Beware, I was in a relationship with a Filipino woman for 9 years, she was previously married and had 4 kids from her husband ( I’m a dummy I know). Her husband committed suicide and I thought from the story she told me that he was a coward and he was on meth. He hung himself in their condo. She told me he was depressed over his mother’s passing. All A BUNCH OF LIES!!!! I found out late after having a child with her that she was 100% a NARCISSIST!!! A NARCISSIST!! He committed suicide over her cheating repeatedly on him. How did I find out???? Her kids told me and members of her family told me. I’m like, why didn’t you guys warn me from the jump????? She cheated on me and always, always has a guy on the side, always. Narcissist get bored and sleep around and have NO EMPATHY and they DO NOT LOVE!!! Now I’m not saying Jeannie is this, just tell my experience. And this is not all Asian woman neither. But be careful cause brothers be thirsty for different races, like I was. They know if you don’t think your deserving of them or so they think. I urge everyone to make sure you are NOT dealing with a narcissist. They love to manipulate.
A lot of black men are not honest with their thirst for non black women. They like to gaslight black women as if it’s their fault but truly thirst and fetish is in some black men. I also reference how Malcolm X autobiography talks about the black men thirst for white women during his younger days in Harlem.
@@AmberSeti Women are women and attraction is attraction. The issue is no one wants to be tied down to mean, masculine, unbearable to be around color purple broads like yourself.
@@slickrick8046 I said nothing about race, I described her because she used her looks to manipulate. You must be Filipino to jump all over the race thing. Narcissist come in all races. I would be more concerned about the husband who took his life. Stop just reading one part of the story. I know I was with a psycho bish
Any Black person, regardless of gender, who decides to marry someone who says they like “ dark meat on the side” on national television deserves what’s coming.
Yep. If they don’t respect your people group, they won’t respect the individual. Imagine if Jeezy had said something like “I love mayo on my sandwich but I’ll dip my sub in yellow mustard every now and then,” and J Mai married him. We’d all point to that quote and ask how she didn’t see it coming? Jeezy ignored the signs.
I am retired now but I spent my entire career in the financial industry with half of that being in the international sector. I’ve worked an dealt with people from all over this world. Now, what I say next needs to be clearly understood and taken seriously. One of the biggest businesses in the US is the export and consumption of our culture in the form of entertainment. This means music, movies, television and fashion. I have talked to enough people from around the world to realize that most of what they are being sent to consume show American Blacks in a negative light and it’s not by accident! A lot of people arrive here with preconceived notions based on what they’ve consumed.
I’m a pilot, who also majored in math. I can see the confusion in people’s eyes when I tell them that. I don’t fit most of the stereotypes that people have for us. You’re spot on again in this video!
@@LisePlansandJournalslook at the pinned comment from the black woman and you will see why the delusion still stands. It's the most perverse irony of black men from black women.
Yooo, that ooint you made about "looking for someone that can be bored" is big facts. Me and a hispanic girl was just debating this because we both agree that you have to find someone you can be bored with, because eventually marriage gets bored. But her friends disagreed and feel like marriage shouldnt get boring
@@festuswilliams654 And unfortunately you're right. That's because entertainment is far more valued than education, which should be obvious to us all by now. Even in the dating pool, "educated" bros are considered boring, too square, etc and even our sistas from the burbs prefer a "soldier" (successful brotha from the streets)
I was having a convo with my bro about this yesterday. Not really about Jeezy and Jeanie Mai but about how the family dynamic is crumbling. We’re just out here having kids and they’re going to have to pay for our poor choices.
True. She made more money that that YT guy so she didn’t want his baby because she’d pay him child support when she bounced. She would get paid if she left Jeezy. This is how women today think, we can’t have a family with such a person.
Women nowadays in the US or over the world from different backgrounds/ nationalities generally will marry in for the financial security status from men before love and Jennie is no exception to that..It is no longer a Jennie Jeezy thing but is applied to both men/women out there in the concept of marriage, love and money..
I feel like he was more of a "trophy" for her. She is that type of person that wants everybody to know she is thriving and living her best (insta) life while behind the cam it's a rotten apple. She is the perfect representation of that.
A phenomenal video, but I will add that the idea that black women need to 'learn' from another group of women is a sign that black men need to 'learn' to lead from another group of men. And I'll die on that hill. Failure of a war will always ride back to leadership, and let me ya, we're in a war and have been for a long while now. Undertsanding the level of psychological trauma black people have (particularly black men when it comes to self-imagery, images of the black woman, and images of Africa) is very disturbing. America has made us view each other from the colonizers eyes. And each and every race that got benefits from the civil rights era standing by the false unity of 'people of color', will see us from the colonizers perspective. I am no victim and I don't root for anyone to hold a victim mentality, but when it comes to questioning the 'valued' black man and why some shun the community entirely, it all comes down to the fear that's been injected into us about us. We stereotype ourselves before an outsider can even attempt to. Also I want to add that when it comes to Jeezy being attracted to asian women he has said that he always liked asian women since he was young, but of course he couldn't bag one until he dropped the hood persona and stopped selling our community poison...and when he did bag one it's literally some white mans leftovers...who was dumb enough to tell the world about her mandingo fetish on national syndicated daytime television with a white mans ring on her finger...responding to three black women. Also, I'm from the same city as Jeannie and let me tell you right now, everybody here who is not black thinks they people were apart of slavery, that's all I'll say. A lot of hidden racist people are all around California and the bay area rapping, fucking black people, and going to BLM events...
I disagree. America didn't make us view each other as enemies. There are those of us who don't think in this manner and never have. How do you account for this reality? IMO, black folks abandoned the teachings of previous generations for a ANEW WAY OF THINKING to their own detriment. What I hear is, "we are not capable of thinking for ourselves or shaping our definition of who we are."
When I hear comments like this I wonder if you’ve ever had friends or been around people from other cultures because usually this ain’t the vibe at all. And dating other people who don’t look like you doesn’t equal self hatred or lack of appreciation. If I date a woman from Ethiopia or Algeria they are both African women but look nothing like me and more than likely don’t experience the same anti blackness I have but we’re both African. And this nonsense notion of leadership is flawed af. Unless we physically coerce someone like you would a child you can not make those who do not want to listen follow you. If their cooperation is contingent upon our success and not their willingness to build with us what’s the point. We live in the can’t tell me nothing era of black women. How do you build family and have a home with peace in it if you have millions upon millions of people who won’t resolve their trauma and can’t communicate. We’re just telling black men to suffer for the sake of some fantastical aesthetic
“ You have to evaluate her ability to be bored.” Man, that is a true gem . I’ve always had that at top of my list ; never get involved with a chick that is comfortable running the streets.
Jeezy gave a good lesson to not overly pedestalize because one isnt a BW. Although younger generations tend to know its not much of a difference compared to older generations
You hit a lot of points this society is not ready have an avoid but THANK YOU. I’m not saying these were their experiences but this is definitely the experiences when it comes to race, society, and dating.
... Last thing, there are native Asian women from certain areas overseas that are tan, brown, dark brown, and black, one of them I still communicate with. They don't really have the same idea of black culture & white culture as some of us do because most are from homogeneous cultures. Most of them are just curious about outside cultures in general.
Great point. The women of the diaspora are the best in the world. These dudes chasing white, Asian, Indian, etc don’t comprehend that we’re in a cultural competition and giving your finances away to another group is dumb because that “other” female comes equipped with these cultural biases where they look down and loath darker skin. We are the original people and need to clean up whatever’s causing us not to have self respect.
This was an amazing take my brotha.i tell nxggaz this all the time. Stop running to other races just because u THINK it's gonna be greener. Work on urself do ur soul work and you'll attract better women. I did and my girl is blk and amazing. I've dated out and had some crazy azz experiences. I thought similarly and got humbled real quick 😂 It's character over color.. nobody's skin tone is gonna make them treat u better. These weird movements continue to cause division. are we gonna continue dwelling on the problem or work towards solutions? Appreciate the video bro, stay up💯
If all was good she wouldn't even be asking the question about if her current marriage is her final marriage the fact that she's asking that question is telling me that something is going on in that marriage
Best commentary I’ve seen on this topic, purging out of it the gossip element. For all we know, their contract may have just expired, or this is just the unwritten chapter of ‘Adversity 4 Sale’, as celebrities stay coming out with controversy coincidentally when they have a project out. But learning curves come in many forms. Cute baby though, looking like her daddy.
Great point. I am a beautiful, black woman. We need men like you teach black men out there. They make fun of us for being a woman enough to ask a man to take the lead, and will follow. I’ve been taught how to submit to a man through our grandparents and our parents. You are intelligent, black man. He makes me proud. Keep up the good work. 💜🙏💪🏿
to me she was no different than Keisha from the hood, he got him a quote unquote light skin baby with good hair and she will probably get a couple mill in child support.
The simple truth is there were red flags and he ignored it because of who she is and what she looks like and being non black. Plenty of times we ignore people’s character because we find them attractive.
@@TheAnitdote it’s projection. From the beginning of time men have gone to other lands and procreated with women from other regions. I’d venture to say MOST of the time it has nothing to do with self-hate. In an African context, my father married my mother who’s from a different tribe… so does he hate himself and his tribe? It makes no sense. I’m being genuine when I say it’s women who do this out of self-hatred the most, particularly WOC with white guys.
I agree that because females routinely lie about body count, that it is senseless to ask about it. And yes, there are better questions to ask and mandatory observations to make, surrounding "boredom" among other topics. Yet until forward-thinking men and women re-draw that "line in the sand", demanding virginity (female AND male) as the entry price to marriage, our divorce and dysfunction rates will continue rising. This wanton sex for the sake of sex must stop.
In regards to the opening, I’m going to need rich people to stop projecting their lack of happiness in their wealth onto the rest of us lol. I am fully capable of being at peace in a Rolls-Royce dammit.
Bahaha right! I live very comfortably and more money would make it even better but I’m happy now financially and w/ my husband and our son… I think that’s the point you gotta be happy in life 1st THEN the cash can add to it but it won’t make you happy on its own. that takes self work.
He did her a favor … hopefully he comes thru with Monaco’s child support payments timely unlike his other kids. Everyone’s talking about Jeanie’s anger issues when Jeezy has a long history of them, like being arrested for terroristic threats while physicality harming his oldest son .
Miles Davis and also Quincy Jones who also dated white women also went to Europe. The same thing happened to him I believe. I watched the Quincy Jones documentary 🥰.
If you are a black man and you are not a adult film star, a gangster/rapper or an athlete.... you are starting with a major handicap in most realms.... especially the realm of women.
@@Seancarter2010true to a certain extent imo / BW get championed for education and wanting to better themselves - but young black dudes who aren’t a stereotype and don’t have swag are seen as straight up squares . A lot of us have been around non-blk ppl who were damn near disappointed that we weren’t a stereotype like “oh, I thought you were black black “ we get it from everyone where I think it’s easier for sistas to navigate that . Could there ever be a black equivalent show to Big Bang Theory that’s popular , respected & cool ..doubt it..because that’s not how black men are ‘supposed’ to be
@@PFlaw317 there’s some truth I guess but then I think of men like Donald Glover in Atlanta who don’t fit the stereotype. Also that’s tv in real life I’ve found that when you’re in nerd circles like a college campus most times the girls don’t expect that. Maybe some do but generally that’s not the case
Tbh … when someone tell them who they are , please believe them ! No matter what happened jumping into a marriage for the second time is so not good ! It’s shows that u cannot be alone with urself to do the work that’s needed for that person or anyone else!and no she doesn’t know how to be bored nor just because she’s a celebrity some people can’t just sit the hell down and constantly running from themselves and their issues within ! Much love to ur channel 😊as far as dating out ur race women or men I don’t , however o won’t bash who do .. I just cannot ! ❤
Once we hit a point (probably late 70s or early 80s) when women made a big push to be equals with men sexually and came with this turn off and on femininity, the relationship world went to shit. From someone who’s been married twice, understand marriage is not meant to be this ball of fun. It can become routine and boring at times with a touch of having to deal with the good and bad of one person forever sprinkled on top. If you can’t find someone ready for this, stick with a good situationship. If they’ve titled themselves “Diva”, “Boss”, “Queen” or say anything about needing to be being “Handled”, RUN.
Lol I dont think the "black p---s" changed her mind.😂 She's too classy and rich for that childish behavior. Alot of women avoid having children with men they don't want to be with. Married or not. And if you were an avid viewer of The Real like I was, you'd see how often she would talk about how Jeezy and her had this emotional and mental connection that she's never had in her previous marriage or relationships. She loved that man on a level more than anyone else (her words). He was the ONLY person who made her secure and confident enough to desire being a mother (childhood trauma), and to believe she'd make a good parent if he was by her side. Alot of women can relate to that. I think their downfall is more so typical celebrity issues than what some ppl are reaching for. What do yall think?
Quality content as usual! I respect your point of view because it is pro black and intends to bring bm and bw together. I thought I was pro black but I realize I question it too much within myself these days to truly be pro black. With that being said I see both sides, and you will probably get more pushback then usual on this one lol
Stumbled across this channel and wasn't expecting such a deep dive. Lol Nice work! I work with mostly white women and some Asian women and they are NOT meek and mild. I've also witnessed the interactions of white couples and babeee lol the white women do not mince their words. I can believe every bit of what the Lead Attorney said. WW were some of the most ruthless slave owners. I still remember hearing that actor Christian Slater's wife stabbed his hand with an ice pick during an argument. I do take some issue with the comment about black women being "abrasive" though. I don't agree with that. Anyway, Subscribed.
I agree. I'm a Black woman who grew up in and have worked in predominantly white communities and I feel like anyone who thinks Black women are abrasive, it's because they have not experienced women of other races in their own natural habitats!
Welcome to the channel! Please checkout some of our other case studies🙏🏿 I’ve always maintained that WW specifically are the most dangerous people on the planet.
I like how men lie and say things like “to save her feelings, I’mma make her think that she broke up with me”. 😂Instead of just being honest about still wanting to be the good guy in the end. Which doesn’t really work cause you’re behaving in ways that she has no choice but to break up with you, painting you as the bad guy anyways
Thank you. This is the brick lady nonsense all over again where people project their thoughts about black men onto a situation they have absolutely no clue about
Your commentary is very interesting. I just want to add that Jeannie Mai wasn’t attracted to Jeezy because of his Black pen**s. If that’s all she wanted, then she would have stayed with White men because she prefers “White meat 🍖.” Jeezy gave her the wealth, money 💰 and fame that she failed to find with a White man. I hope Jeezy’s prenup wins in the end I hope he gets joint custody of their daughter. Lastly, Asian women and White women are tired of being stereotyped as docile, submissive man-pleasers by Black men. That’s so untrue. Similarly, American Black women are tired of being the only women who are stereotyped as masculine, bossy, and combative. These stereotypes make Black men sound like White Supremacists. The random Black women I meet in public are polite, friendly and courteous. If men are only meeting domineering, abusive or combative Black women, they need to change where and how they meet Black women.
Excuse me, Eve was in that world , she knows how those rappers are. She did not want that for herself ok!! These rappers ain't shit ! She knew that, so she moved on . So leave her alone! She seems to be happy! She's been married for a while. Black men step up, do better, those who are not gay!!1✊ a lot of brothers in the industry are on the down low !
Brotha you are making a really good point about potentially exchanging one set of problems for another, in terms of dating and marrying outside the race. What complicates things is a typical man's choice between the lesser of 2 evils. I think if a discerning man could find a better situation than women who express in word and action that they don't need you, why not?
It's 2023, all races of women are saying they don't need a man. Want and need are totally different. Most women don't ascribe to "needing" a man unless she is struggling financially or poverty-stricken.
@MT-yx5cu Facts. 3 questions though 1) Who is the most vocal about not needing a man? 2) If you feel the overwhelming need to express not needing a man to men with no prompting, might that not suggest that you might be more invested in the idea that men are not that valuable? 3) Are there other places in the world where culturally women are encouraged to value men?
@melinatedvessel6840 If your true intention was to try to be helpful or constructively contribute to this, why would you take time out to respond and not even slightly attempt to elaborate?
17:27 - Eve didn't evolve. She devolved. She was raised in a 2 parent home. She was rebellious at 18. Became a stripper (for a month). Became a rapper. Became an actress. Had success. Realized what she really wanted was what she had growing up and was beautiful and young enough to get it. Eve's parents were firmly middle class and she spent her teenage years in the Germantown neighborhood of (outer) Philly. 86% of the people who live in Germantown are white collar workers. That's not the hood.
This whole thing was wired from the start, yes you have to be happy above anytin but why did they both even bother to get married so all that has been wasted. Shmmmmmmm everyone must not be married
Black Woman are not abrasive. We are direct and tell Men what we expect, that way you know what to do to please us. Some day you will be sorry to have someone who doesn't speak up like we do. It will be to late. " Give me what I want and I will leave. " That's what the DEVIL said in STORM OF THE CENTURY. "
You wouldn't appreciate it if someone said "Black women are [insert negative stereotype]. All you are doing is stereotyping black women. I've dated black women who claim they tell it like it is but when the rubber meets the road they are afraid to speak up in the relationship. If this was true there would be so many BW in horrible relationships just tolerating bullshit.
Wow... the level of reach in this analysis is next level. I agree that dating another ethnic group is not an auto matic no need to think about it gurantee. Nothing in life is ever like that. However, the apeing of Dr. Umar's talking points contradicts with the idea of simply applying proper vetting. Apply proper vetting if that vetting yields a woman from another ethinicity. Take the gift god gave you and do not look a gift horse in the mouth.
I dont feel bad for Jennie for one thing she kinda asked for both of her failed marriage..She shouldn't marry outside of her race due to so many differences among them with everything else..It's tough to last the relationship that way...
I t goes both ways! He has to honor and respect her as well!! Look at Geezy he has how many babies and baby mama's? I don't think it's the women. I think it's him!!
Also it's okay to Rest or Even Do Nothing , Detox ....But BORED YOU should Never Be! Like I said. Always something to Do or Learn, Volunteer, create,! 🌹🥂🤔
Solid video...my only comment is that you can make a case that BW fetishize BM just like the other races of women do. Those reasons you pointed out as to why other women like BM is " swag" in tne black community.
The same few archetypes of BM are fetishised by both BW and non BW. That’s why when a non-BW marries one of the athletes or rappers it causes huge commotion. Meanwhile if a Jordan Peele type of guy gets married to a non-BW, you won’t hear as much about it.
Exactly...which leads to the most interesting realization for bm. You're unlikely to find real love/care anywhere as a bm so you must pick your poison.
Jeezy had babies with all those black women and he didn't marry any of them. He left them to marry Jeannie Mai. What does that say about him? We need to STOP Defending these men as if they are saints. Jeezy is NOT HUSBAND Material. Look at all those baby mama's 😮😮🤐🤨
I missed your point because it wasn’t clearly articulated. At least from the commentary and editing at that part around 8:12 showing a picture of Angela and stating that these white/obese women are “docile and weak” .
@@jordosara my point was despite the truth of white and asian women, they have maintained a macro brand of docile and week. I was highlighting the irony.
I would submit that he didn’t really care about longevity of the marriage. I would submit that neither of them really care or will be depressed for very long before the next person enters both of their lives
...Also, Asian women that grew up in America are not at all in comparison to Asian women born& raised in Asia. I lived overseas for almost 4 years so I experienced what it's like. And I plan to go back.
That’s a fact but please understand that due to the internet, any woman can display any behaviour. And also understand that the women who are VERY traditional don’t tend to date outside their race/date foreigners, that goes against most traditions.
Europe, Vietnam and East Asia aren't better than the United States in some aspects. Almost every single nonblack or mixed-race society in modern times is veered one way or another against African people and its Diaspora. Jeannie Mae's abbhorent fetishist views about black men are not just shaped by American white supremacy... dark coloured people _used_ to populate East Asia and Indochina too, a millenia ago. Whom to Jeezy, his fault to marrying someome who spoke about black men the way Jeannie Mae spoke to.
I like the brothers content, but sitting around talking to black women who don't want to listen can't be the answer either and saying find a woman who does may include dating out , Jenni was not a good choice but other Asian might be.
Beware, I was in a relationship with a Filipino woman for 9 years, she was previously married and had 4 kids from her husband ( I’m a dummy I know). Her husband committed suicide and I thought from the story she told me that he was a coward and he was on meth. He hung himself in their condo. She told me he was depressed over his mother’s passing. All A BUNCH OF LIES!!!! I found out late after having a child with her that she was 100% a NARCISSIST!!! A NARCISSIST!! He committed suicide over her cheating repeatedly on him. How did I find out???? Her kids told me and members of her family told me. I’m like, why didn’t you guys warn me from the jump????? She cheated on me and always, always has a guy on the side, always. Narcissist get bored and sleep around and have NO EMPATHY and they DO NOT LOVE!!! Now I’m not saying Jeannie is this, just tell my experience. And this is not all Asian woman neither. But be careful cause brothers be thirsty for different races, like I was. They know if you don’t think your deserving of them or so they think. I urge everyone to make sure you are NOT dealing with a narcissist. They love to manipulate.
WELL DAMN!!!🤯
A lot of black men are not honest with their thirst for non black women. They like to gaslight black women as if it’s their fault but truly thirst and fetish is in some black men. I also reference how Malcolm X autobiography talks about the black men thirst for white women during his younger days in Harlem.
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The fact that you married a chick with 4 kids has nothing to do with race. You just picked a crazy biiish.
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Women are women and attraction is attraction. The issue is no one wants to be tied down to mean, masculine, unbearable to be around color purple broads like yourself.
@@slickrick8046 I said nothing about race, I described her because she used her looks to manipulate. You must be Filipino to jump all over the race thing. Narcissist come in all races. I would be more concerned about the husband who took his life. Stop just reading one part of the story. I know I was with a psycho bish
Any Black person, regardless of gender, who decides to marry someone who says they like “ dark meat on the side” on national television deserves what’s coming.
That part
Yep. If they don’t respect your people group, they won’t respect the individual. Imagine if Jeezy had said something like “I love mayo on my sandwich but I’ll dip my sub in yellow mustard every now and then,” and J Mai married him. We’d all point to that quote and ask how she didn’t see it coming? Jeezy ignored the signs.
I am retired now but I spent my entire career in the financial industry with half of that being in the international sector. I’ve worked an dealt with people from all over this world. Now, what I say next needs to be clearly understood and taken seriously.
One of the biggest businesses in the US is the export and consumption of our culture in the form of entertainment. This means music, movies, television and fashion.
I have talked to enough people from around the world to realize that most of what they are being sent to consume show American Blacks in a negative light and it’s not by accident! A lot of people arrive here with preconceived notions based on what they’ve consumed.
This is absolutely accurate!
I’m a pilot, who also majored in math. I can see the confusion in people’s eyes when I tell them that. I don’t fit most of the stereotypes that people have for us. You’re spot on again in this video!
What is it that they expect you to be? Why is this a shock in the US of A?
@@LisePlansandJournalsRapper or Dealer or Scammer or Athlete of course. What else??
@@LisePlansandJournalslook at the pinned comment from the black woman and you will see why the delusion still stands. It's the most perverse irony of black men from black women.
So level with us, as a pilot and mathematician…is the earth flat??
Yooo, that ooint you made about "looking for someone that can be bored" is big facts. Me and a hispanic girl was just debating this because we both agree that you have to find someone you can be bored with, because eventually marriage gets bored. But her friends disagreed and feel like marriage shouldnt get boring
You're in a really good pocket in your last few videos. You took a really mundane topic and squeezed out a phenomenal teachable moment.
Preciate you man! I would rather not delve into celebrity BS but seems to be helping the ultimate mission.
@@festuswilliams654 And unfortunately you're right. That's because entertainment is far more valued than education, which should be obvious to us all by now. Even in the dating pool, "educated" bros are considered boring, too square, etc and even our sistas from the burbs prefer a "soldier" (successful brotha from the streets)
I was having a convo with my bro about this yesterday. Not really about Jeezy and Jeanie Mai but about how the family dynamic is crumbling. We’re just out here having kids and they’re going to have to pay for our poor choices.
True. She made more money that that YT guy so she didn’t want his baby because she’d pay him child support when she bounced. She would get paid if she left Jeezy. This is how women today think, we can’t have a family with such a person.
Women nowadays in the US or over the world from different backgrounds/ nationalities generally will marry in for the financial security status from men before love and Jennie is no exception to that..It is no longer a Jennie Jeezy thing but is applied to both men/women out there in the concept of marriage, love and money..
@@DrunkPhotographybut he left her and I think she has a higher net worth
That’s how this society works. You feed the beast with more unintelligent, ill equipped mindless people
Crumbling? Its already crumbled. The family dynamic especially when it comes to the black community is already a pile of rubble.
I feel like he was more of a "trophy" for her. She is that type of person that wants everybody to know she is thriving and living her best (insta) life while behind the cam it's a rotten apple. She is the perfect representation of that.
A phenomenal video, but I will add that the idea that black women need to 'learn' from another group of women is a sign that black men need to 'learn' to lead from another group of men. And I'll die on that hill. Failure of a war will always ride back to leadership, and let me ya, we're in a war and have been for a long while now. Undertsanding the level of psychological trauma black people have (particularly black men when it comes to self-imagery, images of the black woman, and images of Africa) is very disturbing. America has made us view each other from the colonizers eyes. And each and every race that got benefits from the civil rights era standing by the false unity of 'people of color', will see us from the colonizers perspective.
I am no victim and I don't root for anyone to hold a victim mentality, but when it comes to questioning the 'valued' black man and why some shun the community entirely, it all comes down to the fear that's been injected into us about us. We stereotype ourselves before an outsider can even attempt to. Also I want to add that when it comes to Jeezy being attracted to asian women he has said that he always liked asian women since he was young, but of course he couldn't bag one until he dropped the hood persona and stopped selling our community poison...and when he did bag one it's literally some white mans leftovers...who was dumb enough to tell the world about her mandingo fetish on national syndicated daytime television with a white mans ring on her finger...responding to three black women.
Also, I'm from the same city as Jeannie and let me tell you right now, everybody here who is not black thinks they people were apart of slavery, that's all I'll say. A lot of hidden racist people are all around California and the bay area rapping, fucking black people, and going to BLM events...
You definitely get it 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Absolutely 💯!!!! I agree with everything you stated
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I disagree. America didn't make us view each other as enemies. There are those of us who don't think in this manner and never have. How do you account for this reality? IMO, black folks abandoned the teachings of previous generations for a ANEW WAY OF THINKING to their own detriment. What I hear is, "we are not capable of thinking for ourselves or shaping our definition of who we are."
When I hear comments like this I wonder if you’ve ever had friends or been around people from other cultures because usually this ain’t the vibe at all. And dating other people who don’t look like you doesn’t equal self hatred or lack of appreciation. If I date a woman from Ethiopia or Algeria they are both African women but look nothing like me and more than likely don’t experience the same anti blackness I have but we’re both African. And this nonsense notion of leadership is flawed af. Unless we physically coerce someone like you would a child you can not make those who do not want to listen follow you. If their cooperation is contingent upon our success and not their willingness to build with us what’s the point. We live in the can’t tell me nothing era of black women. How do you build family and have a home with peace in it if you have millions upon millions of people who won’t resolve their trauma and can’t communicate. We’re just telling black men to suffer for the sake of some fantastical aesthetic
“Does she know how to be bored…” man you are speaking truth and this applies to non-celebrity women/people too
“ You have to evaluate her ability to be bored.” Man, that is a true gem . I’ve always had that at top of my list ; never get involved with a chick that is comfortable running the streets.
FACTS BRO!!
You appear to be very intelligent young man. Very nice to hear your outlook as well as your tactful commentary. Good job!!
I appreciate that!
Excellent analysis brother. Keep up the good work.
Jeezy gave a good lesson to not overly pedestalize because one isnt a BW. Although younger generations tend to know its not much of a difference compared to older generations
Exactly!
I been realized people are gonna always go people.
I love how you mentioned the Reconciliation of Black Marriages. No one wants to do the work.💕💕💕
Can someone PLEEEEASE tell me why this channel is not over 100K. I got up early to watch this video. Great Job Alan, I'm a WNT subscriber for life! ✊🏾
Ayyyyyyyy🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Cause most people OF THIS GENERATION don't know how to tolerate ""MUNDANE MONDAYS......."""
When a man leaves a woman, you know for a fact that he doesn't like her. It's over. She has to be INTOLERABLE for a man to leave
Preached a whole class session with this one.🔥🔥🔥
Teachable Movements 101 😉
102 on the way
Great points and I say some of these things all the time.Blk ppl can’t escape their circumstances but we try very hard to.
You hit a lot of points this society is not ready have an avoid but THANK YOU. I’m not saying these were their experiences but this is definitely the experiences when it comes to race, society, and dating.
Thank you so much 🙏🏿
... Last thing, there are native Asian women from certain areas overseas that are tan, brown, dark brown, and black, one of them I still communicate with. They don't really have the same idea of black culture & white culture as some of us do because most are from homogeneous cultures. Most of them are just curious about outside cultures in general.
Great point. The women of the diaspora are the best in the world. These dudes chasing white, Asian, Indian, etc don’t comprehend that we’re in a cultural competition and giving your finances away to another group is dumb because that “other” female comes equipped with these cultural biases where they look down and loath darker skin. We are the original people and need to clean up whatever’s causing us not to have self respect.
SHALAM BROTHA YOU BROUGHT OUT TRUTH TO WHAT IS HAPPENING NOW WITH BLACKS AND BLACKS AS CELEBRITIES, BEING BORED . EVERYTHING YOUVE SAID 💯
This was an amazing take my brotha.i tell nxggaz this all the time. Stop running to other races just because u THINK it's gonna be greener. Work on urself do ur soul work and you'll attract better women. I did and my girl is blk and amazing. I've dated out and had some crazy azz experiences. I thought similarly and got humbled real quick 😂
It's character over color.. nobody's skin tone is gonna make them treat u better. These weird movements continue to cause division. are we gonna continue dwelling on the problem or work towards solutions? Appreciate the video bro, stay up💯
My brother ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
Calm commentary refreshing 🤍
Great take. Our humanization is trivialized and unfortunately we internalized it. Our bodies are far more valued than our minds.
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If all was good she wouldn't even be asking the question about if her current marriage is her final marriage the fact that she's asking that question is telling me that something is going on in that marriage
Best commentary I’ve seen on this topic, purging out of it the gossip element. For all we know, their contract may have just expired, or this is just the unwritten chapter of ‘Adversity 4 Sale’, as celebrities stay coming out with controversy coincidentally when they have a project out. But learning curves come in many forms. Cute baby though, looking like her daddy.
That baby looks nothing like her daddy.
Duke !!! You have the best relationship commentary. I can’t I I agree with everything but you are a good example of male leadership
I appreciate that!
You drop so many bars!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Preciate you brother!
Great point. I am a beautiful, black woman. We need men like you teach black men out there. They make fun of us for being a woman enough to ask a man to take the lead, and will follow. I’ve been taught how to submit to a man through our grandparents and our parents. You are intelligent, black man. He makes me proud. Keep up the good work. 💜🙏💪🏿
This means alot to me sista 🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️
9:55 I'm 51 damn years old, and you just dropped a JEWEL on me. "The ability to be bored."
to me she was no different than Keisha from the hood, he got him a quote unquote light skin baby with good hair and she will probably get a couple mill in child support.
Keisha! You mean Becky.
“Being the best tap dancer “….that’s real right there!😂🔥
The simple truth is there were red flags and he ignored it because of who she is and what she looks like and being non black. Plenty of times we ignore people’s character because we find them attractive.
Yep. I made that mistake a lot myself when I was younger as well.
It's internalized self hate at the end of the day. Just took him 2yrs to see that
Sounds a little simplistic.
Can you explain how it’s internalized self hate? I see the same type of comment everywhere but no one ever follows up on the meaning behind it.
@@TheAnitdote it’s projection. From the beginning of time men have gone to other lands and procreated with women from other regions. I’d venture to say MOST of the time it has nothing to do with self-hate.
In an African context, my father married my mother who’s from a different tribe… so does he hate himself and his tribe? It makes no sense.
I’m being genuine when I say it’s women who do this out of self-hatred the most, particularly WOC with white guys.
Our issue is our lack of getting back to Yah but it is what it is
Brilliant observation, Sharing! ❤❤❤🙏🏽
Thank you kindly
I agree that because females routinely lie about body count, that it is senseless to ask about it. And yes, there are better questions to ask and mandatory observations to make, surrounding "boredom" among other topics. Yet until forward-thinking men and women re-draw that "line in the sand", demanding virginity (female AND male) as the entry price to marriage, our divorce and dysfunction rates will continue rising. This wanton sex for the sake of sex must stop.
In regards to the opening, I’m going to need rich people to stop projecting their lack of happiness in their wealth onto the rest of us lol. I am fully capable of being at peace in a Rolls-Royce dammit.
Bahaha right! I live very comfortably and more money would make it even better but I’m happy now financially and w/ my husband and our son… I think that’s the point you gotta be happy in life 1st THEN the cash can add to it but it won’t make you happy on its own. that takes self work.
She was one of the hosts of The Real. The show was canceled at least a year ago. This is an interesting listen. Sharing. Keep it up!
He did her a favor … hopefully he comes thru with Monaco’s child support payments timely unlike his other kids. Everyone’s talking about Jeanie’s anger issues when Jeezy has a long history of them, like being arrested for terroristic threats while physicality harming his oldest son .
Miles Davis and also Quincy Jones who also dated white women also went to Europe. The same thing happened to him I believe. I watched the Quincy Jones documentary 🥰.
I’ve gotta check that out 🙌🏿 Quincy was part of the Miles documentary too
If you are a black man and you are not a adult film star, a gangster/rapper or an athlete.... you are starting with a major handicap in most realms.... especially the realm of women.
That’s fundamentally just not true. Who told you that lie?
J Cole - Kenny Lofton
@@Seancarter2010true to a certain extent imo / BW get championed for education and wanting to better themselves - but young black dudes who aren’t a stereotype and don’t have swag are seen as straight up squares . A lot of us have been around non-blk ppl who were damn near disappointed that we weren’t a stereotype like “oh, I thought you were black black “ we get it from everyone where I think it’s easier for sistas to navigate that . Could there ever be a black equivalent show to Big Bang Theory that’s popular , respected & cool ..doubt it..because that’s not how black men are ‘supposed’ to be
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@@PFlaw317 there’s some truth I guess but then I think of men like Donald Glover in Atlanta who don’t fit the stereotype. Also that’s tv in real life I’ve found that when you’re in nerd circles like a college campus most times the girls don’t expect that. Maybe some do but generally that’s not the case
Tbh … when someone tell them who they are , please believe them ! No matter what happened jumping into a marriage for the second time is so not good ! It’s shows that u cannot be alone with urself to do the work that’s needed for that person or anyone else!and no she doesn’t know how to be bored nor just because she’s a celebrity some people can’t just sit the hell down and constantly running from themselves and their issues within ! Much love to ur channel 😊as far as dating out ur race women or men I don’t , however o won’t bash who do .. I just cannot ! ❤
Absolutely great Video.
Once we hit a point (probably late 70s or early 80s) when women made a big push to be equals with men sexually and came with this turn off and on femininity, the relationship world went to shit. From someone who’s been married twice, understand marriage is not meant to be this ball of fun. It can become routine and boring at times with a touch of having to deal with the good and bad of one person forever sprinkled on top. If you can’t find someone ready for this, stick with a good situationship. If they’ve titled themselves “Diva”, “Boss”, “Queen” or say anything about needing to be being “Handled”, RUN.
Excellent video! Thank you!
The answer simple brothas...STAY SiNGLE! Just have "friends".
“B-b-b-but her past shouldn’t matter!!”
Lol I dont think the "black p---s" changed her mind.😂 She's too classy and rich for that childish behavior.
Alot of women avoid having children with men they don't want to be with. Married or not.
And if you were an avid viewer of The Real like I was, you'd see how often she would talk about how Jeezy and her had this emotional and mental connection that she's never had in her previous marriage or relationships. She loved that man on a level more than anyone else (her words). He was the ONLY person who made her secure and confident enough to desire being a mother (childhood trauma), and to believe she'd make a good parent if he was by her side. Alot of women can relate to that.
I think their downfall is more so typical celebrity issues than what some ppl are reaching for. What do yall think?
Damn this was such a balanced and honest comment. Thank you
Bro they want to turn everything into a grand conspiracy lol
Quality content as usual! I respect your point of view because it is pro black and intends to bring bm and bw together. I thought I was pro black but I realize I question it too much within myself these days to truly be pro black. With that being said I see both sides, and you will probably get more pushback then usual on this one lol
Stumbled across this channel and wasn't expecting such a deep dive. Lol Nice work! I work with mostly white women and some Asian women and they are NOT meek and mild. I've also witnessed the interactions of white couples and babeee lol the white women do not mince their words. I can believe every bit of what the Lead Attorney said. WW were some of the most ruthless slave owners. I still remember hearing that actor Christian Slater's wife stabbed his hand with an ice pick during an argument. I do take some issue with the comment about black women being "abrasive" though. I don't agree with that. Anyway, Subscribed.
I agree. I'm a Black woman who grew up in and have worked in predominantly white communities and I feel like anyone who thinks Black women are abrasive, it's because they have not experienced women of other races in their own natural habitats!
😂😂 some of y’all are abrasive. Everything else you said was true tho.
Welcome to the channel! Please checkout some of our other case studies🙏🏿 I’ve always maintained that WW specifically are the most dangerous people on the planet.
It’s true. Honestly some of the b*itchiest women I’ve come across in my profession have been Asian.
I like how men lie and say things like “to save her feelings, I’mma make her think that she broke up with me”. 😂Instead of just being honest about still wanting to be the good guy in the end. Which doesn’t really work cause you’re behaving in ways that she has no choice but to break up with you, painting you as the bad guy anyways
That’s what struck you first and foremost from this entire video? 🤔
You are damaged and there is no amount of therapy that can heal you. You are the Narcissist and ego maniac people must avoid.
Ding! ding!....find a person that can handle being bored
Im confused by the analysis by everyone. No one knows anything about why he did it.
I agree
Thank you. This is the brick lady nonsense all over again where people project their thoughts about black men onto a situation they have absolutely no clue about
Facts. The reasoning is key
Lol you don’t ? He had two baby mommas before …..
Narrative pushing. It’s lucrative to push narratives to women and generally speaking Black people.
EXCELLENT commentary!
New sub
Welcome 🙏🏿
Your commentary is very interesting. I just want to add that Jeannie Mai wasn’t attracted to Jeezy because of his Black pen**s. If that’s all she wanted, then she would have stayed with White men because she prefers “White meat 🍖.” Jeezy gave her the wealth, money 💰 and fame that she failed to find with a White man.
I hope Jeezy’s prenup wins in the end I hope he gets joint custody of their daughter. Lastly, Asian women and White women are tired of being stereotyped as docile, submissive man-pleasers by Black men. That’s so untrue. Similarly, American Black women are tired of being the only women who are stereotyped as masculine, bossy, and combative. These stereotypes make Black men sound like White Supremacists. The random Black women I meet in public are polite, friendly and courteous. If men are only meeting domineering, abusive or combative Black women, they need to change where and how they meet Black women.
Excuse me, Eve was in that world , she knows how those rappers are. She did not want that for herself ok!! These rappers ain't shit ! She knew that, so she moved on . So leave her alone! She seems to be happy! She's been married for a while. Black men step up, do better, those who are not gay!!1✊ a lot of brothers in the industry are on the down low !
Very concise analysis bro
Thank you brother!
Women hate it when their man no longer wants them
Great thoughts all around!
Brotha you are making a really good point about potentially exchanging one set of problems for another, in terms of dating and marrying outside the race. What complicates things is a typical man's choice between the lesser of 2 evils. I think if a discerning man could find a better situation than women who express in word and action that they don't need you, why not?
It's 2023, all races of women are saying they don't need a man. Want and need are totally different. Most women don't ascribe to "needing" a man unless she is struggling financially or poverty-stricken.
@MT-yx5cu Facts. 3 questions though
1) Who is the most vocal about not needing a man?
2) If you feel the overwhelming need to express not needing a man to men with no prompting, might that not suggest that you might be more invested in the idea that men are not that valuable?
3) Are there other places in the world where culturally women are encouraged to value men?
@@alc4864Your setting yourself up to struggle in relationships young man..
Don't let these spaces corrupt your mind...
@melinatedvessel6840 If your true intention was to try to be helpful or constructively contribute to this, why would you take time out to respond and not even slightly attempt to elaborate?
The timing. All in the midst of the "passport bro" movement. All racism is subconscious. It's never overt anymore.
Every host of that show is a headache in their own right. No way he didn't see the signs. Just watch any ten minutes of the show.
They’re human beings.
@@MiamiPush2theLimit The hell does that even mean? They ain't victims, snowflake.
17:27 - Eve didn't evolve. She devolved. She was raised in a 2 parent home. She was rebellious at 18. Became a stripper (for a month). Became a rapper. Became an actress. Had success. Realized what she really wanted was what she had growing up and was beautiful and young enough to get it.
Eve's parents were firmly middle class and she spent her teenage years in the Germantown neighborhood of (outer) Philly. 86% of the people who live in Germantown are white collar workers. That's not the hood.
I didn't know that but this is VITAL!!!
This whole thing was wired from the start, yes you have to be happy above anytin but why did they both even bother to get married so all that has been wasted. Shmmmmmmm everyone must not be married
I keep reading and hearing about how she has a really nasty/bad attitude. The irony 😅
Can someone refer a video that further explains the Peter Pan idea that Alan always refers to?
The premise of Peter Pan is the desire to never grow up.
Bruh.. you already know what I'm going to say. 👉🏿 Keep up the good work.
Preciate you fam ✊🏿
Great video. All that glitters isnt gold
Black Woman are not abrasive. We are direct and tell Men what we expect, that way you know what to do to please us. Some day you will be sorry to have someone who doesn't speak up like we do. It will be to late. " Give me what I want and I will leave. " That's what the DEVIL said in STORM OF THE CENTURY. "
You wouldn't appreciate it if someone said "Black women are [insert negative stereotype]. All you are doing is stereotyping black women. I've dated black women who claim they tell it like it is but when the rubber meets the road they are afraid to speak up in the relationship. If this was true there would be so many BW in horrible relationships just tolerating bullshit.
Wow... the level of reach in this analysis is next level. I agree that dating another ethnic group is not an auto matic no need to think about it gurantee. Nothing in life is ever like that. However, the apeing of Dr. Umar's talking points contradicts with the idea of simply applying proper vetting. Apply proper vetting if that vetting yields a woman from another ethinicity. Take the gift god gave you and do not look a gift horse in the mouth.
Amen amen amen
Bro what do you expect are people are silly always reaching for narratives instead of applying common sense to things.
@@McStrokeAvision Didnt expect that here
Awesome video ‼️🔥
At first I didn't agree but now that I kept listening I do but I still believe in passport but for the right reason
I dont feel bad for Jennie for one thing she kinda asked for both of her failed marriage..She shouldn't marry outside of her race due to so many differences among them with everything else..It's tough to last the relationship that way...
Welll dayum! Do u see another one??? Thats crazy I would have Nvr asked that!
You brave for putting that playboy pic in this vid lol
I t goes both ways! He has to honor and respect her as well!! Look at Geezy he has how many babies and baby mama's? I don't think it's the women. I think it's him!!
Nobody is perfect or has the perfect life.
Dr. Frances Cress Welsing
Your 100% correct
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No body should be Bored! Always something to do or learn! Lol🙄🤨🙀
Also it's okay to Rest or Even Do Nothing , Detox ....But BORED YOU should Never Be! Like I said. Always something to Do or Learn, Volunteer, create,! 🌹🥂🤔
At this point I’d rather go to sleep and not wake up. So sick of this fr fr. It’s just depressing.
Hope you okay man. Try not to feel overwhelmed by this it’s only one perspective.
A random celebrity couple makes you not want to live? What on earth is going on? Don’t you know Hollywood is a stage?😊
If there’s one thing for damn sure…
Get with a black American and you are sure to become a single mother ‼️💯💯💯💯💯
Solid video...my only comment is that you can make a case that BW fetishize BM just like the other races of women do. Those reasons you pointed out as to why other women like BM is " swag" in tne black community.
Very true!
The same few archetypes of BM are fetishised by both BW and non BW.
That’s why when a non-BW marries one of the athletes or rappers it causes huge commotion. Meanwhile if a Jordan Peele type of guy gets married to a non-BW, you won’t hear as much about it.
Exactly...which leads to the most interesting realization for bm. You're unlikely to find real love/care anywhere as a bm so you must pick your poison.
I am not sorry for jeezy, he now have different baby mothers, and the other races will still put him in a class , weather he have money or not .
bars 💯💯💯
Well said..
Jeezy had babies with all those black women and he didn't marry any of them. He left them to marry Jeannie Mai.
What does that say about him? We need to STOP Defending these men as if they are saints.
Jeezy is NOT HUSBAND Material. Look at all those baby mama's 😮😮🤐🤨
Does that mean those baby mama's weren't wife material?
Jeannie Mai and Angela from 90 Day are not docile OR weak.
You’re right and that was the point.
I missed your point because it wasn’t clearly articulated. At least from the commentary and editing at that part around 8:12 showing a picture of Angela and stating that these white/obese women are “docile and weak” .
@@jordosara my point was despite the truth of white and asian women, they have maintained a macro brand of docile and week. I was highlighting the irony.
I would submit that he didn’t really care about longevity of the marriage.
I would submit that neither of them really care or will be depressed for very long before the next person enters both of their lives
Women are not interested in a long term relationship that does not provide them something tangible when it's over.... 20:20
...Also, Asian women that grew up in America are not at all in comparison to Asian women born& raised in Asia. I lived overseas for almost 4 years so I experienced what it's like. And I plan to go back.
100% true..Asian women grew úp in America are westernized asian women .Asian women in Asia are asian women . Two completely different mentalities..
Especially since most Asian women in a decent position in their respective societies will not marry a black man.
That’s a fact but please understand that due to the internet, any woman can display any behaviour.
And also understand that the women who are VERY traditional don’t tend to date outside their race/date foreigners, that goes against most traditions.
Speak 🙏🏾
Europe, Vietnam and East Asia aren't better than the United States in some aspects. Almost every single nonblack or mixed-race society in modern times is veered one way or another against African people and its Diaspora.
Jeannie Mae's abbhorent fetishist views about black men are not just shaped by American white supremacy... dark coloured people _used_ to populate East Asia and Indochina too, a millenia ago. Whom to Jeezy, his fault to marrying someome who spoke about black men the way Jeannie Mae spoke to.
I like the brothers content, but sitting around talking to black women who don't want to listen can't be the answer either and saying find a woman who does may include dating out , Jenni was not a good choice but other Asian might be.
Well well said
#Jeezy forgot the lessons of the ghetto: ‘Neva eat YELLOW Snoë, mãne!’ Pass that wonton to the more qualified like me.
lol