Kindly note that the pastor's comment "don't wait to be rich before you marry" does not mean that one should not be financially stable or responsible before marriage. Rather, it emphasizes that one should not wait for an unattainable standard of wealth or material possessions before getting married. Richness goes beyond material wealth; it includes: - Emotional maturity - Spiritual growth - Relational stability - Personal responsibility The pastor's message encourages individuals to focus on building a strong foundation for marriage, rather than waiting for an idealized version of wealth. It's essential to understand that marriage requires hard work, commitment, and sacrifice. It's not about accumulating wealth or material goods, but about building a life together with your partner. Let's reframe the conversation around the pastor's comment to focus on the true meaning of richness and the essential qualities for a successful marriage.
sheldon paa , the fact that the prices were low at such time does not mean it was easy to get such money .The fact that he did not have such things before marriage should tell you it was not easy at that time too . For every dispensation there is poverty .
@@wiizyhimsev6172base on what are you stating currency rate then was lower than now? Am not saying marry when you are not ready… but every era’s currency rate has the same effect on the people living then
You're completely wrong! There are lots of women here in Ghana who are very different. You don't come across them because you have to be level-headed like them to meet them in their world. The ladies around you are a reflection of what you attract.
He’s coming from a spiritual side Sometimes your blessings dey the marriage inside once you marry you will see it manifesting but pray you marrry right Also put in the works, work hard also make money ohhhh don’t stress someone’s daughter or son don’t stress your yet to be born children So that prayer part is necessary
Exactly marriage comes with blessings... He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.. You just have to pray to find the right person and with prayers, dedication, understanding, hard work everything will fall in place 🙏🏽
@@bettyjohnson1963 are you sure everything about marriage is about MONEY? Hmmm if it's all about money will you marry a man who's filthy rich and doesn't respect you at all?
People are saving up for the wedding and not the marriage itself that’s where the problem is. I have seen couples get married in the courthouse and stay married longer than those with trending wedding ceremonies. People’s priorities are just not right in this generation.
THIS TOPIC HAS TO BE ON BANTS & RANTS MERRRN, I believe this message is very deep. Its about being purposeful in life. One has to understand that, there are needs which are met when you get married, that's when both of you share the same goals. It makes things easier.
That's all, squad get enough kraa they'll still say that they want to get money meanwhile they are using the money on the girls already..... A lot of guys don't want to marry at all, ladies advice yourself.
Today's women don't want to go through what their mothers went through. Do you know the number of women who started with nothing, used all their energy and resources to push the men to succeed then were discarded in the end?? As a woman i am happily enjoying my own money. My husband told me half of his property is mine. He knows i don't care about his properties because am a hard working woman.. The education that needs to go out is how to choose your partner. Most people get married without knowing anything about relationships or marriage. All they know is to get married and have kids. No education on how to live together as a couple and what to look for in a partner that works for you because everyone is different.
I understand where Pastor Mensah Otabil is coming from. Our mother's and ground mother's generation were willing to build with a man who had nothing, But the women of today don't have the same mentality Women today want men who makes more money than her or at least the same as her That's the reality
I get your point, but women's attitude today is because you build a man, and he discards you for another... so they would rather go for one who they don't have to build
I hope you know that it's their mothers and grandmothers that have advised them to go for men that already have something. I have watched my mother and aunties advise my sisters and I don't blame women. When you build with a certain type of man and he gets money his taste changes and he goes for the woman he now thinks is his class. So if they go for men that already have money, they are assured that this man didn't pick them because he doesn't have money.
@@GAMER_X578 Exactly… It is these same aunties,grandmas and mothers we claim are examples that trained the women of today. Think about it😂. Do you think they would give such an advise if they thought it was worth the hustle?
Man of God, you are right💯 but chale wanna generation those ladies who will endure sufferings and wait till God bless she then her man no, elef 5 p3 for Ghana o...
Allot of people don’t understand the man of God, I also understand the fact that yes one must be stable and financially strong before getting married but I also think because there’s soo much involved in planning marriage that’s why allot is afraid to move into and the church especially the pastor’s have encouraged white wedding which costs soo much which is leading allot of youths into delay of marriage.
So in simple ways, don’t be afraid or wait for money or financial stability before you go into marriage because in this stage of world we found ourselves nothing will be cool again things will continue to be high and prices of goods and services will continue to go high. Yes one must be stable
Let’s look at these two people, someone is dating and don’t have the money for wedding yet the girl is giving him pressuring for wedding so if you realize there’s misunderstanding on that part you can let the lady go when she’s not able to support so in that era the guy is ready yet the lady is not so the marriage process is delaying
Some people have everything before they get married but at the end they divorce so sometimes it's not really about financial stability, it's about finding the right person and the person loving you for who you are and you guys are willing to build together.. In all put God first in your marriages and relationships..
@@jethrogeli7312 my opinion was apodictically expressed . So between the two of us who dey make sense? Why comment if it doesn’t make sense to you? Foolish people always talk without presenting any tangible argument
My professor who is a woman told me, marry when you are broke. You might get a woman who would stay with you through thick and thin. What he is saying is the truth
Some women stay through thick and thin and nothing changes but the struggle is transfered to their kids, others too get discarded later or treated badly by their spouses they struggled with and even get cheated one. It doesn't work for everyone. So know who you are and your priorities.
He said do not wait to be rich, you might have money which is not enough for you to be rich but you have money, you won't sleep hunger, those are the people he is talking about. Know the difference between being rich and being financially stable. So there are people they can afford marriage rite but they still want to be rich before
Am not sure if he has a daughter he will allow her marry someone who does not have a bed. Or even his son to marry without being financially stable. What worked for A will not work for B.
I think Doc was specific with people who are waiting to get EVERYTHING right before taking the needed step yet same people are living together cohabiting. Better to start together... The FAITH angle and the scripture you quoted is directs speaks to the message he preached. Step out in FAITH trust each other without all the "unnecessary" monetary men are waiting to meet before they deciding to get married. Step out in faith TRUSTING each other as partners and get on with the journey together.
Pastor's point of view is about being responsible to endure the marriage circumstances in terms of the financial situation, emotional support and other things to help build the family together.
The emphasis of Dr. Mensa Otabil's message is the over emphasis of getting RICH before you can settle down in marriage. You dont need to be Rich,he never down played on getting marriage without money. The emphasis is to be rich-Own your own houses,cars,etc before you marry
Half of the problem is the ridiculousness that has become Ghanaian weddings of today. The pressure is getting worser ankasa! This alone scares so many people away from tying the knot. Hopefully more and more people can get creative with how to “ball on a budget”…but more importantly, let’s invest more in the marriage, and less on the wedding. Peace!
Things are expensive so you can’t wait to have everything before you marry. If you are not ready and you think you are a youth to marry then don’t sleep together, impregnate the lady, cause abortion and when you marry in future and the lady doesn’t conceive you leave her and go look for babies from side chics. It’s also true everything isn’t same so choose well. Marriage will help you plan and pray together.
5:29 yo Shel, a fellow young and unmarried man here. I used to have this mentality of saying things were easy then vs now (well, it might be for those who have, certainly not for those who haven't, even then). Things were cheap then compared to now, but i hadn't got the money then. And you are doing financially much much better than myself. We should take the pastor's advice. I wish i have married like 3 years ago...at least, my kid will have been a year old.
there is a difference between being rich and being financially stable..per what he is saying it makes perfect sense..just be financially stable not rich
Some women stay through thick and thin and nothing changes but the struggle is transfered to their kids, others too get discarded later or treated badly by their spouses they struggled with and even get cheated on. It doesn't work for everyone. So know who you are and your priorities and don't just follow what people say.
This pressure how my pastor give me for church er eiii But why pastors always dey talk sey dem dey marry na dem no get anything for demma room and all that. My pastor too tell me same thing, naa we for investigate these sermons well 😂
My guy people are confused forget them.. U can have ur normal money and marry her .. but make sure she really love u, support u too as have pity for u simple if u are waiting to get rich meaning get more money u won’t marry Majority of people aren’t rich
And one truth is that u can’t really know what’s going on in the system when u continue to leave with ur parents, u have to hit the road urself and see how things are done.🤩🤣😂
In their time, they had women who would go the extra mile for their man to be on their feet. They fought together, but in our time, I saw a video of a lady saying that she doesn't see the reason why she should give her guy money 😂😂😂hmmm
He's right but the women of this generation are different, money is the standard now. However there are goods ones out there and thank God my gf is one of the few, supportive and non demanding. Also today bi my first time hearing say dem dey throw bread en top away 😂
I don't like him on many issues..but he said nothing but the truth. Even though many will disagree with him especially in this difficult moment we found ourselves as a nation.
both Parents should support ,can assist with the newly weds ,for the fundamentals,financial am, emotional,etc. Set them up,for them to progress .My opinion
He never said don't make money. He is saying it's even sweeter when you both work for that wealth. But ladies these days like soft life😂. Some want to be billionaires before they marry which makes it tricky because most women will be attracted to the money than the person himself
His advice is good . However, I hope he knows the state the youth find themselves in these times. Most marriage in times of inflated instabilities won't be stable. Marriages today has been turned into a business . Take a look at America in terms of marriages collapse rate. I see the same trend in many African countries. We tend to glamourize weddings and not the marriage itself. Don't mean to offend . Based on what I've observed, majority of this generation are not learning any lessons from past mistakes made. We learn these lessons too late.
Originally that’s how biblical marriage should be but the reason why financial stability and other factors come in is cus of the kind of system we’re in now in this day and age and the culture we’ve built.
Hmmm the issue is, are both parties ready.. because yh there are situations where one party will be ready and the other is not ready, also both maybe ready but even money for engagement ring koraa is problem.. so how does it work. It’s all about finding a lady who will understand you.
The Bible says in Genesis 1:28- Be fruitful and multiply. It means financial security before multiplication. God won't feed your family no matter how many times you pray. The days of manna are over. Otabil still takes tithe from the poor members to feed his family. Be wise.
Pastor the time you got married vs our economy isn't the same. You had nothing before you got married doesn't mean is like that everywhere. This generation is built different
So if we should talk about money as the major issue don’t we see rich couples divorced? Rich men got married and their wives are till now cheating on them, so there’s allot when it comes to the word marriage let’s not look at one factor, there’s allot of factors
What about the kids? Why will u want to have kids if u cant provide the necessities of life for them and let them suffer? Rich pple kids have secured lives while poor people kids have to struggle for the rest of their lives and most never make it out of poverty till they die. That poverty could travel down to generations. So why will u want your descendants to be poor ?
Sheldon your argument doesn’t hold water. Prices of things have increased yes; so also have salary increase. So what are you trying to say? The best time to do anything was 20 years ago the second best time is now. Prices of goods will increase everyday so if you want to get married, trust Jesus and marry. God will take care of the rest.
Now pastors have the right to bless marriage in office, bcuz I think only the parents especially the father has the ryt to bless the children's marriage
Kindly note that the pastor's comment "don't wait to be rich before you marry" does not mean that one should not be financially stable or responsible before marriage. Rather, it emphasizes that one should not wait for an unattainable standard of wealth or material possessions before getting married.
Richness goes beyond material wealth; it includes:
- Emotional maturity
- Spiritual growth
- Relational stability
- Personal responsibility
The pastor's message encourages individuals to focus on building a strong foundation for marriage, rather than waiting for an idealized version of wealth.
It's essential to understand that marriage requires hard work, commitment, and sacrifice. It's not about accumulating wealth or material goods, but about building a life together with your partner.
Let's reframe the conversation around the pastor's comment to focus on the true meaning of richness and the essential qualities for a successful marriage.
What an explanation 🔥🙏God bless you Sir
Please how do you reflect on today's modern understanding of being rich
From the Pastor's explanation, he was talking about the Richness you are explaining to us..
From the Pastor's explanation, he wasn't talking about the Richness you are explaining to us
4:37 when you see/hear a true man of God, you will know (especially if you have common sense)
Kwadwo can be intimidating, but Scanty's humble and intelligent approach in handling Kwadwo's comments is admirable and very mature.
sheldon paa , the fact that the prices were low at such time does not mean it was easy to get such money .The fact that he did not have such things before marriage should tell you it was not easy at that time too . For every dispensation there is poverty .
The is poverty in every generation but note that every generation has their own currency rate. My guy
Exactly my point bro
I agree with you waaa the poverty thing no start from today ooo
@@wiizyhimsev6172base on what are you stating currency rate then was lower than now?
Am not saying marry when you are not ready… but every era’s currency rate has the same effect on the people living then
Today's women are different, ooo
They are not like that of the old days
Will her Daughter marry a man who is jobless? Lol
You're completely wrong! There are lots of women here in Ghana who are very different. You don't come across them because you have to be level-headed like them to meet them in their world. The ladies around you are a reflection of what you attract.
Who told you bro?😂🤣🤣🤣😂
@KodzoLebe you said level-headed right
@prettyqueen5754 I know dear
Feminism all over
He’s coming from a spiritual side
Sometimes your blessings dey the marriage inside once you marry you will see it manifesting but pray you marrry right
Also put in the works, work hard also make money ohhhh don’t stress someone’s daughter or son don’t stress your yet to be born children
So that prayer part is necessary
Exactly marriage comes with blessings... He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.. You just have to pray to find the right person and with prayers, dedication, understanding, hard work everything will fall in place 🙏🏽
@@maameabena3 people won’t understand nor will they see where he’s coming from but they will use their normal mindset to judge the statement
Powerful
You’re deep bruh
It is not automatic..
Be financially stable before you think of getting married,cos money play a big role in marriage🙌
@@bettyjohnson1963 are you sure everything about marriage is about MONEY? Hmmm if it's all about money will you marry a man who's filthy rich and doesn't respect you at all?
Not only marriage it plays a big role in relationships as well.
Thank you. It’s like these men of God don’t have anything else to preach about
These same men of God won’t allow any poor guy marry their kids
thank you bro
People are saving up for the wedding and not the marriage itself that’s where the problem is. I have seen couples get married in the courthouse and stay married longer than those with trending wedding ceremonies. People’s priorities are just not right in this generation.
THIS TOPIC HAS TO BE ON BANTS & RANTS MERRRN,
I believe this message is very deep. Its about being purposeful in life. One has to understand that, there are needs which are met when you get married, that's when both of you share the same goals. It makes things easier.
The message here is that if you feel you won't marry don't do what married people do
Exactly
That's all, squad get enough kraa they'll still say that they want to get money meanwhile they are using the money on the girls already..... A lot of guys don't want to marry at all, ladies advice yourself.
Simple as that
Like what?
Today's women don't want to go through what their mothers went through.
Do you know the number of women who started with nothing, used all their energy and resources to push the men to succeed then were discarded in the end??
As a woman i am happily enjoying my own money. My husband told me half of his property is mine. He knows i don't care about his properties because am a hard working woman..
The education that needs to go out is how to choose your partner. Most people get married without knowing anything about relationships or marriage. All they know is to get married and have kids.
No education on how to live together as a couple and what to look for in a partner that works for you because everyone is different.
Not that self the preacher's have taken the responsibility of the families to themselves
Stop bragging maame...and nobody cares
Stop bragging maame...and nobody cares
@@KingRohmed PAINS!! We now choose us wae!
Keep on bleeding.
😂😂😂😂😂
I understand where Pastor Mensah Otabil is coming from.
Our mother's and ground mother's generation were willing to build with a man who had nothing,
But the women of today don't have the same mentality
Women today want men who makes more money than her or at least the same as her
That's the reality
I get your point, but women's attitude today is because you build a man, and he discards you for another... so they would rather go for one who they don't have to build
I hope you know that it's their mothers and grandmothers that have advised them to go for men that already have something. I have watched my mother and aunties advise my sisters and I don't blame women. When you build with a certain type of man and he gets money his taste changes and he goes for the woman he now thinks is his class. So if they go for men that already have money, they are assured that this man didn't pick them because he doesn't have money.
@@frimpong9101Thank you!!!
@@GAMER_X578 Exactly… It is these same aunties,grandmas and mothers we claim are examples that trained the women of today. Think about it😂. Do you think they would give such an advise if they thought it was worth the hustle?
@@arsan_tiwa 😂😂😂😂 Right
Man of God, you are right💯 but chale wanna generation those ladies who will endure sufferings and wait till God bless she then her man no, elef 5 p3 for Ghana o...
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😂😂😂
The 5 sef 4 will leave you after 2 years without making it 😂😂😂😂
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be financially stable and secure before you think of marriage
Allot of people don’t understand the man of God, I also understand the fact that yes one must be stable and financially strong before getting married but I also think because there’s soo much involved in planning marriage that’s why allot is afraid to move into and the church especially the pastor’s have encouraged white wedding which costs soo much which is leading allot of youths into delay of marriage.
So in simple ways, don’t be afraid or wait for money or financial stability before you go into marriage because in this stage of world we found ourselves nothing will be cool again things will continue to be high and prices of goods and services will continue to go high. Yes one must be stable
Let’s look at these two people, someone is dating and don’t have the money for wedding yet the girl is giving him pressuring for wedding so if you realize there’s misunderstanding on that part you can let the lady go when she’s not able to support so in that era the guy is ready yet the lady is not so the marriage process is delaying
Bigups man
Fact
Some people have everything before they get married but at the end they divorce so sometimes it's not really about financial stability, it's about finding the right person and the person loving you for who you are and you guys are willing to build together.. In all put God first in your marriages and relationships..
Some of us left home when we were 17 years, we’re not scared of moving out but we don’t want to come back to that 17 years stage in the future
Tell him to be bold and allow the poor and the needy to come to his university for free
😂😂😂
Hard😂😂😂
Eyy 😂😂
Two way different things you figa you talk sense 😂😂
@@jethrogeli7312 my opinion was apodictically expressed . So between the two of us who dey make sense? Why comment if it doesn’t make sense to you? Foolish people always talk without presenting any tangible argument
My professor who is a woman told me, marry when you are broke. You might get a woman who would stay with you through thick and thin. What he is saying is the truth
might? so what if you don't?
Whose daughter's father will accept the marriage in this current world when you are broke
Key word in your statement "might"
Some women stay through thick and thin and nothing changes but the struggle is transfered to their kids, others too get discarded later or treated badly by their spouses they struggled with and even get cheated one. It doesn't work for everyone. So know who you are and your priorities.
It's true... Marriage, when done right, does come with blessings
Then they should allow guys to marry from a girls family in a small way and stop this show off in the church
@georgeblayackah9825 exactly why I said when done right
The Pastors message ankasa ebi @kwadwosheldon en own, masa you're financially stable, be bold and marry.!!! Else you go give birth to pension babies😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 i laugh enter my single room inside.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I have never appreciated Sheldon's wisdom like this ❤ perfect submission
Nbs Yawa of the day them dey give we this Yawada (Thursday) 😂😂
I saw what you did there😂😂😂😂
You cooked😂😂
👏🏾👏🏾
Bars
Eiii barssssss
Sheldon dey come marry dey funfool quard😂😂😂😂😂😂
But sheldon get money
He said do not wait to be rich, you might have money which is not enough for you to be rich but you have money, you won't sleep hunger, those are the people he is talking about. Know the difference between being rich and being financially stable. So there are people they can afford marriage rite but they still want to be rich before
Exactlyyyyy
There is no harm in what he said, just that society today is different from society of yesterday.
Women are not the same like yesterday
My Pastor be that ooo
That is why you have to listen to the whole message. I don't think Pastor Otabil was just talking
Am not sure if he has a daughter he will allow her marry someone who does not have a bed. Or even his son to marry without being financially stable. What worked for A will not work for B.
Sheldon and scanty bond is on another level 🥰
sheldon always dey get nick eiiiiii😆😆😆😆😆😆otabiizy
What he’s saying is not wrong… but this generation and economy won’t favour us if we go by this advice.
Allah
I think Doc was specific with people who are waiting to get EVERYTHING right before taking the needed step yet same people are living together cohabiting. Better to start together...
The FAITH angle and the scripture you quoted is directs speaks to the message he preached. Step out in FAITH trust each other without all the "unnecessary" monetary men are waiting to meet before they deciding to get married. Step out in faith TRUSTING each other as partners and get on with the journey together.
Pastor's point of view is about being responsible to endure the marriage circumstances in terms of the financial situation, emotional support and other things to help build the family together.
The emphasis of Dr. Mensa Otabil's message is the over emphasis of getting RICH before you can settle down in marriage. You dont need to be Rich,he never down played on getting marriage without money. The emphasis is to be rich-Own your own houses,cars,etc before you marry
Half of the problem is the ridiculousness that has become Ghanaian weddings of today. The pressure is getting worser ankasa! This alone scares so many people away from tying the knot. Hopefully more and more people can get creative with how to “ball on a budget”…but more importantly, let’s invest more in the marriage, and less on the wedding. Peace!
Things are expensive so you can’t wait to have everything before you marry.
If you are not ready and you think you are a youth to marry then don’t sleep together, impregnate the lady, cause abortion and when you marry in future and the lady doesn’t conceive you leave her and go look for babies from side chics.
It’s also true everything isn’t same so choose well.
Marriage will help you plan and pray together.
5:29 yo Shel, a fellow young and unmarried man here. I used to have this mentality of saying things were easy then vs now (well, it might be for those who have, certainly not for those who haven't, even then). Things were cheap then compared to now, but i hadn't got the money then. And you are doing financially much much better than myself. We should take the pastor's advice. I wish i have married like 3 years ago...at least, my kid will have been a year old.
😂
Money does not sustain marriage. Period!
What's the place of money in marriage?
@@daserdo28
Do you also think that the increasing divorce rate in recent times is due to money?
Take note, we're talking about marriage not dating.
@@Kobby3041na succulent nyash. 😂
I never know sey we cut bread the head we dey throw am away 😂💔
Aware3 Promo😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hmmmm please ooo be comfortable before you venture ooo😂😂❤
The problem we are facing today dey since the 80s. Again readiness is a state of mind
Somebody say "boldness no dey pay bills"
Pastor Otabil dey remind of Amakye Dede’s song ‘ Dabi dabi eb3 y3 yie’.😅😅😅😅😅😅
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The formication thing pain scanty oo😂😂
Aswear 😂😂
there is a difference between being rich and being financially stable..per what he is saying it makes perfect sense..just be financially stable not rich
Sheldon before you talk, could you go watch the full sermon? it's a powerful msg.
Some women stay through thick and thin and nothing changes but the struggle is transfered to their kids, others too get discarded later or treated badly by their spouses they struggled with and even get cheated on. It doesn't work for everyone. So know who you are and your priorities and don't just follow what people say.
This pressure how my pastor give me for church er eiii
But why pastors always dey talk sey dem dey marry na dem no get anything for demma room and all that. My pastor too tell me same thing, naa we for investigate these sermons well 😂
These motivational speakers dey tire me....one time one of them told me he started his animal farm with 2 mosquitoes n one ant💔🤣
U dey lie pass eiii😂😂😂
Lier
@@kelvinotchere8238 true oo...now he rear pigs all...I sure say the mosquitoes underwent transition 🤣
@@jnrwillz9336Ahhh ma gee 😂😂this motivational speaker err u for show we make we lash him give u😂😂😂
Wei dieeeer... woboa! 😂😂😂
The man is right. No excuses.
Go in for it, and see how you will regret it.
@@everymanisyourteacher9951 Guys in the ghettos are getting married, what matters is finding that one person.
My guy people are confused forget them..
U can have ur normal money and marry her .. but make sure she really love u, support u too as have pity for u simple if u are waiting to get rich meaning get more money u won’t marry Majority of people aren’t rich
u spoke my mind Sheldon, well spoken
Man of god forgot god gave Adam everything needed before providing him with Eve.
And one truth is that u can’t really know what’s going on in the system when u continue to leave with ur parents, u have to hit the road urself and see how things are done.🤩🤣😂
Most people regretted getting married when the price tomatoes went high😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂true.
@@Rayrae580 😂😂
The man of God just preached you take it or leave it not try to dilute it
The main issue is people married above their means.
In their time, they had women who would go the extra mile for their man to be on their feet. They fought together, but in our time, I saw a video of a lady saying that she doesn't see the reason why she should give her guy money 😂😂😂hmmm
What he is failing to understand is that those days are gone. You want to get married in this economy without a bed😂😂😂
Good advice Sheldon
Once you find the right person you'd understand Pastor Otabil
What's the place of money in a marriage?
Scanty knows the truth Buh he dey funfool 🎉😂😂
He's right but the women of this generation are different, money is the standard now. However there are goods ones out there and thank God my gf is one of the few, supportive and non demanding.
Also today bi my first time hearing say dem dey throw bread en top away 😂
The man of God sef will be agree make his daughter go marry someone without a bed or even money. Lets be serious wai
I don't like him on many issues..but he said nothing but the truth. Even though many will disagree with him especially in this difficult moment we found ourselves as a nation.
He was strictly talking about Co-habiting. Boys no get money marry, but dem get money have sex, which is a privilege restricted to married couples
both Parents should support ,can assist with the newly weds ,for the fundamentals,financial am, emotional,etc. Set them up,for them to progress .My opinion
The boldness do not pay bills
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The older generation still dey live in their 70’s, 80’s, 90’s era. Funfoolers nkoaa ex Nana Dee
The church members will make noise and give fans as if they will do yet no one will do 😂🤣
Facts oh 😂 😂 😂
The ladies don't want those simple simple marriages o! Show off nkoaaa yet that too involve loads of money. Hmmmm
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@@480GlenRoss hmmm
And those people who agreed to the suffering beginnings are our parents now and they won’t agree to suffering beginnings for their children 😂😂😂😂😂
Kodjo Sheldon, kindly go and watch the full video. He really expounded on the marriage issue
What he said is true but this modern Ghanaian ladies hmmm
Hmm. Talk Pastor say we nor finish school yet. So please we hear paaa but we nor go take am 😂
Money is marriage, simple
I agree with Sheldon 100%
He never said don't make money. He is saying it's even sweeter when you both work for that wealth. But ladies these days like soft life😂. Some want to be billionaires before they marry which makes it tricky because most women will be attracted to the money than the person himself
His advice is good . However, I hope he knows the state the youth find themselves in these times.
Most marriage in times of inflated instabilities won't be stable. Marriages today has been turned into a business . Take a look at America in terms of marriages collapse rate. I see the same trend in many African countries. We tend to glamourize weddings and not the marriage itself.
Don't mean to offend . Based on what I've observed, majority of this generation are not learning any lessons from past mistakes made. We learn these lessons too late.
Scanty no gree for Sheldon for here ooo, hahaha.
For this Ghana economy
Originally that’s how biblical marriage should be but the reason why financial stability and other factors come in is cus of the kind of system we’re in now in this day and age and the culture we’ve built.
Prayer is the master key but now the economic get the universal key😂
Hmmm the issue is, are both parties ready.. because yh there are situations where one party will be ready and the other is not ready, also both maybe ready but even money for engagement ring koraa is problem.. so how does it work. It’s all about finding a lady who will understand you.
Sheldon u mess up…u cut e end side of bread u no dey tro way😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔
6:04 👏👏👏👏👏😂😂 that be deep. Think about it!
The time the man of God got married, car wasn’t a basic requirement a girl need from a guy….. a lot have changed oooo
Will he allow his daughter to marry in the same manner
pretty good message
His era is far different from ours
😂😂😂do you do you. I do I do let’s go. Eeeii hmm
The Bible says in Genesis 1:28- Be fruitful and multiply. It means financial security before multiplication. God won't feed your family no matter how many times you pray. The days of manna are over.
Otabil still takes tithe from the poor members to feed his family. Be wise.
Pastor the time you got married vs our economy isn't the same. You had nothing before you got married doesn't mean is like that everywhere. This generation is built different
15:33 Scanty is unhinged 🤣
When Scanty first came to KSS, he mentioned his sexual escapades, but ever since he became a Youth Pastor, he pretends as if he be innocent.😅
So if we should talk about money as the major issue don’t we see rich couples divorced? Rich men got married and their wives are till now cheating on them, so there’s allot when it comes to the word marriage let’s not look at one factor, there’s allot of factors
What about the kids? Why will u want to have kids if u cant provide the necessities of life for them and let them suffer? Rich pple kids have secured lives while poor people kids have to struggle for the rest of their lives and most never make it out of poverty till they die. That poverty could travel down to generations. So why will u want your descendants to be poor ?
Sheldon your argument doesn’t hold water. Prices of things have increased yes; so also have salary increase. So what are you trying to say? The best time to do anything was 20 years ago the second best time is now. Prices of goods will increase everyday so if you want to get married, trust Jesus and marry. God will take care of the rest.
Nkwasiasem sei! This is how the cycle of poverty is perpetuated.
My problem is the Fido advert. So nobody saw ot heard the mistake the woman made. Hmmm is watermelon a fruit or a vegetable ? I'm asking for someone
The pastor's message is not for all. It's for only those who have ears, period.
Just come to church office and say I do I do.
Where is the family side? Bride price is not needed??
I can’t believe that I am coming to say that I agree with Sheldon. But be bold and Marry
Now pastors have the right to bless marriage in office, bcuz I think only the parents especially the father has the ryt to bless the children's marriage
Scanty the preacher,go on bro
Eeiì Marry and sleep on benches paa dierrr the story never clear , be like senior man dey tia we banku 😂😂😂
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