I guess that part means, "When you got big problems, I´ll do Anything to help you" like if you need money, I have money, doesn´t matter that is money that I´ve been saving for the future, you´re my future... idk, I just felt like that.
I'm sorry for your loss. My brother, my only sibling, committed suicide 24 years ago. Every day since, I shed a tear and miss him so much. You never get over it, you just used to it.
My mum neglected us and our dad wasn’t in the picture so it was just me and my brother for 15 years. He basically raised me, he was my best friend. I lost him to substance addiction on Christmas Eve 2020 at the age of 18 and I miss him more every day. Thank you brother, for being there for me and making me who I am today.
I can feel your pain I have not lost my brother but my best friend lost his big brother and he was even a big brother to me we miss him alot I wish he could return
I lost my oldest brother in 2016. He was 9 years older than me and always watched over me. He had no fear and was the strongest person I knew. He even stood up for me against my a-hole father when I was 11. At 40yrs old I need him more than ever as I am battling massive depression. I need you Bro.....
Alexander Bash I am really sorry to hear that. My grandpa passed away 9 years ago. Although I don’t remember him much, I still get sad knowing that he has missed so much of my life. Stay strong 💜
I'm the youngest of three siblings. My brother is the oldest and my sister is the middle child. When we were young, our parents used to fight all the time. An there is this one incident I remember so clearly like it was yesterday. I was only four years old but for some reason it burned itself into my memory. Our parents were in the kitchen, fighting. My father was screaming at my mom while she was standing there, in tears. My siblings and I would eather hide behind the kitchen door (like we did on that day) or sit on the upper stairs and listen to them. Our mom caught us and told us to go outside and play. I just remember the three of us standing in the garden, speechless, scared and still able to hear the yelling of our parents. I used to be, and still am very sensitive. So as soon as my brother saw me on the verge of crying he just pulled me into his arms and hugged my sister and me. I never felt closer to them before. We swore each other that no matter what would happen to our family, we would never separate. We held the promise even after our parents divorced ten years ago. They are both downstairs watching a movie right now. Hearing them laugh after everything we've been through makes me so incredibly happy. I'm so happy I got them both in my life. They've been there every step of the way, we got each others backs. I don't know what I would do without them.
same for me im the youngest nd my sister is the older one and my brother is the middle child whenever my parents had a fight my sister would shout at them instead and settle everything down so im lucky to have her as for my brother he would take care of me by making me laugh or playing games with me and will say to me its gonna be alright now both of my siblings are out of country for their studies i miss them 😭😭
Man I don't know what I would do if I lost any of my brothers or family. I don't show how much I appreciate them but I would hate it it I could not say goodbye
the golden words: "If I was dying on my knees You would be the one to rescue me And if you were drowned at sea I'd give you my lungs so you could breathe" Just made me cry........
I lost my grandpa yesterday morning and I cried all day.Now I know how important family is,to all those people who recently lost a loved one I’m sorry. Fly high grandpa 🕊️🌹
I understand Rex how ya feel last week my mom died and today was her funeral it’s been like a nightmare / dream not knowing what is real from moment of being ok and moments remembering this is real ..the only comfort comforter is the Holy Spirit who is providing peace thru the storm I pray that you have comfort and Jesus gives you peace to you and your family to all the people on this chat /comment section of this music video amen 🙏
My brother took his life yesterday and today is his birthday. I sent him this song once when talking was hard. I should have been there when I wasn't. His pain overwhelmed me. I made it my own. I should have forced my way in. I should have called him everyday. I'll never get to tell him I love him again or yell at him for being a total dick, which he could be. Hug your people tight. Check on them regularly in these trying times whether they reply or not. My brother is gone and I am left with all this regret. This song is really getting me through it. I don't know that I could have saved my brother but I do know and will always know that I could have tried harder. There is no therapy that will ever erase that knowledge.
Oh mate, condolence... I feel the pain, I still have mine but life makes us diffificult to see each other, and I wouldn't forgive myself if it happens something to him. I promise you to change that. I thank you a lot for this message I thank Kodaline aswell for this song and this clip
I'm really sorry to hear that. Thank you for this, though because I know a few people that I should be closer to but I never tried to even get to know them well. I know that sometimes pity makes things worse but I really am sorry and I hope you can forgive yourself. It wasn't your fault. I dont know you but I can tell you that I understand at least some of what you are going through. God sees that you were great to your brother.
I’m really sorry to hear but your words make me think and make want to try harder to work on my relationship with my sister. God can heal when no therapy can so be hopeful and keep your head up!
I lost a friend of mine when I was 12, he was like a brother to me, the best brother i never had before. We had a very strong bond and we protected each other. The day before he died, he said "everything will be okay, even when we part" the next day i heard that him and his 21 year old sister died in a car crash. I'm 15 now and still saddened by his death. I know he has a bond with god......may he rest in peace 🤧
That's pure truth my dad was my other half and when he died something in me disappeared and my poor moms suffering and there's nothing I can do but comfort her saying that I'll never leave her like so many of her boyfriwnds
Lost my one and only sibling 18 years ago. My big brother! My hero, my guardian angel, my protector. Doesn’t get any easier, still feels the same today. I’ve learned to accept this feeling of sadness, depression, that’s how much he meant to me. Love you Erwin!
There’s no worse pain. I’m sure it’s still hurting just as bad as when you found out. There is no “are you okay now”, because it will never be okay. It doesn’t seem like it but in time you’ll learn how to manage the pain. It won’t hurt any less, but it will become easier for you to deal with. I lost my brother 8 months ago and it still feels like yesterday and I still haven’t accepted he’s not here anymore. It can take years, decades but you will get there, and I’m sure i will too someday. You don’t need to stay strong either, that’s stupid. If it hurts too much then live it day by day, even hour by hour or minute by minute. Whatever gets you through, nobody can judge you. Take it easy, and keep his memories safe.
i wish my older brother was like this im 16 and hes 21 its a 5 year age gap but we look so much alike and i would kill someone for him. but i dont think he wants me around for him
@@rileyward1787 no man let me tell u that he loves u than himself..i don't know ur brother but i'm sure, cuz i'm the older sister to my sister, we have the same diffrent age, i think she think that i don't like her or i hate her but u know what? i love her than i love myself i would die for here and if told her that im just love her she woudn't believe u, i know im bad at showing my love and im so nervos and make her feel like i don't like here but it's wrong, so ur brotger is the same...there is now older brother who isn't love his younger than him self💗
I think the kid playing the elder brother's character has done justice...it looks like there's real anguish and pain inside him..his expression and make up really make him look like a sick/dead person...seems like he is hiding tears behind his painful smile...a great performance in such a short time
My cousin was my older brother. I grew up with him and since my childhood he would protect me from everything. He saved me from drowning twice in the river. He became a police officer. When the war started in Artsakh-Karabakh, he went to protect our land. He died in a war (missile). I wish I could be there to protect him. Though if I where there, he would still be the one protecting me.
Ya, my brother is in the military, and I wonder all the time, "What if he doesn't come back? What if something happens? What if something is wrong right now, and I don't know? What if he's about to die, and there is nothing I can do about it?" Then, there's the thought that always makes me cry, "What will I do without him?"
It happens contrary to me. I grew up with my cousin, we are both girls and she's only 2.5 years older than me. But even like that, i admired her, she was my idol. But 3 years ago, she changed. I'm not... ehh.. writing (?) About in a bad way, she won a concurse that made a great change for her and her family. But the thing is, that Chrismast she were getting away from me and i didn't knew why. I was a little girl without a father and a mother who clearly has depression even if she hiddes it. She were like my older sister. I also have a young brother, he is the only boy in all the generation, we are literally 4 womans (my mom and her sisters, 1 of them is lesbian) and 5 girls (my cousins and me), so he is adored and ho is never with mewhen we visit them, he is always with my auntie, so i usr my free time with my cousin. But she was getting away. Like i was saying, in Chrismast she was avoiding me, i tried to talk, i asked her why was she acting like that, she ignored me. In new year, we were changing, i told her she looked beautiful, again she ignored me, after that i asked her how i looked, she had enough. It was a lot of sound out so, no one heard when she yelled at me that i was annonying and she wished that i let her alone, that she was fed up of me and she doesn't wanted me close. That was my break point. I wanted to cry, but i could not. My chest hurted, she just left the room mad. I decided i would do what she told me: keep myself away from her. She doesn't even did came when we did go. The next year, it wasn't the same. I avoided she like she avoided me. At the start, we didn't even tried to talk, but almost 3 days before we'd come back home, she looked like she wanted to talk to me. We saw again next year in April. But bow, it was me who avoided her. Just a hello and nothing else, for respect and education. Now she is trying to remedy it, but it doesn't matter anymore. I don't care, she wanted me to leave her alone? Well, now you got it. Now hold on b!tch, because i wouldn't even see you if it wasn't because your older sister (25) is going to get married in 1 or 2 years and we will be her bridesmaids. Now fvck off, leave me alone. I'm sorry, i had to take it out of my chest. If you read it complete, thank you. If you don't, then it is not matter. I didn't wrote this because i need everyone to read it. I just needed it. Now have a good day/noon/night and be happy!!
This lies are not able to change the truth.Your cousin died.But my brothers died there.Every Azerbaijan that died there are my brothers.So never show your lies as a truth.Well, you are not able to see the truth until you see dead child guts.Well yes you haven't seen them.But i see them every 26 Febuary.I see dead people of Khojaly, Shusha, Khankhandi.So keep your lies to your friends, becuase whole the world saw that truth.And Karabagh means "black garden"/Kara-Black, bagh-garden.Yes i think u know its meaning now.
No matter how many times I watch this. No matter how old I am. No matter if I’m alone. No matter if I’m in public. No matter if I’m at school. No matter if I’m in a test. Every time I watch this official video, whether I hear the lyrics and imagine seeing the video or just watching it, I will cry. And I will do so, with dignity. If I get judged? So be it! If I get laughed at? Who cares? If I’m mocked the rest of my life for crying, then so be it. This song will always bring the soft, sad, and sweet me out. Kodaline, best song lyrics and video. I will play this song if or when one of my brothers die. This is will live on forever.
dude i’ve never cried at a online video before and hardly ever in real life because i feel like i’m not a man if i do. but this video gets me every time. this video is just too close to home. i’ve done everything with my little bro and he even looks like him in the video. back when we were so innocent and playful it’s exactly how he would be and how he would feel if that happened. this video has given me a new meaning in life to protect my little brother with everything i’ve got. i never want to see him go through this ever...
I’m literally crying at this point. Not only the song is touching and emotional but so is the video, bro I’m in literal tears. It’s a rainfall that’s coming out of my eyes
Same with me. My brother has been on the streets using heroin for 10 years. He’s my whole heart and this video made me cry like a baby. Such a beautiful heartfelt song and video
I lost my big brother back when i was 7 years old he was 19 i still remember when he made a promise that no matter what he'd always protect me no matter where he was. Back then i didn't understand what he meant by that back then but looking back he was saying that even in death he would still watch over me and protect me. When i turned 8 my mom gave birth to my little brother and named him after my big brother and i made the same promise my brother made to me and i take care of him the way my big brother took care of me
Just always know, a loved one we lose, we Never Truly Lose them you can always find them in your Heart & Soul, where your loved one lives. Also ask for a sign your loved one find a way for you to know they are still with you, from a shiny penny, an animal, something they cherished & you know about and always look for a sign. Get a K2 Meter or Spirit Box to be able to communicate with them. I'm So Sorry of the Loss of your Big Brother! But What an Awesome & Amazing Big Brother you became!! God Bless You!!
This song hit like a truck. As a child you don't really know the concept of death until you start wondering why you stop seeing them. Only then to understand that death means that you'll never be able to see that individual anymore. But like how it was portrayed in the video. The memories you spent with those that are dead will never die so long as you remember them.
Reminds me of when our grandpa died and then my little cousin asked his mom "Why isn't grandpa visiting us anymore?" that was a few years back though. I wonder how he figured it out and coped with it..
I feel for you, I lost my sister 22 year's ago in a car crash and it still hurts. Only time helps nothing heals unfortunately that void will be there until you meet again in the next life. I always like to think that they are watching out for us from another place waiting to be reunited. 😉
I never lost a brother but this songs shows me how much I love my siblings and how much I wish to protect them and if any harm comes to them I will take it. I will always be there for my siblings. Even if I don't show it.
I have a younger brother and a younger sister and all I wish is more happy times with each other where we can share more smiles. Although we argue, I will always protect them ❤️
I lost my brother to suicide a couple months ago, words can’t describe how empty life feels without him. I have 3 brothers and losing one of them shattered the unspeakable bond between all of us.
I understand your pain. The hardest part is accepting that everything will always be different and it won't be the same again. Most people say it will get better but truthfully sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it becomes easier to bear but no more. You will always feel different with your life changing drastically and will feel like an outsider but remember if you are there for your family and they are also willing to be there for you it's easier to think about. They might not feel the same grief as you do but you will know that they understand your pain and will be sincere about your pain. - Advise from a understanding stranger
I dont see this song as depressing, i see it as inspiring. Two brothers who are actual brothers, brothers who are willing to do whatever it takes for each other. Brothers who are always there for eachother
I just noticed that at 1:29 when they Walk in front of the mirror the reflection of elder brother is an angel. And I have been listening to this song for so long.. amazing details
I lost my brother 3 years ago. We had a very close relationship, he was such a cute and smart boy. I always cared about him, and he's always cared about me too. We loved each other and almost always finished the other's sentence, laughing at stupid things together. All that fun and laughter, all the memories we had together, it ended suddenly. I wish I could gave him to my lungs. We had an accident and he drowned. He fought for his life, and so did I, who was by his side in the water the whole time. I saw my brother died. I screamed and screamed, but he never came back to the surface. I thought I'm in a very bad nightmare. That fear in his voice, that moves what he did... I couldn't save him. It breaks my heart every time to think about it. And I found this song yesterday. My tears falling while I listened and I thought this song is for me. It's for my brother. For Us. I don't really talk about it, but this song brought back very deep emotions. Beautiful song with a very moving video clip. I wish every brother and sister a lot of strength who had lost his/her best friend, soulmate, support, or even the one who constantly upset him/her with his/her silly jokes. Sibling is a wonderful thing. I know mine's always here with me.
It looks like you just describe me and my older brother. We're always laughing together, and he was always there for me when I needed (or even when I didn't needed. He was there all the time, and I loved him for that.) He also left suddenly, 6 months Ago. He drowned in the sea, but I wasn't with him. He left home friday and saturday he was dead. This song looks made for me as well, bacause i would give him my lungs so he can breathe without even thinking about it. I can't imagine how hard It was for you been there with him while he drowned. All that I saw was my brother's coffen, and It was closed (he stayed in the sea for 2 days before they founded him). Any way, I'm sorry for you lost. I know how much it hurts losing someone so close to us and that we loved so much. I wish you the best. (I'm sorry if something written in here is wrong. I'm brazilian, but I tried my best in here)
@@juliapeixoto9075 Thank you, and thank you for share your story, because six months not a long time, and you talk about it. I think it's very brave from you. It's so hard, because 'the show must go on' wich means the world never stopped, while we mourning. I send you a lot of strength and wish you the best too! (And don't worry, I'm sure my english isn't perfect either :) )
Let me tell u a story There once was a boy named Ryan with two brothers. One of them abused him and his name was Aaron and the other took care of him as a father figure named Nathan. Aaron blamed Ryan for the death of their parents. One day they were token hostage. And The kidnapper said choose one person to die. Nathan said "Me" Aaron said "Ryan" Ryan was shook at his brother and he said "I love you guys way too much and it is time for me to leave his world of ours we will meet again brothers" And he said "Kill me please" And ryan sang a verse from his song the verse being if you were drowning(that verse and I got you brother) And ryan died At the grave Aaron cried more than he did when their parents died and so did Nathan. They got older and got married. Aaron had a child named Ryan again memory of his late brother. Soon these two died and met in heaven where they saw small Ryan staring at them The brothers were reunited You see this brother loved his brothers equally and sacrafised his life for their safety Love your sibling as of they will die the next day and you regret it ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm very sorry for everyone in this comment section who've lost their brothers or other family members... Stay strong, and remember they'll always live in your heart and memories. They may be gone but not truly. And they'll never be as long as they live on in your memories.
My brother was born with a rare genetic disease, he died only at 12 and I remember every moment of his life, happy, sad and hard. He was in and out of the hospital. One day, my parents got a call and they rushed to him at a hospital and he passed away. My biggest regret and the lowest moment of my life is a didn't get a chance to say goodbye. He was my brother my friend and best friend. RIP Ben, I love you.
This song me and my brother learned and sang it together all the time. I lost my brother to suicide on December 9, 2020 and I haven't listened to this song since then. I am going through some hard times and I thought maybe it's time to finally listen to it again to help me get through this right now
It's been almost four years since my little brother died in a car accident, and the worst days have been the celebrations where he should have been there, and when my kids got to the age he said he would start taking them out so they didn't have to be with their boring parents all weekend. And when I watch something on facebook, thinking my brother needs to see this, but then cry because I can't show it to him.
Yeah. It's like.. they aren't gonna come back ? Ever ? Never again. It feels weird. Sometimes you think about seeing them, but you are not going to. You arent going to see them again, it's over. It's just really over. And you starts to lose memories. It's torture. The feeling when you have to empty their rooms and everything there was in it. Years of life for this.
@@Isokatmydydecsf even after almost four years we still have my brothers apartement. None of us wants to let it go, our parents use it as a base when they're in the country, and us siblings travel there at least once during the year. There we are surrounded by his things, and it's only a short way from where he crashed and died so we get to visit that place at the same time.
To those who have never experienced such a loss, treasure every moment. There will be a last goodbye, and a lot of the time you will never know when that is till it happens.
This song hurts. I didn’t lose my brother, but me and him are not close and I believe it’s too late to become close. I regret losing the link we had as kids. I miss the happy times we had together.
aww it’s ok and it’s never too late to get close just try u guys love each other endlessly regardless but if you wanna get close then do it now there’s no better time than the present make a change before it’s rlly too late :)
This song has made me realize a few things: 1) I’m afraid to lose my family and friends. 2) I have lost connections to people before, and this is just a reminder. 3) I need to reach out to others to be the comfort they need when going through a loss or personal Hell. If you wish to talk, I’m here for you.
Idk if this is a mental illness and if it is,tell me right away. I feel like my brain is split to two sides,one side tries to cheer me up and the other tells me I'm gonna die. I try to talk about it,but I just can't.
my brother Martin died from a miscarriage, I'm 18 and every now and then I think of how we'd be together and act with one another. This video gave me the visualization I needed and everytime I watch this I'll be thinking of him. RIP Martin, Cant wait for the day I finally meet you bud. I hope I've been making you proud, God Bless everyone
stay strong ...my eldest brother joshua only lived for several days...never even got to meet him and i cant wait till the day i do ...all my love and hope for you brother
It reminds me of my cousin. He was son of my mum's brother, but I treated him like he was my sibling. His parents and younger sister moved to Switzerland and couldn't bring him because he had school so he lived with us. We always had loads of fun, we used to fight on my parent's bed, go on adventures together, play video games and build fortifications in our garden. He taught me so much and saved my life so many times, he always cared for me and even tho sometimes he's been harsh I know it's because I was important to him Almost 5 years ago he decided to drop out of school and visit his parents in Switzerland because he couldn't stand the separation anymore. He went missing After 2 weeks they found his body under the waterfall. It wasn't suicide, it was just an accident, he stumbled and fell down because the rocks were slippery and he had heavy backpack with him. I couldn't believe that. I was struggling to get my life together for over a year and I am still not fully recovered, even tho it's been 5 years. I wish I could spend one more day with him. I wish he could see how beautiful and grown up his younger sister became, I wish he could meet his newborn sister and brother I wish he could see how far I've came in life because he always supported me when noone else did and was so proud of my achievements I miss him
This song hits hard when I was 12 I lost my grandpa he was my best friend at the time it felt like I was hopelessly wishing he would come home I'm 14 now starting grade 9 he missed my graduation I guess what I am trying to say is once people die you can't bring them back and you can let it hont you or live love you only have 1 life make sure you live it so when you die and you see those people you sent days crying over you can say I lived for you ❤
My condolences go out to you and your family my she rest in peace I have two older siblings of my own and I can’t imagine losing one them you are very strong for handling it. I know she is looking down at you proudly. Stay strong we are all here for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm so happy that people are coming back 3 years later and still sharing positivity and kindness. This was needed for 2020 Edit: If your going through something in your life atm that's pulling you down I wish you the best and hope that you look at some of these amazing people in the comments 😊
When you make this, it reminds me of my uncle who passed away, but it’s different because that was my mom‘s brother and then special to me and then some people made a song with this with her friends and then it made me cry, cause I got this old one of my friends in a long time
Oh that is sad, I lost my brother ( my only sibling ) when he was a lot older, 48 ( my age now) your brother will be there to meet you when it is your time x
I have a friend who was like my older brother. He was the only one that listened to me...more than my real brothers does. He's now in a peaceful place and i will always be grateful for what he have done for me..
Can't relate your argument, I don't have any chemistry with my brother whatsoever since I was born until now. I think he's the biggest d-bag in the world, but still... I love him. 😂
The worst part is, *I dont have a brother but still hurts.* The more time you spend, the more you make memories, together, the more you love a person, The more it hurts. :')
@@thiccplasticcbottle8023 Here's something i want to tell you When you're happy, you enjoy the music. But when you're sad, you understand the music and that is why it hurts *virtual hug sent :D
I cried while watching this video because I lost my older brother(20) this year, and the emotion in this depicts is exactly how I felt. 1.) Feeling a bit out of place because it doesn't seem real 2.) Around you, people are telling you they're sorry 3.) The bitter moment when I realized he was gone forever. edit: Many thanks for all of the love; I am now in a much better state of mind. Thank you all very much again for all your kind words and for helping me with kind words over the internet; it is amazing how people can help one another in this way. ❤
Please stay strong ❤️ I am so proud of you for getting this far bby just keep doing what you already are and know that there’ll always be somewhere there for you , even a stranger like me..! ❤️❤️
I lost my sister when I was five and she was four. This song is about losing a brother, but I still feel the lyrics pierce my heart each time I listen to it.
my (16) brother (28) passed away this october, when he was alive he showed me this song one time when he was staying at our moms house after he had a fight with his dad, and i hadn't heard this song in years, but i heard it again today and now im balling uncontrollably, this songs amazing, i dont figure that i would be lucky enough to tell Kodaline how important their song is to me and i imagine so many other people. thank you anyways
@@Novascotia2004 I will tell u tiny story about a brother who sacrafised his life for the safety of his abusive brother and his loving brother I just said the summary Ryan was a boy who loved his brothers even if his brother abused him.bit he had a loving brother One day a kidnapper kidnapped them and let 2 of them go and let the boys choose Loving brother: I can't lose my brothers kill me Abusive brother: that mistake Ryan should die he killed our parents Ryan was shook to the core and he thought: if I say him we are tier and Nathan. Will notdir. I will die for you guys because.....I live you So Ryan said :let me die I love you brothers Andi shall see you- And he died. Nathan rated and killed the kidnapper Nathan was the loving brother And Aaron is the abusive one Aaron mind:. R-ryan is d-d-dead, it is my f-fault. Brother I shall love for ur sake and I will meet you too At the grave the brothers cried but they stood strong they got married and Aaron named his youngest son Ryan like Ryan his youngest brother. And Nathan had children too. 97 years later na Nathan-109 aaron-112 They both died Aaron 2 years ago and Nathan died recently. The brothers met each other in heaven and are reunited Your siblings must be treated right if they love you. They are your family The end ❤️❤️❤️ Does this cheer you up a lil
I don't think that I've ever cried this much because of a music video and a song.. about one minute into the video I could feel tears building up. I've never lost a sibling or parent, only my dogs. But this still hit hard! Amazing song!
i cant stop watching this its the only thing that can make the tears i have been holding in for thirteen years fall the relief is borderline ecstasy thank you
I lost my big brother, my soldier this year. On my first day of junior year. This song hits so close to home, i always wish i would've reached out, wish i would've notice him mourning the loss of our oldest brother. I should've known he was hurting, this song is so beautiful. I love it and I think of him every single time i listen to it but it breaks my heart knowing i have to wait a while until i can see him again. But I've got to continue both their legacies so I'm going strong. Thank you so much for this song.
Please do not believe you "should've seen it coming." You are not alone on this road. Those signs feel so obvious but are so easily missed, as awful as it makes us feel. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but you could not have seen it, so please do not attack yourself over it. I've seen so many people beat themselves down over the issue of 'hindsight is 20/20.' Please remember you have a support system, you are loved, and you can reach out to people any time. I am sorry for your loss. God bless you and have a wonderful day. ❤
Please do not believe you "should've seen it coming." You are not alone on this road. Those signs feel so obvious but are so easily missed, as awful as it makes us feel. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but you could not have seen it, so please do not attack yourself over it. I've seen so many people beat themselves down over the issue of 'hindsight is 20/20.' Please remember you have a support system, you are loved, and you can reach out to people any time. I am sorry for your loss. God bless you and have a wonderful day. ❤
My best friend and I in high school worked at the same job each Summer. We had both gone through a lot of stuff and had both said we wanted to eventually become counselors/psychologists and come back and work with kids like what we were when we were younger. After graduation we drifted apart, but always hit it off when we'd see each other. We went to different colleges, me in North Carolina and he in Arizona. I got a phone call one day out of the blue--my friend had been found dead by his sister. He had overdosed on heroin. He never was able to escape his demons. That was 6 years ago. Just this summer I graduated with my Master's degree and became a counselor and started working with at-risk teenage boys. I still go to his grave and talk to him from time to time. Every note and word in this song resonates in my heart a thousandfold. Even after 100 listens, I still cannot listen to it without crying or without feeling like my friend is right there sitting next to me.
Lost my brother this past weekend, took his own life. Getting that call so early still replays in the back of my mind. Our family isn't whole anymore and so much emotions taking over me. Losing a love one is hard but losing my big brother like this is difficult in itself. When we talked and played games online we would laugh and joke around like we've always have. He hid it very well from us, makes me think about how much I couldve helped him if he just let me in. I love big bro, I'll miss you until my last breathe and this song brings so much emotion to me that it sums up everything about me and him.
I lost my Big Brother 5 years ago. he was my foundation, my safety, I knew everything was gonna be ok when he was there. I see this song as a promise to him. that even though he's gone, I'll keep going. I know he is on the other side fighting for me and our family. I just want to make him proud. I miss him. ❤
And you know what that’s OK, that is OK, and sometimes a special moment between the two of you like that needs to happen. There is nothing wrong with that.. There is nothing wrong with that at all in anyway whatsoever. I would love to be able to have a moment like that just wants more, sorry not to be like that just I hear you and it’s OK you’re not wrong that’s a beautiful thing
words are not enough to describe how beautiful the song is.
Yea
Yea it’s right
Yes it is
I agree
I totally disagree
"And if you were drowned at sea, I'd give you my lungs so you could breathe" That's true love.
Undead_Jaime you've made my tears worse
Undead_Jaime i love this part
Undead_Jaime STAP ;-; i'm crying so hard right now
And when you're in the trenches and you're under fire I will cover you
I guess that part means, "When you got big problems, I´ll do Anything to help you" like if you need money, I have money, doesn´t matter that is money that I´ve been saving for the future, you´re my future... idk, I just felt like that.
I lost my brother a month ago. I don't know how to live without him. We had so many plans together.
I’m so sorry I hope you get the happiness you deserve and all the peace in the world
I am so sorry to hear about your brother . I just want you to do that wish which u want to do with ur brother and live his remaining life
🙏
John, I am deeply sorry for your loss.
May you brother rely in the arms of the Lord. May he be light and so be it. 🙏🏿
🥺
I am so sorry .
May your soul rest in peace
Lost my eldest brother 5 days ago and am still recovering from the loss. God please protect and give to everyone who just lost a loved one.
I'm so sorry for your loss!!! May God give you comfort during this time.
Requiescat in pace. Amen.
Sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I lost my younger brother 3 months ago and I know your pain…please stay strong…!😘❤️😘❤️
Same I lost my elder brother 5days ago he was just 21...
I'm sorry for your loss. My brother, my only sibling, committed suicide 24 years ago. Every day since, I shed a tear and miss him so much. You never get over it, you just used to it.
This song brings tears to my eyes nearly every freakin' time.
Yeah me too. I have 8 siblings, just the thought of losing one almost kills me.
Me too
Same✨️
me and my friends who just vibin with the song: 😅😅
Same
BTW this is my grandmother's phone
“If you have nothing in life but a loving brother, you’re rich.”
-Unknown
True though
What about sister!?
@@svk0531 and sister, siblings themselves are just important. 🖤
@@stinkbla5928 💕
God I'm poor
We need more songs like this.
" I've got you, brother" This isn't just a lyric, it's a feeling.
At 2:25 I swear the older brother reassures his little bro, "I'm always here, bud" 😥🙏
that echo also like man
Amen
It is
Yes. Yes it is
I lost my older brother in 2016. he was 16 yrs old. I cried during this song. I miss him
Im sorry for your loss
it's impossible to listen to this without crying.
I've listened to this song three times in a row and o can't stop crying.
Erik Strindberg well I’ve done the impossible then
Indeed
Unless you have an emotion problem/disorder 😑😑😑😑
@@thedoctormaker you know, i dont even have a brother, and i cried like mine just died
My mum neglected us and our dad wasn’t in the picture so it was just me and my brother for 15 years. He basically raised me, he was my best friend. I lost him to substance addiction on Christmas Eve 2020 at the age of 18 and I miss him more every day. Thank you brother, for being there for me and making me who I am today.
stay strong man as he always wanted u to be💗
Crying as I read this. Love and light to you.
I can feel your pain I have not lost my brother but my best friend lost his big brother and he was even a big brother to me we miss him alot I wish he could return
Stay strong my brother ❤️
Ey bro you to you don't have parents ether
I hope Kodaline having a good day
Yeah
Yeah. He deserves an amazing day for such an amazing song.
@@ma.katrinakriseladecer5946 they* there a band lol
@@deonarinebachan6435 O.o you learn something new everyday. I didn't know they were a band.
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I lost my oldest brother in 2016. He was 9 years older than me and always watched over me. He had no fear and was the strongest person I knew. He even stood up for me against my a-hole father when I was 11. At 40yrs old I need him more than ever as I am battling massive depression. I need you Bro.....
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@@carlospacheco8640 Keep fighting. It will get better. So many people are here for you. I'm also here if you want to talk. God bless. 🫂
🌹
❤❤❤❤
I'm so sorry 🥹
"The saddest part of the life is when the person who gave you the best memories becomes a memory.. "
…hurts
😭😭😭😭😭😭❤
@slamet widodo it’s from naruto Uzumaki
Hang on my friends are like my brother
You've literally made me cry now
The saddest part of this song is the fact that these brothers can’t make new memories together.
It took me a long time to exept that fact when my grandfather passed (Still trying to be honest)
Alexander Bash I am really sorry to hear that. My grandpa passed away 9 years ago. Although I don’t remember him much, I still get sad knowing that he has missed so much of my life. Stay strong 💜
@@mackenzie.bircher wow same my grandfather passed away when I was 2 year old and i don't even know his face 😔
Don't say that 😭
That's the saddest part of life
I'm the youngest of three siblings. My brother is the oldest and my sister is the middle child.
When we were young, our parents used to fight all the time. An there is this one incident I remember so clearly like it was yesterday. I was only four years old but for some reason it burned itself into my memory.
Our parents were in the kitchen, fighting. My father was screaming at my mom while she was standing there, in tears. My siblings and I would eather hide behind the kitchen door (like we did on that day) or sit on the upper stairs and listen to them. Our mom caught us and told us to go outside and play. I just remember the three of us standing in the garden, speechless, scared and still able to hear the yelling of our parents. I used to be, and still am very sensitive. So as soon as my brother saw me on the verge of crying he just pulled me into his arms and hugged my sister and me. I never felt closer to them before. We swore each other that no matter what would happen to our family, we would never separate. We held the promise even after our parents divorced ten years ago.
They are both downstairs watching a movie right now. Hearing them laugh after everything we've been through makes me so incredibly happy. I'm so happy I got them both in my life. They've been there every step of the way, we got each others backs. I don't know what I would do without them.
Me too im the youngest of three siblings
same for me im the youngest nd my sister is the older one and my brother is the middle child whenever my parents had a fight my sister would shout at them instead and settle everything down so im lucky to have her as for my brother he would take care of me by making me laugh or playing games with me and will say to me its gonna be alright now both of my siblings are out of country for their studies i miss them 😭😭
You Will really know, what to do without them, cause they always will be with you in Your hart!
the little girl are yous with the one parent or 2 at one and 1 at the other
I can relate for a few parts, but now I can defend my Mom. My Father still gets pissy, and he has anger issues so.
lost my brother over a decade ago and I still cry. this song's beautiful and truthful.
For those who died, we won’t forget you.
For those who are alive, we hear you.
I I Don't knnow how to write in eglish, I'm Brasilian, but your comment makes ne fell so good. Thank you! Sorry for my poor english.
@@jmpj0066🤍🤍
😢 James rae 26,7,78 that was my brother 😢RIP brother 🙏
Amen 🙏
My brothers song as well
Dear person that’s reading this, we don’t know each-other but I wish you all the best in life!.
Have a great life too, you're kind
I wish I had a brother, there's a lot going in my life that's getting hard to handle alone.
U to brother
Same to you too brother
You too brother!!
Just imagine loosing one of your siblings at a young age. That’s a whole different type of heartbreak.
0 Videos 0 Subscribers yeah, it’s legit the worst. I lost my older brother to Suicide when I was only 10
@@mayakostyuchenko5716 I have little brother and I cant do what your big brother did.
Man I don't know what I would do if I lost any of my brothers or family. I don't show how much I appreciate them but I would hate it it I could not say goodbye
My brother left when I was little and I cried so mich
Much
0:17 when the little brother looks at the Big brother picture my jaw dropped and that's how I knew what happened
What happened?
@@MedievalGestures1the brother died in the guy that's walking after the boys that died photo that's the weather
And when you look up the front that's the dead brother's grave 🪦🪦🪦
Bro me to
Like how did he die? That’s the part I don’t get.
I lost my brother yesterday, and searched 'brother' looking for a song to help me get through this horrific pain... thank you..
Hugs and love to you ❤️
Stay strong ❤
I know I´m three weeks late But all my love and support goes to you. Stay strong and keep in mind that as long as you remember him, he's never gone ❤️
I feel this pain from mile ago i know how its feel mean when u lost your best friends from family stay strong u have all my support from me
We feel you. We hope you are well.
the golden words:
"If I was dying on my knees
You would be the one to rescue me
And if you were drowned at sea
I'd give you my lungs so you could breathe"
Just made me cry........
Yea...
same.. I'm over here sobbing
Same..I would do anything for my sister
Amazing
I’m sorry, but your pfp is everything
This song is enough to make a grown man cry
Makes me cry... again
Same
You lost someone?
It's not enough.
Get back in there tear.
But not this man
I lost my grandpa yesterday morning and I cried all day.Now I know how important family is,to all those people who recently lost a loved one I’m sorry. Fly high grandpa 🕊️🌹
I'm crying like a baby even tho I've seen this video and heard this song so many times already.
I cry every time I see this ur not alone-
Me to
Same tho
Same
everyone that is watching this knows the past and what they did but we should be learning from our mistakes and become better.
As the doctor once said “the day someone dies isn’t the worst, as lest you have something to do, the worst day is all the days they stay dead”
So trueee! Btw if you comment this song on this video I will play it on piano for you! ua-cam.com/video/Hga3XcdpkNQ/v-deo.html
A powerful quote from a powerful timelord.
I understand Rex how ya feel last week my mom died and today was her funeral it’s been like a nightmare / dream not knowing what is real from moment of being ok and moments remembering this is real ..the only comfort comforter is the Holy Spirit who is providing peace thru the storm I pray that you have comfort and Jesus gives you peace to you and your family to all the people on this chat /comment section of this music video amen 🙏
My brother died so I play this for him
@@M9chi14 I’m sorry for your loss
My brother took his life yesterday and today is his birthday. I sent him this song once when talking was hard. I should have been there when I wasn't. His pain overwhelmed me. I made it my own. I should have forced my way in. I should have called him everyday. I'll never get to tell him I love him again or yell at him for being a total dick, which he could be. Hug your people tight. Check on them regularly in these trying times whether they reply or not. My brother is gone and I am left with all this regret. This song is really getting me through it. I don't know that I could have saved my brother but I do know and will always know that I could have tried harder. There is no therapy that will ever erase that knowledge.
Oh mate, condolence... I feel the pain, I still have mine but life makes us diffificult to see each other, and I wouldn't forgive myself if it happens something to him. I promise you to change that. I thank you a lot for this message
I thank Kodaline aswell for this song and this clip
I'm really sorry to hear that. Thank you for this, though because I know a few people that I should be closer to but I never tried to even get to know them well. I know that sometimes pity makes things worse but I really am sorry and I hope you can forgive yourself. It wasn't your fault. I dont know you but I can tell you that I understand at least some of what you are going through. God sees that you were great to your brother.
Thanks for the kind words. I know this is tacky but I need to help his family so I'm posting this. gf.me/u/zcb78z
I’m really sorry to hear but your words make me think and make want to try harder to work on my relationship with my sister. God can heal when no therapy can so be hopeful and keep your head up!
I know how you feel remember when there forgotten that's wen there truly gone
I lost a friend of mine when I was 12, he was like a brother to me, the best brother i never had before. We had a very strong bond and we protected each other. The day before he died, he said "everything will be okay, even when we part" the next day i heard that him and his 21 year old sister died in a car crash. I'm 15 now and still saddened by his death. I know he has a bond with god......may he rest in peace 🤧
Never before has a song made me so emotional I actually cried. Kodaline deserves every possible reward and them some.
Same
Same, it is very emotional
I've listened to this 3 times now and every time, it brought me to tears. It makes me appreciate my brother so much more.
same this hit me hard didnt expect to have to fight tears
Listen to all i want
damnit kodaline stop making me cry
damnit everytime
Every.damn.time
Jan Peter Balkenende you have no manners
How he die tho
Your not a lone man stay strong :)
I've had broken arm, bruises, scars but nothing hurts more then just the thought of losing my family.
Yeah
The fact that i am more scared of loosing my Non-blood-related aunt than im scared of loosing my actual mom
Yeah mine too !!
I can never imagine that .😭😭
i feel you
That's pure truth my dad was my other half and when he died something in me disappeared and my poor moms suffering and there's nothing I can do but comfort her saying that I'll never leave her like so many of her boyfriwnds
Lost my one and only sibling 18 years ago. My big brother! My hero, my guardian angel, my protector. Doesn’t get any easier, still feels the same today. I’ve learned to accept this feeling of sadness, depression, that’s how much he meant to me. Love you Erwin!
Just lost my brother last week and everyday I feel like I am losing myself into a darker place but I am staying as strong as I can
Stay strong bro .I lost my brother too.stay strong
man... are you feeling better now?..
giving you hugs. lots of it
Give your life to Jesus, i assure you he will give you the most beautiful peace
There’s no worse pain. I’m sure it’s still hurting just as bad as when you found out. There is no “are you okay now”, because it will never be okay. It doesn’t seem like it but in time you’ll learn how to manage the pain. It won’t hurt any less, but it will become easier for you to deal with. I lost my brother 8 months ago and it still feels like yesterday and I still haven’t accepted he’s not here anymore. It can take years, decades but you will get there, and I’m sure i will too someday. You don’t need to stay strong either, that’s stupid. If it hurts too much then live it day by day, even hour by hour or minute by minute. Whatever gets you through, nobody can judge you. Take it easy, and keep his memories safe.
I was lucky enough not lose my brother but this makes me remember how lucky I am to have my little bro and how much I would sacrifice for him
i wish my older brother was like this im 16 and hes 21 its a 5 year age gap but we look so much alike and i would kill someone for him. but i dont think he wants me around for him
@@rileyward1787 no man let me tell u that he loves u than himself..i don't know ur brother but i'm sure, cuz i'm the older sister to my sister, we have the same diffrent age, i think she think that i don't like her or i hate her but u know what?
i love her than i love myself i would die for here and if told her that im just love her she woudn't believe u, i know im bad at showing my love and im so nervos and make her feel like i don't like here but it's wrong, so ur brotger is the same...there is now older brother who isn't love his younger than him self💗
Same, I do too. I have four brothers.
Same bro gotta appreciate what you have before it’s too late
@@rileyward1787 this same situation is mine today I lost him 2 days ago😖
Dear brother, I miss u. I wish u were here. Growing up with me.
❤
THIS JUST CRY HARDER GODDAMNIT T^T
Love you bro ik how it is lost my dad when I was 10
I’m so sorry
Actually he's not only my brother. He is my twin brother. 😊
2017:I'm crying
2024:I'm still crying.
Why does this video hit so hard?
@@curreyclan6423 Seriously… am I the only one who cried this much??🥺🥺🥺😢😢😢
@@Avery_Artist419 You're not alone 😢😢😭😭
@@Avery_Artist419not only you brother 😢same to?
at 2:27 im pretty sure he said "ill be here when you wake up"
im crying over this
Are you guys talking about the main singing voice or the background whisper?
Vincent Brice
They are talking about the background whisper. :)
@@usernamenotfound6515 okay cool, I could never make out what it says😂
Well... technically he didn’t lie...
I think it says I'll be here (or thier) next time
I think the kid playing the elder brother's character has done justice...it looks like there's real anguish and pain inside him..his expression and make up really make him look like a sick/dead person...seems like he is hiding tears behind his painful smile...a great performance in such a short time
He could have died from sickness that might be why u think that idk
nah he just finished exams that's why he is dead inside
@@haydenswain1683 🤣i am wheezing
My cousin was my older brother. I grew up with him and since my childhood he would protect me from everything. He saved me from drowning twice in the river. He became a police officer. When the war started in Artsakh-Karabakh, he went to protect our land. He died in a war (missile). I wish I could be there to protect him. Though if I where there, he would still be the one protecting me.
Ya, my brother is in the military, and I wonder all the time, "What if he doesn't come back? What if something happens? What if something is wrong right now, and I don't know? What if he's about to die, and there is nothing I can do about it?" Then, there's the thought that always makes me cry, "What will I do without him?"
@@Annie-hf7ph All we can do is to pray for them and tell them that we love them as often as possible.
It happens contrary to me. I grew up with my cousin, we are both girls and she's only 2.5 years older than me. But even like that, i admired her, she was my idol. But 3 years ago, she changed. I'm not... ehh.. writing (?) About in a bad way, she won a concurse that made a great change for her and her family. But the thing is, that Chrismast she were getting away from me and i didn't knew why. I was a little girl without a father and a mother who clearly has depression even if she hiddes it. She were like my older sister. I also have a young brother, he is the only boy in all the generation, we are literally 4 womans (my mom and her sisters, 1 of them is lesbian) and 5 girls (my cousins and me), so he is adored and ho is never with mewhen we visit them, he is always with my auntie, so i usr my free time with my cousin. But she was getting away. Like i was saying, in Chrismast she was avoiding me, i tried to talk, i asked her why was she acting like that, she ignored me. In new year, we were changing, i told her she looked beautiful, again she ignored me, after that i asked her how i looked, she had enough. It was a lot of sound out so, no one heard when she yelled at me that i was annonying and she wished that i let her alone, that she was fed up of me and she doesn't wanted me close. That was my break point. I wanted to cry, but i could not. My chest hurted, she just left the room mad. I decided i would do what she told me: keep myself away from her. She doesn't even did came when we did go. The next year, it wasn't the same. I avoided she like she avoided me. At the start, we didn't even tried to talk, but almost 3 days before we'd come back home, she looked like she wanted to talk to me. We saw again next year in April. But bow, it was me who avoided her. Just a hello and nothing else, for respect and education. Now she is trying to remedy it, but it doesn't matter anymore. I don't care, she wanted me to leave her alone? Well, now you got it. Now hold on b!tch, because i wouldn't even see you if it wasn't because your older sister (25) is going to get married in 1 or 2 years and we will be her bridesmaids. Now fvck off, leave me alone.
I'm sorry, i had to take it out of my chest. If you read it complete, thank you. If you don't, then it is not matter. I didn't wrote this because i need everyone to read it. I just needed it. Now have a good day/noon/night and be happy!!
U Armenian?
This lies are not able to change the truth.Your cousin died.But my brothers died there.Every Azerbaijan that died there are my brothers.So never show your lies as a truth.Well, you are not able to see the truth until you see dead child guts.Well yes you haven't seen them.But i see them every 26 Febuary.I see dead people of Khojaly, Shusha, Khankhandi.So keep your lies to your friends, becuase whole the world saw that truth.And Karabagh means "black garden"/Kara-Black, bagh-garden.Yes i think u know its meaning now.
If music can heal souls, this is one of the best medicine.
For sure 😢😢
No matter how many times I watch this.
No matter how old I am.
No matter if I’m alone.
No matter if I’m in public.
No matter if I’m at school.
No matter if I’m in a test. Every time I watch this official video, whether I hear the lyrics and imagine seeing the video or just watching it, I will cry. And I will do so, with dignity. If I get judged? So be it! If I get laughed at? Who cares? If I’m mocked the rest of my life for crying, then so be it. This song will always bring the soft, sad, and sweet me out. Kodaline, best song lyrics and video. I will play this song if or when one of my brothers die. This is will live on forever.
Its okay
NNNNNOh
I cry every time bc recently I lost my big brother I miss him so much
Mr too
thats sweet i sang this song for my brother's birthday before he passed 😭🙃
This literally made me cry, and I’m not the type of person to cry easily.
same here bro..
Same
I would usally comment a joke, but I don’t think I should joke about this
The end really got to me tho- it was just sad af
dude i’ve never cried at a online video before and hardly ever in real life because i feel like i’m not a man if i do. but this video gets me every time. this video is just too close to home. i’ve done everything with my little bro and he even looks like him in the video. back when we were so innocent and playful it’s exactly how he would be and how he would feel if that happened. this video has given me a new meaning in life to protect my little brother with everything i’ve got. i never want to see him go through this ever...
I’m literally crying at this point. Not only the song is touching and emotional but so is the video, bro I’m in literal tears. It’s a rainfall that’s coming out of my eyes
Same with me. My brother has been on the streets using heroin for 10 years. He’s my whole heart and this video made me cry like a baby. Such a beautiful heartfelt song and video
@@mandyb0725 for ten years? Man please ffs take good care of him 💕 best wishes
As a little Sister, this is the perfect song to dedicate my brother!🥺❤🩹
I lost my big brother back when i was 7 years old he was 19 i still remember when he made a promise that no matter what he'd always protect me no matter where he was. Back then i didn't understand what he meant by that back then but looking back he was saying that even in death he would still watch over me and protect me.
When i turned 8 my mom gave birth to my little brother and named him after my big brother and i made the same promise my brother made to me and i take care of him the way my big brother took care of me
Sounds like you're a very good big sibling. I'd want a sibling like you. You're very strong, too. Keep going!
Just know you're doing an amazing job and he loves you, you're a great person.
Keep going king. I'm proud of you
Just always know, a loved one we lose, we Never Truly Lose them you can always find them in your Heart & Soul, where your loved one lives. Also ask for a sign your loved one find a way for you to know they are still with you, from a shiny penny, an animal, something they cherished & you know about and always look for a sign. Get a K2 Meter or Spirit Box to be able to communicate with them. I'm So Sorry of the Loss of your Big Brother! But What an Awesome & Amazing Big Brother you became!! God Bless You!!
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This song hit like a truck. As a child you don't really know the concept of death until you start wondering why you stop seeing them. Only then to understand that death means that you'll never be able to see that individual anymore. But like how it was portrayed in the video. The memories you spent with those that are dead will never die so long as you remember them.
This comment made me realize how much I'm taking for granted.. they won't always be there with me. Thank you 🙏
Hey, i just wanted to say thank you for this comment!
Thank you for this comment.
Wow what you just said brought tears to my eyes
Reminds me of when our grandpa died and then my little cousin asked his mom "Why isn't grandpa visiting us anymore?" that was a few years back though. I wonder how he figured it out and coped with it..
Lost my brother 5 months ago in a car accident. This song kills me I can’t stop crying
I’m so sorry :( ❤️
I'm very sorry for your loss, he will always be with you. Never lose hope
Stay strong 😊❤Your Brother loves you😘
Oh.... I hope you all the best I can give you, you deserve it more than me❤️😢
I feel for you, I lost my sister 22 year's ago in a car crash and it still hurts. Only time helps nothing heals unfortunately that void will be there until you meet again in the next life. I always like to think that they are watching out for us from another place waiting to be reunited. 😉
I lost my younger brother 12 years ago not a day goes by where I don't think of him thank you for making this masterpiece
I never lost a brother but this songs shows me how much I love my siblings and how much I wish to protect them and if any harm comes to them I will take it. I will always be there for my siblings. Even if I don't show it.
I have not lost my brother either but I would also do everything to protect him :)
@@mayah6134 I have my little brother
Same, I can't imagine my life without my brothers.
I have a younger brother and a younger sister and all I wish is more happy times with each other where we can share more smiles. Although we argue, I will always protect them ❤️
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I lost my brother to suicide a couple months ago, words can’t describe how empty life feels without him. I have 3 brothers and losing one of them shattered the unspeakable bond between all of us.
I had three brothers but one died without me knowing 💔
I’m so sorry for both of yours losses Please lord Jesus bring confront to both of these family bring peace thru the storm in Jesus name amen 🙏
I amm sorry for all it losses I hope my condolences give you hope and comfort u a little
I understand your pain. The hardest part is accepting that everything will always be different and it won't be the same again. Most people say it will get better but truthfully sometimes it doesn't. Sometimes it becomes easier to bear but no more. You will always feel different with your life changing drastically and will feel like an outsider but remember if you are there for your family and they are also willing to be there for you it's easier to think about. They might not feel the same grief as you do but you will know that they understand your pain and will be sincere about your pain. - Advise from a understanding stranger
👼👼🙏
i think kodaline is a band with full of inspiring and emotional. great job kodaline.
I dont see this song as depressing, i see it as inspiring. Two brothers who are actual brothers, brothers who are willing to do whatever it takes for each other. Brothers who are always there for eachother
I just noticed that at 1:29 when they Walk in front of the mirror the reflection of elder brother is an angel. And I have been listening to this song for so long.. amazing details
Nice observation.
I noticed it when I saw it, I was scared XD
@@FMGabs why scared?
@@dotdot9007 Because I did not expect it, the video gives an air of melancholy and I saw it at night
I'm stupid, I know
I saw that the first time round but i thought it was just a ghost
I lost my brother 3 years ago. We had a very close relationship, he was such a cute and smart boy. I always cared about him, and he's always cared about me too. We loved each other and almost always finished the other's sentence, laughing at stupid things together. All that fun and laughter, all the memories we had together, it ended suddenly. I wish I could gave him to my lungs. We had an accident and he drowned. He fought for his life, and so did I, who was by his side in the water the whole time. I saw my brother died. I screamed and screamed, but he never came back to the surface. I thought I'm in a very bad nightmare. That fear in his voice, that moves what he did... I couldn't save him. It breaks my heart every time to think about it. And I found this song yesterday. My tears falling while I listened and I thought this song is for me. It's for my brother. For Us. I don't really talk about it, but this song brought back very deep emotions. Beautiful song with a very moving video clip. I wish every brother and sister a lot of strength who had lost his/her best friend, soulmate, support, or even the one who constantly upset him/her with his/her silly jokes. Sibling is a wonderful thing. I know mine's always here with me.
It looks like you just describe me and my older brother. We're always laughing together, and he was always there for me when I needed (or even when I didn't needed. He was there all the time, and I loved him for that.) He also left suddenly, 6 months Ago. He drowned in the sea, but I wasn't with him. He left home friday and saturday he was dead. This song looks made for me as well, bacause i would give him my lungs so he can breathe without even thinking about it.
I can't imagine how hard It was for you been there with him while he drowned. All that I saw was my brother's coffen, and It was closed (he stayed in the sea for 2 days before they founded him).
Any way, I'm sorry for you lost. I know how much it hurts losing someone so close to us and that we loved so much.
I wish you the best.
(I'm sorry if something written in here is wrong. I'm brazilian, but I tried my best in here)
@@juliapeixoto9075 Thank you, and thank you for share your story, because six months not a long time, and you talk about it. I think it's very brave from you. It's so hard, because 'the show must go on' wich means the world never stopped, while we mourning. I send you a lot of strength and wish you the best too! (And don't worry, I'm sure my english isn't perfect either :) )
They are waiting you at hereafter, don't sorry, one day you will see them again ❤️
@@andelibb I'm sure, we will! Thank you 💌
Let me tell u a story
There once was a boy named Ryan with two brothers. One of them abused him and his name was Aaron and the other took care of him as a father figure named Nathan. Aaron blamed Ryan for the death of their parents. One day they were token hostage. And The kidnapper said choose one person to die.
Nathan said "Me"
Aaron said "Ryan"
Ryan was shook at his brother and he said
"I love you guys way too much and it is time for me to leave his world of ours we will meet again brothers"
And he said "Kill me please"
And ryan sang a verse from his song the verse being if you were drowning(that verse and I got you brother)
And ryan died
At the grave Aaron cried more than he did when their parents died and so did Nathan. They got older and got married. Aaron had a child named Ryan again memory of his late brother. Soon these two died and met in heaven where they saw small Ryan staring at them
The brothers were reunited
You see this brother loved his brothers equally and sacrafised his life for their safety
Love your sibling as of they will die the next day and you regret it
❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm very sorry for everyone in this comment section who've lost their brothers or other family members...
Stay strong, and remember they'll always live in your heart and memories. They may be gone but not truly. And they'll never be as long as they live on in your memories.
That's why we say people die twice. Second time when they are forgotten.
ʀᴏɴɴᴏ 2020 it sad to see them die I lost my 3 brothers in the mountains
I love it but I keep on crying
@@lcm6955 I'm very sorry about that...
Bo just about to make that same reference
I thought i didn't have a caring brother but this song made me realize the memories of how he used to care for me even now
My brother was born with a rare genetic disease, he died only at 12 and I remember every moment of his life, happy, sad and hard. He was in and out of the hospital. One day, my parents got a call and they rushed to him at a hospital and he passed away. My biggest regret and the lowest moment of my life is a didn't get a chance to say goodbye. He was my brother my friend and best friend. RIP Ben, I love you.
I am so so sorry for your loss
im so sorry
Ben you are a legend.
Condolences
The word I can say when suck terrible losses, I share the same loss except... my grandpa died
What disease was it? My condolences aswell.
This song me and my brother learned and sang it together all the time. I lost my brother to suicide on December 9, 2020 and I haven't listened to this song since then. I am going through some hard times and I thought maybe it's time to finally listen to it again to help me get through this right now
I'm sorry for your lose i wish he's in a better place now
May your brother Rest In Peace💞 and you’ll get through, I’m sure he is looking down on you and rooting for you💞💞💞 Sending much love💞💞💞
U listening is incredible. ..I also have a similar issue with things I used to do with pple I've lost and still haven't managed to do any of em
May he rest in peace❣️also I'm so proud of you for listening to this song again. I know you can get through it🤍
Good brother 😢
The worst part about someone dying isn’t when they die, it’s when you realize that they aren’t coming back.
It's been almost four years since my little brother died in a car accident, and the worst days have been the celebrations where he should have been there, and when my kids got to the age he said he would start taking them out so they didn't have to be with their boring parents all weekend. And when I watch something on facebook, thinking my brother needs to see this, but then cry because I can't show it to him.
Yes. Never see again his lovely eyes watching me with love....Iwish i could hug him again and never let go.
Yeah. It's like.. they aren't gonna come back ? Ever ?
Never again. It feels weird. Sometimes you think about seeing them, but you are not going to.
You arent going to see them again, it's over. It's just really over.
And you starts to lose memories. It's torture.
The feeling when you have to empty their rooms and everything there was in it.
Years of life for this.
@@Isokatmydydecsf even after almost four years we still have my brothers apartement. None of us wants to let it go, our parents use it as a base when they're in the country, and us siblings travel there at least once during the year. There we are surrounded by his things, and it's only a short way from where he crashed and died so we get to visit that place at the same time.
@Eri Chisaki and that's what makes death worse. Is realizing that the people you love and care for aren't coming back.
To those who have never experienced such a loss, treasure every moment. There will be a last goodbye, and a lot of the time you will never know when that is till it happens.
This song hurts. I didn’t lose my brother, but me and him are not close and I believe it’s too late to become close. I regret losing the link we had as kids. I miss the happy times we had together.
Feels like the hell :((
exactly how i feel.
aww it’s ok and it’s never too late to get close just try u guys love each other endlessly regardless but if you wanna get close then do it now there’s no better time than the present make a change before it’s rlly too late :)
It’s never too late
There is still time. There’s gonna be a day when there really is no time left, please try at least. You won’t regret it.
A message to future generations: don't let this song die. Masterpiece!
can totaly agree
I agree
I agree
I agree
Agreed
This song has made me realize a few things:
1) I’m afraid to lose my family and friends.
2) I have lost connections to people before, and this is just a reminder.
3) I need to reach out to others to be the comfort they need when going through a loss or personal Hell.
If you wish to talk, I’m here for you.
I'm crying so hard reading this cause I have a older sister 😭😭😭😭😭😭
Thank you...
Wow, thats wonderfull of you. You are the prove that there is still hope for mankind. God bless you 💙
Thanks you i feel a little better
Idk if this is a mental illness and if it is,tell me right away.
I feel like my brain is split to two sides,one side tries to cheer me up and the other tells me I'm gonna die.
I try to talk about it,but I just can't.
I haven't cried for a song in a long time. Such a great song 😢❤
my brother Martin died from a miscarriage, I'm 18 and every now and then I think of how we'd be together and act with one another. This video gave me the visualization I needed and everytime I watch this I'll be thinking of him. RIP Martin, Cant wait for the day I finally meet you bud. I hope I've been making you proud, God Bless everyone
Fakie Orbit sorry for your loss
stay strong ...my eldest brother joshua only lived for several days...never even got to meet him and i cant wait till the day i do ...all my love and hope for you brother
don't worry fakie orbit ur brother is always by ur side for the good and bad times
Joshua will always be with you, he's celebrated with you at your accomplishments and he's cried with you in your disappointments. much love
I am so sorry, all the love
It reminds me of my cousin. He was son of my mum's brother, but I treated him like he was my sibling. His parents and younger sister moved to Switzerland and couldn't bring him because he had school so he lived with us. We always had loads of fun, we used to fight on my parent's bed, go on adventures together, play video games and build fortifications in our garden. He taught me so much and saved my life so many times, he always cared for me and even tho sometimes he's been harsh I know it's because I was important to him
Almost 5 years ago he decided to drop out of school and visit his parents in Switzerland because he couldn't stand the separation anymore.
He went missing
After 2 weeks they found his body under the waterfall. It wasn't suicide, it was just an accident, he stumbled and fell down because the rocks were slippery and he had heavy backpack with him.
I couldn't believe that. I was struggling to get my life together for over a year and I am still not fully recovered, even tho it's been 5 years.
I wish I could spend one more day with him. I wish he could see how beautiful and grown up his younger sister became, I wish he could meet his newborn sister and brother
I wish he could see how far I've came in life because he always supported me when noone else did and was so proud of my achievements
I miss him
I am so sorry for what happened to you. Dont worry, i am sure he is seeing you from heaven.
Thank you all so much, your replies really make me feel so much better ❤️
Im so sorry for u. No one deserves that😥
I know that no words can heal what has happened to you, all I can do is pray for you. Sending all my love for you and your family!
This story made me tear up, respect for sharing
why kodaline always make me cry!?
x2
Geovanna Mendes idk but same
You are not alone :) !
Geovanna Mendes he makes me cry too...!
Geovanna Mendes All the time!!
This song hits hard when I was 12 I lost my grandpa he was my best friend at the time it felt like I was hopelessly wishing he would come home I'm 14 now starting grade 9 he missed my graduation I guess what I am trying to say is once people die you can't bring them back and you can let it hont you or live love you only have 1 life make sure you live it so when you die and you see those people you sent days crying over you can say I lived for you ❤
We always end up crying because of this song, but still we keep coming back
There is one person I trust in this world. He is not blood, he is my brother.
I wish I had a brother
I cry every single time even though I don’t have a brother or a sister
Always and always...
Jml _ Tuan नन
My sister dedicated this song to me, and I lost her a week ago. I’ve been holding on to her and singing this everyday.
I'm so sorry for your loss❤️
May she rest in peace and I wish you the best!
@@mirajane5557 thank you
My condolences go out to you and your family my she rest in peace I have two older siblings of my own and I can’t imagine losing one them you are very strong for handling it. I know she is looking down at you proudly. Stay strong we are all here for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
you have to be strong and carry on
i'm so sorry for you and your family
I'm so happy that people are coming back 3 years later and still sharing positivity and kindness. This was needed for 2020
Edit: If your going through something in your life atm that's pulling you down I wish you the best and hope that you look at some of these amazing people in the comments 😊
I found this song yesterday
Just Amazing
I know right? It's so wholesome and i always feel better reading all these comments.
I nevered had a brother but as a surportve friend my BFF lost her brother and only listens to sad songs so i wanted to find a song to sing to her
@@JJ-jg5ff that's so nice of u
@@eleftheriadimas7434 thx..
When you make this, it reminds me of my uncle who passed away, but it’s different because that was my mom‘s brother and then special to me and then some people made a song with this with her friends and then it made me cry, cause I got this old one of my friends in a long time
I lost my little bro when I was nine. This Hit me hard. R.I.P Nathan ;c
Sorry for your loss :( RIP
I'm sure he's in better place :( I know that doesn't help but dunno what else to say RIP Nathan
Oh that is sad, I lost my brother ( my only sibling ) when he was a lot older, 48 ( my age now) your brother will be there to meet you when it is your time x
r.i.p nathan
Sorry for you're loss
I have a friend who was like my older brother. He was the only one that listened to me...more than my real brothers does. He's now in a peaceful place and i will always be grateful for what he have done for me..
I hope your brother friend is safe in heaven ❤️
Be safe in heaven
Why you always lying 🤥
@@mxy_.3 you don’t know that
@@svk0531 but how do YOU know that he isn’t
These two actors are brothers in real life. In case you wondering why their chemistry is so amazing. Such an emotional video
Leah Sleator there bond is unbreakable 👼anyone know who these two boys are?
Emilia Jarosz Luke and Lee O'Donaghue. Irish actors.
Leah Sleator thankyou so much!💕
Emilia Jarosz i do
Can't relate your argument, I don't have any chemistry with my brother whatsoever since I was born until now. I think he's the biggest d-bag in the world, but still... I love him. 😂
Just adding a comment so every time someone likes ill get reminded of this song🙏
It is a masterpiece😢
I got u "brother"
The worst part is,
*I dont have a brother but still hurts.*
The more time you spend,
the more you make memories, together,
the more you love a person,
The more it hurts. :')
KeTharm147 - me too :(
@@thiccplasticcbottle8023 Here's something i want to tell you
When you're happy, you enjoy the music. But when you're sad, you understand the music and that is why it hurts
*virtual hug sent :D
Same
I have one.he is great
I have nothing to say..... 😭😭😭😭
"Don't you dare think that there is anything past or present that I'd put in front of you"
-Dean Winchester
So trueee! Btw if you comment this song on this video I will play it on piano for you! ua-cam.com/video/Hga3XcdpkNQ/v-deo.html
i heard this on an spn edit
Sam and Dean!! love it!!
@@luciferluci4570 same
A wise man once told me family don't end in blood Dean
I cried while watching this video because I lost my older brother(20) this year, and the emotion in this depicts is exactly how I felt. 1.) Feeling a bit out of place because it doesn't seem real 2.) Around you, people are telling you they're sorry 3.) The bitter moment when I realized he was gone forever.
edit: Many thanks for all of the love; I am now in a much better state of mind. Thank you all very much again for all your kind words and for helping me with kind words over the internet; it is amazing how people can help one another in this way. ❤
i hope you feel better soon
😭❤️ I know he'll not come back 😭 but stay strong ❤️
It's ok to miss him and cry but remember he's watching u and wants u to be happy ❤️
Please stay strong ❤️ I am so proud of you for getting this far bby just keep doing what you already are and know that there’ll always be somewhere there for you , even a stranger like me..! ❤️❤️
He may not come back... but it's his memories that will be alive forever with u .... hope for peace and love .
he is still with you even if you can't feel him, he is watching you every time and smiling :)
It hits hard years ago, and till this day it hits even harder..
2:27 "I'm not going anywhere"
Guess who cries?
Yes.
Me.
So did I
Oh my freaking god. That's what he was saying. Freaking hell I'm crying my eyes out again. Fuq.
20 seconds in I was already balling my eyes out
That pat broke my heart.
Yes he not going anywhere
I lost my sister when I was five and she was four. This song is about losing a brother, but I still feel the lyrics pierce my heart each time I listen to it.
I lost my dad from suicide at our dinner table when i was 7
@@gavinjennings6016 take heart ❤
God bless you
You'll be alright
So sorry, I have yet to experience loss like that. Just always remember they have moved on to a better place.
@@Marrpy be thankfull you haven’t experienced this stuff yet
Rest in Peace take care of you from above🖤🖤
who's still watching and crying in 2020
Me😭😭
.. Me
Im scared to loose mt brothers capuse i have 3 brother's and no sisters
😥 me
Me, unfortunately
This video hits different,my friend that showed me this song in 6th grade died a while back hits to the heart every time I watch this
"A man doesn't die when he is dead he dies when he is forgotten"
@@akankshasingh3608 I will remember you
@@akankshasingh3608 I will remember you too
Reminds me of Dr. Hiluluk of One Piece anime.
True
@@TheLightBehindYourEyes.. thought the same thing
my (16) brother (28) passed away this october, when he was alive he showed me this song one time when he was staying at our moms house after he had a fight with his dad, and i hadn't heard this song in years, but i heard it again today and now im balling uncontrollably, this songs amazing, i dont figure that i would be lucky enough to tell Kodaline how important their song is to me and i imagine so many other people. thank you anyways
I have to tell ya my grandpa died and the same thing except no song featuree
Wait what happened may I ask
@@akp6476 he passed away in a car accident
@@Novascotia2004 oh my..........fridge that is terrible I lost my grandpa in October due to corona and his on my dad account
@@Novascotia2004 I will tell u tiny story about a brother who sacrafised his life for the safety of his abusive brother and his loving brother
I just said the summary
Ryan was a boy who loved his brothers even if his brother abused him.bit he had a loving brother
One day a kidnapper kidnapped them and let 2 of them go and let the boys choose
Loving brother: I can't lose my brothers kill me
Abusive brother: that mistake Ryan should die he killed our parents
Ryan was shook to the core and he thought: if I say him we are tier and Nathan. Will notdir. I will die for you guys because.....I live you
So Ryan said :let me die I love you brothers Andi shall see you-
And he died. Nathan rated and killed the kidnapper
Nathan was the loving brother
And Aaron is the abusive one
Aaron mind:. R-ryan is d-d-dead, it is my f-fault. Brother I shall love for ur sake and I will meet you too
At the grave the brothers cried but they stood strong they got married and Aaron named his youngest son Ryan like Ryan his youngest brother. And Nathan had children too.
97 years later na
Nathan-109
aaron-112
They both died Aaron 2 years ago and Nathan died recently. The brothers met each other in heaven and are reunited
Your siblings must be treated right if they love you. They are your family
The end ❤️❤️❤️
Does this cheer you up a lil
2017:I'm crying
2019:I'm still crying
2017? You wrote this two days ago.
Same ;-;
Relatable just know that there's always something good for you out there when one door closes another one opens
😭
Legend says that they will still cry (I was to you is not alone)
Man....i miss my brother so much...
Although we've taken different paths and taken different roads,i know we'll end up on the same one when we're old
I don't think that I've ever cried this much because of a music video and a song.. about one minute into the video I could feel tears building up. I've never lost a sibling or parent, only my dogs. But this still hit hard! Amazing song!
Same man😭😢 but birds instead of dogs
This is the saddest and at the same time the best song I have ever seen.
Lisa M. For me the same 😍😓
This is truly touching, it has a better story in 3 minutes, than in 3 hours movies. Good job Kodaline, and keep killing it!!!!
Rex Bramwell than*
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Diego del Río
i cant stop watching this
its the only thing that can make the tears i have been holding in for thirteen years fall the relief is borderline ecstasy
thank you
Hunter J same
this song reminds me of my elementary bestie who passed away a couple years ago, it was her fav song, i miss her sm may she rest in peace 💕🕊️
I lost my big brother, my soldier this year. On my first day of junior year. This song hits so close to home, i always wish i would've reached out, wish i would've notice him mourning the loss of our oldest brother. I should've known he was hurting, this song is so beautiful. I love it and I think of him every single time i listen to it but it breaks my heart knowing i have to wait a while until i can see him again. But I've got to continue both their legacies so I'm going strong. Thank you so much for this song.
I’m sorry for your loss, I’m sure he was a great brother
Please do not believe you "should've seen it coming." You are not alone on this road. Those signs feel so obvious but are so easily missed, as awful as it makes us feel. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but you could not have seen it, so please do not attack yourself over it. I've seen so many people beat themselves down over the issue of 'hindsight is 20/20.' Please remember you have a support system, you are loved, and you can reach out to people any time. I am sorry for your loss. God bless you and have a wonderful day. ❤
Please do not believe you "should've seen it coming." You are not alone on this road. Those signs feel so obvious but are so easily missed, as awful as it makes us feel. It's one of the worst feelings in the world, but you could not have seen it, so please do not attack yourself over it. I've seen so many people beat themselves down over the issue of 'hindsight is 20/20.' Please remember you have a support system, you are loved, and you can reach out to people any time. I am sorry for your loss. God bless you and have a wonderful day. ❤
I feel so sorry about you 😢 you can see him in your dreams.
You are strong
U don't realize how much you love someone/something till its gone.....
Bree Eclipse thats a funny thing isnt it? You dont realise what someone means to you until theyre gone.
Bree Eclipse its hard my I can not say iy
Bree Eclipse yeah, true
Bree Eclipse true
I didnt realize i loved my sis bf like brother and he died
My best friend and I in high school worked at the same job each Summer. We had both gone through a lot of stuff and had both said we wanted to eventually become counselors/psychologists and come back and work with kids like what we were when we were younger. After graduation we drifted apart, but always hit it off when we'd see each other. We went to different colleges, me in North Carolina and he in Arizona. I got a phone call one day out of the blue--my friend had been found dead by his sister. He had overdosed on heroin. He never was able to escape his demons. That was 6 years ago. Just this summer I graduated with my Master's degree and became a counselor and started working with at-risk teenage boys. I still go to his grave and talk to him from time to time. Every note and word in this song resonates in my heart a thousandfold. Even after 100 listens, I still cannot listen to it without crying or without feeling like my friend is right there sitting next to me.
Casual Ninja i'm sorry.😕💓
Sorry to know bout this. Stay strong m8
Casual Ninja i feel the same way, i'd like to talk with you a little more, do you have a phone number por Instagram or something like that?
God that made me tear up! Stay strong buddy 🙏💕
im really sorry for everything. always stay strong :)
SONGS LIKE THESE ARE NOTHING BUT PURE MEDICINE TO MANY PEOPLE OUT THERE LIKE ME............
Lost my brother this past weekend, took his own life. Getting that call so early still replays in the back of my mind. Our family isn't whole anymore and so much emotions taking over me. Losing a love one is hard but losing my big brother like this is difficult in itself. When we talked and played games online we would laugh and joke around like we've always have. He hid it very well from us, makes me think about how much I couldve helped him if he just let me in. I love big bro, I'll miss you until my last breathe and this song brings so much emotion to me that it sums up everything about me and him.
i am so sorry that i don't know what to say.
I’m sorry to hear that you lost your brother to suicide
I am so sorry ✊💔😭
Omg so sorry for your loss, i have a twin and without her i would be lost. All of my blessings for the people that have lost a brother or a sister 💔
I'm so sorry stay strong🙏🏾🙏🏾❤
I lost my Big Brother 5 years ago. he was my foundation, my safety, I knew everything was gonna be ok when he was there. I see this song as a promise to him. that even though he's gone, I'll keep going. I know he is on the other side fighting for me and our family. I just want to make him proud. I miss him. ❤
By ur sd
I'm so sorry
i lost my brother too, befor 7 years...
@Cindylou2429 and @Noa-fl6hj I’m sorry for your losses I’m sure both of them would’ve been great people
Im sure he is proud becaues every day you advance little bu little
I sent this to my brother because we are both fighting chronic depression. We watched it together and both cried like babies together for a few hours
Aww that's so sweet and I hope you both get better soon
I hope you are feeling better
And you know what that’s OK, that is OK, and sometimes a special moment between the two of you like that needs to happen. There is nothing wrong with that..
There is nothing wrong with that at all in anyway whatsoever. I would love to be able to have a moment like that just wants more, sorry not to be like that just I hear you and it’s OK you’re not wrong that’s a beautiful thing
💯
Hang in there lovelies. We love you
Keep fighting
This made me cry I’m also fighting depression❤