The story of Phumeza Pepeta and Xolani Mkayi😭

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  • @Tumi_nn
    @Tumi_nn 8 місяців тому +172

    Im at a point where I’ve watched LITERALLY all the videos on this channel😩😩🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @Thembi_TM
    @Thembi_TM 8 місяців тому +61

    25 years damn. our legal system needs to be revisited, on top of that they don't even serve 60% of the sentence. may her soul continue to Rest in Peace

    • @NoluthandoWenzi
      @NoluthandoWenzi 8 місяців тому

      You don't say that's why the ppl that plotted or covered up Senzo Meyiwas death thought they could get away with it. They didn't count on his family fighting so hard and ensuring it doesn't just go away.

    • @zintlewinniembiko204
      @zintlewinniembiko204 8 місяців тому

      Mhmmm

  • @thndythemedtech2143
    @thndythemedtech2143 8 місяців тому +40

    This is so heart breaking
    I knew Sis Phumeza from downtown Christian church in East London while I was living there between 2017 and 2018
    I was not that close to her in particular but every time she would see anyone whether she knew you or not she would greet you with a smile, giving you all the attention like you were the only person in the room
    The first close encounter I had with her was when she was facilitating our young adult camp at church.
    She was so sweet
    Well spoken
    Calm
    Intelligent
    Smart
    Humble
    I can go on and on
    After spending 3 days with her at the camp I was rejuvenated, I felt like I could conquer the world
    And to say the least she didn’t mention much about the “husband “ which made me think she was either divorced or she was never married. So I was very shocked when they said she was killed by her husband
    It’s so crazy that she was going through so much but she still exuded positive
    May her lovely soul rest in peace

  • @Justbarbara.B
    @Justbarbara.B 8 місяців тому +52

    25 years? The south African legal system is horrendous.

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz 8 місяців тому +24

    And this ladies and gentlemen is why you don’t settle for anyone. Imagine having a partner who’s jealous of you because you’re growing. WTH

    • @zukozuko9690
      @zukozuko9690 8 місяців тому +2

      Eish even ladies partners are scary these days

    • @moe_ramz
      @moe_ramz 8 місяців тому

      @@zukozuko9690 Hence I said partner and not gender specific. Jealousy brings out insecurities. Which makes that person your enemy. The most dangerous type of person.

  • @tamaramlindi
    @tamaramlindi 8 місяців тому +68

    This should serve as a cautionary tale to women. Being in a relationship with someone who is beneath you (in this case, someone of significantly lower social & financial standing) NEVER benefits women. These men become resentful, insufferable and abusive.

    • @lebohangntlamelle7218
      @lebohangntlamelle7218 8 місяців тому +6

      Only men should do this neh?

    • @tamaramlindi
      @tamaramlindi 8 місяців тому +27

      @@lebohangntlamelle7218 "A hit dog will holler". The answer to your question will be found in my original comment. If I wanted to talk about men and their options, I would've done that. Right now, I still say, "this should serve as a cautionary tale to WOMEN". I stand behind that statement.

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 8 місяців тому

      we share same sentiments...no women should date/ marry a man beneath her.....its nothing but a time ticking bomb... .....

    • @ftee417
      @ftee417 8 місяців тому +7

      @@lebohangntlamelle7218 You chose to misunderstand her comment. A lot of the time men will become resentful of you because it starts to seem emasculating to them.

    • @patriciangobs993
      @patriciangobs993 8 місяців тому

      Jaaa neeh

  • @phumsa3612
    @phumsa3612 8 місяців тому +27

    My sister was so broken by her passing, they were friends since high-school.. it's so sad she passed away like this..

  • @sanelemwelase
    @sanelemwelase 8 місяців тому +29

    Sometimes falling in love is loke digging your own grave.

    • @MsP-0407
      @MsP-0407 8 місяців тому +5

      Especially when we dste men below our status/level, you know there will be issues of insecurities. I learned the hard way with my ex-husband. Luckily, I got out the minute he slapped me, after accusing me of cheating. Meanwhile, he had a string of young girls, speaking disrespectfully about me in his whatsapp

    • @siviwekulu6996
      @siviwekulu6996 8 місяців тому

      Eish!

    • @zikhonadunjana1842
      @zikhonadunjana1842 8 місяців тому +2

      so sad...we live in a crazy world.

    • @RikiDan-ub3sc
      @RikiDan-ub3sc 5 місяців тому +1

      @@MsP-0407 True. Independent when it comes to a high earning woman and low earning man relationship, they don't end well in most cases

    • @ndivhuwo741
      @ndivhuwo741 4 місяці тому

      How did you get out I’m in the same situation.

  • @zanelecutshe9157
    @zanelecutshe9157 8 місяців тому +33

    This happened in my home town. We were so shocked at this incident, the audacity he had to go through disguising as a woman and taking her life the day she buried her own father. Thank God the other men acted swiftly to catch him. This family was robbed by the justice as we know these years aren't enough for the pain they endured. May her soul rest in eternal peace😢

  • @lifewithceecee9035
    @lifewithceecee9035 8 місяців тому +21

    What!!! He wore a dress and a wig. Damn he was unhinged!! Thats somethings i wouldn't have expected

  • @thokozilenhlapo6503
    @thokozilenhlapo6503 8 місяців тому +41

    We’ve been been waiting 🥺 I’m so glad you posted ✨📍😊
    I know research takes time but we missed these

  • @Noone-jd7wv
    @Noone-jd7wv 8 місяців тому +30

    Its sad that a woman is killed like this at her father's because of a sick, obsessive and heinous individual and government gives this individual (not a man in my eyes) years to live out his life. I pray for her children her family to find strength knowing that she's with her dad. So many women are killed unnecessarily and it's not right man. Justice system is compromised in this country. God bless the family.
    Happy holidays sisi enjoy the festive season.

  • @mskhumalo5118
    @mskhumalo5118 8 місяців тому +9

    Sho Xolani , what on earth 😮😮!!! This is sad even worse to do this at a funeral, he is evil.

  • @harley_zu
    @harley_zu 8 місяців тому +24

    I say this with outmost respect to the deceased and her family & friends. However, this is a tale as old as time. Ladies do not ever date down. Such men are extremely insecure and dangerous, they will try and 'humble' you in ways unimaginable!!!!

    • @nondwenyembezi7017
      @nondwenyembezi7017 8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 8 місяців тому +1

      louder please..... LOUDER

    • @LindaMtiya-hb3nv
      @LindaMtiya-hb3nv 8 місяців тому

      An abuser will always be an abuser, a narcissist will always be regardless of what he holds, I have seen so many incidents done by men with high profile. Abukho ubuchule shame. I am a living testimony of this believe me.

    • @shibechuene8464
      @shibechuene8464 8 місяців тому +2

      This has me thinking...I met a guy at my new work, we are at the getting to know each other stage but I’ve already picked up obsession tendencies. He is also showing signs of insecurities. I like the guy but this has me worried.

    • @user-ex6zj1gs4i
      @user-ex6zj1gs4i 8 місяців тому

      Totally agree, with the dating down issue. It always doesn't end so well. And the sad part is that they approach strong , intellectuals e.t.c knowing very well they can't handle them

  • @rudolphmalape7702
    @rudolphmalape7702 8 місяців тому +13

    I love True Crime
    And you are def the best True crime South African UA-camr

  • @slungubane9024
    @slungubane9024 8 місяців тому +8

    Sometimes as a woman i just wish this monster ther were written in their foreheads what they are cause trust me they really know how to be the sweetest and the most honorable man u ever meet..until the true monster they ar comes out to play..mxmm I hate monsters

  • @SambuloBiyela
    @SambuloBiyela 8 місяців тому +14

    It’s been a minute 😭😭 If it was for me ngabe you drop every day or after 2 days nyana coz your Chanel is out of this WORLD🔥🔥 keep up the great work goat 🐐

  • @phakamambeje7620
    @phakamambeje7620 8 місяців тому +21

    Very well narrated. You balanced this story so that we understand all sides. What a sad story. Kunzima emhlabeni. Let's love our woman Gentleman.

  • @ZaiZee-jn6iy
    @ZaiZee-jn6iy 8 місяців тому +18

    He was so disrespectful for that 😭this was surely a sad day

  • @financequeenmagwaza2880
    @financequeenmagwaza2880 8 місяців тому +15

    There is no justice in this sentence. The murder was premeditated and he endangered so many ppls lives . Will be out in 12 and a half years or less.😢

  • @NkhungustevenPhiri-sr6bg
    @NkhungustevenPhiri-sr6bg 8 місяців тому +21

    25 years only that’s so sad condolences to the victims family

  • @user-vq3fv8rz5c
    @user-vq3fv8rz5c 8 місяців тому +13

    25 years 😢😢 NO!! with parole he might go out early not only did he kill the ex wife he endangered everyone else who was there our legal system has failed us 😢😢😢

    • @slungubane9024
      @slungubane9024 8 місяців тому +1

      I'm no longer surprise with this so called justice system of this world he will be out soon and do it to another unsuspecting lady 😢😢

  • @tlotley
    @tlotley 8 місяців тому +13

    Girl! I missed you!
    Thank you!♥️

  • @yibaaugust577
    @yibaaugust577 8 місяців тому +4

    Mr Pepeta was my teacher at Mthonjeni primary schl what a nice guy Mtsrip

  • @asiveangel4940
    @asiveangel4940 8 місяців тому +12

    I remember this story. It's so sad. Rest in Peace, Phumeza sisi.

  • @TheAedee
    @TheAedee 8 місяців тому +4

    I will never understand men that date/marry women who are more accomplished with the intent of dragging them down. I pray for myself and any other lady on this thread that we will never get involved with such mad men regardless of how much they try to hide their horrible behaviour.

  • @constancedube9525
    @constancedube9525 8 місяців тому +5

    Thank my girl you did a good job stay blessed my dear

  • @johannakanime7336
    @johannakanime7336 8 місяців тому +9

    Truly love your channel it's one of the best channels on UA-cam so far. Watching from Namibia 🇳🇦

  • @pamelatire8386
    @pamelatire8386 8 місяців тому +6

    When I see an upload from you I 💃💃💃💃. I know story you post are to 💃💃💃, and thank you for the respect you bring this stories through to us 🙏

  • @bontlea5585
    @bontlea5585 8 місяців тому +8

    I've been waiting nkosi yam 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️ I missed you

  • @sativababygirl
    @sativababygirl 8 місяців тому +23

    i’m convinced men hate us even the ones we trust 😭

    • @Namy689
      @Namy689 8 місяців тому +4

      why would you trust a man in the first place? i mean " Trust No One" is there for that reason.....listen..that line was created just for that🤣🤣🤣🤣😭

    • @lulufierce01
      @lulufierce01 6 місяців тому

      They actually do hey

    • @alicekhanyile3249
      @alicekhanyile3249 4 місяці тому

      Women don't kill men?

  • @thandiwesolwandle5112
    @thandiwesolwandle5112 8 місяців тому +14

    This guy was evil...

  • @glenngwenya1084
    @glenngwenya1084 8 місяців тому +39

    25 years for pre meditated murder I feel for this family 😢😢😢😢

    • @siviwekulu6996
      @siviwekulu6996 8 місяців тому +2

      He'll be out after 10 years if uziphethe kakuhle.

    • @user-tz6yl6vf8i
      @user-tz6yl6vf8i 8 місяців тому

      ​@@siviwekulu6996Imagine yhoo sana 💔💔💔😭😭

  • @modikiramaisa4619
    @modikiramaisa4619 8 місяців тому +4

    The justice system failed her 😢😢😢😢

  • @ftee417
    @ftee417 8 місяців тому +4

    Thank you so much for being a voice piece for the victims and their families. You are telling their stories in a dignified manner. I would really love to see and hear stories of people that have survived these attacks as well. That would be interesting as well. People who were attacked but survived and managed to put the perpetrators behind bars

  • @thusigladys6697
    @thusigladys6697 8 місяців тому +3

    This is a sad story i cant believe this 25 years in jail he deserve life in prison.Rest in peace beautiful woman

  • @thandaniyawathe5353
    @thandaniyawathe5353 8 місяців тому +5

    SA law is the worst 😢… why not life in prison???

  • @maggien222
    @maggien222 8 місяців тому +4

    I learnt to listen to what a man says during the time we are dating before committing or going any further,discernment is key.

    • @Pinki0134
      @Pinki0134 8 місяців тому

      True that. They always give a clue.

    • @palesaneo3817
      @palesaneo3817 8 місяців тому

      Yes. We tend to ignore red flags

  • @penelopemamba5665
    @penelopemamba5665 8 місяців тому +5

    Missed you so much. Thank you for this video❤

  • @khulanelehrsa6621
    @khulanelehrsa6621 8 місяців тому +6

    Thank you, I look forward to your posts.

  • @infinityabundance
    @infinityabundance 8 місяців тому +6

    We missed you ❤

  • @user-ww1lm9cz8s
    @user-ww1lm9cz8s 8 місяців тому +1

    She was my neighbor she was so humble

  • @suzanmobeng5874
    @suzanmobeng5874 8 місяців тому +2

    This is upsetting!! Upsetting to the absolute CORE!!! FORK....

  • @busisiweletty9467
    @busisiweletty9467 8 місяців тому +1

    I so miss this 😢..thank you dear

  • @TheOneWhoGotAway569
    @TheOneWhoGotAway569 8 місяців тому +5

    So heartless! Ladies if you want to marry, hypergamy is the only way. RIP Phumeza

    • @phutiphooko7555
      @phutiphooko7555 8 місяців тому +5

      As I Google hypergamy

    • @mfati9077
      @mfati9077 8 місяців тому +3

      100 percent sis wam, especially since she was so accomplished and independent ❤

    • @zikhonadunjana1842
      @zikhonadunjana1842 8 місяців тому

      ​@@phutiphooko7555 gimme back the definition please...😊

  • @riannedaemul
    @riannedaemul 8 місяців тому +2

    Finally where were you 😢got so worried 😅thank God you back l haven’t even watched the video 😂

  • @josephinahmogale8412
    @josephinahmogale8412 8 місяців тому +3

    He deserves 100 years in jail😢

  • @sukoluhlebhebhe
    @sukoluhlebhebhe 8 місяців тому +2

    Yoh l will never marry or date a guy who earns lesser than me

  • @leratoseretsi5603
    @leratoseretsi5603 8 місяців тому +3

    Do a story about my friend Mamello Thamae

  • @alicenxumalo
    @alicenxumalo 8 місяців тому +2

    Yoooooo he planned this 😮😮😮may Phumeza soul rest in peace 🪦

  • @PamRadebe94
    @PamRadebe94 6 місяців тому +1

    Please come back, it’s been forever now🥺🥺

  • @faithmadela9661
    @faithmadela9661 8 місяців тому +2

    Omg I've missed your viedoes❤, thank u for this

  • @slungubane9024
    @slungubane9024 8 місяців тому +7

    I will never understand the minds of this kind of monsters..she was burieng her father for god sake don't u feel anything for another human being who is in so much pain and the one u once claim to love wow

  • @kingmillzstefane2504
    @kingmillzstefane2504 8 місяців тому +2

    Those man who caught him are way better than me. I wasn't gonna stop. Never!

  • @itsgoodgalriri_1991
    @itsgoodgalriri_1991 17 днів тому

    This is heartbreaking and shocking. Grief on top of grief. I pray the family finds solace somehow ❤🙏🏽

  • @nickymamba3717
    @nickymamba3717 8 місяців тому +1

    ❤😊much love from Swaziland 🇸🇿

  • @siviwekulu6996
    @siviwekulu6996 8 місяців тому +3

    Yhoo! This channel depresses me 😭😭😭

  • @user-wc5rk8ky7e
    @user-wc5rk8ky7e 8 місяців тому +1

    You working so hard Cc thank for shere your story ❤

  • @mrs.nokukhanya.msimanga
    @mrs.nokukhanya.msimanga 8 місяців тому +3

    Worse Phumeza and l were both born on the same date although different years - 2 July and l also majored in Human Resource Management 😭😭😭😭

  • @Nella.g.
    @Nella.g. 8 місяців тому +10

    welcome back! we missed you ❣

  • @relebohiletsekoa9422
    @relebohiletsekoa9422 8 місяців тому +7

    SA justice play games

  • @lindiwekubu8846
    @lindiwekubu8846 8 місяців тому +1

    I press LIKE before even watching 🙂!

  • @bungar79
    @bungar79 8 місяців тому +1

    Its so scary being a Woman living in Sth Africa. Why are the Men there so insecure and unafraid to kill?Why not just move on?So so many cases like this OMG. SICKENNING!!

    • @BanziiMavuso
      @BanziiMavuso 5 місяців тому

      The men here are coddled from birth. No accountability from them whatsoever. On top of that, South Africa is conservative and a religious stupid state.

  • @JacquelineBanda-qs6sl
    @JacquelineBanda-qs6sl 8 місяців тому +4

    I missed you❤❤❤

  • @user-wn9io8oq4x
    @user-wn9io8oq4x 8 місяців тому +1

    Babe can you try and upload every week hle we miss you all the time.. You're the best story teller.

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  8 місяців тому +1

      Will upload more now during the holidays, however it becomes difficult when I’m more busy because researching the videos takes long unfortunately, so when things are hectic it becomes impossible to find time for researching …making the actual video doesn’t take long. Will try my best though I hear you. ❤️

  • @qaqambafuzile5967
    @qaqambafuzile5967 8 місяців тому +2

    Yhoooo what a sad n shocking story

  • @lindiswaglenda572
    @lindiswaglenda572 8 місяців тому

    I'm so glad you post I've been watching all videos and I was so bored siyabonga ubuyile we love your stroys

  • @xolisankonki8006
    @xolisankonki8006 5 місяців тому

    There is nothing worse than marrying a broken and damaged partner, you literally pay the price. I so wish partners attend therapy and go through healing. Men especially never talk about their traumas.....so heartbroken by these stories. Rest easy girl 💔💕🇿🇦

  • @MzontsunduThetyana-js8kv
    @MzontsunduThetyana-js8kv 8 місяців тому +1

    Missed this voice ❤

  • @BonganiLauncelot
    @BonganiLauncelot 8 місяців тому

    Thanks again and keep up the good work, oh and please look into a story of three people who took an innocent girl's life, somewhere between Hennenman and Winburg Free State...

  • @Clementpodcast
    @Clementpodcast Місяць тому

    Great research and storytelling

  • @nondumisonkande2108
    @nondumisonkande2108 8 днів тому

    I’m shook. Husbands are meant to be protectors. But he turned out to be her murderer. What a trash society we live in

  • @KuliTwala
    @KuliTwala 8 днів тому

    35 years osa a little time it should have been a life sentence

  • @maxine6933
    @maxine6933 5 місяців тому +1

    Do not be in a relationship with a man lower or beneath you

  • @ziyandamagagula4261
    @ziyandamagagula4261 8 місяців тому +3

    Same tragic story happened last weekend around my hood....it's a fascinating story I wish you could cover it too 😢

  • @sinazomakileni3938
    @sinazomakileni3938 8 місяців тому +4

    Hayini bethuna,wow 😮im angry

  • @mahlohonololebuso741
    @mahlohonololebuso741 8 місяців тому +1

    Maybe us women, we should marry men who are on the same level as us financially and socially. Because if you marry a man who is below your financial bracket, they get jealous and intimidated. If you marry a man who is higher than your financial bracket, they mistreat you, cheat and belittle you. Maybe we should find men who are in the same level. But i doubt that would make a difference.

  • @amoh2475
    @amoh2475 8 місяців тому +2

    Yaay we are back

  • @siyavuyagqumehlo3119
    @siyavuyagqumehlo3119 8 місяців тому +1

    You doing a good job

  • @lungilenguqu8119
    @lungilenguqu8119 8 місяців тому +3

    Love you cc❤

  • @nondumisondaba9904
    @nondumisondaba9904 8 місяців тому

    Oh my God thank you for this episode been waiting for an upload

  • @ntandoyenkosimabanga
    @ntandoyenkosimabanga 8 місяців тому +2

    Thanx babe❤

  • @gugusanderson1735
    @gugusanderson1735 8 місяців тому

    Without even knowing, i just realised i have watched all your videos 😃. I always check to see if u posted some, keep up the good work 🙏😊

  • @dropz17
    @dropz17 8 місяців тому +2

    25 years ? Mybe you got those facts wrong

  • @anthonyayanbowale2471
    @anthonyayanbowale2471 8 місяців тому +2

    25 years 😢😢😢 nah

  • @samkeamodu9476
    @samkeamodu9476 8 місяців тому +2

    Ai oXolani abanaXolo ngeze🥲🥲🥲

  • @lindokuhleportiazondo642
    @lindokuhleportiazondo642 8 місяців тому

    On point as always... Please cover Tinyiko Ngobeni's story

    • @theplug_truecrime
      @theplug_truecrime  8 місяців тому +1

      Thank you! Will look into this story, appreciate the suggestion.

  • @noziqhamovokwana8826
    @noziqhamovokwana8826 7 місяців тому

    Please cover the story of Nadine Terblance and Freddie Stapelberg

  • @timbawangu3038
    @timbawangu3038 8 місяців тому

    What a heartless being. He has do much hate in his heart. The child does not need to be around this man. Hes evil

  • @kelvinmikitayo6358
    @kelvinmikitayo6358 8 місяців тому

    Please upload a lot. We have subscribed and you have to make sure our demand is quenched

  • @sherrieginger9693
    @sherrieginger9693 8 місяців тому +1

    The level of evil 😢

  • @user-bz7vt6gm6o
    @user-bz7vt6gm6o 8 місяців тому +3

    I know her 🥲

  • @mbalenhlelekhuleni386
    @mbalenhlelekhuleni386 5 місяців тому

    😭 please come back 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ronmedia5152
    @ronmedia5152 8 місяців тому

    You are doing a good job my sister

  • @tlotley
    @tlotley 8 місяців тому +4

    It's Xolani's effort for me 🚮

  • @celiagonzalez3847
    @celiagonzalez3847 8 місяців тому +2

    This clown was obsessed with her. He really had nothing to offer her, so he decided to make her life hell. To dress in a wig and dress, trying to walk with high heels would make people laugh despite the very sad event. Very unhinged to say the least. R.I.P ✝️ 🙏.

  • @bongiwencayiyana220
    @bongiwencayiyana220 8 місяців тому

    Gosh 😮😮😮😢😢😢😢what a painful drama ifeel sorry for this family.

  • @Khumi_Asante
    @Khumi_Asante 8 місяців тому +5

    Stay Safe nana 🎉❤

  • @matomemolopa6094
    @matomemolopa6094 3 місяці тому

    He was obsessed with her, stalking someone for 4 years is too much of an undertaking

  • @danbaloyi310
    @danbaloyi310 6 місяців тому

    What a crazy guy, 25 years is so unfair he deserves life in prison