Tom preaches the hard truth. As much as life does get in the way and getting in a position where you have the ability to make change can be very difficult and look different for many people, ultimately it is up to you/us to move our lives move in the direction we want it to lead. Some people have very difficult obstacles to overcome and things to work around, but we can all do better. Being able to hyperfocus the older I’ve gotten has become more difficult as life accumulates more and more responsibilities, but purging what doesn’t matter from what does is even more necessary as our lives progress. Keep fighting legends!
Well said. Don't be afraid to make phone calls, write letters, arrange appointments to go after your dram and turn it into reality. If you believe in what you're doing and work hard you can make it happen. Find the right people. Don't listen to people that say it's bad idea if you believe it will happen.
Adopt the mindset that everything that happens is your fault.Responsibility. Even if you get struck by lightning have the mindset of I shouldnt have been there at that time
I think it's more accurate to say you are not to "blame" for anything, but you are entirely responsible for the state of your life. Blame is pointless, taking responsibility and action is the whole ballgame.
Thanks Tom, I personally have to look the fool because I'm in completely new territory in so many ways and now a days I'm totally seeing how totally unrealistic and unreasonable my goals and dreams are. And gave no live mentors only UA-cam. 😢😅❤😊
People aren't gonna remember your awkward beginnings. I've heard enough famous podcast hosts & big-name guests talk about their exact same early fears & embarassments (we all share them)...which no one remembers. It's a matter of time & persistence.
What if there is nothing that seems motivating...been there, done that attitude. I have a job that's ok and hobbies I enjoy, do I still need to get unstuck?
every time just on time, thank you, thank you, thank you.. إن شاء الله one day gonna to clear all stuff I knew from you through your programs for the whole world,..
If your goal is help people life themselves up out of a rut you don’t use such shame based vocabulary as Blame, Stupid etc..this doomsday approach and negative connection to ‘being stuck’ is counterproductive and outdated.
Most people are stuck because they are physically sick and disabled and have no money to pay someone to help them and that is the hard truth !!! So they need to go to a church congregation for help before they get killed by their fake friends.
“You are to blame entirely for the state of your life,” is harmful messaging. The idea of complete personal blame for all of life’s hardships does not allow for actual recognition and acceptance of “the unknown.” By understanding that some forces leading you to this moment may be outside of your control, you are better able to reckon with the personal responsibility of healing and start a journey of growth. The message in this video would be more beneficial stated as: “The state of your life is a combination of personal decisions, unplanned events, and influences that may be our of your hands. If the culmination of these forces have caused issues for you in life, the responsibility to heal and grow is still your own. Basically, there’s a key difference between recognizing the power of personal responsibility and agency of growth, and blaming yourself for everything that’s gone wrong in your life in order to change your situation. Edit: punctuation
Blaming yourself is a new-agy thing. It was probably designed to make money off of it. And perhaps to distract you. But in actuality the system beats you all the time, and it is the system to blame, or rather those who controle it.
It’s similar to ideologies of early Victorian Britain, which were directly rooted in essentialist views of profit. Self-responsibility for economic hardships ended up influencing government, political, and cultural norms of America and the UK up until NOW! It’s pretty wild when you zoom out and see the continuation through time. Thank you for this comment! (Source: I’m an academic historian really trying to make the privilege of knowledge more available to everyone) Edited for context
Thank you tor your consistent voice on this. You are amazing 👏🏻❤️
Tom preaches the hard truth. As much as life does get in the way and getting in a position where you have the ability to make change can be very difficult and look different for many people, ultimately it is up to you/us to move our lives move in the direction we want it to lead.
Some people have very difficult obstacles to overcome and things to work around, but we can all do better.
Being able to hyperfocus the older I’ve gotten has become more difficult as life accumulates more and more responsibilities, but purging what doesn’t matter from what does is even more necessary as our lives progress.
Keep fighting legends!
Well said.
Don't be afraid to make phone calls, write letters, arrange appointments to go after your dram and turn it into reality.
If you believe in what you're doing and work hard you can make it happen. Find the right people. Don't listen to people that say it's bad idea if you believe it will happen.
Thank you!!!
Very well said 😍 100% true 😊
Tom Bilyeu is my spirit animal
Absolutely!
Adopt the mindset that everything that happens is your fault.Responsibility. Even if you get struck by lightning have the mindset of I shouldnt have been there at that time
Thx ❤
Thank you, great Advice!!! ✅✅
I think it's more accurate to say you are not to "blame" for anything, but you are entirely responsible for the state of your life. Blame is pointless, taking responsibility and action is the whole ballgame.
Why would you listen to this man. He scammed $30,000,000.00 from his followers… yeh real success.
Thanks Tom, I personally have to look the fool because I'm in completely new territory in so many ways and now a days I'm totally seeing how totally unrealistic and unreasonable my goals and dreams are. And gave no live mentors only UA-cam. 😢😅❤😊
People aren't gonna remember your awkward beginnings. I've heard enough famous podcast hosts & big-name guests talk about their exact same early fears & embarassments (we all share them)...which no one remembers. It's a matter of time & persistence.
Yes
Your gonna help right
@whatsappme427 doing it now
What if there is nothing that seems motivating...been there, done that attitude. I have a job that's ok and hobbies I enjoy, do I still need to get unstuck?
every time just on time, thank you, thank you, thank you..
إن شاء الله
one day gonna to clear all stuff I knew from you through your programs for the whole world,..
Let's do this
🫶🏿🫶🏿🫶🏿
Boring.. you didn't make to move... MORE!!
If your goal is help people life themselves up out of a rut you don’t use such shame based vocabulary as Blame, Stupid etc..this doomsday approach and negative connection to ‘being stuck’ is counterproductive and outdated.
Most people are stuck because they are physically sick and disabled and have no money to pay someone to help them and that is the hard truth !!! So they need to go to a church congregation for help before they get killed by their fake friends.
Thank you Tom! I needed to hear this isimple but powerful message.
That’s totally right set a 5 years goal and walk through it other wise you are just wasting your life
I love Tom’s advice!
Jesus is my savior
Another reason…Because they do not believe they will actually attain what they are wishing for by doing what is required
Or because you have a ton of responsibility you absolutely have to take care of first…..
When I started watching Tom’s content years ago, it was no bullshit motivation;
The looking cool part is very true
Tom preaches half truths, in my case. I was ruined by medical malpractice. Is that my fault? I was an infant. So please retry.
Thank you! It was thru your videos during the pandemic that started me on a whole new path!
Can you hire me please? I don’t have any skills per se…. But I can learn. Be a mensch.
Thanks my stepsis really needed that advice
Or you just don’t know how. Or you don’t have the means to do with.
Yes. What a difference a year makes!!!
Glad it’s not one of those HU affiliate videos that gets taken down overtime
Cmon YT algorithm, gimme more of this
DEAR SIR I AM WORKING ON WAY TO RVERSE AGING. PLEASE HELP ME TO REACH PEOPLE
Tom came out of the womb with a backwards hat on.
“You are to blame entirely for the state of your life,” is harmful messaging.
The idea of complete personal blame for all of life’s hardships does not allow for actual recognition and acceptance of “the unknown.” By understanding that some forces leading you to this moment may be outside of your control, you are better able to reckon with the personal responsibility of healing and start a journey of growth.
The message in this video would be more beneficial stated as: “The state of your life is a combination of personal decisions, unplanned events, and influences that may be our of your hands. If the culmination of these forces have caused issues for you in life, the responsibility to heal and grow is still your own.
Basically, there’s a key difference between recognizing the power of personal responsibility and agency of growth, and blaming yourself for everything that’s gone wrong in your life in order to change your situation.
Edit: punctuation
YOU ARE 100% RIGHT 👍👍👍 NICE
Beautifully said 💚💛❤️
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👍👍👍
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Just for $19.99 you can do it too
Why don’t you return the money from the fail NFT’s??????
Best advice ever
I HAVE DEAIGNED A WAY TO LOOSE AGE
Yessir…, I like that sir.
tHANK YOU
It’s Saturday night now in Indonesia, suddenly i am ready to face Monday morning. Thank you sooo muchh Tom.
You listed to my advice? Let’s get it. Be consistent with them and it’ll work out incredible.
Facts
Every time he says “ Because they want to look cool..” I can’t help but cover my face 😅
Yes!!! Thank you! You are so awesome 🔥🔥🔥💖☺️
Thank you for this!❤
You the goat tom 💪🏽
Thanks Tom, I'm ON IT!!
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Nice!!!
Blaming yourself is a new-agy thing. It was probably designed to make money off of it. And perhaps to distract you. But in actuality the system beats you all the time, and it is the system to blame, or rather those who controle it.
It’s similar to ideologies of early Victorian Britain, which were directly rooted in essentialist views of profit. Self-responsibility for economic hardships ended up influencing government, political, and cultural norms of America and the UK up until NOW! It’s pretty wild when you zoom out and see the continuation through time. Thank you for this comment!
(Source: I’m an academic historian really trying to make the privilege of knowledge more available to everyone)
Edited for context
So empowering ❤