I think you neeed to realize it’s not Ariana’s fault for the show ending you can’t blame all on her you’re there too step up to make it worth watching it’s not anyone’s job to food on you’re table but you just cause you’re a mom I’m a mom too I don’t bring my kid into anything it’s manipulative you seem so jealous of her success and it’s coming off bitter do better and stop mentioning her it’s ruining how people see you. …
Idk, Lala. There have been seasons where I didn’t vibe with you and others that I loved you. Season 11 was horrible for you. I would’ve expected you with your B-girl persona to be telling Ariana to get the hell up outta that room, put on a freak’em dress, and let’s go out and show that turd what he lost. And telling her congrats on the new dude because some people say the best way to get over a man is to get under another one 😜And telling her to keep fighting like hell for her $3M asset and not let Sandoval screw her out of that like he screwed her friend. You ladies could’ve still incorporated him back into the group, but had each others’ backs when he started spewing his hypocritical BS. I just think the season could’ve been much more fun.
You’re right, we don’t know you. But we do see and hear you! Season 11 was your dirty season, and Scheanas. Your underhanded behaviour to Ariana was shocking. The lies were shocking too! So please don’t try and whitewash the season, it was awful!!!
@@raydaysbeautylookout3783 She lied and twisted things throughout the season. So no, she didn’t sugar coat anything. She definitely overestimated herself and underestimated Ariana. She looked like a fool!
Lala, I understand we need to make a living and that was your motive. If only you focused that frustration on Tom and not just Ariana who did not deserve it, probably would have gone down better, the audience did not understand why you kept blaming her for the show even after filming. Where was your empathy for her. It just made the audience feel negatively towards you. This is not to bash you I just wanted to bring some self-awareness to you as to why people disengaged.
I came here to express the same thoughts. I think Lala's anger was misplaced. It was Sandoval who caused the problem, not Ariana. Ariana was just left to deal with it and tried her hardest to do so. Sandoval had no intention of making any amends with Ariana, he has proven that at the end of the season and with his actions since. When was the last time she spoke with Randall? I think it was unfair and misplaced to focus anger on Ariana this way. At the end of the day it might well be Lala who was the final nail in the coffin with all the fourth wall rubbish.
I understood her so don’t speak for everyone. Also go put your hate into something creative instead of bringing someone who’s about to have a baby down and or stressed. Take care and keep your negativity to yourself next time!🫠
Oh she loves to sound secure by insulting the only people on the planet that actually listen to this shit. & let’s be real. All we want is her to talk about VPR- let’s all be honest we all fast forward & skip when she & her yes crew men Just talk about themselves- you’re boring - but I want to hear about Ariana 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She should play devil’s advocate at times to stimulate more interesting and deep conversations from Lala… but all she does is constantly laugh and agree with everything. No added value whatsoever
@@Agh576 I agree and think she has picked up on that and finally is! Hopefully 🤞 it’s just not always super safe disagreeing about an issue! Hope it’s genuine!
Thank God in my 30's I grew quite a bit and started to become the person I am today. I still had a few backstop but made it through. Our 20's is like being a toddler of future adulthood with lots of playtime.
If you are bad on alcohol, like me… doesn’t make you an alcoholic. It makes us a bad drunk. That’s why I don’t drink! I’m obnoxious even tho I’m having fun. I don’t like to be that girl.
So true! People get labelled as alcoholic when they’re just downright obnoxious when drunk. Most are self medicating due to some personal issue. Doctors are not so quick these days to diagnose alcoholism.
The issue is control. When you use alcohol to cope or self medicate and it causes chaos in your life or you have problematic behavior you are an alcoholic. It is a substance you are abusing, alcoholic ,:drunk it's one in the same. That being said their are different reasons for people being alcoholics just like there are different kinds of drunks /alcoholics. Some are bad bc they are aggressive fighting,driving, getting the law involved. Some are fun and some are emotional. Etc
@@Saundra-jq7rmControl is only one of the issues. You just don’t listen to what people are saying. Maybe you’re an alcoholic but not every drinker is. Try not to label people coz it’s damaging.
I asked the first question. Woo 🎉 It wasn't meant to be spicy, it just felt there was something much deeper going on, when R upset you S7. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability LaLa! ❤ Appreciate you being authentic and true to yourself ✨
I felt the same thing about that particular scene and first thought well maybe it was the alcohol because she decided to drink that day. But I also thought that this may be the beginning of the end of their relationship. Anyway, good question!
People don’t want to admit they’ve slept with Jax because he has a reputation for having g*nital w*rts. This what Stassi meant when she said she can’t forgive him because this is something she has to “live with for the rest of her life”. Come on, he’s drunkenly slept with thousands of women with and without protection.
You’re an absolute QUEEN. The way I relate in sobriety AFTER losing my dad and my mind, basically. Sober 5 years in September. Congrats, girl. You kill it.
Lala!!! You are someone I look up to as a child of trauma. You are an inspiration to me. We have worked through something extremely painful in a positive and negative way. I am so sorry for people who do not understand that it's okay not to be perfect. I watch all of your episodes. You have kept me alive when I have felt suicidal. Please know that your story does touch people, even in Roscoe, IL.
Great episode!! Lala you’re a Boss! @jessica PLEASE, you don’t have to laugh obnoxiously at everything lala says. I understand she’s funny but do you know how annoying it is to hear constant loud laughter in our ears…
Easton should be on VPR. It would help fight agaainst the misogynistic undertone. I cant believe hes never seen an ep. If my sibling were on a show i feel like i definitely would have to see it
This is why we love Give them Lala …love love loved this episode..it was so good..so down to the nitty gritty and answered everyone’s questions…so now you all satisfied…have fun nesting Lala ..the best part of being pregnant..❤
If Lala and ever hooked up w Jax. That would have caused such chaos. I'm glad they never did. Good for La. I've been that drunk girl at 4 am. It's not good. Thank God Jax never came over.
Love you Lala, Easton and Jessica!!! Been watching since the first episode of this pod. Always been on your side. Congratulations on your baby girl as well. Lastly I really hope VPR does come back, I grew up with the show, went through the same things as the show aired. Definitely need it back with you in it! ❤
I think you neeed to realize it’s not Ariana’s fault for the show ending you can’t blame all on her you’re there too step up to make it worth watching it’s not anyone’s job to food on you’re table but you just cause you’re a mom I’m a mom too I don’t bring my kid into anything it’s manipulative you seem so jealous of her success and it’s coming off bitter do better and stop mentioning her it’s ruining how people see you. …
Idk, Lala. There have been seasons where I didn’t vibe with you and others that I loved you. Season 11 was horrible for you. I would’ve expected you with your B-girl persona to be telling Ariana to get the hell up outta that room, put on a freak’em dress, and let’s go out and show that turd what he lost. And telling her congrats on the new dude because some people say the best way to get over a man is to get under another one 😜And telling her to keep fighting like hell for her $3M asset and not let Sandoval screw her out of that like he screwed her friend. You ladies could’ve still incorporated him back into the group, but had each others’ backs when he started spewing his hypocritical BS. I just think the season could’ve been much more fun.
👍🏻❤️well said.
Genuinely love you so much! Your honesty is refreshing and you crack me up every episode ❤️ Love you all so much and sending love from New Zealand x
You’re right, we don’t know you. But we do see and hear you! Season 11 was your dirty season, and Scheanas. Your underhanded behaviour to Ariana was shocking. The lies were shocking too! So please don’t try and whitewash the season, it was awful!!!
She was not dirty, she didn’t sugar coat her honest thoughts and feelings.
@@raydaysbeautylookout3783 She lied and twisted things throughout the season. So no, she didn’t sugar coat anything. She definitely overestimated herself and underestimated Ariana. She looked like a fool!
@@Roz-y2d what did she lie about
@@raydaysbeautylookout3783Lauren was two faced the entire season. Being “soft” to Ariana’s face yet talking non stop sh*t during confessionals.
She was real and no bs..I appreciate the honesty and the fact that she spoke her mind when everyone else was too bitter to do so.. just my opinion
Lala, I understand we need to make a living and that was your motive. If only you focused that frustration on Tom and not just Ariana who did not deserve it, probably would have gone down better, the audience did not understand why you kept blaming her for the show even after filming. Where was your empathy for her. It just made the audience feel negatively towards you. This is not to bash you I just wanted to bring some self-awareness to you as to why people disengaged.
I came here to express the same thoughts. I think Lala's anger was misplaced. It was Sandoval who caused the problem, not Ariana. Ariana was just left to deal with it and tried her hardest to do so. Sandoval had no intention of making any amends with Ariana, he has proven that at the end of the season and with his actions since. When was the last time she spoke with Randall? I think it was unfair and misplaced to focus anger on Ariana this way. At the end of the day it might well be Lala who was the final nail in the coffin with all the fourth wall rubbish.
I understood her so don’t speak for everyone. Also go put your hate into something creative instead of bringing someone who’s about to have a baby down and or stressed.
Take care and keep your negativity to yourself next time!🫠
@mestes7 this wasn't hate, it is my thoughts and opinion, your the one spreading hate here
She was cognizant of both sides of what she was being given in season 11. She made the best decisions for the information she had at the time.
@@mestes7thank you! Because my thoughts were don’t say what the audience was thinking because a lot of us were not thinking those words at all.
Now we're roaches. Got it.
😂she’s an effing clown, isn’t she?
Oh she loves to sound secure by insulting the only people on the planet that actually listen to this shit. & let’s be real. All we want is her to talk about VPR- let’s all be honest we all fast forward & skip when she & her yes crew men Just talk about themselves- you’re boring - but I want to hear about Ariana 🤣🤣🤣🤣
She’s actually saying “ only roaches like my podcast “ 😂😂😂 must be good! I’ll take it 😃
Would she say there was “grey” with Randall’s choices? That sometimes ish just happens? The double standards 😅
Does Jess ever disagree with her? 😑😑 lol change her name to Yes.
😂
She should play devil’s advocate at times to stimulate more interesting and deep conversations from Lala… but all she does is constantly laugh and agree with everything. No added value whatsoever
@@Agh576She’s probably scared of being fired!
No or else she wouldn’t have a job
@@Agh576 I agree and think she has picked up on that and finally is! Hopefully 🤞 it’s just not always super safe disagreeing about an issue! Hope it’s genuine!
Thank God in my 30's I grew quite a bit and started to become the person I am today. I still had a few backstop but made it through.
Our 20's is like being a toddler of future adulthood with lots of playtime.
Now this is what fans want, what people want watching this pod. VPR content!! Beats the lame comments. This needs happen more. Best ep in awhile.
If you are bad on alcohol, like me… doesn’t make you an alcoholic. It makes us a bad drunk. That’s why I don’t drink! I’m obnoxious even tho I’m having fun. I don’t like to be that girl.
So true! People get labelled as alcoholic when they’re just downright obnoxious when drunk. Most are self medicating due to some personal issue. Doctors are not so quick these days to diagnose alcoholism.
The issue is control. When you use alcohol to cope or self medicate and it causes chaos in your life or you have problematic behavior you are an alcoholic. It is a substance you are abusing, alcoholic ,:drunk it's one in the same. That being said their are different reasons for people being alcoholics just like there are different kinds of drunks /alcoholics. Some are bad bc they are aggressive fighting,driving, getting the law involved. Some are fun and some are emotional. Etc
@@Saundra-jq7rmControl is only one of the issues. You just don’t listen to what people are saying. Maybe you’re an alcoholic but not every drinker is. Try not to label people coz it’s damaging.
I asked the first question. Woo 🎉 It wasn't meant to be spicy, it just felt there was something much deeper going on, when R upset you S7. Thank you for your honesty and vulnerability LaLa! ❤ Appreciate you being authentic and true to yourself ✨
I felt the same thing about that particular scene and first thought well maybe it was the alcohol because she decided to drink that day. But I also thought that this may be the beginning of the end of their relationship. Anyway, good question!
@@lorikins100 Thank you so much!
Oh please are we being gaslit here Season 4 after Gay pride we seen you walk off Leave with Jax.
People don’t want to admit they’ve slept with Jax because he has a reputation for having g*nital w*rts. This what Stassi meant when she said she can’t forgive him because this is something she has to “live with for the rest of her life”.
Come on, he’s drunkenly slept with thousands of women with and without protection.
Lala has a sober family! That’s extremely lucky. People living in their truths.
Love seeing the growth ❤❤❤
Lala kent I can't wait to meet you soon god gonna make a way for us to meet soon amen amen amen 🙏 ❤
@@Solodolo18 get a grip sweetie
🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤
I lovvveee Fridays with this podcast😇
Me too❤😂
Dont be on a reality show. What whiner.
Easton disassociating when Jess is talking about Lala's texts has me in tears LOLLLLLLLLLLL
You’re an absolute QUEEN. The way I relate in sobriety AFTER losing my dad and my mind, basically. Sober 5 years in September. Congrats, girl. You kill it.
Don't you love sobriety when your friends are are acting like idiots or you wake up feeling great when your cast mates are hungover.
Lala!!! You are someone I look up to as a child of trauma. You are an inspiration to me. We have worked through something extremely painful in a positive and negative way. I am so sorry for people who do not understand that it's okay not to be perfect. I watch all of your episodes. You have kept me alive when I have felt suicidal. Please know that your story does touch people, even in Roscoe, IL.
As another child of trauma, please don’t use Lola as a guide to anything she has not done the work to actually heal and she’s really toxic
Yikes- I’m sorry to hear that 😢
Great episode!! Lala you’re a Boss!
@jessica PLEASE, you don’t have to laugh obnoxiously at everything lala says. I understand she’s funny but do you know how annoying it is to hear constant loud laughter in our ears…
Im glad lala changed her image.
Did she? Or did life change her?
She’s evolved and is changing all around. Motherhood and sobriety helped develop her character and personality in beautiful new ways.
Easton should be on VPR. It would help fight agaainst the misogynistic undertone. I cant believe hes never seen an ep. If my sibling were on a show i feel like i definitely would have to see it
💖💖💖
This is why we love Give them Lala …love love loved this episode..it was so good..so down to the nitty gritty and answered everyone’s questions…so now you all satisfied…have fun nesting Lala ..the best part of being pregnant..❤
If Lala and ever hooked up w Jax. That would have caused such chaos. I'm glad they never did. Good for La. I've been that drunk girl at 4 am. It's not good. Thank God Jax never came over.
Its crazy to dislike Lala and come for daughter?! You need your effing head checked.
Where did anyone go for Lala’s daughter?
Love you Lala, Easton and Jessica!!! Been watching since the first episode of this pod. Always been on your side. Congratulations on your baby girl as well. Lastly I really hope VPR does come back, I grew up with the show, went through the same things as the show aired. Definitely need it back with you in it! ❤
❤😂🎉Baby S will be here Super Duper Soon!🔜 hopefully September 1st my birthday 🎂 ❤❤😂🎉
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