I’m married to a man who I don’t love or even like and my parents forced me to marry him because of a promise and I was 18 years old then and now since I married him we always fight over and over again and I just don’t able to love him anymore I have given birth to a wonderful son for him but still my heart is not ready for him whenever he get close to me I feel like It a punishment that I don’t able to bear please my brother and sister help me and put me in to your Dua to let Allah free me from this unhappy marriage 😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏please 😭😭🙏may Almighty Allah always be with me and you all❤😢
Allah has permitted divorce, forbidden any sort of abuse, be it physical, emotional, financial and had said that forced marriage is NOT a valid marriage. Let’s be Muslim before being idiots following culture or caring what people think. Only Allah can forgive or save you, if you’re going to be disgusting and engage in all this forbidden wrong then shame on you, your day with the Lord WILL come. Ladies, have strength. Do what Allah allows you to, I’ve seen many do so without severing family ties and Allah blessed them with happiness and affluence. Be happy.
Prophet Muhammad with a miswak? A 5 inch skinny twig? Take your hate elsewhere love, work on healing whatever bitterness inside you that makes you revolve your life around hating people and faiths completely irrelevant to who you are. Hating and obsessing isn’t a personality trait you know.
I am so much tensed due to this marriage commitment..becz I have a baby boy and now I am second time expecting...I am not happy with my husband, from the very start of marriage I am compromising for he be responsible serious and caring but he is not doing anything ..He is not financially independent ..I am so much worried that if I break this marriage then my children would e emotionally and mentally hurt..bcz I spend a life of broken family ..my parents parted away..That's why I put full efforts to make this marriage successful but my father is not alive..I have sisters who cannot support me, I am lonely 😭
That's why I found this video and your comment and that's why replying you bcz I want to put out my frustrations.. I don't want to destroy life of my children ..but don't want to live with this man either..where I go ..😭
I have a baby girl But now I unhappy here. My husband is a mama boy They are still torcher me mentally and emotionally, physically........ So what can I do now I'm 24...........
I was in an arranged marriage and I didn’t know what I was getting myself into all in all, I’m not Happy and I have been depressed for a while now I have a son and I’m just so unhappy and I don’t know what to do. Plz help me also my husband he isn’t bad I’m just not interested in him
I've been married only a week and the same is true for me. My husband is not a bad guy, he is actually a good guy. I am just not interested in him. I have been looking all over the internet for a solution but I don't there is any...
@@maryamwajid5261 i dont know what to tell you tbh i am in this situation past 8years. My marriage wasnt even my choice the scars left on my soul have taken the toll years later, wishing i walked out sooner and everytime thinking its too late:( Jusy remember You cant force ur self to love someone .. its not as easy as ppl and families think when they get us married. .
I’ve been in the same situation n it’s just 3 months everyone has just starting forcing me now I’m literally so scared and don’t know what to do..??my husband is not a bad guy i just am like i have no words to explain..!!
Look I will just tell you something we don't appreciate how good our life are first of all you need to understand you can became happy in marriage if you look at positive things . You have suppose you divorce who will take son you can't take a child away from father nor father had right so one person is always going to end up victim . Do there is no right way to divorce you could became happy in Marraige if you try second people say we mix culture with marriage but it's not these schooler mix culture with Islam let me tell you when our schooler speak they speak verses and hadise when these schooler speak they are just speaker I don't support Islam in Islam there should be good enough reason to divorce now here are two opinion among real schooler first women can't take divorce without good enough reason and other she can but she will go to hell . This is very unthantic hadise that if a women divorce her husband without good enough reason then she will not even get fragment of heaven I don't trust it . But it is in Islam it's part of Islam I think this should also apply to men because marriage not only effect two people it effect children so if you are willing to gave son to him then go on divorce it's only right way because he will not end up being victim
Remember Prophet Muhammad SAW has said there will be more women in hell Hadith:- The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052)
Salam Waleikum, my sister got married in February. Her husband is not supportive, he made her guilty in front of everyone for something that wasnt true. She hates us too for not standing up for her when she needed us. Her mother in law taunts her on little things. Her husband do love her but doesnt stand for her. We brought her home and we went to a doctor, she is suffering from migraine. But her in laws and not even her husband called her if she is ok now. She doesnt talk much now and also grown weak. Can anyone suggest me anything please. Our ramadan is totally going deppressed. I just want my sister to be happy.
Assalaam o Alaikum wrwb Your sister is probably depressed and this could turn out even worse. Firstly do Astaghfirullah tasbeehs for her as a family or Ayat Kareema. Secondly support her, no matter what she decides for herself. Tell your parents not all marriages work. Thirdly make sure it’s not jadu by seeing any spiritual healer or Aalim in Sha ALLAH.
Mine is love marriage. We know each other from 4 years. He was very happy during marriage preps. He did everything alone and we got married. after 2 months of marriage I conceived and everything changed. My MIL was not happy with baby. Husband was happy and then everything changed. He started abusing me. saying he doesnt love me anymore and he wants to leave me. He did physical violence, he started drinking, smoking. I found him chatting with a random girl from his ofc. I dont know what to do as it is getting toxic and I don’t feel like continuing marriage. Please suggest what to do. Thanks
If you are planning to leave your husband then let me tell you your life will be much more difficult and every time you do something wrong they will blame you saying " that's the reason your marriage didn't survive" Umarried girls pls be aware the perfect guy you are marring is going to be your husband only not companion... It's sad how men can have four wives and women are stuck with one and that too" forced" If you are married and sad then let me tell you only Allah can help you so don't try to help your self... Pray tahjud, remember only alllah can help you!Also be happy that you are not happy and not your husband other wise you will be more sad.Say alhamdulillah wait for some miracle.
@Khadijat I don't want to discourage them...but sometimes naseeb is so much difficult that no matter what option u choose it always ends up being troublesome.
I am going to get married soon. But I am not happy. I don't wanna get married. I am sad and I don't like the guy. I also can't stop this marriage from happening. Please tell me how can I make my mind and be happy?
I got married with all implementations and I am not happy either..I don't like this man even after 2 years of this marriage how can people force you to live happy with a person you don't like they think marriage is such a sacred relationship that you automatically start loving your spouse .but that is not the case with me
I’m married to a man who I don’t love or even like and my parents forced me to marry him because of a promise and I was 18 years old then and now since I married him we always fight over and over again and I just don’t able to love him anymore I have given birth to a wonderful son for him but still my heart is not ready for him whenever he get close to me I feel like It a punishment that I don’t able to bear please my brother and sister help me and put me in to your Dua to let Allah free me from this unhappy marriage 😭😭😭😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏please 😭😭🙏may Almighty Allah always be with me and you all❤😢
Are you content now? I'm also 18 and going to get married but I'm not interested in him he loves me but I have to please tell me...
Allah has permitted divorce, forbidden any sort of abuse, be it physical, emotional, financial and had said that forced marriage is NOT a valid marriage. Let’s be Muslim before being idiots following culture or caring what people think. Only Allah can forgive or save you, if you’re going to be disgusting and engage in all this forbidden wrong then shame on you, your day with the Lord WILL come. Ladies, have strength. Do what Allah allows you to, I’ve seen many do so without severing family ties and Allah blessed them with happiness and affluence. Be happy.
Prophet Muhammad with a miswak? A 5 inch skinny twig? Take your hate elsewhere love, work on healing whatever bitterness inside you that makes you revolve your life around hating people and faiths completely irrelevant to who you are. Hating and obsessing isn’t a personality trait you know.
I am so much tensed due to this marriage commitment..becz I have a baby boy and now I am second time expecting...I am not happy with my husband, from the very start of marriage I am compromising for he be responsible serious and caring but he is not doing anything ..He is not financially independent ..I am so much worried that if I break this marriage then my children would e emotionally and mentally hurt..bcz I spend a life of broken family ..my parents parted away..That's why I put full efforts to make this marriage successful but my father is not alive..I have sisters who cannot support me, I am lonely 😭
That's why I found this video and your comment and that's why replying you bcz I want to put out my frustrations.. I don't want to destroy life of my children ..but don't want to live with this man either..where I go ..😭
@@syedabano3102what became of your situation?
I have a baby girl
But now I unhappy here.
My husband is a mama boy
They are still torcher me mentally and emotionally, physically........
So what can
I do now I'm 24...........
I was in an arranged marriage and I didn’t know what I was getting myself into all in all, I’m not Happy and I have been depressed for a while now I have a son and I’m just so unhappy and I don’t know what to do. Plz help me also my husband he isn’t bad I’m just not interested in him
Sucks doesnt it, feel for you ☹
I've been married only a week and the same is true for me. My husband is not a bad guy, he is actually a good guy. I am just not interested in him. I have been looking all over the internet for a solution but I don't there is any...
@@maryamwajid5261 i dont know what to tell you tbh i am in this situation past 8years. My marriage wasnt even my choice the scars left on my soul have taken the toll years later, wishing i walked out sooner and everytime thinking its too late:(
Jusy remember You cant force ur self to love someone .. its not as easy as ppl and families think when they get us married. .
I’ve been in the same situation n it’s just 3 months everyone has just starting forcing me now I’m literally so scared and don’t know what to do..??my husband is not a bad guy i just am like i have no words to explain..!!
Look I will just tell you something we don't appreciate how good our life are first of all you need to understand you can became happy in marriage if you look at positive things . You have suppose you divorce who will take son you can't take a child away from father nor father had right so one person is always going to end up victim . Do there is no right way to divorce you could became happy in Marraige if you try second people say we mix culture with marriage but it's not these schooler mix culture with Islam let me tell you when our schooler speak they speak verses and hadise when these schooler speak they are just speaker I don't support Islam in Islam there should be good enough reason to divorce now here are two opinion among real schooler first women can't take divorce without good enough reason and other she can but she will go to hell . This is very unthantic hadise that if a women divorce her husband without good enough reason then she will not even get fragment of heaven I don't trust it . But it is in Islam it's part of Islam I think this should also apply to men because marriage not only effect two people it effect children so if you are willing to gave son to him then go on divorce it's only right way because he will not end up being victim
Remember Prophet Muhammad SAW has said there will be more women in hell
Hadith:-
The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “I was shown Hell and I have never seen anything more terrifying than it. And I saw that the majority of its people are women.” They said, “Why, O Messenger of Allah?” He said, “Because of their ingratitude (kufr).” It was said, “Are they ungrateful to Allah?” He said, “They are ungrateful to their companions (husbands) and ungrateful for good treatment. If you are kind to one of them for a lifetime then she sees one (undesirable) thing in you, she will say, ‘I have never had anything good from you.’” (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 1052)
So you want women to stay with someone who are abusive mentally, emotionally, physically
Salam Waleikum, my sister got married in February. Her husband is not supportive, he made her guilty in front of everyone for something that wasnt true. She hates us too for not standing up for her when she needed us. Her mother in law taunts her on little things. Her husband do love her but doesnt stand for her. We brought her home and we went to a doctor, she is suffering from migraine. But her in laws and not even her husband called her if she is ok now. She doesnt talk much now and also grown weak. Can anyone suggest me anything please. Our ramadan is totally going deppressed. I just want my sister to be happy.
Assalaam o Alaikum wrwb
Your sister is probably depressed and this could turn out even worse. Firstly do Astaghfirullah tasbeehs for her as a family or Ayat Kareema. Secondly support her, no matter what she decides for herself. Tell your parents not all marriages work. Thirdly make sure it’s not jadu by seeing any spiritual healer or Aalim in Sha ALLAH.
Mine is love marriage. We know each other from 4 years. He was very happy during marriage preps. He did everything alone and we got married.
after 2 months of marriage I conceived and everything changed. My MIL was not happy with baby. Husband was happy and then everything changed. He started abusing me. saying he doesnt love me anymore and he wants to leave me. He did physical violence, he started drinking, smoking. I found him chatting with a random girl from his ofc.
I dont know what to do as it is getting toxic and I don’t feel like continuing marriage.
Please suggest what to do.
Thanks
Where are you from
Get out of this toxic situation anyone who abuses u is not worth living with!
Get a divorce. Pretty simple n obvious. But I know it’s not clear to u right now. U will regret it later. Get out now!
If you are planning to leave your husband then let me tell you your life will be much more difficult and every time you do something wrong they will blame you saying " that's the reason your marriage didn't survive" Umarried girls pls be aware the perfect guy you are marring is going to be your husband only not companion... It's sad how men can have four wives and women are stuck with one and that too" forced"
If you are married and sad then let me tell you only Allah can help you so don't try to help your self... Pray tahjud, remember only alllah can help you!Also be happy that you are not happy and not your husband other wise you will be more sad.Say alhamdulillah wait for some miracle.
She should divorce and not endure her unhappiness. No god can help you but yourself
@Khadijat I don't want to discourage them...but sometimes naseeb is so much difficult that no matter what option u choose it always ends up being troublesome.
@Khadijat that's your opinion and I will stick to mine...u can cut the crap and do what u want....
All i meant is that my opinion is "mine" and yours is "yours".And yes I m an Indian.
@Medea and u must be a Pakistani i m sure....
I am going to get married soon. But I am not happy. I don't wanna get married. I am sad and I don't like the guy. I also can't stop this marriage from happening. Please tell me how can I make my mind and be happy?
There is no way to force happiness. The happiest day for you will be the day you aren't married to that person.
I hope you are not married to that person now?
I got married with all implementations and I am not happy either..I don't like this man even after 2 years of this marriage how can people force you to live happy with a person you don't like they think marriage is such a sacred relationship that you automatically start loving your spouse .but that is not the case with me
Don't get married and you will regret all your life. Don't ever rush it
Pls answer the question 😮😂
This guy is a joke
😡😡😡YOUR A JOKE RESPECT YOUR SELF
And what are you, the clown?
Please is someone available for a conversation on facebook messenger? Jzk Allah