Yoh girl I’m in the same situation but my baby daddy changed when I was seven months but I’m almost done can’t wait to give birth and meet my son I just told myself this is my child and I will work harder to provide and give my child all the love . I know after birth he will wipe my tears .
I am so depressed right now, I wish I can laugh through my situation but its the opposite. I am so disappointed in myself for been negligent, pregnant , alone, broke and feeling useless.
Hey love! It is honestly a normal feeling to have… it gets better over time, especially when you accept that that’s unfortunately the situation you are in, and look for a way forward that is positive and in the end puts you in a position to be strong and conquer
@@AmoMoagi9321 thanks a bunch, this is soul lifting. I have come in terms with my situation and you are right I believe things will get better in time. I am looking on tge brighter side going forward. Thanks for your motivation, it really means a lot. 🙏😍😍
@@hannahbalogun8255 I’m glad you are in a better space. It honestly has up and downs, but when in the downs, it’s the thinking of the ups that keeps us going ❤️
This video literally touched my heart, I've been where you are however my family really helped me get through a whole depression. My son is 12 years old now and I couldn't be more happier ❤. You will definitely be fine boo, continue being an inspiration. God bless you
❤️Thank you dear. Means a lot. I believe I will be good and it’s in knowing that other ladies have been through something similar and are flourishing that keeps me going! Family also plays an important part… they are literally all the strength you could ever need. Glad to hear that you are good and your son is now a big boy ☺️Thank you 😊
I hope one day I could share my story and laugh like you are laughing. Life through me a curve ball. In the process of healing and accepting that this is my current situation and I have to focus on myself and my baby.
Nobody ever expects to be in such a situation babe and when it happens it catches us off guard. Take your time, it took me a bit as well to get to this point, won’t lie, I still have days where I’m like BUT WHAT THE HELL??? and I can’t do much but just look at what blessings I have, what blessing is coming, and look forward. If you ever need to talk, I’m here!
I’m in tears , this happened to me .. I’m only 10 weeks pregnant my bf ( soon to be ex) is treating me horribly … he acts like he doesn’t want the child .. continues to hang up the phone in my face .. just so rude … I blocked him yesterday and I feel at peace .. this video really helped me see reality..
Yoh babes I am so sorry that you are going through this. I hope for his sake and yours he really pulls up his socks. you are going to need to have a very strong mentality to go through this first trimester and not let his behaviour get to you, Congratulations on your pregnancy, and I am rooting for you.
My biggest fear is being a single mom but you , Jackie and millennial mom ( also fellow UA-camrs ) really inspire me. You are so strong and I wish God can give all single moms strength and more money
Congratulations to you tlhe ❤️. Wishing you the same, enjoy every moment of it, don’t let anyone take away that joy from you! Also can’t wait to meet my little human 😊
Had to come back to this video. 21 weeks in and I thought I was over it and him.I’m not, I feel heartbreak all over again. I just feel so rejected 😓God give me strength.
I’m so sorry babe 😔. The fact that you’ve gotten so far is a sign enough that you are stronger than you think. It’s okay to feel rejected but ultimately, don’t let that play on repeat in your head because it will definitely give him pleasure. Live in prayer, carry that sacred life with joy, Bring your heart to doing it for you, and know that you are enough. These men tend to be wild, but honestly they are just scared little people… we are bigger than them, and you’ll see what I mean one day. I do hope he mans up for that precious soul though ❤️, wishing you both peace because I genuinely don’t want it to continue when baby is here too. Much love babe ❤️
@@AmoMoagi9321 thank you Amo. Yeah I also hope that this will leave me before baby gets here. I don’t want to spend my whole 9 months depressed. You’re right and I shouldn’t be carrying the shame for his actions..I’ll continue to live in prayer and go to therapy. It helps a lot if I just vent and cry it out. I now need to be strong for my baby girl. She deserves all my love and attention.❤️ thanks Amo, your life inspires me. I watch your videos and just love how you go through life with such positivity.
Yo! Thank you so much! Heard myself in your words throughout the video - thanks for being so brave and open. I also laugh when things are crazy, they are so ridiculous its funny !
Thank you for listening 🙏🏽💖…Like honestly- all that one can do is just laugh because wow, we’d rather not die from the shock and disappointment right? ! 😅
It’s Important To Have Such Conversation Surrounding Pregnancy From The Get Go Of The Relationship. Even Though Most Men Lie, Others Will Be Honest About Their Time Lines. As A Person Raised By A Single Mom I’d Say:If He Didn’t Lie About What He Wants In The Beginning, I Totally Understand Where He Is Coming From. Maybe One Day He Will Come Around.✨
Absolutely you are right, having being raised by a single mom myself, I get where you are coming from. At the end of the day actions have consequences, if one has a timeline then they ensure in their power that nothing jeopardises that time line… protection. Pull out etc. But If one says one thing and does the latter then it’s a different story all together
You're super woman am about your story am 7 month's pregnant now and single mother same same story but I try to give birth as strong mom bless you girl please pray for me am 23 years old living alone I wish everything will be easy and better 🙏
hey love. You are definitely in my prayers. it is ridiculous how some men just enjoy the making of the child and react so disgustingly when the consequences catch... embarrassing really.
I am a newbie here, and girl I like to say thank you for sharing your journey with us😍😍😍. I am 27 years of age and I thought I knew everything when it comes to sex, mind you I lost my virginity last year🙈, and shit went down that time because we didn't even use a protection, and I had my periods late🤯 but luckily I was not pregnant, and I had to rely on app going forward. So hearing your story made me be more conscious about everything. Thanks Amo, and congratulations🎊🎉.
I can totally relate to you ... Last year I gave birth to my princess... And the drama...Yho!!! But my family was a great support structure... My mom literally bought everything I needed. My cravings and all... Even now I rely on her so much to buy baby stuff coz I'm not yet comfortable going to the mall wit the lil one...
I hate when guys say they getting trapped as if they can’t pick n choose when they want to be a father. As a mother we sacrifice things. Men don’t like responsibility that’s all.
This is a fact! I think we let way too many things slide as well for the sake of peace and don’t talk about what they say/do etc. Meanwhile a lot of mothers are going through the most. Now that I’ve chosen to talk about it, it’s like I’ve fuelled a reason for irresponsibility but it’s fine, I’ve never been one to keep it in and die in silence. If choosing to keep my baby was a trap 🤷🏽♀️, then so be it…
@@AmoMoagi9321 Actually what you’re saying here is so true. I was told that I’m selfish for wanting to keep a baby that the other party isn’t ready for. I was called selfish because I didn’t want to deal with the emotional and physical scars abortion could’ve brought to me.
Hey chomi. Well there is a little bit of sadness, but more than anything there’s a lot of pride and gratefulness. Pride in that “I DID IT” … I kept my brain and heart occupied with things that made me happy so that I can enjoy my first and probably last pregnancy in life to the fullest… create memories for myself 🤣, so that I can tell my daughter of my happy experience one day. Sad in that I never thought I’d go through such, grateful in that my loved ones were with me through your every step of it
@@AmoMoagi9321 hey mommy, thank u for taking the time to reply, and then being so open & honest in your response and in general. I do wish you & your daughter an abundance of joy and positive experiences together. You certainly went through a difficult experience, still can't wrap it around me. You're phenomenal and God is great! You're helping so many who have experienced the same and have nobody to relate to. Sending you major hugs❤️
Strength to you Sandra ❤️. No matter how difficult a situation, always make decisions that sit well with your heart and soul and will guarantee you peaceful sleep at night! ❤️
Im single and pregnant right now too, but I’m happy! Thank you for sharing your happiness too ❤it truly is an inspiration 🎉
You are so welcome! Congratulations to you babe. You deserve to enjoy your pregnancy ❤️
Yoh girl I’m in the same situation but my baby daddy changed when I was seven months but I’m almost done can’t wait to give birth and meet my son I just told myself this is my child and I will work harder to provide and give my child all the love . I know after birth he will wipe my tears .
I am so depressed right now, I wish I can laugh through my situation but its the opposite. I am so disappointed in myself for been negligent, pregnant , alone, broke and feeling useless.
Hey love! It is honestly a normal feeling to have… it gets better over time, especially when you accept that that’s unfortunately the situation you are in, and look for a way forward that is positive and in the end puts you in a position to be strong and conquer
@@AmoMoagi9321 thanks a bunch, this is soul lifting. I have come in terms with my situation and you are right I believe things will get better in time. I am looking on tge brighter side going forward. Thanks for your motivation, it really means a lot. 🙏😍😍
@@hannahbalogun8255 I’m glad you are in a better space. It honestly has up and downs, but when in the downs, it’s the thinking of the ups that keeps us going ❤️
I’m in the same boat, it’s not a bad thing, it’s a situation
I hope you are doing a loooot better today ❤️
This video literally touched my heart, I've been where you are however my family really helped me get through a whole depression. My son is 12 years old now and I couldn't be more happier ❤. You will definitely be fine boo, continue being an inspiration. God bless you
❤️Thank you dear. Means a lot. I believe I will be good and it’s in knowing that other ladies have been through something similar and are flourishing that keeps me going! Family also plays an important part… they are literally all the strength you could ever need. Glad to hear that you are good and your son is now a big boy ☺️Thank you 😊
I hope one day I could share my story and laugh like you are laughing. Life through me a curve ball. In the process of healing and accepting that this is my current situation and I have to focus on myself and my baby.
Nobody ever expects to be in such a situation babe and when it happens it catches us off guard. Take your time, it took me a bit as well to get to this point, won’t lie, I still have days where I’m like BUT WHAT THE HELL??? and I can’t do much but just look at what blessings I have, what blessing is coming, and look forward. If you ever need to talk, I’m here!
@@AmoMoagi9321 thank you so much ❤️
I’m in tears , this happened to me .. I’m only 10 weeks pregnant my bf ( soon to be ex) is treating me horribly … he acts like he doesn’t want the child .. continues to hang up the phone in my face .. just so rude … I blocked him yesterday and I feel at peace .. this video really helped me see reality..
Yoh babes I am so sorry that you are going through this. I hope for his sake and yours he really pulls up his socks. you are going to need to have a very strong mentality to go through this first trimester and not let his behaviour get to you, Congratulations on your pregnancy, and I am rooting for you.
My biggest fear is being a single mom but you , Jackie and millennial mom ( also fellow UA-camrs ) really inspire me. You are so strong and I wish God can give all single moms strength and more money
Ncaw babe… yah no gona go thata mara we do what we’ve got to do! And listen more money to anyone woman with a child nje because wow lol
Ncaw babe… yah no gona go thata mara we do what we’ve got to do! And listen more money to anyone woman with a child nje because wow lol
♥️♥️♥️ You just told my story. Can't wait to meet my baby, best thing that's happened to me. 🥺♥️ wishing you a happy and healthy pregnancy💐🙏🏽
Congratulations to you tlhe ❤️. Wishing you the same, enjoy every moment of it, don’t let anyone take away that joy from you! Also can’t wait to meet my little human 😊
It’s the honesty for me 😍. New subbie alert!!
😊🤌🏽thank you babes
Had to come back to this video. 21 weeks in and I thought I was over it and him.I’m not, I feel heartbreak all over again. I just feel so rejected 😓God give me strength.
I’m so sorry babe 😔. The fact that you’ve gotten so far is a sign enough that you are stronger than you think. It’s okay to feel rejected but ultimately, don’t let that play on repeat in your head because it will definitely give him pleasure. Live in prayer, carry that sacred life with joy, Bring your heart to doing it for you, and know that you are enough. These men tend to be wild, but honestly they are just scared little people… we are bigger than them, and you’ll see what I mean one day. I do hope he mans up for that precious soul though ❤️, wishing you both peace because I genuinely don’t want it to continue when baby is here too. Much love babe ❤️
@@AmoMoagi9321 thank you Amo. Yeah I also hope that this will leave me before baby gets here. I don’t want to spend my whole 9 months depressed. You’re right and I shouldn’t be carrying the shame for his actions..I’ll continue to live in prayer and go to therapy. It helps a lot if I just vent and cry it out.
I now need to be strong for my baby girl. She deserves all my love and attention.❤️ thanks Amo, your life inspires me. I watch your videos and just love how you go through life with such positivity.
The laugh & the content, hand in glove🙈. I must say I kind of sensed that something was about to go down. Its name is courage🙌🔥🤗💌❤
🤣I’ll forever be a clown 🤡 no matter the situation friend! Lol 😂.... thank you 🙏🏽 babes
Thank you for sharing your story! ❤
Yo! Thank you so much! Heard myself in your words throughout the video - thanks for being so brave and open. I also laugh when things are crazy, they are so ridiculous its funny !
Thank you for listening 🙏🏽💖…Like honestly- all that one can do is just laugh because wow, we’d rather not die from the shock and disappointment right? ! 😅
@@AmoMoagi9321 100 % !
It’s Important To Have Such Conversation Surrounding Pregnancy From The Get Go Of The Relationship. Even Though Most Men Lie, Others Will Be Honest About Their Time Lines. As A Person Raised By A Single Mom I’d Say:If He Didn’t Lie About What He Wants In The Beginning, I Totally Understand Where He Is Coming From. Maybe One Day He Will Come Around.✨
Absolutely you are right, having being raised by a single mom myself, I get where you are coming from. At the end of the day actions have consequences, if one has a timeline then they ensure in their power that nothing jeopardises that time line… protection. Pull out etc. But If one says one thing and does the latter then it’s a different story all together
Lol the laugh for me. 👏👏You are going to be an amazing mother, enjoy this journey. ❤️
Absolutely enjoying it... taking each day as it comes, loving it ❤️! Thank you Keith🙏🏽 ... I hope fatherhood is treating you good 😌
It’s the laugh for me in the beginning 😂😂😂Loved the video though❤️❤️❤️
🤣😂🤣😂some situations aren’t funny but you can’t help but laugh yazi 🤷🏽♀️🤣... glad you loved the video ❤️
You're super woman am about your story am 7 month's pregnant now and single mother same same story but I try to give birth as strong mom bless you girl please pray for me am 23 years old living alone I wish everything will be easy and better 🙏
hey love. You are definitely in my prayers. it is ridiculous how some men just enjoy the making of the child and react so disgustingly when the consequences catch... embarrassing really.
Lol you weren't venting. Congratulations to you and the baby - we will always keep baby D in our prayers. We love and appreciate you Nd baby D :-)
😊thank You K... 😅I legit in the end felt like I might have been venting. Okay great good to hear that I love wasn’t ❤️
Ke rona ba😭🎉🎉🎉🎉
Bathong Ausi. Thank you so much for talking about this, you’re brave ❤️ and rogo supporta hooray 😂❤️
Kealeboga akere Ausi 🤣🤍❤️...
Your story is a motivation to me. Continue to upload real contents.
Love ❤️ and Light ✨…to you. All the very best going forward with the delivery and recovery ❤️❤️❤️.
Thank you 🙏🏽
I am a newbie here, and girl I like to say thank you for sharing your journey with us😍😍😍. I am 27 years of age and I thought I knew everything when it comes to sex, mind you I lost my virginity last year🙈, and shit went down that time because we didn't even use a protection, and I had my periods late🤯 but luckily I was not pregnant, and I had to rely on app going forward. So hearing your story made me be more conscious about everything. Thanks Amo, and congratulations🎊🎉.
💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽heyyyyy love abs welcome and thank you❤️! Lol listen babes!!! DON’T YOU DARE 🤣, or it will end in tears
Am 5 weeks pg...my bf wants me to end it....Am a lil bit scared n freaked out by the thought of single mom. I need prayers n support.
Yoh banna!!!Love and light to you babe. what's important is for you to do what's right for you, and what you can live with
i subbed for both u n baby d i love ur energy and spirit
Thank you chomi
@@AmoMoagi9321 ur welcome mama
Thank you for sharing your story dear, yes I'm doing it for baby D...much love🇸🇿
☺️thank you
I'm here for the journey! Uzoba right...
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You are so inspiring, l love your courage and you talking about this is powerful 😘
Thank you so much Nicole ❤️! Takes a lot but definitely worth talking about because life is not all rainbows and sunshine hey...
Notification gang? Present💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾
Aich aich aich ❤️ayeye ❤️💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
I can totally relate to you ... Last year I gave birth to my princess... And the drama...Yho!!! But my family was a great support structure... My mom literally bought everything I needed. My cravings and all... Even now I rely on her so much to buy baby stuff coz I'm not yet comfortable going to the mall wit the lil one...
Thanks for sharing!!
I hate when guys say they getting trapped as if they can’t pick n choose when they want to be a father. As a mother we sacrifice things. Men don’t like responsibility that’s all.
This is a fact! I think we let way too many things slide as well for the sake of peace and don’t talk about what they say/do etc. Meanwhile a lot of mothers are going through the most. Now that I’ve chosen to talk about it, it’s like I’ve fuelled a reason for irresponsibility but it’s fine, I’ve never been one to keep it in and die in silence. If choosing to keep my baby was a trap 🤷🏽♀️, then so be it…
@@AmoMoagi9321 Actually what you’re saying here is so true. I was told that I’m selfish for wanting to keep a baby that the other party isn’t ready for. I was called selfish because I didn’t want to deal with the emotional and physical scars abortion could’ve brought to me.
@@leratonakin1832 you know what … it’s okay!
Some guys just want to be in control 24/7, yet they never think that actions have consequences
You saved your baby’s life ❤️
Wow! That just touched me… honestly the most rewarding thing I’ve ever done
Love the intro btw 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
🙏🏽Thank you 😊
He’s still the father whether he’s out of the picture or not, it doesn’t change anything
True
Looking back, how do you feel having had to go through your first pregnancy alone?
Hey chomi. Well there is a little bit of sadness, but more than anything there’s a lot of pride and gratefulness. Pride in that “I DID IT” … I kept my brain and heart occupied with things that made me happy so that I can enjoy my first and probably last pregnancy in life to the fullest… create memories for myself 🤣, so that I can tell my daughter of my happy experience one day. Sad in that I never thought I’d go through such, grateful in that my loved ones were with me through your every step of it
@@AmoMoagi9321 hey mommy, thank u for taking the time to reply, and then being so open & honest in your response and in general. I do wish you & your daughter an abundance of joy and positive experiences together. You certainly went through a difficult experience, still can't wrap it around me. You're phenomenal and God is great! You're helping so many who have experienced the same and have nobody to relate to. Sending you major hugs❤️
@@Tshegomlp much appreciated babe. Means a lot. ❤️lots of love
New subbie we Love you 😍 ❤
😊🙏🏽hey sweerry ❤️! Welcome and thank you 💃🏽
Minute 12, me
Strength to you Sandra ❤️. No matter how difficult a situation, always make decisions that sit well with your heart and soul and will guarantee you peaceful sleep at night! ❤️
55mins late but hello I'm here😃😃❤
Oh hey now 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽!!! ❤️
Ha! I had unprotected during the first 7 days after my period and here I am also pregnant😂😂
lol yoh girl... a shocker akere! lol its the Ha for me. had me on the floor.
New subbie❤️
❤️thank you sweety! Welcome 🤗
Another thing you never know someone hey. My friend found out after 9 years her husband had a wife out there . So 🤕
💀🤣thats so true ! You can never confirm or deny a person 🤞🏽! What’s worse is the aftermath of colours been shown
@@AmoMoagi9321 I think only Jesus only knows people hey. People have very scary personalities 😂
@@nomsantsoane3984 🤣🤣🤣🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽thats also facts! Lol people can genuinely shock you strong strong
@@AmoMoagi9321 Congratulations on your Little ngwana 🥰❤ You look beautiful and happy 😊
@@nomsantsoane3984 thank you sweets😊 ❤️! Everything genuinely is what you make of it, and I chose to love this experience and be happy 😊🤞🏽
Not me laughing, just nje, because you were laughing😭😭😭
Lol Yoh wena lol it’s a defeated laugh yazi ... mara I laugh at myself everyday
Came across your channel and I like your energy and the content.
Honey, those ovulation apps aren't reliable at all hey.
💖thank you so much Felicia. I know now to not trust those apps 🤞🏽