From Party Boy to Church Boy: Michael Wigfall v Keonna Perkins
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- Опубліковано 28 гру 2024
- From excessive drinking to late night parties at hotels with random men, Michael says his girlfriend’s addiction to alcohol is ruining their relationship.
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He's the perfect man for SOMEONE ELSE
A man
Just was thinking this! Woman will line up for a man who loves Jesus and serves at his local church! Serve with him, this is a blessing.
They are not equally yoked. They have taken different paths, and he should find a woman with similar interests and life goals.
Unequally Yoked.
Yeah, I've learned from experience if his relationship with God is because he's a "born again believer," then he should know he's not going to cause her to change and come into the fold, she has to surrender and ask Christ to come in; if he's just "going to church," then it explains why he's still pursuing her; they're living in two different worlds......
They are equally yoked. They're fornicating and cohabiting before marriage.
That's the same thing I said, they're growing in different directions
She mentions God so much, but doesn’t even bring up the equally yoke concept…….this women
They were equally yoked at the beginning….
I dislike, people who shame other people for doing the same things they use to do! People grow at their own time -
How did he shame her?
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I don't think he is shaming her. He just wants to help her work on her drinking habit
@@tjmusah6210 everything becomes a habits to others just because they stop something. He need to leave her alone and let her enjoy her life.
I truly believe some of you just want people to be “happy” to their detriment. And most likely y’all fit the description. Truly misery disguised as happiness loves company.
There's a lot of former drug addicts, alcoholics, pimps, prostitutes, murders etc that are very active in their church.
God heals the broken and we all need his healing as we walk through this journey. 🙏
Best place to be!
............😮😮😮....👀
That is why I am not there 😂
Exactly, it's a healthier addiction. He does it so he doesn't go back. Maybe feeling like he owes God because God spared his life in that accident.
JUDGE IS RIGHT. HE SWAPPED ONE ADDICTION FOR ANOTHER. EXCESSIVE CHURCH ACTIVITIES DOESN'T MEAN A RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD.
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She said it so kindly too.
Yeah but no! Nothing about what this man is doing is an addiction replacement. He definitely should prioritize his house but I’ve seen church addicts, this man is just committed to being better.
Women want better, but not too much. They can’t handle the pressure.
I agree with you @shalen.
Death has a curious way of reshuffling one’s priorities
The therapist is so right, right on point❤
Yes, I wish the juge would have given her more time to talk.
They are so wrong for one another, but Keonna is rocking the hell out of that hair color, gorgeous 💯
I JUST SAID THAT ABOUT HER HAIR COLOR!!
SIR COME OUT FROM AMONG THEM. IF SHE DON'T WANT TO GO SAVE YOURSELF. CHOOSE GOD
Amen
Glory to God
You can’t force it. It takes time and he’s not perfect. I’m sure God is against the fornication they’re doing.
Amen 🙏🏼 it’s not his wife.
Amen!!!Light/darkness*choose light=LIFE💥💦💦😊
Mr. Perkins, move on brother, this girl ain't ready for a change, she for the streets. Every time she disappears she is sleeping with some one else. Stop wasting time bro.
He is probably doing everything, never trust these holy rollers
@kimwilliams1402 that's making an accusation ...Satan's weapon of choice
How is she for the streets?? They’ve been on the same path just at different times in their lives. Doesn’t make her any less of a person.
@@Novakane78well the initial comment was an accusation as well
@courtneycarpenter5283 yup it is..also the initial comment is based in evidence, giving the poster a reason to say what they said, even though an accusation. The replier, is just hurling an accusation with no cause other than spite. Not saying the original poster is not wrong, but someof what they said is based on her actions.
So we're just going to glaze over the fact that she was dancing with another man in her underwear?.
Incompatible. Y'all are at 2 different stages in life & that's fine.They're both experiencing trauma, but it's masked differently. He's become overzealous b/c of his fear w/ drinking. She's still tryna find herself in the bottle. Y'all don't need to date nobody.
One of the worst emotional experiences to ever have is to meet and fall in love with someone, change for the better(they’re not ready to change), and have to leave the love of your life or you will revert back to who you were…
If the man in church and your not ready to go to church so why not make the choice to leave him and don’t let him makes that choice for you to stay or go
Yes ,he is not perfect person
@@kimwilliams1402 No one is that's why you must repent and be baptized for your sins. Act.2.38. There is no one clean on this earth, you, me is as an unclean rag. Get it together.
People don’t know how to break up and move on.
Her issues are clear to see. His issues are hidden. He’s too quick to say “let’s focus on the future, not the past” when she raised a valid complaint that he cancelled on her birthday the very morning, and he knew she didn’t have anyone healthy to be around. He didn’t reschedule her, just repeating that his new plans were more important. He’s clearly clinging to the church to avoid being around alcohol etc. Hopefully he’ll learn that if you want to marry someone,you need to ‘actually’ consider and value them. If he doesn’t have the bandwidth he should walk his own path and allow God to work on them both separately.
He needs to go. They are not compatible. Two totally different people. It would be a disaster if they do marry
Do Not Marry! This relationship is headed in two different directions and will end in a train wreck. Too many MEs, MYs and I's. Both should find someone more compatible.
Somehow I thought they were already married.
@@melstarr1864 Not Yet, just a relationship.
Taking him out the equation she needs a hobby if she lonely & the only time she has friends is when alcohol is involved.
She wants a husband but at the same time she wants to change on her own time. Smfh. Just let each other go. Before child is made.
She takes no responsibility for her issues and wants to blame him for them! She should get involved in the Church with him! Honestly if you're not happy with yourself, no one else will make you happy!
She don’t have to get involved in church.
@@TiktokIsTheNewWelfare I know she doesn't have to, but I'm sure he would really appreciate it though. Spending time together.
@@dunkinjunkie5868 why do they have to spend time together in church? What abt what she likes to do? Smh
When you hear the word “controlling” out of a female’s mouth … immediately leave her alone.
That is an individual that is not only uncooperative, she’s not a helpmeet & she’s telling you that she refuses to get on your program.
Do not pass go beyond that point.
1) “Controlling “
2) “Insecure”
3) “Well what about you …? “
4) “Judgemental”
Do not argue, do not debate, kindly bid her goodnight, and leave her alone permanently.
Do not attempt to understand, 2nd chance, or attempt to change.
Drop her off …
You definitely want to control someone, Every woman should be afraid of you and your mindset
They are not yoked anymore.
Going to God is not an OBSESSION. THIS IS CRAZY. WE CAN NEVER REPAY GOD FOR ALL HE HAS DONE
He did not go to God....he went to increased church activities....not exactly the same thing.
God is not the church. I myself used to indulge in Christian radio and God was not pleased
It’s funny that women wanted a church man “man of God” when they get one they don’t know how to handle it. He too churchy lmao. You can’t please a lot of these woman today.
@ronwilliams1385 That is some home grown message to told yourself. When God begins to call you and you truly profess you to go with God when your heart changes and the relationship get strong your dedication is to Godly things. And the things you use to do you don't do no more. He still trying to hold on to her cause everything don't happen overnight.
@@riseagain9677 WHO TOLD YOU THAT? AND YOU PROBALLY WAS IN FALSE CHURCH WHERE NOTTHING IS TAUGHT OR PREACHED. WHEN YOU SAY THINGS LIKE YOU SAYING YOU DON'T KNOW GOD YOU SAY CHURCH BUT ONLY THE SETTING
My Mom gave me the advice of watching for a person with extremes...too much street/partying & too much church, on the other hand. They will both be bad news. You will not be willing or able to live up to their expectations. One you can not drink/party/drug enough & remain sane, the other you will always be a heathen & you will not be able to be holy enough. Lady, cut your losses & find someone who matches your level of spirituality and fun. Live the life you want and have safe fun without being judged for it. YOLO, safely.
I don’t agree with the judge on being deeply involved in the church as him swapping addictions. That’s what is keeping him sober. Keeping himself busy with the church. If he’s doing the Lords work then he’s also deepening his relationship with GOD.
Amen
Amen, I don't agree with what she said either, If he's addicted to Jesus which is the best addiction then he will be in the church serving. Hallelujah, Thank you, Jesus!!!!!! loose here Satan but I understand what she said because I was a drug addict and now I'm a food addict so I did that trade one addiction for another. But Jesus is real. Hallelujah.
Doing work in the church doesn't deepen your relationship with God. Fasting, praying, and reading the bible regularly is what does.
Who told you that ? A preacher who wants free labor ?
Church can be an addition. A relationship with God is more important than running around and doing everything at the church.
Brother Michael is listening to his heart and not GOD . She is clearly not a Christian and he's unequally yoked. I pray he listen to Holy Spirit voice.
That's good for her that she's not a Christian. She doesn't need to become a Christian to be with him. Let him be with some annoying holy roller and she should stop when she gets ready.
Master DO NOT LET ANY WOMAN/MAN BE PRIORITY BEFORE GOD. GOD FIRST. Anyone not happy with that, leave them.
Amen!
I'm glad she called out that addiction to doing stuff at church. I grew up in a church environment where people were just obsessive about doing stuff that involved the church. Later in life, I found out that many of them were just swapping one addiction or obsession for another. We have to learn to deal with our emotions rather than bury them in something else. They are both unhealthy and don't need to be in a relationship with any one right now.
Facts🤌🤌
What you described is called cross-addiction.
Nothing wrong with obsessing with God
He’s the best addiction!!
Hallelujah Amen
Best obsession to have. Can't and won't fail with that obsession
People die because of folks obsessed with God, Cults are started by people obsessed with God. Being obsessed with anything blinds you and stops your critical thinking.
Actually there’s a lot wrong with that. You should be more worried about knowing and loving yourself. Y’all always talk about god this and god that and are so lost within yourself you don’t even know yourself because everything always is “give it to god” instead of actually dealing with your personal issues 😮🙂
Church is never an addiction when i run from the drink and party i got into church .I was there almost every day .This is how i found total healing .Am married for over 30 years .Both of us are in Church
That's wild. She was dancing naked with other dudes, and the judge is trying to keep them together.
He acknowledges that they both have mental illness problems and only offers the woman help.
Bruv leave here.. she for the streets...
she’s a functional alcoholic until she’s no longer able to function. he’s grateful to GOD and wants to serve as a means of thankfulness not realizing GOD only requires our hearts not works.
They don’t need to be together; sadly
The book of James said show me your faith by your works because faith without works is dead. Merely saying I have God in my heart means nothing if my actions don't prove it.
Seeing all the Bible thumpers who have no critical thinking skills commenting on this episode reinforces my commitment to staying out of them churches. The devil isn’t in the streets on Sundays, he’s in them churches preaching to yall.
lol, does he understand the definition of “unconditional love” 😂😂😂😂
Unconditional love doesn't exist, everyone has their boundaries, needs, and wants in a partner and those are way more important for building a long-term relationship with someone
@@beafakename8523 i agree it doesn’t exist with humans when it comes to romantic relationships, but i’m confident most humans love their children and certain family unconditionally as well as God loves us unconditionally
Yeah but God still has boundaries@@tmston2
Judge star Jones means well when she said, he possibly exchange one addiction for another, however, I don’t think that’s what this is.
If she meant well, she would have thought it through some more.
Unless he’s in a cult, i wouldn’t bring his devotion in the ball park of addiction. He’s on a journey of spiritual growth. In the first years most people devote allot. If he does not receive a calling, more likely than not his devotion will taper off a bit in the coming years.
And he won’t need therapy or a support group to do it, unlike alcoholism.
Judge don't give good advice. She was making excuses about his addiction
It is possible to become so involved with church you neglect your relationship. They’re not even married but he expects her to change all of a sudden. If he loves her he will give her time.
@@steelwill78 if he loves her, he will let her go.
Having a deep commitment to God is doing alot for the church. People that are casual believers love to bring others to their level. Failing to not assemble is a commandment.
Amen
False. Having a deep commitment to God means obeying his word. God wants obedience above all.
1 Samuel 15:22
“Tell me,” Samuel said. “Does the Lord really want sacrifices and offerings? No! He doesn't want your sacrifices. He wants you to obey him
@steelwill78
James 2:18 - Yea, a man may say, Thou hast faith, and I have works: shew me thy faith without thy works, and I will shew thee my faith by my works.
I never said that was the ONLY definition. We need to quit fighting and be united. Rather than say FALSE, which was wrong btw, you could have said : "also" or "to add" .
@steelwill78 to add; Hebrews 10:25 so if we are talking obedience, failing not to assemble falls under that category.
@@Novakane78 It’s not a requirement to assemble every Sunday or Wednesday for service. Actually Church can be any day of the week. And just because I don’t go to church all the time God isn’t upset with me. Repentance and living right by His word is more important than attending service. Also Everyone in the church isn’t saved my brother.
How can ur commitment to God be excessive!!!! What about his commitment to us. His son has died for us. So no matter what we do for him it will never be enough. He is worth it. Men and women fail , but God never fails
I just can’t get over the fact that his name is Mr Wigfall 🤣
Had to change it for the show? Hilarious
Sorry Boaz, but she is not your Ruth ok?! Keep it moving…
Never let a man put you second 💯
😊 and if your hard headed woman don't want to follow your lead leave her ass behind...💯
GOD COMES 1ST .
Well, I'm obsessed with Jesus and his church, and all the men I was with complied. I'd rather love the world and hate the devil. God is real.
Sr she is not your wife 😊God is trying to show you,believe him 😂
Bad associations spoil useful habits👀🤔🤔
Their life are now both in 2 different directions. Move on!. He is committed to church and not to his relationship and has gone extreme once he had the accident. It's ok to love God, church but the magnitude of which he has, has now over shadowed the relationship.
She's acting like she's 22 still. Never grew up smh.
Give her a break. Dealing with an addiction is not easy
Get rid of her
Why are they married..they don’t have the same interests and don’t even like each other
The fact so many people is blaming him is crazy 😂
With coulsing they can make it... nobody is perfect, ppl can change. beautiful couple ❤❤
Let her go , she dont know what it is to have a balanced man she still want Ghetto.If she leaves he willnc her coming around
These two are doing the right thing for themselves. Unfortunately their lifestyles are just too dramatically different. Church vs Doing thing besides church does not determine the fit. They can’t meet in the middle so they can’t make it work.
All Dr. Collins did was agree with Judge star, and all Robert did was agree with Judge star… So…..
😂 nothing constructive or helpful at all !!!... And we breezed right over her dancing naked in front of another man part didn't we.......lol
All that therapist proved was “fluff gets you stuff.” Followed by, “Am I right?!!?
@@bryanbeeman5256 😁 yup... But when you say this kind of stuff the comment section look at you like your crazy... Like they just didn't see what we all just saw and heard...lol
They not compatible. One loves the church and the other appears to love the bar. She should be going with him to church until she gets the conviction. Some ladies wish they had a man who is dedicated to God's church. At the same time, he needs to make time for his partner. That's very important. BTW, they are not married so 🤷♀️
So basically, he's trying to change a 304 girl into a housewife/church wife.
That never works.
When it is her time to change she will. Why when other people change they expect you to do it at the same time as them?
She is drinking because she is lonely. He needs to make more time for her. I love God to. You can love God and honor your spouse at the same time.
She needs to get with the program.
Working in Gods vineyard is not a bad thing…it’s not an addiction even if he is spiritually immature he can grow his faith serving in the church. She should either explore her spiritual growth or the should part ways.
LET HER GO!!!!
I’m not sure if being deeply involved in the church should be pinned as excessive and a replaceable habit because it’s THE habit to hold on too. Go assemble and lift praise and worship and your graciousness and love together and teach. We’re suppose to be obsessed with our jobs, boyfriends, girlfriends, friends, children, etc we for sure need to excessively go to church if we feel the need 🤷🏾♀️ I like these two people they are well spoken and in different places In life so they must figure out if they want to tough it out so like the young lady says “level out in growth” or move on amicably. But God bless them both 😊
Liquor tends to lead to bad decisions… i hope she wasnt cheating
They all want a man that loves G-d until he actually loves G-d. SMH... 🙄
Listen, brother in Christ, hold on to God, never let anyone come between you and God he's the only one you need she can leave you hurt you betray you but God will always be there for you don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers let her go just pray for her so God can save her too I'm sure God has someone special for you remember God is calling you ♥️ stay strong in your faith
Leave that man alone and let him do church! Cause once you interfere with that and he turns to them STREETS .... GoNE wish he @ the church!
Shes cheating on you
Wait she asked her what does she like to do other than drink and she said dance😂😂😂😂😂 what an adult answer😂😂
She should've said strip dancing.
Give her a break. She's young
He's way too intelligent for her. I dont even see what he saw in her smh
I think they are no
Longer suitable for each other. If she lacked friends they are a lot of friends to be had if she joins him at church
This dude found the true way to quit all his bad behaves and habits and become straight even if he give the church much more time but he did the correct and most right to do, while she doesn't want to change and quit her bad behaves like drinking and dancing with strangers in hotels and maybe just maybe sleeping with them (CHEATING) in any way... so the best solution is to move on and find the happiness with what you're both looking for, i'm really couldn't see this relationship is gonna work because everyone of them walk in different direction and this lady is not a wife material at all because she won't quit what she did or doing... so RUN dude as fast as you can and find who you deserve to share the life with, she's not the one for you at all (FACT 💯)
If you desire to be used of God, be prepared for negative words to come against you. Humble yourself and take the hit. These negative words are refining tools that God uses to perfect his instrument. If you allow God to handle the negativity, you also allow Him to handle your elevation.💐💙
-Rev. Victor M. Jackson
Come on young man, you know!
He's outgrown her. You can't have a stable relationship unless you both agree with the lifestyles you're living.
Judge - "What else do you like to do besides drink?"
Defendant - "dance!"
😂😂
Let her go homie
One thing that new christians make is they contribute all their time in church. You get married God is first family a second in church's third. I need to be some balance. If she decides not to get Into church. Then you gonna be on equally yolked. And if she does the guy has to have balance. If he's really into charge like he say Is and putting guidelines on her why are they living together..
Girl I wish my man wanted to be in the church lol but I think their both good people just unequally yoked
Why from the opening statement of the girlfriend was I thinking she means no problem with alcohol and it is behind her until happy hour?.....
Mejor que cada uno viva la vida que quiere y por separado. Ella enborrachándose y él sirviendo a Dios y a la Iglesia. Mientra elle no reconozca que tiene problemas de alcoholismo esa relación NO VA FUNCIONAR.
If she was you wife. She would change and move with you. Go to church with him. He needs to know how to balance church, life, and his relationship.
He's swapped partying for church... Hanging and hooking onto his new support
They don’t need to be together. She’s not happy with him
Maybe in speaking too early becuaee it just started but if hes so christian theb why is he living with another woman before marriage?
They are unequally yoked! He needs to find someone who loves God like he does. This will never work until her heart changes toward GOD. God wants better for this man and I pray he realizes that before she pulls him back down into the darkness where she is...
He's not too in to church i bet he's still sleeping with her 😇 Why she's not in church with him one of the weman in the church that has been sitting in church waiting for a husband will be gone with her man just saying 🙄
Him being active in the church makes him addicted and obsessed ?
… okay
keep it up on your show im inpress
If they aren’t bringing you closer to Christ, they are taking you further away from him…
The yoke ain't yoking. ✌🏾
It ain't equalling either
I truly believe some of you just want people to be “happy” to their detriment. And most likely y’all fit the description. Truly misery disguised as happiness loves company.
I love Keonna's outfit! She's very pretty.
Yes she is and down-to-earth too. I went to school with her.
I don’t trust his smile. It is off putting.
😂😂😂
So now that he has found Jesus, now he wants to throw the rock and hide his hand. Now he so perfect, he forgot he use to do the same thing if not more. Now don't get me wrong, i love that he has decided to change, but don't expect people to change when you change. Everything takes time and a process.
Can hormonal (menopause) changes or PMS trigger a sensitive woman's binge drinking?
he may have swapped but he swapped it for something better for him and others. he needs to leave her alone and find someone who would go to church and serve with him. and she needs to go and find someone who want to drink and party like her. they just aint equally yolked anymore let it go
I heard a message this morning about discerning. When you step out of a situation and realise you want something different either because of life event you realize alot of things. Sometimes the people with you are not for you. When God changes your life you realize the path your on the person walking with you might not be the one for the journey. No matter how beautiful we think they are. Don't try to change someone to adjust to your situation, it will only make them uncomfortable. Entering relationships seeing tell-tale signs will only cause regrets and possibly divorce in the future.
Ion even believe bro lol im just ready for her to say...why you talking like that😂😂😂😂
UNEQUALLY YOKED!!! SMH
He outgrew her. Usually women outgrows men
They arent for each other, bottom line.
They are in an unequally relationship yoke period
Judge Star looks good as usual. I love her sense of style classy