@@timouri06 She has to talk because it is her daughter’s college money that was used for a redundant party. She was trying to be nice but she got scammed by an irresponsible stepson.
There is that fine line of doing it for yourself or doing it for everyone else? Never go into debt to get married. It's a bad start to a wonderful event.
I learnt that too. I was going to lend money to my niece. I called and friend asking her advice. She said, only loan it knowing you will never see it again. I said you're right. I did loan it. It was great putting that thought into my mind.
She probably just wanted to be nice because the family and him probably hated her so maybe she thought this could make him and the family like her more. Just my take. Yes it was foolish I agree.
No the father is a scumbag and you clearly tell when he doesn’t show no emotion when the son said the father hasn’t been there for its child….. what a scum
The son is a reflection of his father! The father came with excuses as well about why he wasn’t there for him. If the son is a deadbeat where’d he learn that from? Hmmm…
Although he owes the money, he probably feels like his father never did a thing to help his mother raise him, so he’s not exactly in a hurry to give the money back. Dad was clearly a loser.
Honestly a sad case. I feel like the real victim here is also the grandson since he can't see his grandpa due to some family beef that doesn't even have to do with him.
How is HE a “slimeball” when the man the she lays next to every night wasn’t even MAN enough to care for his own son? Have you ever considers that the son may be hurt and angry? It’s easy to tell someone to “get over” something, but I’m sure it is probably difficult for him to do.
@@NubianP6 slimeball is getting a loan for a destination bachelor party when you didn't have the money. He's grown with a child of his own that's depending on him. He needs to get help and get over it. His dad was good enough to go to him for money.
Bro saying a whole lot of nothing, his relationship with his father past or future has nothing to do with money he borrowed from HER! He wants to be a victim so bad 😅😅😅
@@OfficialHeyRico I beg your pardon, who mentioned anything about owing any money? Your type has become accustomed to absent fatherhood and being absent fathers and the whole world knows your plight- do better.
And they use the mother as a weak excuse why they didn’t see their children. That is why the son has a chip on his shoulder. He is more like his father because of how the father treated him.
@@yahira6928he’s not a KID!!!! He’s an overgrown man who’s borrowing money with noooo plans to ever pay it back. That’s weird. Yall don’t have nobody accountable. If the only way I can have a relationship with you is for me to allow you to run over with me. That’s crazy
His son dissed his wife and went back on his word causing more problems. My Dad would have said: "I hope you enjoy that 2 grand because that's all you're ever going to get." I did borrow money from him and I DID pay him back. On time. As promised.
I can tell you exactly the issue. The father has said he moved on. (there's a lot between the lines of that) This man moved on but you don't move on from the kids. He did and not just once. Remember the dad said his son disrespected the woman he was with at the time. So he wasn't allowed back. THAT IS THE PROBLEM. Essentially the dad, chose a woman over his son. Also, he talking about why him and his mom are not together. THAT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH YOUR SON!!!!! So that should never ever even be a subject of discussion with ot near your son at all. Instead of being a real parent he let that be an excuse not to deal with his son which he didn''t want to do anyway. It was convenient. Even if his son was disrespectful to a woman that he was shacking with....... that is your son. You are his father. It is your responsibility as his father to correct him when he does something you don't approve of. Also, as your son he should always be welcome and have a home in his father's home wherever it is. Remember, the son was a KID!!!!! Also, the father ...... in keeping with his passive aggressive BS also said the brother could have done a, b, and c. It's clear this father expected his children to lead on a relationsip with him. Again he is taking the easy road. The onus is on HIM as his father to make sure he has the relationship with his kids. 1. They were children he is the adult. 2. They didn't ask to be here. 3. It is HIS duty to be a proactive parent. 4. YOU left HIM. You are the one that left your family and moved on with another woman. YOU created the distance and hardship for your child and deprived him of the benefit of your daily presence as his father. You left the void in his life. So YOU are the one that needed to make the effort to do whatever you needed to in order to be in his life. Then the son lets him see his son and he walks in not speaking...... It all boils down to ...... The son wants and has always wanted his dad to CHOOSE HIM at least once in his damn life.
I’m not saying that you’re wrong. You made excellent points BUT that’s not what happened here. The son knew the money was a loan, signed a promissory note to the wife…he just thought that his father would come thru & beg the wife to forgive the loan as penance for not being in his life, which is definitely on the father. But the son knows he borrowed that money and even entered into a repayment plan because he knew that money was NOT from his father.
Damn. You described my experience with my dad growing up 💯! My father never held himself accountable for anything until I was 45 y/o. He had some sort of realization and was about to accept blame for his absence in my life, but just as he was about to breakdown, my stepmother cut him off and said “it’s not your fault” - that moment was lost forever. He died two yrs ago. I’m 50 now and the pain is still there . I’m wondering what he was going to say. I’ll never know now. It would have brought me some peace I imagine. RIP Dad.
What a clown for a father who can't even gift his son $2000 towards his wedding activities. He should have just said no. And He didn't even loan him the money, his wife did. True Deadbeat Dad.
Dude. Just pay back the money. You signed a promissory note, you know you owe it. That loan has nothing to do with your daddy issues once you signed a contract.
God has blessed me to the point where I've never had to borrow money from anyone. But if there ever came a time where I needed to borrow and someone lended it to me, I would cherish that person and pay them back with interest (may even throw a back massage in there 😅) just to show how much I appreciated it. There's no way in hell I would burn that bridge. People take relationships for granted.
Exactly! I've not had to borrow money for years now ...Last time I did it was because of an unexpected expense which was the difference between me being homeless or not. My ex partner lent me the money and I was soooooo grateful because it was a lot! I kept him updated on exactly when I was getting paid and made sure every penny I owed went back to him even if I had to live on beans on toast while I was paying back that debt. If someone gets you out of a bind and helps you like that I agree you should cherish that person, show them utmost respect and pay them back ASAP!
Yes, the father and son need therapy, but if a grown man can’t afford a bachelor’s party then don’t have one. I bet the son’s wife is probably not happy about her husband borrowing $2000 for bachelors party. Mostly likely the reason she did not show up in court to support her husband.
I feel so sorry for his wife😢. He forgot the wedding date and he broke. He remembered the bachelor party he clearly can't afford..😒 He used his dad, and he had no intentions of paying him back. He only signed the convo note to get the money released. He is a bandit, and he definitely got married for other reasons other than ❤. His father is in the feminine role, and look to Becky to speak for him, spineless. They not men when they go over there, they switch roles.
That father needs to get a clue. The fact that he stopped speaking to his son because his son was disrespectful to the woman he was with at the time tells me all I need to know about where his priorities are. That boy will live with his fathers rejection forever.
The son learned from his dad. They both seem like terrible people. Your son wasn’t allowed in the house. ?!! What kind of man says that. And that overgrown toddler son needs therapy to let that hurt go. You gotta get over it and move own. You are owed nothing!
The sons mother and her family were being messy with the picture, I could tell the mother probably was hell with break up and him seeing the son, the dad being extra petty taking it on the sons.. the son needs to grow up, get some therapy, he still bitter. Now, HIS son will suffer having no relationship with his grandfather.
The loan had nothing to do with the wedding. Bachelor parties are disgusting status quo excuses to cheat on the bride. I suspect the defendent will continue his bachelor-like behavior when married.
When the case starts with the stepmother doing all the talking and that standing there with his jaws tight, I knew this was a hot mess. Stepmother should have been left at home. Dad is a slackjaw, and his son is following in his footsteps
The stepmother is the primary plaintiff. She’s the one who loaned the money and brought the suit. Her husband is there in support of her suit. The stepson signed a promissory note to repay the money to her.
It’s amazing. The son’s mother isn’t letting him see the grandson but the defendant mother not letting the father see him growing up is not a good excuse. This is a sick cycle that needs to stop. Be ok with not having kids unless BOTH parties are mature enough to handle the responsibility. It would create less trauma in the world.
That Father seems kinda weak, it’s his child and he had so little to say. A parent should never sue their child about money, it’s kinda ya job to help your child no matter what age they get to be.
And to add to my previous comment, his defense is literally "I don't have to pay back what I know I owe because of ongoing drama that won't be fixed" sigh.....
You don’t have money , you don’t have a bachelor’s party . If my nephews or nieces came and asked me for money for their bachelor’s/ bride’s party……. I would have smiled and told them - “ Get a second job”.
Son is awful. bUT NOT ENOUGH TENSION TO ASK FOR A LOAN!!!!!!!!!! I get the feeling the son asked for the money as payback for his dad not being around.
Dang at the end the defendant said all he wanted was an apology from his dad and he didn’t get one. 😢 These men gotta do better at being in their child’s life!
As someone that has a similar relationship with my father, I wouldn’t have taken a dime from them. He probably thought the father would let it go but the wife wouldn’t. She should have stayed out of it and let the dad come up with the money. He borrowed it, so pay it back.
The son gave an unexpected compliment to his stepmother. That she helped his dad be a better man. Without this hanging over them, maybe there's hope they'll reconcile. Son needs to first curb his aunties and cousins on Facebook though.
The father and son look so much alike. It’s a shame that there is so much anger. Seems like the mother did something that greatly hurt the dad. The wife seems like a very caring person who is encouraging the father to swallow his pride.
Like father like son. Son doesn't realize he's treating people like crap just like his father did in the past. These people need family counseling asap.
I can tell that the father takes no responsibility for not being there for his son. He’s a grown child hiding behind his new wife to make him feel better about himself.
Too many people think their wedding day is more important than their marriage! They put all their money and attention into that one day and forget about what comes after that!
She says she hopes they have a good relationship while taking his son to court and having the dad be a co-plaintiff. This whole thing (the loan and repayment) should have been between dad and son. Sad on so many levels.
The wife must have told dad to stfu because he's standing there like a little toy soldier. Did she really make him a "better man"? He looks terrified to me.
This is far deeper than a court case. Best wishes
If the dad didn't have it to loan, the loan shouldn't have been made. Don't involve the wife in that mess.
@mssandy5494, right! This the second case like this
They all deserve each other lol. Because the Father should have just said no because He himself didnt have it to give.
@@EChristian329
Exactly she doing all the talking but he didn’t ask her he asked his dad
@@timouri06 She has to talk because it is her daughter’s college money that was used for a redundant party. She was trying to be nice but she got scammed by an irresponsible stepson.
The son is very very very angry. Anger stems from pain. The father and son should go to therapy. But I doubt that will happen.
I agree! I hope their relationship improves
Possibly but her money should have never been used for this and now she's entangled in their drama.
There’s something very very broken here.
yes that seems to the the root of all of this ! the dad has a wife and never support his kid.
I'm sorry, but if the dad was a deadbeat, why would you ask. My mom is a dead beat in would never ask her for nothing
I would have never taken money out of my child’s college fund. There’s nothing wrong with a courthouse wedding when you don’t have the funds! 🤷🏾♀️
I totally agree. I did a courthouse wedding been married for 32 years.
The money wasn't for his wedding. It was for a bachelor party in Las Vegas.
Exactly!
There is that fine line of doing it for yourself or doing it for everyone else?
Never go into debt to get married. It's a bad start to a wonderful event.
Yep. My husband and I were married by our Mayor 37 years ago.
The defendant needs counseling & a hug. Forgiveness is PRICELESS
Never "loan" money unless you are able to let it go...
Good one !!
I learnt that too. I was going to lend money to my niece. I called and friend asking her advice. She said, only loan it knowing you will never see it again. I said you're right. I did loan it. It was great putting that thought into my mind.
That is very well said!!!!
Why would you take money out of your daughter’s college fund to use as a loan for what you thought was a wedding? That’s foolish.
Even worse is borrowing money for a bachelor party.
She probably just wanted to be nice because the family and him probably hated her so maybe she thought this could make him and the family like her more. Just my take. Yes it was foolish I agree.
She was making an attempt to establish peace.
That's all she gave him? What kind of a white woman is she?
Stupidity!!!
He is a clown. To borrow money for a bachelor party is crazy. The wife is in trouble
He can't afford to be married. Won't last...
Never loan money to nobody unless you get a promissory note and put a specific date when to repay
No, having this woman interfering in your relationship with your child is inane. She needs to mind her business.
adriana is worse
He wasn't worried about it. He was looking for any excuse to not pay it back.
The son has a lot of excuses. Pay the debt. He has deadbeat behavior.
No the father is a scumbag and you clearly tell when he doesn’t show no emotion when the son said the father hasn’t been there for its child….. what a scum
No, the deadbeat behavior is when the father started speaking…that man is hurt because his dad is sorry.
The son is a reflection of his father! The father came with excuses as well about why he wasn’t there for him. If the son is a deadbeat where’d he learn that from? Hmmm…
Just like his pappy
Although he owes the money, he probably feels like his father never did a thing to help his mother raise him, so he’s not exactly in a hurry to give the money back. Dad was clearly a loser.
The Father is stiff as a board. No emotion towards his son.
This guy needs some therapy. He is clearly hurt.
No...he needs to man up and stop playing the victim role!!
@@red_icee962 He was a victim.....but yes, he needs to pay
Yeah that marriage won’t last!! 😂
Both marriages won’t…statistically.
Honestly a sad case. I feel like the real victim here is also the grandson since he can't see his grandpa due to some family beef that doesn't even have to do with him.
The son is a piece of work. "Made my dreams come true." The wife should be worried-what a slimeball. IMO
Why should she be worried?
How is HE a “slimeball” when the man the she lays next to every night wasn’t even MAN enough to care for his own son? Have you ever considers that the son may be hurt and angry? It’s easy to tell someone to “get over” something, but I’m sure it is probably difficult for him to do.
@@NubianP6 slimeball is getting a loan for a destination bachelor party when you didn't have the money.
He's grown with a child of his own that's depending on him. He needs to get help and get over it. His dad was good enough to go to him for money.
@@kaystar3434definitely sounds like he took a trip to sleep around
Bro saying a whole lot of nothing, his relationship with his father past or future has nothing to do with money he borrowed from HER! He wants to be a victim so bad 😅😅😅
The most truthful comment. 😂😂😂 He knew the money was a loans from the wife but banked on his father begging his wife to forgive the loan.
Finally someone said it 👏🏾
the son is stuck in his victimness and dad is stubborn they are both wrong
Stuck in his victimness..you people love to call people who are genuinely hurt “victims”
@TiffaniTube622 and you people love to make everything a “you people” thing instead of an individuals personality 🤣
@@QueenOfEverything69 me and you are the same kind of people 😉
@TiffaniTube622he’s in his 30’s and 40’s. Nobody owes you any money at that point. Grow up
@@OfficialHeyRico I beg your pardon, who mentioned anything about owing any money? Your type has become accustomed to absent fatherhood and being absent fathers and the whole world knows your plight- do better.
Apple doesnt fall far from the tree. Son acts just like his Daddy
How? We don’t know if the son is a deadbeat dad. Getting a loan and being a lousy dad are totaling different.
That's not fair to say... He's obviously angry that his father was a deadbeat.
I have a father who chooses the woman he dates over the relationship of his own kids. It is not something I wish anyone would ever go through.
And they use the mother as a weak excuse why they didn’t see their children. That is why the son has a chip on his shoulder. He is more like his father because of how the father treated him.
Just garbage people
Except that's NOT what happened here so your comment is pointless.
@@brunofam313you missed the part where the wife has only been around for 4 years. Therefore, the point your making does not apply
@@slmel7 you missed the point where the son was kicked out over the father siding with his significant other over being disrespected.
The son is a jerk
If gotta borrow money 💰 to have a party you shouldn't have it.
She was smart to have him sign a note.
I can see on the father's face ...hes the stubborn one in this whole thing!!!
Yep.
Won the case and lost the relationship. Woohoo!
Yup. That's the end of it.
He don't care about his kid.
@@yahira6928he’s not a KID!!!! He’s an overgrown man who’s borrowing money with noooo plans to ever pay it back. That’s weird. Yall don’t have nobody accountable. If the only way I can have a relationship with you is for me to allow you to run over with me. That’s crazy
The money wasn’t his to decide that
It was his wife’s money, not his. But even if it was his money, the son destroyed the relationship by not paying them back.
Listening to the intro I knew all sorts of tomfoolery was afoot. 😂
😂😂😂😂
Both men in this case are sorry straight up…when the father spoke I was shocked how he didn’t take responsibility for being a deadbeat.
His son dissed his wife and went back on his word causing more problems. My Dad would have said: "I hope you enjoy that 2 grand because that's all you're ever going to get." I did borrow money from him and I DID pay him back. On time. As promised.
You “move on” from your mate, NOT your child. In all honesty, the father doesn’t really seem to GAD.
i can’t stand entitled people
Bitter son needs to let go.
It's hard to let go. It's traumatic. He's a little boy trapped in a grown man's body longing for his dad.
Just pay the money you signed a promissory note for 😢
I can tell you exactly the issue. The father has said he moved on. (there's a lot between the lines of that) This man moved on but you don't move on from the kids. He did and not just once. Remember the dad said his son disrespected the woman he was with at the time. So he wasn't allowed back. THAT IS THE PROBLEM. Essentially the dad, chose a woman over his son. Also, he talking about why him and his mom are not together. THAT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING AT ALL TO DO WITH YOUR SON!!!!! So that should never ever even be a subject of discussion with ot near your son at all. Instead of being a real parent he let that be an excuse not to deal with his son which he didn''t want to do anyway. It was convenient. Even if his son was disrespectful to a woman that he was shacking with....... that is your son. You are his father. It is your responsibility as his father to correct him when he does something you don't approve of. Also, as your son he should always be welcome and have a home in his father's home wherever it is. Remember, the son was a KID!!!!!
Also, the father ...... in keeping with his passive aggressive BS also said the brother could have done a, b, and c. It's clear this father expected his children to lead on a relationsip with him. Again he is taking the easy road. The onus is on HIM as his father to make sure he has the relationship with his kids.
1. They were children he is the adult.
2. They didn't ask to be here.
3. It is HIS duty to be a proactive parent.
4. YOU left HIM. You are the one that left your family and moved on with another woman. YOU created the distance and hardship for your child and deprived him of the benefit of your daily presence as his father. You left the void in his life. So YOU are the one that needed to make the effort to do whatever you needed to in order to be in his life.
Then the son lets him see his son and he walks in not speaking...... It all boils down to ...... The son wants and has always wanted his dad to CHOOSE HIM at least once in his damn life.
I’m not saying that you’re wrong. You made excellent points BUT that’s not what happened here.
The son knew the money was a loan, signed a promissory note to the wife…he just thought that his father would come thru & beg the wife to forgive the loan as penance for not being in his life, which is definitely on the father. But the son knows he borrowed that money and even entered into a repayment plan because he knew that money was NOT from his father.
Damn. You described my experience with my dad growing up 💯! My father never held himself accountable for anything until I was 45 y/o. He had some sort of realization and was about to accept blame for his absence in my life, but just as he was about to breakdown, my stepmother cut him off and said “it’s not your fault” - that moment was lost forever. He died two yrs ago. I’m 50 now and the pain is still there . I’m wondering what he was going to say. I’ll never know now. It would have brought me some peace I imagine. RIP Dad.
So you use your father because he wasn't around. Pay them back they money.
What a clown for a father who can't even gift his son $2000 towards his wedding activities. He should have just said no. And He didn't even loan him the money, his wife did. True Deadbeat Dad.
Supposedly his dad wasn't around much so he tried to cash that chip now
No one owes you a thing especially when you're grown.
Dude. Just pay back the money. You signed a promissory note, you know you owe it. That loan has nothing to do with your daddy issues once you signed a contract.
God has blessed me to the point where I've never had to borrow money from anyone. But if there ever came a time where I needed to borrow and someone lended it to me, I would cherish that person and pay them back with interest (may even throw a back massage in there 😅) just to show how much I appreciated it. There's no way in hell I would burn that bridge. People take relationships for granted.
Exactly! I've not had to borrow money for years now ...Last time I did it was because of an unexpected expense which was the difference between me being homeless or not. My ex partner lent me the money and I was soooooo grateful because it was a lot!
I kept him updated on exactly when I was getting paid and made sure every penny I owed went back to him even if I had to live on beans on toast while I was paying back that debt.
If someone gets you out of a bind and helps you like that I agree you should cherish that person, show them utmost respect and pay them back ASAP!
@hannagibson9970 And this, my friends, is what a RESPONSIBLE adult looks like.
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SO WAITING for Adrian to chirp in on THIS one!! 😉
Sympathy for the defendant, since he had no father growing up.
Pride, ego, being tough ruins families. So I'll learn from this and make an effort to not be petty myself
You expect things and gifts at your wedding?
No defense whatsoever.
4:31 he’s my dad is never a good enough excuse. Especially after signing a promissory note 😂😂
Yes, the father and son need therapy, but if a grown man can’t afford a bachelor’s party then don’t have one. I bet the son’s wife is probably not happy about her husband borrowing $2000 for bachelors party. Mostly likely the reason she did not show up in court to support her husband.
I feel so sorry for his wife😢. He forgot the wedding date and he broke.
He remembered the bachelor party he clearly can't afford..😒
He used his dad, and he had no intentions of paying him back. He only signed the convo note to get the money released.
He is a bandit, and he definitely got married for other reasons other than ❤.
His father is in the feminine role, and look to Becky to speak for him, spineless.
They not men when they go over there, they switch roles.
Damn... I gotta agree with everything you said.
@6time686😅, I know right. Well said
son is a trip smh
Pitiful she should leave his weak ass. Can’t keep a promise. Word is bond as a man and his word is trash 🗑️
Wow that defendant is horrible he signed to pay it back so he has no defense. What a jackass 😡. I would never have dipped into my childs college fund
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The son seem trifling, just like his daddy. 🤷🏽♂️
Made my dream come true says it all
Defendant is a real piece of work 😬
Deadbeat dad say hello to your Deadbeat son
That father needs to get a clue. The fact that he stopped speaking to his son because his son was disrespectful to the woman he was with at the time tells me all I need to know about where his priorities are. That boy will live with his fathers rejection forever.
Both son and dad are a hot mess. Unable to take responsibility
The son learned from his dad. They both seem like terrible people. Your son wasn’t allowed in the house. ?!! What kind of man says that. And that overgrown toddler son needs therapy to let that hurt go. You gotta get over it and move own. You are owed nothing!
My mother taught me not to put my basket where you can't reach it...that it, live within your means.
Why didn't the father just pay his sons debt and never lend another dime
Cause he's broke🤷🏾
The dad was and still is a terrible person and she must've been desperate to get with him. The son didn't want to pay because of his resentment.
Deadbeats defend Deadbeats....
Son/defendant is a loser. Marriage won’t last long and sad he had a son…he’s priorities are messed up.
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Nope! Someone doesn't make someone a better person. 😂
Holy Moly this madness
I was once told by my great grandmother.. you'll be sorry the day and hour if you choose a mate over your child, and thats 100% correct!
Whew therapy is needed all around
The sons mother and her family were being messy with the picture, I could tell the mother probably was hell with break up and him seeing the son, the dad being extra petty taking it on the sons.. the son needs to grow up, get some therapy, he still bitter. Now, HIS son will suffer having no relationship with his grandfather.
You can tell all of that from not hearing from his mother or seeing the FB thread🤔 Wow, you need to get into psychic work ASAP🙄
The loan had nothing to do with the wedding. Bachelor parties are disgusting status quo excuses to cheat on the bride. I suspect the defendent will continue his bachelor-like behavior when married.
That poor man is begging for a relationship with his father. It’s so sad you can see how hurt he is.
I swear that first guy outside that seemed kind of slow had the smartest answer I've ever heard from anybody on the outside😂😂
Dad like I am at work stay away from the drama.
When the case starts with the stepmother doing all the talking and that standing there with his jaws tight, I knew this was a hot mess. Stepmother should have been left at home. Dad is a slackjaw, and his son is following in his footsteps
The stepmother is the primary plaintiff. She’s the one who loaned the money and brought the suit. Her husband is there in support of her suit. The stepson signed a promissory note to repay the money to her.
It’s amazing. The son’s mother isn’t letting him see the grandson but the defendant mother not letting the father see him growing up is not a good excuse. This is a sick cycle that needs to stop. Be ok with not having kids unless BOTH parties are mature enough to handle the responsibility. It would create less trauma in the world.
Man the defendant is a spitting image of his father!! What a shame! Truly is
That Father seems kinda weak, it’s his child and he had so little to say. A parent should never sue their child about money, it’s kinda ya job to help your child no matter what age they get to be.
That’s how I feel too
And to add to my previous comment, his defense is literally "I don't have to pay back what I know I owe because of ongoing drama that won't be fixed" sigh.....
The son is hurting!!! This dad is a jerk.
You don’t have money , you don’t have a bachelor’s party . If my nephews or nieces came and asked me for money for their bachelor’s/ bride’s party……. I would have smiled and told them - “ Get a second job”.
This is what a family mess looks like. A huge train wreck! Defendant wants nothing to do with his father except for money he might hand out.
The dad is a jerk you can see it in his demeanor & look on his face.
Son is awful. bUT NOT ENOUGH TENSION TO ASK FOR A LOAN!!!!!!!!!! I get the feeling the son asked for the money as payback for his dad not being around.
This is a prime example of never lend what you want back.
Dang at the end the defendant said all he wanted was an apology from his dad and he didn’t get one. 😢 These men gotta do better at being in their child’s life!
4:26 that "dad" look says it all. The junior dummy is toast.
Eyes were about to pop outta his skull with that side eye. 😅😂
As someone that has a similar relationship with my father, I wouldn’t have taken a dime from them. He probably thought the father would let it go but the wife wouldn’t. She should have stayed out of it and let the dad come up with the money. He borrowed it, so pay it back.
The father was a deadbeat and the son holds resentment towards him
The son gave an unexpected compliment to his stepmother. That she helped his dad be a better man. Without this hanging over them, maybe there's hope they'll reconcile. Son needs to first curb his aunties and cousins on Facebook though.
The father and son look so much alike. It’s a shame that there is so much anger. Seems like the mother did something that greatly hurt the dad.
The wife seems like a very caring person who is encouraging the father to swallow his pride.
Like father like son. Son doesn't realize he's treating people like crap just like his father did in the past. These people need family counseling asap.
I can tell that the father takes no responsibility for not being there for his son. He’s a grown child hiding behind his new wife to make him feel better about himself.
the first second he walked in I knew he was guilty just by his look😂
Dad needs to take your son hold him and apologize and then be there for him. It’s that simple.
That guy is totally unable and unwilling to forget sins of the past. He is immature.
Too many people think their wedding day is more important than their marriage!
They put all their money and attention into that one day and forget about what comes after that!
Why go to Vegas, Defendant said why not…….because you couldn’t afford it !!!!!
She says she hopes they have a good relationship while taking his son to court and having the dad be a co-plaintiff. This whole thing (the loan and repayment) should have been between dad and son. Sad on so many levels.
Never argue over money given to you just give it back no matter what. SMH, only losers argue over things given to them
The wife must have told dad to stfu because he's standing there like a little toy soldier. Did she really make him a "better man"? He looks terrified to me.
Choosing a woman over your own son. Father of the year there....
If he was a deadbeat he more likely didn’t pay child support so he doesn’t owe him sh**!!! Yeah he was around but in those streets