DATING ADVICE - Stop Fearing Rejection...

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  • Опубліковано 30 лис 2024

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  • @CrystalSicily
    @CrystalSicily 3 роки тому +265

    Stop saying "I hope he likes me" Start thinking "I hope I like him" You're the PRIZE!

  • @prettypeachwoodson5295
    @prettypeachwoodson5295 3 роки тому +149

    My motto is "Rejection is most often, God's Protection."

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 3 роки тому +72

    Thank you MJ! I needed this. Was talking to a guy for two months. We finally met up everything seems great then he ghosted me. I was confused but like they say.. rejection is Gods protection!

    • @JM-ip1es
      @JM-ip1es 3 роки тому +13

      If he’s grown and ghosting, he’s immature and lack communication skills.. that definitely was protection ❤️💯

    • @shawneamarrow4082
      @shawneamarrow4082 3 роки тому +1

      Maybe he thought you were a catfish maybe you slept with him and he didn’t like it not always a case from god

    • @shutit4024
      @shutit4024 3 роки тому +4

      @@shawneamarrow4082 doubt it

  • @clairejoseph9398
    @clairejoseph9398 3 роки тому +31

    'feelings are not always fact, theyre just feelings.. let your mind speak' - Note to self

  • @MandyAliens
    @MandyAliens 3 роки тому +60

    This mans advice is golden take it.👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @canwejustloveeachother2550
    @canwejustloveeachother2550 3 роки тому +36

    Even if I reject someone, it's okay. That doesn't mean anything is wrong with me for rejecting them. They really may not be my type. We don't all like each other--even with fully knowing you. We aren't all meant to be with everyone

  • @pallysupatra
    @pallysupatra Рік тому +3

    "When a man thinks he's less than you, he's right" I'm writing this down on my post-it.

  • @rightway4113
    @rightway4113 Рік тому +1

    MJ, you have helped me cry through some of my deep seeded emotional pain. Thank you! May God bless your life in 10 folds

  • @terina2969
    @terina2969 Рік тому +1

    Just simply touch Ur toes for as long as U can MJ😘👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

  • @72soccergirl1
    @72soccergirl1 3 роки тому +26

    MJ you are such a beautiful human being. Beautiful heart, mind and looks. I am so thankful in your sharing with all of us. ❤️😘

  • @jbaby4655
    @jbaby4655 3 роки тому +22

    My heart needed this on a level you couldn’t fully understand. I just want to say thank you so much for this video. Because I have been in a pain I couldn’t even comprehend. But this made me look at things differently. I’m not saying I’m up and laying in a new mans bed . But I’ve lifted my head up and smiled . ❤️❤️😘😘

  • @joannadziokan3267
    @joannadziokan3267 3 роки тому +11

    about threesomes - you can do that as fun and not part of your long-term relationship. couples who say 'we wanna spice things up and we trust each other' split up shortly after. most of the time one person forces the other one to do it. there is a lot of manipulation involved. don't fall for it. you should be enough for one person.

  • @terina2969
    @terina2969 Рік тому +1

    Yep we love U Cuz U love U, & Ur Funny as hell🥰🤍💋💯💯💯👍🏾

  • @introvertedspirit
    @introvertedspirit 3 роки тому +16

    When you said they were in your inbox saying “get in here, get in here” I lost it!!!! 😂😂😂 (gtf away from me)! 😂😂

  • @leahperry1090
    @leahperry1090 3 роки тому +5

    You are so smart and insightful MJ. Every time I watch one of your videos, I have to reevaluate how I react to certain situations and how I have allowed words people have said to me to affect me personally. What you talk about applies to people who are not necessarily dating but for any type of a relationship.

  • @dalilah180
    @dalilah180 3 роки тому +5

    Girl it's the transparency for me. I love that about you.

  • @vkngwmn6636
    @vkngwmn6636 3 роки тому +2

    You kill me, hysterical!!...yet you're like my mom or auntie with your advice...wisdom of ages...

  • @katherineturner8634
    @katherineturner8634 Рік тому +1

    MJ I think he was looking for acceptance from you without getting his feelings hurt, I think that's why he came back later. I agree if you don't want me, just move on, no coming back later.

  • @winxclubstellamusa
    @winxclubstellamusa 3 роки тому +22

    How to make friends as a 24 year old in a new city??? People always think I’m flirting.

    • @marilynj4504
      @marilynj4504 3 роки тому +13

      Honestly the best thing for me has been a new hobby where you get to see the same people on a regular basis: your local gym, or any fitness center, dance classes, etc. :)

    • @canwejustloveeachother2550
      @canwejustloveeachother2550 3 роки тому +5

      And don't force anything. Friendships happen naturally

    • @winxclubstellamusa
      @winxclubstellamusa 3 роки тому +3

      @@canwejustloveeachother2550 that’s the key point that no one says!! I had to learn it the hard way. Thank you for reminding me. But I’m still looking for ways to make it more probable to occur since it’s something I’ve always struggled with.

  • @Artfeiver
    @Artfeiver Рік тому

    MJ I love you so much....I'm trying so hard to love myself, to see my worth. To feel like I deserve it and I'm here to learn from you, because no one around can't seem to understand me. You tell me everything I need to hear to at least try.

  • @kagrra007
    @kagrra007 3 роки тому +11

    Game drops at 10:28. I love it ❤️

  • @marthastanley-to6yd
    @marthastanley-to6yd Рік тому

    You are so real and with the truth that it is so funny I enjoy listening to you

  • @lisaaustin2699
    @lisaaustin2699 3 роки тому +3

    MJ you always make me smile and bring me back to reality of how we need to carry ourselves and remember who we are!!

  • @briannaspeezy4258
    @briannaspeezy4258 3 роки тому +9

    Get rejected is like a sales call. How many no’s I need to get that yes!!!! NEXT.. Keep cold calling. Lol. JK.

  • @MoGravy90
    @MoGravy90 Рік тому +1

    I’m really glad I found your channel ❤ I’m a new subscriber and I enjoy your storytelling and advice! Love your content boo❤

  • @purposedpatience6597
    @purposedpatience6597 3 роки тому +17

    Chile you don’t need no makeup 😘

  • @lagloria864
    @lagloria864 3 роки тому +2

    MJ you are the real deal! We got everything we need!... Now move on! I love when you said, The feelings of rejection are self inflicted! I let my mouth speak not my feelings!" Feelings are not always FACTS!!"
    MJ, your validation on the others feelings are on point!

  • @chartreuse7713
    @chartreuse7713 3 роки тому +4

    Mj you have the most beautiful smile! Your happiness shines from the inside out💖

  • @thems.harrisshow2160
    @thems.harrisshow2160 3 роки тому +11

    Hey MJ i love watching u!!

  • @travelnurseneenee
    @travelnurseneenee 3 роки тому +3

    we love you mj! ❤️ thank you for the words of encouragement

  • @Elaine-ee1eh
    @Elaine-ee1eh 3 роки тому +2

    He said put on a. 😂 smile and take the photo! You a public figure! 👏🏾👏🏾

  • @msxxxpixxie4273
    @msxxxpixxie4273 2 роки тому +1

    We neeeeeed more like this ! 😘💯❤️🥰😍I know I do

  • @Tommy-hy1ob
    @Tommy-hy1ob Рік тому

    I’m a straight guy, but I listen to his content. I apply it to my life 😂.

  • @vanarsdelproductions
    @vanarsdelproductions 2 роки тому

    Any time I feel low I watch your videos. Thank you. 🙏

  • @Carl_Baltimore
    @Carl_Baltimore 3 роки тому

    50:33 to 54:43 🙌 YES, preach! You're relationship with alcohol is more important.

  • @phyllisriley5509
    @phyllisriley5509 Рік тому

    Love your lessons in Love💯❤️Thanks

  • @msxxxpixxie4273
    @msxxxpixxie4273 2 роки тому

    “ Regrettable things” then the face 😂🥰😘 I love it

  • @Hellenodegi
    @Hellenodegi 3 роки тому +3

    I am so early. You pretty good. Thanks for continuous advice

  • @vp4115
    @vp4115 3 роки тому

    I think this is your BEST video and I’ve seen a lot of your videos but you had some real deep gems on this one that went straight to the heart .

  • @kimberlykyles4697
    @kimberlykyles4697 3 роки тому +4

    MJ your skin you’re always glowing😘 you do skin care routine I jus ❤️❤️❤️❤️ how Real Honest you’re . Peace and blessings

  • @angelagatewood6705
    @angelagatewood6705 3 роки тому +2

    Your soooo funny. Redirect and Reflect. Love how you make it about “You” and it’s really him. Lol

  • @PrettyhurrAKAne1908
    @PrettyhurrAKAne1908 3 роки тому +2

    This is getting my whole life back on track lol thank you MJ!

  • @Cami11eMarie225
    @Cami11eMarie225 3 роки тому +4

    I needed to hear this today ♥️

  • @TyVonNorth
    @TyVonNorth 2 роки тому

    😂 when MJ get in his mode lol, he so smooth wit it. That workout scene took me out but I love it 😻

  • @carolinejobe9346
    @carolinejobe9346 3 роки тому +2

    you're still so young, and yet so wise....wait'll you're 75...then you will be able to say you are not young, but even then, if you have taken care of yourself and are fortunate enough to be healthy, you will still feel young and enthusiastic and sensual (speaking from experience), don't say you old befo yo time...

  • @nessaj4522
    @nessaj4522 3 роки тому

    That was so kind about the photos. Malcolm Xxtra. Gedder Done. 2021

  • @candidconvoswithteikiya4983
    @candidconvoswithteikiya4983 3 роки тому +3

    OMG.....You are my bff in my head...lol!!! I love all of the amazing and honest advice and conversations!!!
    Happy PRIDE Month Luv!!!!

  • @CJ-vd6km
    @CJ-vd6km 3 роки тому +6

    What is your skincare routine? You glowing

  • @30andnatural
    @30andnatural 3 роки тому +2

    MJ game is so GREAT. I wish i had the nerve

  • @sillygirl_kera
    @sillygirl_kera 3 роки тому +2

    Great advice as always Uncle MJ ❤❤

  • @anygivensunday271
    @anygivensunday271 3 роки тому +1

    Much love MJ - All the way from South Africa!!! :) i second you on everything honey!

  • @simplystephanie3846
    @simplystephanie3846 3 роки тому

    MJ I just love you! You always tell it like it is , you are such a beautiful soul!

  • @lisaaustin2699
    @lisaaustin2699 3 роки тому

    You are an amazing Life Coach! Thank you MJ.

  • @xxxbossman2058
    @xxxbossman2058 10 місяців тому +1

    M..j...am in a long distance relationship..he is married but wants to invest in me long term..what should i do?

  • @queenofdivas5494
    @queenofdivas5494 3 роки тому

    I learn a lot from you! Thanks!

  • @Billionbucks007
    @Billionbucks007 3 роки тому

    This was good, thank you!

  • @tiffanyhall6342
    @tiffanyhall6342 3 роки тому +2

    Hey MJ!! So glad to see you!!!You are soooo hilarious & make my day!!!🤣☺️☺️☺️

  • @simiwootton3023
    @simiwootton3023 3 роки тому

    Much love from NEW ZEALAND I love yr videos yr so real !

  • @MsSadeBrown
    @MsSadeBrown 3 роки тому

    Looking good Malcolm!!! 👍🏾

  • @eugeniaperry4278
    @eugeniaperry4278 3 роки тому

    We need you out here in this world MJ! The stuff you say, give us strength to
    Move and choose wisely 🙏🏾😉👑💜

  • @soniccan9960
    @soniccan9960 3 роки тому +1

    Wooooo my good friend your looking like the cat got the cream stay true to yourself and never change it’s the marking of your true beauty my good friend from uk

  • @RealSyn
    @RealSyn 3 роки тому

    MJ I love this video, I needed to hear this today. 😘😍💕

  • @MsMelissaP607
    @MsMelissaP607 3 роки тому

    Yes ! I love how knowledgeable you are grown women status

  • @christopherhayes6388
    @christopherhayes6388 3 роки тому

    I really enjoyed this very helpful

  • @Vi420TTV
    @Vi420TTV 3 роки тому +2

    OMG, I NEEDED THIS RIGHT NOW BEST FRIEND....

  • @khychelleflanders
    @khychelleflanders 3 роки тому

    thanks for this video! Im 26 yr old who has bad relationship with alcohol

  • @snoopygirl8673
    @snoopygirl8673 3 роки тому

    You the best of the best person seen in my life 🥰

  • @angelaweeks5607
    @angelaweeks5607 3 роки тому +1

    Hey MJ, you still have to be safe even though they are opening up fully still wear your mask 😷. Some people are not that honest in wearing mask when they are not vaccinated and you are. So I rather still wear my mask even though I'm vaccinated to be safe!
    I believe it's still too soon to open up fully.
    Love you and be safe love you ❤⚘

  • @dee1307
    @dee1307 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this video, I got a lot out of it

  • @angelagatewood6705
    @angelagatewood6705 3 роки тому

    Energy got to be on point.. Keep it moving

  • @Stephen.Williams
    @Stephen.Williams 3 роки тому

    I learn so much listening to you 👍🏿❤

  • @bpersistentshauna1
    @bpersistentshauna1 3 роки тому +1

    Everything you say is sooooooo true

  • @kassandrakazt4323
    @kassandrakazt4323 3 роки тому

    you talk grea T..but you got nada but The Ultimate REALZ..NADA wrongful..i ♥️

  • @birdofparadise6523
    @birdofparadise6523 Рік тому

    You are amazing

  • @ltran686
    @ltran686 3 роки тому

    MJ darling, I love your fabulous self!!!

  • @angelagatewood6705
    @angelagatewood6705 3 роки тому

    Love how you get them goods to come 2 you.. That look and look away works every time. Lol

  • @analeahh
    @analeahh 3 роки тому +4

    When them ears came out my soul left my body 🤣😂😂

  • @briannaspeezy4258
    @briannaspeezy4258 3 роки тому

    Did he just openly admit that he was a bottom. We had no idea…Go MJ!!!!!

  • @QuataLaJoyce
    @QuataLaJoyce 3 роки тому

    Needed this Hun!! 🤎 U!

  • @janicekelley7394
    @janicekelley7394 3 роки тому +1

    Amen MJ!

  • @kathymorgan7585
    @kathymorgan7585 3 роки тому

    Good morning you make my day love you

  • @angelfrederickaf
    @angelfrederickaf 3 роки тому +2

    I love you, so real I love that

  • @krystalsnowkrystalclearmot5470
    @krystalsnowkrystalclearmot5470 3 роки тому

    Love you!!! And Marco

  • @jenniferrodriguez9700
    @jenniferrodriguez9700 3 роки тому

    Loving that sweater 💛💛💛💛💛

  • @tammyonniaDillon
    @tammyonniaDillon 3 роки тому +2

    You sound like me I don't do no drinking smoking drugs have to be in my right state of mind at all times 🤔👍🙌👐not judging do y'all boo 👌❤💚

  • @cherylcarlton2476
    @cherylcarlton2476 3 роки тому +6

    Would you ever date a military man?

  • @introvertedspirit
    @introvertedspirit 3 роки тому +1

    Skin So soft for mosquito bites, or use a cold spoon.

  • @bertlewis4770
    @bertlewis4770 2 роки тому

    I love how teach

    • @bertlewis4770
      @bertlewis4770 2 роки тому

      I from st Vincent and the Grenadines

  • @reneelb7
    @reneelb7 3 роки тому

    Beautiful smile!!!

  • @nataskawalters8133
    @nataskawalters8133 Рік тому

    What is it when you touch a person's hands have a funny. Chills or butterflies.

  • @chillinwitcha
    @chillinwitcha 3 роки тому +1

    you are the best

  • @suminanap
    @suminanap 3 роки тому +2

    MJ you kill me 😂🤣🤣

  • @angelagatewood6705
    @angelagatewood6705 3 роки тому

    Hi MJ... You have on my fav color Yellowwwww!!

  • @hildarendon663
    @hildarendon663 Рік тому

    Can we just ...
    Let's not whine about the wine.
    You do you, & I'll do me. Period.
    😉clink!... 🥂🍾

  • @juatinatemple1903
    @juatinatemple1903 3 роки тому +1

    I move on

  • @Andrea-yk3sw
    @Andrea-yk3sw 3 роки тому +2

    Heyyy good morning ❤️😘

  • @bertlewis4770
    @bertlewis4770 2 роки тому

    When someone ghosts you because they get someone in your life and then do not want want you

  • @all4Dorian
    @all4Dorian 3 роки тому

    The Persona got rejected yesss!!! 😂 hahaha

  • @bambibambi1776
    @bambibambi1776 3 роки тому

    You so handsome brother!!

  • @cherybabybaby1
    @cherybabybaby1 3 роки тому

    MJ Harris, the room where you went to stretch, I really 😍that ceiling, had to screenshot it to show the BF 😳