rest in the shadow of the Almighty.
    This I declare about the Lord: He alone is my refuge, my place of safety; he is my God,
    I trust him. For he will rescue me from every trap of the enemy
    Mighty Name of Jesus Amen
    🪽✨💫☀️🗝️✨💫🪽
    ‭‭
    ‭‭

  • @guidance2517
    @guidance2517 23 дні тому +2

    The Empress doesn't dream of this person anymore. He is worthless to her now just like how he thought of her from the beginning. Good luck to him and his ex. This devil ex is juggling him for her thrills. So who is the naive one !??? Looks like the biggest loser is this 's' who thinks the world of himself. The karmic is treating him like an option, playing with him for her thrills and have flings with other men. And on the other hand the df has walked away from him for eternity and feeling emancipated. This is what he gets for being so smug about himself and for assuming that the df will be desperate to be with him. He isn't that special anymore. The df doesn't even lust over him. What a blessing from the Divine 😁🙏

  • @aussieallstar66
    @aussieallstar66 23 дні тому +4

    Yes he is an actor who plays roles to get what he wants including Casanova and Lothario to woo and seduce women. Really he is so childish. Ridiculous.

    • @LeahIsHereNow
      @LeahIsHereNow 23 дні тому +1

      Mmmmhmmm. Every picture he posts is like he’s trying to be a different character for a different movie. It’s pathetic.
      The “cool guy” is so desperate for attention, but pretends that he doesn’t care what people think. Pitiful. 😂

  • @Hobolove1
    @Hobolove1 23 дні тому +1

    Yes it’s not love it’s addiction and very low self esteem and worth. 💯

  • @ChristineFilak
    @ChristineFilak 22 дні тому

    I've been alone for over 50 years. In relationships that , the other party was still attached to his gfs, past gf with kid. Past coworkers who are always available, who were out people pleasing. The church seems to think that people pleasing 24/7 is ok. And for me it IS NOT.

  • @aubreycain3142
    @aubreycain3142 23 дні тому +1

    I love you Jess. Thank you for lifting us up..We, the Empresses!! Gentle reminders never hurt ❤❤❤

  • @EquusStatera
    @EquusStatera 23 дні тому +1

    This masculine is my father and I know exactly what he thinks of me... The ex is MY ex. He kept him around to use but he doesn't see he is being used, he needs him to solve some financial issues. But he doesn't see he places 20k above my feelings, even though he knows how bad my ex treated me. Then I'm just too sensitive and I overreact 🙄
    The natural loyalty of a child is a b*tch...

  • @HollyHamilton-bu2tq
    @HollyHamilton-bu2tq 23 дні тому +1

    Jess, I have been listening to your posts recently, and I resonate with a lot of them. Your voice is easy to listen to and the owl 🦉 is perfect. I am so grateful for you! Thank you for sharing your gifts
    Love & Light & Blessings to you ❤

  • @ALM1978
    @ALM1978 23 дні тому

    Finders keepers, losers don't wantcha back 😂

  • @mgirl30
    @mgirl30 22 дні тому

    Wow! Yes! This totally resonates with my situation. I've been trying to figure out his attachment to her, and yes, how he's mirrored it back to me.
    The crazy thing..she calls HIM a narcissist! 😅

  • @starlight382
    @starlight382 23 дні тому +2

    He won't see it he's blinded by the karmics ✨

  • @Jp-1sr5wt
    @Jp-1sr5wt 23 дні тому

    I was thinking about this and the level of how distorted a basic act of kindness that I would have done for any friend who had to work 10-12 hours a day for weeks on end and something that when I was having to work long hours like that myself and how I had wished someone would have done that sort of kind stuff for me because I was so exhausted and how I would have loved the small acts of kindness and generosity like bringing by lunches, treats and things to keep my spirits up to encourage me to smile while I was working like a dog. How all that had gotten so grossly twisted. The sheer egotistical level of “oh she’s obsessed “ is so disgusting to me because it’s a basic act of kindness that I would have done for any friend stuck in that position. When I joked about him getting so much attention he smiled and said he loved it. Then he twisted it all around. He wasn’t being inappropriately chased. I was showing a successful man that I was not there to take from him and that I was there in earnest to be a good friend and to be supportive. There was no obsession. It’s gross that he twisted all of that to feed his own ego…. He needs to come back down to earth as he’s not that hot…. He’s cute but it’s not like he’s this super ripped guy or anything . He’s a middle aged guy with a dad bod loosing his hair under a baseball cap. I mean, seriously.. 😒 come on now.. I’ve had hotter then him and more in shape … 😏🙄

  • @tamellawalls9460
    @tamellawalls9460 23 дні тому

    Yeah i totally resonate with this reading. 7 years with someone who used to physically abuse me and he also leaves at different times a few years ago he used to be gone for days and weekly or bi weekly wouls leave me and come back thinking thatt everything is good between us im tired of being treated like shit mentally plays games with me i am to old for this mess i have fell out of love with him 3 years ago but i have a big heart and i dont want to put him out on the streets but i have cane to realizr that he really dosent value me he even told me this before i am tired of these lessons and have been learniing over and over for way to many years he needs to grow up and get a job and move out of my home im so done with him i can do way better then i am with him oh did i mention that he had left on Friday night and hasnt been back yet and i know that he'll have an excuse im tired of giving and giving and not getting anything in return even though i do things from my heart i just need a new life and a new me. Him being in prison so many years i dont think he knows how to treat a woman really or what a real woman is he needs to grow up and leave my home or find another sucker to live off of

  • @jcamp2177
    @jcamp2177 23 дні тому

    Strangely enough I finally decided that I was removing myself from the toxic, never changing karmic initiated non relationship I've endured patiently and mostly quietly for the past 5+ years with the dm.
    I'm not going to wait any longer. For me it's over. I've done my best but while he loves with the karmic nothing will change. His peace will never happen, home will still be just a word to him, not a feeling.
    The difference now is that I care what happens to myself. I love myself, proud of my achievments. Nothing but the best is what I would like to have. And will have.
    I thank you God for never walking away from me, for holding my hand, I will never forget what You've done for me.
    I'm taking a huge deep breath now. Everything is going to be good. Amen.

  • @aussieallstar66
    @aussieallstar66 23 дні тому +1

    Appeals to pride which is all about the devil. Yes all he really loves is himself. It is repulsive. Sick.

    • @LeahIsHereNow
      @LeahIsHereNow 23 дні тому

      And sickening… he can’t even catch one fish! 🎣 😂

  • @dinkumtotzquare
    @dinkumtotzquare 23 дні тому

    Lmao what if the Empress aborted the projected plans? I'm craving a neat organized cute little lunch👉🧿👈⚖️🪷🐲

  • @Hobolove1
    @Hobolove1 23 дні тому +1

    He’s in big time karma right now . Go figure.

  • @user-cz9ty7bl2n
    @user-cz9ty7bl2n 23 дні тому +1

    Abandonment all the time only because he gets high on doing this

  • @jaimeleigh8941
    @jaimeleigh8941 22 дні тому

    I firmly believe it's my Leo ex husband and him choosing his toxic cancer mother. I'm a cancer also, but through our entire 5 year relationship, 2 marriages and divorces to each other, his momma has him under her thumb. I think I had to defend myself against every single person with him. I was never in the right or protected by my own husband. I have forgiven him already and wish him the best.

  • @BorderlineFaith
    @BorderlineFaith 23 дні тому

    This resonates because i prayed and asked to see his energy and ended up on a date w someone who was an energy vampire. And i explained to him how he was an energy vampire.

  • @ChristineFilak
    @ChristineFilak 22 дні тому

    Tech is in control . And they have mirroring going on right now inside the house . So this week my room mate is mirroring , in reverse. She gets to see what she did 6 years ago.

  • @starlight382
    @starlight382 23 дні тому +1

    You are always on point 💯

  • @Hobolove1
    @Hobolove1 23 дні тому +1

    Yes he is a total control freak !!! 💯 Yes surface level 💯

  • @brendellaella
    @brendellaella 23 дні тому +1

    Thank you for the confirmations. ❤

  • @starlight382
    @starlight382 23 дні тому +2

    Money, Status,

  • @bethderr1443
    @bethderr1443 25 днів тому +1

    That was very close to my perception of the situation, and lovely confirmation. I'ma be over here shining good luck with that friend, until we do, or do not meet again:)

  • @whalewhisperer5546
    @whalewhisperer5546 23 дні тому

    Wow Jess you are helping keep me sane with these readings! Thank you.

  • @janicetorto887
    @janicetorto887 23 дні тому +1

    Not quite there yet but I am feeling this

  • @leopoldo3279
    @leopoldo3279 23 дні тому +1

    I am ready to leave all my life behind to embrace her, leaving all the good and bad to embrace all the new good and bad… I want that second chance to be happy and correct past mistakes… I just need to see her again and listen to her… or it’s just an illusion and it’s fine too, I refuse to over dramatize it to stay in control of my emotions 😌

    • @leopoldo3279
      @leopoldo3279 23 дні тому

      … in control of my sanity 😎

  • @andreadavidson5148
    @andreadavidson5148 23 дні тому +1

    Great analysis Jess. Bravo for having understood such an interwoven tangle (mess 😂) of energies. Human psychology/behaviours defy all odds at times and it isn't easy to not be astounded, confounded and roped in at times. And that is all-too-human too.....
    Many thanks ❤.

  • @valeriec7357
    @valeriec7357 23 дні тому +1

    Hi Jess I really enjoy your messages

  • @melissajackson1814
    @melissajackson1814 23 дні тому +1

    Jess, this is **SO** delivered with divine timing ✨️ 🙌 👏 I cannot overemphasize.

  • @untamedheart6820
    @untamedheart6820 15 днів тому

    I was juggled by an ex husband that faked it all along to the point that I feel sick to my stomach that I actually fell for it for 10 years. But I divorced him when I found out the kind of a man he truly was

  • @kathymontes4737
    @kathymontes4737 23 дні тому

    I resonate with this completely and just as your phone ring or dinged my low gas mileage thing thing in the car so I think it was a double whammy confirming that I need to walk away thanks so much for your time and you’re awesome

  • @leopoldo3279
    @leopoldo3279 23 дні тому

    Its sooo not me… these days IDGF for status, money or ex’s 🤷‍♂️

  • @Laura-uq3xk
    @Laura-uq3xk 23 дні тому

    This masculine is a narc as well. This is a narc- narc relationship, where they both triangate and cheat. He used me for that, while lying to me he's single. He's not innocent.

  • @avidphoto6077
    @avidphoto6077 23 дні тому +1

    Words hit home, thank you for clarifying things in my life. Spot on. Blessings

  • @jogofo1777
    @jogofo1777 23 дні тому +1

    Thank YOU 🙏🏻 for this reading! Confirms! Have moved on and moved upward 🙏🏻😂🙌🏼 addition by subtraction!!!

  • @ivelizsanchez243
    @ivelizsanchez243 23 дні тому

    U were absolutely correct 💯

  • @pragmaticpoet
    @pragmaticpoet 23 дні тому

    There is NO LOVE in control environments
    Love is ONLY FELT when there is earned Trust

    • @pragmaticpoet
      @pragmaticpoet 23 дні тому

      I keep things Librazzzz, they pretty but kind of dumb...
      Via Combusta

  • @SmokinTREEz
    @SmokinTREEz 23 дні тому

    No I see him and I am playing along to teach.

  • @reptilian5212
    @reptilian5212 14 днів тому +1

    He left me

  • @sawomirlesniewski4448
    @sawomirlesniewski4448 23 дні тому +1

    Yes.

  • @starlight382
    @starlight382 23 дні тому +1

    Yes surface level

  • @kitty2doggyMeow
    @kitty2doggyMeow 23 дні тому

    So because the "karmic" can leave they want to pour into her more? instead of the good intentioned empress?

  • @katherinewilson1853
    @katherinewilson1853 23 дні тому

    Very good message.

  • @nataliaprodan9335
    @nataliaprodan9335 23 дні тому +1

    Thank you so much Jess❤🎉🎉🎉

  • @starlight382
    @starlight382 23 дні тому +1

    I already left

  • @user-wb5wi2jd3b
    @user-wb5wi2jd3b 23 дні тому

    This seems very on pointe. Sadly.

  • @111dorris95
    @111dorris95 23 дні тому

    I have a fam member going through this I talked to her tday she got back with him but he doesn't care its stressing me out

  • @TheSUPERGIRL51
    @TheSUPERGIRL51 15 днів тому

    Sometimes you just have to let him go back to the girls in his league 🎉

  • @gamerlee4539
    @gamerlee4539 23 дні тому

    lol tat's what i told him yesterday XD exactly what you wrote in the green background
    oh, no he is not an ex, he is just a friend w.o benefits, i never allow benefits while we were friends,
    empress have options? .. me and myself lol xD

  • @jonhowardtube
    @jonhowardtube 23 дні тому +1

    Thx, Jess! 😊

  • @canadianmade
    @canadianmade 23 дні тому +1

    I'm the Empress and blocked her completely on July 16th. Hope it feels shitty.

    • @tiay3545
      @tiay3545 23 дні тому

      Really? Go towards the emperor energy! I am an empress and i have no desire to be an emperor but i am forced to but I am in my empress energy.

    • @tiay3545
      @tiay3545 23 дні тому

      He never saw the empress to him i am just lust for him. Left him for good. He can go back to the abusive karmic and please her. This empress shines in her power.

  • @bulldogsandlife
    @bulldogsandlife 23 дні тому

    ive already left 😣

  • @MorganPalmer-yq2of
    @MorganPalmer-yq2of 23 дні тому

    Amen 🙏 great read

  • @ckglad
    @ckglad 23 дні тому

    Wow!

  • @marlettaheard561
    @marlettaheard561 23 дні тому

    Hello this is me hi everyone I'm the girl in this story I am the Empress daughter of the most high God he betrayed me several times enough no more God has pulled me out of his toxic love affair I beg for mercy and grace forgiveness he turned into a demon on me it scared tf out of me but I know how to kill those spirits.

  • @081hannah
    @081hannah 23 дні тому

    TY ❤

  • @aubreycain3142
    @aubreycain3142 23 дні тому

    Btw..guess who im sharing this with..??!!

  • @dianehoward6837
    @dianehoward6837 23 дні тому

    Ok I'm needing clarity please are you speaking of 2 different Empresses? Such as one with games and one genuine?

  • @user-cz9ty7bl2n
    @user-cz9ty7bl2n 23 дні тому

    Ive met someone else

  • @Robyn_555
    @Robyn_555 25 днів тому

    ❤ thank you

  • @nika21nika89
    @nika21nika89 23 дні тому

    So how is this supposed to help? No one wants to hear that they are an option or that he is. This just feels like digging the knife in deeper. It would be more helpful to actually give solutions in moving on. This just makes everyone seem distorted and unhinged. The whole world is not distorted as readers make it. This feels like gossip only with zero purpose. I usually like your messages. If he cannot see her for who she is that will be his loss. Enough said.

  • @Bluelotusxy777
    @Bluelotusxy777 23 дні тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @angelatoujari138
    @angelatoujari138 23 дні тому

    👍🎯🗽

  • @bop2688
    @bop2688 День тому

    This is a bunch of bull 💩lmao 😂get off the hate train

  • @SandraFerraro-rk1ic
    @SandraFerraro-rk1ic 23 дні тому

    👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

  • @user-kz9ev2gh6h
    @user-kz9ev2gh6h 23 дні тому

    🧿🧿🧿🧿

  • @almostteatime6758
    @almostteatime6758 25 днів тому

    💙💚💚

  • @crptnite
    @crptnite 23 дні тому

    💜🙏🏽🕊️ #222

  • @TracyDeskins-h5p
    @TracyDeskins-h5p 20 днів тому

    NO REVERSE.
    NO MF WARLOCK STAY AROUND AN UPRIGHT ANGEL.
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