How I Came Out.
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
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The Fluke Husky story. Very intense. Thank you for sharing this.
You are the stronger Boi.
So happy the harness is.back.
This was deep and kinda sad for me to listen to coming out to some parents are good and some sadly like flukes is not good but coming out is hard to talk about especially the longer you keep it a secret from everyone love you fluke stay strong husky boi loved this story video
fluke is best boi
10:36 "It's not all sunshine and rainbows as my fursona comes across as."
Our fursonas have things that WE want. Yours has sunshine, rainbows, flowers, bright colors and love. Things you may not have had growing up.
Our parents are humans too, they are not perfect and they make mistakes.
Thank you, for being you, Fluke. Give Tirox a hug.
Right?! I'm actually an angry soul but my fursona is bright, happy, optimistic, and a big softie. I'm slowly growing into that personality though, but I need to learn to balance both my power and openness
@@sakurashark202 Balance is important, just don't forget, time calms angry souls. Don't be afraid to mellow and become happier! Draw on the snarly bitterness when you need to, but don't afraid to smile and be brighter!
Can’t imagine how hard and heartbreaking this situation has been. Best wishes.
Yeah I'm in the same situation but my mom is supportive of it.
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Yeah same here, when I first became a furry, I didnt really know what is was
When I drew something my friends would be like, "Your a Furry!" But I didn't bother me because I'm sure some others have been through worst
He deserves it for betraying his own family
@@prototypefartboi9073 what? He didn’t betray anyone
this husky needs hugs, deepest story i ever heard in my life. Close to make me cry, love from Argentina
This is such a touching video. I'm sorry your parents aren't supportive of you, and sometimes that's just how it is. It's sad an unfortunate, but it shows true strength when you fully embrace who you are. And to me, you're one of the strongest people I know. Never stop being strong Fluke.
that’s just awful to deal with
@@jadearo9397 yeah. I totally agree.
Coming out is not easy and some people are going to hate lit them but i love u for u.
I don't think anyone could word a comment any better.
Haha he gay
Wow. I almost cried watching this... I feel really relatable to Fluke. I have the same problem with coming out to my parents about who I am... this helped a lot. This feeling has been stressing me out my entire life. And I understand why I’m not really happy anymore. But this video taught me nobody should tell you who u have to be. Fluke this video was very touching... thank u for this
This is so important. Thank you for sharing Fluke!
@Xxalexsnakezzz Will Rivera ! no teachers are friendly G all my teachers wanna kill my so yeah
@@rebeccacastillo947 same thing but I want to kill myself
@@tripwood please don’t it’s not worth doing and it is wrong no one should do it ever.
Teacher panish kids not for teaching them a lesson but also that what they treat love to kids they do that so kid would understand how thing work maybe you were doing something bad that why ur teacher panishing you they only want you to know how to grow up for the future ahead and also if you got own by a 14 years old then you got own OwO
Fluke :"Working at Subway inside Walmart"
Me:Thinking about James from the Odd1sOut
*Sooubway*
Hmmmm. Good thought
James=Fluke
Fluke=furry>>>james
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Work at subway >>> |
@JustNick me too i just got out of school today. what a video to start of the time out of school for today
You started by saying that it maybe shouldn't be you who answers questions like this. But I think your story is an important one!
It wasn't easy, you faced adversity, yet you have found a life full of love.
Not trying to downplay the importance of what happened by any means, but we can make it through to the other side of that pain, together.
Thank you SO much for sharing this story ♥
I’m so confused my phone says Fluke uploaded this 59 mins ago but you made this comment 22 hrs ago
_wtF_
Video made my week. It’s raw and beautiful just like all my LGBT+ beans! Love you all! ^w^
The Krazy Kat lady yeah I was thinking the exact same thing as soon as this was uploaded I was like “they commented 22 hours ago and yet the video just came out.... ok then”
The Krazy Kat lady it’s because the Patrons get the vid early
MrMeme Poo ohhhh makes sense thank you MrMeme Poo
I feel I am in a very similar position as you. I'm glad I found your video. It's hard to find people who can relate. I hope to meet you someday at a con or fur meet.
That was a touching story, I’m sorry your parents aren’t supportive of you, you have my full support fluke. I’m bisexual, male. I never expressed any type of “homosexual” behaviour as as a teen in secondary school as I feared of being a vulnerable target for others to laugh and bully.
In my second year of college at the age of 18 I knew I liked males and females but wasn’t aware of bisexuality so I was so confused until I met a group of females who were predominantly bisexual with some guys which they explained what it was that made total sense to me. That year was also a very difficult year for me as a childhood friend of mine took his life which sent me down a dark path of depression and anxiety which can be difficult still to this day and had suicidal thoughts myself for which I reached out for help and received counciling.
My family is non religious, straight and don’t really understand anything that has anything to do with LGBT ect.
So typically I was very anxious and nervous to come out to my family and scared for if they would think of me differently if I told them I was bisexual. So firstly I told my sister who was ok about it and didn’t see any issue, I wanted to tell my other sister but she was already told before I got the opportunity to tell her. And my parents were not exactly that fond of it when I told them at first but they quickly came to terms with it and respected me for who I am for now I am immensely grateful for.
Unfortunately I still have to deal with trolls and people who bash their bible at me and come out with their religious bigotry that is incredibly annoying which can also hurt also but I guess I gotta tolerate it.
I appreciate your story, ik it can be a difficult and sensitive subject to talk about but for anyone who’s suffering or their family disown them for who they are just want to let you know your validated and strong.
Love will win
*hugs* (\ (^w^) /)
💖💜💙🏳️🌈
now I'm not alone TwT
I'm Straight, Catholic, a Furry and a Ally. I can understand the pain of Bigotry and hypocrisy as I have been bashed with the Bible on how "Homosexuality is a dangerous lifestyle." But even though it pains me deeply, I find the strength through God and all my LGBT friends to persevere and keep on the right path of a believer and an ally. The road that is the hardest to take, takes a strong will and convection to cross, and the road that is easiest to take, hardly requires any effort. I'd rather take the hard road as I love putting effort into my life.
Keep soaring high! ✝ 🏳️🌈
This is the true explanation. There was these times where i didnt know if i could be gay or alone, if i would get a fursuit ever. It is my only wish. I feel all of you guys's feelings. I feel it too.
I'm straight. Like to be honest I’m here just to watch these types of vids. I’ll support anyone. Really. I really don’t care if a person is gay lesbian bisexual etc. it’s 2020 I’ll support you. To whom is reading this. From a 17 year old boi
@@sillent01 wow thanks man 😊😊
This is how I came out as Asexual/Aromantic to my kin:
When I was a very little kid, like 3-5 I learned that women like men and men like women. You know, like they should. And I followed that but I never fully understood the attraction between these two genders. But yet, I still “pretended” to have crushes so I would fit in with my friends. Comes the age of 9-10. I learned more and more about the LGBTQ+ community. And oh boy, did I find it interesting. I learned about being Asexual; not being sexually attracted to any gender, and being aromantic; not being romantically attracted to any gender. I realized that that was who I am. So I started off with telling my friends. Turns out (btw, this was at a new school), my two friends were Lesbian and Pansexual. I felt so accepted. So then I told my brothers (who obviously didn’t care at their age). And then my grandma, who was totally accepting. I finally mustered up the courage to tell my mother through text. And she was miraculously accepting. I felt good. Things were smooth. And my mother told my father. He didn’t seem like he hated me, yet I think he still thought I should be accepted. I’m still not sure how he thinks of me, yet he doesn’t seem mad. Before you ask, no, no one else in my closest kin is LGBTQ+
Maybe you could share your story.
0:30 people find you as someone to look up to because your a sweet genuinely wholesome person. You dont have to do something world changing of be a celebrity to be a role model. Good people deserve to be looked up to because they should be. Just being good and authentic is becoming more and more rare. You are special, and that goes to all us. ❤
this, honestly imo fluke is by far my favourite furry youtuber. Exactly because of what you said. Its because of fluke that i even fully got into the furry community.
Hi Fluke,I just want to let you know,thank you for making me feeling confident to talk about myself to my sister,if it wasnt for you I wouldnt have told my sister that I am gay.And I want to thank you once more,you must have a great day.
Kind of a different perspective here: I'm actually a straight, married, deeply devoted Christian Male. I'm also a young father of 3. Coming from a dads point of view: I couldn't imagine not seeing my kids, loving them or even cutting them out of my life.
Fluke it honestly breaks my heart to its very core your father doesn't support you. I understand where he's coming from as well though. Maybe in time, he will come around. Just keep moving forward!
I've already decided should my kids come out to me, I will have an open heart to them and wish them happiness. God loves them and you too Fluke, as well as I.
Your always a blast to watch! 😁
Lots of love to you and Tirox! ❤❤❤ God Bless!
Things are the way that they are for a reason, whether we understand it or not. :)
The feels 😊💞
@@Vaille32 you're a furry dad.. God your kids are lucky af
hm straight married devoted christian male that watches furries? hmmmm, insecurities i detect?
I might be a bit late here but I wanna bring something up real quick, you are exactly what one should expect from a christian in the bible it says you should love all no matter what and to not judge but there are way too many people who claim to be christian and they do the exact opposite of what god says you should.
Your not alone, fluke. You’re true inspiration. Your a strong, kind, smart individual. Thanks for sharing your story.
Im 16 in a catholic Family Im gay ive been praying since i was 9 for this to go away, and it cant go away ive been crying every single night for the past 7 years and i finally accepted myself as who i am, i havent telled my parents ive only told my best friends ive tried multiple times to end my own life but i finally accepted myself and if you are having a bad time right now let me tell you somenthing i love you you are important and i support you
❤🧡💛💙💜 🏳️🌈 Dont be afraid to show your colors we all have the right to love
Noxevil life can be difficult but like you said you’ve accepted who you are and that’s great but like I said before there are very difficult times in life. Also good job for accepting your self and not hurting yourself beyond healing. Also stay strong
Noxevill that's was really touching story and i can relate to that im also a bisexual myself but my parents are not religius but im afraid to come out maybe later i have the courage:)
don't forget that you are awesome too, not just others that deserve love. I know i forget that sometimes so i hope you remember that too. Awesome you are starting to figure this out and you are amazing.
László Somogyi you’ll get the courage someday trust me. I had the courage and I believe you’ll find it someday
Life sucks when you have a non supportive enviroment and i just hope that you have a better life than what you have right now once your able to leave your parents house i say take that chance because then you can take the wheel of your life and make your decisions on your own on who you love
Fluke much love and support from Brazil
Those who struggle have the most important stories to share. You went through a transformation from a Christian traditionalist to a proud, gay furry with some seriously entertaining hobbies, and that's very inspiring for those who might be struggling in an echo chamber of the former. You dealt with the pain of not being accepted, and you made a decision that really helped you to be who you are and enjoy your life. and it's true that these things take time. You're more of a role model than you think! Maybe not to all, but to those with similar walks of life who need it to inspire them to keep going, and that's what it really means to be a role model.
I have been having a hearing problem, and i saw this video but couldent hear it... i got hearing ades for the first time, and this was the first video i watched❤
Is the seed in your mind the sunflower on your head?
MusicPanda 😑
i think 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
Lol
I don’t think so it’s just an accessorie (7-7 u already knew dat)
•Gacha Twins• no shit sherlok
Thank you for sharing fluke this is really important and I am sorry that your parents aren’t accepted you for who you want to be and this story of you and your family hit me hard with emotions and I hope that your dad will come around and love you for how you are fluke and keep being how you are 🤟🏽
Fluke before: No Homo!
Fluke after: My *boyfriend* is gay!
Yep that's true no homo
Ok.
This is Beyond Science
what the hek did you say
boooooooooooooooy
This got me crying. Fluke thank you for telling your story and you may not know me but I’m here for you if you ever need someone to talk to because I understand what you’ve been through. You’re a beautiful soul.
I get sad 'till this day when i think about the day that i had to tell my parents that i was a potato
Oh man, don't remind me. But go potato peeps :D
@Paige Pilkinton XD
Romeo Dryke haha
Oh god the hardest thing to tell your parents
The Irish, a great buncha lads
Thank you so much Fluke. Makes me happy to know I'm not alone when it come to not having a happy 'coming out' story. Ours are very similar too, so it made me feel more connected to it as well.
Not to mention that your story is more helpful, seeing how this is sadly what people should expect. "Hope for the best, but prepare for the worst."
I’ve been raised in a Christian family all of my life and when I told them I was gay I was told that I was “confused” and needed to get my feelings right with God. I’ve told my brother, who is the most trustworthy person I know. However, he’s a bit younger than me and I’m not sure if he even remembers that I told him. I wish that I could just move away and be free but I can’t drive due to my visual impairment. At this point I’m just waiting for a guy that doesn’t mind my disability who I can go live with and finally be happy.
Good luck!!!
Wait. Are you also nearsighted?
[King Kobrai] Yep.
I have the same family problem
I wish you the best of luck with finding someone you can live with! :3
This is so touching..... this made me tear a bit..... even tho your parents don’t except you... we all love you fluke.... don’t look down and look at the bad parts.... stay happy and keep making your great content
Thanks Fluke. I cry often thinking about how much it’s gonna hurt my parents and if it’s worth losing everything for. I relate to a lot of what you said. Thanks for sharing bud. You are an inspiration. Much love.
That was heartbreaking. I hope you get better now... *Hugs*
I wanna come out so badly but I'm so fckn scared ;-; I don't even have intolerant parents or friends and still this thought is so frightening
Same ;-;
me too :(
I'm scared too and I have a religious family so if I do i think they will idk kill me?
I feel that. my mom was thankfully totally ok with it
Zane the Wolf, Take your time. If you don’t feel safe coming out, then please do make sure that you can find somewhere safe to be yourself irl. Testing the waters always helps, if they have a negative reaction towards general lgbt, it’s probably best if you don’t. Coming out is hard. I was fortunate enough to have all my family members be accepting and loving. But that didn’t make it any less difficult for me. In some cases they may already suspect you, in others, you may be flipping their whole perspective of you upside-down. Giving people time to adjust after you’ve told them is just as important. I don’t know you or your situation, but if or when you decide to come out, I hope it goes well. Either way, you’ve got at least one person who believes in you.
TLDR; Patients for choosing the time you come out, and patients for after you come out with the people you choose to tell is very important. You got this, I believe in you, hope everything works out. I’d give you a supportive hug rn if I could. Best of luck!
This is so inspiring and heart warming! We love you fluke!!!😭🌈💗💗💗
You were in the military well thank you for serving your country 🦊
Ps:Even though I am not a furry nor am I gay I will still watch your content. I just like it and because we will always accept and appreciate you no matter what you do with your future and career (UA-cam)UwU🦊
"i am not a furry"
*next sentence
"UwU"
hmmmmmm
jk, awesome message dude!
Well I do watch anime mostly Dragon Ball though.
You are a wonderful person thank you for being accepting of not only lgbt but also somthing as "werid" as being a furry lol
We were all there watching furry videos while not being a furry
It's only a matter of time
I’m
Not
A
Furry
Watches most of fluke husky videos lol. You do you mate. But I’m glad there are non furries that don’t bash people
Fluke I can't help but notice how my story is literally the exact same, (Hardcore christian parents, Super trustworthy sister, both your dad and mine used to work in the air force, and I haven't told anyone yet, but I know my parents' and what my sister's reaction is going to be, which my sister is going to be chill and my parents are going to be hella pissed and it's gonna hurt me as much as it hurts them when I come out to them or if my sister told them. Thank you for making this video, now I can ease a little more into coming out since I have been full of anxiety and depression from it. Thank you Thank you Thank you.
Even as a straight bunny, I love the tolerance that the Fandom gives to the LGBT community. In the land of my birth and childhood, Romania, the LGBT people isn't pretty well accepted. Homosexuality wasn't even legal before 2001 in this country. There is so much pressure not only from the Romanian Orthodox Church, but also from local corrupt politicians to block the recognition of LGBT couples. I am still living in Romania, but in August I will emigrate to Germany. I wanted to emigrate quick, but because of the Coronavirus I postponed the emigration on August. Romania is part of Eastern Europe, which is the European equivalent of the Southern States. Very touching video. I ♥️ this.
It’s amazing to see so many allies!
hey! i am also romanian! but one of the worst parts about our country is that gay marriege is now illegal, and trans people can't even get the healthcare they need (from what i heard). i may be a 12 year old but atleast i know what love is, and that it has no labels. I ,myself, am a pansexual, and even tho my mother supports the lgbt+ community, i have a feeling that if i tell her now she would just respond with "you are to young to be pansexual (or gay/trans/lebian/bisexual etc.)". i literally want to emigrate to another country like canada. But it's just horible to see such dense people in our country! I mean, they think it's an ilness if you are gay/trans, kids cant even make themselfs heard without getting shouted at becouse of their "stupid oppinions", if you are different than other people, you are considered weird, and when a woman(or any other person) gets assaulted, people dont care. also, from what i heard, its legal that children can get r*ped by pedophiles, or married with a man WAY older than them, if they get the parents consent. i am so happy that i have a normal familly, but this country really is f*ed up.
Edit: corrected some small mistakes i made
Coming out has been a process for me too, Fluke, I remember wanting the children with the wife and all that other things. Its been a very tough journey for me. Growing up conservative, Christian, its hard because I know how my parents feel about this, and they felt like they did something wrong, but they didn't really do anything, and that I'm changing things. And I don't really like how I'm changing things or changing their lives simply because of it.
Parents are not just one to, "get with the program", it just doesn't work that way. It takes time, compassion and understanding. Empathy. Its a very tough thing. I still struggle with internalized homophobia wrapped around in my head, like for instance, I don't really have the pride flag in my life, because, it just doesn't speak to me as much as it may speak to other people. I can only hope that things get better from here.
That was sad and beautiful. Thank you for sharing. I hope you surround yourself with others who love you.
Hi Fluke, I'm sorry to tell you this, but I completely disagree with you.
At the beginning of the video you say that you don't see yourself as someone of reference, and I think you can't be more wrong.
With this video I can only tell you that you are the best role model, since even and not being accepted by your parents, you decided to be brave and move on. Not giving up on what you liked, and I think that is something that we should all learn, to be ourselves despite the difficulties on our way.
Your profile pic is so cute😁
Aw thats so sweet
hey its not his fault at least he tried ok hes a very good friend to all of us
Sorry for creating such a misunderstanding.
I rlly love Fluke.
What i say about i disagree with him i am not saying it in a bad way, quite the opposite.
What i am saying is that for me, he is now even more a role model than before, because of his bravery.
ALL HE SAID WAS HE DOESNT SEE HIMSELF AS A MODEL TO US GEEZE
You're a wonderful furson and thank you for making such heartfelt videos!!!
I understand how you feel, i hadnt came out to anyone but when my mom came up stairs and saw me wearing girl cloths sleeping in my bed, she woke me up and i got cloths on and talked about it. She wanted to help me and respect me with what i do and who i am. On the other hand i was visiting my dad on christmas day and i told him i was gay. He called me names and crap. I was depressed for awhile but i got over it. If i ever see you irl fluke ima give you a big ol hug
Girls clothes? What's wrong with you
Mad respect fluke :) thanks for the story. Sorry to hear about your parents but so happy that you're glad with everything. I'm gonna subscribe!
I understand how you feel. I was raised by hardcore Christian parents and I'm terrified to tell my parents I am gay or they find out.
You REALLY don't have to tell them. I understand it's a rite of passage, but you really don't have to tell them. I want to be clear, this does NOT mean you are living in the closet, you are just choosing to not tell your parents.
Thanks for the really touching video, it was a great birthday gift :3
At first when I was confused with myself my sister resented me and after 2 years I told her and she said she was close minded and she said she accepted me and it was at a diner hehe and my mom didn't find out till last year and my grandma also
My mom still loves me (I didn't tell her my sister told her, and she hinted at her about me)
And my Grandma found out by my cousin sister and she was surprised not mad but happy surprised
My lifes alright I'm somewhat happy with myself
Amazing video Fluke, you are the bigger man in this situation. You said you don't feel like an inspiration but this video shows you are. Thank you for being you Fluke!
I came out to my siblings and mom 3 days ago and they accepted it well and I hope my dad will to And I was in the closet for almost 16 years and he idk why I'm posting this but I hope your dad learns to accept you fluke also I've only been subscribed for 2 months but your channel has brought me happiness and joy I had not felt in years. You also introduced me to the fandom and I now know how it actually is and am thinking about going to a con! Anyway thanks fluke for doing what you do.
Loved this video! ❤️❤️❤️
Also the thumbnail... HANDSOME boi UwU
I’ve found myself in an extremely similar situation fluke. Grandpas a pastor, whole family is extremely christian and openly not supporting of lgbt folk. Idk what to do but hearing your story helped me see I’m not alone in going through this situation. I’m definitely gonna wait until I’m living on my own to tell them cause I’m scared they’ll kick me out and I’ll have no place to live. I hope everything works out with you and your family, was a very inspirational story.
That’s the sad reality of it in most families. Im straight. Im in a relationship. (My gf is a furry even though im not. But i dont care that she is. That’s besides the point) im 100% in support of the lgbt community because they are a part of this world whether religious assholes like it or not. Im from a catholic family. We have a few relatives that came out. But there’s still that fear that some relatives use religion to cause harm to them. That’s beyond fucked up and only justifies my atheist stance. All i can say to you is to stay true to yourself and if you ever need anyone to help you get through anything, i got you ✊🏼
Hey dude like my friend said, if they truly love you they will accept you
It doesn't matter if they hate LGBT
It matters if they truly love you
DJTV that’s the thing though. There are a ton of verses that justify immoral acts. For example: Leviticus 20:13 specifically states that if man lay with man or woman with woman, they should be killed.
DJTV im more concerned about being an atheist than being a supporter of LGBT rights. I’ve had so many death threats for being atheist that im just not surprised anymore
@DJTV people don't like gays because they see it as weakness and being submissive. They don't like how they act. I personaly don't like fruity/feminine men either which in most cases are gay
Thank you for your service and cool story.
It takes serious resolve to come out to anyone at all, not to mention the bravery it takes to keep going on and continue being yourself despite discord. Thank you so much for making this video, Fluke! And congrats on 50k subs! You deserve all the best!
Hey there Fluke! I only just stumbled across your channel 15 - 20 minutes ago, and after watching your coming out video just now, I couldn't help feeling a connection when you mentioned that you were somewhat of an empathic person...I only just found out that I, myself have strong empathic tendencies a couple of days ago, so I can understand where you were coming from.
I simply can't get enough of your channel, or, for that matter, your upbeat, enthusiastic personality and sense of humor. Keep up the amazing work Fluke!!! Stay awesome!!!
After watching this I feel like i got stabbed in the heart.
Fluke I feel sorry for you and since am also an empathy person.
I somehow, someway understand what it feels like.
karu de woof the only thing you need to feel is having proper grammar lol
@@chri3to it's not best comment
Trying to make a comment at 5am without sleep doesn't help.
Thanks for telling me.
I feel like i've been stabbed in the haart. I mean how much more betrayal can i take?
Be you, because you are amazing!
I just Yeeted my gender confusion at my mum and waited to see how she’d act XD
All went good and my family still loves me if not the same then more
I have removed this reply cos i felt it was innapropriate
Fluke you kind of not the only one that has that kind of incident happen to you there are probably many other people that have or had similar incident an I had a similar experience as well, but it turned out better than I expected , but one thing I regret the most is that I only told it to only a few people except for one person in particular that is very close to me it was my great, great, great grandmother, but it is too late for that now because she had past away an I have been struggling with it ever since then an I miss her with all my heart, but for as long as I have her in my memory then she is not truly gone an like I said earlier you not alone in this an I support in that particular way an I am with you all the way good buddy.
You are amazing and super brave fluke! Wish your videos had been around when I was young. I chose to stay closeted from even myself and gave my entire teens and twenties to self hatred and drugs. Thank you for inspiring a new generation to love themselves the way they are. *gives massive hugs*
I feel you here. I also grew up in a household like yours. Very strict christian family. I came out to my parents first and they didn't respond well. Not bad, but not well. Now with me moving across country to live with my boyfriend as well... They aren't taking it so well. I've been really stressed recently cause of all of this. Hearing you went through literally the same thing I'm going through right now is really encouraging. Thanks for posting this, Fluke. You're awesome.
Fluke, I really loved this video, it means so much to see you so vulnerable and that takes so much courage. We're all here for you. We love you
Your very strong willed Fluke! I wish more of us could be like you!
This is honestly how i thought my parents were going to react.
They didn't even care
Thank you Fluke for sharing, I relate to some parts of your coming out story like telling my sister before telling my parents. I hope that with time your parents will be more accepting of you.
So glad that you are happy with who you are!
I can't hold up the tears anymore when I hear your story with John. 😭 I wasn't expecting that. But man, I hate doing that to someone that's so kind and lovable... I really don't wanna pick a side, because I love everyone and no one has ever done anything wrong to me. 😣
I love seeing your videos tho, Fluke. I also agree that life can't be all happy, because we won't appreciate the good as much as we do now if it's without the bad. The truth is in the middle.
Also, you look adorable, and I think I have a crush on you after watching this video.
Honest and powerful. Thank you for sharing this. All you can do is be loving and be yourself especially with those who struggle to accept you.
A few weeks back, I asked my mother if she would accept me if i were to ever become gay or something (Im bi at the moment but have not told her or anyone) What she said warmed my heart, no matter who I am or what I do, she would accept. She said that my father may have a few issues but surely he will be okay with it. Like you, I was raised in a Christian / Lutheran household tho not as strict, I was scared for a while. With being a furry too, I felt the same way until a year ago when my mother actually approves of me and likes the artwork I have produced. My father, still the same. He thinks that its a tad childish but tolerates it.
That’s so sad I’m sorry you had to go through that Fluke. I’m glad your sister supports you for who you are
You know, you just said you don’t think you’re someone to follow or someone to look up to but...I think you really are, I mean, a person who had the courage to do all of that and keep going, and keep being happy is In fact the kind of person somebody follows. And even if you don’t think so...you just inspired a lot of people to follow their dreams and not let others choose who to be for you.
You are amazing and all of those comments and likes, are only a reminder of how many people love you for who you are and are telling you that it it’s important to be yourself. Keep going...with love Polar
Aw, Fluke... I know how you feel. My parents are also really heavy Christians... When I came out, I had a bad day, I was scared, and I just said it. My parents pretty much guilt tripped me... It hurt, because my parents didn't support me, and still don't. I'm currently 14, so I can't move out yet, and they treat me worse than my sisters, just because of my beliefs. They've admitted to it. It really hurts, but I just keep trucking on... This video is an absolute inspiration for me. Thank you so much Fluke. May the gay furry pride stand loud proud and tall
You’re a very cute!!!!!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I feel your pain, I haven't came out yet but my family is the same in so many ways. I hope you stay safe and healthy and that your relationship with your parents gets better.
You didn’t have to share this story with us but you were able to muster up the courage to do so. This video should give so many people the courage to come out to their loved ones. We love you fluke!
Had to think about commenting and I have to say it is sad that we have such a problem "coming out" or rather just expressing the truth. It will be a great day when this is no longer a difficult issue.
I definitely did not expect something like this when I clicked on this. I was honestly just astonished and left me with a feeling I can't really describe. I just wanted to cry. This is just so beautiful. I can really feel you just spilled your heart out onto everything in this. I just wanna say that I'm glad you're living a much better life now and wish you the best in the future. This is the beauty and honesty I want to see more of. These are the kinds of videos that can change lives. You do way more then you know. Thank you so much.
This is so amazing and very inspiring. I’m 16, male, straight, and also a furry. I am being raised in very Christian family and honestly I can’t blame you. When I told my parents I was furry they accepted me as I am. I will always accept you fluke. Both my mom and dad are Christian and devoted their lives with God as well as my sister and I. I have had an experience with other furries and honestly I have had a lot of fun and parents sees it as a good thing. I’ve watched a lot of these videos and they for sure helped me. You’ve truly inspired me. I want you keep going and even though there maybe people who won’t accept you, just know that as long as you are accepted as who you are you can do anything. Much love and I will continue to watch you
I'm so happy that you ended up following your instincts and live a life of your own, Fluke. Otherwise, we wouldn't have you here at all! I'm very sorry for how your family reacted to your identity, but hey, my parents are still trying to figure out what being asexual is, they belive I'm gay, but at least they accept me. I'm super glad you shared this story with us, we love you and support you! ♥♥♥ Side note, I tried to close my eyes and opened them twice, omg I laughed so loudly when you said you couldn't do it if I was still looking. I kept them closed after that and aaaaaaaaaa the harness!!!!! This interaction was very funny, and made me feel I was close to you, as if 1o1 conversation were going on. Thanks, it raised my mood :)
I haven't been with this channel for long but after watching your videos for a short while I started looking up to you as a role model you exude confidence and have the ability to be who you are on camera and I see that as an amazing thing and it's also good to have stories that are honest and not just uplifting but true and honest thank you for sharing your story and thank you for being a role model even if you don't see it
Everyone has there own heartbreaking story even if it doesn’t look like it.
I Just cried, Hearing that Story, its Just awful imagining the Feeling of that. I Hope you stay Strong Fluke, your Videos are really helping me trough my depressed Phases(bi polar)
Thats a very touching Video.
Thank you for speaking so "Open" about this.
(: Ya my favourit YTber btw.
*JUST* *KEEP* *BEEING* *AWESOME* *!*
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I watch this any time I feel like giving up trying to get out of my christian family, it makes me cry every time and gives me the motivation to keep going, lots of love to you and tirox, keep being amazing and uplifting 💙
Whoever disliked this you need to leave this man is spilling his heart out at you and his audience and you dislike him shaammmee
Novah The Tron fox nobody asked
But I feel the right as a subscriber to do the right thing
Novah The Tron fox creep you like a grown man that kills animals and wears them
@@BeingOfPureHatred wait what?? since when has Fluke done that??
Nobodytoyknow Death nobody asked go ahead and leave if you are gonna insult the creator you might as well leave and return to the repulsing hell hole you call a home and cry in a corner knowing the only way that you will even be noticed in life is for hating on furry UA-camrs comment sections.
Thanks for sharing this story. Someone struggling with self-acceptance will see this and it will help them get through it. (like, them comments, wow)
Every story about getting through pain like this erodes people's misconceptions about sexuality and makes it easier for folks in the future.
Keep being yourself, and keep making content that shows others there is a way to be yourself and still be happy.
No tengas miedo de mostrar como, quien eres y por qué eres así, solo se tú mismo
Posdata:eres muy tierno
very touching, takes a hell of a man to tell thousands of people you've never met how you really feel on the inside, respect.
This Was Truly a wonderful video straight forward, no sugar coating, and just very positive overall. Takes Courage to make these videos and Fluke Was A Brave Doggo Too Talk about this Semi sad embarrassing story. Big thanks too you Fluke The Husky here have a some bread 🍞
Fluke wow! ThisPup is totz craying over this... so great and emotional!! Very nice thanixies fur your story and the message!
*sees the thumbnail*
*looks for a bit longer*
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|Bism1Mark are you a printer?
@@gabrymine7188 I'm a printer? I could? I don't know what that is to be a Printer?!?!!???!! 😅
@@IBims1Mark im searching for alien printers that whant to role the world
Things you can add:
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I’m glad you chose your path and thank you for sharing your story you a strong boi and we’re all glad that your here today and we will never ever leave your side we all support you
I think this 4-year old video found me at the exact time it should have. I think, that I just might, MIGHT, be bisexual. I think this vid gives me a bit of a comforting feeling knowing that I'm not the only one in this kind of situation.
Even though you probably won't see this comment, thank you Fluke, I appreciate your honesty on YT.
I’m happy it was the right video that appeared to you at the right time. ❤️
@@FlukeHusky OMG you replied! Thank you! I mean it! 🙏
Thanks for being strong fluke. Love the videos. Keep it up.
Fluke the fandom is like a family to me my aunt is heavily religious i understand the pain of it but there missing one thing god would forgive lgbt+ anyway its what ive been told
Even though I don’t really follow any religion I’ve been told that god forgives anyone so if you tell her that maybe she’ll learn to accept and forgive you. Anyway good luck
The one and only passage that is anti-lgbt in the bible is debunked. The part where it says man shall not lay with man had a word in it that could either pass for man or boy in the original language. It was mistranslated but it was intended to say man shall not lay with boy, to be against pedophilia, not homosexual.
@@soupdrinker same goes for world peace it can be achieved we must work for it tho
Thanks for sharing your story. It’s something a lot of people need to hear.
I actually almost started crying watching this.
Hoow explain plz how
Brave and strong boyo -give comforting hug-
"I'm not bi or gay, But my twin sister is. She's also the person that introduced me to the furry fandom and inspired me to make a fursuit of my own! just finished by the way! So I'm in full support of you and any other's like yourself. Like I said, I'm not bi or gay, but I have autism and adhd, and my friends don't know and I'm not sure how to tell them. Any suggestions?
Live a life you will remember and always stay strong my friend
"I was raised a hard-core Christian family"
Oh.
Shit.
I mean my family aint hard core on Christianity, but still christian ✝️
Same
my parents are Catholics and they dont care that im a furry
Yeah the moment I heard that, it was like being punched.
I can't tell my mom and dad but my sister knows and she is 25 years old
Fluke. Your amazing. For people of all kinds I would say that the things you do help other people. If you can stand in front of people and talk about personal stuff in you life. That’s amazing. To the videos you make and the people that hate, you are a true man. I mean even admitting that you like guys in front of your parent and for them not being proud of you. It takes hart to say stuff like that, and for you to get back up and keep liven life, you are a awesome person. And I thank you for helping me too with life.
"how I came out of depression"
*Thanks for watching!*
Your name perfectly describes this comment
@@bingus6437 My name describes my life
Fluke, you just rock on being you. Big hugs.
You are far from alone. It’s sad that people expect others to act a certain way and they make a big deal out of something as personal as your sexuality or believes.