Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I really agree strongly. The eternal DIVORCE NOW!!!! panacea to every relationship problem of the manosphere and the reddit crowd just sucks. What often goes wrong with these adultery stories is the shock of the discovery of the betrayal is so great, that it really takes at least months to process the first pain. No final decisions should be made during that period. In many cases the consequences of divorce are too harsh for the woman, especially once she is 40 or older (she will end up alone, or in a third rate relationship, with bad emotional and economic prospects for the rest of her life), and in many cases reconciliation is possible when the initial trauma subsides.
Cheating wife, after admitting to being selfish with the affair, demands custody of the child. Why? Selfish reasons. How much remorse can she have that she would make her betrayed husband spend most of his nights at home alone? Then she callously says, “You won’t lose her. You’ll see her and be with her often.” Well, if it’s such a good arrangement, witch, you take it.
Why do these writers have this completely BS notion that a 16 yo needs to reconcile with a cheating parent. She does not need to reconcile with her mother. I am really sick of this mindset.
I really get sick of these stories where everybody, betrayers and betrayed alike, end up being pals and having barbecues together. It's stupid and unrealistic. The kind of betrayals occurring in these stories are not like transient glitches. They're a reflection of who these people are. Knowing this, why would ANYONE in their right mind have any contact with them whatsoever? If I had been the daughter, I would say sure, mom. Of course we can hang out. Just as soon as you explain your behavior in a way I can understand and identify with. And "I don't know why I did it" isn't going to work.
It was a terrible mistake, it doesn't meant anything, it's about 17 years, and your daughter is not biologically yours, I am sorry dear, please you have to believe me, I love you. It didn't mean anything, we didn't mean to hurt you.. 😂
I thought Richard was sentenced for 8 years then why he was released from jail after 10 years? Was it something he had done while he was in prison that caused him another 2 years on top of the 8 years?
It used to be the working theory that mothers were the best option because they were naturally more nurturing. Now there is actual data that shows that outcomes for single father homes rival outcomes from two parent homes and both eclipse single mother homes. So in the cases where this known, there is now a more fair disposition, which seems odd as the data would seem to indicate fathers should have significant preference.
There is no convincing argument. For very young children, the mother is the most important parent, but the older they get, the more important the dad becomes, and when they reach puberty, he's the most important. ALthough this is often obscured because dads can be too absent due to waaaaay too long working hours, because of Capitalism.
@@Jrskeetpro Show me the money. It is true, that after decades of insane abuse, courts have been, not enthusiastically, but because they could no longer avoid it, improving their hateful attitudes of children and fathers a little bit, but the man hate and overreach in favor of women continues, albeit less pronounced. Also: they don't side with the women because they 'love' them, only as a tactic to destroy as many men and families as is possible, and they have been insanely successful. Marriage is dead, and loneliness among men and especially women older than 40 is off the charts.
Nobody is perfect. Relationships are hard, But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.
I honestly want to find happiness too. I've got a partner, and even though we're not together right now, I can't imagine life without her; my love for her is strong. I really miss her, and I'm fully committed to bringing her back. We've explored different paths, like therapy, to fix things.
Releasing someone you love is always a daunting task, but in my situation, I had the support of a spiritual advisor who prevented the disintegration of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that taking this approach will yield results for me as well; her absence is keenly felt.
You should.
I really agree strongly. The eternal DIVORCE NOW!!!! panacea to every relationship problem of the manosphere and the reddit crowd just sucks.
What often goes wrong with these adultery stories is the shock of the discovery of the betrayal is so great, that it really takes at least months to process the first pain. No final decisions should be made during that period. In many cases the consequences of divorce are too harsh for the woman, especially once she is 40 or older (she will end up alone, or in a third rate relationship, with bad emotional and economic prospects for the rest of her life), and in many cases reconciliation is possible when the initial trauma subsides.
Cheating wife, after admitting to being selfish with the affair, demands custody of the child. Why? Selfish reasons. How much remorse can she have that she would make her betrayed husband spend most of his nights at home alone? Then she callously says, “You won’t lose her. You’ll see her and be with her often.” Well, if it’s such a good arrangement, witch, you take it.
Why do these writers have this completely BS notion that a 16 yo needs to reconcile with a cheating parent. She does not need to reconcile with her mother. I am really sick of this mindset.
Good one great channel
I so sick of these guys waiting to confront people get it over with damn
I really get sick of these stories where everybody, betrayers and betrayed alike, end up being pals and having barbecues together. It's stupid and unrealistic.
The kind of betrayals occurring in these stories are not like transient glitches. They're a reflection of who these people are. Knowing this, why would ANYONE in their right mind have any contact with them whatsoever?
If I had been the daughter, I would say sure, mom. Of course we can hang out. Just as soon as you explain your behavior in a way I can understand and identify with. And "I don't know why I did it" isn't going to work.
Now that was a good story
I hate the answer " I don't know"
A bit long but still an interesting story. Though lumping up 10 years at the end seems rushed but still an uplifting story overall
Two worst humans in the world!! He took your wife he wouldn't get my kidney!!
It was a terrible mistake, it doesn't meant anything, it's about 17 years, and your daughter is not biologically yours, I am sorry dear, please you have to believe me, I love you. It didn't mean anything, we didn't mean to hurt you.. 😂
I dont believe drinking is any excuse for Betrayal.
Depends if she was taken advantage of-but that’s not the case here…
Either do I but seem to be the start most of it
@@michaeljackson7197 You are very truthful and honest. I think you are a smart man.
I thought Richard was sentenced for 8 years then why he was released from jail after 10 years? Was it something he had done while he was in prison that caused him another 2 years on top of the 8 years?
Sonia should marry to Dave after all the mess, and Ellie would have a little brother 🎉
What does a dollar seventy means?
The happy feel good ending was lame and not realistic. Especially the brother who went to prison.
Brother's wife, his daughter in law?
can somebody explain to me why the mother is the better option,to take care of children regardless of what they want,only convincing arguments please.
It used to be the working theory that mothers were the best option because they were naturally more nurturing. Now there is actual data that shows that outcomes for single father homes rival outcomes from two parent homes and both eclipse single mother homes. So in the cases where this known, there is now a more fair disposition, which seems odd as the data would seem to indicate fathers should have significant preference.
There is no convincing argument. For very young children, the mother is the most important parent, but the older they get, the more important the dad becomes, and when they reach puberty, he's the most important. ALthough this is often obscured because dads can be too absent due to waaaaay too long working hours, because of Capitalism.
Funny enough, there’s some stats that prove otherwise lol for the most part it’s just a biased towards women in these types of court cases.
@@Jrskeetpro Show me the money.
It is true, that after decades of insane abuse, courts have been, not enthusiastically, but because they could no longer avoid it, improving their hateful attitudes of children and fathers a little bit, but the man hate and overreach in favor of women continues, albeit less pronounced.
Also: they don't side with the women because they 'love' them, only as a tactic to destroy as many men and families as is possible, and they have been insanely successful. Marriage is dead, and loneliness among men and especially women older than 40 is off the charts.
don' think it is possible to have continuous affair
Love can be blind
che storia penosa