Hi Angela, 1-Spiritually, we forgive because it is a commandment of Christ. 2- Forgiveness frees your heart from constantly remembering the hurt, loss, and pain and enables you to help someone else dealing with similar issues. Closure without forgiveness does not necessarily remove the pain. 3- Secularly and physically we forgive because it helps in lowering the risk of heart attack; improving cholesterol levels and sleep; and reducing pain, blood pressure, and levels of anxiety, depression and stress. I pray you are able to forgive, not forget, but forgive. I like your last outfit and the short black and white. You will be lovely in whatever.
Yes, forgiveness is hard…but,it sets you free too. I think that’s why we are asked to forgive… so we can be free. That feeling of letting go of hate feels so much lighter.
I was born to a teenage mom and no father. I've struggled for years with low confidence but your quote today helps me to know I must find closure with my upbringing. I thank the good Lord I was raised my grandmother and other special women who poured love into me. I found a wonderful husband and we've raised two beautiful daughters,so life did turn out well ❤! Thank you for your insight!
Option two is super cute! Forgiveness is a journey. We are commanded to forgive, however, that does not mean we let that person back into our lives, or they are free from the consequences. Forgiveness is freeing ourselves from the bitterness and anger that can eat us inside. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. I struggled with father abandonment issues for decades. After four years of therapy, I forgave myself and stopped blaming myself for decisions my parents made. I realized I was angry at myself for not living and loving myself regardless of circumstances out of my control. I started loving myself and transformed my life. I am grateful that I no longer carry bitterness and anger. I wish you peace and happiness. Love your channel!
So sorry you had to go through that sis. You are not alone...I grew up without my dad as well. I know what helped me was to see how much my mom forgave my dad. She was an instant forgiver and that was the example she set for me. So because she forgave him I could forgive him as well...and he walked me down the aisle for me wedding! That you prayed and asked God to take the hatred from you is a true testament of your faith! I find that forgiveness has more to do with me than the person I am forgiving...forgiveness frees my soul and heals me and God takes care of the other person. God's got you sis!❤
Honey , I love your natural make-up look. What I am learning about forgiveness is just b/c I forgive you does not mean you have access to my life or that reconciliation is required. Yes, it is important to heal and move on with your life. Who the son sets free is free indeed. Live in freedom! Tfs
Hi Angela... I understand what you're feeling regarding forgiveness...it is hard to do at times....I also had "daddy" issues even though he WAS present...Great provider but emotionally deficient...I struggled for many years because of the behaviors I manifested because he was not affirming of me as a young girl...without further detail I will say that as hard as it was for me, through much prayer and the seeking to obey God's word...I had to forgive him...that's what set me free. When I voiced my struggle, the Lord was quick to remind me that there is NOTHING beyond His forgiveness [except blaspheming the Holy Spirit]...on the Cross Jesus asked the Father to forgive His crucifiers because "they know not what they do." I would certainly not pressure anyone to forgive, but just say that difficulty of situations is not a criteria for determining forgiveness...who are we to pick and chose what or what not to forgive...what if Jesus decided not to forgive us and not suffer for us? What debt would we owe if He had not forgiven. Think of ALL the wicked things for which we ask forgiveness...there is no sin that His grace does not cover. Obviously, it is difficult to forgive certain atrocities in our humanity, that's why we have to trust and allow the power of God's Spirit to forgive and love through us. I believe forgiveness is closure. That said, as a Christian, that quote does not align with God's word and the spirit of His agape love. I trust you receive my words in the spirit of love....I so enjoy you and your videos each week and the positive messages and beautiful attire and looks you share...stay fabulous! P.S. love your choice for the shower!
At first I was sure it was the romper with the pink and yellow, but when you put on that jumpsuit…that jumpsuit is DEFINITELY the look. The shirt neutral heels and purse…muah! Chef’s kiss! 😘
Forgiveness is hard but until you release it, it will continue to weigh you down! The one that you are having problems forgiving has moved on and enjoying themselves while you are still harboring the anger! Yes I have been there too!
Hi Angela, my heart goes out to you and the heartbreak you feel in regards to your father. Forgiveness is oftentimes not for the other person but for ourselves. It frees us from being in bondage to what they did to us. The best decision you can make is to forgive yourself and forgive your father for your own peace and wellness. It is often a process, however the more you speak out loud Lord I forgive my father or Lord help me to forgive my father he will definitely do that. God loves you and he knows every heartbreak, every tear and all the hurt that is in your heart and he is willing and ready to heal it. But you first have to acknowledge it, as you have and let it go because it will eat you up inside. Love ya!
I'm so glad you found closure with your situation. I too struggled with a situation with my ex husband and my Pastor said to me forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation. That helped free me of the anger. It's definitely a faith journey.
2 minutes in and I’m smiling. Your grandson is adorable, and he will def be taller😅. You are gorgeous and the body is snatched. I’ve been an LPN for 30 years and my daughter is in school for her RN and I think I might go for it. You are an inspiration, thank you for sharing your life with us❤
My dear, you find closure when you find it in you to forgive. The silly phrase I don’t like is when people say forget and forgive. There are things that are so egregious that forgetting is an impossibility. But not forgiving is taking away from yourself. You leave the pain at the cross, at God’s throne. We need forgiveness every day. If you can’t give it, you are equally undeserving of it. Don’t give your peace over to anyone. Be blessed.🙏🏽💚
LORD .... how did you know that I needed these words tonight? You have spoken the truth! I too pray and ask the Lord for forgiveness, strength to let it go, knowing I cant carry the burden of hate forever. MY story is long, but yes Thank you for speaking on this subject.
Good evening Angela. I also grew up without my father being a responsible parent. Forgiveness doesn’t mean the action is right. However I needed the freedom from the burden of the offense. Forgiveness gave me that. He owes me nothing. God our father more than made up for his lack.
Angela, I like that you addressed the pressure from other people saying that we must forgive someone. I struggle with forgiving a particular person in my life but , l like you, I'm a Christian trying to live my faith. I pray for the person who hurt me and now I don't worry about my still feeling hurt or angry. Maybe still feeling hurt and angry doesn't mean that I don't forgive. I can still be angry about how I was treated while forgiving the person.
A few weeks after the murder trial of my daughter I asked the Lord to help me forgive the person responsible and I truly believe the Lord just led me to pray for that person and the child of that person . I’m not sure I have forgiven I only pray for their salvation
Hi Angela! First, you and your hubby are the cutest. Second, regarding forgiveness- for me, forgiveness is something to give when someone made a mistake or truly meant no harm. I've learned to accept people for who they are. Also , some thing's are unforgivable, so I just move on. Life is too short to hold on to people with "ugly" dispositions. That includes family members. As usual, I enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing and God bless you and your family. Also, I don't understand why anyone would take the time to write mean-spirited comments. You are fabulous!❤
I love this episode! 😍So much to take in! Your take on forgiveness vs. closure is so on point. I too had a family situation that was "unforgivable" but I asked God for closure and He put it in my spirit so I can finally get peace. Your Hubby love his Angela. So sweet 💖 Your Grandson is so handsome . That kimono is gorgeous on you. I love your fashions because I am 5'3" too. That last African outfit was my favorite. I would love to find that for myself. I like this format and picking one color to show us how to dress it up. You would make a beautiful Model!🤔 As you can tell I love your site😊 Lynn
Hey Angela, your skin care routine is great. However, leave at least a minute between products to ensure they have been absorbed and not being diluted by the next product. I use a little face fan to speed up my drying process.
I loved that quote. I know that feeling and though I am not a Christian as you are I know that only GOD can take care of this situation and only he can give us the JOY in our spirit. Love this video
You look fabulous!! I think you get closure in forgiveness… You are allowed to feel what you feel but if you harbor the negative feelings you are still trapped inside….but in forgiveness you release and become whole. It’s not about forgetting it’s about realizing that the person did wrong and it’s up to them to figure their crap out… You are free!! I love the African outfit.
Just watched your video regarding skincare and forgiveness. My take: you don’t or should not do ANYTHING you don’t want to do however, in becoming whole you do not want to carry any dead weight that encumbers your peace. Forgiveness will free you from the burden of carrying that weight around. Trust me, I have experienced serious offenses and pain against me (not from a father) but I found more peace in forgiveness and letting go of it. But I also know that os a PROCESS! Love your channel! ❤
Thank you for this video, your honesty, sharing your day and your heart with us. Appreciate it. Praying for you with the issue of forgiveness. I love the last outfit as well.
Last outfit for sure but with different accessories, you have an awesome collection of fab footwear and purses to choose from. (What were you thinking “sneakers “ for a bridal shower?! I don’t care if they are silver Ms Angela , LOL.) Just playing with you Angela, I think you are a woman of impeccable taste 💯 The brown just reads too brunch-casual (in my humble opinion). So let’s show off those Fendi silver mules and the bright pink bag OR... clear Zara sandals and a metallic bag 👍 OR... anything but the brown 🥰. Thank you for keeping it real in your channel Angela, you are loved 🌸
I love the jumpsuit! A white bag would look nice with it as well. They are all beautiful! Regarding the forgiveness versus closure, I feel you need to deal with it in your own way. Your feelings are your feelings and my belief is you have to grieve the situation the way you need to. Often times people give their advice in a kind and loving way, but they don’t know or understand what a person has really experienced. I have a situation that has taken a lot of time to grieve and process. I am not at the forgiveness phase yet, but I do pray for them. I work and pray for peace in my heart and happiness and health for my family! I will not allow their issues to weigh me down or cause me unhappiness. My hope for you Angela is to have peace in your heart and not carry the burden of someone else’s actions. Only you can decide how you achieve that for yourself. Don’t allow anyone to tell you how to feel or what you need to do. That is your choice. You are a beautiful person! Blessings to you and your family!! 😊
Mrs. Angela thanks for sharing your personal story. I too grew up w/o my dad. I had to forgive & let go & let God! 😇 I love all the looks but that jumpsuit is 🔥! I think the black & white dress or the jumpsuit you should choose to wear.
I’m eating pistachios and in my head yelling, “Let me see the romper with the light pink purse!” I LOVE African fabric. Part of my spring break was in Rwanda and I had some items made. Lovely. I remember admiring this dress from another episode
Outfit #2! So cute and classy, with some spunk! In regards to your father situation, I went through something similar. They were divorced when I was three, and barely tried to spend time with us when sis and I were very young. Then he completely stopped communication other than to call mom and complain about the support he was supposed to give (single mother - only a teacher's income). At some point he told his next child - with the woman he cheated on my mother with - that he didn't have sisters, and that it was only a dream. He even told me sister to not call because his new girlfriend didn't know he had daughters. What a charming man with integrity. So I used the word HATE for him - and no one else. I couldn't forgive - but I could move on and not allow that hate to become acid in my soul and psyche. It took me a long time - until my forties - to move on. I still harbor ill feelings - but they no longer eat me up. I"m 57 now - and I know that I am a much, much better parent than he ever wanted to be - or had a capacity to be. Continue to work out those feelings!
Angela you’re beautiful inside and outside. I lost both of my parents as a young child. I grew up angry for many years. I did have closure several years ago. I adore you and closure is the best choice. The black and white dress is my best choice.
Thank you for sharing your story. A lot of us have abandonment issues, however I am just so grateful for who you are and sharing things on your channel with us again as I've always dated you are such a beautiful spirit and I enjoy watching you. Now let's get to these outfits number 5 is my absolute favorite absolutely
Hey Ms Angela, I can definitely identify with what you were saying about forgiveness. My situation was similar to yours when I was growing up. My father left us when I was (7) years old. He left my Mom with (6) kids to care for. He never paid any child support. My Mom worked & struggled to care for us. Despite it all, I can truly say that we were never homeless, nor did we ever go hungry. I was young and didn’t quite understand, but because I had a praying mother, this I believe is how we made it through & my three older brothers worked to help her take care of us younger kids. Yet he had the audacity to take on another wife & 2 more kids without ever divorcing my Mom. My dear Mom died at the age of 46 and he had the nerve to show up at the funeral trying to tell me where I should lay her to rest. I told him to get out of my face, because you walked away leaving 6 children. However I never had a relationship with him, but like you I too am a Christian & eventually forgave him before he passed.
I agree.... some things are unforgivable...it's like putting the pressure on the victim. I will forgive in my own time....no one else's time. Me and God will work it out. But no one should try and make you do it when they think you should. P.S. I love you and hubby
Angela thanks for sharing your routine; my skincare routine started at an early age of 11. Some tips I’ve found helpful include I don’t rub my skincare products into my palms. I either apply drops directly to my face or put it on my fingertips to massage product into my face and neck. I have my toner in a spray bottle to avoid spills and overuse. Good Skincare products are way too expensive to waste. ❤
Hi Angela! I cannot express how elated & thankful to see the skincare portion of this video. I am a quadruple, race latina over 55. I don't need too much makeup but I do need a good skincare routine. Throughout the years I've struggled with my skincare/make-up routine trying to balance what beauty store staff tell me (total nonsense) versus what I think I really need. Your video confirms it all! Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing dear Ms. Angela. Admittedly, forgiveness is not always immediate for me. Yet, I strive to do it without hesitation as Christ did. Through the ages, I've come to appreciate more and more that it's personal and a process, even. Ultimately, I have found that with it comes closure. Thus, I believe that forgiveness is needed for closure. Also, you touched on the point of being forced to forgive. I don't believe that it should be something that is forced but instead a personal choice/ of one's own volition. Once forced, healing would be pretentious; a mere plaster over a deepening wound.
Great skincare routine. Thanks for giving us a peek into your regime. Your chitchat was deep. I think you have to find what is well with your soul and go from there. Sending love your way Sis❤
Love all the outfits. Last one seems to fit the bill. That quote is really thought provoking but I could never find closure unless I forgave. I tried it. I found that when I forgave there wasn’t anything to close. As a matter of fact I became more open to understanding how I needed to see the transgressions of others which in turn helped me to become more aware of my own. In other words the forgiveness was all about me not the one who had hurt me so deeply. 🙏🏾
How did I miss this one??😁 Thank you for being so candid and sharing some of your life. I'm still working on the fact that I'm alone and it's hard but I pray that one day it won't be that way. But right now when you hv no friends, significant other or close family. It's hard. Enough of that. I love your Farm Rio rompers it is everything.
Hi Angela i believe it is necessary to forgive as God requested of us. In doing so you will let go if the anger and the hate which means a healthier you. Closure is good because you need to know or try to understand what are the reasons and you can both get to express how you fell and how to move forward. When you pray and God release you its a beautiful feeling. You feel free and light and happy. Not happy about what had happen but happen you are free and that you are guiltless. You are so beautiful. I prefer your hair this way😊❤❤
Love love love your channel. I too have issues with both my parents....they didn't raise me. Anyways i think you have to forgive in order to have closure. I think you cannot have closure without forgiveness, and you have to truly forgive. that's why it takes time...God and time. I'm so happy for you. Continue to be who you are. I chose the last outfit or the last romper. Blessings and love😍
Thank you for the video, I have never heard the quote before, however, I will remember it. You should do more of this type of videos. Thank you for sharing.🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing parts of your journey. I’m so glad you found your peace to enjoy all the wonderful blessings to come your way. I love love the black and white dress and the pink purse is definitely the icing on the cake. You ROCK! Take care.
I am really loving La Roche Posay's line. I use the Micellar water, the Gentle foaming wash, and the Daily moisturizer with SPF 30. At night I switch out the daily moisturizer for the Liptak/ triple repair moisturizing cream. I've been keeping the products to a minimum and I think this is my best combo yet.
I've been hurt by my dad for so long and he passed away in 2006,I'm not sure I can even recognize closure, I'm beyond use to living with the pain... Kudos to you for being transparent
I ❤the last 2 outfits! You are important and beautiful, too! And your relationship with your grandson is lovely. He’s probably taller than you by now since this video went up yesterday😅.
I found closure by forgiving them not for them but do me. Our father basically threw my older sister and I away, more so me. I’d made a promise to a friend who knew our father, this friend passed and I kept that promise. I felt great..
I’m similar to you in forgiveness - I find that I am not able to forgive easily, but I do find that if and when I find closure I’m better with moving on. I pray regularly to release things so that I can move on and be happy - but I do pray that the person does become convicted to not repeat it and do it to someone else. I still also struggle to know if they way I handle this is right in the sight of God. I know that in Him that there is no condemnation so I rest in that.
Thank you for sharing your story. I too went through the same thing with having a absentee father . I still have issues and I ask God to please heal me and to forgive myself for being angry and to allow my father into my life. I hope one day you can heal. FYI I love the last look 🫶🏾🤎
What a great skin care routine. I have several steps as well-really taking care of my skin as I’m aging. You look beautiful. I think I’m going to try that misting spray. I LOVE the Black Girl sunscreen-no white cast. It is my favorite. Thanks for the video.
Hi Angela, I love your channel! My husband says he found but for me but I thought I found it one day! I watch a lot of your videos but I didn’t know you had cut your hair so did you do a video on why you cut your hair?. I really love it! I am natural as well but I have not embraced my gray so I keep it to a brown or black and short. In regards to your question about forgiveness versus closure, I totally agree with you! I believe you can have closure without forgetting a person. I have always wanted to ask you when you moved to Saudi Arabia did you have any idea you would find a husband and did you think that was all part of God‘s plan of getting you to a different place to find him. My husband and I watched how you met and we both thought it was a beautiful love story! Please respond back when you can. Keep doing the great videos! Reta
Hi Angela and Gab 👋🏾. Great vlog. Definitely agree about not using cotton pads during my skincare routine. Forgiveness is hard, but necessary and so very important I have to always remind myself forgiveness is not for the person that hurt me it’s for me. Great video Love option 2 it’s Sooo Cute. Tyfs✨🥰✨.
Hi Angela, 1-Spiritually, we forgive because it is a commandment of Christ. 2- Forgiveness frees your heart from constantly remembering the hurt, loss, and pain and enables you to help someone else dealing with similar issues. Closure without forgiveness does not necessarily remove the pain. 3- Secularly and physically we forgive because it helps in lowering the risk of heart attack; improving cholesterol levels and sleep; and reducing pain, blood pressure, and levels of anxiety, depression and stress. I pray you are able to forgive, not forget, but forgive. I like your last outfit and the short black and white. You will be lovely in whatever.
Yes, forgiveness is hard…but,it sets you free too. I think that’s why we are asked to forgive… so we can be free. That feeling of letting go of hate feels so much lighter.
Your skin looks amazing without makeup!!
I was born to a teenage mom and no father. I've struggled for years with low confidence but your quote today helps me to know I must find closure with my upbringing. I thank the good Lord I was raised my grandmother and other special women who poured love into me. I found a wonderful husband and we've raised two beautiful daughters,so life did turn out well ❤! Thank you for your insight!
GOD bless you. You've found the key to your success. Congrats to the those special women in your life.
Angela, you keep it real and a great inspiration to beautiful black women!
Option two is super cute! Forgiveness is a journey. We are commanded to forgive, however, that does not mean we let that person back into our lives, or they are free from the consequences. Forgiveness is freeing ourselves from the bitterness and anger that can eat us inside. God bless you.
Thank you for sharing your personal story. I struggled with father abandonment issues for decades. After four years of therapy, I forgave myself and stopped blaming myself for decisions my parents made. I realized I was angry at myself for not living and loving myself regardless of circumstances out of my control. I started loving myself and transformed my life. I am grateful that I no longer carry bitterness and anger. I wish you peace and happiness. Love your channel!
So sorry you had to go through that sis. You are not alone...I grew up without my dad as well. I know what helped me was to see how much my mom forgave my dad. She was an instant forgiver and that was the example she set for me. So because she forgave him I could forgive him as well...and he walked me down the aisle for me wedding! That you prayed and asked God to take the hatred from you is a true testament of your faith! I find that forgiveness has more to do with me than the person I am forgiving...forgiveness frees my soul and heals me and God takes care of the other person. God's got you sis!❤
Thank you so much. It was great chatting with you. Enjoy
Honey , I love your natural make-up look. What I am learning about forgiveness is just b/c I forgive you does not mean you have access to my life or that reconciliation is required. Yes, it is important to heal and move on with your life. Who the son sets free is free indeed. Live in freedom! Tfs
Hi Angela...
I understand what you're feeling regarding forgiveness...it is hard to do at times....I also had "daddy" issues even though he WAS present...Great provider but emotionally deficient...I struggled for many years because of the behaviors I manifested because he was not affirming of me as a young girl...without further detail I will say that as hard as it was for me, through much prayer and the seeking to obey God's word...I had to forgive him...that's what set me free. When I voiced my struggle, the Lord was quick to remind me that there is NOTHING beyond His forgiveness [except blaspheming the Holy Spirit]...on the Cross Jesus asked the Father to forgive His crucifiers because "they know not what they do."
I would certainly not pressure anyone to forgive, but just say that difficulty of situations is not a criteria for determining forgiveness...who are we to pick and chose what or what not to forgive...what if Jesus decided not to forgive us and not suffer for us? What debt would we owe if He had not forgiven. Think of ALL the wicked things for which we ask forgiveness...there is no sin that His grace does not cover. Obviously, it is difficult to forgive certain atrocities in our humanity, that's why we have to trust and allow the power of God's Spirit to forgive and love through us. I believe forgiveness is closure.
That said, as a Christian, that quote does not align with God's word and the spirit of His agape love.
I trust you receive my words in the spirit of love....I so enjoy you and your videos each week and the positive messages and beautiful attire and looks you share...stay fabulous!
P.S. love your choice for the shower!
Hi Debora, I definitely received your words in love! Thank you
🤍 Exceptionally Beautiful Family. Everyone has such Gorgeous Flawless Skin. No makeup needed. Love the Gran- baby’s hair. What a doll 🤍
I just want to thank you for your words that touched me in my journey toward forgiveness. Thank you peace and love to you and yours ❤
Gabe is so handsome!! He looks just like Sadia.
At first I was sure it was the romper with the pink and yellow, but when you put on that jumpsuit…that jumpsuit is DEFINITELY the look. The shirt neutral heels and purse…muah! Chef’s kiss! 😘
The last outfit is it for sure! And with Delina?? Show stopping!
Forgiveness is hard but until you release it, it will continue to weigh you down! The one that you are having problems forgiving has moved on and enjoying themselves while you are still harboring the anger! Yes I have been there too!
Yes. It was fun
All of the outfit options are beautiful. My favorite is the yellow Farm Rio romper. ADORABLE❤️
Love your channel and the support you have from your family. God have what you needed. That is a powerful quote, as forgiveness is for you not them. ❤
The black and white dress with the polka dot shoes…too cute!!☺️🥰
Wow. Gabriel is so tall! He looks just like Shadia. You're so sweet to him! You can tell he is sweet.
Hi Angela, my heart goes out to you and the heartbreak you feel in regards to your father. Forgiveness is oftentimes not for the other person but for ourselves. It frees us from being in bondage to what they did to us. The best decision you can make is to forgive yourself and forgive your father for your own peace and wellness. It is often a process, however the more you speak out loud Lord I forgive my father or Lord help me to forgive my father he will definitely do that. God loves you and he knows every heartbreak, every tear and all the hurt that is in your heart and he is willing and ready to heal it. But you first have to acknowledge it, as you have and let it go because it will eat you up inside. Love ya!
Beautiful, just beautiful and you're grandson is a hunk of handsomeness❤😊😊. Blessings!!!!
I'm so glad you found closure with your situation. I too struggled with a situation with my ex husband and my Pastor said to me forgiveness doesn't mean reconciliation. That helped free me of the anger. It's definitely a faith journey.
I like the last look. It’s perfect for a bridal shower ❤
2 minutes in and I’m smiling. Your grandson is adorable, and he will def be taller😅. You are gorgeous and the body is snatched. I’ve been an LPN for 30 years and my daughter is in school for her RN and I think I might go for it. You are an inspiration, thank you for sharing your life with us❤
My dear, you find closure when you find it in you to forgive. The silly phrase I don’t like is when people say forget and forgive. There are things that are so egregious that forgetting is an impossibility. But not forgiving is taking away from yourself. You leave the pain at the cross, at God’s throne. We need forgiveness every day. If you can’t give it, you are equally undeserving of it. Don’t give your peace over to anyone. Be blessed.🙏🏽💚
LORD .... how did you know that I needed these words tonight? You have spoken the truth! I too pray and ask the Lord for forgiveness, strength to let it go, knowing I cant carry the burden of hate forever. MY story is long, but yes Thank you for speaking on this subject.
I love the second look with the pink purse and those shoes!!!!!!
Good evening Angela. I also grew up without my father being a responsible parent. Forgiveness doesn’t mean the action is right. However I needed the freedom from the burden of the offense. Forgiveness gave me that. He owes me nothing. God our father more than made up for his lack.
this was a WONDERFUL video! and the last outfit is DEFINITELY A WINNER!
Angela, I like that you addressed the pressure from other people saying that we must forgive someone. I struggle with forgiving a particular person in my life but , l like you, I'm a Christian trying to live my faith. I pray for the person who hurt me and now I don't worry about my still feeling hurt or angry. Maybe still feeling hurt and angry doesn't mean that I don't forgive. I can still be angry about how I was treated while forgiving the person.
A few weeks after the murder trial of my daughter I asked the Lord to help me forgive the person responsible and I truly believe the Lord just led me to pray for that person and the child of that person . I’m not sure I have forgiven I only pray for their salvation
You are such a good person 💕 💛 💗
Praying that the Lord will give you a healing heart. God Bless you.
Keep blocking the haters. We are having fun supporting you👑 and your beautiful family. The fashion is the bomb!🖐🏾
Hi Angela! First, you and your hubby are the cutest. Second, regarding forgiveness- for me, forgiveness is something to give when someone made a mistake or truly meant no harm. I've learned to accept people for who they are. Also , some thing's are unforgivable, so I just move on. Life is too short to hold on to people with "ugly" dispositions. That includes family members. As usual, I enjoyed this video. Thanks for sharing and God bless you and your family. Also, I don't understand why anyone would take the time to write mean-spirited comments. You are fabulous!❤
I love this episode! 😍So much to take in! Your take on forgiveness vs. closure is so on point. I too had a family situation that was "unforgivable" but I asked God for closure and He put it in my spirit so I can finally get peace. Your Hubby love his Angela. So sweet 💖 Your Grandson is so handsome . That kimono is gorgeous on you. I love your fashions because I am 5'3" too. That last African outfit was my favorite. I would love to find that for myself. I like this format and picking one color to show us how to dress it up. You would make a beautiful Model!🤔 As you can tell I love your site😊
Lynn
Sometimes that forgiveness is for your own, healing more than theirs.
Forgiveness should bring closure...
Hey Angela, your skin care routine is great. However, leave at least a minute between products to ensure they have been absorbed and not being diluted by the next product. I use a little face fan to speed up my drying process.
I love the black and white dress . My thoughts on what you shared , I believe forgiveness is for you not the other person.
I loved that quote. I know that feeling and though I am not a Christian as you are I know that only GOD can take care of this situation and only he can give us the JOY in our spirit. Love this video
You look fabulous!!
I think you get closure in forgiveness… You are allowed to feel what you feel but if you harbor the negative feelings you are still trapped inside….but in forgiveness you release and become whole. It’s not about forgetting it’s about realizing that the person did wrong and it’s up to them to figure their crap out… You are free!! I love the African outfit.
I really, really like the black and white outfit. It is so, so very, very cute. 😍
Angela I like all the outfits. But the last one was my favorite.
Just watched your video regarding skincare and forgiveness. My take: you don’t or should not do ANYTHING you don’t want to do however, in becoming whole you do not want to carry any dead weight that encumbers your peace. Forgiveness will free you from the burden of carrying that weight around. Trust me, I have experienced serious offenses and pain against me (not from a father) but I found more peace in forgiveness and letting go of it. But I also know that os a PROCESS! Love your channel! ❤
Oh my he is so cute!
Love the last outfit, for your bridal shower.
The yellow and pink romper.
Thank you for this video, your honesty, sharing your day and your heart with us. Appreciate it. Praying for you with the issue of forgiveness. I love the last outfit as well.
Last outfit for sure but with different accessories, you have an awesome collection of fab footwear and purses to choose from.
(What were you thinking “sneakers “ for a bridal shower?! I don’t care if they are silver Ms Angela , LOL.)
Just playing with you Angela, I think you are a woman of impeccable taste 💯
The brown just reads too brunch-casual (in my humble opinion). So let’s show off those Fendi silver mules and the bright pink bag OR... clear Zara sandals and a metallic bag 👍 OR... anything but the brown 🥰.
Thank you for keeping it real in your channel Angela, you are loved 🌸
I love the jumpsuit! A white bag would look nice with it as well. They are all beautiful!
Regarding the forgiveness versus closure, I feel you need to deal with it in your own way. Your feelings are your feelings and my belief is you have to grieve the situation the way you need to. Often times people give their advice in a kind and loving way, but they don’t know or understand what a person has really experienced. I have a situation that has taken a lot of time to grieve and process. I am not at the forgiveness phase yet, but I do pray for them. I work and pray for peace in my heart and happiness and health for my family! I will not allow their issues to weigh me down or cause me unhappiness. My hope for you Angela is to have peace in your heart and not carry the burden of someone else’s actions. Only you can decide how you achieve that for yourself. Don’t allow anyone to tell you how to feel or what you need to do. That is your choice. You are a beautiful person! Blessings to you and your family!! 😊
The jumpsuit is beautiful and it also looks good with your hair
Mrs. Angela thanks for sharing your personal story. I too grew up w/o my dad. I had to forgive & let go & let God! 😇 I love all the looks but
that jumpsuit is 🔥! I think the black & white dress or the jumpsuit you should choose to wear.
I’m eating pistachios and in my head yelling, “Let me see the romper with the light pink purse!”
I LOVE African fabric. Part of my spring break was in Rwanda and I had some items made. Lovely.
I remember admiring this dress from another episode
Outfit #2! So cute and classy, with some spunk! In regards to your father situation, I went through something similar. They were divorced when I was three, and barely tried to spend time with us when sis and I were very young. Then he completely stopped communication other than to call mom and complain about the support he was supposed to give (single mother - only a teacher's income). At some point he told his next child - with the woman he cheated on my mother with - that he didn't have sisters, and that it was only a dream. He even told me sister to not call because his new girlfriend didn't know he had daughters. What a charming man with integrity. So I used the word HATE for him - and no one else. I couldn't forgive - but I could move on and not allow that hate to become acid in my soul and psyche. It took me a long time - until my forties - to move on. I still harbor ill feelings - but they no longer eat me up. I"m 57 now - and I know that I am a much, much better parent than he ever wanted to be - or had a capacity to be. Continue to work out those feelings!
Angela you’re beautiful inside and outside. I lost both of my parents as a young child. I grew up angry for many years. I did have closure several years ago. I adore you and closure is the best choice. The black and white dress is my best choice.
I totally agree with quote🥰
Beautiful as always🙏
Thank you for sharing your story. A lot of us have abandonment issues, however I am just so grateful for who you are and sharing things on your channel with us again as I've always dated you are such a beautiful spirit and I enjoy watching you. Now let's get to these outfits number 5 is my absolute favorite absolutely
Hey Ms Angela, I can definitely identify with what you were saying about forgiveness. My situation was similar to yours when I was growing up. My father left us when I was (7) years old. He left my Mom with (6) kids to care for. He never paid any child support. My Mom worked & struggled to care for us. Despite it all, I can truly say that we were never homeless, nor did we ever go hungry. I was young and didn’t quite understand, but because I had a praying mother, this I believe is how we made it through & my three older brothers worked to help her take care of us younger kids. Yet he had the audacity to take on another wife & 2 more kids without ever divorcing my Mom. My dear Mom died at the age of 46 and he had the nerve to show up at the funeral trying to tell me where I should lay her to rest. I told him to get out of my face, because you walked away leaving 6 children. However I never had a relationship with him, but like you I too am a Christian & eventually forgave him before he passed.
I agree.... some things are unforgivable...it's like putting the pressure on the victim. I will forgive in my own time....no one else's time. Me and God will work it out. But no one should try and make you do it when they think you should.
P.S. I love you and hubby
Angela thanks for sharing your routine; my skincare routine started at an early age of 11. Some tips I’ve found helpful include I don’t rub my skincare products into my palms. I either apply drops directly to my face or put it on my fingertips to massage product into my face and neck. I have my toner in a spray bottle to avoid spills and overuse. Good Skincare products are way too expensive to waste. ❤
They are beautiful dresses but I love the last one more❤❤
Ohhh… and the jumpsuit is the one!! So cute on ya!!
Hi Angela! I cannot express how elated & thankful to see the skincare portion of this video. I am a quadruple, race latina over 55. I don't need too much makeup but I do need a good skincare routine. Throughout the years I've struggled with my skincare/make-up routine trying to balance what beauty store staff tell me (total nonsense) versus what I think I really need. Your video confirms it all! Thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing dear Ms. Angela. Admittedly, forgiveness is not always immediate for me. Yet, I strive to do it without hesitation as Christ did. Through the ages, I've come to appreciate more and more that it's personal and a process, even. Ultimately, I have found that with it comes closure. Thus, I believe that forgiveness is needed for closure. Also, you touched on the point of being forced to forgive. I don't believe that it should be something that is forced but instead a personal choice/ of one's own volition. Once forced, healing would be pretentious; a mere plaster over a deepening wound.
Yes love the jumper
❤❤❤ ppl always tell you how you should feel but in reality it’s your journey, your truth and your process.
#2 or #5 outfits look great
I really enjoyed this video. Your skincare/makeup routine is AMAZING. Thank you for sharing
Hi Angela , this was nice. Have the most bless night
The last outfit is the best 🙂
Angela you are so beautiful. I just love watching your videos. You inspire me. ❤
Great skincare routine. Thanks for giving us a peek into your regime. Your chitchat was deep. I think you have to find what is well with your soul and go from there. Sending love your way Sis❤
Hi Angela, I really enjoyed the get ready with me, as well the discussion topic hope you film more of these 😀
Hi Angela! I loved that jumpsuit. It looked great on you.
Love all the outfits. Last one seems to fit the bill. That quote is really thought provoking but I could never find closure unless I forgave. I tried it. I found that when I forgave there wasn’t anything to close. As a matter of fact I became more open to understanding how I needed to see the transgressions of others which in turn helped me to become more aware of my own. In other words the forgiveness was all about me not the one who had hurt me so deeply. 🙏🏾
Forgiveness is the one thing that is most hard to do but is necessary for our mental health.
I agree with you whole heartedly IF that train of thought propels you forward keeping your heart open and love at the forefront 💛
I like the black and white dress with the white flowers
How did I miss this one??😁 Thank you for being so candid and sharing some of your life. I'm still working on the fact that I'm alone and it's hard but I pray that one day it won't be that way. But right now when you hv no friends, significant other or close family. It's hard. Enough of that. I love your Farm Rio rompers it is everything.
Hi Angela i believe it is necessary to forgive as God requested of us. In doing so you will let go if the anger and the hate which means a healthier you. Closure is good because you need to know or try to understand what are the reasons and you can both get to express how you fell and how to move forward. When you pray and God release you its a beautiful feeling. You feel free and light and happy. Not happy about what had happen but happen you are free and that you are guiltless. You are so beautiful. I prefer your hair this way😊❤❤
Love love love your channel. I too have issues with both my parents....they didn't raise me. Anyways i think you have to forgive in order to have closure. I think you cannot have closure without forgiveness, and you have to truly forgive. that's why it takes time...God and time. I'm so happy for you. Continue to be who you are. I chose the last outfit or the last romper. Blessings and love😍
Thank you for the video, I have never heard the quote before, however, I will remember it. You should do more of this type of videos. Thank you for sharing.🙏🏾
Thanks for sharing parts of your journey. I’m so glad you found your peace to enjoy all the wonderful blessings to come your way. I love love the black and white dress and the pink purse is definitely the icing on the cake. You ROCK! Take care.
I am really loving La Roche Posay's line. I use the Micellar water, the Gentle foaming wash, and the Daily moisturizer with SPF 30. At night I switch out the daily moisturizer for the Liptak/ triple repair moisturizing cream. I've been keeping the products to a minimum and I think this is my best combo yet.
I've been hurt by my dad for so long and he passed away in 2006,I'm not sure I can even recognize closure, I'm beyond use to living with the pain... Kudos to you for being transparent
I ❤the last 2 outfits! You are important and beautiful, too! And your relationship with your grandson is lovely. He’s probably taller than you by now since this video went up yesterday😅.
I still believe in forgiveness even though it's hard.....I love the last outfit and the fragrance you chose 💙💙💙
Thank you Love the skincare routine and the quote
I really enjoyed this. Love the last look.
I found closure by forgiving them not for them but do me. Our father basically threw my older sister and I away, more so me.
I’d made a promise to a friend who knew our father, this friend passed and I kept that promise. I felt great..
I love them all. But I really love #2 and #5.
Hey Beautiful… the last outfit because it checked all the boxes, comfort, beauty, and your heart was singing in it💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿❤
I’m similar to you in forgiveness - I find that I am not able to forgive easily, but I do find that if and when I find closure I’m better with moving on. I pray regularly to release things so that I can move on and be happy - but I do pray that the person does become convicted to not repeat it and do it to someone else. I still also struggle to know if they way I handle this is right in the sight of God. I know that in Him that there is no condemnation so I rest in that.
Love the first outfit
Thank you for sharing your story. I too went through the same thing with having a absentee father . I still have issues and I ask God to please heal me and to forgive myself for being angry and to allow my father into my life. I hope one day you can heal. FYI I love the last look 🫶🏾🤎
I Love you GRWM!!!!! You are So Awesome!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
What a great skin care routine. I have several steps as well-really taking care of my skin as I’m aging. You look beautiful. I think I’m going to try that misting spray. I LOVE the Black Girl sunscreen-no white cast. It is my favorite. Thanks for the video.
Hi Angela, I love your channel! My husband says he found but for me but I thought I found it one day! I watch a lot of your videos but I didn’t know you had cut your hair so did you do a video on why you cut your hair?. I really love it! I am natural as well but I have not embraced my gray so I keep it to a brown or black and short.
In regards to your question about forgiveness versus closure, I totally agree with you! I believe you can have closure without forgetting a person. I have always wanted to ask you when you moved to Saudi Arabia did you have any idea you would find a husband and did you think that was all part of God‘s plan of getting you to a different place to find him. My husband and I watched how you met and we both thought it was a beautiful love story! Please respond back when you can. Keep doing the great videos! Reta
Hi Angela and Gab 👋🏾. Great vlog. Definitely agree about not using cotton pads during my skincare routine. Forgiveness is hard, but necessary and so very important I have to always remind myself forgiveness is not for the person that hurt me it’s for me. Great video Love option 2 it’s Sooo Cute. Tyfs✨🥰✨.
Thank you Angela! Now can you share a night time routine please?