Their Momma getting up is lacking accountability!! Your kids are going at it because of what you put them through and you get up walk away after watching them argue!!
He literally said what he went through and how he’s a functional, working man, who’s also put himself in therapy. He’s not blaming anybody, he said, “respect me”. Not trying to take anything away from anyone but the truth is Toya is where she is in life off of Wayne Carter, and so is Wayne’s daughter. If it weren’t for his name they’d be regular people trying to make a name just like the rest of the world. Back to the topic at hand, what Toya should’ve did was acknowledge him instead of making it about herself. He came in peace and she turnt it up. What because it’s good for them cameras?
Why are they excusing momma and daddy😢 l hate they are at each others throats and just like that, momma can walk away and not admit her fault. Mom has not taken full responsibility. She even vanished again doing taping of this show and she was found by son. Until parents take responsibility for their actions and how it traumatized kids, there's no resolution. 😢
Momma just sitting there agreeing & shaking her head like as if her kids going through all of that means nothing. she don’t even realize she’s the catalyst of all this.
hearing her voice crack like that was so real and painful blaming a death on someone regardless that is your family that is crossing a line plain and simple that’s it it’s wrong as hell
He wanted to hurt toya but spare nita feelings because she birth him when she is the cause of all the dysfunction and trauma and the reason that Rudy and Josh was killed but they spare her feelings and not let nita take accountability
Exactly, that's why I hate when people use that dumb excuse "I've been through a lot, so that's why I act the way I do," like they are the only person that been through stuff.
WOO WEEEEEE!! That childhood trauma sticks harder than Krazy Glue…Gorilla Glue. I feel this is one big problem in Black families. Stuff gets swept under the rug and never dealt with but we continue to carry baggage that affects every part of our being. I’ve learned to suppress mine in hopes I don’t implode someday. I got decades of pain in me but I still smile.
I'm just now in my big age(58) handling grief I'd suppressed some 50 years ago. I'm learning to feel it and let it go. It's hard as hell, but it's needed if I want to have joy and peace. I hope by now you've released yours as well 🙏🏽
@@Sunshine-jq9sw Not keeping secrets my love. Mine are accountability & gaslighting…folks not owning their 💩 but quick to point their fingers this way. I took it alll on the chin decades ago but not now. I’m 57 and will get off deep in that azz like an enema now because IDGAF about burned bridges…not looking back any longer.
This is prime example why women/men need to learn people background/family before you have kids and settle down. Black families we have so much trauma and deep rooted issues.
Yes, I agree that is very true. It's important to know each other's family background, dynamic and generational curses that are attached to your partners families because you don't want that passing down to your family bloodline.
no. judge a person off of their own character. they may be nothing like their family. i would never want someone to like me then all of a sudden dislike me once they met my family
and trauma is not a black family thing. why y'all think white people live perfect lives? i think black people who grew up around only black people tend to think that. they think white people live like the white people they see on tv and that's not the case. i went to all white schools growing up and they got the same sht going on. it may just look different
he has been through a lot i just don’t like how he kept repeating i’ve been through the hardest shit you haven’t been through what i’ve been through but Toya and everyone has been through a lot too that doesn’t dismiss why he gets to say such hurtful things to his own family. they have been through a lot but he doesn’t need to keep trying to say i’ve been through worse all trauma effects. people in such different ways accept the help instead of making excuses of how you act
They’ll never understand cause they can’t relate. Same with my family, he’s the black sheep. People act like men supposed to be strong he wasn’t a man he was a little boy he should’ve been treated as such. He should’nt have went through what he went through period.
I totally agree. My brother was 6 years old when he had to be "the man" of the house. 😢His childhood was taken from him and we were separated. I can truly relate to this family. That's why l try to watch it even when it was Tiny and Toya show
He didn't expect anything from his parents. They already failed him...but he did expect a lot from his siblings. Especially when they're older n come from better situations. He feel like they should've looked out more.
I can completely understand them on all levels, mama the same way all she do is walk away she dont ever try n bring her kids together all she do and did was take sides thats all she ever did. And my sister just passed away july of this year n we wasnt talking at all and all the shit that was going on i kept telling mama but all she did was take sides and pretend like she didnt take sides and not ny sister gone bc of somebody else actions really i dont want shit to do with her or my brother he the oldest and all ever did abd do is hit us where it hurt never be there mentally n emotionally when we need him he didnt even come to our sis funeral and this nigga havent called oncecto check on me alor eveb just check in since my sister passed i just wabt to leave where im at get away from my fake ass family members and me and my kids just live a completely different healthy happy life❤
Maybe so, but he has NO RIGHT to inflict his pain onto Toya. The brothers appear to want her to make it happen for them because of who her children's fathers are and that's not fair. Toya made a name for herself outside of Lil Wayne, maybe his money helped, but she went out there and got a lot on her own too.
Growing up in a broken home fks us up. We have to become an adult before our time. Which causes us to be angry and struggle in life mentally. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
It seems like they all have been through trauma and they all are still grieving the deaths of their two brothers. Everyone is hurt and taking it out on each other.
I empathize with both Toya and Rudy in this scene. They both have pain but experienced it differently. The mom should've intercede and take accountability for what they're feeling. She got up and left because she's ashamed abd guilty for her part in her children's pain.
💔💔💔💔 I can’t imagine what they went through. Our parents are supposed to raise and provide for us… some choose to be in the streets drugs etc… but as adults, with childhood trauma it is our job to take the initiative to get help. Therapy, changing bad habits, exercise whatever it is (positive) that’s going to help you cope with those triggers. It’s easier said than done but it is possible. && no it’s not a one and done thing you have to constantly work on it. If your parents didn’t help raise you it sucks, but you as an adult have to work on things now. We have to save our children to break the cycle. ❤❤❤❤ sending love.
Parents not doing their job.....equals this. And having to heal and get thru ish as an adult from the adults that didn't do their job is exhausting. Prayers to them.
It's sad because Toya been trying for a long 😞 😞 😞 time with her brothers rip to the other brother that pass I remember him 😢😢😢 nobody understands that a child's life effects them as an adult watch how you RAISED your kids lil Scrappy on the other show all these young black men been threw alot and it affects their relationships
that part. everyone saying he blaming the siblings but he's saying he's hurt because he felt or know they had a better experience even though they went through things also. and you can't expect a damaged person to always think rationally. hurt clouds your judgement
@@drnstjhnwow I never heard it like that “ hurt clouds judgement”. I guess I really (crushed) a ex feelings and I couldn’t understand why he treats me this way when I did have his back. He told me now you know how It feels. I couldn’t process it but know I can see. Thank you.
I get so tired of their mother walking away every time sh*t gets real. She is the cause of all their childhood trauma, she needs to sit there and listen to her kids and she needs to take accountability for the situation she put them in growing up.
That’s all their momma and she was on drugs and abandoned all of them. Toya had reginae at 13/14 did he forget that she was struggling I remember watching tiny and Toya and she was always trying to find her momma and she’s older than him but she was struggling just like he is. Praying for them
This goes to show how bad so many families need HEALING in order to function and develop healthy relationships. The trauma has to be Healed..no way around it. But ppl have to be willing to do what it takes to heal.
You ain't been through what i've been through, Is not an excuse to talk to someone with disrespect if they are not disrespecting you.. Knock it TF off..... They didn't do that ish to you. Not an excuse to take your anger out on mfs!!
Thank you! She never invalidated him, she said we all have issues but I don’t treat you the way you treat me because of it. Casey uses his as a crutch and these comments confirm why people like Casey stay in ruts and never get up
I understand that they have all been through stuff, but it's like comparing a stumped toe to a full leg amputation. It's just not the same! It does not compare the same.
As a person who didn’t know how to control my trauma healing and lashed out at relatives and other loved ones man you got to take that heat back for your bad behavior too
and what does that mean? don't talk about it because we all go through things? i'm sorry no one ever validated you but that's not a good mindset to have
Toya don’t realize she was young when she had her first daughter with Wayne and he was her ticket out the hood. While her siblings struggled. So this man is still traumatized and is still going through childhood trauma. I think what he is taking it out on Toya because he looking at it like you had the money and resources to come get us and help us. While his momma getting up like she is a friend of the family and isn’t the mother
@@death24314 but that’s not how he’s looking at it. He went through a lot living where he lived. I remember her brothers that got killed. They use to rob and sell weed in the hood. While she lived a ok life. An they was all split up because their mother was on drugs bad. But I don’t feel he should take anything out her. His anger should be towards his mother
@@death24314exactly because she always said she was living with this family and that family and even when she had her daughter Wayne wasn’t giving her money and wasn’t hot yet she always talks about hell they didn’t get married until years later and then got divorced soon after
I was exactly where they were. And as the oldest to have your mom give u up for adoption but 1 sibling. But I think the difference is I had that long convo with my mom & she acknowledged she failed as a parent.
Still doesn't give him the right to disrespect her and their sister cuz they lived in a more stable environment. They were kids as well. They didn't create the disfunction he grew up with, they experienced it as well. He has no right to disrepect his sisters. He is lucky Toya even communicates with him after he blamed her for their brother's getting killed. Family or not he would never experience being in my presence after saying something like that to me.
Sonetimes i despise the internet bc some people dont need a platform hes simply stating his experience and trauma ges communicating why he reacts or his actions this is healthy conversation like toya said they had experiences and traumas as well each sibling especially depending on the age range has a different memory and experience with they parent thats just what it is
Ya’ll can say what ya’ll want but Toya is right. She has money and imagine trying to give give give and being disrespected consecutively because your family is ungrateful… Her brother is disrespectful and rude! I can tell none of you actually watched the show. His mouth is beyond disrespectful. He should have learned if ANYTHING humility in jail but he came out RUDE DISRESPECTFUL AND ENTITLED. EDIT: AND TRIED IT WITH NAE TOO
Idk yah but I do know this : if you didn't grow up with a parent on drugs then it's important to understand that the parent is NOT TO BLAME. If anything it's the dope man who got her addicted. Hell, really any environment where you have to look over ya shoulder. It's easy to say "Oh, the parent made bad choices." Okay. Judge your own mistakes. This reality TV. Nobody's perfect. Then, having to find ways to take care a bunch of kids? In the late 70s-80s?!? Don't blame Nita. Why blame ANYBODY tbh. Their parents forgave each other and moved forward with healing. That's all that matter. This family remind me so much of my own.
I feel like this could have literally been a conversation between me and my siblings. Trauma is a monster but healing is a bitch and when you don't have the tools or support to heal its worse. I feel for both.
What about the mother? She just sitting there aint saying nothing and she is really what it all started and she's looking at him like he's crazy. It is sad just a sad the whole situation? I'm praying for the whole family. Because we all need family healing from something. We just need to pray for each and every family right now in the name of Jesus, especially black strong beautiful families, peace. Father in the name of Jesus strengthened a black family unit as a whole. The mother, the father of the sister than brother as a whole. The true family unit like you said, it is what's supposed to be the Father mother in the children in the name of Jesus peace
In addition to Casey going to solo therapy, they need therapy sessions as a family. However, I would exclude the mother. She reminds me of Keisha Cole's mother Frankie. They both will say they're sorry for the pain they caused, but that's as deep as they're going to get.
I think they maybe have held their mom accountable but in this moment they may have had to be more delicate with her because they just found her after she was missing for a few weeks. Casey is in survival mode and that’s not good, your past don’t define you, it may follow and times you gotta deal with it. You definitely don’t get allowed to treat people for issues that they literally couldn’t do anything about.
Their Momma getting up is lacking accountability!!
Your kids are going at it because of what you put them through and you get up walk away after watching them argue!!
My thoughts exactly
Yep
Hallelujah. What a weak cop out she did period.
Acting like “that’s they issue”. Um no mama. That’s your issue cause YOU started it.
That’s exactly what I said some of these mothers don’t care about their kids trauma they just want them to get over it … My mom the same way…
So long story short, their Mom Failed all of them.
She was never a mother to them. You meant the egg donor.
And she just walked away like she did when they were kids 😩
Their father did too.
Just like Khia said 🤭
@@sofibed True
He's blaming his siblings when he should've been talking to they mama bout why he feels like he do
Yup
Where did you hear that, The problem is that BW DONT LISTNE TO BLACK MEN. Yall think is only about your issues.
He literally said what he went through and how he’s a functional, working man, who’s also put himself in therapy. He’s not blaming anybody, he said, “respect me”.
Not trying to take anything away from anyone but the truth is Toya is where she is in life off of Wayne Carter, and so is Wayne’s daughter. If it weren’t for his name they’d be regular people trying to make a name just like the rest of the world.
Back to the topic at hand, what Toya should’ve did was acknowledge him instead of making it about herself.
He came in peace and she turnt it up. What because it’s good for them cameras?
Why are they excusing momma and daddy😢 l hate they are at each others throats and just like that, momma can walk away and not admit her fault. Mom has not taken full responsibility. She even vanished again doing taping of this show and she was found by son. Until parents take responsibility for their actions and how it traumatized kids, there's no resolution. 😢
They are grown Lol they need to grow up
Right, she talking about ''mhm,'' like ma'am you're the problem and should mediate between your children.
I would like them to have done Iyanla Fix My Life episode
Y'all need to shut tf up!!! It's not just on their mom!! WHOEVER WAS RAISING THEM DIDN'T KEEP THEM TOGETHER!!!! It's take a village
@@lovely.nellie"mhm" while rubbing them finger waves. girl, what
This was just heartbreaking
"I clicks ahhht" is going to be my new phrase
Momma just sitting there agreeing & shaking her head like as if her kids going through all of that means nothing. she don’t even realize she’s the catalyst of all this.
I’m sure she deals with and talks to them off camera! Y’all swear cause it’s not being posted it doesn’t happen
@@Jane-rs2si i didn’t say it NEVER happens. i’m saying in this scene.. that was show.. it didn’t happen.
@@gottalovebri well then sthuuu make no sense.
@@Jane-rs2si lmao. you okay?
@@gottalovebri are you?? Lmaooo
hearing her voice crack like that was so real and painful blaming a death on someone regardless that is your family that is crossing a line plain and simple that’s it it’s wrong as hell
I believe he wanted her to hurt like him. Just very messed up how he did it.
He wanted to hurt toya but spare nita feelings because she birth him when she is the cause of all the dysfunction and trauma and the reason that Rudy and Josh was killed but they spare her feelings and not let nita take accountability
I firmly believe that no matter what you go through in life is not an excuse to treat ppl any way you see fit
Fact's
Exactly, that's why I hate when people use that dumb excuse "I've been through a lot, so that's why I act the way I do," like they are the only person that been through stuff.
I agree because mistreating people is a choice..that you don’t gotta act like that at all💯‼️
WOO WEEEEEE!! That childhood trauma sticks harder than Krazy Glue…Gorilla Glue.
I feel this is one big problem in Black families. Stuff gets swept under the rug and never dealt with but we continue to carry baggage that affects every part of our being.
I’ve learned to suppress mine in hopes I don’t implode someday. I got decades of pain in me but I still smile.
You have to talk to a therapist and God to ease the pain. Keeping secrets make things worse.
I'm just now in my big age(58) handling grief I'd suppressed some 50 years ago. I'm learning to feel it and let it go. It's hard as hell, but it's needed if I want to have joy and peace. I hope by now you've released yours as well 🙏🏽
@@Sunshine-jq9sw Not keeping secrets my love. Mine are accountability & gaslighting…folks not owning their 💩 but quick to point their fingers this way. I took it alll on the chin decades ago but not now. I’m 57 and will get off deep in that azz like an enema now because IDGAF about burned bridges…not looking back any longer.
@@joycelyntims7941 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 Thank you. I’m much better because I had to grieve what once was. I had to accept that its gone…its buried dead now.
@@joycelyntims7941i love this. hope you're healing wonderfully
I am just realizing how much Reginae favors Toya(especially in this scene).
Lie again 😂 she look just like her daddy (Lil Twist voice) 😭😭😭
@@smilebeautiful5971I think she the perfect mix but this comment took me out😂
@@smilebeautiful5971😂
yes. it was when she was yelling. something bout the eyes and the head shape
Yesss lol especially when she walked off ..same walk and all
I feel for Toya 🥺
This is prime example why women/men need to learn people background/family before you have kids and settle down. Black families we have so much trauma and deep rooted issues.
Yes, I agree that is very true. It's important to know each other's family background, dynamic and generational curses that are attached to your partners families because you don't want that passing down to your family bloodline.
@215MasterK😂 boy watever
I totally agree. It’s bad in the black community.
no. judge a person off of their own character. they may be nothing like their family. i would never want someone to like me then all of a sudden dislike me once they met my family
and trauma is not a black family thing. why y'all think white people live perfect lives? i think black people who grew up around only black people tend to think that. they think white people live like the white people they see on tv and that's not the case. i went to all white schools growing up and they got the same sht going on. it may just look different
he has been through a lot i just don’t like how he kept repeating i’ve been through the hardest shit you haven’t been through what i’ve been through but Toya and everyone has been through a lot too that doesn’t dismiss why he gets to say such hurtful things to his own family. they have been through a lot but he doesn’t need to keep trying to say i’ve been through worse all trauma effects. people in such different ways accept the help instead of making excuses of how you act
❤Casey I understand praying for this family
They’ll never understand cause they can’t relate. Same with my family, he’s the black sheep. People act like men supposed to be strong he wasn’t a man he was a little boy he should’ve been treated as such. He should’nt have went through what he went through period.
I totally agree. My brother was 6 years old when he had to be "the man" of the house. 😢His childhood was taken from him and we were separated. I can truly relate to this family. That's why l try to watch it even when it was Tiny and Toya show
❤❤❤
Facts ❤❤❤
I agree. ❤
Shh
He blames his siblings but not his parents.
Low key jealous of them being taken away. Mom needs to take responsibility and acknowledge that she put her kids through all of that.
He a hater
@@zodiacmartnio7256 he's traumatized and hurt he needs therapy
@@sukiiriinaathank u,didn't own up to nothing she did.
He didn't expect anything from his parents. They already failed him...but he did expect a lot from his siblings. Especially when they're older n come from better situations. He feel like they should've looked out more.
This got me emotional
I can completely understand them on all levels, mama the same way all she do is walk away she dont ever try n bring her kids together all she do and did was take sides thats all she ever did. And my sister just passed away july of this year n we wasnt talking at all and all the shit that was going on i kept telling mama but all she did was take sides and pretend like she didnt take sides and not ny sister gone bc of somebody else actions really i dont want shit to do with her or my brother he the oldest and all ever did abd do is hit us where it hurt never be there mentally n emotionally when we need him he didnt even come to our sis funeral and this nigga havent called oncecto check on me alor eveb just check in since my sister passed i just wabt to leave where im at get away from my fake ass family members and me and my kids just live a completely different healthy happy life❤
He never got rescued
They not listening
True
They are listening. He has to stop playing the victim as if he's the only one been through something.
Still not their siblings fault
It’s their parents fault
@@mrs.c2793he clearly said they try to flip what he’s been through on him like it’s his fault so that’s what causes him to click out
That mama needs to take accountability, she is the root to all of their pain, and the daddy too.
He just want them to understand his pain
Yet he can't understand theirs ?? Crazy. What he said to toya is horrible
Exactly!
Maybe so, but he has NO RIGHT to inflict his pain onto Toya. The brothers appear to want her to make it happen for them because of who her children's fathers are and that's not fair. Toya made a name for herself outside of Lil Wayne, maybe his money helped, but she went out there and got a lot on her own too.
They understand but because some of them was placed in a better situation doesn’t mean he can verbally abuse her
And they want him to understand that it's not just him in pain and pain should not have him mentally and verbally abuse his sisters
This boy need help for real
Damn I felt that and trying to fight back the tears. I love Toya and we cyber sisters
Growing up in a broken home fks us up. We have to become an adult before our time. Which causes us to be angry and struggle in life mentally. I wouldn't wish this on anyone.
💔💔💔 and they lost 2 brothers at one time omg 😢
Yup both got murdered the same time
It seems like they all have been through trauma and they all are still grieving the deaths of their two brothers. Everyone is hurt and taking it out on each other.
Just listen mom……. And mama gets to GET UP AND WALK AWAY
💯💯💯damn shit made me tear up
I empathize with both Toya and Rudy in this scene. They both have pain but experienced it differently. The mom should've intercede and take accountability for what they're feeling. She got up and left because she's ashamed abd guilty for her part in her children's pain.
That’s not Rudy that’s Casey. Rudy passed away
Mama got up because she know the trauma she put her kids through but won’t take fault my mother the same way smfh
💔💔💔💔 I can’t imagine what they went through. Our parents are supposed to raise and provide for us… some choose to be in the streets drugs etc… but as adults, with childhood trauma it is our job to take the initiative to get help. Therapy, changing bad habits, exercise whatever it is (positive) that’s going to help you cope with those triggers. It’s easier said than done but it is possible. && no it’s not a one and done thing you have to constantly work on it. If your parents didn’t help raise you it sucks, but you as an adult have to work on things now. We have to save our children to break the cycle. ❤❤❤❤ sending love.
This brought tears to my eyes.
Parents not doing their job.....equals this. And having to heal and get thru ish as an adult from the adults that didn't do their job is exhausting. Prayers to them.
It's sad because Toya been trying for a long 😞 😞 😞 time with her brothers rip to the other brother that pass I remember him 😢😢😢 nobody understands that a child's life effects them as an adult watch how you RAISED your kids lil Scrappy on the other show all these young black men been threw alot and it affects their relationships
At the end no one still validated his feelings. Unconditional love is what’s missing in our families.
that part. everyone saying he blaming the siblings but he's saying he's hurt because he felt or know they had a better experience even though they went through things also. and you can't expect a damaged person to always think rationally. hurt clouds your judgement
For real
@@drnstjhnwow I never heard it like that “ hurt clouds judgement”. I guess I really (crushed) a ex feelings and I couldn’t understand why he treats me this way when I did have his back. He told me now you know how It feels. I couldn’t process it but know I can see. Thank you.
"We all have been through stuff" so invalidating
He has trauma from a kid and never got help😢😢😢😢😢😢
I get so tired of their mother walking away every time sh*t gets real. She is the cause of all their childhood trauma, she needs to sit there and listen to her kids and she needs to take accountability for the situation she put them in growing up.
They've all been through stuff but it doesn't amount to what he's been through
That’s all their momma and she was on drugs and abandoned all of them. Toya had reginae at 13/14 did he forget that she was struggling I remember watching tiny and Toya and she was always trying to find her momma and she’s older than him but she was struggling just like he is. Praying for them
If Iyanla was still on TV she would’ve had them on her show!
This goes to show how bad so many families need HEALING in order to function and develop healthy relationships. The trauma has to be Healed..no way around it. But ppl have to be willing to do what it takes to heal.
It's good to get the deep stuff out.
Dang I wasn’t ready to shed 😢
You ain't been through what i've been through, Is not an excuse to talk to someone with disrespect if they are not disrespecting you.. Knock it TF off..... They didn't do that ish to you. Not an excuse to take your anger out on mfs!!
Thank you! She never invalidated him, she said we all have issues but I don’t treat you the way you treat me because of it. Casey uses his as a crutch and these comments confirm why people like Casey stay in ruts and never get up
I understand that they have all been through stuff, but it's like comparing a stumped toe to a full leg amputation. It's just not the same! It does not compare the same.
They all have Trauma and he chooses to sit in his and use it as a crutch for sympathy… he’s grown af
@@STackinDreexactly
THEIR MAMA CAUSE ALL THIS PAIN .SHE SITTING THEIR LIKE SHE DONT UNDERSTAND
This family is sick, they created a name for toyas Family by using lil Wayne’s daughter and his reputation
Agreed!
As a person who didn’t know how to control my trauma healing and lashed out at relatives and other loved ones man you got to take that heat back for your bad behavior too
All prayers to that family
HE GOTTA GET PAST THE PAST and CHILDHOOD TRAUMA BEFORE IT TAKES OVER HIS LIFE.
The beginning of his story sounds just like Scrappy’s pain with Mamma Dee
Everybody goes through shit its called Life
True but there’s levels
Yeah, but when you say to someone else, it's like your invalidating them.
and what does that mean? don't talk about it because we all go through things? i'm sorry no one ever validated you but that's not a good mindset to have
Toya needs to set boundaries and take a step back from her toxic family
Toya don’t realize she was young when she had her first daughter with Wayne and he was her ticket out the hood. While her siblings struggled. So this man is still traumatized and is still going through childhood trauma. I think what he is taking it out on Toya because he looking at it like you had the money and resources to come get us and help us. While his momma getting up like she is a friend of the family and isn’t the mother
Toya didn't have money like that. That was Wayne's money. Wayne and Toya weren't together that long, so she couldn't do much at the time
@@death24314 but that’s not how he’s looking at it. He went through a lot living where he lived. I remember her brothers that got killed. They use to rob and sell weed in the hood. While she lived a ok life. An they was all split up because their mother was on drugs bad. But I don’t feel he should take anything out her. His anger should be towards his mother
@Toriab Well, he needs to grow up and realize there wasn't much she can do at the time. She's not his mother
She was still struggling that’s what her brother fails to realize
@@death24314exactly because she always said she was living with this family and that family and even when she had her daughter Wayne wasn’t giving her money and wasn’t hot yet she always talks about hell they didn’t get married until years later and then got divorced soon after
And the fact she consoling her momma like she aint did shit
I was exactly where they were. And as the oldest to have your mom give u up for adoption but 1 sibling. But I think the difference is I had that long convo with my mom & she acknowledged she failed as a parent.
TOYA SPOKE FACTS!!!!!
Nobody’s hearing or understanding his pain like he said y’all were younger he had to see that that’s hard on a child
Toya say she understand but she don’t. Because she downplayed how he felt and compared her situation to his.
This could be a conversation between me and my siblings. Different circumstances, but the same trauma response. This hurt.
Toya totally disregarded & invalidated his feelings…
Still doesn't give him the right to disrespect her and their sister cuz they lived in a more stable environment. They were kids as well. They didn't create the disfunction he grew up with, they experienced it as well. He has no right to disrepect his sisters. He is lucky Toya even communicates with him after he blamed her for their brother's getting killed. Family or not he would never experience being in my presence after saying something like that to me.
So that validated him telling her she’s to blame for their brothers’ murders?
@@TDoubleYu Show me where I said that…
@@KyKooksagain, so that gives him right to be verbally abusive? It’s not his sister’s fault. It’s on his parents for his fucked up childhood.
@@TDoubleYu Type shit..
they goofy for arguing with each other, while the mom who caused it all just sits there enjoying it like its her favorite hood soap opera
Toya isn’t even arguing. She is telling him how he treats her.
It’s their mama & daddy fault point blank
Oh Toya my heart breaks for you
Where our season 2 of y'all can't wait
Ms Nita “But You Had a Dettey”😂😂😂😂 acting like she LITERALLY not the root 🌳 of this whole situation 😂 “That’s Right….. That’s Right!” 😂
Not a "dettey" 😂
Sonetimes i despise the internet bc some people dont need a platform hes simply stating his experience and trauma ges communicating why he reacts or his actions this is healthy conversation like toya said they had experiences and traumas as well each sibling especially depending on the age range has a different memory and experience with they parent thats just what it is
that part. even kids close in age get different versions of their parents. being raised by the same person don't mean y'all were all raised the same
Damn this made me tear up
Ya’ll can say what ya’ll want but Toya is right. She has money and imagine trying to give give give and being disrespected consecutively because your family is ungrateful…
Her brother is disrespectful and rude! I can tell none of you actually watched the show. His mouth is beyond disrespectful. He should have learned if ANYTHING humility in jail but he came out RUDE DISRESPECTFUL AND ENTITLED.
EDIT: AND TRIED IT WITH NAE TOO
That's enough to affect anyone
Yes mom was definitely a crackhead roaming around the 7th ward
Idk yah but I do know this : if you didn't grow up with a parent on drugs then it's important to understand that the parent is NOT TO BLAME. If anything it's the dope man who got her addicted. Hell, really any environment where you have to look over ya shoulder. It's easy to say "Oh, the parent made bad choices." Okay. Judge your own mistakes. This reality TV. Nobody's perfect. Then, having to find ways to take care a bunch of kids? In the late 70s-80s?!? Don't blame Nita. Why blame ANYBODY tbh. Their parents forgave each other and moved forward with healing. That's all that matter. This family remind me so much of my own.
I feel like this could have literally been a conversation between me and my siblings.
Trauma is a monster but healing is a bitch and when you don't have the tools or support to heal its worse.
I feel for both.
Just listen mama.......
Godbless this Family 😢❤😢
They need iyanla fix my life
The root is not be addressed they talk around it while it's sitting their the absent farther, and the mother says nothing no real closure
I wish Toya would have just acknowledged his point of view I think that’s what he wanted the most
Toya you said the same as I would and want to tell my half siblings
This felt like I shouldn’t be hearing this.
Damn i feel him ❤
I’m glad he told her the truth. Speak your truth through him Rudy 💔🥀🧿
It'd be nice if someone would let him finish a fucking sentence.
What show is this??
The show is called Toya and Reginae
Toya & Regina Show on VH1 or MTV
It’s on We tv
LaQwishas way of Life
@@StanMo18ty
Toya u wrong in a way. Toya put yourself in his shoe
It’s the parents fault
I wish they would just receive him in the moment
I felt Toya
Why I feel like this shouldn't be on television
I'm feeling your pain
I love me some Toya.❤
It's messed up that the mother just gets up and walks away.
Its her fault that they're all in that position. She caused all of that pain.
What about the mother? She just sitting there aint saying nothing and she is really what it all started and she's looking at him like he's crazy. It is sad just a sad the whole situation? I'm praying for the whole family. Because we all need family healing from something. We just need to pray for each and every family right now in the name of Jesus, especially black strong beautiful families, peace. Father in the name of Jesus strengthened a black family unit as a whole. The mother, the father of the sister than brother as a whole. The true family unit like you said, it is what's supposed to be the Father mother in the children in the name of Jesus peace
He who feels it knows it.
NOBODY UNDERSTANDS PAIN IT GET UNDERNEATH PRAYERS PRAYERS HAVE TO BE A EVERY DAY COUNTINE TO HAPPEN A MUST
In addition to Casey going to solo therapy, they need therapy sessions as a family. However, I would exclude the mother. She reminds me of Keisha Cole's mother Frankie. They both will say they're sorry for the pain they caused, but that's as deep as they're going to get.
Chille them brothers of hers were definitely SACRIFICED!!!! Hell Casey better stay df away he know like I know
Blame your mom and dad
I think they maybe have held their mom accountable but in this moment they may have had to be more delicate with her because they just found her after she was missing for a few weeks.
Casey is in survival mode and that’s not good, your past don’t define you, it may follow and times you gotta deal with it. You definitely don’t get allowed to treat people for issues that they literally couldn’t do anything about.