Young Abused Mother Needs Help To Start Over.
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- Опубліковано 9 лют 2025
- Running away from home at 17 and starting a new life with a man whose voice she fell in love with after he accidentally called her cell phone is the greatest regret former state ward Yonique Creary says she has made. #JamaicaGleaner
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SHE IS VERY HONEST IN HER ANSWERS !!! I THINK IF SHE GETS ANOTHER CHANCE SHE WILL MAKE WELL OF IT
I think so too..🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I think she should get that help
I like your comment we all make mistakes I made a few myself. I hope she gets the help she needs.
Please help her if you can... I believe every word she said...
Omg sad
😔😔😔So many of us would make different decisions if we knew the outcome. Sad, but she brave for telling her story🙏🏾
So true
Which highlights the importance of guidance
The baby father a worthless man God will come through for her jus pray my dear the Lord will deliver er
So true.
Everyone makes bad choices at times it's not for us to judge everyone deserves a second chance I hope she gets hers
Thats no bad choices, she's just stupid..... a man shi waah , then a man shi get..hhhmmm.
Lord have mercy...open doors for this young Lady
God don’t have no door to open for her
Cause all she doing is telling liesss
@@vibewithishalee2767 Where she told the lies??
Amen
She is honest, some people would lie about their story. I pray she gets another chance.
Give her the chance everyone deserve a chance for a change in life
This young lady is so beautiful. I would love to help her
The fact that this man even allow u fi run weh from your parents house, already shows that he’s no good
Red flag 🚩 🚩🚩
True 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Dem no nuh red flag
@@ashastar9330 nuh luk suh
I really feel for her she was looking for love in the wrong place, I do hope she get on track
She’s a lieeerr
@@vibewithishalee2767 i don't know her at all so for me I am thinking of how to help her ,until I know otherwise
She is looking for love in all the wrong place.how many children she have.and the children suffer.
@@vibewithishalee2767 Are you a family member or friend? You must be to say she is lying. If you are not, then Shut up.
@@soniaharrison1016 you think of I didn’t Know her I would be on here u shut the hell up n don’t mention my damn name
She's sooooo..... beautiful oh my it's just life.
That's all I could think as I watch her speak.
At least she’s honest enough to admit she ran away because she’s rebellious. Wow if only we knew the outcome of our decisions. Hope she can make progress in her life.
She’s a lierrrr
@@vibewithishalee2767 itch cant look in camera dam thief
😂😂😂
Such a nice girl,I hope she gets a chance to do all the things she would like to achieve.
Many of these young women need counseling.
When you have the first child, if you can’t afford one child you should make every effort not to have anymore children. The children suffer and become victims of crime. This is a major problem in Jamaica. Children having children that they are unable to raise in a stable home.
This is so true i agree.this is 2 much
God help her .she needs help.
I have some terrible experience with living with a single mother… and I was a young father also I help her till listen it all down down on me she make me loose interest in everything all I wanna do is stay home plus also a lot of other family issue .. really these young men and ladies we all need help
I agree with u but if you look at the causes of teenage pregnancy which may result from trauma etc. and most children do not have supportive parents to guide and help him
The men that target under age girls and boy should be sentenced to life! They are predictors.
Not everyone is rich and not everyone wish to throw away their children. Children are blessings not because you became pregnant before you were ready ,not because you became pregnant for a man who leaves you and your child behind and doesn't care, that doesn't mean you should throw away your child. it's not just in Jamaica this is happening it's happening all over the world, children having children. even adults having children and are not able to take care of kids good but we still bring our children in to this world. we still fight to survive with our children. we still fight for our children to become stronger than we were when they become men and women. you have nothing good to say,don't say anything. did you true any of your kids away? or were you rich so you didn't have to struggle like some of us does with our children?.
Listen!!! When I hear story like these I'm living in luxury!!!! I cant complain I'm grateful for the little i have I'm grateful I'm not being abuse I'm grateful i have my bby daddy support I'm just grateful....help is coming your way young miss
Her story isn't because of lack of opportunity, it's because of lack of self discipline.
@@diqueenherself412 I never stated anything here about her and support I'm speaking ok my self and what i am grateful for after listening to her story and her story isn't about self discipline alone her story has alot behind it and its obvious!!!
a worth less daddy them deh what it takes out a man fi take care of their children
@@jamiescafe3828 then wen pickney big and a do well everybody a show up a talk bout dem proud a pickney. Well she stated that he has the 2 bigger ones that's a pair of twin and she has the bby but he doesn't help with the bby.thats madness
Well done.You give boasting a new meaning.Your situation can change in an instant.You are boasting about a man here,hello!!!
She is so honest u can she that she is a very brilliant girl, so much big women makes mistakes in life n still don't admit to it. She deserves a good man in her life.
I hope you this young lady mother that lives abroad will help her 🙏🏾
My heart goes out to this young girl
I love her accent!!!!! she's honest,and she has a great personality!!!!
wishing her the best, sometime its hard to leave out of abusive relationships but im glad she did, hope she get a work soon so she can provide for herself and children
Hi she a nice girl have manners. I grow her to be the women.she is today. When u run away as a child. To live with man u r not incontrool of your life anymore unless u run away from that person less u are going to continue get the abuse
Sometimes all these wrong choices are made because of lack of love , I just pray she get stabilized were she can take care of herself and her kids I feel for her
I appreciate her honesty
Happy she made it out of the abuse pray she gets all the help she needs🙏
Sending love to you girl everything is gonna work out ......let's help her world..
True words
Malachi is a good name it means a prophet of God...keep your head up.
This story what she is saying right goes out for all the young girls out there understand so do not pick up what you cannot manage okay
Lord have mercy.
This a lesson for the rest of young girls who think man is all. girl you need to do something with your life.
She need alot of help.
You are beautiful young miss.Start with the wholesale job and see what happens.Little is better than nothing.
She is beautiful.
I wish her all the best, no one is perfect we all make mistakes all we have to do is learn from them.
I can't believe I'm sorry for her my aunt give her the best you will get that help
My heart goes out to this girl I pray someone help her
why not you? all you ppl wishing that someone will give her a 2nd chance step up to the plate
@@grahamaviator747 Why not you then? What if they don’t have it to help themselves?
It would appear from her earlier statements, that she did have some kind of protective structure around her in the person of her Mom, who must have tried in some way to protect her and warn her, but like many young people today, she chose her own path. She is very young, and far too young for the responsibilities that she has, I really can't judge. I hear her say that she cannot take a minimum wage job, with so many mouths to feed, but a minimum wage job is better than nothing. I can only pray for her that in time she will gain wisdom, guidance and direction, and that the community will rally around her and help her as it seems as if they are doing now. Unfortunately, choices have consequences but most of us didn't do the half of what our parents told us to do when we were young either. My heart goes out to her, and as for the baby father, I won't waste my breath.
Thank u very much will said I was that person
More of wisdom... She needs a lot of that one specifically.
Only a fool would desire a minimum wage job. Lol.
Give her a chance.dont care what.she wants to start over.give her a chance
I hate when woman go through this a swear and it need fi stop... smdh
Dont worry girl help is on the way for u
Baby you are in my prayers. Just pray 🙏 Mama God will help you and your three children. Just pray please Mommy
I pray and have faith that GOD will see you through. Most of us make different mistakes yet we turn out to be good citizens and living our best lives. Thats GOD at work and HE will work for her.
Plenty of these young girls r just lazy and full of excuses and refuse to try help them selves
@@angelrose5355 thats true and a part of helping them is through mentorship and coaching as well as even helping to get a job. If they remain lazy them clearly you have to call it quits. Lets do all we can to give a helping hand.
@@angelrose5355 She said that she wants to work
Well, they say "hard ears pickney, bite rock stone". She among many has made this choice to be forced ripe. She took on an adult role that she clearly stated that she wanted to experience... Surely, she has met her objective. Maybe not how she was expecting but she had a choice to walk away earlier when things began to get bad but I guess she was not done learning yet. Thankfully, she made it out alive. Hopefully, she makes better decisions with her life, moving forward. I hope she also now listen to the bigger people around her who were trying to steer her right. caz she sounds very stubborn. By the way, It is better to collect minimum wage and feed ur kids until u get a better job, rather than to depend on your "baby father" or handouts.
Take baby dad to court fr child support
Stubborn indeed. You can see it written all over face even though she's in this predicament. I love helping people but for some reason I'm just not feeling this lady at allllllll. This video just feels like last resort, and not a genuine plea for help
@@diqueenherself412 can say that again
@@diqueenherself412 keep you help you have a lot of family who needs it
Up to lately people have been trying to guide and help her ...she doesn't want good counsel or to b better..this is the "help" she thinks she deserves..I hope they do what's best for the children after hearing this because she isn't...she don't want no job trust me..
PLEASE ANYONE WHO CAN HELP THIS YOUNG LADY PLEASE HELP HER.
Hope the over ripe kid listening to you learn to stay home and listen to whomever is responsible for them
She is young and naive I pray she gets some help little kids need
She's a nice girl she just needs help. And if this story your talking in truth you should of let go that crazy man long time. He meant you no good. You should thank God your alive. But anyways you need help speedily too.🙏🏼🙇🏽♀️📖
Women need to be empowered. A woman can make it without a man. But it starts with the brain. Psychological. Sex can cause a woman more harm than good. This is traumatizing.
Yep some of those 🚺 💘 the stirring stick more than 🍲 and themselves it's sad independence is the 🔑 to 🔓 all doors open😳
All wah she been though,she still smiling and those smiles shows she have hope, young ladies ,most of those Jamaican men don't have NOTHING to offer you but (lies ,wood ) jah jah please send help . Stop having children with waste man
I know this girl, she and I use to attend this school called the Learning centre in Kingston ,Jah Know Yonique , mi feel it fi yuh babygirl.😔😔
You're a beautiful young lady I pray you get the help and guidance you need.
Am not sure if I heard well but I believe I heard you mention your mom left for a foreign country. I really hope she is in a position to give you a second chance. We all make mistake. The important thing is to learn from then on that path you need guidance. Secondly I don't understand how no family planning was offered to you ( am just speculating that it wasn't). I pray God will put the right people in your path.
There's free family planning in every parish, she lucky it was not aids, some like her will never learn, help the little ones directly if u can w/school supplies n snack
may God have mercy on her,, she's still immature and needs a lot of help to get it together mentally,,,she's still looking for a fairy tale life,,,she just need a mentor to wake her up and introduce her to the real world and help her to understand that she's young but she's responsible for 3 young lives so her big house and whole heap of money dream is going to have to be put on pause, or in the pursuit of all that she'll get another Bae and another baby, the Cinderella story is very rare. God bless
She don’t need god mercy she need a education and some money 💰!
@@pageone8165 Page one waa gwaan it's Jolly . As I see your comment could tell its you 😉. No god only money . These girls make stupid mistakes and settle for little ,bit low.
@@alwaysjolly they’re uneducated
@@pageone8165 I beg to differ, being uneducated may be a factor, but abuse and the consequences of bad decisions happens to so called educated people as well.
@@soniaharrison1016 agree but listen to how she talk , the majority of our peoples is brainwashed with cultural emotions not based in facts and it’s hurting our peoples! Father is not being good fathers our peoples continue to loose wealth from 1 generation to the next generation, think about a 80 year old lady giving the church 10 to 15 % of all the money she earned for 60 years think what that could do for her family or neighbours?
I really think that the comment section must be turned off, it's not helping when people have bad things to say , we all make mistakes a d a lot of us who are commenting and putting others down you better thank God 😊.. also remember as long as all of us have life anything can happened so please sometimes we just need to view things differently let's stop making the problems more worst off and give a helpful hands and try and council her or anyone else 😉 blessed 🙌 😇 love ❤ to all.
Exactly I was there and a God intervene and I got a job , young girl 17 began talking to myself and neighbor saw my situation and came over and talk to me and I ask her please get a job for me which she did
@k c your response just proves how much we have to change as a people.
There's mistakes and there's choices. 1+ children is a choice.
@@CeeceeH1819 Sometimes it's not as easy as you think. All of us were not grown in the same situation and has the reasoning ability
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes!
Mi just feel sorry fe some of these young girls 👧 😔😕 🤔, stupid Prize 🙄
Here's her baby father side of the story ua-cam.com/video/31n5a0xFt20/v-deo.html
ZONCK!!!!!!!!
Hope and pray she get all the help She needs God bless her and her children and may she find comfort in the word of God
My female students need to see this video.
Show it to them.
Hope my sister weh a 17 nd run weh see this to😭😭😭
Keep strong life is not over . Young girl needs guidance and protection . You don't have any . People will say what that want to .. experience increase wisdom.. things will be better tomorrow . Keep praying 🙏 in the name of Jesus Christ 🙏 I pray you will get help . It is coming Lord Jesus Christ please help this young lady and her kids
She's from a poor background, in need of love, care and protection and she became a victim of an abusive relationship. Even now she thinks very immature and don't even aware how her present condition will impact on her future life. Hope she will love and care for her children the best way that she can.
God is for every one god bless her with 3 kids she walk a way from abuse thank god she is fine and she jus hav to stay focus. And hav somone to guide her. Give thanks to who dont go true nothing an ruff life. Blessing my sister
Hope she get the help she need very beautiful young miss wish her nothing but the best ❤❤❤
WHY IS THE COMMENT SECTION ON? If you are truly trying to help, why open her up to the ridicule and judgment and biases of the "hollier than thou" public. It's like throwing her to the wolves!
Wow she is so beautiful,she will find a good man to love and take care of her
May god bless her and her children and i know she reliased her mistakes that she make. Just remember every one do make mistake in life. Life will goes on with you just trust god he will see you through 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I pray that God send her the help she need and provide a job so she can take care of her kids🙏🙏
She is a beautiful young lady just need help and care. I hope when she get the help she go back to school and no bother with no more kids are no more for now
Really Hopes she gets the help she needs for her and the Kids. It's funny cause Girls always go for the bad gangster type Men. But a hardworking, quite and Good man is rejected. Never will understand this Mentality a lot of women have.
No Ambitious person put oneself in such situation, especially having more than one child. Now you want people to give you their haed Earned Dollar? " Where's some people Self- esteem'
This poor girl is very immature and I'm afraid that changes in her life will happen when maturity kicks in.that was myself at that young age with no sense at all, looking back after 50+years I wonder how on earth I survived.now you could never tell. I do hope she'll start to acknowledge God he'll see her through. she's in my prayers.
Good day thank u u have the answer immature. An wasn't listen I am her faster mother an if I forgive her them anyone else can do so.
@@systemboss9015 you know I heard someone says the other day "oh to be Young again"I quickly said, not me no way no how.my Young life was hell here on earth,it seems as if I couldn't grasp what was happening to me because I didn't have the mentality to deal with life. I believe that maturity comes with age for some of us, I'm Old now and it torments me to this day the things that happened to me.putting the past behind is easier said than done.i am keeping this dear girl in my prayers she's not alone.god bless you.
@@systemboss9015 🤔
Am willing to help her with what i can help with
There is hope young lady God will make a way for u
God is the answer.. bby is a blessings.. God know best.. he will open door for you
She is just a nice person. I hope she gets the chance 😮to do all things
Poor poor poor condition.jamaica she needs help fi true .God bless you all help help help help help help help help help help
Sex education is needed badly from the age of 3 in the Caribbean. I will not condemn her or any other in her situation education is the key.
Speak it in to been God is always listening he is never too busy your future is bigger and greater than your pass
Such a beautiful girl
Full time unoo stop highlight them people here and put some people who really need help enuh. People who have medical or academic needs and stop waste time on these people who mash up dem life purposely
She want a education food etc
Here's her baby father side of the story ua-cam.com/video/31n5a0xFt20/v-deo.html
100% facts
@@krissarasexydiva1781 by her doing, she put herself in that situation
@@venomsupe u wouldn't know
It’s not her fault and I pray for the young queens
She was just confused
And need someone to talk who she think would be there for her. Am willing to help.
Oh lord those babies
Hungry and cold 😭😭😭😭😭💔
I wonder who's fault is it if not hers
@@purge3883 the man who groomed a 15 year old
Since when women don't know open legs to man, baby come. And that's just in basic terms.
We have to quit with the excuses.
Then who's fault is it?? If you want to help, do it without the silly excuses. The girl is stubborn and hard of hearing so she met her demise. Now she needs help to come out of it. If you feel like helping, do it but stop the excuse jah know
God is s good god. I realy feel here pain I am praying dat she will give r life to god and serve him bcz she have bien true alot .but help is on the way .pls showe your children love ,let them feel love an for get abouth your past and move on .god bless
I hope n pray that everything work out 4 u n that u get tru with what u need ok be strong n hold di faith n yrust in god ok u talk di truth. Big up u self princess one 💘 one love
Young ladies wake up and wise up know your worth please if you can't take care of yourself how are you going to take care of a baby or baby's
And husband
The unfortunate thing is that after these women have received help, they continue to do the same thing with the same no good reason that got them in the situation in the first place
Some
Given the chance, I believe she will succeed.
@@zaragray7983 : some is correct
@@jenniferchance5636 : one will only succeed if they stop doing the same thing that has resulted in failures. Change course, learn from your mistakes and others
Maxine that's YOU projecting your stereotyping and stupidity on to others. Let her breathe, her past does NOT have to be her future. My niece had her first child at 17 with a loser and Today she's married to one of the Richest man in Jamaica, who adopted her first child, then started his own family with her...and she lives in a neighborhood where only millionaires dwell on a beautiful estate; flying back and forth to Europe, own vacation home in florida etc etc. She herself can hardly believe. It took her 12 years being in the marriage to believe she's not dreaming. He still brings her flowers for no particularly reason. Sadly, he's not a black man, but we appreciate him. I said sadly because it's ironic that black men cause black women M OST of the suffering they experience throughout this life. AND other black women are each other's worst enemies.
She has two arms and two legs, what's stopping her, its too easy to get on tv and beg
She sound confused 😕
I pray she get's help....
🙏🙏🙏. All she needed and wanted from the beginning was a good husband. Getting married young should not be stigmatized.
Yes talk truth girl please God shame the devil we all make mistakes
God bless u hun.
I can relate
Father help her!!!! And she's such a beautiful female. All shall be well girlfriend just accept God he's all you need. Will never fail you. And you and your kids will smile at a storm
"God" has failed her so many times. Have you considered this?
God has never failed sir/mam I know that for sure
I really do empathize with this young lady, she was very young and naive hence making d wrong choices...a pray for your blessings.
A shy she shy why she can’t speak people who a professional liar speak fluently and convincing that people believe u can definitely see say she nuh mature fully
Not everyone can make eye contact some ppl jus nu understand ....me self here can't make eye contact
Bless her 🙏 ❤
First I must say you were young confuse and when we are young we don't know much, but if you had a parent and they were talking to you it better we must listen cause out there is not gonna be better. But you need help cause not everybody sensible. And that man is the devils brother he's not your Bae. You need to get back in school and leave out man for a long long long while. I pray you get help and repent.🙏🏼🙇🏽♀️📖
Lord hear her voice help her lord in jesus name 🙏🙏🙏
Indeed I would really love if she could get some help the truth is you're still young you're intelligent so for you just need a start people out there who can really help be strong nd keep your head up you learn the hard way but nevertheless we all make mistakes nd we all need asmuch chances as possible this world can be a very cruel nd cold place my sista there's a saying that it's not everything that glitter is gold the greatest is that you're still alive nd your kids are in good health I guess you're a beautiful nd strong girl don't ever forget that ...keep that beautiful smile you also gonna need that blessings....
God will make a way for u darling
Is this a joke?
Many people work in wholesales have 3 kids and more and still try to make it work!! She needs guidance before the cash.
If u give her cash likely she will buy shorts n have twins next. Buy clothes, books, food n give the kids directly, I think the 4 yr old know what to do w/the food etc.
Have 3 kids and work in a wholesale is joke 8 grand plus you have people to pay to keep you kids bills kids lunch money bus fare and worst she don't got the father support
U will make it girl I got my daughter at 17 she 22 am proud no father upon now I struggle some time I want to ask for help but I never I make it out on my own
god bless you ! and stay safe :)
Tears in my eyes where is she Can I contact her
Hope for the best for that girl
I honestly don’t know what to make of this one
Sister i feel your pain god going to help you don't worry yourself OMG 😪
Skill is power
God will make a way
Wipes? I only used wipes when I took my baby out. A wash rag does the same job. When you don't have it you must learn how to cut back.