Yeah he’s not taking my kids anywhere and they don’t know him and feel comfortable with him. We aren’t talking about taking them across town and bringing them back the same day. He’s all the way in another country. No ma’am!
I think it's not totally wrong to want him to get to know them individually first, then allow them to meet their sisters. Let them get to know you first, then they'll be comfortable wherever he takes them and that makes sense.
Setting boundaries because he doesn’t want her isn’t the same you telling him how to parent when she laid up there having sex with her ex boyfriends friend her Kharma deal with it! He still don’t want her and she’s bitter
Yes there are I said that in the video yes men as well but, selective hearing is a thing as well don’t hear only the part you agree with. Can we leave the black community out of it I’m sure blacks aren’t the only ones dealing with this.
How is she being bitter for not letting her kids go alone with a man who’s abandoned them? Make that make sense. I would never let my child go with a man they’ve barely seen. But I guess we got different view points. He needs to show he can parent first before he can take the kids anyway! If you’ve watched past episodes then babies don’t know that man! Amara is 100% correct and you’re buggin!
If you hate Shay just say that! That man does not want to be around any of his kids. If he did he would have never left his first baby momma for SHAY! I’m starting not to like this channel! Just give us the tea without your opinions!
I didn't trust my kids around my ex husband gf's because my kids said that one of them was mean to them. I'm sorry, he definitely wasn't taking my kids to another country. #Sorrynotsorry.
I don’t agree with women agreeing to deal with men that have other women/wives and then act like the children can’t be around their siblings. In sone cases you may not need to have your kids around other women if there are issues. I don’t find that bitter.
Both women had babies by men that were in a relationship with another woman. Both women went from not having any kids, to having kids with men who weren't in a committed relationship with them. Meaning the babies will be raised in a household with a single mother. Why⁉️ WHY⁉️ I just don't understand that‼️
I don't think them man have the right to show them kids to the other kids yet because just like amda said get to know these kids first I agree don't let them men have there way
I'm trying to understand exactly what she saw in this man? He doesn't work, doesn't take care of his daughter, unfaithful, lives in your house..what is he bringing? A smile? lol
i totally agree 💯 women who do this don’t love there kids, they more focused about there feelings knowing dame well they decided to have kids by this men that’s already in a relationship.. putting there kids in a traumatic unstable environment.. that’s soo disgusting too me women having kids by married men, your kids will never fully respects you no matter how much love you gave them..
Shy hurt and these men mess up their chances she was willing to still deal with a broke ass and now she hurt she have to get over the hurt first before she thinking straight
If they truly have the children’s’ best interest at heart then I see nothing wrong with it. However, if it’s on some revenge type stuff then I disagree. My brother & his ex wife didn’t work out & she is keeping my niece from my entire family because of it. I haven’t seen my niece since she turned 4 & she will be 16 in 2 months. Women who do this are just sad because they don’t realize that they are really hurting the child more than anyone else in the situation.
Cause she still wants to be with him she black mailing him with his on daughter that's a shame cause he don't want to be with her girl bye you a shame you should be happy he leaving cause he use you girl you a fool
Yeah he’s not taking my kids anywhere and they don’t know him and feel comfortable with him. We aren’t talking about taking them across town and bringing them back the same day. He’s all the way in another country. No ma’am!
@@Stormy12u right a whole nother country
Ikr.
I wouldn't trust that man with my kids. In a whole different country.
Nope‼️
I think it's not totally wrong to want him to get to know them individually first, then allow them to meet their sisters. Let them get to know you first, then they'll be comfortable wherever he takes them and that makes sense.
Amara knew he was married
They are keeping these men away because they are bitter that the men don't want them 😂😂
He should not take those babies that far ...are they potty trained?....?he is a man and will be tending their different personal needs.....
No way...
Not all men are like that… but you might be right about him
She’s not wrong. Get to know them first then introduce them. She is not bitter for that. Shay is bitter. Happy New Year
*Shay bitter, Amara setting boundaries "PERIOD"*
Setting boundaries because he doesn’t want her isn’t the same you telling him how to parent when she laid up there having sex with her ex boyfriends friend her Kharma deal with it! He still don’t want her and she’s bitter
No she's trying to let him back in their lives. She just try to take her time cause he. Hasn't been around.
There’s plenty of bitter baby daddies out here. Only in the black community the mother is blamed & yet is the parent that stayed & stepped up: smh
Yes there are I said that in the video yes men as well but, selective hearing is a thing as well don’t hear only the part you agree with. Can we leave the black community out of it I’m sure blacks aren’t the only ones dealing with this.
Amara & Shay wouldn’t have these restrictions regarding their kids if both men were still with them
Am so disappointed in Amara she should be in the studio …..what a talent going to waste
How is she being bitter for not letting her kids go alone with a man who’s abandoned them? Make that make sense. I would never let my child go with a man they’ve barely seen. But I guess we got different view points. He needs to show he can parent first before he can take the kids anyway! If you’ve watched past episodes then babies don’t know that man! Amara is 100% correct and you’re buggin!
If you hate Shay just say that! That man does not want to be around any of his kids. If he did he would have never left his first baby momma for SHAY! I’m starting not to like this channel! Just give us the tea without your opinions!
IT'S ABOUT TIME SHY I AM PROUD OF YOUR DECISSION 🙏🌹💖
I didn't trust my kids around my ex husband gf's because my kids said that one of them was mean to them.
I'm sorry, he definitely wasn't taking my kids to another country.
#Sorrynotsorry.
The problem is that these ppl never think about the babies.
🤦🏿♀️
I don’t agree with women agreeing to deal with men that have other women/wives and then act like the children can’t be around their siblings. In sone cases you may not need to have your kids around other women if there are issues. I don’t find that bitter.
its bitter
I think she make good sense, she throught she new him but she don't so I d ok nt blame her like she said he haven't seen him in eight months
U can tell Amara is acting😂😂
Thank you Jesus I’m so tired of this ladies we still luv our kids we just not on that w you anymore 💯
Both women had babies by men that were in a relationship with another woman.
Both women went from not having any kids, to having kids with men who weren't in a committed relationship with them. Meaning the babies will be raised in a household with a single mother.
Why⁉️
WHY⁉️
I just don't understand that‼️
It’s ridiculous. They thought they was doing something by sleeping with married dudes.
He doesn’t know those children at all. He does need to get to know them a little better. Two things can be true at the same time.
I don't think them man have the right to show them kids to the other kids yet because just like amda said get to know these kids first I agree don't let them men have there way
🎉happy new yearrr
Well whn mama D had scrappy end of engagement party she was sitting there waiting to eat cake … wht goes round comes round
Yes he does get to know the twins before he wants to take them on a family trip
I'm trying to understand exactly what she saw in this man? He doesn't work, doesn't take care of his daughter, unfaithful, lives in your house..what is he bringing? A smile? lol
Happy new year 🎆🎊
i totally agree 💯 women who do this don’t love there kids, they more focused about there feelings knowing dame well they decided to have kids by this men that’s already in a relationship.. putting there kids in a traumatic unstable environment.. that’s soo disgusting too me women having kids by married men, your kids will never fully respects you no matter how much love you gave them..
Happy New Year everyone!!!!!
I’m team Shay even tho she makes bad choices in men I still like her.. n I do wish for the best for all of them.. super hot mess tho
I know Shay put her all into that relationship .. I know she’s HURT
amara is listening to her mother thats whyyyy
Exactly
Shy hurt and these men mess up their chances she was willing to still deal with a broke ass and now she hurt she have to get over the hurt first before she thinking straight
If they truly have the children’s’ best interest at heart then I see nothing wrong with it. However, if it’s on some revenge type stuff then I disagree. My brother & his ex wife didn’t work out & she is keeping my niece from my entire family because of it. I haven’t seen my niece since she turned 4 & she will be 16 in 2 months. Women who do this are just sad because they don’t realize that they are really hurting the child more than anyone else in the situation.
he aint 💩 😂 so why not celebrate
He hasn't seen the girls in 8mo
Putting young hands on him because your bitter I guess
very bitter and very dumb 😂
Cause she still wants to be with him she black mailing him with his on daughter that's a shame cause he don't want to be with her girl bye you a shame you should be happy he leaving cause he use you girl you a fool
*Buttttt Amara still in love with Alan🤦🤷 It's a little jealousy*