Easiest thing I find is to focus on being my best self. That path leads me away from negative people or energy. It keeps me from being toxic to others too.
At one job the boss was really mean. Instead of having my breaks in the tearoom with her and her cronies I brought my meals and drinks to work with me and went outside and sat on a wall in the sun and fresh air with people walking by. This gave me a chance to relax, debrief and work out my strategy on how to thwart their mean ways. I also kept an inspirational book to quickly glance through to keep my mind positive. They were mean to me, even tried to get me sacked but I never hated them because I could easily read them and the problems underlying their behaviour. I also took courses at Tech at night on how to deal with difficult people. It really worked. They gave up. I used to pray that they left and got a better job elsewhere and eventually they all did. The mean boss came to a tragic end, stomach cancer and lost everything before losing her life. It just doesn’t pay to be cruel to others. I’ve seen it happen many times.
U turned that situ ...into real growth @ blessing..fantastic praise God ur enemies never succeeded....I'm sure God will put u in a position...to teach.....others on how to handle situations....sorry bout boss.....first time I can see the reality of negativity eating a person......but I do 👏 u for the work u put in yourself @ turned it around ...ur Inspirational speaker.....thankyou for sharing 😊
@@dreamflares850 everybody is toxic at sone point, no one is perfectly 100%. Understanding and empathy helps people understanding and relationship keep going and deeply strong. I don’t agree with this video.
Pray 4 them. I choose God 1st. I choose to shine the light of God thats in me. He os our answer. He protects he has power. No dreems. Real. God is alive pray! God bless .
I certainly found this video helpful. The only regretting moment is that I didn't watch it about 30-40 years ago. Better late than never, however. Thank you.
I’m in the same boat, had I known about toxic family members 30 years ago, this would have been a game changer. I always was made to feel everything was my fault except the weather. I almost lost myself in the process. Now I know and will live and be different 🙏🏾
As I age, years have become a “toxicity “ filter. I have a choice. I’m independent. The toxins are easy to feel and see.. Thankfully, I can just refuse to engage. Peace. … it’s what matters.
I know toxic mother ! I drive her because she cannot anymore. All day she was back seat driving! When we got to our first stop I was almost out of my mind! She goes it sure is easy to push your buttons. The worst is that I’m trying to get my life back on track and everytime I want to do something she’s like I want to do this. I go by my guts and when she does that it messes me up. After she has the balls to say oh now you can stop here. Irritating. I have asked her over and over to stop telling me how to drive.
Or b assertive....u drive her out of ur goodness....if she isn't happy ....u won't.....of she will reply no...I'm happy..in which case ask her to remain silent as u need to concentrate........ANYTHING else u say like stop she can't a spirit is driving her....ask God to provide her with someone else ...to release u to move forward......these r generally the tactics enemy uses to hold u back....I suspect ur sentiments @ doing what's right gets in your way.....only do what God asks u or u recieve permission to...u serve God not the flesh or the enemy tactics.
Where are the nice caring Honest trustworthy people? ANIMALS are the Loveliest Thanks be to GOD JESUS is Protecting all CHRISTIANS From sll ADVERSITIES Love you jesus always Forever and ever AMEN ONI WA SOTO FUkU WA UCHI WARUOMO O KOROSHIMASU RIBBONO SHEI OLAM ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Jesus, Isa ( A.s ) also bowed his head to the ground to worship the father, he delivered the same message as prophet Muhammad ( saw ) did, worship one God alone without associating anyone. You will be happy to hear that, most of the things that you know were corrupted by some people and the historicity of Bible is not well mentioned, also the name of prophet Muhammad ( saw ) is mentioned in the Bible but you will get to know much more about Christianity and everything related to it from this podcast of a christian preacher. ua-cam.com/video/Aj-o0eGj920/v-deo.htmlsi=ibUlLmVe1IMaZYVi This will definitely allow you to explore more about your religion, we too believe that Isa ( A.s ) is the messenger of God. Just the difference is that, we differ worship. We worship the one that created everyone, everything that exists or existed. And also learn about the historicity of the Qur'an. You will be shocked, Insha'Allah.
Silence of a scholar is more dangerous than negative people. Negativity should not be encouraged by quiting or by walking away. Those people need proper answer to stop their negativity by you bcz if you dont stop it will continue.
My favorite reactions when people try to be negative toward me is 2 👍 👍. Okay, great! And laugh it off. In my head I think, "It's really funny that you think you have control over me. I know I create my reality and I know I'm the master of my sea." Repeat Jennifer Connelly's line from Labyrinth "You have no power over me." Go live your best best life!
Yes people are reo faced people and jellious that yur comeing onand yu look well that alone does it. Insulting abused family can do it two. Jyst get Reid off them yu have two stay away as it will kill yu inside. Yur mentel health will suffer
Blenty , Y sooo Real Familesssss Notnotnotnot who iam Yabsuttly iam notnotnot thESe iam Notnotnot these, Y whole intire life Recognise NoticE, that's sooo Real right Real that's soo right, Y Yab Y Estlyyy Familesss familyyy
Islaaaaaaaaaaaaam EttudEs BEsE REspect, SELFSELF , Notnotnot these who iam, these isn't isnt Notnotnotnot Notnotnotnot who iam , Familyyyyyy beopless familiessss systems soooo Real right ,
People that I don't want around me think I'm the most boring person on earth. They dont know me and never will.
I totally get that. I try to repulse them in a sense.
They don’t haven empathy and understanding.
U might b boring .
People either pray for you,or prey on you
.🙏❤️
Prayer only is not going to do anything for you or me ...
@ShammaNayak THE FACT THAT YOU DON 'T BELIEVE in prayer is your BUSSINESS..
Easiest thing I find is to focus on being my best self. That path leads me away from negative people or energy. It keeps me from being toxic to others too.
At one job the boss was really mean. Instead of having my breaks in the tearoom with her and her cronies I brought my meals and drinks to work with me and went outside and sat on a wall in the sun and fresh air with people walking by. This gave me a chance to relax, debrief and work out my strategy on how to thwart their mean ways. I also kept an inspirational book to quickly glance through to keep my mind positive. They were mean to me, even tried to get me sacked but I never hated them because I could easily read them and the problems underlying their behaviour. I also took courses at Tech at night on how to deal with difficult people. It really worked. They gave up. I used to pray that they left and got a better job elsewhere and eventually they all did. The mean boss came to a tragic end, stomach cancer and lost everything before losing her life. It just doesn’t pay to be cruel to others. I’ve seen it happen many times.
U turned that situ ...into real growth @ blessing..fantastic praise God ur enemies never succeeded....I'm sure God will put u in a position...to teach.....others on how to handle situations....sorry bout boss.....first time I can see the reality of negativity eating a person......but I do 👏 u for the work u put in yourself @ turned it around ...ur Inspirational speaker.....thankyou for sharing 😊
Good for you! I loved your story, using your intelligence, education and street smarts to stay out of the negativity! 🎊 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
KARMA.
Nurse here.I have seen quite a few toxic people.I don't take their crap or manipulation.I refuse to allow anyone to be abusive to me.😮
Or disrespectful.
I met many toxic people
I did not know because I
am simple. When I know
They were not good to me
than I stay away from them.
Good Decision
Takes a while to realise sometimes unfortunately
GOD BLESS YOU
Toxic people take advantage of
Good NATURED people
Toxic people have no morals
May GOD BLESS YOU ABUNDANTLY
❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
@@dreamflares850 everybody is toxic at sone point, no one is perfectly 100%. Understanding and empathy helps people understanding and relationship keep going and deeply strong. I don’t agree with this video.
Best
Pray 4 them. I choose God 1st. I choose to shine the light of God thats in me. He os our answer. He protects he has power. No dreems. Real. God is alive pray! God bless .
The light of God is in you, but how and why ?
I certainly found this video helpful. The only regretting moment is that I didn't watch it about 30-40 years ago. Better late than never, however. Thank you.
I’m in the same boat, had I known about toxic family members 30 years ago, this would have been a game changer. I always was made to feel everything was my fault except the weather. I almost lost myself in the process. Now I know and will live and be different 🙏🏾
Just say no when they ask you to go to breakfast 🍳🥞 A parade, a play, the movies, or anywhere lol don't be afraid to say no
It actually feels good saying no to the wrong people.😊
@BlueJeansandJellyBeans IT sure does, unapologetically No
I stay away from my co-workers right away once they tried to challenged and showed disrespect!?!?!?
SO TRUE 100%
Very True.
Been used many Times, but now it is enough.
You own your life, not other people.
❤❤❤❤❤
All very true 😢
These truths are golden, thanks for sharing this with us on YT!!
My Mom moved in with me. This describes her. Thank you for the video.😮
Sometimes it's 'spiritual'. 4:43
It's TRUE now a days everyone like that only
Thank you for the positivity.😊 God bless.
Love 🎉and light take care.❤❤❤
Number 3 is quite appealing it really works emotionally
Thank you ❤
Everyone are like this only nowadays 😢😢😢
Covid vaccines?? 😂😂
99 percent...they sure are....
Yes and its very sad...😢
Trumptoxicity; the evil permeates everything surrounding the hate they exude
Correct I think also the same
Thank you. I learned some things from this video. Gratitudem for uploading it.
As I age, years have become a “toxicity “ filter. I have a choice. I’m independent. The toxins are easy to feel and see.. Thankfully, I can just refuse to engage. Peace. … it’s what matters.
Excellent video! I learned to see it early on but didn't know how to react. Thank you for the education ❤
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I know toxic mother ! I drive her because she cannot anymore. All day she was back seat driving! When we got to our first stop I was almost out of my mind! She goes it sure is easy to push your buttons. The worst is that I’m trying to get my life back on track and everytime I want to do something she’s like I want to do this. I go by my guts and when she does that it messes me up. After she has the balls to say oh now you can stop here. Irritating. I have asked her over and over to stop telling me how to drive.
Use headphones or ear plugs!!😅
Or b assertive....u drive her out of ur goodness....if she isn't happy ....u won't.....of she will reply no...I'm happy..in which case ask her to remain silent as u need to concentrate........ANYTHING else u say like stop she can't a spirit is driving her....ask God to provide her with someone else ...to release u to move forward......these r generally the tactics enemy uses to hold u back....I suspect ur sentiments @ doing what's right gets in your way.....only do what God asks u or u recieve permission to...u serve God not the flesh or the enemy tactics.
Stronger boundaries. Polite but firm. Stop the car. No driving unless shes respectful. She may cause you an accident if you let it continue. !😢
Very useful and helpful information
Thanks a lot 🙏🏻
Toxic people are Like
DOG SHIT
ALWAYS BEST AVOIDED
ONI WA SOTO FUkU WA UCHI
WARUOMO O KOROSHIMASU
RIBBONO SHEI OLAM
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Nice to learn thank you
Very encouraging 🙏🇿🇦🇿🇦✌️
Thank u
Thanks for this amazing vedios
Where are the nice caring
Honest trustworthy people?
ANIMALS are the Loveliest
Thanks be to GOD JESUS is
Protecting all CHRISTIANS
From sll ADVERSITIES
Love you jesus always
Forever and ever AMEN
ONI WA SOTO FUkU WA UCHI
WARUOMO O KOROSHIMASU
RIBBONO SHEI OLAM
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Jesus, Isa ( A.s ) also bowed his head to the ground to worship the father, he delivered the same message as prophet Muhammad ( saw ) did, worship one God alone without associating anyone. You will be happy to hear that, most of the things that you know were corrupted by some people and the historicity of Bible is not well mentioned, also the name of prophet Muhammad ( saw ) is mentioned in the Bible but you will get to know much more about Christianity and everything related to it from this podcast of a christian preacher. ua-cam.com/video/Aj-o0eGj920/v-deo.htmlsi=ibUlLmVe1IMaZYVi
This will definitely allow you to explore more about your religion, we too believe that Isa ( A.s ) is the messenger of God. Just the difference is that, we differ worship. We worship the one that created everyone, everything that exists or existed. And also learn about the historicity of the Qur'an. You will be shocked, Insha'Allah.
protecting all Christians - it is toxic in itself. It should be protecting everybody.
❤️
great video
Knows Each other Estlyyyy Y, Familyyyyyy
Sooo Real Estlyyyyy +Familyyyyyy familiessss
So so true . Some family are the worst . Just pray for them and walk away. That what I had to do .❤️
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Silence of a scholar is more dangerous than negative people. Negativity should not be encouraged by quiting or by walking away.
Those people need proper answer to stop their negativity by you bcz if you dont stop it will continue.
🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
🙏😊
💯🙏👌
My favorite reactions when people try to be negative toward me is 2 👍 👍. Okay, great! And laugh it off.
In my head I think, "It's really funny that you think you have control over me. I know I create my reality and I know I'm the master of my sea."
Repeat Jennifer Connelly's line from Labyrinth "You have no power over me."
Go live your best best life!
Wasn't 'watching', noticing, adrift.
Yes yes yes😅😅😅😅
Yes people are reo faced people and jellious that yur comeing onand yu look well that alone does it. Insulting abused family can do it two. Jyst get Reid off them yu have two stay away as it will kill yu inside. Yur mentel health will suffer
Fin
Blenty , Y sooo Real Familesssss Notnotnotnot who iam Yabsuttly iam notnotnot thESe iam Notnotnot these, Y whole intire life Recognise NoticE, that's sooo Real right Real that's soo right, Y Yab Y Estlyyy Familesss familyyy
God made the toxic assholes
@@brendagal1273 he needs to take them.back.We don't want them.
Islaaaaaaaaaaaaam EttudEs BEsE REspect, SELFSELF , Notnotnot these who iam, these isn't isnt Notnotnotnot Notnotnotnot who iam , Familyyyyyy beopless familiessss systems soooo Real right ,
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Is this video about how to deal with the boomer generation? Because it fits. Great advice. 😎
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Thank you 🙏