@@pikkinikki711 this man loves his children. NO parent is perfect. As a former teen mother, getting pregnant at 16, allowing a man to take advantage of me & mistreat me...I WISH my daddy was still alive to care enough.
That why he not with her. He can only hang on to someone you could control. TI got to be seen.. Men calling them selfs men because they pay child support. You are supposed to support your kids & love them. Do he want a award for it.
@@skyymon8456 Control? Women should not have to be controlled by men. My mom is the exact same way she stands her ground. And both my parents are still together.
He has an old southern view of parenting the parents didn't have boundaries when it came to maintaining order amongst their children its fear on tips behalf he's not ready to let go of his little girl but his little girl is a young woman now and like you said its HER BODY it always have been tip needs to learn empathy and consideration
@@Djay528i I agree, but also notice that with this old way of thinking, men readily and easily let go of the reins on their boy children. Once the boy hits puberty, they push him to become a man; things like dating, hooking up, etc. are actually pushed and praised (example Boosie).
Can’t even get his license yet one of the episodes he joke about king doing stuff and he said he was not paying child support that one he should be watching more.
Yeah his son king lost his virginity at 13 and he's failing in school and he allows him to go out on tour Ti you are a disgrace always trying to sound smart.
Exactly !! He sick asl like he has a sick obsession with her that’s a form of incest when your relying on your daughter for the emotional support u should be getting from your spouse
It's good to see a woman stand up to him and call him on his mess. That's why they're not together. Because she can't be controlled. And that's why momma showed up.
I'm glad he apologized, but he needs to stop. She doesn't have to stay a virgin cause you want her to. I'm tired of men telling women what to do with their bodies. So invasive.
Andre Johnson actually she’s 19 and in college, which is why he needed her permission to talk to the doctor and obtain medical records. And there are things like birth control and safe sex..and maybe she’s not even interested in sex right now..bottom line is he did way too much and he was wrong. Period.
Andre Johnson she’s 19 and was 18 when this happened so no she nor the baby would be HIS responsibility and sex doesn’t always equal pregnancy. And honestly if he was so worried about taking responsibility of a baby then his TEENAGE SON still in school shouldn’t be condoned having sex. When you have a healthy relationship with your child you eventually have a mature and appropriate discussion with them on being safe if they ever choose to have sexual intercourse to prevent not only pregnancy but STIs as well. She is an honors student, in college, making her own money from her social platform. Having sex does not make you a good or bad person, it does not take away from your success or hinder talents, so after a certain age parents shouldn’t really focus on that aspect on their child’s life especially if they see them going down the right path.
Like I say if you want your daughter to remain a virgin that's cool that's good but have that same energy with your son too don't be a hypocrite and keep it in the family everyone don't have to know your business.
Me too! 👏🏽👏🏽. Tip be on that ego b.s. sometimes but he clearly loves and has taken care of his kids, us parents make mistakes too so I’m glad he apologized and it seemed sincere.
I know this comment is 3 years old but TI only admitted to being wrong so he wouldn’t continue to get dragged thru the mud. We all know it was a front. He’s a controlling narcissist.
He still doesn't get it. Whether she's a virgin or not, you invaded her privacy. It's her choice to disclose that info. His arrogance is so damn disturbing.
And guess what he doesn't care and quite frankly I don't think you will ever fully apologize to her face because he's one of those guys who can't handle criticism especially from his own children hell his own wife is a doormat
As a parent, it's LAME AF to be so publicly insensitive, and then walk around entitled, feeling like your right and never sincerely apologize to your daughter. If days gone by, you're wrong. Even if she never picked up the phone to answer your bullshit, insensitive call, if u know you've crushed your baby's heart,, you go make it right. You're the man, the example in her life. What if her future decisions are based off how her dad handles their relationship...She'll be with the type of man walking around being publicly insensitive, and then ignoring her feelings, and telling everybody that he was just playing around, as the excuse for himself to not go say I fucked up, I hurt you, and it won't ever happen again. Not the type of man you'd want for her Im sure.
Yup!! And then act like ignorance is bliss. He could only say it was a joke.... seesh first of all her virginity after a certain age is not his business.
Nope not buying it. Idc if Deyjah was his 1st, 3rd, 5th or whatever. He shouldve known better. As her father, you set the tone of how she should be treated by men. You treated her like an object, like PROPERTY! Now she dont trust you and eventually not trust men at all for awhile. Dont give this man any excuse at all, the SECOND you found out she was upset, you shouldve been moving heaven & earth to figure out whats wrong. You failed her and broke her trust.
BayBoy2Stuntastic let me tell you something on behalf of all women and so you can be aware of this for your daughters (if you have any). we know men will go above and beyond to protect their daughters hearts, but you have to protect the young lady in her as well. As a young girl, we don’t want men to have anything to do with our private areas (ESPECIALLY our fathers). Going to the gynecologist to “check her virginity” against her will is Invasive and horrific. This is what we’re trying to get men to understand. Protect your daughters, but also protect and respect her as a young lady.
He’s always using big words to sound intelligent so tht it can take away from the fact tht he’s ignorant when speaking on certain topics. Men like him make other males feel comfortable when it’s time to disrespect young women. Kinda sound like she’s defending his actions, u learn as u get older. He’s too grown for the foolishness
T.I. was wrong and shouldn't have said what he said However there is nothing wrong in having an expanded vocabulary. I am actually impressed with his knowledge of the English language because not many rappers are that eloquent. People who use so called big words do so because they can and not because they are covering up for their ignorance.
I said that too...People will be like .... I don't mean to cut you off/interrupt BUT...and will still cut you off...OR... I don't mean to offend you BUT... THEN YOU OFFEND THEM....
The fact that he even does it is gross. She's now the age of consent and can now make her own decisions. He should trust his parenting enough to leave her be
the left wing mob It apparently doesn’t go for everybody in his household because he encourages his underage sons to have sex. Being concerned with your adult daughters virginity is disgusting. Just say you are (or will be) a bad parent and go :)..
RuelovesJules That part!!! He wasn’t protecting her. He was protecting his ego. This is a classic case of “I don’t want my daughter to end up with a guy like me but I’ll never say it aloud”
She told him the straight truth. I knew when that jacket came off, the full black mother came out. She handled him well and still defended her child’s honor. And they are identical.
I don’t think he even understood the severity of what he had done until his daughter stopped answering his calls. Deyjah is a beautiful young woman and she is very shy, so he may have thought her behavior during the trip was typical of her when she is a little upset. He really didn’t think he’d done anything wrong. Even the public outcry at first wasn’t faxing him. His daughter not speaking to him is what did it, IMO.
Hes so use to everyone treating him like a king. Hes use to treating his wife, kids and everyone like their his property. He looks down on them⬇️. Mr know it all. The only way hes going to learn is if someone puts him in his place
I didn't like when Tiny respond, she's not my daughter, totally not right. That's why Dehjah not comfortable being on the spot light. She's a beautiful young lady. We with you Dehjah💖
So... who peep how big girl's whole demeanour changed when she took the jacket off...sometimes the clothes do be hiding ya back from speaking your mind... lol....however, she kept it cute and got her point across without getting off track and she held him accountable while saying everything we thought...periodt poo.
They got a dope relationship. You can tell they were just two really good friends with a strong chemistry. But then things got carried away one night and then boom, deyjah was born 😂
I feel as if he was showing off about his daughters virginity as if she’s property....his just like the men he thinks his protecting her from..will be so funny if she’s a lesbian 😂
Even the mom said that s••• sounds wild meaning he sound crazy for bring that up especially in front of the world totally disrespectful and disgusting.
T.I is ignorant and narcissistic, why does a man need educating on raising his own grown daughter?? The people praising this man for doing what he was meant to do are the reason why black men continue to disrespect black women. It must have been uncomfortable for the mother to explain to a grown man why checking their daughter's himen is not acceptable. Even worse it's recorded and aired for the world to see.
Did u hear what he said . He never had anyone to teach him how to be a father. He's doing the best he knows how . He is a good dad under the circumstances stop being so judgy
One man takes itself out the picture and because he's not there now you don't know how to be a man or a father to your child so you take yourself out the picture and the cycle keeps going off no I'm not going to continue to praise TI for something that he is supposed to do that's his seed and you just hurt and damage your seed to the whole world you can't give that back
@@shawandajenkins7127 As someone who has a dad who was raised without his own dad(a.k.a my grandpa), I cannot agree with you at all. Yes sure T.i is human (humans are flawed ) and sure he could be a bit un educatded about how to be a good father figure for his children but he went overkill. I am beyond glad my own dad never went as far as ti did/does in regards to privacy, "checking virginity" like that etc... My might've been over protective but at least my dad and I'm sure alot of other dads understood where not to cross the line... Ti should've known that as well with his daughter...
@@YumuraPax i understand what u saying i never said he wasnt wrong for what he did tho . i said hes doing the best he knows how . i am a parent no parents are perfect we make mistakes im saying his mistake was from love. He said he was taught to provide n protect. So thats where he was coming from
Deyjah is so blessed to have a strong mother who does not back down. I hope she develops the same back bone her mother has because she won't always be around to protect her.
Glad he apologized but sometimes T.I. needs to just Shut up and RAP. Lol. Love him as an artist but other than that prefer he just shuts up. And he is a GREAT FATHER!
to late for who? you or his daughter.........because his daughter knows her father and they have a strong relationship......so you can easily dismiss a man you dont......but no child will dismiss a parent who makes a mistake with their feelings......
You don't know what you don't know🤷🏾♀️he obviously was exposed to very patriarchal thinking when it comes to women. Probably saw others he respected do THEIR children like that. When that's ALL you know, it's not hard to deem it as "normal."
“Now I understand!” What? Ti what was there to understand? You knew you were over stepping the boundaries nobody had to tell you that, it was common sense!🤦🏾♀️
I agree with you, but morality and logic are on different scales for people. What’s common sense to me and you, might not be entirely how someone else sees it. Like he says he had no assistance on how to be a dad. Probably seen too many teens getting pregnant and told himself he was going to prevent that from happening to his daughter. Still wrong, but he probably didn’t see things the way you, me and majority of people in the world 🤦🏽♀️ so I like how the mom educated him instead of cussing him out. We don’t always see eye to eye. ❤️
The problem is not him speaking on it. It is him doing it. He shouldn’t be checking her hymen anyways. Where the hell was Deyjah’s Mom when he was checking her hymen for how many years.
Well if you’re not well informed about hymns, or any genital concerns you shouldn’t speak on anything. Read a book or leave it to actual medical experts. He read the dictionary in jail and thought that was the knowledge he needed.
Maybe it's just me but a father visiting a gynecologist with a daughter is too odd. I'm not even talking about the virginity test 😏. Especially when her mom is around, Tamika, Grandma, aunt and.. and..
The question am interested in is why all these named people even allowed it Why didn't they tell him it's wrong? Why didn't they voice these issues before he went public? I think they are all just ashamed that it came undone in public And secondly, this is a stint, drama for their show
Nothing is wrong with a father supporting his daughters sexual health. He did something incorrect going to far was the issue.bBut I believe men should support their daughters more when it comes to sex because they have a males perspective. Its not one parents job to parent its BOTH parents responsibility.
@@trfrierson you can "support" her sexual health by waiting in the waiting room and letting her mother take her in. If want to have 'the talk' with her do that. But when it comes to vagina-specific things I think people with vaginas should take the lead. That's like if he was to mansplain having a period. Like wtf do u know abt it lool
@@MALogan-tc8sh In the beginning of the sentence I did say "maybe it's me". The fact that you say medical professionals allow and calling me a weirdo doesn't make this entire thing less odd to me. As you were 💅
He’s saying its a joke but Dejay herself said it was true! It’s utterly disgusting for any father to treat their daughter in such a way. My heart breaks for Dejay being put in this position by the one man who is supposed to show her unconditional love! Hopefully she is doing better and getting the support she needs xx
Please he’s still gonna let his sexually active 15 year old son do what he wants and he’s still gonna invade his daughters privacy because “nobody ever taught him how to raise girls” he victimized himself.
I have a whole new respect for T.I. I love that he is willing to do what is right beyond his ego. 🥰Can't wait to see how he makes this up to baby girl. 🤗
That was a interesting dialogue. So elated that TI can admit when he’s wrong and took full accountability. Somethings are met to stay behind closed doors PERIODT..#staywokeppl✌️
I am glad after deyjah mom talked to Ti,he realizes his mistake and apologize and he got to understand that she is growing up and he got to trust her to do the right thing.
TI is an amazing father & I respect him with his parenting skills. I also respect the relationship he holds with his xpartners for their kids. I don’t respect how he treats, disrespects manipulates Tiny. He teaches his kids to love, respect & treat women like queens, yet doesn’t treat Tiny in the same manner he preaches to his kids to treat women.
Deyjah looks so much like her beautiful mother!! Parents make mistakes; her dad is human. Can we please stop hearing about this subject??? PLEASE; it's overkill!
Yall NEED to get to a place where.... YOUR CHILDREN FEEL SAFE ENOUGH TO TALK... SPEAK... COMMUNICATE TO YALL AND WITH YALL WITHOUT MEDIATION FROM ANYONE... children... juss bcos YOU FEEL like you cant speak your truth... DOESNT MEAN YOUR PARENTS ARE WACK... sometimes... MOST OF THE TIME... understanding someone is a journey.... of your choice.... If you wanna understand... YOU WILL! We YOUR PARENTS... FAMILY... WE NEED YOUR TRUTH... IN WORDZ AND DEEDZZZ.... in order to understand.... HOPEFULLY.... it will lead to acceptance.... and peace and love can come to yooooou all... xxxx
Aww T.I feels so bad now I can see it in his eyes and how he explains himself as Nikko breaks it down to him. Prayers 🙏 to their family serious, it's not as easy for anyone who is famous to have the world know their business rather than this happening to someone who isn't and can talk about this behind close doors.
I do give him credit for finally realizing he was wrong about what he did because like his mom and others stated he shouldn't be saying personal issues to the public
How's he saying it's a joke but deyjah herself confirmed it on national TV? Also, hated how the mom tried to justify what he did a little bit. She did express dislike for what he did, but justifying it gives him an out so he doesn't have to take accountability and admit he was plain wrong. Even as she was explaining that he didn't grow up around women, he's sitting there agreeing trying to make it seem as though that was the reason. I call bullshit on the fact that he didn't know about the hymen thing. He knew what he did was wrong the moment he said it, he just thought it would get some laughs and wasn't expecting the backlash. I honestly feel like if it wasn't for the fact that people didn't agree with what he was doing, he wouldn't have apologized. He needs to come out and apologize without all the other bullshit, and without constantly mentioning "it was a joke". It wasn't just "a joke" as he so lightly puts it. Your daughter said that she's getting messages and propositions from grown ass men because of what you said. You made her a target. This apology isn't nearly enough. TALK TO YOUR DAUGHTER! He's always addressing this in interviews and social media and not with his daughter.
She looks exactly like her mother much respect to ti for understanding and also take responsibility for his actions but we all know that he is a Wonderful father to all of his children salute to the family
I would just like to Thank: T.I., & Tiny: Friends and Family Hustle, and VH1 for airing their business, especially the Beautiful Daughter, Deyjah, especially Thank You for being so strong. Hold your head high, there's nothing wrong, and for those who think there is, 😶. Thank you, again. And I'll tell you why, because of this storyline, you've educated alot of viewers on this hymen issue, whether they want to admit it or not, Mwn especially. Thank you T.I for admitting your wrongs on Nationl T.V , showing what real man would do. I've never watched the show, really had no desire to, feel like ya'll would do anything to make a buck, but this was pretty there. Good clip! Made me wanna tune in.👌🏾👍🏾
I can respect this. Sometimes us as people we judge other's without knowing their story or where they come from I can see why Tip is the way he is now knowing he wasn't raised around women or raised correctly. If you know better you do better and in that case he didn't know any better. You can't expect a person to know what they weren't taught. As a father he did what he felt was best for her, yes the conversation was very inappropriate but the same way he embarrassed his daughter, he embarrassed hisself as well and he now know exactly how she feels. I can respect a man who owns up to his wrongs and right his wrongs. But honestly it makes me question Tiny womanhood because as a woman, daughter, mother, and wife, as deyjah step mother she could've educated tip on what he did wrong. But her mother i applaud her for not only not being scared and speaking up, but setting tip straight putting him in his place. Now that he has apologized publicly he needs to mend his wrongs with his daughter and allow her to openly express her feelings because she's hurt. Let's not forget everyone wasn't taught how to be a parent some learned on their own.
I’m so glad that Deyjahs mom stepped up and spoke on Deyjahs behalf and got Tip to relize this and now I can only hope that Deyjah and Tip get there relationship back.
Exactly what her mom said. You can break your hymen many ways, and you didn’t have to have sex to break it. Ex: Riding a horse could tear/break your hymen. What T.I did was completely wrong, and I feel so bad for his daughter. I’m glad he understands what he did wrong, and I hope he doesn’t make that mistake again.
@@anne-ketiaassy1073 you have mistaken strength for the word insecure. Tiny is very insecure. Eye/Butt surgery etc & her man still gonna dip his stick every chance he gets. Tiny remind me of Cardi. Offset remind me of TIP 🤷🏾
BIG FACTS!!! Deyjah mom is so beautiful. I belive Tiny fail victim to what American society think is beautiful. Being in the public eye and having people trea your down day after day hurts ppl. Then they make changes to please others just to find out you can't please people. The work she has had done did not enhance her beauty it took away. As far as her responsibility with TIP all I can say is, it's sad. He's a narcissist.
I don’t believe him at all! Should have never happened at all! Seems like he is auctioning his daughter off to the highest bidder!! Deyjah, please find your own support team!
Deyjah look like a spitting image of her mom. That’s literally her twin
tyree bracey I thought that was her for a second
Me too
@@lyricxravenjenkins7401 me too until she started speaking
Deyjah simultaneously looks like t.i.'s mother but also her own mother but with t.i.'s nose
But she look like Tip mom too...ALOT N DAS CRAZY😍
Deyjah looks so much like her mom, but you can tell that TIP is her dad.
She has his features
TIP and deyjah noses are the exact same😭
She’s got her beautiful smile from her dad
Calm down
Yh she's a mixture of both parents
He doesn’t talk over her like he does tiny, Deyjah mom clearly stands her ground
Exactly my thoughts
That’s probably why they didn’t last.
I’m glad someone else noticed it besides me.
She said her Mom wasn't afraid of anyone
@@bigagnixon seems she is..cause nothing aint ran through his mind..
I can’t be the only one who though the mom was deyjah. I was like wow she’s grown a bit🤣🤣🤣 they are beautiful twins 😍😍
I thought it was her at first too! Twins!
Me to
I did. They look so much a like.
Same. They look just a like
That threw me off like they are identical
Apologizing is the bare minimum. I hope he changes his behavior.
As someone said it best, "An apology without changed behavior is just damage control."
If ti doesn't think that he didn't do nothing wrong, and if he doesn't think he needs to change, he won't.
He thinks hes perfect the way he is.
@@pikkinikki711 this man loves his children. NO parent is perfect. As a former teen mother, getting pregnant at 16, allowing a man to take advantage of me & mistreat me...I WISH my daddy was still alive to care enough.
Yes! 👏👏👏
I feel like he only apologized because of how big it was getting.
YOU CAN TELL HER MOMS DONT PLAY!
That why he not with her. He can only hang on to someone you could control. TI got to be seen.. Men calling them selfs men because they pay child support. You are supposed to support your kids & love them. Do he want a award for it.
Agreed, he seems to respect her more than tiny tbh
@@skyymon8456 Control? Women should not have to be controlled by men. My mom is the exact same way she stands her ground. And both my parents are still together.
So true!
Oh, please. Her mother should have never allowed that nonsense.
Ti thinks he's smarter than everyone else.
Right and that’s really not the case 😂🙄
Exactly
Yes lord
Right?! With his country a$$ 😂
Just like my dad🤧
If men like him taught their sons to be virgins too, they wouldn’t have to worry so much about their daughters because everyone would be a virgin.
Say that!
That part 💯💯💯
THIS. They teach their sons to be on the prowl while girls are taught to be reserved and that doesnt match up.
JessBusiness cause y’all don’t know how to discipline yaselfs a lot of y’all weak minded if a quick witted man come around🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
#SHIIIID
Preach my Nigerian sister!!!
No matter his intentions he doesn’t own her body. He just don’t understand.
You cant even comment bc yout name is Meow P'usse
He has an old southern view of parenting the parents didn't have boundaries when it came to maintaining order amongst their children its fear on tips behalf he's not ready to let go of his little girl but his little girl is a young woman now and like you said its HER BODY it always have been tip needs to learn empathy and consideration
Did you watch the clip or nah lol???
@@Djay528i I agree, but also notice that with this old way of thinking, men readily and easily let go of the reins on their boy children. Once the boy hits puberty, they push him to become a man; things like dating, hooking up, etc. are actually pushed and praised (example Boosie).
Least he was man enough to apologize and admit he was wrong most men won’t do that we all make mistakes nobody is perfect we live and we learn
Deyjah mum stepped on his neck politely ❤️❤️
Right
Lmao she's not afraid of anyone like Deyjah said.
He playing the victim just like Deyjah said
Right? It’s sad.
Exactly
Yup, he's not remorseful.
I never had nobody to teach me blah blah blah we don’t care apologize to your daughter
Franklin Brooks EXACTLY!
He should be more worried about his son King. That young boy is talking about getting serious with a girl and he ain't even graduated high school yet!
Can’t even get his license yet one of the episodes he joke about king doing stuff and he said he was not paying child support that one he should be watching more.
He doesn't even wanna go to school. Using music as a reason to not go. Smh
I definitely agree👏🏽💯
Yeah his son king lost his virginity at 13 and he's failing in school and he allows him to go out on tour
Ti you are a disgrace always trying to sound smart.
FACTS
i love the way deyjah mom handled this...she was so calm
I agree 😌
Maybe so she doesn't lose her lifestyle.
@@Prosperity85 it’s not like he was giving her child support because Deyjah was over 18 and Deyjah’s mom makes music she provides for herself
He needs to apologize to his daughter and let her express her disgust.
i don’t think deyjah would want to it publicly maybe they did something behind the scenes
monishasamells yeah, I agree
What exactly did he say about her?
I thought deyjah mom was deyjah 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Rachel Clark same
I did to
Me 2 they look Soo much alike.
I deadass thought that was her until he said “this deyjahs mom”
Rt😂
He admitted nothing, baby mom put him in his f**king spot. I'm not buying it. He knew EXACTLY how deyjah felt. 🙄
Exactly !! He sick asl like he has a sick obsession with her that’s a form of incest when your relying on your daughter for the emotional support u should be getting from your spouse
That’s what you’re calling her tho? 😂
It's good to see a woman stand up to him and call him on his mess. That's why they're not together. Because she can't be controlled. And that's why momma showed up.
@@shayshay5317 i feel that too. I mean his daughter does look like his moma
Why did baby momma allow it, though? She's as much to blame.
I'm glad he apologized, but he needs to stop. She doesn't have to stay a virgin cause you want her to. I'm tired of men telling women what to do with their bodies. So invasive.
Andre Johnson actually she’s 19 and in college, which is why he needed her permission to talk to the doctor and obtain medical records. And there are things like birth control and safe sex..and maybe she’s not even interested in sex right now..bottom line is he did way too much and he was wrong. Period.
Andre Johnson she’s 19 and was 18 when this happened so no she nor the baby would be HIS responsibility and sex doesn’t always equal pregnancy. And honestly if he was so worried about taking responsibility of a baby then his TEENAGE SON still in school shouldn’t be condoned having sex.
When you have a healthy relationship with your child you eventually have a mature and appropriate discussion with them on being safe if they ever choose to have sexual intercourse to prevent not only pregnancy but STIs as well. She is an honors student, in college, making her own money from her social platform. Having sex does not make you a good or bad person, it does not take away from your success or hinder talents, so after a certain age parents shouldn’t really focus on that aspect on their child’s life especially if they see them going down the right path.
Exactly
Like I say if you want your daughter to remain a virgin that's cool that's good but have that same energy with your son too don't be a hypocrite and keep it in the family everyone don't have to know your business.
@Andre Johnson y i k e s. i hope you don't bring any progeny into the world.
I applaud to Deyjah’s mom for speaking up and checking TI. But I also respect TI to admitting he was wrong in this situation
Me too! 👏🏽👏🏽. Tip be on that ego b.s. sometimes but he clearly loves and has taken care of his kids, us parents make mistakes too so I’m glad he apologized and it seemed sincere.
Ti was so defensive throughout the interview
@@s.mcqueen8149 that is very true too
I know this comment is 3 years old but TI only admitted to being wrong so he wouldn’t continue to get dragged thru the mud. We all know it was a front. He’s a controlling narcissist.
He still doesn't get it. Whether she's a virgin or not, you invaded her privacy. It's her choice to disclose that info. His arrogance is so damn disturbing.
And guess what he doesn't care and quite frankly I don't think you will ever fully apologize to her face because he's one of those guys who can't handle criticism especially from his own children hell his own wife is a doormat
As a parent, it's LAME AF to be so publicly insensitive, and then walk around entitled, feeling like your right and never sincerely apologize to your daughter. If days gone by, you're wrong. Even if she never picked up the phone to answer your bullshit, insensitive call, if u know you've crushed your baby's heart,, you go make it right. You're the man, the example in her life. What if her future decisions are based off how her dad handles their relationship...She'll be with the type of man walking around being publicly insensitive, and then ignoring her feelings, and telling everybody that he was just playing around, as the excuse for himself to not go say I fucked up, I hurt you, and it won't ever happen again. Not the type of man you'd want for her Im sure.
You hit the nail on the head.. She gone be with a man like her daddy and I don't mean that in a good way🤦♀️
You are absolutely correct !!!
Yup!! And then act like ignorance is bliss. He could only say it was a joke.... seesh first of all her virginity after a certain age is not his business.
Y’all look at everything on tv she has said he apologized to her sincerely just because it ain’t on camera don’t mean it didn’t happen!
@@beautylove5074 he also apologized to Tiny several times off camera and is still cheating on her so his word isn’t serious.
Nope not buying it. Idc if Deyjah was his 1st, 3rd, 5th or whatever. He shouldve known better. As her father, you set the tone of how she should be treated by men. You treated her like an object, like PROPERTY! Now she dont trust you and eventually not trust men at all for awhile. Dont give this man any excuse at all, the SECOND you found out she was upset, you shouldve been moving heaven & earth to figure out whats wrong. You failed her and broke her trust.
Ashley M. THANK YOU!!!!
Thank you! 👏 I agree
Ashley M. Definitely the truth! Totally agree!
Disagree. He was just a concerned father. Need more black fathers like TIP.
BayBoy2Stuntastic let me tell you something on behalf of all women and so you can be aware of this for your daughters (if you have any). we know men will go above and beyond to protect their daughters hearts, but you have to protect the young lady in her as well. As a young girl, we don’t want men to have anything to do with our private areas (ESPECIALLY our fathers). Going to the gynecologist to “check her virginity” against her will is Invasive and horrific. This is what we’re trying to get men to understand. Protect your daughters, but also protect and respect her as a young lady.
He’s always using big words to sound intelligent so tht it can take away from the fact tht he’s ignorant when speaking on certain topics. Men like him make other males feel comfortable when it’s time to disrespect young women. Kinda sound like she’s defending his actions, u learn as u get older. He’s too grown for the foolishness
T.I. was wrong and shouldn't have said what he said However there is nothing wrong in having an expanded vocabulary. I am actually impressed with his knowledge of the English language because not many rappers are that eloquent.
People who use so called big words do so because they can and not because they are covering up for their ignorance.
@London Latrice, big words with small meanings..😂😂#staywokeppl✌️
Audra Folkes yessss 👏🏾👏🏾
Literally LMFAOO
People love saying "It was just a joke" when things get too far.
Orange Blossom Right! Then they wanna make out like the person they offended is being sensitive and unreasonable 🙄
I said that too...People will be like .... I don't mean to cut you off/interrupt BUT...and will still cut you off...OR... I don't mean to offend you BUT... THEN YOU OFFEND THEM....
Deyjah looks just like her mama !!
Absolutely!
I thought she was her mom😂
exactly
She gave Ti the biz. Tiny wouldn't made it that far cuz Ti would've shut her down.
That’s why T.I. isn’t with her cause he obviously can’t control her like he can Tiny
@@nanditoamaya I agree
Very true
I thought the same thing, lowkey. T.I respects the hell out of That Queen💯 You can tell she a different "breed" than Tiny--periodt.dot
Thats why he's not with her lol
Deyjah's mother is BEAUTIFUL 😍. Deyjah gets her looks from her beautiful mother. Deyjah is beautiful just like her mom.
Exactly she is the best looking one out of all of the mother of his children I’m sorry
The fact that he even does it is gross. She's now the age of consent and can now make her own decisions. He should trust his parenting enough to leave her be
See he should have even told anybody that's your daughter's business that's your child come on now.
the left wing mob It apparently doesn’t go for everybody in his household because he encourages his underage sons to have sex. Being concerned with your adult daughters virginity is disgusting.
Just say you are (or will be) a bad parent and go :)..
RuelovesJules That part!!! He wasn’t protecting her. He was protecting his ego. This is a classic case of “I don’t want my daughter to end up with a guy like me but I’ll never say it aloud”
I wish more people do that with they kids especially when some of them are not telling the truth,
Deyjah's mom is so pretty. She's holding it down!
Looks better than tiny
She told him the straight truth. I knew when that jacket came off, the full black mother came out. She handled him well and still defended her child’s honor. And they are identical.
💯she is the definition of a kick ass mama
There’s was nothing funny about it. It was not a joke. Even in this video he tries to make it seem like he’s innocent. He’s not.
Yea. His ego! True enough he is very protective & he fucked this 1 up. He is afraid for her to run into HIM
I feel like Ti you had time to talk to her when you was on your family trip.
Right. He’s only apologizing because of public Scrutiny
I think he did but they used him not talking to her as story line
She wasnt ready to talk to him at that time
Miranda Brooks facts
I don’t think he even understood the severity of what he had done until his daughter stopped answering his calls. Deyjah is a beautiful young woman and she is very shy, so he may have thought her behavior during the trip was typical of her when she is a little upset. He really didn’t think he’d done anything wrong. Even the public outcry at first wasn’t faxing him. His daughter not speaking to him is what did it, IMO.
He's so full of it and tiny sorry too
Hes so use to everyone treating him like a king. Hes use to treating his wife, kids and everyone like their his property. He looks down on them⬇️. Mr know it all. The only way hes going to learn is if someone puts him in his place
And disrespectful to tiny her heart is pure.....you reap what you sow
He may be trying tho
I didn't like when Tiny respond, she's not my daughter, totally not right. That's why Dehjah not comfortable being on the spot light. She's a beautiful young lady. We with you Dehjah💖
T. I. Irritating with all these big ass words. He’s just irritating all the way around
Deyjah mom plays no games with TI.
deyjah’s mom is pretty 🤩😍
This situation is one of the reason why daughters dont tell their father 100 everything.
I hate the way he talk 😂😂😂
Right !❗️❗️❗️❗️ period ❗️❗️💀
its annyoing! He is annoying!
Same
🤣🤣🤣
Her mama did a great job of defending her daughter and also checking Tip..
So... who peep how big girl's whole demeanour changed when she took the jacket off...sometimes the clothes do be hiding ya back from speaking your mind... lol....however, she kept it cute and got her point across without getting off track and she held him accountable while saying everything we thought...periodt poo.
They got a dope relationship. You can tell they were just two really good friends with a strong chemistry. But then things got carried away one night and then boom, deyjah was born 😂
LOL
🤣
That actually what happened 😂. T.I. told that story on the “I still luv you” song.
Better than him and tiny.
He cheated on Messiah's mom with her lol. My opinion
I feel as if he was showing off about his daughters virginity as if she’s property....his just like the men he thinks his protecting her from..will be so funny if she’s a lesbian 😂
Right ok! That part!
I believe she does like girls too.
Wait y’all
Must of forgot what marriage was before huh?
And?! Nobody wants their young children having sex. Well, at least I don't. I know what comes along with it all.
@@traceygarner7764But he dont have the same energy for his sons! Only his daughters its sexist and ignorant!
When she said "ask your daughter" I loved that!
Even the mom said that s••• sounds wild meaning he sound crazy for bring that up especially in front of the world totally disrespectful and disgusting.
T.I is ignorant and narcissistic, why does a man need educating on raising his own grown daughter?? The people praising this man for doing what he was meant to do are the reason why black men continue to disrespect black women. It must have been uncomfortable for the mother to explain to a grown man why checking their daughter's himen is not acceptable. Even worse it's recorded and aired for the world to see.
Did u hear what he said . He never had anyone to teach him how to be a father. He's doing the best he knows how . He is a good dad under the circumstances stop being so judgy
@@shawandajenkins7127 thats not an excuse though. Lol.
One man takes itself out the picture and because he's not there now you don't know how to be a man or a father to your child so you take yourself out the picture and the cycle keeps going off no I'm not going to continue to praise TI for something that he is supposed to do that's his seed and you just hurt and damage your seed to the whole world you can't give that back
@@shawandajenkins7127 As someone who has a dad who was raised without his own dad(a.k.a my grandpa), I cannot agree with you at all.
Yes sure T.i is human (humans are flawed ) and sure he could be a bit un educatded about how to be a good father figure for his children but he went overkill.
I am beyond glad my own dad never went as far as ti did/does in regards to privacy, "checking virginity" like that etc...
My might've been over protective but at least my dad and I'm sure alot of other dads understood where not to cross the line... Ti should've known that as well with his daughter...
@@YumuraPax i understand what u saying i never said he wasnt wrong for what he did tho . i said hes doing the best he knows how . i am a parent no parents are perfect we make mistakes im saying his mistake was from love. He said he was taught to provide n protect. So thats where he was coming from
Deyjah is so blessed to have a strong mother who does not back down. I hope she develops the same back bone her mother has because she won't always be around to protect her.
Glad he apologized but sometimes T.I. needs to just Shut up and RAP. Lol. Love him as an artist but other than that prefer he just shuts up. And he is a GREAT FATHER!
Yeah
Considering all his daughter has said in the past few episodes he’s not a great father
@@JeremyScott459 i don't watch the show so I'm not sure what she has said. I'm not a fan of Tip when he has to talk only when he raps.
I liked him alot better when he just rapped.
How did he not immediately realize he was wrong? This "apology" is too little too late.
Right. He only doing the apology to save face
to late for who? you or his daughter.........because his daughter knows her father and they have a strong relationship......so you can easily dismiss a man you dont......but no child will dismiss a parent who makes a mistake with their feelings......
*you dont know
You don't know what you don't know🤷🏾♀️he obviously was exposed to very patriarchal thinking when it comes to women. Probably saw others he respected do THEIR children like that. When that's ALL you know, it's not hard to deem it as "normal."
It’s better than never
I’m so happy for her mom standing out for her daughter..👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
I like the fact that they were both able to have a healthy conversation as adults!
When Niko said "would you ever do that to your son?" T.I had no defense and it might have switch on a bulb. Good Point..
I don’t understand why Tiny couldn’t be a stepmom and stand up for Deyjah. Tiny could’ve educated TI just like Deyjan’s mom did.
He controls Tiny with his pretend intellect.
Exactly my thoughts,,,makes you wonder whether she even has a relationship with her at all.Seems like she does not want to step on ti's toes
“Now I understand!” What? Ti what was there to understand? You knew you were over stepping the boundaries nobody had to tell you that, it was common sense!🤦🏾♀️
Right.
I agree with you, but morality and logic are on different scales for people. What’s common sense to me and you, might not be entirely how someone else sees it. Like he says he had no assistance on how to be a dad. Probably seen too many teens getting pregnant and told himself he was going to prevent that from happening to his daughter. Still wrong, but he probably didn’t see things the way you, me and majority of people in the world 🤦🏽♀️ so I like how the mom educated him instead of cussing him out. We don’t always see eye to eye. ❤️
The problem is not him speaking on it. It is him doing it. He shouldn’t be checking her hymen anyways. Where the hell was Deyjah’s Mom when he was checking her hymen for how many years.
They look so much alike, they are both gorgeous!! Glad he did the right thing in this situation.
The fact that he needs to be taught to NOT talk about his daughters genitals is rather disturbing
Well if you’re not well informed about hymns, or any genital concerns you shouldn’t speak on anything. Read a book or leave it to actual medical experts. He read the dictionary in jail and thought that was the knowledge he needed.
😂😂😂 you ate that
Sound dumb! She 17 she not grown, understand both sides but i agree he was wrong from talking about it
@@jaylenstone6765 she is 19 years old.
@@jaylenstone6765 you sure? I thought she was an adult at 19 and should be able to have privacy about her sexual life
Prison wisdom. Lol
I'm glad he apologized and that Deyjah's mom helped him understand how he was wrong.
Nobody going talk about how tip was looking at her like he miss her
Something about natural beauty baby🤗
I peaked that.
Caught it too
How old is their daughter... N he's now eyeing her??
I am pretty sure she don't won't no t.i, she know how he is, he can't control her like he do tiny 💯
This lady speaks truth! Am glad he learned something because fam is the best we can have in this life. Lord guide us plz 🙌
T.I. Is not owning to his actions. He just Keeps talking and taking and he’s making no sense.
At all. And Tiny and his mother cosign it.
Facts yo. He never really apoligized
Just bcuz he talks over people and controls the conversation doesn’t make him smart
Damn I thought that was Deyjah herself
Nevada Teasley same
My only question is,
Why didn't his daughter's doctor educate him on the matter?
Exactly. She didn’t see a problem w/ telling a father about a hymen for a “virginity check?”
One more question: ...isnt that a HIPAA violation
The doctor told TIP that her hymen can be broken without her having sex and tip disagreed 🤣
Bobby Gray 🤣🤣 how you disagree with a doctor about a scientific fact? He thinks he’s smarter than everyone
Kitty M.H. mmh, I don’t think so if she was a child, but it’s still weird af and the doctor should’ve questioned it.
Maybe it's just me but a father visiting a gynecologist with a daughter is too odd. I'm not even talking about the virginity test 😏. Especially when her mom is around, Tamika, Grandma, aunt and.. and..
THIS! Why do you care that much weirdo?! And what medical professional allows this?!
The question am interested in is why all these named people even allowed it
Why didn't they tell him it's wrong?
Why didn't they voice these issues before he went public?
I think they are all just ashamed that it came undone in public
And secondly, this is a stint, drama for their show
Nothing is wrong with a father supporting his daughters sexual health. He did something incorrect going to far was the issue.bBut I believe men should support their daughters more when it comes to sex because they have a males perspective. Its not one parents job to parent its BOTH parents responsibility.
@@trfrierson you can "support" her sexual health by waiting in the waiting room and letting her mother take her in. If want to have 'the talk' with her do that. But when it comes to vagina-specific things I think people with vaginas should take the lead. That's like if he was to mansplain having a period. Like wtf do u know abt it lool
@@MALogan-tc8sh In the beginning of the sentence I did say "maybe it's me". The fact that you say medical professionals allow and calling me a weirdo doesn't make this entire thing less odd to me. As you were 💅
Deja look like her mama, owie shoot i thought that was deja
I'm glad he apologized for this
He needs to apologize directly to Deyjah though
her mom definitely held it together, I can tell she wanted to really go off on him.
He’s saying its a joke but Dejay herself said it was true! It’s utterly disgusting for any father to treat their daughter in such a way. My heart breaks for Dejay being put in this position by the one man who is supposed to show her unconditional love! Hopefully she is doing better and getting the support she needs xx
Bc while he think he’s making a joke of something that he knows nothing about it was actually true for her.
The fact that it took him all of this to realize how messed up what he did/said was, is ridiculous.
This is the first time I really feel Tip is actually sorry for his actions
I don't. He's a narcissist
@@aaronj9393 -EXACTLY!! AND ARROGANT🙄
Please he’s still gonna let his sexually active 15 year old son do what he wants and he’s still gonna invade his daughters privacy because “nobody ever taught him how to raise girls” he victimized himself.
I have a whole new respect for T.I. I love that he is willing to do what is right beyond his ego. 🥰Can't wait to see how he makes this up to baby girl. 🤗
I respect him for being mature, realizing his mistake and apologizing. She is blessed to have a father who love and care about her. ❤️
That was a interesting dialogue. So elated that TI can admit when he’s wrong and took full accountability. Somethings are met to stay behind closed doors PERIODT..#staywokeppl✌️
When she took off her jacket… WOOOO! That was the equivalent of her taking off her earrings! 😂👏🏼
The apology means a lot coming from Tip.. respect him 💯.. He’s a great father to all his kids...
How if he humiliated his child in front of the world.
Deyja is beautiful, looks just like her mom. I'm happy her mom backing her up on air and letting her dad see the wrong.
I am glad after deyjah mom talked to Ti,he realizes his mistake and apologize and he got to understand that she is growing up and he got to trust her to do the right thing.
I'm happy that he understands his mistakes,and Is willing to make changes of how he handles situations.
"Would you ever do that sir?“💀💣🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
His apology still sounds insincere to me 🤷🏽♀️
He like never apologize
Deyjah mom is beautiful! Her daughter is the split image of her🌹
TI is an amazing father & I respect him with his parenting skills. I also respect the relationship he holds with his xpartners for their kids. I don’t respect how he treats, disrespects manipulates Tiny. He teaches his kids to love, respect & treat women like queens, yet doesn’t treat Tiny in the same manner he preaches to his kids to treat women.
Deyjah looks so much like her beautiful mother!! Parents make mistakes; her dad is human. Can we please stop hearing about this subject??? PLEASE; it's overkill!
EXACTLY!!! LOL. Let's move forward.
Yall NEED to get to a place where....
YOUR CHILDREN FEEL SAFE ENOUGH TO TALK... SPEAK... COMMUNICATE TO YALL AND WITH YALL WITHOUT MEDIATION FROM ANYONE...
children... juss bcos YOU FEEL like you cant speak your truth... DOESNT MEAN YOUR PARENTS ARE WACK...
sometimes... MOST OF THE TIME... understanding someone is a journey.... of your choice....
If you wanna understand... YOU WILL!
We YOUR PARENTS... FAMILY... WE NEED YOUR TRUTH... IN WORDZ AND DEEDZZZ.... in order to understand....
HOPEFULLY.... it will lead to acceptance.... and peace and love can come to yooooou all... xxxx
Teachable moment.......Your daughter may appreciate your apology....It was much needed..
Aww T.I feels so bad now I can see it in his eyes and how he explains himself as Nikko breaks it down to him. Prayers 🙏 to their family serious, it's not as easy for anyone who is famous to have the world know their business rather than this happening to someone who isn't and can talk about this behind close doors.
I do give him credit for finally realizing he was wrong about what he did because like his mom and others stated he shouldn't be saying personal issues to the public
How's he saying it's a joke but deyjah herself confirmed it on national TV?
Also, hated how the mom tried to justify what he did a little bit. She did express dislike for what he did, but justifying it gives him an out so he doesn't have to take accountability and admit he was plain wrong. Even as she was explaining that he didn't grow up around women, he's sitting there agreeing trying to make it seem as though that was the reason.
I call bullshit on the fact that he didn't know about the hymen thing.
He knew what he did was wrong the moment he said it, he just thought it would get some laughs and wasn't expecting the backlash. I honestly feel like if it wasn't for the fact that people didn't agree with what he was doing, he wouldn't have apologized.
He needs to come out and apologize without all the other bullshit, and without constantly mentioning "it was a joke". It wasn't just "a joke" as he so lightly puts it.
Your daughter said that she's getting messages and propositions from grown ass men because of what you said. You made her a target.
This apology isn't nearly enough. TALK TO YOUR DAUGHTER! He's always addressing this in interviews and social media and not with his daughter.
She looks exactly like her mother much respect to ti for understanding and also take responsibility for his actions but we all know that he is a Wonderful father to all of his children salute to the family
But her mom looks GORGEOUS!
DeyJah is spitting image of her Mom. Just BEAUTIFUL ❤️
Big respect to T.I for acknowledging his own ignorance. Most people really can't do that.
I would just like to Thank: T.I., & Tiny: Friends and Family Hustle, and VH1 for airing their business, especially the Beautiful Daughter, Deyjah, especially Thank You for being so strong. Hold your head high, there's nothing wrong, and for those who think there is, 😶. Thank you, again. And I'll tell you why, because of this storyline, you've educated alot of viewers on this hymen issue, whether they want to admit it or not, Mwn especially. Thank you T.I for admitting your wrongs on Nationl T.V , showing
what real man would do. I've never watched the show, really had no desire to, feel like ya'll would do anything to make a buck, but this was pretty there. Good clip! Made me wanna tune in.👌🏾👍🏾
#1 that momma is awesome and kind and patient
#2 TI was wrong
#3 I love a man who can admit that he was wrong, apologise and LEARN
he’s ok with his 14 year old son being sexually active but gets his 19 year old daughter’s hymen checked every so often??? that’s bs.
I can respect this. Sometimes us as people we judge other's without knowing their story or where they come from I can see why Tip is the way he is now knowing he wasn't raised around women or raised correctly. If you know better you do better and in that case he didn't know any better. You can't expect a person to know what they weren't taught. As a father he did what he felt was best for her, yes the conversation was very inappropriate but the same way he embarrassed his daughter, he embarrassed hisself as well and he now know exactly how she feels. I can respect a man who owns up to his wrongs and right his wrongs. But honestly it makes me question Tiny womanhood because as a woman, daughter, mother, and wife, as deyjah step mother she could've educated tip on what he did wrong. But her mother i applaud her for not only not being scared and speaking up, but setting tip straight putting him in his place. Now that he has apologized publicly he needs to mend his wrongs with his daughter and allow her to openly express her feelings because she's hurt. Let's not forget everyone wasn't taught how to be a parent some learned on their own.
I’m so glad that Deyjahs mom stepped up and spoke on Deyjahs behalf and got Tip to relize this and now I can only hope that Deyjah and Tip get there relationship back.
Exactly what her mom said. You can break your hymen many ways, and you didn’t have to have sex to break it. Ex: Riding a horse could tear/break your hymen. What T.I did was completely wrong, and I feel so bad for his daughter. I’m glad he understands what he did wrong, and I hope he doesn’t make that mistake again.
Man people can say what they want, but this is so beautiful to me. Love this!
Deyjah's mom looks wayyyyyyyyyy better than Tiny!!!!!!
Maybe but does she have the strength of Tiny bc handling TI is no joke
KayKay J How is allowing someone to run all over You Strenght? Sounds like weakness to me.
@@anne-ketiaassy1073 you have mistaken strength for the word insecure.
Tiny is very insecure.
Eye/Butt surgery etc & her man still gonna dip his stick every chance he gets. Tiny remind me of Cardi. Offset remind me of TIP 🤷🏾
BIG FACTS!!! Deyjah mom is so beautiful. I belive Tiny fail victim to what American society think is beautiful. Being in the public eye and having people trea your down day after day hurts ppl. Then they make changes to please others just to find out you can't please people. The work she has had done did not enhance her beauty it took away. As far as her responsibility with TIP all I can say is, it's sad. He's a narcissist.
Nefreteri Davis nahhh tiny was mad pretty in the xscape days
I don’t believe him at all! Should have never happened at all! Seems like he is auctioning his daughter off to the highest bidder!! Deyjah, please find your own support team!
Her mama