Alex you should be so proud of yourself. You have accomplished so much. You’re such a wonderful human being. I think you’re well loved by many. Love you to pieces…
I have 6.5 years sober. I as well struggle with mental health issues. Getting sober was imperative for my life! Congrats to you Alex. It’s quite an accomplishment
I’ve definitely seen your relationship get more solid this year and it has absolutely shown through in your videos and social content. I’ve truly enjoyed those intros of little Victoria. Thanks for putting those together Alex.
My husband and I have been married for 33 years and we have no children. I don’t regret that at all. I love babies but I’m always happy to hand them back. I find it’s other people who have a problem with our decision. I get asked quite often, and when I say we have no children I’m usually met with silence or a quick change of conversation. Or even worse, they might say “oh, we couldn’t be without our children. We love them so much”. That’s very hurtful, it’s implying we’re in the wrong 🤔
Im hoping that sort of mindset will begin to change soon. I mean it has to - so so many places in the world have such low birth numbers now that soon it won’t be so unusual to say you’re not having kids. I’ve only ever had one or two people be a bit taken aback by saying we’re happily not having kids - luckily most people are super normal about it. I also have about six very close couples to us who all don’t want children - I’m sort of positively hoping there’s a change in perceptions coming for the masses soon x
I don’t think it is wrong for someone to voice their opinion and say they couldn’t be without their kids … it’s how they feel … just like it is how you feel about not wanting kids
That's how you feel and your insecurity if you are affected by what others with kids say. Of course you would hand them back because they are not YOUR kids. You would feel different with your own kids than other people's kids but this feeling you would only know after having kids so no one can make you understand I am afraid.
@@EJH989 not everyone feels different about their own kids. unfortunately many people have kids and regret it. not everyone should have kids and that's ok. mind your own business.
I love how respectful it is Alex of your work and how much you admire his. I feel that in order to have a healthy relationship is better to keep your jobs separate even though you work together. Happy holidays to both.
My husband and I don't go to bed at the same time. He works late and when he comes home he needs time to decompress. In the beginning it bothered me, but once I realized it had nothing to do with me and it was actually a need for him, I just started going to bed when I wanted, giving him his time to play games and talk with his friends. Now I just go to bed feeling excited knowing that I will wake up with him next to me! I love morning snuggles 🥰 Sharing this to say that not everything needs compromise and all couples are different ☺️
ALEX Please you need to know there is no one in this space that does it like you do. Please know this. Your talent is beyond. I would love to see some things created by him, in this channel, not related specifically to Vic, but just pure creativity. Much love ❤❤❤
Congratulations Alex for not drinking. I haven't had a drink in 20 years and I don't miss it all. So glad that everything is going so well for the two of you. Thank you so much for sharing.
These vids are always so helpful for people in a relationship with someone ADHD! My, The Husband and I have been together for nearly 14 years, and have learned how to manage. We both are 3 years sober now and it has done absolute wonders for our relationship but would love if he would watch more of Alex talking about it because he would relate so much to just about everything he said. I'm going to have to replay this for him. I actually had to unfollow so many creators because the drinking was just so in your face all the time, it's hard to watch once you gain new perspective on it and see how it changes so many people's mental health and rational thinking. I appreciate you guys showing insight into what marriage really is like-cause it ain't all rainbows and unicorns all the time, it takes work, lots of love, and communication like you said. Thanks again you two!
This was so good. Wow you guys discussed real marital challenges and thank you for both being so honest. I loved it! Alex should definitely join in more. Love you guys and merry Christmas 🎄🎁 best vlogmas goes to you guys!!!!!
I love seeing you both from time to time, also adore the inserts in the editing. This is Alex's way of being in the video without being in it at the same time ... ✨Hope this makes sense, love it anyway! And Victoria, true, your positive, intense raw energy is inspiring 🌟
Hi Victoria and Alex. You have each other. Children are a great responsibility. Nobody should tell couples to have children. They know themselves. Good luck, Alex, with your journey.
Any man that says “I will always put you before myself” is impressive, it obviously works both ways ☺️ of course, but the wisdom you show in your relationship is beautiful ❤ and Beau is the cherry 😂 xx
Yes Alex filming and photography is amazing. I can see how much you both complement each other. And I think it’s endearing when you call him “the husband”.
So happy that Alex was able to join you with him not feeling so great. Alex you’re a rock star editor! Feel better soon Victorias husband. Victoria you are born to be in the spotlight and a true gem 💎. I’ve seen you grow so much over this year with making good decisions for your mental health which truly is your greatest wealth. So much respect for the both of you. Merry Christmas 🎄✨❤
Love watching you two so much, it's such a breath of fresh air to see Alex so... I'm not sure what the word is... authentic and confident, maybe? He seems so in tune with himself and emotionally intelligent. As someone who has done their fair share of therapy, I find it so reassuring to see someone else whose done the work and has come so far. I'm intrigued to see how this dynamic will continue in the future.
I love how real both of you are about your relationship. The honesty is refreshing, and its clear how much you love each other and continue to have a growth mindset at evolving
Dear Victoria- I just wanted to drop in here and say that you are hands-down my favorite content creator. Your videos are my comfort show. Anytime I’m feeling a bit down or sad, I pop on one of your videos and instantly makes me feel better. The work that you and Alex do together truely does bring joy and happiness to other people, even all the way across the pond here in the US. Wishing you both the happiest of holidays!!!
I think you are an AMAZING couple. The work ethic, the creativity, the kindness, the love of life is infectious for me. I'm so glad that Alex has found a new path and that your relationship is growing more and more. I also REALLY appreciate all of the effort and work you put into every SINGLE video or vlog you do!! Finally I absolutely LOVE BEAU THE DOG!!!! Watching the way he was looking at the two of you through this vlog was so beyond sweet and full of love. XOX From Ireland
I see huge differences between the two of you. Just be careful and continue to listen to eachother. You have a long way to go yet and you share a heck of a lot with the public. Xx
Oh I know we share a lot but I feel we share the right things - that could help others. If I influence someone to go and get a diagnosis for something they’ve struggled with for years, then I’m doing a much better job than just selling a piece of knitwear to someone :) xx
Alex is an amazing editor! Would love to see some of his other work but what you have between the two of you is very special and I think it shows in the videos. You're definitely the ying to the others yang. Happy Christmas, I've loved watching vlogmas this year
You have done a fantastic job on the vlogs alex. Love the honesty of this video, you both have smashed it! Appreciate the huge effort that has went into vlogmas, enjoyed every one of them ❤ xx
I really appreciate the discussion of working through arguments or difficult conversations and putting into perspective if someone's at 20, the other tries to be at 80. That's absolutely what my husband and I do, but that's a great way to describe it. Also, the conversation regarding children - we also don't want to have kids, we love our lives together. Though kids are wonderful and adorable we don't want to introduce that change into our lives. Lastly - YOUR HAIR IS GORGEOUS IN EVERY WAY AND INSANELY PROUD OF ALEX!!
Thank you so muchh for this open and vulnerable conversation of you two!! Alex and you are adorable, and deserve all the love and health you are working for🫶
At first I felt defensive for Vic re: husband nickname, and then for Alex for his adhd, and then for you both re: children question, then at the end - I teared up when you were appreciating each other. Love you guys! ❤
Really enjoyed your chat! Authentic. Great to see Alex understand his brain and put positive things in place. Wishing you a great christmas and new year. 🎉
Loved it, so open and wonderful interaction between you and Alex. It is never easy to open up and own stuff and both of you came across so real and I wish you two all the success. Relationships are work in progress and I truly believe when we stop ‘working’ on relationship something is not where it should be…just personally speaking, so keep working and making life beautiful ❤
My husband and I are in exactly in the same position as you guys about kids. Also who's to say we'll still be alive at 60? Life is short and unpredictable. Live every day doing what you want to do. There's nothing selfish about living your life for you ❤
What a great surprise to see Alex today❤️such a lovely, heartfelt, down to earth discussion and I loved it to pieces! Victoria, the way you look at Alex when he’s speaking is pure love😘the way Alex speaks about you Victoria, also forever love🥰
💯 agree that in arguments you need to remove your ego essentially and dial up the empathy for the other person. I've now been married for 36 years and we lived together for 5 years before that. Remembering why you love your partner is everything. Well done on working on your relationship. ❤
Love when you say "the husband", it's beautiful that you call him that! Don't come to BC, canada, if you have a problem with the weather!!! It's rain and dark from November to March!!! It's so sad
You two are an amazing couple, and I love seeing how you’ve grown closer together this year! Thank you for being willing to discuss all of these topics with us, and I find it very inspiring! Love you guys! ❤❤❤
You're both lovely. Nice to see Alex once in a while, when he's comfortable. I'm in Canada now, you'd love it, but there's always home when you need it. I've needed it. When we retire, there will be, Canada, UK, and Japan. So so much to do. Merry Christmas ❤
Why isn't more people like you,so honest, down to earth ,I just love and adore both of you. And I in love with Alex's woice Happy Christmas Andy all the best for future xxx
I always find the “do you think you’ll regret not having children” question quite rude. I’d never asked someone if they regretted having their children!
When I see you and Alex it just fills me with so much joy to see another couple very happy together without children. It makes me feel very seen that you guys are so open about it. You’re also so cute together! ❤
Alex is an amazing editor! You cannot run yourselves into the ground for the sake of vlogging. I know its your careers, but your mental and physical wellness must be a priority, individually and as a couple. Love your honesty. If you decided to have a child, you would absolutely would be amazing! You could afford a bit of help so you could rest a bit when needed. I think you would both surprise yourselves. But, enjoy life and eachother!!! Life goes fast.
Love this vlog thank you for talking about mental health it’s so important and just reminds people like me we’re not alone . Sending so much love hope you have a lovely Christmas xxx
Oh my goodness!!!! I have to agree with you Victoria. Alex is probably THE most talented human being in his field. He has a natural eye for film (both static and video) that is a gift straight from God. You cannot learn what he does from a book. The ideas and outcome of videos and photography is WORLD CLASS!!!! Truly! Alex: to add how humble you are is, priceless! Victoria, your tenacity shines through every single video! Your love for what you do, your mind for business and a genuine understanding of what makes people tick, is your secret sauce to your success for sure! Even though this is your channel, Victoria, it’s always wonderful having Alex comment or show face on your videos, as he is a part of you and you make the most spectacular team both in work and in your marriage. Thank you for the most entertaining and visually pleasing Vlogmas videos this year, they have been great. I love every intro and appreciate the hours and hours, if not days and days of work put into every intro and outro. Have a blessed Christmas, you are both almost at the finish line to the end of Vlogmas.😊😊😊🎉
Well done 👏 You’re both so brave, to give such a lot of your own personal feelings as a couple to your subscribers Victoria is amazing 🥰. We all love you, and I am always waiting eagerly for your next vlog. Victoria, you’re such a whirlwind of positive energy. You’re beautiful, kind, funny and extremely talented. Alex is also kind, funny and extremely talented. His editing is the best. It’s a match made in heaven. I know it’s your channel Victoria but, as you say, it’s good for us to see Alex too. Thank you for sharing 🥰. I’m looking forward to seeing you next year, when I have a feeling you’re going to surprise us all with a few new projects. 😎
Lovely video. Not one you'd maybe expect to see at Christmas, yet perfect for Christmas as this time of year sees so many couples stressed and at each others throats. I commend you for your openness and honesty. I agree too, that if your marriage was not in a good place, kids would have torn you apart--they are not the "bandaids"(plasters) for relationships that some couples use them as. Glad you have reached this level of respect and acceptance at this stage in your marriage. I've been married 42 yrs to THE HUSBAND and there are always peaks and valleys----as long as you don't go off the cliff, you're ahead:).
Amazing couple going through life supporting each other through thick and thin, love your vlogs and love the work Alex does too! Have a great festive season from Australia 😁🎉🎄☀️
Absolutely loved this video and teared up at the end with your genuine appreciation of one another. Its so beautiful to see your relationship growth and how many positive changes you've seen this year! It's apparent your communication style has really evolved and its so refreshing to see a genuine relationship online speaking about the difficult times and how you support one another. Thank you for sharing and wishing you a very Happy Christmas 💕🎄
I have to agree with Victoria about Alex's talent. It's so rare that I will follow a creators husband/partner on their socials but I was blown away by Alex's talent that I followed him on Instagram too (gosh years ago now) and I really enjoy the things he posts, the photography, the Q&As etc. Will say though, that Alex's comment was spot on too, I don't think I follow another creator who is quite as relentless in their pursuit of their goals as Vic but who also never allows the quality to drop and maintains such a consistency in content but also shows growth. Obviously this is an outside perspective and I don't doubt you've had ups and downs and successes and failures along the way but you've both done a fantastic job in building the life you want. You should be very proud. May 2025 bring you everything you want and more!
Definitely share the exact same love language la as you Vic. In the same order 😂. Great video and amazing job with the intros Alex, definitely the best of all the vlogmases I’ve seen. Love you guys ❤
I love the Q&A and hope you do more together. I loved hearing how you worked out things in your relationship. It’s nice to hear Alex speak on how he manages your busy go go schedule and knows his limit. Many people don’t know or can’t figure it out and burn out. I think both of you are very talented in your professions and make it work by talking things out. I’ve chosen not to have kids so I understand the questions. But I feel it’s better to go with how I feel than to feel pressured by society or family and end up unhappy or not a good parent. That would not be fair to the child. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy your career, travel, or just having the freedom to do what you want. It’s not selfish. I agree it would not be right just to have kids to have them take care of you in your senior years. The both of you know what you want and it may change but you’re happy now so everyone should be happy for you. Have a very Merry Christmas!! 😀🎄
Victoria. Thank you to you and the husband , Alex for your honesty surrounding the kid question. I have heard you speak of this before. And I greatly respect and admire you. Please know your honesty, humility, and devotion to your self , your husband and your life means a lot to me. It helps me navigate my life in my own brain. And to not be so hard on my self. So you’re making an impact on others ..always 🫶 also you both have an amazing & genuine connection. It’s beautiful to see
I feel like the female version of Alex. Haha. The fact he said what was the question again. The rejection sensitivity, the weather affecting my moods! Oh I can so relate! ❤ My husband is like vic...just go go go. And we're childfree millennials. Also discussing kids. The reason that your kids will be cute is the wrong reason to have kids . Partner and I have gone through the same motions. 😅 Love to you both
Please could you share the link for the adhd video? My husband sounds so much like Alex and is considering pursuing a diagnosis so we’d be really interested in hearing you talk about it more. Thanks x
Awww . I love that Alex . He’s a talented man, really good to hear both sides and understand the dynamics actually. Healthy balance of work and lifestyle is the key for mental health! Good Tidings to you both 😊
I haven’t watched your vids for a while. I found your relationship triggering if I’m honest. But I clicked on this just to see. I am so pleased for you both. To see how hard you have worked on yourselves in order to have respect for each other and yourselves. So pleased for you both ❤
Such a lovely real and honest chat, also great to get so much of Alex's thoughts. As a childfree by choice 40 year old, I get asked similar things but I have a million reasons why children arnt right for me, but if I wanted one enough those reasons wouldn't matter... so obviously I don't want one so I shouldn't have one.
I agree about Alex’s talent..... he is so good at what he does and doesn’t realise just how good he is! A very talented couple ❤
Alex you should be so proud of yourself. You have accomplished so much. You’re such a wonderful human being. I think you’re well loved by many. Love you to pieces…
Amen ❤
Totally agree ❤
I have 6.5 years sober. I as well struggle with mental health issues. Getting sober was imperative for my life! Congrats to you Alex. It’s quite an accomplishment
I’ve definitely seen your relationship get more solid this year and it has absolutely shown through in your videos and social content. I’ve truly enjoyed those intros of little Victoria. Thanks for putting those together Alex.
My husband and I have been married for 33 years and we have no children. I don’t regret that at all. I love babies but I’m always happy to hand them back. I find it’s other people who have a problem with our decision. I get asked quite often, and when I say we have no children I’m usually met with silence or a quick change of conversation. Or even worse, they might say “oh, we couldn’t be without our children. We love them so much”. That’s very hurtful, it’s implying we’re in the wrong 🤔
Im hoping that sort of mindset will begin to change soon. I mean it has to - so so many places in the world have such low birth numbers now that soon it won’t be so unusual to say you’re not having kids. I’ve only ever had one or two people be a bit taken aback by saying we’re happily not having kids - luckily most people are super normal about it. I also have about six very close couples to us who all don’t want children - I’m sort of positively hoping there’s a change in perceptions coming for the masses soon x
I don’t think it is wrong for someone to voice their opinion and say they couldn’t be without their kids … it’s how they feel … just like it is how you feel about not wanting kids
That's how you feel and your insecurity if you are affected by what others with kids say. Of course you would hand them back because they are not YOUR kids. You would feel different with your own kids than other people's kids but this feeling you would only know after having kids so no one can make you understand I am afraid.
@@EJH989 not everyone feels different about their own kids. unfortunately many people have kids and regret it. not everyone should have kids and that's ok. mind your own business.
@@katie8325 see defensive much. Funny those without kids gets sensitive about this or are more bothered than those with kids.
I love how respectful it is Alex of your work and how much you admire his. I feel that in order to have a healthy relationship is better to keep your jobs separate even though you work together. Happy holidays to both.
My husband and I don't go to bed at the same time. He works late and when he comes home he needs time to decompress. In the beginning it bothered me, but once I realized it had nothing to do with me and it was actually a need for him, I just started going to bed when I wanted, giving him his time to play games and talk with his friends. Now I just go to bed feeling excited knowing that I will wake up with him next to me! I love morning snuggles 🥰 Sharing this to say that not everything needs compromise and all couples are different ☺️
ALEX Please you need to know there is no one in this space that does it like you do. Please know this. Your talent is beyond. I would love to see some things created by him, in this channel, not related specifically to Vic, but just pure creativity. Much love ❤❤❤
I can tell Alex has done a tremendous amount of work around self-awareness and his boundaries, and he is communicating them kindly. Bravo!
Congratulations Alex for not drinking. I haven't had a drink in 20 years and I don't miss it all. So glad that everything is going so well for the two of you. Thank you so much for sharing.
These vids are always so helpful for people in a relationship with someone ADHD! My, The Husband and I have been together for nearly 14 years, and have learned how to manage. We both are 3 years sober now and it has done absolute wonders for our relationship but would love if he would watch more of Alex talking about it because he would relate so much to just about everything he said. I'm going to have to replay this for him. I actually had to unfollow so many creators because the drinking was just so in your face all the time, it's hard to watch once you gain new perspective on it and see how it changes so many people's mental health and rational thinking. I appreciate you guys showing insight into what marriage really is like-cause it ain't all rainbows and unicorns all the time, it takes work, lots of love, and communication like you said. Thanks again you two!
This was so good. Wow you guys discussed real marital challenges and thank you for both being so honest. I loved it! Alex should definitely join in more. Love you guys and merry Christmas 🎄🎁 best vlogmas goes to you guys!!!!!
I love seeing you both from time to time, also adore the inserts in the editing. This is Alex's way of being in the video without being in it at the same time ... ✨Hope this makes sense, love it anyway! And Victoria, true, your positive, intense raw energy is inspiring 🌟
Hi Victoria and Alex. You have each other. Children are a great responsibility. Nobody should tell couples to have children. They know themselves. Good luck, Alex, with your journey.
100% agree!😊
Exactly it’s not for everyone and people shouldn’t push it on people
I love this comment. "Nobody should tell couples to have children". Amen 🙏
Any man that says “I will always put you before myself” is impressive, it obviously works both ways ☺️ of course, but the wisdom you show in your relationship is beautiful ❤ and Beau is the cherry 😂 xx
Yes Alex filming and photography is amazing. I can see how much you both complement each other. And I think it’s endearing when you call him “the husband”.
So happy that Alex was able to join you with him not feeling so great.
Alex you’re a rock star editor!
Feel better soon Victorias husband.
Victoria you are born to be in the spotlight and a true gem 💎. I’ve seen you grow so much over this year with making good decisions for your mental health which truly is your greatest wealth.
So much respect for the both of you.
Merry Christmas 🎄✨❤
Merry Christmas lovely xx
@@VictoriaMagrath, 🎄✨❤
Love watching you two so much, it's such a breath of fresh air to see Alex so... I'm not sure what the word is... authentic and confident, maybe? He seems so in tune with himself and emotionally intelligent. As someone who has done their fair share of therapy, I find it so reassuring to see someone else whose done the work and has come so far. I'm intrigued to see how this dynamic will continue in the future.
My goodness when the video ended I started crying. So much love, honesty and passion the world needs more of. ❤
OMFG you two are so flippin' cute! Lots of love! Thank you so much for all your hard work.
I love how real both of you are about your relationship. The honesty is refreshing, and its clear how much you love each other and continue to have a growth mindset at evolving
It is so inspirational to see how much effort you both put into your relationship ❤
Thank you so much for being so honest and open - its nice to see the real things that happen in a relationship and that it isn’t always perfect xxxx
Dear Victoria-
I just wanted to drop in here and say that you are hands-down my favorite content creator. Your videos are my comfort show. Anytime I’m feeling a bit down or sad, I pop on one of your videos and instantly makes me feel better. The work that you and Alex do together truely does bring joy and happiness to other people, even all the way across the pond here in the US. Wishing you both the happiest of holidays!!!
I already stopped the video at 1:27 just to admire your look and how Alex is looking at you! These looks in his eyes to you 😍😍
I think you are an AMAZING couple. The work ethic, the creativity, the kindness, the love of life is infectious for me. I'm so glad that Alex has found a new path and that your relationship is growing more and more. I also REALLY appreciate all of the effort and work you put into every SINGLE video or vlog you do!! Finally I absolutely LOVE BEAU THE DOG!!!! Watching the way he was looking at the two of you through this vlog was so beyond sweet and full of love. XOX From Ireland
This has just been the best 💜🙏🏻
Ahhh thank you!! xx
I see huge differences between the two of you. Just be careful and continue to listen to eachother. You have a long way to go yet and you share a heck of a lot with the public. Xx
Oh I know we share a lot but I feel we share the right things - that could help others. If I influence someone to go and get a diagnosis for something they’ve struggled with for years, then I’m doing a much better job than just selling a piece of knitwear to someone :) xx
Alex is an amazing editor! Would love to see some of his other work but what you have between the two of you is very special and I think it shows in the videos. You're definitely the ying to the others yang. Happy Christmas, I've loved watching vlogmas this year
You’re both so generous with sharing! We all can relate & learn from each other. Thank you for your positive and inspiring vibes. ❤️🥰
i was so excited for this video i paused another episode of vic's vlogmas lol, just me cooking dinner & doing some catchup 😂
haha love this xx
You have done a fantastic job on the vlogs alex. Love the honesty of this video, you both have smashed it! Appreciate the huge effort that has went into vlogmas, enjoyed every one of them ❤ xx
I really appreciate the discussion of working through arguments or difficult conversations and putting into perspective if someone's at 20, the other tries to be at 80. That's absolutely what my husband and I do, but that's a great way to describe it. Also, the conversation regarding children - we also don't want to have kids, we love our lives together. Though kids are wonderful and adorable we don't want to introduce that change into our lives. Lastly - YOUR HAIR IS GORGEOUS IN EVERY WAY AND INSANELY PROUD OF ALEX!!
Thank you so muchh for this open and vulnerable conversation of you two!! Alex and you are adorable, and deserve all the love and health you are working for🫶
Alex you do a great job editing these videos.
Boe's definitely the star of this one hehe. Also, love the honesty in this! It was definitely my favourite so far. ❤
haha always xx
At first I felt defensive for Vic re: husband nickname, and then for Alex for his adhd, and then for you both re: children question, then at the end - I teared up when you were appreciating each other. Love you guys! ❤
Really enjoyed your chat! Authentic. Great to see Alex understand his brain and put positive things in place. Wishing you a great christmas and new year. 🎉
Loved it, so open and wonderful interaction between you and Alex. It is never easy to open up and own stuff and both of you came across so real and I wish you two all the success. Relationships are work in progress and I truly believe when we stop ‘working’ on relationship something is not where it should be…just personally speaking, so keep working and making life beautiful ❤
My husband and I are in exactly in the same position as you guys about kids. Also who's to say we'll still be alive at 60? Life is short and unpredictable. Live every day doing what you want to do. There's nothing selfish about living your life for you ❤
Oh guys I’m going to miss vlogmas so much. Love love love seeing u guys most days ❤
I love it when you call him husband I think it is so endearing
okay okay now I'm literally crying!!! You both are incredibly amazing and such a huge inspiration! Love your openness so much!
What a great surprise to see Alex today❤️such a lovely, heartfelt, down to earth discussion and I loved it to pieces! Victoria, the way you look at Alex when he’s speaking is pure love😘the way Alex speaks about you Victoria, also forever love🥰
Thanks for sharing so much on a personal level. You both seem so much lighter and more comfortable in your own skin. Happy Holidays!
💯 agree that in arguments you need to remove your ego essentially and dial up the empathy for the other person. I've now been married for 36 years and we lived together for 5 years before that. Remembering why you love your partner is everything. Well done on working on your relationship. ❤
I love you both!! So happy you’ve came out of this journey stronger than ever! Truly admirable to stick through the tough times ❤❤
I absolutely adore how you call Alex, The Husband ❤
Thankyou lovely! It’s just sort of stuck now 🥰 xx
I think you’re both so inspiring! Alex you have so many of us on your team, cheering you on from the sidelines ❤️
I love how honest you both are especially to us watching, you are a perfect couple but still human and normal xxx
Ahhh the way you guys look at each other ❤Wishing you all the happiness in the world!
Love when you say "the husband", it's beautiful that you call him that!
Don't come to BC, canada, if you have a problem with the weather!!! It's rain and dark from November to March!!! It's so sad
That depends on where you live in BC … not always that way … there is certainly sunshine around and clear skies
Quality over quantity. Such a lovely chat. Love Alex knowing where his limits are. You guys are fab x
You two are an amazing couple, and I love seeing how you’ve grown closer together this year! Thank you for being willing to discuss all of these topics with us, and I find it very inspiring! Love you guys! ❤❤❤
You're both lovely. Nice to see Alex once in a while, when he's comfortable. I'm in Canada now, you'd love it, but there's always home when you need it. I've needed it. When we retire, there will be, Canada, UK, and Japan. So so much to do. Merry Christmas ❤
Why isn't more people like you,so honest, down to earth ,I just love and adore both of you. And I in love with Alex's woice Happy Christmas Andy all the best for future xxx
Looking forward to watching this! Your makeup is stunning Victoria ❤
So kind thank you lovely xx
Wow, your makeup in this vlog Victoria was stunning 🌟🫶🏽
I always find the “do you think you’ll regret not having children” question quite rude. I’d never asked someone if they regretted having their children!
When I see you and Alex it just fills me with so much joy to see another couple very happy together without children. It makes me feel very seen that you guys are so open about it. You’re also so cute together! ❤
What a georgeous video. By far, this is my fav one you've done!
Also omg more Alex in videos and the “dumb stuff inserted in the videos” just make them, please dont stop! Always geta good laugh ❤
Alex is super talented and Victoria is very driven that makes a perfect successful team. You guys are lovely ❤
Alex is an amazing editor! You cannot run yourselves into the ground for the sake of vlogging. I know its your careers, but your mental and physical wellness must be a priority, individually and as a couple. Love your honesty. If you decided to have a child, you would absolutely would be amazing! You could afford a bit of help so you could rest a bit when needed. I think you would both surprise yourselves. But, enjoy life and eachother!!! Life goes fast.
So proud of Alex and especially proud of you both. As so someone who choose not to have kids, I have no regrets and I love my life. ❤❤
Love this vlog thank you for talking about mental health it’s so important and just reminds people like me we’re not alone . Sending so much love hope you have a lovely Christmas xxx
Loved this vlog! You are both so authentic. Merry Christmas 🎅
Oh my goodness!!!!
I have to agree with you Victoria. Alex is probably THE most talented human being in his field. He has a natural eye for film (both static and video) that is a gift straight from God. You cannot learn what he does from a book. The ideas and outcome of videos and photography is WORLD CLASS!!!! Truly!
Alex: to add how humble you are is, priceless!
Victoria, your tenacity shines through every single video! Your love for what you do, your mind for business and a genuine understanding of what makes people tick, is your secret sauce to your success for sure!
Even though this is your channel, Victoria, it’s always wonderful having Alex comment or show face on your videos, as he is a part of you and you make the most spectacular team both in work and in your marriage.
Thank you for the most entertaining and visually pleasing Vlogmas videos this year, they have been great. I love every intro and appreciate the hours and hours, if not days and days of work put into every intro and outro.
Have a blessed Christmas, you are both almost at the finish line to the end of Vlogmas.😊😊😊🎉
Love the honesty and realness, disagreements and all, but there is so much love❤ best of the wishes for both you!
I’m so sad there’s only 1 left 😢 but I hope Alex feels better
starting to thank goodness!! xx
Hearing about Alex's experience having adhd is really validating.
This was so lovely - and I struggled so much to stop focusing on your beautiful, beautiful dog!!! Thank you guys 🤍🤍
children are not the be all and end all! Enjoy life
this is absolutely my favorite video I've watched this season, thank you Alex for gracing us with your presence!! you guys are a beautiful couple 💓
Well done 👏 You’re both so brave, to give such a lot of your own personal feelings as a couple to your subscribers Victoria is amazing 🥰. We all love you, and I am always waiting eagerly for your next vlog. Victoria, you’re such a whirlwind of positive energy. You’re beautiful, kind, funny and extremely talented. Alex is also kind, funny and extremely talented. His editing is the best. It’s a match made in heaven. I know it’s your channel Victoria but, as you say, it’s good for us to see Alex too. Thank you for sharing 🥰. I’m looking forward to seeing you next year, when I have a feeling you’re going to surprise us all with a few new projects. 😎
I just love love the intro it's the best I've seen so far of all the creators
Thankyou so so much!! X
Trinity from the matrix 😂😊❤. I love you both being in the vlogs! So happy you two are healing and are the happiest you have ever been together. ❤
Thank you for sharing this lovely and honest chat. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to both of you❤
You two are sooooooo adorable. And Boe too❤❤❤
Lovely video. Not one you'd maybe expect to see at Christmas, yet perfect for Christmas as this time of year sees so many couples stressed and at each others throats. I commend you for your openness and honesty. I agree too, that if your marriage was not in a good place, kids would have torn you apart--they are not the "bandaids"(plasters) for relationships that some couples use them as. Glad you have reached this level of respect and acceptance at this stage in your marriage. I've been married 42 yrs to THE HUSBAND and there are always peaks and valleys----as long as you don't go off the cliff, you're ahead:).
Amazing couple going through life supporting each other through thick and thin, love your vlogs and love the work Alex does too! Have a great festive season from Australia 😁🎉🎄☀️
Absolutely loved this video and teared up at the end with your genuine appreciation of one another. Its so beautiful to see your relationship growth and how many positive changes you've seen this year! It's apparent your communication style has really evolved and its so refreshing to see a genuine relationship online speaking about the difficult times and how you support one another. Thank you for sharing and wishing you a very Happy Christmas 💕🎄
Thank you both for so much insight on not having children. I'm currently grappling with this question and hearing your POV has been helpful!
I have to agree with Victoria about Alex's talent. It's so rare that I will follow a creators husband/partner on their socials but I was blown away by Alex's talent that I followed him on Instagram too (gosh years ago now) and I really enjoy the things he posts, the photography, the Q&As etc. Will say though, that Alex's comment was spot on too, I don't think I follow another creator who is quite as relentless in their pursuit of their goals as Vic but who also never allows the quality to drop and maintains such a consistency in content but also shows growth. Obviously this is an outside perspective and I don't doubt you've had ups and downs and successes and failures along the way but you've both done a fantastic job in building the life you want. You should be very proud. May 2025 bring you everything you want and more!
You are so inspiring as individuals as well as a couple. Bless you.
You guys have the number 1 problem in marriages taken care of.... Communication! You communicate with each other very well. Keep it up!
Definitely share the exact same love language la as you Vic. In the same order 😂. Great video and amazing job with the intros Alex, definitely the best of all the vlogmases I’ve seen. Love you guys ❤
Always such a treat watching you two as well as inspiring. Wishing you Alex and Bo the most joy bringing holiday season and a very merry new year!!
Loved seeing the husband in the video's and getting to know him more!
I love the Q&A and hope you do more together. I loved hearing how you worked out things in your relationship. It’s nice to hear Alex speak on how he manages your busy go go schedule and knows his limit. Many people don’t know or can’t figure it out and burn out. I think both of you are very talented in your professions and make it work by talking things out. I’ve chosen not to have kids so I understand the questions. But I feel it’s better to go with how I feel than to feel pressured by society or family and end up unhappy or not a good parent. That would not be fair to the child. And there’s nothing wrong with wanting to enjoy your career, travel, or just having the freedom to do what you want. It’s not selfish. I agree it would not be right just to have kids to have them take care of you in your senior years. The both of you know what you want and it may change but you’re happy now so everyone should be happy for you. Have a very Merry Christmas!! 😀🎄
Victoria. Thank you to you and the husband , Alex for your honesty surrounding the kid question. I have heard you speak of this before. And I greatly respect and admire you. Please know your honesty, humility, and devotion to your self , your husband and your life means a lot to me. It helps me navigate my life in my own brain. And to not be so hard on my self.
So you’re making an impact on others ..always 🫶 also you both have an amazing & genuine connection. It’s beautiful to see
I love your videos!!! Please do a home tour! It will be so inspiring ❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏 you are inspiring ❤
I feel like the female version of Alex. Haha. The fact he said what was the question again. The rejection sensitivity, the weather affecting my moods! Oh I can so relate! ❤ My husband is like vic...just go go go. And we're childfree millennials. Also discussing kids. The reason that your kids will be cute is the wrong reason to have kids . Partner and I have gone through the same motions. 😅
Love to you both
Please could you share the link for the adhd video? My husband sounds so much like Alex and is considering pursuing a diagnosis so we’d be really interested in hearing you talk about it more. Thanks x
I would have been in a strop for a full 48 hours after the Trinity comment 😂 Alex is skating on thin ice 😂😂😂😂❤
hahahaha this made me lol xx
Alex is looking so healthy lately - love to see it.
Love this QA session Vic & Alex. Love how guys compliment each others . Have a good break and enjoy your holidays . ❤
Awww . I love that Alex . He’s a talented man, really good to hear both sides and understand the dynamics actually. Healthy balance of work and lifestyle is the key for mental health! Good Tidings to you both 😊
I haven’t watched your vids for a while. I found your relationship triggering if I’m honest. But I clicked on this just to see. I am so pleased for you both. To see how hard you have worked on yourselves in order to have respect for each other and yourselves. So pleased for you both ❤
Thankyou so much x
Such a lovely real and honest chat, also great to get so much of Alex's thoughts.
As a childfree by choice 40 year old, I get asked similar things but I have a million reasons why children arnt right for me, but if I wanted one enough those reasons wouldn't matter... so obviously I don't want one so I shouldn't have one.
you only need one reason.