Eva Marcille Opens About Being Abused By Kevin McCall

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  • Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
  • Gary With Da Tea reported on Kevin McCall, the father of Eva Marcille’s daughter Marley, getting arrested for domestic abuse. Eva spoke about the abuse she endured and tells what he did to make her reach her breaking point and leave. If you or someone you know is being abused, please call the Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233.

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  • @Squrtile101
    @Squrtile101 5 років тому +1290

    That was not funny at all. It was extremely rude and totally inappropriate.

    • @shereylm1443
      @shereylm1443 5 років тому +52

      Right! Eva handled it very well.

    • @kysssims8764
      @kysssims8764 5 років тому +46

      Totally agree..wasnt funny at all..and who the hell was that in the background laughing/ consigning..sounds like a woman too. Unacceptable

    • @juliew1426
      @juliew1426 5 років тому +15

      I agree. I've been through it and it's horrible. And every time you talk about it, no matter how much time has passed, you relive it. It's a wound that never really heals completely. You just learn to work around it. You armor yourself. I felt a lump in my throat when she started to cry. She is very brave and handled herself with true CLASS.

    • @dtbredhalf5823
      @dtbredhalf5823 4 роки тому +6

      What do u expect from a man playing a woman’s role and it’s allll fine an dandy when it’s degrading men....

    • @cd6243
      @cd6243 4 роки тому +3

      @@shereylm1443 I love the way she clocked his ignorant ass 👎🏽🙄😠

  • @NaturallyAsh88
    @NaturallyAsh88 5 років тому +1417

    Gary is too old to be this messy. Joking about this isn’t anywhere near being funny.

    • @juanitabrock2922
      @juanitabrock2922 5 років тому +22

      At all!!

    • @BlaqueRose23
      @BlaqueRose23 5 років тому +37

      Agreed! And that's why I cannot get down with Gary, Wendy and people like them who specialize in messiness. Making fun of people's issues, especially when they have their own, is NOT funny nor cute.

    • @latrina5191
      @latrina5191 5 років тому +13

      I'm so glad Rickey took over and guided that crashing car. Don't blame gary he was still in job mode I'm sure he didn't mean any harm just realized it 60 sec to late but he should have seem her pain damn the job this real life

    • @Andrewclovis
      @Andrewclovis 5 років тому +10

      Disgusting, I agree!

    • @BLKENDOLLBARBIE
      @BLKENDOLLBARBIE 5 років тому +8

      NaturallyAsh88 I don’t like him. I don’t even understand why he still has this gig.

  • @KayZeeKayy
    @KayZeeKayy 5 років тому +955

    Gary needs to apologize for that. I’m glad Eva kept it professional.

    • @advantageous-me
      @advantageous-me 5 років тому +15

      Take one further... Gary needs to go from the show, lol.

    • @KayZeeKayy
      @KayZeeKayy 5 років тому +3

      advantageous_me yea because lately he been out of pocket being extra shady to the ladies

    • @jp2fedmond
      @jp2fedmond 5 років тому +16

      There is absolutely nothing funny about domestic violence. Imagine the fear she has had to overcome because of the situation. And the enemy tries to put shame on the abused when they have done nothing!!!

    • @KayZeeKayy
      @KayZeeKayy 5 років тому +8

      Jerry Edmond so true. I’m proud of the way she handled it. She’s really a strong woman

    • @adrianaarthur
      @adrianaarthur 4 роки тому +4

      Men like that hate women, which leads to the abuse. Her brothers need to stomp his ass.

  • @TBdateyourselfgirl
    @TBdateyourselfgirl 5 років тому +1144

    Rickey Smiley PLEASE address Gary for this...too many women are abused & are afraid to leave bc people think it’s funny or think the women are weak. Lives are at stake here!!! Not cool at ALL!!!

    • @purebludmericans
      @purebludmericans 5 років тому +8

      R_i_p_current right as evidenced by your existence

    • @frenchvanilla7109
      @frenchvanilla7109 5 років тому +26

      Why didn't Rickey intervene when Gary began to laugh. Nothing is funny about Domestic violence.

    • @travisfreeman3353
      @travisfreeman3353 5 років тому +5

      Straight Up Facts 👍🏾💯

    • @andrewnehemiah3467
      @andrewnehemiah3467 5 років тому

      R_i_p_current
      You wish!

    • @tracesofme83
      @tracesofme83 5 років тому

      DateYourselfGirl Tracey Bonner Amen 🙏🏾

  • @worklifebalance6280
    @worklifebalance6280 5 років тому +563

    Eva you helped someone today....as u stated it is embarrassing but you need to speak on it more.😘😘😘

  • @KM-wr4hd
    @KM-wr4hd 5 років тому +796

    Gary's comments were both ignorant and insensitive. NOTHING about domestic violence is funny and quite frankly he's too old to be this stupid. Kudos to Eva for taking that brave step to leave that toxic relationship with her Ex and prayers for current girlfriend to do the same.

    • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
      @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 5 років тому +4

      Please stop believing Eva. She's seeking attention. Tara's Top Model agency didn't work for her. Now, she's trying to play victim. I don't believe Kevin ever put his hands on Eva. They were both doing drugs together. Both were high and arguing with each others, and she was the one throwing punches.

    • @nikkityler5802
      @nikkityler5802 5 років тому +2

      She needs a storyline for next season

    • @BuckleBunny
      @BuckleBunny 5 років тому +15

      Nikki Tyler so she started the “story” 7 years ago for a reality tv show story line? You sound as ignorant as your friend Mr. Wright up there commenting on every comment about not believing this woman. Either that’s McCall from jail or her bridesmaid.

    • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
      @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 5 років тому +1

      Mr. Wright? @Rose Water, you are ignorant and naïve as hell. It is Mrs. Wright. Eva was high right along with Kevin the day that they got into an argument. There is no police report nor a restraining order. Stop trying to be a jackass know-it-all and search for yourself. Everything Eva stated is *public information* jackass dummy.

    • @BuckleBunny
      @BuckleBunny 5 років тому +4

      Conscious Wright I had it right the first. Anyone not against domestic violence is a man. Of all of the times that I personally know of women that were abused, including myself, police reports do not exist on the majority of cases. My mother abused me to the point of many broken bones and there isn’t one police report. They were called once. I have been in many foster care facilities and homes.
      Your ignorance is causing me tears. Why are you Googling for a police report to have proof? You are a fool. When you die, you will answer for such sins.

  • @Duval710
    @Duval710 5 років тому +500

    Damn Gary, he kept trying to make it a joke when she was serious. I feel for Eva.

    • @DeeniceDee
      @DeeniceDee 5 років тому +20

      Gary needs grow up and know the difference when to joke and when to be serious.🤔

    • @user-bc5cf5kr4s
      @user-bc5cf5kr4s 5 років тому +3

      Me too.

  • @latrina5191
    @latrina5191 5 років тому +248

    You can see it in her eyes as she talks that she went through hell with him You WINNING now sweetie the SUN IS SHINING ON YOU.

  • @Andrewclovis
    @Andrewclovis 5 років тому +174

    That man laughing at what Eva was saying, what a cold bastard. He needs to apologise. No violence is good!

    • @wendyarenz3429
      @wendyarenz3429 4 роки тому

      @Mister Stag C He’s a nasty, instigating flamer.....it’s what THEY do!!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬

    • @teacupolous
      @teacupolous 4 роки тому

      Cold bastard is the word

  • @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH
    @ONEOFAKINDSISTAH 5 років тому +406

    Why is Gary the host laughing and trying to make a joke out of domestic abuse?
    Nothing whatsoever to laugh about especially with a victim/survivor of domestic abuse.
    I’m glad Ricky intervened and took over the interview as it’s a serious and sensitive issue.
    There are so many victims of domestic abuse dealing with this in silence and secrecy. It’s not a joke!

  • @trinarollins5642
    @trinarollins5642 5 років тому +209

    I see myself in Eva. I was married 8yrs of domestic violence. I found the courage to divorce his ass. I feel better moved on with my single life. I'm more happier now cause I found myself.

    • @MrBean617
      @MrBean617 5 років тому +5

      God bless you.

    • @VentDeux
      @VentDeux 5 років тому

      i bet your twat got wet when he hit you. submissive pet

    • @LoveFirstYou
      @LoveFirstYou 5 років тому +10

      @@VentDeux I bet your evil behind is too cruel to delete this disgusting and shameful comment of yours. God forbid your daughter ever gets abused ... what then will you say?

    • @Thewife514
      @Thewife514 4 роки тому +3

      Trina Rollins cheers to you ❤️

  • @brandijefferson264
    @brandijefferson264 5 років тому +295

    Gary needs to apologize, some things are off limits

    • @sadiki1980
      @sadiki1980 5 років тому +1

      He probably pulled her aside after they went off air and did what he had to do.

    • @clchawaii09
      @clchawaii09 5 років тому +2

      Brandi Jefferson agrees its really not funny at all.

  • @christinabrionbaileyfhh5942
    @christinabrionbaileyfhh5942 5 років тому +493

    Eva is beautiful... who all think she's beautiful??

  • @darthonyx2382
    @darthonyx2382 5 років тому +295

    WTF is Gary doing?

    • @lisawilds751
      @lisawilds751 5 років тому +16

      Amralhe Elise That’s probably why Rickey took control of the segment and steered it in the right direction.

  • @BlaqueRose23
    @BlaqueRose23 5 років тому +1121

    I would have liked to hear an apology from Gary. He really should have made that right.

    • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
      @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 5 років тому +6

      Gary laughed because he knows Eva is lying. Women who have been physically abused/battered don't smile discussing their abuse. Eva is a joke and a liar. She was using drugs with Kevin when they started arguing about getting married. She got physical with him.

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen 5 років тому +83

      @@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 you sound crazy. Have you ever hear of you gotta laugh to keep from crying. She was trying to be strong while talking about it and when to talked about holding her baby and being hit is when dhe coils no longer hold backnowledge the tears. Couldn't possible be a lie when more than 5 women being abused by that BOY.

    • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
      @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 5 років тому +3

      Diva Den - My eye water every time I talk about being abused. Eva talks about abuse as if it's an everyday activity. Ya'll stop being gullible Eva is just like some women that I use to know . They will use other people's story as their own for attention.

    • @angelfrmheaven
      @angelfrmheaven 5 років тому +43

      @@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 -- Everybody is different and people handle their emotions differently, hell people handle their facial expressions differently. Not saying her story is true or false because I wasn't there, I'm neither a body linguist or human lie detector, but I do know if that's what you're basing your information on your logic is completely off..lol.

    • @DivaDen
      @DivaDen 5 років тому +23

      @@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 Wendy talks about abuse every time it's a Hop Topic and never once has she a tear rolled down her cheek when she talks about it so what's your point? Some people are able to control their emotions more than others. I was never been physically abused and cry as if I was when others share their story ie., Eva

  • @malibeau2582
    @malibeau2582 5 років тому +128

    Gary, should know & do better.
    Eva, thank you for your testimony.

  • @md3dasnipa386
    @md3dasnipa386 5 років тому +352

    Gary should face some disciplinary action for trying to make funny of this situation. But if you said something negative about the homosexual community, people like him wouldn't take that so lightly.

    • @blessed50
      @blessed50 5 років тому +10

      It is not Funny at All!!!! I been there!!! Get Out !!! Not Good To Stay In That Relationship !!! GET OUT FAST!!!!!!!!! AND RUN!!!

    • @amorrbaby8354
      @amorrbaby8354 5 років тому +6

      Trey Allen EXACTLY!!!!

    • @nene7544
      @nene7544 4 роки тому +2

      Preach!!!! straight facts...
      gary the reason why i skip the rickey smiley morning show a lot of mornings...

    • @Aced84
      @Aced84 4 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 sensitive asses

    • @jackiekent8720
      @jackiekent8720 4 роки тому +3

      SHIT AINT FUNNY AT ALL I KNOW SHE WANTED TO SLAP THAT SMIRK OFF HIS FACE ....DISGUTING

  • @apostleozzie198
    @apostleozzie198 5 років тому +239

    Strong beautiful woman. You are a survivor Eva, stay blessed

  • @Tyni9
    @Tyni9 5 років тому +76

    Thank you Eva for being courageous to share your testimony. Keep her Rickey! #KeepEva

    • @Tyni9
      @Tyni9 5 років тому +5

      @Brenda Baker
      I don't know what Gary's issue was that day. Trust something was said to him off camera. I am with you though about Eva.
      #KeepEva
      Have a blissful and prosperous day!💪🏾😊

  • @FrannieMC69
    @FrannieMC69 5 років тому +392

    Eva thank you for sharing. You don't realize how many women you've probably helped sharing your story. Kudos to you. #ShesASurvivor #survivor

    • @melindamullins9649
      @melindamullins9649 5 років тому +6

      She just saved so many with talking about this very heavy topic of domestic violence" also verbal abuse is not to be tolerated.

    • @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688
      @consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 5 років тому +1

      Please stop believing Eva. She's seeking attention. Tara's Top Model agency didn't work for her. Now, she's trying to play victim. Kevin never put his hands on Eva. They were both doing drugs together. Both were high and arguing with each others, and she was the one throwing punches. Do you need me to point you in the direction of the arrest records/police report?

    • @millmonster101
      @millmonster101 4 роки тому +2

      @@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688 so u know the ins and outs of their relationship bc of public info? So according to public info, U SHOULD KNOW THAT SHE WAS NOT THE ONLY VICTIM. Shall i get u receipts? gtfoh with that nonempathetic bs...
      I bet u think Weinstein is innocent too.

  • @TheeCoachg
    @TheeCoachg 5 років тому +120

    I hate saying this but I think because Eva is so pretty and so chill ppl love finding vulnerable things about her and picking at them. Gary is giving me Marlo vibes just so abrasive and unnecessarily nasty here.

    • @DeliciousBeautii1
      @DeliciousBeautii1 5 років тому +3

      Coachg I agree!!! People treat me the same way.

    • @noreason8818
      @noreason8818 4 роки тому +1

      Yes,,, Beautiful women attract demonic men.Im a Pisces...Lordd Lord, and WE need talk about jealousy From other females.

  • @cyndiwilliams6431
    @cyndiwilliams6431 5 років тому +76

    I understand Eva as I was married to an abuser also. Yes, you are right you always believe that it can't be me. So happy that you had the courage to leave. I did too.

  • @TheNicaC
    @TheNicaC 5 років тому +56

    Wow..This segment got real very quickly. Got me tearing up at work!

  • @jacquettediggs4633
    @jacquettediggs4633 5 років тому +74

    Thank you Eva for sharing your truth. Gary owes her a apology.

  • @findjoselyn
    @findjoselyn 5 років тому +40

    I did NOT like how Gary was making light of this. This is a super serious topic for a lot of women. Eva is a natural beauty.

  • @nicnac1915
    @nicnac1915 5 років тому +71

    Being in a abusive relationship is terrifying.Gary should've apologized to Eva, and Eva is a strong woman to leave the relationship.

    • @stinkreezy2791
      @stinkreezy2791 Рік тому

      I don’t think she was in abusive relationship she didn’t even know him before she got pregnant changed that little girl last name outta spite and getting a divorce now

    • @Dohnetsway
      @Dohnetsway 6 місяців тому

      @@stinkreezy2791is Kevin paying you to say this?

    • @stinkreezy2791
      @stinkreezy2791 6 місяців тому

      @@Dohnetsway who is Kevin

    • @Eagles883
      @Eagles883 5 місяців тому

      Although nobody should assault anyone, Eva seems like a provoker. That’s probably why Lance Gross left her

  • @travisfreeman3353
    @travisfreeman3353 5 років тому +52

    I'm glad Eva found the courage to get outta that situation and do better for herself and her child. No woman deserves to be treated badly or physically emotionally or mentally abused by any male!!!!!

  • @lvirgo2857
    @lvirgo2857 5 років тому +60

    Beating on women is not funny at all!😡 No matter who it is. And joking about it is asinine, insensitive and just plain ignorance. Gary should be ashamed not only did your co worker go through it but she's your friend! 💚💜 She needed comfort and love. Not laughter and jokes.

  • @yvonneotiteh4889
    @yvonneotiteh4889 5 років тому +46

    Ain't nothing as painful as a man who you love beating you up, making u ashamed and belittled as a person.Abusers take ur power and leave u with anger💔

  • @aquariusk1650
    @aquariusk1650 5 років тому +50

    I don’t understand why the radio hosts are joking and laughing about this? So infuriating! Very disrespectful towards her and all abuse victims.
    You should feel ashamed of yourself.

    • @monilaninetynine3811
      @monilaninetynine3811 5 років тому +2

      Gary is just cruel, period. Ricky is a former domestic violence perpetrator. Perhaps he has overcome his issues, but none of this is funny.

  • @darlingnikki8429
    @darlingnikki8429 5 років тому +22

    I'm a survivor dealing my ex husband the physical, mental, emotional abuse. Leave when its time and never go back.

  • @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd
    @TripleBlsdNHlyFvrd 5 років тому +38

    Gary's behavior is unacceptable and Rickey needs to address this.

  • @PankysPen
    @PankysPen 5 років тому +158

    I didn't understand why they was laughing and joking in the first place.... and it would have been nice to hear Ricky correct that situation instead of going along with it at first. And Juicy what she finds so funny 🤔

    • @lorettacamp
      @lorettacamp 5 років тому +8

      CaptinComments did you notice when Eva looked her way she stopped laughing?

    • @DunDone_IT5252
      @DunDone_IT5252 5 років тому +5

      It's almost as if they don't seem to believe her smh...

  • @kimiee5325
    @kimiee5325 5 років тому +23

    Eva thank you for your transparency and to Rickey for being the humble person he is in sharing his platform for such an important topic!

  • @madmann1000
    @madmann1000 5 років тому +50

    I was so confused as to why Gary was joking and laughing.
    I didn’t know if this was suppose to be a serious conversation or not until Eva started telling her story.

  • @sbreezy1122
    @sbreezy1122 5 років тому +117

    Gary I think your crowded teeth is crowding your judgement. Do better.....and maybe see a dentist.

  • @melody271
    @melody271 5 років тому +46

    Love you Eva! Domestic violence is real and no one deserves it!

  • @CourtneyJasmine07062
    @CourtneyJasmine07062 5 років тому +88

    Eva said Gary you tried it today 🖐🏾

  • @fordbuiltf.3838
    @fordbuiltf.3838 5 років тому +103

    I know how you feel, and my ex was a so called minister. Its real!!!!

    • @radianceworldwide.
      @radianceworldwide. 5 років тому +9

      Yes my love...glad you got out sometimes it's the ones you least expect...keep spreading your story, Your Love, and you're Joy to the World. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾💖

    • @goodgracious6364
      @goodgracious6364 5 років тому +3

      Mine, too! I "was" married to a so-called pastor who had a wicked, angry, manipulative, abusive, narcissistic soul.

    • @radianceworldwide.
      @radianceworldwide. 5 років тому

      @*LA SHORE* sorry to hear that...good question...could be both unfortunately

    • @goodgracious6364
      @goodgracious6364 5 років тому +2

      @*LA SHORE* -- Yes, so many unstable and abusive people hide behind being "religious" or Christians. They generally minimize, justify or outright deny that they have sick behaviors. They feel that they can simply "praise the Lord" and all of their wicked ways will be excused, forgotten or forgiven.

    • @Calgenonlaw
      @Calgenonlaw 4 роки тому

      Preachers, Physicians, Lawyers, and Police Officers are the top 4 categories of abusers.

  • @aaronvod
    @aaronvod 5 років тому +54

    Aww I love you so much Eva , you are correct . I am a man and I also have dealt with domestic abuse , I can happen to anyone .

    • @HalfCenturyGirl
      @HalfCenturyGirl 5 років тому +4

      It does happen to GOOD men, I send it first hand ..be proud you are talking about it and bring notice... MOVE ON..LIKE I HAVE.. it takes a minute, but you can get through the trauma ..all people are not like that, no matter race,it's that person fault not yours..and you in a better spot now....your free from the TOXIC MONSTER

    • @shantellakaladypersephone8671
      @shantellakaladypersephone8671 5 років тому +2

      My heart hurts for you and the trauma you experienced. Men and women who are survivors of domestic violence are some of the most compassionate people I've ever met. I used to volunteer at my local Hubbard House in my 20s and the stories still break my heart to this day and I'm 36. Men were there and they were showered with love and support from women who could by all accounts be justified in avoiding men altogether out of fear. They helped each other to heal.
      I'm hoping that you have or have had the chance to heal too.❤

    • @aaronvod
      @aaronvod 5 років тому +1

      Shantell Kight thank you all for the support and thank you for the work you do in consoling victims . I am lgbtq and my partner was very abusive and I understand where Eva comes from when she doesn’t want to talk about it . It was a dark three years . I’m hopeful when I’m more comfortable I can talk about it and how staying in the situation can spiral your life . The saddest part of how broken you become and you just don’t know . I didn’t have family support and still don’t it was made a mockery of and til this day my own mother will call people just to down my life even more . I would be a liar if I told you my whole viewpoint hasn’t changed. It’s hard for me to trust people , I can admit I’m more recluse, I haven’t even actively tried to date . I’m just focused on healing myself and finding creative outlets .

    • @aaronvod
      @aaronvod 5 років тому

      ollie hatch thank you 🙏❤️

    • @lashawnaparrish7440
      @lashawnaparrish7440 5 років тому +2

      Aaron God bless you no person man woman or child should ever be put in this situation. Praying for your strength and well-being.

  • @delsieparker9836
    @delsieparker9836 4 роки тому +10

    Shout out to Eva for breaking the silence on domestic violence. It's not a laughing matter. Women from all walks of life around the world are being physically, mentally and emotionally abused by spouses everyday. That abuse must stop. We as a community must speak out against abusive men. Thank you Eva for sharing your story.

  • @ARay8715
    @ARay8715 5 років тому +29

    Been in a similar situation and now currently trying to co-parent. It gets tough and she is right on how embarrassing it is especially when you are the last person people would think it would happen to. Prayers for Eva

    • @sherealldavis7189
      @sherealldavis7189 5 років тому +4

      Going through this now

    • @ARay8715
      @ARay8715 5 років тому +5

      Shereall Davis prayers, protection and make sure you tell someone. It will get better for you :)

    • @sherealldavis7189
      @sherealldavis7189 5 років тому +4

      A. Ray yes currently waiting on him to go to prison now jumped on me in front of our son just my face and mouth so bad my son has been affected so bad stutters so bad

    • @ARay8715
      @ARay8715 5 років тому +3

      Shereall Davis ah no...I know all about that...be strong for you and your baby and I will definitely send some prayers up for you guys

    • @sherealldavis7189
      @sherealldavis7189 5 років тому +4

      A. Ray thank i

  • @marilynp.708
    @marilynp.708 5 років тому +12

    Eva, I stand with you. It takes courage to talk about this. You expressed this very well. I understand.

  • @Wise_Observant
    @Wise_Observant 5 років тому +54

    Smh...Eva you have me welling up with tears right now, I’m glad you found the courage and strength to leave. I hope Kevin gets help. Provided that the allegations are true, I hope the co-habitant/spouse gets out as well.

    • @fordbuiltf.3838
      @fordbuiltf.3838 5 років тому +3

      That boy beat up his own darn Mommy.

    • @Msboochie2
      @Msboochie2 5 років тому +5

      Fran Ford Just a few days after leaving Iyanla’s house he beat up his own mother. I do feel for the young lady he recently hurt, however people please do some research before getting into a relationship with someone. Someone who is alleged to have beat up their ex, their own mommy, and disown his little school aged girl while calling her out of her name is not relationship material.

    • @shantellakaladypersephone8671
      @shantellakaladypersephone8671 5 років тому

      @@Msboochie2 THIS!!!!!!

  • @courtneyjohnson2146
    @courtneyjohnson2146 5 років тому +25

    Ive been in an abusive relationship. I watched his interview. I believe Eva wholeheartedly. I hate that she went through this.

  • @wilsonialanglois4907
    @wilsonialanglois4907 5 років тому +14

    Eva I thank God for you and your courage and strength to get out of that situation! I hope men and women will realize their worth and leave before it's too late!

  • @missmanu7701
    @missmanu7701 5 років тому +16

    Eva is so strong to have endured that kind of abuse and was able to move on with life find love, get married and keep a career. Some women are so broken they repeat the cycle of abuse over and over again, and it's hard to bounce back from that when you constantly dealing with abusive realationships. Kudos to her for telling her story and raising awareness about domestic violence. For women who are in that situation make an exit plan to get out of it, make sure you plan and reach out to someone you trust. That domestic hotline is a good resource pull on all of your resources. You are special, you are worthy, you can rebuild. God bless you.

  • @vitamins79p31
    @vitamins79p31 5 років тому +28

    Eva Thank you for sharing your story that is brave ❤

  • @Tony44468
    @Tony44468 5 років тому +14

    Hearing Eva talk about it made me crying hearing her say it got worst while holding her child .they need to keep his ass in jail.

  • @kingkelly3794
    @kingkelly3794 5 років тому +47

    Yo Eva I'm so sorry that punk put his hands on u that's crazy 💔

  • @shantashanta8555
    @shantashanta8555 5 років тому +36

    Gary that was extremely out of pocket.disappointed brother

  • @jbaby007
    @jbaby007 5 років тому +8

    Makes me wonder if Gary is or has been abusive. Men.
    Thank you Eva for sharing your story. My heart goes out to you and your family.

  • @ElleBoogie_
    @ElleBoogie_ 5 років тому +29

    Now Gary...you can't be the oldest and the messiest person in the room. Not at the same time, sis. 🤦🏿‍♀️

  • @TheMisslilbit
    @TheMisslilbit 5 років тому +42

    They need to do better cause Juicy and Gary laughing but this shit ain't no joke my auntie died from being hit upside the head with a trophy!!!!

    • @brittanyr1456
      @brittanyr1456 5 років тому +8

      TheMisslilbit Sorry about your aunt!! Definitely not a joke. I got my teeth stomped out and other crap for years and I didn’t find a thing funny. It was traumatizing but I’m out of that. Thank God!!

    • @Feefs18
      @Feefs18 4 роки тому +4

      i’m so sorry for your loss. that is terrible! God bless you and your family

    • @millmonster101
      @millmonster101 4 роки тому +3

      I'm so sorry that a mf did that to her/what y'all went thru. Sending lots of love and light!

    • @chair1002
      @chair1002 4 роки тому

      A trophy wtf

  • @madame_ijeoma
    @madame_ijeoma 5 років тому +5

    Oh my God thank you for posting! I was losing signal while driving in Gwinnett. Wanted to hear her speak on it, so glad I can re-listen here on YT. And Gary, c'mon man...
    **Edit: I didn't know she cried while sharing her story. Lord that pulled on my heartstrings! Eva thanking you for being so brave. I'm more than sure it was good for you soul and encouraging for others who can relate to that life lesson you had to gain.

  • @bernlee6313
    @bernlee6313 5 років тому +28

    That subject should have never been a joke in the beginning,I know Gary job is make people laugh but he should have drawn the line on that!!!

  • @chanyisme
    @chanyisme 5 років тому +15

    I hope both women feel safer now that he's locked up.

  • @shantashanta8555
    @shantashanta8555 5 років тому +18

    Eva my heart goes out to you.

  • @elleyblack5536
    @elleyblack5536 5 років тому +14

    The fact that he laughed initially is part of the reason women get hit n feel bad to spk up cos men think it funny n dont take it seriously

  • @elaineanderson4891
    @elaineanderson4891 5 років тому +8

    Abuse runs deep.

  • @LadyDae
    @LadyDae 5 років тому +26

    That was very messy Gary!

  • @charlie-flower-child4949
    @charlie-flower-child4949 5 років тому +15

    This is actually nauseating to watch. How can he laugh about women being battered? He's part of the problem.

  • @timikaroberts3060
    @timikaroberts3060 5 років тому +14

    Wow tears came to my eyes!! My dad beat my mom all the time when I was little ...I still remember police being called and me and my brother having to go to grandmas house in the middle of the night..I remember being so scared of the sun going down cause I know my dad was coming home to hit mom I would be so nervous I would bite my nails I would literally shake and look out the window then when he came home I would run down the stairs and hug him in Hopes of him forgetting to hit mom( in my mind as a child)..my brother would jump in between to fight my dad at the age of 6(can u imagine that😢)even tho I was a daddys girl I wanted my mom to leave and i remember me and my brother had to be the ages of 4(me) and 6( brother) telling mom ..let's stay with grandma we dont have to go back mom pleasee!!! But finally she left and we all felt free in ways u couldn't even imagine!!! So please LADIES and MEN leave just leave it's not worth it especially when u have children u might think they dont know but take it from me i STILL remember and I'm 36 now😞 but as time went on and now we are grown with familys of our own we all forgave him and my dad apologized and we are there for each other and we have moved on from the anger ,resentment,embarrassment.after all I only have 1 mom and 1 dad and I will be there for both of them as long as they are living❤I hope I helped someone!!!

    • @dremy101
      @dremy101 5 років тому +3

      Thank you for sharing
      It really does affect children more than we think

    • @YACKYSNACKY
      @YACKYSNACKY 5 років тому +3

      This made me cry, I pray God bless all families in this world. I'm glad your story had a nice ending.

  • @lynnwhite2540
    @lynnwhite2540 5 років тому +10

    Thank you, Eva for speaking your truth. Being physically & mentally abused is real. It is no joking matter. There is sun for some after that dark day, because some victims are killed before they can get through the storm. Be blessed!

  • @donnabanks7656
    @donnabanks7656 4 роки тому +5

    Eva thank goodness you were courageous enough to get out of that relationship. Also being brave enough to speak to the public about it and educate them. May you have a safe and wonderful future.

  • @tonnettegrayson1657
    @tonnettegrayson1657 5 років тому +8

    This just breaks my heart! She is so beautiful and I'm glad she got out of that horrible relationship and found a better man! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙏🙏🙏

  • @remandamiller4808
    @remandamiller4808 5 років тому +12

    That's not funny abuse is REAL

  • @cestmoiDEE
    @cestmoiDEE 5 років тому +7

    Thank you Eva, I’m sure you are helping at least one person get out of that situation.

  • @paisleyduhhh6095
    @paisleyduhhh6095 5 років тому +8

    Thank you Eva! Get him together

  • @floyddean5472
    @floyddean5472 5 років тому +6

    oh eva,,,you are so strong and so brave to talk about it,,ive been through it too,and we have so much in common,the last straw for me too was when my sons father headbutted me in the face and broke my nose splattering blood everywhere including the ceiling,while my son was in my arms,,it can happen to the best of us,you are strong,never forget that

  • @argue.with.yourself
    @argue.with.yourself 5 років тому +6

    Love you Eva💓 Gary owes her a damn apology !

  • @chunj9050
    @chunj9050 5 років тому +7

    I'm so glad you got out of that situation before it got worst

  • @moniqueuu8777
    @moniqueuu8777 5 років тому +9

    Why is this a laughing matter to Gary?

  • @PrettyGirl-zl7th
    @PrettyGirl-zl7th 5 років тому +28

    See the way Rickey and the woman made light of the situation at the end was tasteful and like friendly support but I would’ve gathered Gary, hunni.

  • @tamikaperrodin3806
    @tamikaperrodin3806 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for opening up and speaking on your experience with domestic violence. The strength you had to leave the relationship speaks volumes. So many women that are in this kind of "relationship" stay and many people do not understand the depth this abuse has on a woman. Thank you again for sharing!

  • @876me7
    @876me7 5 років тому +12

    Eva - you are brave sis!

  • @pamelaison2444
    @pamelaison2444 4 роки тому +6

    I really feel for Eva. I know what it feels like for people to love someone so much that they don't believe that they would hit you.

  • @marshaastar
    @marshaastar 5 років тому +5

    Eva so happy you was courageous and got of that situation stay blessed ❤️

  • @antoinettechestnut4305
    @antoinettechestnut4305 Рік тому +1

    This had me in tears and it really hit home, just glad I got out of that situation. Many are not so fortunate. Can't make light of this unfortunate predicament.

  • @queenbehaviorinc.1384
    @queenbehaviorinc.1384 4 роки тому +2

    My heart broke when she started crying be she relived that moment. I’ve been down that dark road too.

  • @sensualsage93
    @sensualsage93 5 років тому +5

    My heart goes out to Eva. That shit is something you literally never want to discuss. I don’t even want to date anymore so I can avoid talking about it.

  • @DivaDen
    @DivaDen 5 років тому +3

    Eva is so strong and courageous for talking about that. I pray she touch many women/men and inspire them to leave. Blessings 💜

  • @kaybest3715
    @kaybest3715 5 років тому +3

    😔for all abused victims

  • @blackamericanlesbianprofes4357
    @blackamericanlesbianprofes4357 5 років тому +1

    Thank you for sharing your experience and encouraging others to call and receive help, Eva. Thank you for posting, I hope this helps others in a similar experience.

  • @joyful4cadenz
    @joyful4cadenz 5 років тому +9

    My heart goes out to Eva, please dont use this storyline for RHOA!

  • @sharcam2010
    @sharcam2010 5 років тому +9

    Did that man say "don't start" lol

    • @malakiacurtis7209
      @malakiacurtis7209 5 років тому +5

      Right he's fucking rude and pathetic. She's in pain and he should've had more compassion.

  • @labellenubiennecamille3141
    @labellenubiennecamille3141 5 років тому +2

    I’m in a dv shelter in Wausau Wisconsin. Leaving was the hardest part for me but I’m so glad I did.

  • @mimithomas
    @mimithomas 5 років тому +2

    I am about to cry i went through abuse relationship when I was 18 years old. My ex hit me in my head because we was argue and he was dry his shirt it burn he blame me for me for it and also his mother had one year live from breast cancer i was holding my son. I hope men and women get out abuse relationship

  • @mashyawilliams9868
    @mashyawilliams9868 5 років тому +4

    Lived through this with my daughters father and put a complete stop/halt to this before she was born, but it is VERY REAL and VERY TRUE that you can be with someone that (to the world) looks like and up-standing individual and behind closed doors is a complete MONSTER and they have a certain charm/finesse to how they do things... I would advise you to RUN!!!!! trust me, those "I love you's" are coming from a manipulating place because they neeeeeeeed to hold onto that control.

  • @cliquesnvues
    @cliquesnvues 5 років тому +3

    Eva needs her own platform...

  • @ClaudiaGarcia-wf8mj
    @ClaudiaGarcia-wf8mj 5 років тому +1

    Eva is courageous for sharing and I hope at least one woman heard that and finds strength. God bless Eva!

  • @princesslve
    @princesslve 5 років тому +2

    When she said “Period.” I felt that. Love how Eva handled this interview and didn’t make it a light hearted topic

  • @newnew4142
    @newnew4142 5 років тому +4

    The man I was dealing with recently had violent tendacies but he was verbal abusive and I left before it got worse

  • @HB-md8ly
    @HB-md8ly 5 років тому +3

    I don't know who the guy was who was laughing and joking initially but he is a first class FOOL!!!! Serious issues needs real women and men to talk about it responsibly!!!!

  • @dyoung2739
    @dyoung2739 5 років тому +2

    I listened to this segment on the radio earlier and thought Rickey was about to say something profound. Instead he was clowning about the napkins😂

    • @awesomw08
      @awesomw08 5 років тому +2

      He was trying to give Eva a light hearted moment after Gary was a whole ass hole today.

  • @SheCanSmile
    @SheCanSmile 5 років тому +2

    The trauma is still stuck in her body. Healing for you Eva.

  • @indiasavage7
    @indiasavage7 5 років тому +7

    Keep your head up

  • @Littlething41
    @Littlething41 5 років тому +3

    Oh Eva GIRL! Had me crying over here! Girl I'm so sorry! I love Eva so much and wanted to give her a hug. Girl. Before she had me crying I was sitting here thinking about how beautiful she is and how i LOVED watching her on Top Model. Cried when she won and here she go having me crying again! But seriously please keep speaking the truth so woman can get help. Some men like to prey on the strong more than the weak so there's nothing be ashamed of. It just means you intimidated him and he wanted to break you so be proud of the strength that must have frightened HIM and the courage you had to leave!

  • @shaunlowekey4525
    @shaunlowekey4525 4 роки тому +1

    Thank Eva for stepping up and let us know, because of lot of us don't want anyone to know what was is happening to us personally, I was in an abusive relationship with my ex girlfriend, it was abusive in anyway possible way you think you can think of, mentally and physically, emotional, my mom used to say that I am the only one that knows when to Walk away, and I did eventually. I am good and getting better every day. Thank you.

  • @hannahlove1562
    @hannahlove1562 5 років тому

    Much love to Eva! We support you love and everybody who has gone through domestic violence. NOT just women, EVERYONE!