Tbh the guy deserves someone better. Imagine being in the guys shoes, your girl is hesitating bc you're not 6 ft tall and her friends make fun of her for being with you. Those are big red flags. The 6 ft thing is just ridiculous and the friends thing like girl why do you care so much about what they think? Its YOUR relationship. Tell them how good of a man he is to them if you're not tryna leave your group of shitty friends.
Imagine if a guy said "I usually only date girls who are thin and with big breasts. She's really not attractive to me and my friends think I can do so much better." She's basically doing the same thing. His height is not in his control. And what are you going to do with looks in the long run? Give it a few decades and good looks will fade and wrinkles will settle in. What truly matters the most is peronality. And if you can't see that, I feel sorry for you.
if im not wrong, the person behind the camera is diane. (idk how to spell her name) shes been in a lot of dive studio podcast episodes helping the host
Man, this is so good. I once liked a guy who's really, really, physically attractive, but soon after I got to know him, his personality and interests didn't click with me so I gradually lost interest. On another time, I liked a guy because of his personality and similar interests, but he's not really the type of person I like physical-wise, but I still got attracted to him. It's nice that Jamie and Diane gave advice that somehow matches the situation I was in lol
That's why i don't believe in love at first sight, you can be physically attracted to that person but if they have an ugly personality then you can't love them truly
1) yes the appearance is what you intially go for, but you obviously know the guy and like him so appearance shouldn't matter 2) your friends are trashy if they are taking the mick out of him cuz of how he looks 3) if you like him why are you doubting yourself .....
I am almost 6 ft myself as a girl and I wouldn't like to date a guy who is shorter than me. For me the same height would be okay though. And everyone has preferences.
yeah i get that people have preferences but like, if you really did like somebody, you wouldnt care about how tall they are or their looks. im just saying~
every time I listen to a dive studios podcast I think to myself "SOMEONE GET DIANE HER OWN PODCAST" cause literally she makes the episodes so much better I love her input 💜
Diane needs her own podcast! She has wonderful insight and is very thoughtful. She really adds a lot to each artist that she's with. Jamie's youth, lack of experience and shallowness really showed through on this topic. Maybe it's cultural differences? Or language barrier? She couldn't find the words to express herself? PS I'm a fan of Jamie and love her spunky personally.
For me, the important thing is your compatibility and if you guys make each other happy? So why would I make fun of my friends if they are happy together? Then youre not being a good friend :(
I have a really big crush on someone that is not physically my type at all, but I find them physically attractive. I don't know about other people but it works for me.
Both physical and mental attraction is important in a relationship BUT if it's only about height that is stopping her from dating him then that is too shallow of a reason. Yes, she dates tall guys but I can tell that her friends opinions are stronger than her attraction to the guy. I think she either follows her feelings for him or her feeling for social acceptance (her friends). Whichever is stronger, but it's clear that the guy has a pure stance while the friends are just plain negative and mocking.
i gonna listen to the full podcasts. the subjects are really interesting. Jamie has good speaking-voice and gives great advice. we have the same between haha
She doesnt deserve that guy seriously. If u like someone and u comfortable with them it doesnt matter what they look. If u thinking about it so I tell u, u not seriously like them.
The truth is physical preferences are ok. I've been told by a girl that she doesn't like brown guys and doesn't want to date me. It hurts, but there is nothing wrong with that, it's a preference. She doesn't find brown men attractive. Like height, it's something I can't change (and don't want to change for that matter). At the same time there are many happily married couples where the girl didn't physically find the guy that attractive at first but then found his personality/attitude attractive and then she found him romantically and sexually attractive and then they got married. But even if you find someone attractive personality wise it doesn't mean you will also find them attractive romantically or sexually. The way I see it is that it's a girl's right to decide what she values in a romantic partner and who she is willing to give a chance. If she isn't interested in me she might be missing out on a good thing and that's her loss not mine. Like if you think about it the amount of guys who are above 6ft is proportionally very small so it's ur loss in cutting your dating pool. She is not bad or evil, it's simply a tradeoff for having those standards for physical beauty. People are not obligated to give you a chance, it's better to learn/accept that instead of complaining about it or stressing out about it. That's life, I just move on.
and thats why, fallin in love at first sight is more saver to anyone, than this kinda "wow i think i like u now" thingy. cause what? for a guy, if a girl rejected their love is one thing, but a girl who accepted just because shes lonely (no one dating her at time) is another thing. That breaking heart harder.
She could be doubting because of her friends like she really likes him but her surroundings keep reinforcing her type on being tall so she's second guessing. To me, I don't have a certain type but I do have a sense of aesthetic. I have accepted that I can't really deny that I could have standards. Well, there are exemptions but if I can't get past their face then I don't like them that much.
Smart is other side of handsome for me 😂 i dont care how appearance he is, if he attractive me with his personality and how smart he is, i will fall in love with him asap 😂
Yes very true .... ladies if you can't deal with dating a short guy don't . But remember when a shorter guy or guys your height ask you out , that guy has guts . Remember at the end of the day , you need someone dependable and reliable and maybe not some with good physical appearance
Why would that girl care abt what her friends thinks and joking abt who he date which is out of her ideal type. Girl u the one who fuck w ur man not them. The fact that she more to her ideal type that's mean she just like and not love.
i don't really know about dating but if im at a place where i really like this girl and the girl's friend making fun of her because of my appearence i would crawl into a small deep cave and never be seen by those people including the girl
If the physical appearance is what keeps you from him, leave him. He deserves better.
Preach sister!!
Yaaaaassss queen PERIODT
indeed. straight to point lol
👏👏👏Exactly the same I thought ... my mind was saying ... poor boy better find someone who loves him entirely.
Yo “sometimes personality attractiveness makes them physically attractive to you” damnnn wise wordssss 👏🏽
Tbh the guy deserves someone better. Imagine being in the guys shoes, your girl is hesitating bc you're not 6 ft tall and her friends make fun of her for being with you. Those are big red flags. The 6 ft thing is just ridiculous and the friends thing like girl why do you care so much about what they think? Its YOUR relationship. Tell them how good of a man he is to them if you're not tryna leave your group of shitty friends.
Athena CzenLand agree with you.
Preach
the comments here are better than the advice of the program.
Imagine if a guy said "I usually only date girls who are thin and with big breasts. She's really not attractive to me and my friends think I can do so much better." She's basically doing the same thing. His height is not in his control. And what are you going to do with looks in the long run? Give it a few decades and good looks will fade and wrinkles will settle in. What truly matters the most is peronality. And if you can't see that, I feel sorry for you.
LOUDER FOR THOSE AT THE BACK 👏
The girl behind the camera gives good advices too! She should appear in the video next time please!
if im not wrong, the person behind the camera is diane. (idk how to spell her name) shes been in a lot of dive studio podcast episodes helping the host
@@isabellad7151 I will check all of their videos as well. Thank you~
i love this concept that he helped jamie with another perspective. this is fine, maybe if she appeared would be this good.
Man, this is so good. I once liked a guy who's really, really, physically attractive, but soon after I got to know him, his personality and interests didn't click with me so I gradually lost interest. On another time, I liked a guy because of his personality and similar interests, but he's not really the type of person I like physical-wise, but I still got attracted to him.
It's nice that Jamie and Diane gave advice that somehow matches the situation I was in lol
That's why i don't believe in love at first sight, you can be physically attracted to that person but if they have an ugly personality then you can't love them truly
1) yes the appearance is what you intially go for, but you obviously know the guy and like him so appearance shouldn't matter
2) your friends are trashy if they are taking the mick out of him cuz of how he looks
3) if you like him why are you doubting yourself .....
jamie be looking cute as hell
this girl legit just said she only dates guys taller than 6ft-
girl are u for real? get over yourself smh
"nOt mY uSuAl tYpE oF GuY" biss are u- bruhh
I am almost 6 ft myself as a girl and I wouldn't like to date a guy who is shorter than me. For me the same height would be okay though. And everyone has preferences.
yeah i get that people have preferences but like, if you really did like somebody, you wouldnt care about how tall they are or their looks. im just saying~
@@ildikobalogh5662 No you're just being shallow. It's ok to be shallow, but own up to it instead of relying on the "not my type" excuse.
WAS SHE REALLY ABOUT TO SAY SHE ONLY DATES GUYS TALLER THAN SIX FEET BRUH GET OVER URSELF
bruh ikr
Dude people can have a preference
@@ceydamoco3932 she sounds conceited
Jimin's fashion is on fire today! The glasses, the hat, the haircut and the make-up look great!
every time I listen to a dive studios podcast I think to myself "SOMEONE GET DIANE HER OWN PODCAST" cause literally she makes the episodes so much better I love her input 💜
YES, am here for this 🤧
Diane needs her own podcast! She has wonderful insight and is very thoughtful. She really adds a lot to each artist that she's with. Jamie's youth, lack of experience and shallowness really showed through on this topic. Maybe it's cultural differences? Or language barrier? She couldn't find the words to express herself? PS I'm a fan of Jamie and love her spunky personally.
For me, the important thing is your compatibility and if you guys make each other happy? So why would I make fun of my friends if they are happy together? Then youre not being a good friend :(
I feel like no matter how much you like someone if you’re not attracted to them it just won’t work.
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I have a really big crush on someone that is not physically my type at all, but I find them physically attractive. I don't know about other people but it works for me.
Both physical and mental attraction is important in a relationship BUT if it's only about height that is stopping her from dating him then that is too shallow of a reason. Yes, she dates tall guys but I can tell that her friends opinions are stronger than her attraction to the guy. I think she either follows her feelings for him or her feeling for social acceptance (her friends). Whichever is stronger, but it's clear that the guy has a pure stance while the friends are just plain negative and mocking.
i gonna listen to the full podcasts. the subjects are really interesting. Jamie has good speaking-voice and gives great advice. we have the same between haha
She doesnt deserve that guy seriously. If u like someone and u comfortable with them it doesnt matter what they look. If u thinking about it so I tell u, u not seriously like them.
The truth is physical preferences are ok. I've been told by a girl that she doesn't like brown guys and doesn't want to date me. It hurts, but there is nothing wrong with that, it's a preference. She doesn't find brown men attractive. Like height, it's something I can't change (and don't want to change for that matter). At the same time there are many happily married couples where the girl didn't physically find the guy that attractive at first but then found his personality/attitude attractive and then she found him romantically and sexually attractive and then they got married. But even if you find someone attractive personality wise it doesn't mean you will also find them attractive romantically or sexually. The way I see it is that it's a girl's right to decide what she values in a romantic partner and who she is willing to give a chance. If she isn't interested in me she might be missing out on a good thing and that's her loss not mine. Like if you think about it the amount of guys who are above 6ft is proportionally very small so it's ur loss in cutting your dating pool. She is not bad or evil, it's simply a tradeoff for having those standards for physical beauty. People are not obligated to give you a chance, it's better to learn/accept that instead of complaining about it or stressing out about it. That's life, I just move on.
and thats why, fallin in love at first sight is more saver to anyone, than this kinda "wow i think i like u now" thingy. cause what? for a guy, if a girl rejected their love is one thing, but a girl who accepted just because shes lonely (no one dating her at time) is another thing. That breaking heart harder.
She could be doubting because of her friends like she really likes him but her surroundings keep reinforcing her type on being tall so she's second guessing.
To me, I don't have a certain type but I do have a sense of aesthetic. I have accepted that I can't really deny that I could have standards. Well, there are exemptions but if I can't get past their face then I don't like them that much.
Can diane make her own podcast??? She's good at this ahsjzkzk
bruh do what makes u happy don't pay attention to ur friends
Smart is other side of handsome for me 😂 i dont care how appearance he is, if he attractive me with his personality and how smart he is, i will fall in love with him asap 😂
Yes very true ....
ladies if you can't deal with dating a short guy don't . But remember when a shorter guy or guys your height ask you out , that guy has guts .
Remember at the end of the day , you need someone dependable and reliable and maybe not some with good physical appearance
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the guy deserves better
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Why would that girl care abt what her friends thinks and joking abt who he date which is out of her ideal type. Girl u the one who fuck w ur man not them. The fact that she more to her ideal type that's mean she just like and not love.
i don't really know about dating but if im at a place where i really like this girl and the girl's friend making fun of her because of my appearence i would crawl into a small deep cave and never be seen by those people including the girl