Calli teaches how to get Girls【Mori Calliope / HololiveEN】
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- ◆【Q&A MARSHMELLOWS】Let's "Mellow" Out with Some Questions and Answers!!
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Calli: Don't be too pushy, be normal.
Kiara: ;-;
LOL
*𝘀𝗮𝗱 𝗰𝗵𝗶𝗰𝗸𝗲𝗻 𝗻𝗼𝗶𝘀𝗲𝘀* 😭
I think that might just be kiaras normal tbh. High energy, cheerful, and welcoming
How can she not be weird lol
But that is Kiaras normal side
Kiara furiously taking notes... and ignoring all of them.
"Duly noted...and IGNORED" - Megatron
I imagined sponge bob burning a paper meme
this sign can't stop me because I can't read
"What not to do" list
@@xxnahuelitoxx Dammit, I was just about to write that comment.
Kiara be like:
*WRITE* *THAT* *DOWN!* *WRITE* *THAT* *DOWN!*
she really does need to
@@lavion8090 i mean she does it for the memes.
They’re clearly close in real life.
@@paulthenotsogreat8032 yeah, i know that. I didn't mean to seem so serious when I said that lmao
@@lavion8090 right hahahah I have a feeling my comment came across as too serious Lol sorry
Calli: "Even I’m still trying to figure that out"
Kiara: "BECAUSE OF ME CALLI??!! ❤️❤️❤️"
"I got a crush on somebody, can you give a tip on what girls really like?"
Calli: Even I'm still trying to find out...
And we know why
Kiara
Well she is dad. And Dad do be like that
I know what the majority of them girls want. The thing is - you don't want to have a crush on majority, and the rest of them are an enigma wrapped in the mistery of darkest depths of the oceanic floor.
@@knighttemplaroftentacult7123 Is it the rule of 6s of (online) dating? The one where girls only care if you : are 6 foot tall, have a six-pack and make a 6 figure salary.
“Don’t be too pushy”
Maybe that’s why Kiara has been less pushy on Calli! Can’t say it’s not working either...
Calli's attitude towards Kiara is changing and getting more "permissive" I guess...
I read that as "Don't be pussy"
@@starryphantasm Works as well
@@starryphantasm "Don't be pushy. Don't be pussy." - solid advice!
@@DiegoGarcia-yl3im reaper dommy mommy.
"What do girls like?"
You, they clearly like you Calli
As a girl I can indeed confirm this statement
*About 13 Hololive members are typing...*
She is a true harem protag
As a girl, yes
Just like a certain Shuba said..
_"I aprob"_ 👍
Overcome the fear of rejection.
how
@@subparcrow Understand that you can't control the outcomes of your actions, just your actions.
When you're avoiding to ask people out, you're still acting under that premise that you can control the outcomes of your life: to you, rejection is so terrible that you'd rather not have that scenario happen at all, and so you avoid asking people out in the first place.
You'd rather live in something you know is terrible and can predict will always be rather than "gamble" on uncertain things which might turn out to be good or bad.
But you aren't really "gambling" anything. You aren't losing anything by doing it and everything will continue going forward. It's just that if you decide to distance yourself from relationships things are going to move forward without you.
EDIT: I noticed this comment was liked by a bunch of people. If you are reading this, I recommend watching Dr. K (healthygamergg on youtube), as he's a cool guy who delves into mental issues with the gaming community. I personally got into his stuff when I first saw his "waifu" video.
@@juicejooos bro...
Be subtle. " test the waters " . Girls don't have to be mean when saying no. But it's hard. It's why so many songs are wrote about relationships, un-requited love, etc..
Personally I didnt understand social hints and subtle expressions, so I just didnt care about having a girlfriend. Couldnt make heads or tales of them lol.
Rejection comes with having it over and over. It's a sad fact. Subtly hinting at like " maybe give a compliment and see the reaction. Ask what they think of boyfriends. Do they have one ? Then listen reaaal close lol !
Having a female friend can be just as nice as a girlfriend. Just don't be too clingy. It's hard when you haven't been around girls much. It's also hard because they are all different. Someone want to just be seen as a normal person. Not a sex object. Some like teasing for fun, but don't want a guy friend that goes too far, etc..
Yehhhhhh
"What do girls really like"
Like every Dad asked
I mean... to be a dad, you had to know a little bit... you know... to become a dad...
Dad likes ground pounding mom
I'm the 667th like :v
@@dawsoncui5676 your evil... or wait maybe the opposite since before you liked it, it was 666 ya know the devils number..
@@deecee1853
wait a second, Ame is a dad!?
Ngl Calli's tips are pretty helpful. Just keep it chill to not make things awkward or smth.
sasuga grim reaper
Callie: “I don’t know anything about romance.” Also Callie: gives really good advice
As expected from our dad
It's still gonna be awkward. Keeping it chill just helps people deal with rejection.
"I know nothing about relationships"
The Lie detector detected that was a lie
She lied naturally as she breathes
Gotta put up the anti incel shield
beep beep beep
@@fedyx1544 wait anti Incel shield I don't get it. Do you mean she is putting that up or the commenter?
@@michawkwalter4205 she’s an “idol” so she has to appear seiso to maintain image. That means denying she has experience with relationships.
I personally find this piece of advice very helpful: "Maybe means no". When a girl (or anyone for that matter) is really into you and you ask her to hang out or do anything else with you she'll say "yes". If she gives you any variation of "maybe" or "some time" it means in the best case scenario she sees you as a safe fallback option if nothing better comes along, and at worst it means she really wants to say no but wants to avoid conflict or hurt feelings. Either way, look for the people who say "yes", because those are the people who actually want to be with you.
Exactly. Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't enthusiastically want to be with you too?
@@aerophage Maybe "enthusiastically wants to be with you" isn't the best way to put that.
If you ask for a date and they say "sure," is that qualified as a yes or a maybe? 🤔
@@itsjustjk5065 sure means yes
Well said
Calli is oddly wise… she’s been around for thousands of years so it makes sense.
Or maybe she’s wise about this stuff because she’s in one...
@@jotkhanhun2884 checkmate
@@jotkhanhun2884 I know this might be a joke but in case it isn’t... Their contracts prohibit them from dating men or women or anyone in between. If they wanna get married and all that Jazz, they’d have to retire
@@あきら-v7h what? No. Thats normal idol groups not hololive. They dont care as long as you dont mention it, after all theyre not real people just avatars, the person behind that avatar can date or marry or do whatever as long as the v-tuber "personality" is single
There is a wealth of otherworldly knowledge that can only be found in an Applebee's at 2 AM.
I like how this guy asked about "how to get a girl" and all she did was give him advise on how to deal with rejection.
it's because guys who ask how to get girls aren't attractive so they probably can't get a girlfriend heh heh heh ;-;
@@sixfive9638 A bit late but as I've recently found out, no matter how bad you think you look, there's always someone out there who will be with you and compliment you. I did find a person like that once but due to some of her personal discoveries, we split up, still good friends though. There's somebody out there for everyone, you just have to be patient... unbearably patient sometimes.
I acquired such a mastery of handling rejections I fear the moment I finally score I'll be like Wile Coyote when he caught a (giant) roadrunner; "alright wise guys what I do now?"
(But for real mastering rejection is horrible, forcing yourself to emotionally detach yourself from loved ones, it's a slippery slope to simply detach yourself from anyone who showed any brief negative emotions towards you, "I see you don't tolerate me, and I won't allow you to hurt me", it's maddening)
Calli's right really, if you as she said, "push it". There's a higher chance that that person you like would rather distance him/herself from you. Just sayin but, don't be needy 💁♂️
Problem is when someone asks for tips it more than likely means they are socially awkward. And that usually comes with a lack of "sense" on this topic. But not coming across as needy can make someone appear very aloof or even standoff-ish. So sadly the most practicall advice you can give someone who asks for tips is to just do the good ol' scientific method: try an approach, see how it works, make notes and repeat until the desired outcome is achieved(admittedly they should not do that for the same person since y'know, and it isn't a fool-proof way of learning because of differences between people, but then again this applies to mostly everything about dealing with people when you are socially awkward). Funnily enough, this is unlikely to achieve what they asked advice for, getting oneself a gf/bf. What it will achieve is something far more valuable, and that is learning to interact with people when you're starting from 0. And, if you ask me, it's the best way one can learn that in the end you don't *need* someone to be in a relationship with, as being happy with yourself is far more important (and ironically is one of the things that can attract people to you).
We have a saying here in Russia (from Pushkin, if I am not mistaken): "The less we love the woman - the more she's attracted to us".
@@knighttemplaroftentacult7123 Damn. That Pushkin fella was smart. Weird considering how vodka and thinking doesnt get along. But it is Russia. As we poles say "Russia is more of a state of mind than a country really".
No offense. Purely comedic intentions.
@@mordredvonumbra154 Well... Even he was smart and wrote some good library of poems and such, he was still dumb enough to duel almost 30 times in his 30+ year life for various stupid reasons. Aaaaaand he died eventualy on one, but everyone knows that part. So, yeah. I guess being Russian is the state of mind, more than be a part of a country.
"Even I'm still trying to find out" said Calli as she browsed through luxurious hotel rooms for Kiara
Calli: What DO girls like???
(As she thinks about Kiara)
Good thing it's not the good old "Just be yourself" without any other context
A better way of saying "Just be yourself" is to be the best version of yourself cause it gets you thinking on how to improve as a person instead of being a stagnant version of yourself.
@@ali0841 I prefer to interpret it as: don't pretend to be someone you're not for the sake of getting a date. A relationship based on lies is bound to end poorly, and if the other person can't love you for who you are, then it was never gonna work in the first place.
@@GoldLight73 Wise words.
@@LadyHermes Let's just say I've seen how poorly those kinds of relationships can go. This one guy I knew tried to give up anime because the girl he was interested in thought it was dumb. Not only did he have to stop enjoying the shows and manga he liked, he also alienated some of his friends who liked to talk about anime with him. The relationship didn't last long.
"Just take a shower bro."
In the current state of my relation this is maybe a bit to far fetshed but this is my experience with the same problem: -I like a girl from my university and I let her know about this through simple hints at first but she doesn´t seem to get it, so after we became pretty close friends I asked her out to go on a date with me. And i never got an answer afterwards just silence and an "are you okay?" the next day. So at this point I was like: "well that was that" but as most of you know feelings doesn´t vanish, so we continued to be very good friends and my mindset was always to not make her life harder because of my feelings for her so i just continued being her friend and tried for myself to don´t be borthered with my feelings. At the End she invited me to a date. So the advise with don´t be pushy is really good and keep in mind that not everybody is ready for a relationship at the time were you are ready. Also love need its time saometimes.
If you're friendly for too long you become a friend and it's not easy to change that. I'd recommend being super upfront and honest about what you feel once you're sure. If that doesn't work out just move on.
"Don't be pushy" doesn't mean "Don't be patient or persistant." I think people confuse those too often. The idea is to be honest about your feelings after getting reasonably comfortable with someone, but not to keep negging at them after they show genuine disinterest or discomfort in the idea of a relationship. You can still be there for them, you can still be supportive of each other, you can still be on good terms with each other, even if you're not in a relationship. Does this help?
Fuck in my situation I like this girl and we have good friend relationship but i just to coward to confess to her
Dude. You confuse 2 very different things. After she rejected you, you chose to let go of your interest in her. Thats what really happened tbh. Dont confuse these.
@@mordredvonumbra154 i never lost intrest in her, the first romatic vibe or pink glass es whatever you wanna call it wasn´t there anymore, but my intrest never left
Mori: "Don't be too pushy."
*Takamori exists*
Kiara: "Yes, but actually no."
We got wisdom now
There's this crying black guy meme: "Just learned that to get a gf I have to talk to girls."
Wow wouldn't have known if you hadn't told me
And this is exactly why Calli is my favorite Holo-girl.
Not only her music is amazing, but she's like that one friend that you can go to when you need to ask any questions and that will always give you the sincerest respond they can.
"Just don't push it man" -Calli
"Love is like a fart if you have to force it, it's probably shit" -Sans (from a comic)
Neat
"Come on man, the worst she can say is no!"
Her: " _ew_ "
Her: *laugh*
@@user-vr1zc6tz9n kusogaki
But what if the girl are.....2D
Now we’re asking real questions!
Wait until the 3D debut
And what if they happen to be the Grim Reaper’s apprentice?
PS- I’m just asking.
what do you think? :U
Body pillows are the closest your gonna get 😭😭
"I got a crush on somebody, can you give a tip on what girls really like?"
Cali: "I feel like.. at the end of the day.. if it's a lost cause, it's a lost cause"
*ROASTED*
actually, it can be in the relationship part. If a piece cannot connect on a puzzle, it's not the right piece. Forcing the piece to connect:
1- will broke the piece
2- will disconnect/broke the rest of the pieces
3- both.
1- means you'll hurt the girl.
2- means you'll hurt yourself.
3- everyone will be hurted.
and this will be your, and only YOUR fault.
@@clipesdoitzrealnkz1553 I don't really get what you are trying to say, and I don't see how it involves me but it was just a joke. I found it funny how she immediately said it was a lost cause before she even heard the situation or any details about it.
@@DragonlordVindi i'm just saying that it was related to the possibility of the relationship, not the man or the girl itself xDDDD
but i got your joke, don't mind me.
@@clipesdoitzrealnkz1553 Oh I see! In that case you are definitely correct.
in the distance you can hear kiara writing down information furiously, while emmiting sad chicken noises
I'm 28 and I'm still trying to figure this out. Some say to be their friend first (it's been my experience that they're absolutely terrified of anything more than friendship) but then you get friendzoned and who knows how many years and boyfriends she'll go through if she ever even gets to you in the first place. Some say to just go for it and approach her, but some women hate being approached in public and some even consider it harassment. Some also say to use a dating app, but assuming you even find a good looking, non-crazy girl, she's probably got several other guys to choose from, so the chances are probably slim. You might even just wait for somebody to come to you, but come on, how often do women really do that?
I don't know anything, but maybe start with not pushing yourself so much and accept who you are. Not everyone has to enjoy being confident and flirtatious and that's OK.
@@PrypeciowyHovnozer "accept yourself" like the 100th time i was told that.
@@ununun9995 it does sound cheesy and formulaic; maybe it's best to read it as accepting your flaws, rolling with what you have no matter how little it is.
I was in a similar boat dude. The ideal is a middle ground. You want to meet a girl, start talking a little here and there. Either one good conversation or a few. Then ask her out. If she says no, just be chill.
It's like how you would want to be approached. Someone strikes a conversation up, you talk and have some things to relate over, then the question of going out is asked when you're about to leave so there's little awkwardness if the answer's no. Ideally you want to have a good conversation that's natural and chill. It's like wanting to give a brief idea and good first impression. The friends to lovers thing barely works in the real world. And only drop dead gorgeous dudes can pull off a pick up line and then jumling straight to asking them out. So just talk, crack a joke or two, get a flow of conversation. Then ask her out when you/her are heading out.
calli is like so experienced, her tips is actually makes sense and give me confident as well
being straight forward always got me rejected, building a good relationship and then confessing worked for me
Just asking for a friend, you know?
Calli: Denies being dad, proceeds to give fatherly advice
*visable confusion*
Edit: 1. When did this blow up
2. I’m so glad people are laughing at my stupid jokes
3. I hope you guys have a wonderful day!
Have a wonderful day too!
@@eliasbouhout1 Thanks!
there's one guy that openly tries to get close to date me and promptly ignores my "i don't want to date you" hints. everything didn't work from hints and obvious (polite) rejection.
he asked me "what would it take for you to trust me?"
and i gave him this link "you might want to watch this"
he says "you made your point" and stops contacting me ever since.
Thanks calli!
actually, your hints could NOT BE OBVIOUS at all. Somehow, we (men) are so stupid that we cannot see what is in front of our eyes, and it's better to tell the story than hold back and wait us to see a signal...
@@clipesdoitzrealnkz1553 as OP said, she already rejected him outright. this sounds like a man who just doesn't take no for an answer, in the worst way. i've had that too and it was genuinely so creepy and stalkerish. there's an entire culture around women being expected to do all the emotional work to try and tiptoe around not being 'too direct' when rejecting a guy, or we're called a bitch (and sometimes even threatened with violence depending on the situation), but also trying to give clear signals that we really just want a guy to leave us alone and stop repeatedly ignoring when we have outright SAID no because it's genuinely distressing when men persist in this behaviour. i'm autistic and totally empathise with the whole not-seeing-signals thing, but there's a difference between that and just full-on refusing to respect a woman's stated boundaries. women are tired of having to do all of the work to make up for men's refusal to treat us as human beings worthy of respect, and tired of having to walk on eggshells around immature men who might get violent or start a public pity party over being rejected. we just want to live our lives, maybe try and actually listen to what women say, if they say no, it means no, if you're not sure, maybe look into how to get better in reading social cues. shock horror, women are people too and when you actually listen to them and respect them fully they might want to be around you more. (not implying they don't already, just saying it's kinda rude to expect women to have to do even more work for you in these situations when they are already having to tiptoe around you. men who don't take social/emotional responsibility in their relationships are just bad partners. no means no and if you can't see that, that's on YOU and not her.)
Calli really has a way with words that you rarely encounter. Such a soft spoken person is really something else
"If they are a lost cause, then 'bye bye'".
Welp! Time to devote my life to video games and music!
Same. Except throw anime in there too
@@Entei9000 why are VTubers so popular? hint hint
Honestly this is one of the many reasons that I really like Mori. She has a very mature outlook on a lot of things, and I feel like I can relate to her a lot. It's true that most girls actually DON'T know what they want. I know I sure as heck don't. Sure most of us have a general basis of what we want in a relationship. For most of us it pretty much comes down to a non toxic relationship where we're treated as equals, but when it comes to specifics it's really hard to describe until you experience it. What Mori said about not being pushy and knowing when it's not working out is something that I don't really see a lot of people say but that I fully agree with. If someone is too pushy then it gets to be kind of weird, and if they never give up there's no way they're going to like you back because you're forcing something that's not there. I guess this is just one more reason that I really respect Mori, the more I watch of her the more I do.
Asking for a friend
So basically, don't be too aggressive, but don't be too passive either.
callii: don't be pushy
kiara :don't✍️be✍️pushy✍️
"You should be direct"
"You need to tell them how you feel right away"
"Just let 'em know"
Calli said, as she continues to behave as the most massive tsundere in Hololive
I mean... She clearly said "but ain't nobody can do that" right?
You're like journalists that take things out of context to create a story lmao
She knows from experience
@@JoseSantos-el8nj It's called shipping characters and having fun bro, like I don't do it personally but I don't have a problem with it
oh nice. I simped 10000 times and unlocked a Golden Yagoo
I like how her advice always ends in "Then find out things aren't gonna work out". It gives an accurate expectation for most people
"I don't know anything about relationships"
*continues to give me more sensible advice than anyone ever will*
"Imagine talking to real girls"
-Me
bruh do you like live under a rock? I'm... old, for better or worse I've never had this problem in my life.
@@PandaXs1 dont worry bro pretty sure he was just joking
@@ahmadarief2209 *Or am I?*
"Imagine talking"
Imagine being that girl
Relationships are like friendships they harden through suffering. Find someone you want to protect. Don't be afraid of looking stupid because everyone's stupid.
If your crush is a big UA-camr or Instagram person stop simping because you have no chance lol
Never in a million years would I have expected to be given relationship advice from an anime girl
Well, Mori's pretty spot on. Forcing things is the last thing you want to do. "Be chill" is the exact phrase I tend to use when I get asked advice too. But by that, I don't mean push yourself to be cool. That tends not to work out, because it's not really real. The coolness IS you, and not an act you play. "Be real" or "Keep it real" is the other phrase I use.
And this is why Mori's one of my favorite Vtubers. She keeps it real whilst keeping character. Mad respect for that.
me: i have no clue why im so bad with relationships ...
Calli: be normal
me: ohhhhh
She denies being our dad but sounds and acts like our dad 😂 and i love it
Calli checks out too. She's keeping it chill with tenchou, and she's not being pushy (proven by the "Hey Kiara. Pancakes or Waffles?" scenario)
"You need ti tell them how you feel right away"
Say that to yourself towards Kiara.
Korone: "have CONFIDENCE"
You just gotta keep in mind that girls are, you know, individuals. Literally every single one of them wants something different from what all the other ones want. The only way to know what they're into is to ask and hope for a sincere answer.
Calli: what do girls like
Me:all hope is lost
Calli gives tips
Me:don’t do that, don’t give me hope
"be yourself"
That only works if you're already likeable, if being "yourself" is just being some boring nobody than it doesn't just work out like that
Oof you feel that way too huh
everyone is interesting to someone. better to find someone compatible with you than to put up a front and seem 'interesting'
Being likeable is as simple as not being an asshole dude
@@jamgin9890 You know people can purposefully develop hobbies right?
You can 100% become interesting without "putting up a front", it's just lots of people don't want to put in the effort
@@boogaloo_weed Only myself I have met, dozens of people who were liked because they had assholey attitude, you can be the biggest jackass there is and still be popular as fuck because your other personality traits fit well with it
It's been a year, i wish i could heard this earlier, learn to let go, find the one who say yes to me instead of throwing maybe at me while me stubbornly being awkward and pushy towards the one, "the earlier you let go, the earlier you find a new adventure', can't be anymore motivated then i ever had to let go someone, appreciated it calli.
well as calli said in the trash taste "if you suck you suck" (probably not accurate)
Just get good
Basically this can be summed up as; “If you feel like you suck, you’re a lost cause and stop trying.”
Thanks Calli, real great advice.
“Be normal”
Ah, so objective 1 is a failure, then...
Very true advice! I think that's actually the MOST honest advice I've ever been given in regards to relationships
I told a girl I liked her once and she told me just wanted to be friends
I was overall casual about it too
I feel like once that happens it feels more weird liking that person and all of a sudden you got this feeling your a weirdo for being that direct considering it’s not that common to directly say something like that so causally anyway
I feel like one big reason people are scared to speak their true feelings
to a girl/boy they like is because
they don’t want that “perfect” image of that person they like being tainted by a potential rejection or weirded out reaction
I mean if you have a big fat crush
On someone, you do decide to overcome that fear and go talk to them about it and they turn you down
Your now stuck knowing they’re not interested and probably think your a bit weird now along with knowing that they know you like them
Considering that’s the risk your taking when you want to speak your feelings
It’s easy to see why someone would rather stay cozy in that secret-crush blanket and silently obsess over who they like rather than risk being rejected and remembering your screw up every time you think about your crush
I've been reflecting a lot after this stream. It really helps me look back at my embarrasing attempts to court with someone.
Edit: the lost cause part hit me hard.
Deadbeat: what do girls like????
Calli: Forget it loser
If I get rejected I’ll just watch hololive to cure my sadness
Now *this* is important
If it doesn’t work out, you can always go back into the realm of vtubers and anime
The best advice I ever heard: „If they don’t like you, just don’t be yourself...“ 😂
she spoke so well, Calli is pure gold
Viewer: How to not get rejected?
Calli: How to overcome rejection
If you're gonna confess, always set your expectations low. Your gonna feel more like shit if you set it too high so just go with the flow and everything will be alright.
From my experience of playing 18+ flash dating games, i can approve the legitness
Wow this is actually extremely real advice! Cali is really on our side!
In a cruel twist of fate, the girl you feel comfortable enough to ask what girls are like, is often totally unlike the person you're targeting and is therefore basically no help lol. But yeah, being straightforward is probably best. I for one am incredibly dense
I came here expecting a meme, but noooooooo she actually gave a legit response, a really good one at that
Calli: I'm also trying to figure out what girls like
Translation: How do I please my wife, Kiara?
Calli:don’t be pushy
Chicken that shall not be named: * aggressively bites lip*
"what do Girls really Like ?" Thats the question Nobody could answer for thousands of years.
bruh when a girl herself doesnt even know. I asked my girl- friend and she said idk.
Who would've thought I'd get the best love advice from a virtual Idol....
My love and admiration for Calli keeps rising..at this rate sky might not be the limit
She knows what's she is talking about, unlike us she actually have a girlfriend 🐔🐔🐔
Overcome the fear of rejection so you can take it like a goddamn champ when it comes
Calli: Just be YOU...
Me:yeahhh no
Interesting!!! I never knew there were some normal Vtubers out there.
Easier said than done. relationships take a lot of time.
If you can’t imagine being REALLY good friends with that person, then don’t pursue it. A relationship is just a friendship with extra steps and a few more perks. If there’s not a friendly supportive chemistry, then the romantic chemistry is never going to be what you hope it to be.
Just be yourself and don’t try too hard.
*realizes I’ve been single for the past 13 years*
OOOHHHH GOD
try being single for 18 years like me.
Or you could be like me. Just turned 30, never had a relationship, never been on a date, hell I don't even think anyone's ever liked me that way
@@Entei9000 someone might have you dont know
@@Mark12434 I mean, you're not wrong, but it's kinda moot point now since I know no one currently does
"be ready to give up" XD wow
the was the most realistic tip ever^^ ... jsut add .. dont go in with high expectations, so you still cool afterwards..but that that comes with age
Calli: “...Be normal”
ADD/ADHD people: *nervous sweating*
Autistic people: “instructions unclear”
People with personality disorders: 😐
And then there is me with both adhd and autism :(
actually true
@@kaajjaak when you've had all 3 tho.... I've gotten them all better and 3 years ago im officialy off the autism spectrum. The Hdhd kinda went away too.
Im almost sometimes considered too normal sometimes now😒
She really knows what she's talking about despite claiming no experience
Another question : *how to talk with a goddamn real life girl*
girl says oh I like you art its so cute
my brain: Mayday mayday 1sec no response, 2 seconds no response, hurry up an respond
me: thanks, you too
I really like how honest she is.
Calli : just dont be pushy... be normal
Kiara : *thats a big f*cking lie*
Wtf this is actually good advice, I can't this person is amazing
*Don't be pushy, just be the normal you*
ah yes, time to sit on the dark corner thinking about my life and existence
True advices Mr. Reaper. I kinda liked your "Off with their heads".
She's much better at ending relationships than starting them.
till Death do us apart 😏
What a girl wants, what needs, whatever makes me happy and keeps you free
Still gets discouraging when the only thing you ever experience is rejection. Don't get me wrong I used to have that "it's not the end of the world, just move on" mindset but when every girl you develop feelings for rejects you it becomes more like "Why bother trying, she's just gonna say no anyways, you're nothing special to anyone and you've nothing to offer so of course they'll all reject you"
I mean, I never having a relationship doesn't mean you're not special to anyone. I've been rejected by everyone I've ever liked and I'm not gonna lie it really stings, but at this point I get by just knowing that a lot of people trust me and treasure my friendship, and that even includes one of the people that rejected me. So even if I'm no one's favorite person, it's enough to know that there's people that enjoy having me in their lives, and that in return I can count on them when I need them
@@Entei9000 I've had one relationship that last for about 7 years until I found out she'd been cheating on me for roughly 3 of those years. I have one friend. So no I'm not really special to anyone other than my family. I don't let it affect the way I interact with people though. I get told ALL the time how I'm the sweetest guy they've ever met but my first thought is, I'm nothing special, I just treat you the way anyone should. I take the time to really listen to someone. I remember the little details. I'm the shoulder that's always there to lean or cry on. But then, why do I feel so empty inside... Why do I wake up every morning and hate myself... Why do I feel worthless... The fact is, I'll probably never find someone who will love me. I'm always that really sweet guy friend who's always there for you, never that guy that's on your mind. I'm nothing special. I'm no one.
Sorry for the rant, though no ones going to read it.
@@shelbyjackson6903 Hey man, I read it :) I know EXACTLY how you feel because I see myself reflected in here. I'm always the guy there for people, always listening to problems and wanting to help others through them... It's sad because most of the time I'll end up getting used from it and it just adds onto my existing mental trauma. I'm in a rough spot with my family too, they're not exactly the talking type about those kinds of things. It makes it really hard to get up in the morning very often.. but yeah man, hang in there I hope you find someone who appreciates you for you eventually, I've recently found my first friend who actually cares about me and they've been the driving force basically keeping me alive. I thank them a lot because I've been used so many times that I feel like I'm the burden and no one wants to be with me so I do apologize for everything too often but they've been super kind to me too. Keep your head up man, I hope you find your motivation soon :)
Communicate. Listen. Be honest.
That's it. You don't need anything else to make a relationship work. It's actually that simple.
So I confessed to my crush like last year before the covid and they say that "The worst they can say is no", and guess what she said nothing and just walked away and chatted me later saying no.
Ouch.
Us deadbeats will take her to the nether realm for you
"Even I'm still trying to find that out"nice its the win for us lesbians