Brriii!!! Girrrllll when you captioned "BORN A LOVER GIRL FORCED TO BE A STRONG BLACK WOMAN"!!! BAABBYYY!!! When I tell you, you read my life! But in the woods of Nothing ass men you'll find your one.. Somewhere.. In the meantime grow yourself spiritually mentally physically, grow your brand, love on yourself. After my nothing ass ex I stayed single for 2 years (yeah I had play toys but they were just like him so I didn't take them serious) But I was grinding, living and enjoying life, until I accidentally met my now husband.. So for now just chill and be Bri!
I literally have been having this conversation for the past few days. It seems like Black women have very few options when it comes to dating Black men. It's either be single or be a doormat. Thank you for letting me know I'm not the only one feeling this way. Our time will come!
You know what it really wasn't until I went and got my hair done (vlog coming soon) and I was talking to my hair dresser that I genuinely realized this loneliness and feeling like okay I guess I'm not WORTH being chosen isn't just unique to me
This video came right on time! You confirmed SO many things that I’ve saying I wanted to change in my life. I’m a 33-yr-old single mom and just like you, I’m ALWAYS getting ghosted. Always having guys make me feel like they want more just to get sex then after that I’m either ghosted or they don’t want anything serious. I’ve also made the decision to stop dating. I also deleted dating apps off my phone and decided to focus on myself and my body. I no longer want to have soul ties with the wrong people. I’ve completely taken myself out of the equation of dating and just ready to be obedient and wait til God sends me my husband. Like literally EVERYTHING you’ve said in this video matches the energy and decisions I’ve made for myself!! ❤️❤️
@@HeyItsBri I never thought about it like that but I completely agree now that you put it that way. I can admit I do fall fast bc I’m a lover. I have a genuine heart and I feel ppl take advantage of that since and I love hard.
I'm a man, so my experience is quite different from yours, but I think what you said toward the middle of the video about different "seasons" in life is good advice. It's important not to miss out on living life by investing too much energy into something that just might not be in God's good time for you yet. But I also think that too much pursuit of luxury and material things will make it harder to find a partner who doesn't view you as a prize or commodity. People who pursue luxury are thinking too often about the pursuit of commodities that it can be difficult to suddenly switch to a new mode of thinking (love and sacrifice for another) when dating. It's not impossible, I just think people who are able to do that are rare. I think even if you make a lot of money, living a simple life focused on material necessities and spending more time on experiences (and do some hard things!) can go a long way toward feeling happy and more fulfilled. It has worked for me at any rate, though mileage may vary!
Hey bree, I just subscribed after watching your deadbeat dad storytime because it resonated with me. I’m in my twenties as well and find myself in the same situation when it comes to my dating life. I feel like I totally relate to you and feel like I’m not the only one going through similar stuff you’ve been through. Honestly im working on my self so that the right man will come along.
Rejection really is gods protection eveytime a guy I find cute or think is decent isn’t attracted to me god shows me later that even if they were attracted to me that they aren’t even the man for me some shit happened recently and I literally was sad until I remembered your line and I was like this is god protecting me rn
@@joshuaguerrier7392 like with the increase of murders and abuse men in our community old and young have been doing to black women recently you really think ima take advice from one of you?😂😂😂😂y’all some walking demons you can’t even control your emotions around women you think ima allow you to deter and control the path god has chosen for me 🤣yeah no not gonna work nice try though🥺
@@joshuaguerrier7392it’s like you barely read anything I said regardless I was showed later that it wouldn’t have worked even if they were and that’s fine that’s life 😂and God is there for you to lean on him you evil spirits and demons just be talking sometimes don’t even make any sense
@@joshuaguerrier7392idk why some black men are so damn miserable but I pray that you can release yourself of those evil spirits and actually get to live a happy life someday I can’t imagine living my one life mad at the world mad at the opposite gender just mad 🥺such a terrible way to live
I literally just went through the most craziest shit ever just YESTERDAY and it revolves a lot around this video… I definitely needed to see this… I’m lowkey scared God really made you put video out after the day I had yesterday it’s wild… we are damn near living the same fucking life it’s crazy
you know what be gagging me...like i really start feeling bad about myself and when I upload a video it really puts things into perspective like girl you are not the ONLY person on the planet trying to navigate not only the emotions i discussed in this video but LIFE IN GENERAL. Like this shit really keeps me grounded fr I can't explain it
Oh she straight preachin ! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 that on screen commentary was on point too fr fr Shxt had me hype 😂 Happy fourth to everyone who celebrates it. 😊 Ik I don’t lmao ✊🏾
I couldn't have came upon not only your youtube but your words of adviceee thank you for alwaya pushing to provide us with videos i love every single video of yurs i am a new subscriber but i wish i would have came upon you sooner 😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰
Well Beyonce and Jay z Kim and Kanye those celebrities all are just business relationships in real life we will be power couples. I just stop looking up to celebrities for examples for anything 😂❤❤❤
Jezebel spirit needs to be overcame by Jesus. Dont potray lust to the world, potray godliness. Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤️ Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️ Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
Brriii!!! Girrrllll when you captioned "BORN A LOVER GIRL FORCED TO BE A STRONG BLACK WOMAN"!!! BAABBYYY!!! When I tell you, you read my life! But in the woods of Nothing ass men you'll find your one.. Somewhere.. In the meantime grow yourself spiritually mentally physically, grow your brand, love on yourself. After my nothing ass ex I stayed single for 2 years (yeah I had play toys but they were just like him so I didn't take them serious) But I was grinding, living and enjoying life, until I accidentally met my now husband.. So for now just chill and be Bri!
The dating market is just terrible in general 😂😢😅I pray for us all
I literally have been having this conversation for the past few days. It seems like Black women have very few options when it comes to dating Black men. It's either be single or be a doormat. Thank you for letting me know I'm not the only one feeling this way. Our time will come!
You know what it really wasn't until I went and got my hair done (vlog coming soon) and I was talking to my hair dresser that I genuinely realized this loneliness and feeling like okay I guess I'm not WORTH being chosen isn't just unique to me
Why only look for black men? Date whoever you connect with regardless of race.
BAE YOU ATE SO BAD WITH THIS ONEEEEEE cause i definitely needed to hear this! im excited to see you elevate into who you are meant to be🤍
You basically confirmed every single thing I needed to hear. You always think your alone until you a lot of us is going through the same thing 😅❤
You don’t need to find a man…
You need to find yourself
Attraction to losers will stop once you can win and keep winning (according to your level of success) all on your own, by yourself.
The makeup is givinggg 😍 Love the nails too 💛
wait till you see my new set 🤭😍
This was motivational asf girl like literally spoke energy to me
This video came right on time! You confirmed SO many things that I’ve saying I wanted to change in my life. I’m a 33-yr-old single mom and just like you, I’m ALWAYS getting ghosted. Always having guys make me feel like they want more just to get sex then after that I’m either ghosted or they don’t want anything serious.
I’ve also made the decision to stop dating. I also deleted dating apps off my phone and decided to focus on myself and my body. I no longer want to have soul ties with the wrong people. I’ve completely taken myself out of the equation of dating and just ready to be obedient and wait til God sends me my husband.
Like literally EVERYTHING you’ve said in this video matches the energy and decisions I’ve made for myself!! ❤️❤️
i have this theory…i feel like it’s harder to manipulate you when you take love off the table 🤔
@@HeyItsBri I never thought about it like that but I completely agree now that you put it that way. I can admit I do fall fast bc I’m a lover. I have a genuine heart and I feel ppl take advantage of that since and I love hard.
I'm a man, so my experience is quite different from yours, but I think what you said toward the middle of the video about different "seasons" in life is good advice. It's important not to miss out on living life by investing too much energy into something that just might not be in God's good time for you yet.
But I also think that too much pursuit of luxury and material things will make it harder to find a partner who doesn't view you as a prize or commodity. People who pursue luxury are thinking too often about the pursuit of commodities that it can be difficult to suddenly switch to a new mode of thinking (love and sacrifice for another) when dating. It's not impossible, I just think people who are able to do that are rare.
I think even if you make a lot of money, living a simple life focused on material necessities and spending more time on experiences (and do some hard things!) can go a long way toward feeling happy and more fulfilled. It has worked for me at any rate, though mileage may vary!
they way i was just crying over a sneaky link last night 💔💔 this video was very much needed #notmyseason
Hey bree, I just subscribed after watching your deadbeat dad storytime because it resonated with me. I’m in my twenties as well and find myself in the same situation when it comes to my dating life. I feel like I totally relate to you and feel like I’m not the only one going through similar stuff you’ve been through. Honestly im working on my self so that the right man will come along.
We gotta tap back in to our Nicki and Rihanna energy!!!
Rejection really is gods protection eveytime a guy I find cute or think is decent isn’t attracted to me god shows me later that even if they were attracted to me that they aren’t even the man for me some shit happened recently and I literally was sad until I remembered your line and I was like this is god protecting me rn
Or it was simply they wasnt attracted to you and you are just using God as an excuse to cope.You weren’t desired by the men you wanted.
@@joshuaguerrier7392 yuck 😂is this your mindset all the time you must be miserable
@@joshuaguerrier7392 like with the increase of murders and abuse men in our community old and young have been doing to black women recently you really think ima take advice from one of you?😂😂😂😂y’all some walking demons you can’t even control your emotions around women you think ima allow you to deter and control the path god has chosen for me 🤣yeah no not gonna work nice try though🥺
@@joshuaguerrier7392it’s like you barely read anything I said regardless I was showed later that it wouldn’t have worked even if they were and that’s fine that’s life 😂and God is there for you to lean on him you evil spirits and demons just be talking sometimes don’t even make any sense
@@joshuaguerrier7392idk why some black men are so damn miserable but I pray that you can release yourself of those evil spirits and actually get to live a happy life someday I can’t imagine living my one life mad at the world mad at the opposite gender just mad 🥺such a terrible way to live
I literally just went through the most craziest shit ever just YESTERDAY and it revolves a lot around this video… I definitely needed to see this… I’m lowkey scared God really made you put video out after the day I had yesterday it’s wild… we are damn near living the same fucking life it’s crazy
you know what be gagging me...like i really start feeling bad about myself and when I upload a video it really puts things into perspective like girl you are not the ONLY person on the planet trying to navigate not only the emotions i discussed in this video but LIFE IN GENERAL. Like this shit really keeps me grounded fr I can't explain it
Thank you for talking about that !! 🌸🌸😮💨😮💨 always good videos ideas 💗 keep it going girl !!! 💋💋
Omg this just confirmed everything that I needed to hear 😢 sad but true
Oh she straight preachin ! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 that on screen commentary was on point too fr fr
Shxt had me hype 😂
Happy fourth to everyone who celebrates it. 😊
Ik I don’t lmao ✊🏾
Bri I’m on that same stuff. I just got out of a relationship and I am focusing on me!!
Men want what they are attracted to first, but smart Men want women who add value to their life too.
22:03 🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️ HELLO?! There it is. 💯 keep that mentality.
Ohhh how i needed to hear this… this was confirmation…
I couldn't have came upon not only your youtube but your words of adviceee thank you for alwaya pushing to provide us with videos i love every single video of yurs i am a new subscriber but i wish i would have came upon you sooner
😍😍🥰🥰🥰🥰
I clicked dumb fast😂
And did 😭😂
@@Lena-998 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The ratio is not in our favor in this country (there’s way more blk women than men compared to other races) especially in LA
Women have to stop feening for love
Facts and self love
Omg I needed this so bad !!!
Well Beyonce and Jay z Kim and Kanye those celebrities all are just business relationships in real life we will be power couples. I just stop looking up to celebrities for examples for anything 😂❤❤❤
okay well that’s YOU but me…
@@HeyItsBri they just have disappointed me
Exactly where I’m at too! I want a partner but don’t want to settle
Period sis every word you said
Just stay single. Nobody wants relationships. Dating and relationships = Pain for both men and women.
Only if you're dealing with the wrong people.
7:54 This is so real. I’m going through the same shit smh.
Your so right ❤❤❤
2015 intro and video style still killing me lmaooo 😂😂
just say you wanna kiss me Mr. Critical Black Man…see you in your dreams daddy 💋
@@HeyItsBri - You're so stagnant ,it's embarrassing . How haven't you progressed after all these years? I have to chuckle . Very odd specimen😂
@@HeyItsBriGIRL YOU MADE ME SPIT UP MY DRINK 😂😂😂
The dating pool is a Chernobyl sewage dump.
I truly wish this video was longer.
don't worry this is actually a something i'm currently going through so i'ma talk about it again in another one
I love you 🌹🌹🌹
Jezebel spirit needs to be overcame by Jesus.
Dont potray lust to the world, potray godliness.
Jesus is the way the truth and the life. No one can go to the Father except through him.❤️
Knowing Jesus is knowing peace, protection and provision ❤️
Jesus saves, Jesus heals and Jesus grants peace
It will be your turn once you give your life to Christ
hahaha this comment so 60yr old coded
How many f****** relationships you don't have