@@wizardofahhhhhhzexactly it would've showed growth had they all been closer in age. She's also making a lot of excuses for why it never seems to work out with any of the guys
Having a baby 20 years ago with no ring you live and you learn. But to have a baby 20 years later and still no ring means you’ve learned not a damn thing.
That part! She has to understand that unfortunately due to her past most men’s mothers wouldn’t want their sons bringing a woman like her home. If you’re a mom Imagine your son bringing home a woman with 4 baby daddies or your teenage son bringing home a 15/16 year old girl with an infant.
Idk why most women don't understand but being a "provider" means a man is providing for his wife and the kids that they produced together, not four other men's seeds 😐 but good luck to her.
Every female wants a provider male, they dont grow on trees given the current economy. The question becomes does he want this particular situation. My guess is not many provider type males are lined up at her door.
I have a perspective in this. I am one of 4 children to my mother and we have different dads. I didnt meet mine until I was in my 20s. My middle brother met his maybe once and my youngest brother's dad still wants nothing to do with him to this day. My sister has a relationship with her dad, but didnt grow up with him. Growing up like that was difficult as i had to assume many parenting duties as my mother had to work 3 jobs to maintain the household. I missed out on a lot, birthdays, chrismas, prom... There just wasnt enough money. Mama was always stressed and i never felt love from her until after i joined the military. Having children in this manner is one of the most wreckless things you can do. Children are suppose to grow up with one mother and one dad in the same house. Anything else is a disservice to those kids. This is beyond sad!
My son's mom has 4 kids by 4 men. I haven't seen my son in 4 years. Not because I don't want to. Because when I decided I didn't want to be with her she stopped answering the phone and hid my son from me. I know her daughters father and he shares the same experience as me. Her other two boys don't know their dad. It's a lot of women who will struggle and keep kids away from the father in hopes of hurting the father. This topic is rarely discussed
@HollyCain44 if your child is important you will find a way to be part of their life. I know men that had criminal cases against them who won custody of their children #noexcuses 🤷🏾♀️
This is why I say black women don't really care about black men or the community in general. Because how can you just give guys you don't want to be with kids then expect another guy who lived his life right to pick up the slack? The right men should be rewarded and they aren't.
🤔Did she try to call someone "Incompetent???" Ma'am is having 4 kids from 4 men competent??? And the nerve to be so confidently unaware is pure insanity!
Her mentioning her dad and brothers being married didn’t matter because they didn’t teach her to require marriage from a man. Then she talked about how she knew that the last guy she was intimate with was going back and forth with the mother of his children.
I have a serious question. I genuinely have wondered this for years. Why don’t woman in our community get on birth control? Why do the men in our community not wrap it up. Why are we constantly creating broken homes? But then wanna get mad when someone calls your kids half siblings.
I don’t get it either! I feel like you have to go out of your way to get pregnant this day and age, so I don’t understand how people have so many “oopsies” 🤦🏾♀️
@@R0yALtySyes you do. If you see all the ads with the many free options for protection and bc and still ignore all of that and lay down... chicks are going out their way to allow this bs.
Not judging just stating the facts. Just had sex 6 weeks ago, with a guy that u knew there was no future with. Any man with game is just gonna hit and keep it moving. Only a simp is signing up for this deal. A 3yr old as well. So u got a minimum 15 years for all the kids to be gone. Aint no way.
Girl raise your kids and stop chasing a wallet. I bust out laughing when she said " have a relationship with God" girl where is your relationship with God.
I used to judge women who has 2,3,4,5, children from different men. Now ever since I started watching the Kendra G show I have come to an understanding of how this can happen. We need to pour more love into our children. So they are less likely to grow up with self-esteem issues. Sometimes it’s your children that fill the void from past trauma or not being loved well. Sometimes it’s men who have been hurt from past pain, who may hurt the women who had their kids. It’s a vicious cycle that could only be attempted to be solved when the root of the issues is address. Love on your children well. They came from you. Love what is a part of you. We will have a new generation of healthy men and women who know how to pour love into each other and keep the family happily together.
It's always the ones that have multiple kids by multiple men that have these high demands on what they want the man to have, make, drive, etc. But what do you bring other than baby daddy drama and stress. Then she says she doesn't want to provide 50/50
Her talking casually about how she irresponsibly made 4 kids outside of true committed relationships is wild!!! Birth control is cheap & sometimes free. I am truly confused 😕
@@Theeorie4393 how hard is BC!! She could be on the pill. Or keep her damn legs shut. Very easy. I did that until I met my husband of 10 years. Shut the legs! I then had 2 kids AFTER marriage. No excuse for continuous bad behavior.
She reminds me of a girl I knew. She would tell me about a new guy and how he wanted to see her all the time. I said he's going to get on your nerves. She said no he not. 2 to 3 weeks later their fighting. It was guy after guy with her, and game after game. She had 3 kids herself, going hard to be validated by men until the man she really wanted came back, then he started the bull. I was just like oh lol well. The one she really wanted treated her the worst because she stayed around and let him
So, she's not a liscensed teacher. Teachers don't make a lot, but they don't get paid hourly, and definitely not $15 an hour. No shade, just pointing that out. Even in the early 2000's, back when I was in that field we made more than that.
SHE should NOT be beggin Kendra for a man NOW. She is beyond DONE. This is sad. BW should be SHAMING women like her INSTEAD of praising this chic. the sisterhood supports this.
She said she didn’t get along with the second dudes mom?? I ain’t got kids but um ma’am if my teen son bought home a teen mom I wouldn’t like her either! How can you be so puzzled as to why she don’t like you? I would be soooo salty and do everything in my power to get him to get rid of her I’m sorry 😭
She’s beautiful and I can see a beautiful spirit within her. Radiant smile. 4kids w/ 4 fathers is wild though. This is why it’s important to learn when a guy is attracted to you it doesn’t mean he wants to take you seriously.
When she said $15- I KNEW she was NOT a school teacher🤦🏾♀️…everyone wants to claim it, although what you’re doing is needed & rewarding as well don’t discredit what school teachers do/who they are!
I'm 44, childfree, and from Indianapolis, Indiana myself. The Pickens are slim, the top hobbies are murder, baby making, chics sharing baby daddy's, and The Rooftop in the summer. The "city" is nothing more than a big, depressing town, as it always makes the top ten list for obesity, suicide/depression. The nightlife is grim, and summers are short; extremely short. Indianapolis doesn't have much to offer, especially in the relationship realm. I know plenty of people who have gone to internet dating. On top of all that, she has a helluva qualification list. She may find what she's looking for, however; if she's a "seasoned" Indy native, she should already know these things. She should also be prepared to date a man who has just as many (if not more) children as she does, with as many baby mommas to match those children. Good luck to her. She's going to need it.
Because this generation is about ego and control. Women suffered and fought for their rights and freedom. This generation is trying to put themselves in a position that their ancestors fought hard to get them out of. Ego and control. Thinking its sweet.
She's willing to uproot her whole life and everything she's worked hard for, to live up under a man for him to pay all the bills. Nobody is making her do that.
She has a helluva list for someone in her position. She also has an sense of entitlement attitude!! At any rate, I hope she finds what she's looking for (while rolling my eyes).
YOU GET A BABY ! YOU GET A BABY ! Seriously? How do you master single motherhood over and over again ???For the sake of our childrens future, we need stop normalizing this behavior.WE HAVE TO DO BETTER.
@@AmberLivingstone I get it but let’s me honest here, the vast majority of these baby mommas/daddies didn’t require this with their baby daddies/mommas now they want to next mate to have more. I’m a man with o kids and I never everrrrrrr dated a female with kids.
I recognized that when she paused and looked up and off to the side before answering, when Kendra asked her what she does for a living. She could not look directly into the camera and just answer the question without pausing and saying “umm….” As if she had to think about it. Cues she’s not being honest.
4 kids by 4 men smh. All you have to do is listen to them and how they present themselves you already know what it is. She on here calling shots like she’s a catch FOH. Oh it’s the man’s fault 😂😂😂
Four children by four different fathers. The most recent baby daddy was 4 years ago. 39 years old grown woman. This is a lot to ask a decent, respectable man to take on. She’s repeatedly made the same mistakes. And she let a dude who was entangled with his baby momma smash 6 weeks ago.
The craziest part is when she said she lost her virginity at the age of 15 and the baby daddy was eight years older and he was out of line.. wtf?! She wasn’t out of line for having a sexual relationship at the age of 15…but he was? She didn’t know she wasn’t supposed to be having a sexual relationship at that age and unprotected? But she takes accountability… Yikes 😬 She didn’t say he abducted her and SA her… and now she’s 39-years-old with four baby daddies on the Kendra G show talking crazy 🤪
@j.daniels1548 If a man who is 23 and has sex with a 15 year old, that is SA. Actually it is defined as rape in this country bc a 15 year old cannot consent to having sex. The stats say that most teen moms are impregnated by men older than high school age.
She was really cool with a great personality. I appreciate her ability to be funny, open, witty and transparent. And she stood on hers minus the normal delusion.
She’s a beautiful woman. Every one deserves grace and she’s honest, so that’s something to be respected. Accountability doesn’t fall solely on the woman. I wish her the best.
@@AmberLivingstone you still believe men and women are viewed the same in society. A man’s purpose is to populate the earth, a woman’s purpose is to bare her husband’s (1 man) children to build his legacy.
👍🏽 the **UNMITIGATED GaLL** 🙄 And it was givin FAKE NEWS 😂 when Miss N’yalha said her Occupation was that of an “In-School Suspension Teacher” 🤦🏽♀️ I ain’t NEVAH heard of any Such shixt as that 😂 ALso, it was NOT a good Look for her to be CRACKIN gum while Miss Kendra was tryna Interview her GHETTO seLf.
I don't even know why she did this interview she's a Dodo bird up there trying to make excuses on why she messed up instead of just saying I messed up that's responsible that's taking accountability not all that crap she's saying every time something bad happened she said it was the man fault black women know how to blame somebody
Of course your second baby father mother did not like you. My mom would do the same if I dated a single mom in high school. Till this day my mom tells all the younger family members to not date, single parents
I mean what's the difference they are still to spread it too far apart in age she the type of woman that want all these rules for her guy but she don't got no rules for herself to follow that's the problem that's the accountability part
@@mariaantoinette3958 this is a new generation and men are waking up. the amount of men willing to do this today is shrinking. but most men will "date" a woman with kids for sure. marry and take care of them is another story.
@@AmberLivingstone men arent looking for women to be providers to how ever many kids they have. Btw its nothing wrong with having multiple kids just know the pool of men willing to accept it gets smaller!
Is it just me or do other races around the world watch this and say WTF is wrong with black people in America. I don't think I've ever heard of an Asian Arabic Filipino or east Indian woman with multiple baby fathers and if so you don't see them in Mass
It’s the same (also most of the women cheat in those other cultures, and the kids genetics aren’t physically relevant) because they have the same skin tones etc, however blacks have always been known to entertain and broadcast their personal views ; which brings us to KENDRA G
I liked her energy and how bold and straightforward she is. She seems to be confident and has a strong sense of self. Wishing her the best in her search.
She said her 4 kids are far apart like it's a good thing. Chick that just means you went 20 years and was making the same mistakes and never learned. 4 the streetz!
An ISS lady who continuously flexes about how successful she is but her kitchen looks like she lives in a tiny home that was built in the early 2000s. I really don't like when folks continuously act like they have deep pockets when they probably can't even touch 100k. What man do you know that wants a woman who keeps reminding him that she can take care of him if she wanted to?
Too funny . All the conversations are going to be just that. She makes more, she can do it alone, she doesn’t need you around. Then you leave and she actually has to start paying for shit.
@@Fabrizio7171 and don’t get me wrong. It’s awesome to have your own. But when you are searching for your person. Get rid of the list. A person will show you exactly who they are and what they can do pertaining to you.
Leos are just always well put together and confident!!! And we just make sense🤷🏾♀️ Her 4 x 4 literally makes sense and was thought out. I couldn't do it of course (my four are by my husband) I don't have the patience, energy or wherewithal to deal with all those different men but I could see how her situation happened. We love and value our children over everything and everyone especially us August Leos
Young black men being considered lame/corny in the black community, isn't a bad thing at all. Eventually, you'll leave this community and find out that nothing is wrong with you; it's actually something wrong with the community.
I've come to see that lame means masculine in a matriarchal culture. You don't have an affinity for chaos and are less interested in the shallowness of the material world. Being cool really means being evil. And black people are the coolest people on earth.
I was at an investment conference last week and now I swear Ive never seen so many single successful and business minded men in one room. Every conference is usually 80% married men. But everytime I watch this show I understand why. She wants you to pay the bills for her and her kids to move in with you but not expect her to contribute even half or thats equal to her taking care of you or courting you? Maam are you slow. You're taking care of "your" kids that you made. Imagine men buying a house, paying all the bills and moving you and your kids in to be freeloaders 🤣
Moving backwards, bring back the women from older generations who still believed in family and working together so that their children had a better life than what they did free from trauma. Wanted to be with her last child's father, but he just wasn't ready? Ma'am, then why have a baby by him? Your brothers and father being married and providers means nothing, if any man is willing to take you seriously you should be praising God.
Why is it so difficult for some women to understand that it is possible to date and have relationships with men without getting pregnant?
Fr. It seems like some don't even consider protection, which is awful seeing how all STD rates are insanely high now
How else they gonna keep their attention?
@@cowel8734All facts . It's crazy how reckless people are
Kuz most women who have consistent sex with a man falls in love with him.
Thank You. Some people act like kids are a handbag that goes with every penis or vagina
A 39 yr old with a 23 yr old kid and a 3 yr old? She ain’t learned nothing in all her yrs.
She started at 16
@@JayWerx i bet she learned some trix 😂😂😂
Bingo….still making the SAME dumb mistakes for two decades 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
That's because nobody told her to keep her legs closed. Her peer group and family normalize it
@@wizardofahhhhhhzexactly it would've showed growth had they all been closer in age. She's also making a lot of excuses for why it never seems to work out with any of the guys
Having a baby 20 years ago with no ring you live and you learn. But to have a baby 20 years later and still no ring means you’ve learned not a damn thing.
😂😂😂😂
Facts
Did a quick math 😂
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Y r yall like this 😂😂
Ma'am, you got 4 kids by 4 men; you ain't getting along with nobody's momma
@@2MasterBuilder2 that was nasty work when she said that 😂😂
@@2MasterBuilder2 yeah, if I was a mother and my teenage son got a girl pregnant who already had another kid, I’d be mad too
1000% Imagine bringing this broad home to your mother.
That part! She has to understand that unfortunately due to her past most men’s mothers wouldn’t want their sons bringing a woman like her home.
If you’re a mom Imagine your son bringing home a woman with 4 baby daddies or your teenage son bringing home a 15/16 year old girl with an infant.
😂😂😂😂
A grown ass man pays attention to how responsible a woman is with her body. There are a lot of good people in the world with poor 🐱 management
Huh 😟 you cannot have 4 kids by multiple baby daddies and not be held accountable for poor decisions. 😮
@@johnmoore4714 exactly!!!
Remember, these ladies want us to accept anything and everything........we are intimidated if we are not interested lol
@kaykaye can we stop with the "ladies" isht? It's ppl, period. Men with bad 🍆 management are just as toxic and detrimental as women
This is a very powerful statement.
Idk why most women don't understand but being a "provider" means a man is providing for his wife and the kids that they produced together, not four other men's seeds 😐 but good luck to her.
Real men take care of every child irrespective of who their biological father is.
Women will have 4 baby daddys that don't and didn't help with any of the kids and now demand the new guy help provide. Ummm nooo.
@@ChaseMitchell-yo8tv What is wrong with that?
Every female wants a provider male, they dont grow on trees given the current economy. The question becomes does he want this particular situation. My guess is not many provider type males are lined up at her door.
@@Sam-zr3ly everything.
I have a perspective in this. I am one of 4 children to my mother and we have different dads. I didnt meet mine until I was in my 20s. My middle brother met his maybe once and my youngest brother's dad still wants nothing to do with him to this day. My sister has a relationship with her dad, but didnt grow up with him. Growing up like that was difficult as i had to assume many parenting duties as my mother had to work 3 jobs to maintain the household. I missed out on a lot, birthdays, chrismas, prom... There just wasnt enough money. Mama was always stressed and i never felt love from her until after i joined the military. Having children in this manner is one of the most wreckless things you can do. Children are suppose to grow up with one mother and one dad in the same house. Anything else is a disservice to those kids. This is beyond sad!
My son's mom has 4 kids by 4 men. I haven't seen my son in 4 years. Not because I don't want to. Because when I decided I didn't want to be with her she stopped answering the phone and hid my son from me. I know her daughters father and he shares the same experience as me. Her other two boys don't know their dad.
It's a lot of women who will struggle and keep kids away from the father in hopes of hurting the father. This topic is rarely discussed
Awwww, sorry you experienced that. I agree with you 100%.
@HollyCain44 if your child is important you will find a way to be part of their life. I know men that had criminal cases against them who won custody of their children #noexcuses 🤷🏾♀️
Doesn’t want a 50/50 man, but you expect him to care and provide for his "new, instant" family 🤔
Right 👍🏾
Ridiculous. Leave them be and just fly away.
This is why I say black women don't really care about black men or the community in general. Because how can you just give guys you don't want to be with kids then expect another guy who lived his life right to pick up the slack? The right men should be rewarded and they aren't.
Well she didn't get 50/50 from her baby daddies they bounced lol
@@greglane501Rewarded in what way? Just don't choose her and find a woman without kids.
🤔Did she try to call someone "Incompetent???" Ma'am is having 4 kids from 4 men competent??? And the nerve to be so confidently unaware is pure insanity!
She said her body her choice 4 times to 4 men 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She not incompetent she great at being a single mom and making a broken home
She unaware because its normalized now. Heck even Pastor Jamal Bryant has several baby mamas.
@@truebengalsfan A got damn black belt at creating dysfunction!
I would have stayed on birth control after the first baby.
Thank u
Or close your legs
She's the Perfect definition of "No Shame."
yeah they never seen to do that
no BW. They don't learn. she stopped maturing at 16 when she got that eggplant.
Her mentioning her dad and brothers being married didn’t matter because they didn’t teach her to require marriage from a man. Then she talked about how she knew that the last guy she was intimate with was going back and forth with the mother of his children.
Chile those men were prob married menaces
Maybe she said that to say that's what she desire! Regardless, as to what she has done. She still has a right to prefer what she wants.
@@tattqueen1494 she’s allowed to say what she wants and get what she wants. I was just pointing out the contradictions.
@RECHARON she was a side chick to ALL those men. She was very insecure the whole video. Narcissist vibes
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I have a serious question. I genuinely have wondered this for years. Why don’t woman in our community get on birth control? Why do the men in our community not wrap it up. Why are we constantly creating broken homes? But then wanna get mad when someone calls your kids half siblings.
I don’t get it either! I feel like you have to go out of your way to get pregnant this day and age, so I don’t understand how people have so many “oopsies” 🤦🏾♀️
@@Keiaradiseu ain't gotta go outta your way but I get what u saying 😂
No morals, no beliefs, no values. Simple as that.
well one thing is many women in the "community" like and want to "fix" knuckle heads and and pookie don't care to wrap it up
@@R0yALtySyes you do. If you see all the ads with the many free options for protection and bc and still ignore all of that and lay down... chicks are going out their way to allow this bs.
Condoms, depo shot, patch, shot, plan b, something....
ABSTINENCE.
@pickmeisha right, cause that birth control is detrimental to women...clank clank
the pills, IUD
Ha!! That depo shot don't be working 😂. That's how I have my 2nd born
Iud coil,endless options 😂
Not judging just stating the facts. Just had sex 6 weeks ago, with a guy that u knew there was no future with. Any man with game is just gonna hit and keep it moving. Only a simp is signing up for this deal. A 3yr old as well. So u got a minimum 15 years for all the kids to be gone. Aint no way.
Having sex is different from being in a relationship. She is looking for a relationship not sex.
@@Sam-zr3ly if a woman isn’t having kids with a man no need for relationship just get together when needed stay at your home man stays at his
Is that what she said 6 weeks ago...That means she might be pregnant again.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂@@Sam-zr3ly
@@GETBIG4WARDthey wanna sell you this relationship ship so bad . Just to turn around and tell you how much you gotta pay and what she’s not gonna do.
Girl raise your kids and stop chasing a wallet. I bust out laughing when she said " have a relationship with God" girl where is your relationship with God.
Buzz words
@@theengineered1949they use it just to use it
That is subjective.
God is everywhere, even in that bedroom 😂
@@SweetEssie😂😂😂 Fr now
She's a behavioural specialist and yet her own behaviour is off the scales, delulu. 😳
😂😂 Coco for CoCo puffs
Sounds like a demotion to me.. does a suspension teacher require certification?
LMAO 😂😂😂
@@BigRedd80 The school gave her a welfare job.
Right. I'm sceprical about the validity of that claim.
You don’t have to sleep with everyone you meet.
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
You don’t need a receipt (ie baby) for everyone you sleep with
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@@kimberlyherrington5423 yes she does it's the right of passage 😏
U don't have 2 sleep with anyone u meet 😅😅😅unless u r saying I Do!!
All her relationship were side chick relationships. She wasn't in no relationship with those men. She is capping.
I actually would agree. I would say she had the kids to keep them..
That's what it seems like to me also
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An in school suspension teacher is NOT a teacher. You aren’t teaching a subject…
I was wondering if someone would catch that. Um, Ms if you don't have a teaching certificate from the state you're not a teacher.
The in school suspension teachers sometimes are counselors but they can be teachers as well. Just depends on the school.
Yea she definitely slick lied. She’s not a certified teacher so that’s the main reason she doesn’t make much in the field.
Correct she ain't teaching a damn thing.
Right, when she said $15 I knew she wasn’t being truthful.
When you have multiple kids by multiple men, your default setting is “Ready for the smoke”.
You are right. She is a great role model for the young girls coming up. She has a successful plan.
Ready for the smoke but was ok with having a 4th by a man who wasn't " ready "
Ur point
…don’t forget “multiple investments”😜
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Take the gum out 😒
people should know better, would you interview for a job with gum in your mouth 🤷🏽♀️
Yes, please, please take the gum out!!!!
You think this ghetto broad is worried about gum when she letting anyone & everyone dump off in her?
Gun* lol
No, I got smell-o-vision.
She said too much to the public
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Nothing was new tho
I used to judge women who has 2,3,4,5, children from different men. Now ever since I started watching the Kendra G show I have come to an understanding of how this can happen. We need to pour more love into our children. So they are less likely to grow up with self-esteem issues. Sometimes it’s your children that fill the void from past trauma or not being loved well. Sometimes it’s men who have been hurt from past pain, who may hurt the women who had their kids. It’s a vicious cycle that could only be attempted to be solved when the root of the issues is address. Love on your children well. They came from you. Love what is a part of you. We will have a new generation of healthy men and women who know how to pour love into each other and keep the family happily together.
good luck but with the value system in the dating market I don't see that happening
Sounds nice but most will only pass down failure
We need to raise our self esteem
Excellent comment!
I can’t with the gum
I chew gum but it's annoying when you see chewing of gum for the duration of Kendra's discussions.
gum? with HER!!! 4 baby daddies 4 kids. disgusting.
It’s annoying
Exactly
Facts
You get a baby! You get a baby! YOU get a baby! YOU ALL GET BABIES!!!
Corny comment
Her having all these kids is corny
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@Ev-rd2lw -FEMINIST ALERT
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It's always the ones that have multiple kids by multiple men that have these high demands on what they want the man to have, make, drive, etc. But what do you bring other than baby daddy drama and stress. Then she says she doesn't want to provide 50/50
She done lost 100% of her mind
Of course they learned their lesson
@@rf4341 😝
@@Itsblueeeeee only took court kids to learn that lol
Swear they pick the best qualities from all the men and say that’s what I want.
Her talking casually about how she irresponsibly made 4 kids outside of true committed relationships is wild!!! Birth control is cheap & sometimes free. I am truly confused 😕
Exactly. No accountability. She think she’s the prize still lol.
Birth control is not easy unless the man uses it. But she sounds... 😮
@@Theeorie4393 how hard is BC!! She could be on the pill. Or keep her damn legs shut. Very easy. I did that until I met my husband of 10 years. Shut the legs! I then had 2 kids AFTER marriage. No excuse for continuous bad behavior.
@@Theeorie4393 How is it not easy for the woman?
It’s been free since 1916. It’s called Planned Parenthood, what your taxes dollars pay for…
It feels good to be single and alone.
Thank you Kendra 🙏🏾
Having your kids spaced out is not a flex if you didn’t try marriage in between 🤣
You had 4 chances for men to provide for you but now you need a 5th attempt?
The 4 men were her training tools. She is now ready for an actual man, the 5th.
She still hasn't learnt has she lol
She reminds me of a girl I knew. She would tell me about a new guy and how he wanted to see her all the time. I said he's going to get on your nerves. She said no he not. 2 to 3 weeks later their fighting. It was guy after guy with her, and game after game. She had 3 kids herself, going hard to be validated by men until the man she really wanted came back, then he started the bull. I was just like oh lol well. The one she really wanted treated her the worst because she stayed around and let him
...and the 5th guy gets all the drama and all the stipulations. SMDH
@ TheCommentaryKingOfficial….It’s wild that so many women have so many kids by some many men!!!
So, she's not a liscensed teacher. Teachers don't make a lot, but they don't get paid hourly, and definitely not $15 an hour. No shade, just pointing that out. Even in the early 2000's, back when I was in that field we made more than that.
She’s a prek teacher, preschool with that hourly wage.
@@RK-qh3dtshe said she was the in-school “teacher”.
There are areas where they pay teachers by the hour-unfortunately but definitely not her state!
I was thrown off when she said an ISS teacher, because I didn’t think they needed a teaching license but I could be wrong.
@@lumasphamyeah that threw me off, cause I didn’t think they needed to be licensed
The baby daddy break down was crazy. Some things should not be discussed. Sounds like a man would be entering a life of drama and confusion.
SHE should NOT be beggin Kendra for a man NOW. She is beyond DONE. This is sad. BW should be SHAMING women like her INSTEAD of praising this chic. the sisterhood supports this.
She said she didn’t get along with the second dudes mom?? I ain’t got kids but um ma’am if my teen son bought home a teen mom I wouldn’t like her either! How can you be so puzzled as to why she don’t like you? I would be soooo salty and do everything in my power to get him to get rid of her I’m sorry 😭
This is my nightmare for my son. Definitely don't want him bringing this type of woman into our home. Unacceptable......
That's the part she don't want to understand keyword don't want!
She’s beautiful and I can see a beautiful spirit within her. Radiant smile. 4kids w/ 4 fathers is wild though. This is why it’s important to learn when a guy is attracted to you it doesn’t mean he wants to take you seriously.
That smile looked like it hurt forreal.
Nothing beautiful in this video except Kendra 😂
We gotta stop lying to ppl
The second child’s mom probably hated you because you manipulated her son into taking responsibility for your first child which wasn’t his
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And they were in high school
My first thought
exactly. she didn't want the fast girl in school with her son
And then had his baby. A mom's worst nightmare
When she said $15- I KNEW she was NOT a school teacher🤦🏾♀️…everyone wants to claim it, although what you’re doing is needed & rewarding as well don’t discredit what school teachers do/who they are!
I'm 44, childfree, and from Indianapolis, Indiana myself. The Pickens are slim, the top hobbies are murder, baby making, chics sharing baby daddy's, and The Rooftop in the summer. The "city" is nothing more than a big, depressing town, as it always makes the top ten list for obesity, suicide/depression.
The nightlife is grim, and summers are short; extremely short.
Indianapolis doesn't have much to offer, especially in the relationship realm. I know plenty of people who have gone to internet dating. On top of all that, she has a helluva qualification list.
She may find what she's looking for, however; if she's a "seasoned" Indy native, she should already know these things. She should also be prepared to date a man who has just as many (if not more) children as she does, with as many baby mommas to match those children.
Good luck to her. She's going to need it.
I love how women talk about providers in this generation but the past generations literally fought for equality!!!
Because this generation is about ego and control. Women suffered and fought for their rights and freedom. This generation is trying to put themselves in a position that their ancestors fought hard to get them out of. Ego and control. Thinking its sweet.
She's willing to uproot her whole life and everything she's worked hard for, to live up under a man for him to pay all the bills. Nobody is making her do that.
Because the past generation had providers. They wanted the equal right to vote and pay for the same work.
@@TheTbabylatiright!!! Cus that comment was way left😂😂😂
Equality does not mean a woman wants her husband to be her roommate 😮
4 baby baddies..enough said! Child please!
First child at 16 at that! 😳
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
She has a helluva list for someone in her position. She also has an sense of entitlement attitude!!
At any rate, I hope she finds what she's looking for (while rolling my eyes).
YOU GET A BABY ! YOU GET A BABY ! Seriously?
How do you master single motherhood over and over again ???For the sake of our childrens future, we need stop normalizing this behavior.WE HAVE TO DO BETTER.
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
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All my male family members are married and they raised me but I’m not married with 4 kids by 4 different men!!
There is NOTHING interesting or respectful about a woman with 4 kids, by 4 different dudes!! Absolutely nothing.
It’s disgusting 🤮
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone you sound triggered 😂
@@AAM2011 just hate a double standard
@@AmberLivingstone I get it but let’s me honest here, the vast majority of these baby mommas/daddies didn’t require this with their baby daddies/mommas now they want to next mate to have more. I’m a man with o kids and I never everrrrrrr dated a female with kids.
Chewing gum while having a conversation is tacky.
You know what I mean 😫
Yuck
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So she was just giving every body a baby.
A common 🥜 🪣
Like Oprah gave out cars😅
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone the women CHOOSE HIM........ women control access to sex and human reproduction,not men.
@@AmberLivingstone some of us work a real job and do this for entertainment. We can't keep track of your family members 😅
She said financially substain? She probably means sustain. 🤣🤣
And she's a school teacher 😀😀
And she a teacher :)
@@rockie3789 Yep. This is who you send your children to for their EGUMACATION. 🤣🤣
She business consults and teaches 😂
She's Beautiful, Articulate & Honest. I Wish Her Yhe Best.
She’s not a certified teacher if she is making $15 an hour.
Maybe a teacher's aide. Not even a sub
I recognized that when she paused and looked up and off to the side before answering, when Kendra asked her what she does for a living. She could not look directly into the camera and just answer the question without pausing and saying “umm….” As if she had to think about it. Cues she’s not being honest.
That kitchen says she makes $15/hr😂
Fr, can make more than that working at Walmart.
She ain’t a teacher. No teacher makes $15 and hour
4 kids by 4 men smh. All you have to do is listen to them and how they present themselves you already know what it is. She on here calling shots like she’s a catch FOH. Oh it’s the man’s fault 😂😂😂
She said don’t reach out to me ma’am nobody is reaching out for a 4 from 4 from Wendy’s 😂😂
Just say you don't qualify to be in her presence
@@GETBIG4WARD This woman is beautiful and smart, can't you see that?
@@Sam-zr3ly 😂😂😂😂you trolling Im not even mad at you now I see what you doing go off 😂😂
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
Four children by four different fathers. The most recent baby daddy was 4 years ago. 39 years old grown woman. This is a lot to ask a decent, respectable man to take on. She’s repeatedly made the same mistakes. And she let a dude who was entangled with his baby momma smash 6 weeks ago.
And I bet she let him smash raw.
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
Her father didn’t teach her shit
Her, I take accountability.
Also her, it’s everyone else’s fault but mine
The craziest part is when she said she lost her virginity at the age of 15 and the baby daddy was eight years older and he was out of line.. wtf?! She wasn’t out of line for having a sexual relationship at the age of 15…but he was? She didn’t know she wasn’t supposed to be having a sexual relationship at that age and unprotected? But she takes accountability… Yikes 😬
She didn’t say he abducted her and SA her… and now she’s 39-years-old with four baby daddies on the Kendra G show talking crazy 🤪
@@j.daniels1548 even giving her that one, she proceeded to make an excuse for every subsequent baby and baby daddy she has 🤦🏿♂️
@@Renzo_Renzy8op 😬
@j.daniels1548 If a man who is 23 and has sex with a 15 year old, that is SA. Actually it is defined as rape in this country bc a 15 year old cannot consent to having sex. The stats say that most teen moms are impregnated by men older than high school age.
She's a walking red flag 😭🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 but acts like she's got it together...
I Would never go for a woman like that....
They all do
How is she acting like she has it all together?
She was really cool with a great personality. I appreciate her ability to be funny, open, witty and transparent. And she stood on hers minus the normal delusion.
She’s a beautiful woman. Every one deserves grace and she’s honest, so that’s something to be respected. Accountability doesn’t fall solely on the woman. I wish her the best.
Women control access to sex and she opts to engage in it without having any serious relationship. That falls solely on her!
20 different forms of contraception and she made an excuse for all four baby daddies.
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone you still believe men and women are viewed the same in society. A man’s purpose is to populate the earth, a woman’s purpose is to bare her husband’s (1 man) children to build his legacy.
@@AmberLivingstoneMen don’t have 20 forms of contraception.
4 kids and 4 baby daddies! No need to say more 😂🤣😂🤣
Discussion is completely over!
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone lol, I didn't say anything negative about her
@@tmakjus but you fixed your finger to type, go show the same energy towards the man
@@AmberLivingstone ok
4 kids? 4 men? Where is the shame?
4×4 and not a wedding ring in sight. Smdh.
NONE in the black community. BW support women like her. SHE is THE model of modern BW
She was in competition with Wendy’s she wanted to be known as a 4 for 4 too
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
shame? who can shame them? this behavior is celebrated.
Don’t want 50/50 but wants you to take 4 other men’s kids.
I love how well spoken and seemingly honest she is. she isn’t perfect but who is?!
No one is, but you definitely find find a woman without 4 bd's. You wouldn't want your son to bring her home. 😂😂
No one is perfect but who’s signing up to deal with 4 baby daddies. SMH there’s plenty of women out here with no baggage like this
This is what you call "well spoken" ? The bar is low.
An in school suspension and former behavior specialist that doesn’t know how to behave herself, you can’t make this up
She has been infected with the behavior of her school children
Both of those are non-certified positions that don’t always require a degree in the field and they’re positions many don’t want.
😂
My people and Daniel Webster.🤣🤣🤣
"Substain" yourself, Mama!
Did she say she's a teacher?!?!
I was about to say Siri spell sustain 🗣️
@@GoofyFlan😂
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Four by four....who is signing up for this one???
I mean..... She thick ain't she🤷
A sucka
The simps and the jail pookies
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone plenty are there
Sis, no man who’s worth his salt is signing up for this! 😂 the audacity to come with 4 baby daddies with a list of demands! 😂😂
👍🏽 the **UNMITIGATED GaLL** 🙄 And it was givin FAKE NEWS 😂 when Miss N’yalha said her Occupation was that of an “In-School Suspension Teacher” 🤦🏽♀️ I ain’t NEVAH heard of any Such shixt as that 😂 ALso, it was NOT a good Look for her to be CRACKIN gum while Miss Kendra was tryna Interview her GHETTO seLf.
I don't even know why she did this interview she's a Dodo bird up there trying to make excuses on why she messed up instead of just saying I messed up that's responsible that's taking accountability not all that crap she's saying every time something bad happened she said it was the man fault black women know how to blame somebody
She just an articulate 304 nothing more
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304ism at it's finest
Of course your second baby father mother did not like you. My mom would do the same if I dated a single mom in high school. Till this day my mom tells all the younger family members to not date, single parents
But her son had a kid with her too so he's none better than her
@@SweetEssiethis is the part I don't understand. Women have babies, it's not that hard.
Why everyone keeps saying she have 3 grown? Did I miss something? Last 2 kids are 3 and 8 is what I heard
I heard the same thing.
@@Nicole-yj5cu
Grown still needs financial and support.
No, she has two grown children, aged 23 and 20, as well as two younger kids who are 8 and 3 years old.
I mean what's the difference they are still to spread it too far apart in age she the type of woman that want all these rules for her guy but she don't got no rules for herself to follow that's the problem that's the accountability part
These birds kill me: gives all these Pookies a free baby but Mr. Right has to follow a rule book. 😅
4 for 4, a provider shouldn't even be in your mind! Smh clueless
The only provider she should care about is Jesus. He will supply your every need!
She look like a short bus shawtie version of Tariji P Henson! 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I always get taraji p Henson too lol😂
@@toeaxnI can see it
She looks like Taraji P Henson and Syd from Ice Age had a baby
Not the short bus ! 😂😭
@@Flash413😅
LADIES WE NOT PAYING YALL BILLS WITH KIDS FROM DIFFERENT MEN!!
Some men do. I didn’t have a problem when my child was young 🤷🏾♀️
pay mine than.
@@mariaantoinette3958they clearly don’t bc it’s a million of yall on Kendra G show with no results.
@@mariaantoinette3958 this is a new generation and men are waking up. the amount of men willing to do this today is shrinking. but most men will "date" a woman with kids for sure. marry and take care of them is another story.
And you shouldn't.........
If these women were wood. I could build a house with all these 2x4, 3x4, 4x4, 3x5.
🤣😂
😂😂😂
She suffers from the PPM syndrome. Poor Pussy Management.
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Now that's a Gold 🏆 worthy comment right there 🫡
I can’t imagine having to deal with four different baby fathers. Ain’t no way in hell.
I bet you she doesn't even deal with 4 baby fathers. 2 at best
I like her! She has a beautiful spirit 💕
Shout out to YOU Kendra for repoing CT HARD!!!!! We (from Connecticut) LOVE you for this!!! ❤️❤️💗
I like her, but 4 BABY DADDIES?!? oh honey. Good luck though
She make a good fwb
@@truebengalsfanLike her last relationship
I wonder does anybody watch themselves back and see that they talked wayy too much and shared unnecessary info
😂😂😂😂 fr
Her smile is beautiful 😊None of us are perfect there is somebody for everyone
Ladies....You gotta ask yourselves..Why should a man buy a cow if he gets all his milk for free.
You mean buy someone else cow + her callfes ( 🤣) with no milk in site.
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone men arent looking for women to be providers to how ever many kids they have. Btw its nothing wrong with having multiple kids just know the pool of men willing to accept it gets smaller!
You men aren't buying the cow nowadays anyway.
Why are you comparing a woman to a cow!?
I was raised by men…my brothers are married, my father is married…so how TF you ended up being a 4 x 4?!!!
Exactly.
No how did you end up having sex at 15 with someone 8 years your senior. Where were her dad and brothers at that time 😮
@@wizardofahhhhhhz she was lying
they don't listen
👉🏽 The chewing of the gum 😖😩🤮 Ugh, I can't!!! 👎🏽👎🏽
Is it just me or do other races around the world watch this and say WTF is wrong with black people in America. I don't think I've ever heard of an Asian Arabic Filipino or east Indian woman with multiple baby fathers and if so you don't see them in Mass
It is because American black people are more civilized than other group of people. We are the pace setters.
They have multiple baby daddies if they deal with black men 😂
Yes 😂
It’s the same (also most of the women cheat in those other cultures, and the kids genetics aren’t physically relevant) because they have the same skin tones etc, however blacks have always been known to entertain and broadcast their personal views ; which brings us to KENDRA G
Ma'am it's definitely not the same what are you talking about 🤔@@phoenixsun6956
She should make them download the app before they can join.... period
She’s great at her responses.
I liked her energy and how bold and straightforward she is. She seems to be confident and has a strong sense of self. Wishing her the best in her search.
That woman lost asf. She got a baby with every dude in the hood. Can't believe she even showed up 😂
Ma’am ….. gone head
We know damn near her whole life at this point !
She said her 4 kids are far apart like it's a good thing. Chick that just means you went 20 years and was making the same mistakes and never learned. 4 the streetz!
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
@@AmberLivingstone didn't see. But sure
@@rashadpearson4094🤣😂💯😭
I can tell she thinks she’s better than people.
It's a front to conceal how they really feel about themselves. Four children by four men is a sign of no self-love.
4kids/4 baby daddies +
She’s a in-school detention teacher-specialist / entrepreneur
Maaaan - 🥷 couldn’t make this 💩 up if’ya tried !!!
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
She has no standards at all. Anybody can get it. Geesh.
She has a wonderful attitude...
An ISS lady who continuously flexes about how successful she is but her kitchen looks like she lives in a tiny home that was built in the early 2000s. I really don't like when folks continuously act like they have deep pockets when they probably can't even touch 100k. What man do you know that wants a woman who keeps reminding him that she can take care of him if she wanted to?
😂 which is how she 🛞 them in , but couldn’t afford to keep taking care of them. So they go back to who could afford them ultimately. 🎯
Too funny . All the conversations are going to be just that. She makes more, she can do it alone, she doesn’t need you around. Then you leave and she actually has to start paying for shit.
@@Fabrizio7171 and don’t get me wrong. It’s awesome to have your own. But when you are searching for your person. Get rid of the list. A person will show you exactly who they are and what they can do pertaining to you.
She's very masculine and giving home girl vibes
Leos are just always well put together and confident!!! And we just make sense🤷🏾♀️ Her 4 x 4 literally makes sense and was thought out. I couldn't do it of course (my four are by my husband) I don't have the patience, energy or wherewithal to deal with all those different men but I could see how her situation happened. We love and value our children over everything and everyone especially us August Leos
This is actually a comedy show disguised as a dating show. 😂😂😂
😂 I’m here STRICTLY for the comments.
All the time. 😂
The type of man you want doesn't want a 4x4. You're going to have to settle for being pookie's side chick.
Can you go write this under the comment with the man with 4x4. I didn’t see your comment under his vid
“I’m thick like you, Kendra”
“My hips aren’t that wide!”
😂😅🫠
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Young black men being considered lame/corny in the black community, isn't a bad thing at all. Eventually, you'll leave this community and find out that nothing is wrong with you; it's actually something wrong with the community.
true
I've come to see that lame means masculine in a matriarchal culture. You don't have an affinity for chaos and are less interested in the shallowness of the material world.
Being cool really means being evil. And black people are the coolest people on earth.
I was at an investment conference last week and now I swear Ive never seen so many single successful and business minded men in one room. Every conference is usually 80% married men. But everytime I watch this show I understand why. She wants you to pay the bills for her and her kids to move in with you but not expect her to contribute even half or thats equal to her taking care of you or courting you? Maam are you slow. You're taking care of "your" kids that you made. Imagine men buying a house, paying all the bills and moving you and your kids in to be freeloaders 🤣
Moving backwards, bring back the women from older generations who still believed in family and working together so that their children had a better life than what they did free from trauma. Wanted to be with her last child's father, but he just wasn't ready? Ma'am, then why have a baby by him? Your brothers and father being married and providers means nothing, if any man is willing to take you seriously you should be praising God.
4 kids by 4 dudes??!???!? Ma’am.