That moment when you start your speech but you already forgot what you wanted to say and you just go on talking about the first thing that comes on mind ending in a infinite deep conversation about life, society and the universe.
Just a few days ago somebody told me his friends think I’m sorta abnormal because of the way I talk... I am an INFP and I really saw myself while listening to David Lynch and Tori Amos... I have a huge tendency to express myself with lots of details, colours, shapes and not everyone follows up those flamboyant messages
the awkwardness. avoiding eye contact as much as possible. the stuttering. the way our voice kinda softens and cracks when we talk to other people. starting a phrase and not knowing how to finish it. changing topics and losing focus mid-sentence. sweaty palms. the shortness of breath. being an infp is quite interesting but genuinely torturous for most of us lmao.
This might be a human thing but does anyone ever catch themselves in the middle of a conversation and all of a sudden your train of thought separates and all of a sudden your now hyper focused on the person staring at you? Then you you try to tune back into whatever you were talking about but sometimes it gets alittle rocky trying to pretend like you know what your talking about and the person your talking to realizes your steering off course. Hence the awkward moment.
That happens to me when they're speaking, and when my turn comes to say something in response I've forgotten most of what they just said. I end up saying something flimsy related to what I did catch in their speech, and it becomes so obvious that my attention has been drifting.
I can get very tongue tied speaking out loud unscripted, unless I'm talking about something that's important to me, the it's flows out of me with ease and confidence.
We stutter a lot lol Also as an INFP I feel that have that light airy way of talking mostly when im around people i dont know but when im around close family i talk a little louder and more normal
The most frustrating thing for me as an INFP is to recognize the lack of purpose and principle in others and still try to fight the urge to become jaded and cynical.
Varth Dader I know, I get that too. Or they tell me I’m living in my own reality, like a bubble of idealism. Some people mock it like I live in fairy tale and unicorn 🦄 land, but others are completely drawn to me for my innocence and purity, and also they always think I am so much younger than my age, or at least my tone of voice and mannerisms still seem young 🦋 And my looks, strangely. I can’t explain why that is the way it is
@@orchidsrising7910 this is so me! I'm 23 and people think I'm 15, 16. About the purity and innocence thing, my mom says that I'm too naive.. that I'm too good with man, and that's why they treat me like shit '-' (and I feel awful because.. I wouldn't be me if I did the opposite). I also live in a fairytale world, kind of.. I spent most of my time daydreaming then actually doing something.. sometimes I feel proud to be an INFP, but sometimes.. I don't. I wish I could be more practicle, more rational..
I just took a quiz saying I was infp-t and i’ve always thought that I wanted to be an actress, because it would seem so much easier to pretend to be someone else rather to live in my own mind
Heath Ledger interviuw is spot on! The awkvardness, the slightly absent focus, the eyes wandering. Now I understand why people always give me that exact look that that interviuwer is giving him. They are wondering if we are alright?
I'm an infp and I get so deeply sad thinking about my hollywood counterparts....bc if their life didn't solely end in tragedy, it was full of tragedy to the very end. So sad.
Shivauna Ryan True. There is always some sadness fallowing infps. Most of infps are good people. Very sensitive. Too sensitive for this world. That's how I see them and that's why I respect them. Enfj
Everybody is talking about how we mess up our words. . . and I haven't relate to anything as much as I do with that. Which made me think that maybe that's why we have so good writers/authors in our kind. We enjoy making our thoughts known, and taking our time to do it, even more.
Love it too. Our rage can be dangerous. We obsess over fixing the situations, so we become like an ESTJ. Sometimes it's pretty effective. Our grip should can be a strength.
I have an ESTJ mom, so she taught me the ESTJ ways. We don't really get along, never hugged and all those sappy stuff (she hated all those, won't even let me cry), but I think she made me stronger, so I think I'm blessed. ❤ I love my mom now.
God, I always beat myself up over the way I speak. I even overheard my parents and siblings saying not to bring up the way I talk because it would hurt my feelings just once, and it's haunted me ever since. For years I've always taken it as a sign that I have some kind of intelligence problem and it's killed my self esteem. But now I realize there's a whole group of people just like me, and I don't feel so bad about myself anymore.
Well that's really nice you're now okay. That's actually interesting, because being insecure about how I express myself and stuttering a lot never cross my mind, my friends didn't even mind me for doing that. I'm glad that you know now you're not alone.
strange thing is I love some characters here and been drawn to some of them for years without knowing mbti in past or realising they are also infps! :)
T K I know how you feel. As a teenager, I read Erich Fromm and Alfred Adler a lot and just like you, I didn't know mbti even exist. They are enfjs, just like me... Also, I have platonic crush in celebrities infps. Now I know that there is natural chemistry between infp and my type.
It's the same with me :) I've loved The Cure for a long time and I didn't know that the Lyrics and Robert Smith are so INFP-like :) Besides, I've always admired John Lennon, Johnny Depp, Edgar Allan Poe, Heath Ledger, Morrissey, Mia Wasikowska, Belle from The Beauty and The Beast and other INFPs without knowing that they have the same personality type as me ^^
Seeing johnny depps interview in the context of whats happening with him and amber heard now... its just so sad, he wasnt able to defend himself from her or all the people who believed in her lies. I hope he can get some justice now
Idk if this is just a me thing as an INFP -- whenever I have to present something or introduce myself, even though the script in my head sounds engaging , when I actually present in front of the audience, everything sounds SOOO dull. My voice gets deep and monotonous, and rarely do I ever even get reactions from the audience and I think they lose focus. It's painfully awkward. BUT it really comforts me to know so many of my favorite artists are INFPs as well.
Oh my god same I always felt so self conscious about sounding boring or not being as funny as I think I am because I don't get the expected or idealised reaction I had in my head. It's so frustrating :(
This is the same for me. I just did an interview for work and when I listened back I sounded so monotonous even though I was describing a moment that was really enriching for me. Doh! 😖
I’m an INFJ and I used to experience this too, I hate how I sound, it’s like my voice escapes into my chest. Always hated presentations of any sorts. I’ve always been a shy person, the last 10 years or so I’ve had social anxiety too.
Its so strange how you are all saying that we stutter and that we're awkward. All I see are passionate, articulate people. We want to use the right words and so we like to pause in between phrases to find the rawest way to convey our message. We are always trying to find new ways to express ourselves. I see people who have a soft spoken manner, but are solid in their values and in their opinions. We are deeply introspective and so when we talk we seem to be in another realm, translating what is going on in our brain to the outside world. These people are all emotionally intelligent as fuck and I am so happy to be an INFP.
So true! I, for one, am a story-teller, and when I am telling a particularly good story that I haven't told before, I want to make it the best it can be. Unfortunately, my words get jumbled because I want to use the right one, and I'm trying to think about the next bit, but then one thought leads to a other, and my mouth can't keep up. Really, speaking is like a continuous speed-bump for our brains and we have trouble doing everything at once mentally.
i already feel stoned from watching this vid. and i'm an infp. i can imagine two infps cant be together, we'll just wake up from bed, talk a bit, eat, think where we want to go then continue going to bed to sleep. jk. eh.
me and my two bf are infp's and we actually dont talk a lot when we see eachother, its not a bad thing because we understand the disconnection that all of us have from the real world, we really enjoy silence, and movies, and music, and getting stoned together lol
I think that was my ideal life TBH...just chillin' together forever...but maybe our house looks like it's just ran by tornado or something, and we'll always forget to pay the bills. 🤣🤣🤣
Awww I wish you'd got more of the INFP sense of humour. We're not all completely serious and soul=searching you know! Some of us are pretty happy, healthy, well-adjusted and like a good old laugh. :D
Me...an INFP who likes to talk dirty stuff from my own silly experiences like Louis CK. And I read in some website that many INFP refused to admit/take him as a fellow INFP. I am sad... The stereotype is INFP are deep/smart thinkers like these examples...but in reality, I believe we're all different with one another, because everyone is unique...
I have a sarcastic and dry sense of humor. I love to laugh. In fact it’s one of my favorite things about others. If you can make me laugh we will be great friends.
Why is it people think INFPs can't be arrogant?? I don't quite like to be put in a box of shy, private, etc. I can be arrogant and private about the bulk of my emotions! In fact, being reserved comes off as quite arrogant to many extroverts in my life! There is MUCH variety among individuals, I can see that many of you here have not taken any Statistics or Psychology courses.
i think i come off like that sometimes too. but its because i consciously try to appear confident with posture, workout etc. and try to appear confident
Obviously the types don’t embody our entire personalities. The way we interact with the world perhaps, more so than our levels of confidence etc. Well, to be honest with you, I find MBTI enjoyable but the idea that your behaviour completely changes because you have slight preferences in certain things is silly to me. In a very basic way it works, but I don’t believe we can analyse our inner workings in-depth with it. As an INFP I’m not particularly confident, I don’t think I’m arrogant but I do fear it. It’s a trait I dislike - not confidence, mind, but arrogance and narcissism - and it’s one I am scared to find in myself. When I catch myself not listening to someone, or dominating a conversation, I feel selfish and it feels wrong. Perhaps this is part of my “INFPness”, but I think it’s more likely to be a part of my own, individual insecurities, which I possibly share with other INFPs. Does that make sense? Ah well, I’m rambling anyway. Never mind..
I know, But It’s funny how a lot of us are mistaken as “arrogant” for not integrating into a world that everyone else misunderstands us in and mistakes us in the very first place. Then when we don’t integrate we are ultra arrogancio! We are self absorbed because our souls and we don’t want to find ourselves through other people? It’s a bit of a paradox to me. What a lose lose situation. I’m not listening to millions of people who would tell me who I should be all the while contradicting one another, it’s laughable. Not the life I want to live and I have self respect.People are dumbing down possible reasonings and throwing labels and we don’t change for anyone not even for ourselves. Stubborn? hell yes.
I can see the way I speak in some of these people and it makes me realize I'm not all that bad. The girl at 14 minutes reminds me of how I speak and act and she's really cute! When I think of those qualities in myself I feel dumb and like I'm making a fool of myself. If this is how the world sees me then it's not so bad. This is helping me be okay with who I am even if others might not like it, thank you :)
it’s easy for us to feel like no one would find us interesting in this world that expects eloquence and physical expressiveness. but once in a while when the right people come by and show genuine interest in what we have to say, we appreciate it so much more
This is one of the best UA-cam videos ever made. For me I can’t begin to explain how insightful, watching insanely successful “versions” of myself, is.
that was such a Ne thing, when Heath Ledger said he would do things all differently now and that he never was completely satisfied with what he did :D also Fi works in here, right :)
JoJo001Jackie I know, and then he reversed it saying he doesn’t believe in regret. He took the words out of my mouth in terms of the no regret thing. I get him because he can see both sides, he would have done everything differently but doesn’t regret anything. Some people find this type of thinking confusing because they want to see a black or white view. We can understand things from all perspectives
That lesson about laying a kid out with a weapon... that is so true. It might get you into trouble with the teachers, but your self esteem will be SO much better in the long run.
It's amazing how some of these people have the smallest egos, probably require the least recognition out of their colleagues, like they just want to be artists without the spotlight, yet they get the most fame and attention.
INFP here, yearning for a vocation as a healer after losing faith in my artistic abilities. This list is interesting and I can relate to some, if not most, but the only real "healer"I see here is Regina Spektor which just by looking at her eyes, I feel better about myself and the world... guess what I'm fumbling for is to ask why is my type considered a healer while our Fe is weak, our Si often puts us in a rut and our imagination and introversion drives us towards being reclusive misfits unless we are, as in the rare cases we see here, blessed with some extraordinary talents or genius.
Hunky Dory As an Enfj, I consider your type as healers. Most Infps I know are ,,therapeutic'' for me (just the way they are). If they can create art- that's even better! :)
Hey I'm infp too and was wondering about the same thing :) Hmm I think it's probably because we find ways (Ne) to heal ourselves (Fi) and then or on the way we eventually inspire others to do the same. And personally I always wanted and still kinda want to heal the world like most infps do :D But maybe infjs should be the real healers with their Fe? The only thing I know is that I'm still struggling and don't really know what to do though :/ Wish you all the strength and luck in your life!
@@ravanna9712 your theory is actually right on the nose. because infps are generally so self aware and tend to search for answers on everything they are known to become rather wise and able to understand emotions well and that’s highly therapeutic for other people we just need to learn to do the same for ourselves
@@camrynclass2836 oh wow thanks for your comment. Yes some time has passed since I wrote this... It happened that I found out that I have some healing attributes in me :) I'm actually pretty empathic and good in comforting people letting them be themselves, accepting all their sides and comforting them when they are hurting. I'm even able to inspire them doing something so that they feel better...but all these things are often buried under a lot shyness and pain.. Us being in our comfort zone as a loner and we need to actually go under folks and have the self esteem to try helping people what I often lack also being often tired/isolated and not very practical just good for deep talking, having fun/chill and some advice yep lots of flaws that maybe cause that low confidence in being useful for people 😅. But yes I think it's true I guess infps can be very spiritual, empathetic, kind, calming and wise what makes up lovely healers. Who says healers have to be perfect godlike people pleasers? 😅 Aand we are actually very good in noticing and understanding other people's emotions and pain + good listeners ❤️ have a beautiful journey my friend 🤗
Morrisey is the bad side of INFP, the guy is such an narcissist. He’s like Im so special because I’m loner and I’m different like stfu. We can get so self absorded, like sometimes I think to myself wow I really do have such a victim complex. Don’t let yourself become a narcissist.
Same! I was so ashamed for a while looking back at my strong victim mentality, being pretty self absorbed but thinking I was super empathetic and wouldn’t hurt a fly. Kinda seemed like covert narcissism at times. I was all over the place. But I feel I’ve outgrown it a lot. Definitely something to be mindful of as an INFP.
This is hard for me to watch. I can feel what they want to say and how they are emotionally reacting to the people around them who they are aware are misjudging them. All the other personality types think we lack intelligence.
you can imagine, being INFP, doing presentations, group discussions and interviews to get job in third speaking language is how hard to me with social anxiety..😞 my future is darker than my skin.
I feel you, this is soooo hard for me, but also, watching videos like this makes me see the beauty of our type, our sensitivity and our awkwardness. We have to pave our own path, not conform despite not always being understood or accepted.
i saw your comment and i immediately came to support and i love that fellow infps beat me to it 👏👏💕 ive learned in my life people dont really care that much about how you say something, as long as it holds true value. once you build your inner confidence and build your passion, it will be so deep that it will emulate to others and most importantly steadily guide you to your ‘dream’ life. ive struggled with speech for so long but as you get a clear train of thought with less internal friction you’ll find that you actually can speak quite well, after all communication is a skill that can be learned. Good luck i hope your doing well!! 🥳🌈💕
Andrew Garfield is when i'm sober and under pressure to answer a question which i do want to but i don't know where to start bc i don't want to drag it too long and end up saying the same thing a few times bc my mind went blank.. Andy Warhol is when i'm moody and don't feel like socialising.. Bjork is when i'm comfortable and excited and in really good spirits.. Marlon Brando is when i delve deep into history and realise everything we as a human race have been told is a lie and why and how we bought into these lies.. (sadly not many ppl i've come across are interested enough to hear my discoveries and perspectives on them)(& why was the audio for the part where he was gonna explain what he read about the Indians blocked out i was rly interested to know) Heath Ledger is when I'm speaking about 'regrets' bc that's exactly what i tell people about 'regrets'- a waste of time. Johnny Depp is when give people advice on life.. John Lennon is when i talk about the world, the govt and politics (funny how what he said is still largely relevant today)..&the more i know about stuff the less i hate too, except for the pure evils of the world.. David Lynch is when i have an epiphany on life and try to explain it with metaphors and analogies.. Mia is when i'm talking about my favorite character from a book or show and how that character and story relates to real ife.. Morrisey is when i take pride in my art and what i do and reflect upon it and how it'll take me into the future.. Regina Spektor is when i'm a little shy but very very high and happpy.. Tim Burton is when i'm dissapointed and confused when i realise people don't see things the way i see them.. Tori Amos is when i was 12 too and had a crush and wanted badly to prove my talents and worth but i was too nervous and shy but was determined to do so anyways and i did but also never saw or heard from him again and i still get nervous and shy when i need to present my talents to an audience.. Nice to know people i can relate to and think and behave like me can become successful. (♥ω♥*) Now to make that happen for myself. (▰︶︹︺▰)
As an ENFJ, even before knowing my type, I used to find INFPs so interesting and even sexy when it comes to the way they express themselves, their nostalgic eyes, stuttering, and social awkwardness. Very recently finding out Enfjs and Infps are a good match :) INFPs are so unique ♡
Somehow I was waiting for Kurt Cobain and Daniel Day Lewis to pop up but I guess the vid could be endless if you included everyone. Great watch, thanks.
Omg, this is so funny because whenever I am on camera I look SO shy and appear so soft-spoken 😂 in my head I think I'm speaking so confidently, and I AM! I just sound so soft. But on the inside, I have so much life and compassion and excitement. I think our heads have the ultimate protective layer around them, so when we're communicating, especially to a large or nameless crowd, we appear very shy or in retreat mode. We have a hard time inserting ourselves into reality. We are courageous by simply being present and vulnerable with the world. We feel vulnerable OFTEN, if not always. This video made me proud to be an INFP!
i’m the same way. infp can do a whole 180 when talking about anything they’re interested in so that means people they care about can find them more blunt and animated but they usually only have a few close people like that so they’re more widely seen as soft spoken and awkward
These people all talk so low and slow. Maybe its just the combination of INFP with ADHD but I like to think I dont sound so dull when I have something interesting to say😂
my mind thinks too quickly and people constantly tell me to slow down... among the non-sense i speak for them, the amount of word per minute i say is another reason for them to feel lost and me to feel misunderstood. and when i see in their eyes that they don't follow me anymore i just go even quicker to end it the sooner i can without just interrupting myself blaming them to not follow cause it would feel rude from both parts. oops.
I have a feeling alot of us INFP's have adhd since i see alot of comments say how we can't focus on what we are trying to say and can't put it into words
That Heath clip. You just know how much he has thought about those things over time. Everything he has or hasn't done in the past, how he has done them and why, what do those things mean. There is so much but all he can really say here is that uh yea i would do everything differently.
When I always watch videos with INFP it's like I was looking signs that they're handicapped or weird because that's the way our personalities are described and often seen. Weirdos, awkward, kinda autistic. It's very hurtful and since I know what people think about us, I feel like I was handicapped 😐 f.. all people who think low about us.
We are not stoned..Its the deep understanding of feelings and the day dreaming that drugges us with its magical mist of imagination and reality combined that makes us literally away with the fairy's.
Lmao this reminds me of that time in PE when my best friends and I were lying around on the grass and benches talking about some bs when this girl came up to us and told us that we looked like stoners
As INFP I'm my own worst critic. Seeing other INFPs gives me the chance to see myself more objectively and put everything into perspective. PS: I think all the INFPs shown in this video are actually very lovable. One of my favorite INFPs is John F Kennedy Jr :)
Is it just me or Tim Burton looks pretty much like the guy from Ratatouille ? I guess it’s an another ability of INFP to make links between the outside world and our own imagination ...
I'm technically INTP but going too hard into this type almost killed me, and I've since learned how important emotions are as a guide. I test at 48%F/52%T. I've built a lot of logical structures in my head as a guide to understanding life, and now trusting my feelings and letting go of logic to intuit my path along these structures is liberating and empowering.
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Please also provide the nanes of the celebs. I reaaly wanna know about the person you also used in the cover of your vedio.
That moment when you start your speech but you already forgot what you wanted to say and you just go on talking about the first thing that comes on mind ending in a infinite deep conversation about life, society and the universe.
Exactly
Oh yes
Lmao yes
Oh God, why?
too specific
It feels odd actually seeing myself in others.
mewkuro12 I know, it’s like hearing people speak your language
HAHAHA
Just a few days ago somebody told me his friends think I’m sorta abnormal because of the way I talk... I am an INFP and I really saw myself while listening to David Lynch and Tori Amos... I have a huge tendency to express myself with lots of details, colours, shapes and not everyone follows up those flamboyant messages
Omar Arturo Ramirez I always get called eccentric.
and sooooo funny thoughh!!🤣🤣 like i just thought there was something wrong with me lol but seeing myself in johnny depp increased my confidence by 90%
the awkwardness. avoiding eye contact as much as possible. the stuttering. the way our voice kinda softens and cracks when we talk to other people. starting a phrase and not knowing how to finish it. changing topics and losing focus mid-sentence. sweaty palms. the shortness of breath. being an infp is quite interesting but genuinely torturous for most of us lmao.
@Asucena There's nothing wrong or a reason to hate within these symptoms.
@Asucena Sorry, I'm not sure if that was a meant as a joke or not.
all this time i found these as flaws that should be fixed (which i can't do)
but it turns out, it's just "us". it's our thing.
brb *criezz*
There is always room for improvement. Dont let a dichotomy dictates you my INTP family.
@@DnVFMVs This answer is so INFP ^^
Oh, so this awkwardness and stuttering is never going to go away. Just wonderful.
Lol!
Noooo please😭
Not exactly, but it can change. You can become a confident individualist.
@@The_Drifter_13 hell yes!! I'm INFP and its happening.
@@milkyway6021 TELL ME ALL YOUR SECRETS!!
Ok kidding aside, can you give us pitiful unconfident INFP some tips 😂
All of them talk so softly and light, like a feather. It’s sweet
Thanks for the image 😊🌺
until we get mad...
Yes exactly... until we get mad^ then our mouths turn into microphones
@@mialily6787 that's right 🤣
@@mialily6787 oh no
This is exactly how I talk with others and I am so self conscious by my inability to communicate clearly haha omg
Every day of my life ! I have gotten depressed over it thinking theres something wrong with me! This video was extremely refreshing
Same! Always thought it was just a "me" thing but apparently it's an INFP thing. lol
Yes. I can't talk well, but I can write well. Because I can edit my writings a hundred times before posting/sending it to someone.
What good is all that stuff in my brain when I don't know how to express it! Lol! There is a lot going on in there.
I can feel the pain of some of them being in public.
Yess for real
We are so awkward! Haha but I am proud to be INFP
So am I. I love being awkward
Same 😊
Me too...thats y every infp are unique in different ways
Sometimes its amazing to be us, sometimes its just pure torture
But im still proud lol
This might be a human thing but does anyone ever catch themselves in the middle of a conversation and all of a sudden your train of thought separates and all of a sudden your now hyper focused on the person staring at you? Then you you try to tune back into whatever you were talking about but sometimes it gets alittle rocky trying to pretend like you know what your talking about and the person your talking to realizes your steering off course. Hence the awkward moment.
Yes
BRKSY all the time
That happens to me when they're speaking, and when my turn comes to say something in response I've forgotten most of what they just said. I end up saying something flimsy related to what I did catch in their speech, and it becomes so obvious that my attention has been drifting.
ALLL the time!
Yeah, it happens all the time if you're an INFP
I can get very tongue tied speaking out loud unscripted, unless I'm talking about something that's important to me, the it's flows out of me with ease and confidence.
Familiar words... familiar concepts.
*YES*
Exactly
True dat
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We stutter a lot lol
Also as an INFP I feel that have that light airy way of talking mostly when im around people i dont know but when im around close family i talk a little louder and more normal
same! i'm always worried for that
Yup true, ppl think I’m shy and I find that disturbing because I think I’m normal.
same! woah-
I never really stuttered until I was older and then it's more of a paused, one time reaction and then everything flows as normal.
When I’m around family I’m so loud and jumpy going from one conversation to the next it’s wild
The most frustrating thing for me as an INFP is to recognize the lack of purpose and principle in others and still try to fight the urge to become jaded and cynical.
Yes. I failed sometimes...and then regret it.
But at least still able to stop myself to stoop down to their level. Just bitter and sarcastic at times.
Well said.
I've lost the fight in recent years
People have often told me that I sound as if I'm high or on drugs 24/7 when I talk. Always thought I was weird until watching this. Eerily similar.
Varth Dader I know, I get that too. Or they tell me I’m living in my own reality, like a bubble of idealism. Some people mock it like I live in fairy tale and unicorn 🦄 land, but others are completely drawn to me for my innocence and purity, and also they always think I am so much younger than my age, or at least my tone of voice and mannerisms still seem young 🦋 And my looks, strangely. I can’t explain why that is the way it is
I hear this everyday!!
Omg! Me too! I told them they don't need to drug me. I'm always high. Hehehe
I get this tooo
@@orchidsrising7910 this is so me! I'm 23 and people think I'm 15, 16. About the purity and innocence thing, my mom says that I'm too naive.. that I'm too good with man, and that's why they treat me like shit '-' (and I feel awful because.. I wouldn't be me if I did the opposite). I also live in a fairytale world, kind of.. I spent most of my time daydreaming then actually doing something.. sometimes I feel proud to be an INFP, but sometimes.. I don't. I wish I could be more practicle, more rational..
Do we all look stoned?
Ester Lopes good question 😂
Yes 🤣
Yes. Well I’ve been told I do.
People always say me that kkkkk
Is kinda sad
Infps stoned..from the many thoughts in their head. 😅 why, oh why?
I just took a quiz saying I was infp-t and i’ve always thought that I wanted to be an actress, because it would seem so much easier to pretend to be someone else rather to live in my own mind
Bitter Sweet me too! It’s so nice to pretend to be someone else. The problem is that I am too scared and self conscious haha
omg same
I can relate ; this the reason I took unvoiced acting as a hobby. Keep chasing your dreams :).
Thats probably why I love drama and have taken up acting classes it helps me with public speaking and my confidence!
Ahaaa😭😭 relatedddd
No matter who it is they all have a childlike nature to them. It's quite interesting to note the difference between Enfp and Infp
Whats the main difference?
What's the difference?
Heath Ledger interviuw is spot on!
The awkvardness, the slightly absent focus, the eyes wandering.
Now I understand why people always give me that exact look that that interviuwer is giving him. They are wondering if we are alright?
Robin Winter Same. I never understood why I love him so much. Like Johnny Depp and John Lennon.
Well to be fair Heath was on drugs.
Kindhearted but Damaged.
@@anonymoususer8852 exactly..
Oof
lmao
Mmmmmmhm.
everyone who is kindhearted will be damaged with time. But we still go on to be kind, and that's what "being strong" or "having courage" is about.
I'm an infp and I get so deeply sad thinking about my hollywood counterparts....bc if their life didn't solely end in tragedy, it was full of tragedy to the very end. So sad.
Shivauna Ryan True. There is always some sadness fallowing infps. Most of infps are good people. Very sensitive. Too sensitive for this world. That's how I see them and that's why I respect them. Enfj
@@SaraMBTI may our souls collide somewhere in universe
Everybody is talking about how we mess up our words. . . and I haven't relate to anything as much as I do with that. Which made me think that maybe that's why we have so good writers/authors in our kind. We enjoy making our thoughts known, and taking our time to do it, even more.
Is stuttering and not being able to utter out your ideas clearly an INFP thing?? I also have it and it kills me, oof
PensolDoodles hmmm yeah that happens to me too, maybe?
That happens to me all the time
yesss
I stutter since I was 5. I'm 25 now.
#INFP
Saaaame
My father is an INFP, one of the most kindest persons I ever meet.
-INTJ
Wow that Johnney Depp interview is INFP gold.
Love it too. Our rage can be dangerous. We obsess over fixing the situations, so we become like an ESTJ. Sometimes it's pretty effective. Our grip should can be a strength.
I have an ESTJ mom, so she taught me the ESTJ ways. We don't really get along, never hugged and all those sappy stuff (she hated all those, won't even let me cry), but I think she made me stronger, so I think I'm blessed. ❤ I love my mom now.
God, I always beat myself up over the way I speak. I even overheard my parents and siblings saying not to bring up the way I talk because it would hurt my feelings just once, and it's haunted me ever since. For years I've always taken it as a sign that I have some kind of intelligence problem and it's killed my self esteem. But now I realize there's a whole group of people just like me, and I don't feel so bad about myself anymore.
same i feel self conscious about it too😔
We're here for you....Always
Give me anyone to talk to and i get so nervous or anxious that my jaw tembles and i stutter and start trembling 😖😖
I hope you're okay, we are here together
Well that's really nice you're now okay. That's actually interesting, because being insecure about how I express myself and stuttering a lot never cross my mind, my friends didn't even mind me for doing that. I'm glad that you know now you're not alone.
Johnny Depp is my spirit animal i swear to god
he went from being serious, to funny, to deep and serious again in 5 seconds
Yes infps love talking about topics that they read in books.
Ayyy yuri on ice!! Okay girl, I see you
strange thing is I love some characters here and been drawn to some of them for years without knowing mbti in past or realising they are also infps! :)
T K I know how you feel. As a teenager, I read Erich Fromm and Alfred Adler a lot and just like you, I didn't know mbti even exist. They are enfjs, just like me...
Also, I have platonic crush in celebrities infps. Now I know that there is natural chemistry between infp and my type.
same!
It's the same with me :) I've loved The Cure for a long time and I didn't know that the Lyrics and Robert Smith are so INFP-like :) Besides, I've always admired John Lennon, Johnny Depp, Edgar Allan Poe, Heath Ledger, Morrissey, Mia Wasikowska, Belle from The Beauty and The Beast and other INFPs without knowing that they have the same personality type as me ^^
Me too - fascinated with them all!
Saaaaame!!!
"Why are u talking like that?" Because i'm an INFP
2 AM. I will for now on use this
Sometime I give up trying to explain something because I just can’t gather all my thoughts and put them into words. It’s very frustrating
same😔
I love how authentically sweet Bjork was in that interview
Seeing johnny depps interview in the context of whats happening with him and amber heard now... its just so sad, he wasnt able to defend himself from her or all the people who believed in her lies. I hope he can get some justice now
Andrew Garfield trying to draw the interview out as long as possible by repeating the same thing
I do that too.
Idk if this is just a me thing as an INFP -- whenever I have to present something or introduce myself, even though the script in my head sounds engaging , when I actually present in front of the audience, everything sounds SOOO dull. My voice gets deep and monotonous, and rarely do I ever even get reactions from the audience and I think they lose focus. It's painfully awkward. BUT it really comforts me to know so many of my favorite artists are INFPs as well.
Oh my god same I always felt so self conscious about sounding boring or not being as funny as I think I am because I don't get the expected or idealised reaction I had in my head. It's so frustrating :(
This is the same for me. I just did an interview for work and when I listened back I sounded so monotonous even though I was describing a moment that was really enriching for me. Doh! 😖
I’m an INFJ and I used to experience this too, I hate how I sound, it’s like my voice escapes into my chest. Always hated presentations of any sorts. I’ve always been a shy person, the last 10 years or so I’ve had social anxiety too.
I could never present anything or introduce myself.
Its so strange how you are all saying that we stutter and that we're awkward. All I see are passionate, articulate people. We want to use the right words and so we like to pause in between phrases to find the rawest way to convey our message. We are always trying to find new ways to express ourselves. I see people who have a soft spoken manner, but are solid in their values and in their opinions. We are deeply introspective and so when we talk we seem to be in another realm, translating what is going on in our brain to the outside world. These people are all emotionally intelligent as fuck and I am so happy to be an INFP.
So true! I, for one, am a story-teller, and when I am telling a particularly good story that I haven't told before, I want to make it the best it can be. Unfortunately, my words get jumbled because I want to use the right one, and I'm trying to think about the next bit, but then one thought leads to a other, and my mouth can't keep up. Really, speaking is like a continuous speed-bump for our brains and we have trouble doing everything at once mentally.
I can almost physically feel their pain of overthinking all those moments afterwards
i already feel stoned from watching this vid. and i'm an infp. i can imagine two infps cant be together, we'll just wake up from bed, talk a bit, eat, think where we want to go then continue going to bed to sleep. jk. eh.
Masayu Sharif Say a lot, don't do much. 😅
me and my two bf are infp's and we actually dont talk a lot when we see eachother, its not a bad thing because we understand the disconnection that all of us have from the real world, we really enjoy silence, and movies, and music, and getting stoned together lol
yeah me and my sis are both infp's and that's really accurate
Bruh jk? Nah reverse jk that’s exactly what I would love to do.
I think that was my ideal life TBH...just chillin' together forever...but maybe our house looks like it's just ran by tornado or something, and we'll always forget to pay the bills. 🤣🤣🤣
Awww I wish you'd got more of the INFP sense of humour. We're not all completely serious and soul=searching you know! Some of us are pretty happy, healthy, well-adjusted and like a good old laugh. :D
I love the sense humor (ENFPish or NE humor) too! It is one of my favorite things about being an INFP!
midnight blue same
THANK YOI
Me...an INFP who likes to talk dirty stuff from my own silly experiences like Louis CK. And I read in some website that many INFP refused to admit/take him as a fellow INFP. I am sad... The stereotype is INFP are deep/smart thinkers like these examples...but in reality, I believe we're all different with one another, because everyone is unique...
I have a sarcastic and dry sense of humor. I love to laugh. In fact it’s one of my favorite things about others. If you can make me laugh we will be great friends.
Lol! Marlon Brando rambling about the Indians...
Nachannachle I agree he sounded interesting n so much like me
Why is it people think INFPs can't be arrogant?? I don't quite like to be put in a box of shy, private, etc. I can be arrogant and private about the bulk of my emotions! In fact, being reserved comes off as quite arrogant to many extroverts in my life! There is MUCH variety among individuals, I can see that many of you here have not taken any Statistics or Psychology courses.
i think i come off like that sometimes too. but its because i consciously try to appear confident with posture, workout etc. and try to appear confident
@Jota yeah! What she said, from another infp!!
Obviously the types don’t embody our entire personalities. The way we interact with the world perhaps, more so than our levels of confidence etc. Well, to be honest with you, I find MBTI enjoyable but the idea that your behaviour completely changes because you have slight preferences in certain things is silly to me. In a very basic way it works, but I don’t believe we can analyse our inner workings in-depth with it. As an INFP I’m not particularly confident, I don’t think I’m arrogant but I do fear it. It’s a trait I dislike - not confidence, mind, but arrogance and narcissism - and it’s one I am scared to find in myself. When I catch myself not listening to someone, or dominating a conversation, I feel selfish and it feels wrong. Perhaps this is part of my “INFPness”, but I think it’s more likely to be a part of my own, individual insecurities, which I possibly share with other INFPs. Does that make sense? Ah well, I’m rambling anyway. Never mind..
I know, But It’s funny how a lot of us are mistaken as “arrogant” for not integrating into a world that everyone else misunderstands us in and mistakes us in the very first place. Then when we don’t integrate we are ultra arrogancio!
We are self absorbed because our souls and we don’t want to find ourselves through other people? It’s a bit of a paradox to me. What a lose lose situation. I’m not listening to millions of people who would tell me who I should be all the while contradicting one another, it’s laughable. Not the life I want to live and I have self respect.People are dumbing down possible reasonings and throwing labels and we don’t change for anyone not even for ourselves. Stubborn? hell yes.
Right? Or that we all spend our time reading books. I like books, but I am not a bookworm. Nor creative.
I can see the way I speak in some of these people and it makes me realize I'm not all that bad. The girl at 14 minutes reminds me of how I speak and act and she's really cute! When I think of those qualities in myself I feel dumb and like I'm making a fool of myself. If this is how the world sees me then it's not so bad. This is helping me be okay with who I am even if others might not like it, thank you :)
You have a beautiful character
I absolutely adore bjork she's so cute
it’s easy for us to feel like no one would find us interesting in this world that expects eloquence and physical expressiveness. but once in a while when the right people come by and show genuine interest in what we have to say, we appreciate it so much more
Bro why are there famous me's running around in Hollywood
~Sincerely a INFP
This is one of the best UA-cam videos ever made. For me
I can’t begin to explain how insightful, watching insanely successful “versions” of myself, is.
that was such a Ne thing, when Heath Ledger said he would do things all differently now and that he never was completely satisfied with what he did :D also Fi works in here, right :)
JoJo001Jackie and Si with the past
JoJo001Jackie I know, and then he reversed it saying he doesn’t believe in regret. He took the words out of my mouth in terms of the no regret thing. I get him because he can see both sides, he would have done everything differently but doesn’t regret anything. Some people find this type of thinking confusing because they want to see a black or white view. We can understand things from all perspectives
What us Ne and Fi
Watching that clip I was like "wtf!?" because I've had basically the same conversation with my therapist and I knew exactly what he meant.
@@sfuikm extroverted intuition and introverted feeling
Its funny that Johnny deep is a infp like me because someone told me that I look like the female version of him lol.
That lesson about laying a kid out with a weapon... that is so true. It might get you into trouble with the teachers, but your self esteem will be SO much better in the long run.
It's amazing how some of these people have the smallest egos, probably require the least recognition out of their colleagues, like they just want to be artists without the spotlight, yet they get the most fame and attention.
Watching Johnny depp talking about his mom here feels bittersweet, after learning that she was really abusive to him and he had a traumatic childhood.
INFP here, yearning for a vocation as a healer after losing faith in my artistic abilities. This list is interesting and I can relate to some, if not most, but the only real "healer"I see here is Regina Spektor which just by looking at her eyes, I feel better about myself and the world... guess what I'm fumbling for is to ask why is my type considered a healer while our Fe is weak, our Si often puts us in a rut and our imagination and introversion drives us towards being reclusive misfits unless we are, as in the rare cases we see here, blessed with some extraordinary talents or genius.
Hunky Dory
As an Enfj, I consider your type as healers. Most Infps I know are ,,therapeutic'' for me (just the way they are). If they can create art- that's even better! :)
Hey I'm infp too and was wondering about the same thing :)
Hmm I think it's probably because we find ways (Ne) to heal ourselves (Fi) and then or on the way we eventually inspire others to do the same.
And personally I always wanted and still kinda want to heal the world like most infps do :D
But maybe infjs should be the real healers with their Fe?
The only thing I know is that I'm still struggling and don't really know what to do though :/
Wish you all the strength and luck in your life!
Rava nna
ENFJs lead with Fe, so I think they’re some of the best healers:) Of course, we heal others in our own ways.
@@ravanna9712 your theory is actually right on the nose. because infps are generally so self aware and tend to search for answers on everything they are known to become rather wise and able to understand emotions well and that’s highly therapeutic for other people we just need to learn to do the same for ourselves
@@camrynclass2836 oh wow thanks for your comment. Yes some time has passed since I wrote this... It happened that I found out that I have some healing attributes in me :) I'm actually pretty empathic and good in comforting people letting them be themselves, accepting all their sides and comforting them when they are hurting. I'm even able to inspire them doing something so that they feel better...but all these things are often buried under a lot shyness and pain.. Us being in our comfort zone as a loner and we need to actually go under folks and have the self esteem to try helping people what I often lack also being often tired/isolated and not very practical just good for deep talking, having fun/chill and some advice yep lots of flaws that maybe cause that low confidence in being useful for people 😅. But yes I think it's true I guess infps can be very spiritual, empathetic, kind, calming and wise what makes up lovely healers. Who says healers have to be perfect godlike people pleasers? 😅 Aand we are actually very good in noticing and understanding other people's emotions and pain + good listeners ❤️ have a beautiful journey my friend 🤗
I am an Enfp, Infp‘s are so sweet people to be around, especially if you want to talk about your feelings.
I love INFPs. So appealing, unique and charismatic!
Morrisey is the bad side of INFP, the guy is such an narcissist. He’s like Im so special because I’m loner and I’m different like stfu. We can get so self absorded, like sometimes I think to myself wow I really do have such a victim complex. Don’t let yourself become a narcissist.
this is true, sometimes I take a look at myself and realize I’m being kind of narcissistic and an asshole
Same! I was so ashamed for a while looking back at my strong victim mentality, being pretty self absorbed but thinking I was super empathetic and wouldn’t hurt a fly. Kinda seemed like covert narcissism at times. I was all over the place. But I feel I’ve outgrown it a lot. Definitely something to be mindful of as an INFP.
Yes good point. I get worried when I start getting feelings of grandeur… I’m always like “oh, that’s not good”
We're not the most engaging personalities, are we?
This is hard for me to watch. I can feel what they want to say and how they are emotionally reacting to the people around them who they are aware are misjudging them. All the other personality types think we lack intelligence.
That's so true. I often stumble around other people in fear of being seen as stupid.
you can imagine, being INFP, doing presentations, group discussions and interviews to get job in third speaking language is how hard to me with social anxiety..😞 my future is darker than my skin.
Don't say that!!!
You have Soo much potential... Keep thriving! All you need to do now is trust yourself... Be confident... And know your worth.
sending love to you, keep going ❤️❤️❤️
I feel you. Social anxiety really maims you. But I believe in us, we can thrive in our own little ways!
I feel you, this is soooo hard for me, but also, watching videos like this makes me see the beauty of our type, our sensitivity and our awkwardness. We have to pave our own path, not conform despite not always being understood or accepted.
i saw your comment and i immediately came to support and i love that fellow infps beat me to it 👏👏💕 ive learned in my life people dont really care that much about how you say something, as long as it holds true value. once you build your inner confidence and build your passion, it will be so deep that it will emulate to others and most importantly steadily guide you to your ‘dream’ life. ive struggled with speech for so long but as you get a clear train of thought with less internal friction you’ll find that you actually can speak quite well, after all communication is a skill that can be learned.
Good luck i hope your doing well!! 🥳🌈💕
Andrew Garfield is when i'm sober and under pressure to answer a question which i do want to but i don't know where to start bc i don't want to drag it too long and end up saying the same thing a few times bc my mind went blank..
Andy Warhol is when i'm moody and don't feel like socialising..
Bjork is when i'm comfortable and excited and in really good spirits..
Marlon Brando is when i delve deep into history and realise everything we as a human race have been told is a lie and why and how we bought into these lies.. (sadly not many ppl i've come across are interested enough to hear my discoveries and perspectives on them)(& why was the audio for the part where he was gonna explain what he read about the Indians blocked out i was rly interested to know)
Heath Ledger is when I'm speaking about 'regrets' bc that's exactly what i tell people about 'regrets'- a waste of time.
Johnny Depp is when give people advice on life..
John Lennon is when i talk about the world, the govt and politics (funny how what he said is still largely relevant today)..&the more i know about stuff the less i hate too, except for the pure evils of the world..
David Lynch is when i have an epiphany on life and try to explain it with metaphors and analogies..
Mia is when i'm talking about my favorite character from a book or show and how that character and story relates to real ife..
Morrisey is when i take pride in my art and what i do and reflect upon it and how it'll take me into the future..
Regina Spektor is when i'm a little shy but very very high and happpy..
Tim Burton is when i'm dissapointed and confused when i realise people don't see things the way i see them..
Tori Amos is when i was 12 too and had a crush and wanted badly to prove my talents and worth but i was too nervous and shy but was determined to do so anyways and i did but also never saw or heard from him again and i still get nervous and shy when i need to present my talents to an audience..
Nice to know people i can relate to and think and behave like me can become successful. (♥ω♥*)
Now to make that happen for myself. (▰︶︹︺▰)
!!!❣️❣️❣️❣️
Women INFPs give me life
🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
But ur cute
John Lennon speaking the truth to the sheeple, but they probably won’t get this anyway
weirdly seeing myself in a lot of these even if i don't want to
Me too LOL 💕
As an ENFJ, even before knowing my type, I used to find INFPs so interesting and even sexy when it comes to the way they express themselves, their nostalgic eyes, stuttering, and social awkwardness. Very recently finding out Enfjs and Infps are a good match :)
INFPs are so unique ♡
David Lynch being an INFP makes me feel so much better about myself...
Jesus listening to johnny depp is so fricken relaxing
There’s an INFP whose opposites are firmly reconciled!
Somehow I was waiting for Kurt Cobain and Daniel Day Lewis to pop up but I guess the vid could be endless if you included everyone. Great watch, thanks.
Lindyworld Thank you for commenting and watching
I think Daniel is not INFP
Kurt the ultimate INFP ❤️
5:53-7:38 wow, that advice from Johnny Depp and from his mom. Lessons about moving on, etc.
Man infps are a dream i love it
Of course Regina Spektor is an INFP, listen to her music! :D
Alimo Eskimo the call is her first song I listened to because of Narnia
Exactly. I'm an INFP and I could also tell she was also an INFP when listening to her music :)
I love her music btw
Im an INFP and I play death metal.
@@AT1Tan Me too, tho I generally listen to heavy metal, thrash and... Vektor
So does my bf, who's also INFP
Omg, this is so funny because whenever I am on camera I look SO shy and appear so soft-spoken 😂 in my head I think I'm speaking so confidently, and I AM! I just sound so soft. But on the inside, I have so much life and compassion and excitement. I think our heads have the ultimate protective layer around them, so when we're communicating, especially to a large or nameless crowd, we appear very shy or in retreat mode. We have a hard time inserting ourselves into reality. We are courageous by simply being present and vulnerable with the world. We feel vulnerable OFTEN, if not always. This video made me proud to be an INFP!
Oof that John Lennon interview is about 50 years old but still so relevant
i think Aroura the singer is defnitley an INFP
I agree
Yay for Johnny Depp's mom! lol
So hard speaking, can u imagine my job interviews, public speaking or meeting new people. Nothing makes sense. Lol.
I'm infp but I've always been told that I'm too rough and harsh with my speech :'). To people I know
But strangers think I'm awkward and quite
i’m the same way. infp can do a whole 180 when talking about anything they’re interested in so that means people they care about can find them more blunt and animated but they usually only have a few close people like that so they’re more widely seen as soft spoken and awkward
These people all talk so low and slow. Maybe its just the combination of INFP with ADHD but I like to think I dont sound so dull when I have something interesting to say😂
my mind thinks too quickly and people constantly tell me to slow down... among the non-sense i speak for them, the amount of word per minute i say is another reason for them to feel lost and me to feel misunderstood. and when i see in their eyes that they don't follow me anymore i just go even quicker to end it the sooner i can without just interrupting myself blaming them to not follow cause it would feel rude from both parts.
oops.
I have a feeling alot of us INFP's have adhd since i see alot of comments say how we can't focus on what we are trying to say and can't put it into words
John Lennon and Björk = the best INFPs
We love those kind of videos cause we feel understood for once
I have always connected with Bjork, and to know she is also INFP makes me happy 🤗😄😀
I think of all the INFP's (or other types) I've seen or read about, I see myself and relate so much in Johnny Depp.
That Heath clip. You just know how much he has thought about those things over time. Everything he has or hasn't done in the past, how he has done them and why, what do those things mean. There is so much but all he can really say here is that uh yea i would do everything differently.
Tim is talking about the battle of Fi vs Te. Inner voice vs the tribe and I do relate for sure
I am a broken record and i am proud of it😂
Johnny Depp, David Lynch, Bjork, Morrissey... Ok now I know why I love them so much
When I always watch videos with INFP it's like I was looking signs that they're handicapped or weird because that's the way our personalities are described and often seen. Weirdos, awkward, kinda autistic. It's very hurtful and since I know what people think about us, I feel like I was handicapped 😐 f.. all people who think low about us.
lol pretty much all of my favorite people
We are not stoned..Its the deep understanding of feelings and the day dreaming that drugges us with its magical mist of imagination and reality combined that makes us literally away with the fairy's.
I want all these people as my friends. Especially John. I can dream.
Here's a fish, there's a fish, everywhere a fish fish!
Hahahahahaha I know!!
If you guys want to see a mega infp, search up an interview of elliott smith. He was extremely polite and awkward
That clip with Johnny Depp has a whole new meaning now
Lmao this reminds me of that time in PE when my best friends and I were lying around on the grass and benches talking about some bs when this girl came up to us and told us that we looked like stoners
As INFP I'm my own worst critic. Seeing other INFPs gives me the chance to see myself more objectively and put everything into perspective. PS: I think all the INFPs shown in this video are actually very lovable. One of my favorite INFPs is John F Kennedy Jr :)
The last part of Tori amos is sososo relatable "you shouldn't be so mean to me !" geeze
ENFJ here… I’m in love with nearly all of them 😂
Is it just me or Tim Burton looks pretty much like the guy from Ratatouille ? I guess it’s an another ability of INFP to make links between the outside world and our own imagination ...
I'm technically INTP but going too hard into this type almost killed me, and I've since learned how important emotions are as a guide. I test at 48%F/52%T. I've built a lot of logical structures in my head as a guide to understanding life, and now trusting my feelings and letting go of logic to intuit my path along these structures is liberating and empowering.
I don't get it how we always have a world of different stories and interpretations yet in a conversation 🏌️
5:07 every word resonates deeply with me
It all makes sense in my head, I just don't know how it all scrambles when I try to voice it out.