MOVING IN NYC ALONE AT 34 (vol. 5) | finally applying for 3 nyc apartments & apartment hunting contd
Вставка
- Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
- these few days of nyc apartment hunting have been insane!!! finally after weeks of apartment hunting, i submitted application for three nyc apartments in Manhattan (one studio and two one bedroom apartments). In this chatty nyc apartment hunting vlog, we view nine apartments, go on a roller coaster of events and emotions and then talk about the next steps.
MOVING TO NYC ALONE AT 34 SERIES: • MOVING IN NYC ALONE AT...
MOVING TO NYC ALONE AT 33 SERIES (first move series): • MOVING TO NYC ALONE AT...
Love you guys!!!!
Tisha
-----------------------------------
SAY HI ON SOCIAL:
➫ Instagram - / tishashrestha
➫ Link to Know It - www.shopltk.co...
➫ Subscribe for upcoming videos - bit.ly/2HcSmi8
➫ Pinterest - / tishaxshrestha
➫ Facebook - / stylewithtisha
-----------------------------------
MUSIC:
➫ Music from Epidemic Sound: www.epidemicso...
---------------------------------------
TECH + EDITING:
➫ Editing: Final Cut Pro X
➫ Thumbnail - Canva + Tezza
➫ Camera - Canon T7i - bit.ly/2XqXUwo + Iphone
➫ Vlogging camera- Sony ZV1- bit.ly/3yneQFz; iPhone 15; wide camera lens for Sony ZV1: bit.ly/47HcoM5
➫ Mic- bit.ly/38c0Cun
➫ Voiceover - bit.ly/2O0qfH1
➫ Laptop - bit.ly/2r8Vuq1
---------------------------------------
FTC: Some of the links are affiliate links i.e. if you purchase using the link (it doesn't need to be the same product), I will get a small commission without costing you anything extra. THANK YOU so much for supporting ♡♡♡
---------------------------------------
Current sub count: 12,618
Goal: 50,000
---------------------------------------
#nycapartmenthunting #my30sandthecity #movinginnycin30s
--------------------------------------
tags: living alone in nyc,living alone diaries nyc,living alone nyc vlog,moving to nyc alone at 34,moving to nyc alone in my 30s,my 30s and the new york city,new york in your 30s,living in nyc in your 30s,living alone in nyc in my 30s,moving in new york city in my 30s,living alone in my 30s,nyc living alone,nyc living alone vlog,moving in manhattan new york,living in new york city in my 30s,living in new york in city in 30s, 30s & city, nepali in nyc,nepali youtubers, moving in nyc alone at 34,moving to nyc in your 30s,nyc vlogs, living alone in manhattan, living alone in manhattan in 30s, nyc apartment hunting 2024,moving to a new city alone,living in nyc alone, new york vlog,nyc vlog,new york city,new york diary,living in new york,living alone diaries,new york vlogger,nyc apartment tour, new york city vlog, nyc weekend vlog,weekend in my life, nyc apartment,nyc weekend, nyc apartment update, nyc vlog,new york city vlog 2023,nyc vlog 2023,nyc vlog day in my life,new york city vlog,nyc vlogger ,nyc vlogs,nyc vlog days in my life,spend the day with me in nyc,spend a few days with me in nyc,new york vlog 2023,nyc vlog 2023, tisha shrestha, moving to nyc, moving to nyc in my 30s
![30'S AND THE [NY] CITY: turning 35, dating life, oversharing, solo dates (living alone in nyc)](/img/n.gif)
so so sorry for being MIA here and on IG 💗Thank you so much for being part of this journey and your support 🙏🏽.
This is one of the longest video I have ever posted.. so much to catch up!!
Watching from Kathmandu keep it up sis
@@travelwithjason999 thank you so much 🙏
@@TishaShrestha great to hear sis 🌄 much love and best wishes
I found it interesting that you're Tisha and your sis is Patisha! So cool to see the process of all of this! I'm glad you had your sis around to bounce your thoughts off of! Always good to have family support!
@@rebekah3483 my aunt suggested my name since it rhymes with my sister’s name. Pratisha’s sister Nitisha :))))
Agreed! Family support is so so important ♥️
The apartments in this video mostly looked a LOT better than in your previous videos. Hope your search ends soon though! All that stress … sending you virtual hugs ❤❤❤
Yeah so many better options this time ard! Thank you so much ❤❤❤. Sending you vitual hugs as well
Your sister is right, your current apartment is dark and depressing. The studio had so much light and charm ✨
Don’t settle! You made the right decision. This is a place you will call your home for the next 1 to 2 years. The right one will show up for you.
Exactly 😊
Thank you ❤❤❤
If you're in an apartment walking on squeaky floors...just know that you're going to be hearing that same walking/squeaking from the tenant above you. Sometimes even rugs don't help and it gets to be REALLY annoying.
Im sorry this has been stressful for you, but apartment hunting videos are my favorite thing to watch! Cant wait for the empty apartment tour and moving vlogs in the future 💜
Girl! I am all in with this journey! I put in a second vote to trying other areas to maximize your money and potentially get a nicer building and larger place. You are so close!
(And you can also get some sort of island to put in any kitchen with lack of counter space. 😊😊)
almost there!!! thank you so much for your suggestion ❤
Uggggh, apt #26 Run like hell, I felt like I needed 10 showers and 5 baths just to get that ilth off of me! And that’s just from watching the video… I understand they said they’ll have some things fixed but they should’ve had those things completed before showing the unit. I think the first apt is more suitable but that Yorkville apt is nice too. Again, I hope everything works out for you and you get the apt you want.
WOW, WOW, WOW, the Rollercoaster ride continues!!! Girl, I thought you were going to get one of the apartments in this video--What a BUMMER!!! You still have the option to look UPTOWN, UPTOWN in HARLEM, WASHINGTON/HUDSON HEIGHTS, and INWOOD allowing you to stay in the borough of Manhattan with a 20-30 minute subway ride to downtown, all within your price range in a larger apartment with elevators and laundry room in the building!!!
I thought the same...that this is it!!! thank you so much for all the recs ❤
Thank you for all the updates! No apologies for the content, this is the reality of apartment hunting especially in NY. All the annoying hiccups are honest and part of the journey. Much luck! I know your efforts will land you in your dream home 😊
Fingers crossed for you finding that " perfect" place. Keep an open mind, you can always make a place your own.
Tisha, loving the apartment hunt content and the longer length of this video. Don’t stress about that aspect please. I am crossing my fingers that your next video will be the one where we see your new home 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 Sending you a virtual hug 🤗 and hoping the apartment finding fairy is sitting on your shoulder bringing you luck!
Wow. What a journey. I bet you’re exhausted. Loving your apartment journey. It must be so stressful though. Your current building management are useless and it shows you’ve made the right decision to move out. I think you’re right about the narrow apartment and your new place is still waiting to be found!!!
My thoughts too. 😊
Whoa what a time you are having at the moment. But it is a moment and this will pass. Always trust your first instinct as you are doing. The perfect apartment will come, just keep at it. You are young and can cope with all this. You deserve the best for you and your fur baby 🐶.❤ sending love and positive thoughts to you. So keep going, keep warm. Thank goodness you have family and friends to support you. Take care keep safe. Lovely snowy days with you in New York my second fav city. 😊Rosie O from a cold but sunny Devon, England 🏴 x
At the end of the video I'm also starting to feel stressed from apartment hunting 🤐 I wish you find your dream apartment, and have a peaceful rest of the year after this madness is finally over
The quality of your videos are just getting better and better! I'm hooked on your personal adventures in living; keep it up!
thank you so much ❤
Don’t give up, I feel your frustration with your current management and trying to find a decent place to live. I am also apartment hunting so I feel your pain Have faith ❤
Still in love with the studio lol
Me too, the second I saw it!
Me too. Seems cozy!
Yep! Agreed 💯
Yeah I do regret negotiating the broker fee 😢
Same that place looked beautiful
Don't worry about what you are showing as content Trisha. I'm enjoying this apartment hunting very much. I pray you find an apartment you like soon. If you don't 'LOVE' any that you view, don't take them. I'm certain that you wouldn't settle in other life ventures. It's important to love your space that you call home. Good luck in your 'adventure' and I look forward to the next one. ☮
Hi Tisha,
Absolutely love your videos. I have been watching for quite some time now and was pleasantly surprised to see the longer video. I’m really enjoying your perspective on finding an apartment. Thank you for taking us along. It is your authenticity and your transparency that draws people in so please never stop.❤
Thank you for sharing this video.👍🥰
Thank you so much for being here ♥️
I was crossing my fingers so hard throughout the video, really hoped you found your place! The quality of the apartments in this video seemed very good compared to some of the old ones, I hope thats a sign that your perfect one is right around the corner 🍀
"I wouldn't look in there." 😱Run away!
😅
Omg this was suspenseful 😩😩 I just knew you were getting that big one! It’s ok I KNOW you will get what’s in the cards for you soon. The bright side is you’ve started to come across some really good ones. I know this will continue, wishing you all the best in finding your place, peace of mind and clarity. I’m excited for you!!! I can’t wait until you get out of your current place!!! They really make me 😡😡😡
Fingers crossed for the best 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 luv your videos
Learned much about NY apartments. Don't think I'll move there. I currently live in Oakland near the top of a hill in a transitional neighborhood. Live in a 1920s middle unit of a triplex with private parking, backyard with veggie and orchard growing area. It's 850 sq ft, one bedroom, original windows in living room w/ 1920s vibe (original) though all the other windows are double paned and new with screen, private deck off back entrance, has washer/dryer combo, all appliances including a HUGE gas oven and range, original large and plentiful kitchen cabinets, under-the-stairs closet off the living room, medium sized bedroom closet with a dormer off the bedroom window with two double windows, original hardwood floors that look lived in but have no paint stains, and much more......all for $2,300 per month (water and garbage included). Downsides: no sound or temperature insulation at all. Thank goodness I am respectful of my neighbors and they of me. The floor slants in the first floor quite a bit, so I had to use various materials to level it out for my office "closet," large bookshelf, and three large metro shelving units completing the walk-in pantry. The one thing that I can say about my home is that it was very clean and freshly painted in a color that I requested. While moving in was a year+ long process, it feels more and more like home and is highly functional. Do you all in NYC get to know your neighbors well? I am of the impression from videos that is not the case.
Here after Axella mentioned you have a channel & ouhhhh im so engrossed! you have a way of making 39mins feel like 10! Immediately subscribed & can't wait for more videos! (hopefully where you're moved into an apt you love!)
AWEEE thank you so so muchhhhh♥
Oh my word, heaven only knows how you're feeling, I'm exhausted and dizzy just watching you! I must admit I thought you were going to say you were sorted. I think you've done the right thing, if you're not 100% happy, walk away. I know it wouldn't be ideal, but you still have your sister you can stay with for a while if you need to get out without having found anywhere. I know that means putting all your stuff in storage but you only have to pack up once! Good luck and try to keep smiling. xx
I hope you get the apartment of your dreams...... main point taken from all of your searches - - get an apartment with lots of sunlight. Other issues can be worked out ( lack of counter space, lack of closet space, small bthrm ). BUT, sunshine cannot be reproduced artificially..... it is such a mental health/ mood booster. And, sunshine always brightness any space makes it look much prettier / cozier. I hope you get the sunniest one that makes you happy!
Sending positive vibes and love your way Tisha. I know it’s frustrating apartment hunting. You will find the one that is meant for you!!!
Love the apartment hunting content! I'm sorry that you're having a difficult time finding a new place. Have you thought about looking for a place in Jersey City so you'll have an option just in case you can't find anything in New York? I wish you the best of luck 😊
Thank you so much ❤. I haven't right now. I have applied to few more places. Lets see how it goes. Thank you
Hi Tisha! Hang in there. You will get what you want. We’re with you! Be strong! Keep going. You can do it! I’m praying for you!
You won't regret it. What is meant for you, is meant for you. Your perfect apartment is waiting for you!!! Your hard work and perceviereness will pay-off! Im sure of it.
Thank you so much♥️
that second apartment was atrocious cannot believe these landlords
Yes they should be reported. 😮
so much potential but not well maintained
Re the charges, idk if you took pictures before you moved in here but going forward, take pictures of EVERYTHING before you move in. So when you move next time they can’t argue
Maybe she can use the yt videos?
Great choice, Tisha!! Do not settle..... you want to be happy with your new move. DO.NOT.SETTLE. Stay strong & the Universe will provide..... 🙏
Oh girl! You're going through it. My life has been a shit show of mishaps for 6 months now. 😅... does it ever end? Hang in there. ❤
OH NO!!!!! I hope things get better for both of soon ❤
Well, that was a rollercoaster of emotion!! I was so I excited about a couple of those apartments!! What a bummer you did not get the ones you wanted, but I'm sure there is something better out there waiting for you to find it.
Sending you loads of positive vibes! I hope you find a space that you will be happy to call home ❤
The studio apartment is great!!
it was beautiful!!!
I am stressed watching what you are going through. I can't believe how many apts you have viewed!! You are a strong woman!! Sorry to hear about the gas bill fees, how annoying is that?!! I'd be really mad. You really are handling this so well. I wish you luck and that you will find your new home soon!! I'm gonna sub now. :)
Recently came across your Channel. Intrigued to watch your apartment search because I have rented my entire life. At 58 years old 2 years ago I purchased my first home. I have had many dreams over the years of putting in my notice to move and then not being able to find a place and having nowhere to live. I guess that's why this has intrigued me because you are in that current situation. In my dreams I am so frantic and you are so calm. Look forward to seeing which place ends up being home.
Good luck, Tisha. Hope you can have everything you dream❤.
The studio was gorgeous
I regret it so much for negotiating the broker fee 😭
Hi, it's good to see you again. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time with your present landlord. Hopefully you will find something you like soon.
Looking forward to your next vlog…..
Thank you ❤
I watched every last minute of this video. I'm so sorry this wasnt a successful session of apartment hunting but the perfect one is just around the corner, I just know it! The apartments in this video did look miles better than in your past videos. The Hells Kitchen apartment looked promising since it'll be renovated and had a decent amount of space and light!
Congrats and love the positivity. Life is beautiful, flaws and all. Makes it interesting. Stay strong and Pretty.
Thank you so so so much for the kind words🙏
You can always buy your own washer and dryer. Which is better sometimes
Yeah those wash/dry in one take forever to dry because they are not vented to the outside. Very inefficient and a hassle. You’d either be hanging your clothes to dry all over the apt or you will still go out to a laundromat.
Oh my, you piir girl...such an ordeal. Prayingvyou find something lovely soon. Im glad you have your dog for support. They are the best❤
I love your apartment hunting video content. Maybe you should continue it after you find one. I'm not moving to NYC, but love seeing the apartments. I was born there BTW. 😊
Great video! As a native NYer who still lives here...I would highly suggest you check out apartments in harlem, say 110th and 116th st or passed 96th st. You'll have much more space, 1-2 bedroom for the price point you are looking to pay. And you'll still be close to central park! I would highly suggest this, your price is sooo high for just studios! You can get a better bang for your buck and you'll still be in the city, a train ride away from midtown-downtown. Good luck on your search, I know you'll find something!
Loved #25! Love your apt hunting. The right apartment will show up - don't fret. Those other apartments obviously weren't meant to be - I just would not deal with your current management anymore - I would get out of there as soon as possible.
last time your video came up I enjoyed it, but I didn’t subscribe. So I haven’t been watching you, but today your video popped up., And I did subscribe because I want to see what’s happening with your apartment hunting. Good luck!! Love your doggie!!🐶🥰
Never, ever make changes to a lease as a lease is a contract and never ever use your deposit as your last month rent. That deposit is returned after you leave. Every real New Yorker know this and good luck with your search. PS: try more management companies as brokers over charge.
Wishing you the best ❤
Thank you ♥️
I def think you made the right decision! Personally that apartment you didn’t take it was not my favorite. Layout wise it would be tough to make it work! I’m sure your apartment hunting will come to an end soon and you’ll finally get a one which suits your taste and needs❤
I’m a new to your channel, really enjoying your content and love your fur baby! I’m a 65 year old divorced female and my dog Bailey, is my lifeline! Hope you find a great apartment soon!
Love apartment hunting videos!❤
Wishing you all the best of luck my dear! You are so sweet and kind may all great things come your way 👍🏽🙌🏽😊
Keep hope alive! You’re gonna find a good spot & I think it’s a good idea to give yourself a few extra weeks to see what’s out there!
I can’t wait for update ! Your videos are really interesting ❤
Awww Tisha, sending a virtual hug 🫂. Roller coaster is right, so much stress. I agreed with your sister about the studio, by far the best place you've seen so far. I loved it the second I saw it, so sorry it didn't work out. I don't blame you for being discouraged, this is brutal on you. Something better awaits......
Thank you so much Bonnie! Sending you virtual hugs as well 🤗. I do regret negotiating the broker fee…. Hoping to find something better soon 🤞🏽
I sent videos to so many ppl asking if the creaky floors were too loud (I was concerned that it would be annoying while editing) and when I look at these clips it’s not that bad
@@TishaShrestha I wish I could fix it for you, I truly feel so bad for you 😔.
@@bonniepwtf a better one will come soon 😉
omg11 so many things to takr care of. I hope you find the apt soon my dear. I enjoyed the video! thanks for sharing with us, Love Andre
Good luck. ❤️
thank you ❤
Might want to get rid of the stuff you don’t use daily. Wouldn’t hurt. W/D is a must! Good luck!
Good Luck!
Thank you 🙏🏽
Apartment #31 the one that is under construction and #32.
Stay strong!!! We’re rooting for you 👊👊👊 and boooo for mysterious charges 🤬🤬
Love following along with you...
Although it was in a disaray i kinda liked apt3...
Seemed small kitchen but had a lot of potential
Good searches. Get rid of the stuff that u have not used for a year..
Then decide.❤
I’m glad you didn’t take that narrow apartment it felt very small and constraining I kept saying to myself please don’t take that apartment the whole video 😅
Why didn’t you apply to the one that would be getting completely renovated? Seemed like a good one
Yeah, it is! Massive windows and getting completely renovated 🙌🏽 Since the other one bedroom (narrow one) was the same price & no broker with 2 yrs lease I thought I would be proceeding with that one instead
@@TishaShresthacan't you apply for it now?
@@TishaShresthaWhy didnt you just talk to them again? And if theyre still renovating you might still be able to? If it was that good why not try and talk to them?
I feel you… ❤ I am looking for an apartment too but in Amsterdam and my face is full of spot for the stress as well 😅
Oh Lord the world of Landlords....Please give Queens or Brooklyn a chance.
Apartment 28 is the one she should apply for. It's clean. Otherwise, consider moving back to Jersey.
Keep going you will get there. I enjoy looking at the apartments but realise it is tough for you.
I really liked the first one
Make sure they are light.
Oh my lord girl...I really admire your persistence! I'd be a mess if I were in the same situation haha😅 I had my fair share of crappy landlords and honestly cannot wait to be moving to my own place! It's also madness the amount of money they are asking for those shithole appartments :/ In my country you could get a luxury villa for that amount haha. Really keeping my fingers crossed for you and your journey!
I hope you find your dream apartment soon😊
Thank you ❤ not sure if I’ll find one but as long as it is decent enough I think I am good for now 😅
You should be able to get a studio in a doorman building for $2400-especially in Yorkville. These are overpriced.
This may be a weird question, but a lot of NY vlogs I see, people talk about owners of the buildings. What does that mean? Do they not have a company that owns it? Like for instance, a lot of the apartments in TN have names. They’re all under (usually) the same company name or property name, and have leasing offices. Does NY not have those?
@charmedkitten, some buildings are privately owned by individuals but are managed by another entity. The manager or broker can show the apartment, the manager takes care of the day to day operations but the owners set the terms and have the final say. Owners can be an individual or a company. Some buildings or complexes do have names. There's generally a leasing office. Asalaamu Alaikum!
@@jsmith5509 🩷🩷🩷
@@jsmith5509 thank you so much for explaining
Keep the faith you will get through this 😊❤
I was hoping today's video would be you moving in to your new apartment. There has to be one for you! It's a daunting task tho, chin up somuthiong good is about to happen, hang in. there.
It doesn't matter you age something will happen in your new life.
Apartment 28 looks also very nice ( i think)
Nooooo Tisha to #2 - it's so old & really needs a complete reno. I think you'll have seconds if you were to move into it.
Hey !! It’s coming the apt of your dream 😊😊!! Get your rest and keep pushing !! 😊
Thank you so much ♥️
Take pictures of what you see at the very beginning and always and only send Emails.
Look in Bklyn NY Also near Prospect Park
❤❤❤❤sweetie your absolutely perfect spot is on its way. Love you and pupster. 🐶🐶🎶🌙💋🕊️🕊️
You're not supposed to use your deposit to pay rent. It's for the landlord to use for damages if necessary. Then they usually have 30 days to refund your deposit. You were lucky the building manager didn't make you pay January's rent.
Circumstances here are different otherwise I would have never done that. I had so many issues with the apartment - roach, mold, gas bill charges (when I should not be charged), etc. All of the issues are explained in detail in my older vlogs. Due to the mold issue, they agreed to allow to break my lease with no penalty and full security deposit back. Due to how they handled the gas bill, January rent was handled this way. Hope this clarifies it
Why didnt you go for the flat that was being renovated (the one they were keeping off market for you)? Was it bc you werent sure how it was going to look at the end or bc you were worried about when it would be move-in ready?
Wait, why didn't you apply to the one that was being completely renovated and not on the market yet??That one is going to be beautiful!!
What a stressful time, but also exciting, yes? By the way, that's interesting that you seem that you might be saying, "aks" instead of "ask." Wondering if that's a New York addition for you because Nepalese say "ask."
First was nice
“Has *a* brokers fee” omg that was driving me crazy.
Oh wow. So sorry. ❤
Where are the apartments? I follow a family that lives in Harlem. I loved visiting NY. Many memories. Lots of luck. First time viewing your video.
Hang in there!
love your videos! i forgot but why do you check under the sink? for mold or rodents or something else? i think you mentioned it in a previous video!
thank you so much ❤I do it need to check if there any holes that needs to be sealed (this is mainly to avoid rodents)
Give them a certified letter stating within 10 days if you do not hear from them you will report them to the housing authority .