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To be fair it IS Kentucky. At least the wife is not his cousin or something. Then again noone said that she is not, so that's still a possibility. Ah, how correct was that intro from Idiocracy :D
"buy my soap"
wtf
are you Richard Cooper?
Was in agreement with you on the loser groom but trashing their wedding decorations as ghetto is a little elitist. Not everyone can spend 5 or 6 figures on a wedding ceremony. Most people get married in their local church and the families provide food and drinks from home. They’ll spend their money on their home and/or a honeymoon trip. This is a problem with young people starting out in massive debt for a ring and wedding ceremony. When I hear about people spending a fortune on those things I usually start a timer for how long the marriage is going to last and it’s not going to be years!
@@mderossett01 Here is a good rule of thumb. If she is not ok with a simple ceremony with family and friends, then she will not be ok with any "bumps down the road" like you losing your job or both of you having to relocate and live in a cheaper house and so forth. People should either find a woman that understands how life works or not. But they shouldn't complain later if they ignored that obvious issue.
Any woman who would marry a man like that has no respect for herself and zero self-esteem. If he humiliates her and disrespects her like this in front of all of their friends and family, just imagine what he is like when it’s just the two of them. Gross.
this is not the first time he has acted this way in front of her either lol, the man doesn't really care and she has never put a boundary on him so, she clearly enjoys this and way worse things
𝙸 𝚖𝚎𝚊𝚗 𝚢𝚊
It's speculation, but she seems to be a pick me/cool girl type of woman. She probably got him like that and now she has to upkeep the facade in order to keep him. She acted like him humiliating her is funny, she's also fine with his EX attending the wedding and even holding a speech??? What woman would be cool with that, except a cool girl?
@@xxromanovaxx6682I don’t think she is a pick me. I agree with the original post 100 percent.
She's right to consider herself fortunate that he is willing to marry her. If I was him, I wouldn't.
Read the title and thought Pearl found her ideal husband
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Pin this. 📍
She only pins her ads.
I'm dead
Thought it was gonna be that Donovan guys wedding 😂
The husband doesn’t even know why he’s there. And he made a whole mockery of what was supposed to be sacred. That must of really hurt, man.
Kaitlin seemed to like it, but everyone else was having an internal monologue about why this wedding was even happening.
most women don't care about what's sacred which is why they have sex before marriage....so if you want to be the moral police start there
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 it's happening because she's on her second baby and threatening him with child support if he doesn't put a ring on it. He was so wasted it's surprising he made it to the altar.
Sacred, eh? So the fact the woman said he's done right by her and is a good father and partner is worth nothing? You'd think THAT is the sacred part, not some event. ROast the guy accordingly for ruining the wedding, but all this is way too vitriolic
@@juwonikemoses2045 I'm sure the manchild who says he's going to "slap dat ass every chance I get" in front of his kid is a great dad. Some people shouldn't be allowed to breed.
Unfunny people need to know that they're not funny. It's cruel when the around them act polite and don't let them know how unfunny they are. It sets them up for cringe like this
The man was abusive and has brainwashed her... I feel so bad for her.
@@karostrand We can’t take away her agency. She chose this on her own.
@@karostrandhe’s terrible but she was not brainwashed. She made a bad choice and is living with it
Exactly
What was funny about his so called vow? If he had a thoughtful vow then finish it with that line, it would be funny and amazing. He couldn't even put the effort, yikes.
The women in his life have spent hours putting this wedding together for months. They selected all the vendors, designed every detail, planned all the logistics yet he cannot be bothered to spend 30 minutes putting something together for his vows.
Why would he? He acts like he’s perpetually stuck in high school. The bride seems like she does everything and he’s just there for the ride. It must be so frustrating for Kaitlin, but she knew how Cody was, and agreed to marry him. I fear for their kids.
She must be a pick me.
Men 🍼
I love how people say she deserves this. Noone deserves this. He humiliated her.
@@CharlycakesWell, it’s always the woman’s fault, isn’t it? Even when she’s being treated like trash. “She should have known. She chose this”.
And the male gets away scott free, never catching any flack for his bad behavior. Because as long as a woman is there, it’s her fault.
I don't understand why women do this to themselves it is so strange and sad.
Because they feel like they are running out of time and or have low self esteem
@@BrittanyVenti It's not a feeling tho, it IS true, they ARE running out of time especially if they want healthy kids
@@harsh3948 That doesnt mean they have to settle for creeps.
@@Dan261178 Beggars can't be choosers
@@harsh3948the woman in the video is already a mom. They had kids out of wedlock
Even the minister in this farce wasn't a real minister. The video said he belonged to the Universal Life Church and Church of Bacon. The Universal Life Church is just an online thing that will "ordain," anyone in minutes. Yet even he knew that the groom's response was stupid and embarrassing.
I knew a guy who was ordained by the Church of Dudeism. Based on "The Dude" from Big Lebowski. He officiated a friend's wedding at a Waffle House or whatever.
I mean, basically anyone can do it 😂
@@ChucksSEADnDEADlol omg no...
This makes so much sense now, thank you! I was thinking how could a pastor allow this!
I got ordained in like 15 minutes online and officiated my friends wedding in a dorm room at college
Ladies, never accept a shut up ring from a man. We should marry someone who wants to be with us insistently.
you're a fool if you think any man wants to be with you 'instantly'...because that man would be an even bigger fool.
This is why families are in shambles- settling for less. Bro doesn’t seem like a good father or husband with this immaturity. She made a beautiful poem and he said "smack that ass". Bare minimum low effort man
@@AndresColumbus They wrote "insistently" not "instantly".
@@AndresColumbusyou're a fool with no reading comprehension
What do you mean? She said they've been together for over a decade and have kids together. Sounds like he wanted to be with her.
Im not opposed to goofy vows or inexpensive weddings, people spend way too much money and take what should be a fun celebration way too seriously. But, that was tragic.
god food good music good venue & all you're loved ones is all you need.. alcohol is good too. I always say toonie bar is best. cheap but not free
My fiancé and I are literally just gonna have a courthouse wedding and only spend money on getting some nice photos. Maybe have some sort of nice little at home reception with family. We both are people that don’t enjoy the spotlight on us, plus wedding costs are insane.
But he would never do this to me even if it were just the two of us alone giving our vows. The level of disrespect to do this not only to your wife but in front of her family is wild.
If he had a real vow after that "joke", it still would have been fine. But no, that "joke" was all he got. May his marriage life be just a joke as well
@@jhsemoxitha3821 Even if he had a vow after that, what he said was inappropriate to say in that way knowing there's at least one child at that wedding.
Not only is that his ex from high school… that’s her damn maid of honour! 😂
I’m wondering why she agreed to do it cuz her whole identity was “I’m Cody’s ex from high school”. Sounds like a private joke that should have been private. Unless she is the bride’s friend which must suck cuz Cody probably calls her his “ex” every time she comes by their house.
If that was my daughter or sister standing there and I'm watching that happen there's no way in the hell that service would have continued.
Right? I'd be saying something.
You are aware that your hypothetical daughter or sister has already HAD KIDS with this loser, right?
So, you'd have been a day late and a dollar short by stopping this tacky tragedy, genius. What would that accomplish, other than a few more messed up fatherless kids?
@@-MattMcCauley- I'd rather those children be fatherless then learn from that guy.
Thanks for stopping by just to be a douchebag.
finally a man's perspective...you are correct sir and I commend you.
@@AndresColumbus Damn dude, you are all over the comments being cringy as f ck.
Who needs wedding crashers when you have a groom like that
Even wedding crashers would have more class and consideration for the bride than this shitstain of a "man".
Him laughing at his own disrespectful, unfunny joke, whole everybody else remains silent and the priest tries to dig him out of it is the cherry on top
Smells like shut up ring. He could have just googled vows, insert a couple things about his wife and bam, you’re done.
RIGHT? Even a simple “I love you” would have better, my god
ChatGPT would have been more effort than what we got!
Not gonna lie, I blame the woman for those shut up rings. Why on earth would you want to force someone to marry you who clearly doesn't want to?
@@contrarian9999 they have kids together. if she isn’t planning on leaving him, it’s good for her to have legal protections
@@contrarian9999 I mean this strictly legally speaking. Obviously she should just leave him that’s harder with kids
To be fair to the editor, he *did* bring out their personalities in the video.
I really hate the whole men acting flippant or reluctant during their wedding day.
These men shouldn't be getting married.
They're all having a side chick, I'm sure of that, like this one, invited his ex? They're in contact, so not really his ex.
Like they're doing her a favor by marrying her (married men earn more, live longer, and have better mental health)
Which is why women should stop marrying males
NPCs are real, and some of them learned all of their dialogue from sitcoms.
These are the type of men that rpill men expect women to "give a chance" to, to "settle" for. I'll stay single thanks.
Red Pill just refers to unpleasant truths especially those that contradict widely held narratives. Red Pill is a praxeology, not an ideology.
@@-MattMcCauley-😂😂😂😂
That dude is a goober. A man with any shred of respect for himself or his wife would've taken his wedding more seriously.
The woman is just as responsible for even letting herself get married to him. It's a two way street. Those two aren't going to last very long as a couple.
@@-MattMcCauley-Ok, Socrates. 😂 😂
@@-MattMcCauley-red pill is what women believe in horoscopes
I watched that video. Completely embarrassing. Made me wonder if the wife actually knew what she was getting into marrying him... I'd divorce so fast if that were me.
Maybe that was her entire plan all along - marry him, just to get a divorce the day after, and everything that entails.
If it was me, I wouldn't even give time for a divorce. This is grounds for an instant annulment.
She must be a pick me.
@@rigelb9025🙄😒 Absolutely nothing to say about the male making a mockery of the wedding? It’s all on her? You males never take responsibility for your actions. It’s always “well, women are the ones that pick us. They know how we are.”
It’s always the woman’s fault for giving the guy a chance. Never the male’s fault for being a little baby boy.
@@ascendednightingale2456 Clearly, you haven't read my other comments & replies on this video. I was being facetious here (which I know can be hard to tell in YT comments). But even if I wasn't, I don't consider my reply to be particularly sexist in nature. These things, although informed by the larger social order, tend to occur on a case-by-case basis.
Watching this made me remember the video where the husband accidently messed up the vow by saying "my wafflely wedded wife". It was goofy, but also cute and innocent and seeing the joyful laugh of the wife made me believe they would stay happily in love till the end. This, welp, I have no word.
Yeah holy damn, would have taken wafflely wife over this any day of the week, i guess the diff is that you could tell he didnt mean no disrespect
Who was she marrying, Elmer Fudd?
It doesn't get more cringe. I simply can't imagine saying that in that situation and having to live with that. What a little boy.
They have kids together, so if the kids were in the audience this is worse than cringe.
That dude's behavior was shameful. A dude who acts like a s3xual deviant in front of friends and family is a true degenerate.
The second hand embarrassment is so contagious. All he had to say was you’re amazing, I love you
I can’t even imagine saying something that classless to my wife when we got married. 🤦
I wouldn't be surprised if the manosphere celebrates this guy. At least some people in the manosphere.
You just like to say that word.
This dude is pretty based tho…
@@user-zv7cs7xe1x is it ? That’s a pretty broad stroke there buddy
It wasn't just that the ex was there, she was in the bridal party. The fact that she held onto "i'm his ex" all the way from high school.... and being friends with the wife etc goes to show how sad her life is and how nothing happens in it. Because wtf? Why would you say it... idk if the rest of what she says leads into something funny as to why she brought it up, but still, sad.
Those vows are an embarrassment. I showed my fiance and he said it reminded him of the one where the groom basically said he was ready to have sex right away. IDK how some men are so fucking shameless. It's disgusting.
I'm from Kentucky, I dated someone just like him. He was very passive aggressive and would "punish" me by humiliating me similar to how he is doing. I bet he was mad at her for something and did this to get back at her. I cant believe she married him, I'm sure this isn't the first time he's done something like that.
I wouldn’t be surprised if he resents her for making more money than him, or for catering to him too much. Men get weird about this stuff. She could have cheated or something, but I don’t think he would have married her if she did.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 "Men get weird about this stuff."
You sound bitter tbh.
@@MK_ULTRA420 Not really, with the money thing I've come across a lot of men who would feel uncomfortable earning less than their wife/ or girlfriend
@@MK_ULTRA420The vast majority of men do get weird about their female partners earning more. They get real mean real fast.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 he could have resenting her for a lot of reasons much less significant than those. Maybe he just didn't want to weat a suit or leave the house that day etc. My ex was very petty so I'm biased based on my experience, but just saying it can always be stupid little things.
During my brothers wedding reception, the hired DJ decided to play White Trash Party by Eminem twice throughout the night. People seemed a little offended by it the first time but I found it incredibly hilarious. The second time he played it though, my crazy uncle decided to beat the DJ's ass. lol He flung himself across the table and started choking the DJ. If it wasn't a white trash party prior to that, it certainly became one. lmao
I hope it was video recorded!
Your uncle Is certainly trash yikes. Assaulting a DJ, over that.
Now that i would wanna see
Please tell me he also played Ram Ranch 6 at their wedding.
Witnessing the “shut-up” ring & wedding!
Taking the romance out of a wedding and you get this
Nothing says true love like smacking that...A true romantic.
"United Church of Bacon?" BYE.
skskskk
Aka "Hey I found a guy that will do it for fifty bucks"
I would've felt deeply ashamed that I picked someone who would treat me like that and stopped the wedding and said, "I'm sorry - my bad - I honestly thought you would have more IQ points and maturity than a prairie dog with a head injury. Obviously, I was wrong". And I would've left him there and never looked back.
You're forgetting the part she mentioned they've been together for over a decade and have kids together. Maybe the guy's just an awkward goof, doesn't mean they're evil people
@@juwonikemoses2045- You're right. He's probably not evil just extremely immature. But I still would've felt hurt & ashamed and left him alone forever.
She had kids with him. There's no way she has enough self respect to do what you've said at the wedding.
@@TacseraEpSekahs- Yeah, I have to agree she would not have had that sudden realization things were bad enough for her and she needed to cut her losses and move on - preferably to the office of a good therapist who could have helped her understand why she picked guy(s) like that and stop it.
@@TacseraEpSekahs You people really love hating on strangers, huh? If someone read these comments and didn't know what they're talking about, you'd think people are talking about criminals.
I was so embarrassed I closed my eyes to listen because I couldn't cope with seeing their faces.
As a woman from a conservative country I have never dated a man and it was always discouraged. Now I prefer being alone, especially when I see every wedding and relationship in shambles around. I'm happy I'm not them and I don't want to be them.😬
Good for you! Males aren’t worth it.
Enjoy your cats.
Good for you girl!
I don’t blame ya, I think I‘ll pass on the marriage train myself
@@jamesbaker3153don’t be such a jerk
this would actually be funny if the wife's vows matched the same energy, but the fact hers are heartfelt and serious is a yikes
Exactly, that's why I thought, If she were doing similar jokes and maybe in a place with also that same energy like a night restaurant without kids or something. Then it would be okay, but she was being so romantic about it that is heartbreaking to see.
Why are you surprised his high school girlfriend is there? This is a small town in Kentucy. It would have been even more awkward if he hadn't invited his sister.
Omg 💀
“ARE YOU SURE” 😅 😂 man tried to save him
If all he says in a vow was about one physical characteristic, it's obvious that he doesn't value her and that she is either desperate to marry him or believes she can change him like a project. This marriage will either end harshly (possible cheating) or will burn out within a few years.
sad..that pastor didnt like that either. i hope he said something. nah that ex wants the attention obviously.
He tried to save him twice right after he said it
i seen that. so disrespectful of him to not even think of like one nice thing to say. ): like you cant think of one thing about her worth openly talking about? @@f1shze4lot
Hea a "Church of Bacon" pastor.
I’ve officiated weddings for the last few years as a hobby and it really has left me jaded about the whole idea. So many families do all that stupid ‘lol vans and Hawaiian shirts so randem XDDD’ shit to the point where a wedding that follows most established norms is the outlier. Don’t get me wrong I love a cheap modest ceremony and i’ve seen loaded families throw some pretty shit weddings, but anyone with the eyes for it could have seen this coming from miles away. Some decent ministers would have walked off or scolded the groom but the real ones would have stayed miles away from this from day 1
I feel like some women would pay any price just to be in relationship, like any relationship. Sometimes it looks like they were brainwashed into thinking that their self-esteem depends on it. It's really better to be alone than with man like this
I see what you're saying. It's probably just that they know that they will be doomed to the stinging social stigma of being single past a certain age, people are assholes about that. Think it applies to both men and women
Its definitely a both sides thing.@@shellydrelly telling anyone I have never had a gf is a death flag to some people.
He probably gave her a "Shut up Ring" and is punishing her for it.
And they spent how much for this wedding? Also laughing at your own jokes is usually a bad sign.
the fact that no one laughed at his joke and he still couldnt read the room 😐
''We've made it this long''.
As a man, watch out - she may want to cut it short.
and for good reason
@@carpenter8683 I never said the contrary.
I know a lot of women my age (I'm 23) whose immediate reaction was "see, even if you're a trashy man you can still find a woman to date and marry". And it's actually what most men have been saying all along, that they give their bodies and their years up to terrible men. In this instance, that terrible man got her pregnant out of wedlock so they chose to go through with a marriage in order to save face. The truth is that knowing and discerning the type of man he was before you slept with him would have solved this problem. I cannot imagine my future wife or myself saying something so crass and out of place on our wedding day. This is why you have to be vigilant on who you allow into your life and take personal accountability. This man shouldn't have been able to get married, yet here she is--pregnant.
Not really. Most of the options for women are trash. And even if women so Olympics level vetting, he will still switch up later on.
Males trick women all the time. By the time they reveal their true colors, it’s often too late.
@@manifest2203it's way better to be alone than be with a man like that.
Better that way than to repopulate our kind with even more stupid people.
Anyway, women should always be careful etc etc. Why don't you talk down to men when they do wrong? I'll tell you right now. Because you are not a man. Your power is only enough for women.
Based on the few weddings I've been involved with, there's usually multiple people who will point out stupid things before they're allowed in the actual wedding. I think the ministers will typically put their 2 cents in, asking the bride and groom about their vows; for groomsman, just all wear the same brand of $30 brown walmart shoes and you'll at least go unnoticed; Probably a lot of enablers in that setting, or maybe he was warned quite a bit, either way the groom is an idiot, I just hope his friends and family tried to make the best of his antics.
Even the minister in this farce wasn't a real minister. The video said he belonged to the Universal Life Church and Church of Bacon. The Universal Life Church is just an online thing that will "ordain," anyone in minutes.
I was so suprised when the officiant mentioned church! As a Christian myself, I am astounded by the lack of pastoral care. If that is their priest, he should have never let it get to this point through pre marital counselling and wedding preparations. And also if they are Christian, I am disappointed as I feel that these days on social media I keep seeing a lack of respect from Christian men towards Christian woman. Protestant/evangelical churches need to have better pastoral care for there parishioners because I cannot imagine this is union being sanctified before God (and God forgive me if it is).
Catholics and orthodox are pretty good about this. No Protestant/evangelical church is the true church Christ established lets be real.
@@GothVibeWars very true. Grew up protestant and I have found my faith aligns with Orthodox teachings because of reasons like these. Hope to convert into the faith by next year 🙏🏽
He said he was ordained by the Church of Bacon, so there’s a good chance he isn’t an actual priest.
Ladies. Be VERY choosy of your mate, or you end up with a pathetic coomer like this with KIDS from him. Nightmare. Thanks Brittany, this reminds me why being single and cautious is the safest option.
You can have standards or a man but you cannot have both.
@@godpilled9077 There’s a reason some people are married for decades and others aren't. It's called standards and waiting for the right one.
@@Dani-Claw Modern men don't have the morals that our fathers and grandfathers generation of men had.
I don't mind hobby lobby decor, soda cans, or basic plastic chairs. Get married shoeless in your back yard and eat takeout Chinese food for all I care. But there should be equal respect and courtesy between the couple. That's all I ask.
Even the Priest was like, "WTF was that?" The Priest was looking forward to this wedding and that guy ruined it with the boom. He felt sorry for the bride. She has to have absolute no love for herself to first wait 10 years with this jerk to get the shut up ring and then this... she must be desperate for validation and need to settle down. I am so thankful that I love myself so much that I don't need validation from anyone. I have my plants and my sisters' cats who demand to see me. One of them even gives an attitude if he doesn't see I am ok. Even cats show better emotions than that guy does towards his own wife. He even did this in front of the kids and family members... the embarrassment. He hates her.
That was a Universal Life Church mail order "minister" not a priest.
At the beginning she says he's a Dad, so that's probably how he trapped her. Knocked her up and that was it.
He? Please, as if women aren’t the ones trapping men with pregnancies much more often… We are the ones that can know our cycles after all.
@@GothVibeWars Men trap women with children all the time. That's why men want to outlaw abortion.
Lets hope he grows up a little and looks back and feels embarrassed about this. Saddly thats unlikily poor lady.
He probs won’t. They already have kids and now that they’re married there’s no incentive to grow. I doubt threatening divorce would do anything.
Lmao the officiant at the wedding was like really... really.... really you sure👀👀 that's all you got 🙄🙄🙄 alright then. That's insane.
I feel so bad for her, this man has no respect.
DEADASS though Pearl was getting married 😂😂😂
LOL she'd get married to Donovan Sharpe 😂 have you heard his vows 🤢
You thought Pearl would marry a white guy?
For me it’s the fact that he doesn’t even seem touched by the nice things she said about him. In that moment he could have changed his mind and adlibbed. He could have had a little moment inside himself and thought wow, here I am, marrying the woman I love and she loves me. And he could have spoke from the heart but it rolled right off him like water on a ducks back and he went with “imma smack that ass”
The ex was a bridesmaid!! 😂😂😂😂😂 I cannot!!
She's laughing because she knows she's going to take him to the cleaners in the divorce
I dont feel sorry for her at all. This isn't a blind date, she knows who she is marrying.
Really? Nothing to say on the male?
@@ascendednightingale2456 Nothing that hasn't been said already. I'm just pointing out that it's women like this bride who are masters of their own fate, not the guy. I have family who would rather stick with a guy like this than to be proven wrong, and shown that all of that time spent, hoping he will change, will not be in vain. It's really sad to see.
I feel they are both to blame. She enables his behaviour, and she knows who and what he is about. And he is to blame for not choosing to be a better person.
@@Ragarcia1986 Come on, you are so close. You realize it is sad. You should feel sorry for her.
@@phantagirlableI’m as disappointed as you are with op
He had a big bowl of meth and a bud light calling his name.
She looks so pretty in her thumbnail🙆🏻♀️💅🏻
I have no clue how he expected that to play out well. If I was marrying a woman and she said some shit like that, I might just leave her right there at the dang altar.
Sad on so many levels.
This is probably why you shouldn't write your own vows, it saves her from the risk of trying to be deep and failing and insures against him being an arsehole. What's wrong with "in sickness and in health"? If the complaint is that it's too religious, then don't celebrate Xmas or Easter, either.
What if I don't 😂
A good reason why you should just be catholic :D In a wedding ceremony you already have your vows written, just repeat after the priest 👍🏻
nah having them write their own vows is a blessing in disguise. This reveals so much about the person off the bat instead of finding out later. Imagine marrying someone but you can't be arsed to write something heartfelt or even have someone help you write if you have trouble expressing yourself
@@bongjuvie so true, if only the bride said no...
I heard someone talking once about how writing your own vows is really just a way of getting around the whole "in sickness and health, for richer or poor, etc" oath - it's much easier to break a promise you came up with on your own, then it is to go against a cultural commitment.
I thought he was gonna fist bump the kid like, "Nawahmsayin?"🤣
I swear people have kids first and then get married second instead of the reverse lately
Women ☕
Lol his ex is her bridesmaid. I hear that he was drunk during the ceremony. That still doesn't look good because you can't even be sober for at least the ceremony. He's a joke and she is no better
Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if the bride added his ex into her wedding party to try to flex on the ex that she won in the end lol that's why she was smirking when the ex was giving the speech.
Yeah it could be the case
Dude didn’t even improv when he felt the tension. Just say anything even if it’s generic
A lot of women are just opting out of marriage. I certainly am starting to see why. Very tragic but expected
Something about you and your attitude inspired me to be more assertive and be able to set boundaries more effectively, in situations that i otherwise would take in stride. Happened yesterday, hubby's attitude left me sour and i wouldnt take joking around as the answer. Thats uncharacteristic of me, so i pondered what was different and why i felt justified in my discontent, somehow you came to mind in a very abstract way. Eventually i managed to explain, and not only did i get a sincere apology but was called dignified. And this word struck me, first time being called that, and i want to embody that and pass that on to my daughter.
So thank you brittany!
Bro not to judge ive had some terrible relationships, but why do women take these manchildren as partners? We men dont even take them as friends
This is one of my favorite comments here! Good for you for setting boundaries for yourself and even better that you will teach your daughter to do the same!
the "shut up ring" phenomenon is real.
Probably one of those trad con couples where the husband’s essentially a manchild who gets to do whatever “because he’s the man” and the wife just has to put up with him.
or maybe they're like that, he's just more honest about it.
Even the Priest knew that was outrageous.
Edit: officiator, not priest
Her marrying him says more about her
facts
It says she has unhealthy self worth (Which I mentioned)
@@BrittanyVenti Well look at her!
I would be soooo embarrassed if my husband behaved like that on our wedding day.
If bro won’t take the wedding seriously I doubt he’ll take much else in the marriage seriously.
So many women take wedding seriously and treat marriage like a joke. So I guess he will be fine.
@@i_am_funny But he won’t be fine bc his wife will likely treat the marriage as a joke, right?
@@AnnSmajstrla i mean it's literally all that is to it, regardless of him being a jerk she is going to treat marriage like whatever so might as well do the joke that was in his head.
@@i_am_funny so he won’t be fine.
Is this real or is it fake? I know we live in Weimerica but surely this cannot be real.
The photographer posted it, and has a long portfolio of these on his Instagram so for all intents and purposes it seems real. I haven't see the wife respond yet though.
"to hold you accountable" proceeds to completely shame her and she does nothing. Wild. Even the pastor presiding over the wedding was at a loss for words encouraging him to try more vows 😱
I'm so happy the priest called him out.
Women: "Where are all the good men??"
...yea definitely not in Kentucky.
Tragic… a cautionary tale for sure
I love how you can hear a guy in the background say "Come on, Cody!" in an exasperated voice. No doubt he and the "ex from highschool" are still screwing.
Why would anyone invite their ex to their wedding????? The red flags are everywhere including the shitty vows
My ex and I ended amicably, I would invite him. If I was having the sort of wedding where I would invite a lot of people
Personally, I think it’s disrespectful. I wouldn’t do it and I wouldn’t be ok with my man doing it.
@@uwu-fm2kjOh, OK, so would you put your fiancé's ex in your BRIDAL PARTY? Because that's what happened here, the ex was a bridesmaid or maid of honor.
Now what?
@@-MattMcCauley- not sure why ur so aggressive but no I wouldn’t put him there because we are not good friends lol. Maybe this woman is friends with the ex? If they all went to high school together I suppose it is possible. But still awkward to bring up the former relationship
@@uwu-fm2kj Then your anecdotal analogy fails.
This looks like an episode from the Office. Like it's Michael Scott's wedding or something.
"To hold you accountable" girl start by walking out on that wedding! Smh!
My husband was incredibly nervous about writing vows (same as me) so we both selected love poems. His selection was beautiful, his mom tears up to this day if its mentioned. If men want to adapt & try for you, they will. Or they’ll shove cake in your face and do this. Dealer’s choice 😇
I wonder if the couple owes the videographer money, and this is how he dealt with it.
It's like he's announcing to everyone that this whole marriage is just a joke to him, and he will treat it as such
And in front of her friends and family.
I wouldn't be surprised if we found out that the bride and groom are actually cousins lol
The "I'm his EX from High School" is such an odd thing
Most normal adults would say: "we dated in high school" ... because relationships in high school typically only last a few months.
So either, they JUST "dated" ... and she's making it out to be like "yea we dated for a month in High School... but I'm his full on EX GIRLFRIEND"... then she needs a reality check, or she's secretly been in love with him since they were kids.
Or they actually were together the majority of high school, and they've stayed friends well into their late 20s/early 30s (?) ... that's his side piece.
Because I have a really good guy friend that I DATED in College.
I went to his wedding, he went to mine. And I did NOT get up on the podium and say "I'm his EX Girlfriend from college"... because that is NOT the nature of our relationship.
We dated, it didn't work out. He's a good person, we stayed friends. No big deal. You shouldn't even have to say any of that at a wedding.
I've known women who choose men like this over-and-over again.
Bonus points if they blame all men for it.
We call those woken women "single mothers"
The husband probably forgot the vows, and is absolutely hammered
In 2023, the United States continues to see complex trends in divorce rates, with an overall decline. First marriages still end in divorce at a rate of approximately 35-50%, while second marriages face an even higher likelihood of dissolution, ranging from 60-70% or more.
I’m surprised to read the statistics on the divorce rate for second marriages because I thought people would be more likely to stay even if it didn’t work out. Interesting.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809No, the sky high second marriage failure rates are logical and make perfect sense because most second marriages have the added HUGE issue of children from the first marriage.
Human males did not evolve to provide resources to the offspring of rival males, so child abuse perpetrated by stepfathers is 70 TIMES higher than that perpetrated by the child victim's real dad.
Amazing how little thought women give to this well-documented fact. Really appalling, actually.
He's going to cheat on her within a month of their marriage
There are a million different responses one could’ve made up on the spot that would’ve been better than that disaster or a “vow”
If his ex was in the bridal party at HIS request, that's just gross man wtf
Wore "Vans"! To his own wedding 🤣! Shows how important this wedding is going to be! 🤣🤣🤣