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  • @BetterTogetherTV
    @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому +21

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    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 3 роки тому +1

      For the first time, I understood the word, ‘submission’ makes so much sense!! For the longest I thought and felt it meant to be a slave!

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому

      MATT AND LAURIE CROUCH YOU ALL NEED TO RECONCILE WITH PAUL CROUCH JR AND HIS DAUGHTER. IT IS TIME √√√ FAMILY DIVISION IS AN IDOL.

    • @aliciawashington5799
      @aliciawashington5799 3 роки тому

      @@blessingsbest6838 c.

  • @nonkululekositwayi288
    @nonkululekositwayi288 2 роки тому +90

    Wow - I remember watching this segment a year ago around the same time as now and at the end when Nicole started praying I raised my hand and re-committed my choice, my will, my type of husband to the Lord and gave him the upper hand for my future relationship. I started to be consistent in my prayer for a husband and a few weeks later I met my husband and soon after that we started dating, I am so blessed to say that we are now engaged to be married and I do not know why but today I revisited this video and I am so overwhelmed by God's grace (that after watching and praying - a year later I would have found my life partner). Thank you to the ladies for sharing so much insight and revelation because we are seeing the fruits of it. May the Lord continue to use you mightily and return unto you a thousand-fold. Thank you!

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  2 роки тому +4

      Nonkululeko, thank you for sharing your story with us! This is so encouraging and beautiful. God is so good! 💜

    • @bongiwelanga1706
      @bongiwelanga1706 Рік тому +1

      This is soooo beautiful! Congratulations mntase ❤

    • @simply_panashe
      @simply_panashe Рік тому +1

      Congratulations sis❤

    • @mugenihope9352
      @mugenihope9352 Рік тому +1

      Amen🙏

  • @deeron1554
    @deeron1554 3 роки тому +308

    I'm 54 never been married, no kids. I have gotten to a stage in my life where if it happens it happens! I'm living my best life and a big No to online dating!!

    • @krii9
      @krii9 3 роки тому +25

      I agree with you. I feel like the world is so messed up and everything is dangerous these days. You can't know who is who, people are always fake. We see fake christians all the time and settling for worldly guys is also a vanity and grasping for the wind. So my only care will be to fear God as long as I live and not worry about people.

    • @mjebony6890
      @mjebony6890 3 роки тому +66

      met my husband via Eharmony... never dated others online... met a Christian man and we are approaching 9 years of a happy marriage. Love God, strive 4 a man who love God. do not put God in a box.

    • @lastdays3148
      @lastdays3148 3 роки тому +18

      @@mjebony6890 ,wow earlier today I was writing a letter concerning my future husband. I've Prayed to God blessing over and placing Olive Oil on the letter. One of my requirements were for my future husband to love God and put God firstly before anything else. I truly believed that if a man is dedicated and love God more. Well he would truly loved and cherished his family. We truly need to put God first in our lives that is very important. If any men or women doesn't want to put God first. I'll say run far away from dating that person. And continue on Praying and asking God to bring that God fearing person into your life.

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +9

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +1

      @Dani A IF YOU ARE UNWILLING TO EXPLORE POSSIBILITIES YOU MAY LOCK YOURSELF OUT OF OPPORTUNITIES. ONE MUST BE CAREFUL BUT ONE MUST ALSO CATCH HOLD OF OPEN DOORS.

  • @ruthmakanjuola5395
    @ruthmakanjuola5395 3 роки тому +164

    I’m 33 and still praying for my soulmate. It’s important to pray for strength to wait and be hopeful

    • @marijacolak3438
      @marijacolak3438 3 роки тому +10

      31 and still waiting🙏🕊💛May God give us strenght and firm faith

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +4

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @oluwolejadesola3291
      @oluwolejadesola3291 3 роки тому +2

      As your name could implies, all that's yours will come to you.

    • @marijacolak3438
      @marijacolak3438 3 роки тому +1

      @@freddiestranger9783 You are right, but because of painful experiences of abandonement and failures in relationship despite of prayers and good will, efforts, I cant take risks easily anymore...I dont want more pain as I have already gone through abuse...

    • @dieuseulphilogene3600
      @dieuseulphilogene3600 3 роки тому +3

      Keep your faith God is faithful he can do It.

  • @jenif7279
    @jenif7279 3 роки тому +262

    I just got married for the first time at age 57. Been saved since I was 25, so have been praying most of my life. It should not have taken that long, but I”m very very grateful for this man. Of course, he has been married before. Was not sure if it would ever happen b/c I’ve waited so long. God has been faithful, but it was not the will of God that I waited so long, nor for any others that are waiting. It is the will of God for marriage.

    • @saritak4517
      @saritak4517 3 роки тому +4

      Blessed be the name of the Lord 🙏.

    • @womanofgod2948
      @womanofgod2948 3 роки тому +15

      Was your husband divorced? And why are you saying that it wasn't the will of God for you to be married ay that age?
      Cindy Trimm got married for the first time at age 60 and she is a powerful Woman of God....was this not God's will for her life?

    • @Sanc8344
      @Sanc8344 3 роки тому +7

      Wow God Bless you.I have been saved as well since I was 25 and I am now 54 plus I am still waiting.

    • @kap849
      @kap849 3 роки тому +10

      @@womanofgod2948 I think what she meant is that the will of God is for us to be married but not that late. I have the same conviction too.

    • @elizabethc9843
      @elizabethc9843 3 роки тому +3

      Congrats and very encouraging 💕 May God bless your marriage! I’m 22yrs divorced (53) and still praying... thank you for your post 💕

  • @luyandotwaambo7836
    @luyandotwaambo7836 3 роки тому +71

    I’m gonna come back here and testify when my husband finds me , but for now while I wait for God’s time I’m gonna get busy with the Lord in the Lord and For the Lord .
    Thank you for this timely message .

  • @BinhTran-lm1vz
    @BinhTran-lm1vz 3 роки тому +12

    I’m 48 years old. No kids, no family. Faithfully love God.

  • @mizzcola1
    @mizzcola1 3 роки тому +125

    The best part about this is the fact that Nicole has since gotten married in December! Blessings!

    • @lbu9542
      @lbu9542 3 роки тому +9

      Oh wow, I didn't know she was engaged! Praise!

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 3 роки тому +7

      Amen!!! Praise report!

    • @Msterri4u
      @Msterri4u 3 роки тому +3

      Nicole Mullen?? Who did she marry?

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +2

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶ NOTE: I DID NOT SAY EXPERIMENT.

    •  3 роки тому +2

      Wooooow I'm so happy for her🎉🎉🎉🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @Thebookofsierra
    @Thebookofsierra 3 роки тому +95

    “Don’t lose yourself. Don’t lose your identity.”

  • @sonjihenderson5395
    @sonjihenderson5395 3 роки тому +52

    Love this conversation. I will celebrate my 15 year anniversary this month. My husband was around all my life, even though I hadn't met him yet. He saw me with my father when I was a young girl, then I moved to another town as a teenager walking with my best friend and saw this man who had my attention on the other side of the street, walk way past him, I kept looking back. Years later he was around my sister's guy friends driving them to their destination as a favor. When we finally met and started dating, and married, he began to tell me of all the times he remembered meeting me, I said Really?:, He told my father's name & described his personality. He then told me about how he remember me as a teenager, I said what did I have on?(He said a purple shirt)and it was true(now I'm floored). He described my sister's friends and their names(all correct). God can connect you to your spouse Wherever you are, it just HAS to be the right timing and Maturity in Christ.

    • @NekoNewMoon2502
      @NekoNewMoon2502 3 роки тому +3

      This is an amazing testimony

    • @Kiki-hv6jn
      @Kiki-hv6jn Рік тому +3

      Amen! Emphasis on maturity in Christ 👏

  • @natashamcclellan2707
    @natashamcclellan2707 3 роки тому +32

    I love to see my sisters in Christ motivating us single ladies! ❤️👏🏽👏🏽

  • @joanahamwele4511
    @joanahamwele4511 3 роки тому +142

    I want a man that is 1-3 deeper relationship with God. Pursuing his presence. I don't want a man that i should drag to church or prayer or fast. In fact he should be the leader of the house in everything.

    • @asparrow5505
      @asparrow5505 3 роки тому +17

      It sounds ideal but that's a tall order that's not very likely in this culture. Many men now weren't trained up in this way as boys for that degree of maturity. For some reason families and churches didn't prioritize it. A lot of women are going to be broken hearted if they're seeking that right off the bat. Growth is possible though. It could be a part of God's plan for her growth as well. Ending up with a man that grew up in church with wrong doctrines could bring worse problems than a less matured or new Christian.

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +3

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @mindclinic1244
      @mindclinic1244 3 роки тому +7

      It's not a total order... From a Christian male perspective she has ask for anything out of the ordinary. I am a pentecostal Christian male from africa... And I tell you the truth.... She hasn't ask for too much

    • @ciruwainaina
      @ciruwainaina 3 роки тому +2

      When Abrahams servant went to find a wife for Isaac, he prayed that when he got to a well and met a woman who would offer him water and offer to give water to his camels too will be isaacs wife.
      He got exactly that.
      God likes it when we are specific.
      It's good you know what you want and I'm sure you've taken it to God.

  • @marywalley4757
    @marywalley4757 3 роки тому +55

    I continue to pray for my husband even though I have not met him yet!

    • @TheQShow53
      @TheQShow53 3 роки тому +1

      Amen! Me too! Do not give up

    • @HolySpiritInspired
      @HolySpiritInspired 3 роки тому +1

      Don't put your heart to meet him. God will send him to you

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +1

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

  • @brendabaker4493
    @brendabaker4493 2 роки тому +5

    I’m 60 and have never been married. What I’ve learned is, there was some “stuff” God needed to get out of me “before” I got married. I’m soooo thankful God “made” me wait and that I listened to Him. During our season of waiting, there are things God wants us to do. Also, be prepared to “truly” trust God because the season “might” last longer than “you” think. But, trust that He know best and submit to Him first.

  • @ccbrandy22
    @ccbrandy22 3 роки тому +28

    This was so good!!! Having videos like this encourages me. I am a 42 year old woman, empty-nester, celibate 9 years and raised my now Marine son as a single parent. The Lord has been faithful. I own my own home and have 100% been preserved. However, there’s been a shift and believe the Lord is preparing me for my husband. I’ve Never been married or even had a long-standing relationship. So it’s all very new. Thank you I was able to hear Holy Spirit clearly while I watched this.

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому

      Camille, thank you for sharing your testimony with us! We love hearing how God is at work in our community! 💜

    • @mpryor8237
      @mpryor8237 3 роки тому

      So blessed to here this from you. Your dedication and faithfulness to the Lord.

  • @thriftypaula
    @thriftypaula 3 роки тому +26

    I am 60 year old female, woman of God, I have prayed for a mate sent by God, I have been in the field gleaning like Ruth for a long time. Don't know why it is taking so long but I still have faith for the right man, I wont give up.

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @night3angel
      @night3angel 3 роки тому

      Will keep you in prayer

    • @robertbraggs6160
      @robertbraggs6160 2 роки тому

      I
      Am
      Single
      Man
      Of
      God
      Iam
      Your
      Boaz
      I
      Need
      You
      To
      Be
      By
      My
      Side
      Praying
      Woman
      On
      Fire
      Fill
      With
      Holy
      Ghost
      Is
      That
      You
      I
      Got
      A
      Charge
      With
      God
      As
      A
      Preacher
      Your
      Wait
      Is
      Over
      I
      Believe
      My
      God
      For
      His
      Best
      It's
      My
      Season
      To
      Be
      Bless
      Love
      Your
      Smile
      You
      Are
      Gorgeous
      Woman
      Of
      God
      Iam
      Serious
      Man
      I
      Don't
      Play
      Games
      I
      Thank
      God
      For
      You
      God
      Is
      Good
      God
      Bless
      You
      Robert

    • @robertbraggs6160
      @robertbraggs6160 2 роки тому

      This
      Is
      Your
      Boaz
      Smile

    • @robertbraggs6160
      @robertbraggs6160 2 роки тому

      Iam
      Around
      The
      Same
      Age
      As
      You
      Woman
      Of
      God
      I
      Thank
      God
      For
      You

  • @jmmm1381
    @jmmm1381 3 роки тому +57

    I want to be "chosen" every single day! Yes and Amen! 😁🙏🏻

  • @thethreadmovement218
    @thethreadmovement218 3 роки тому +60

    I'm finally enjoying my singleness.....satisfied, serving, and complete. I know God has a man who's been praying for me. .For now, I am staying in my field..... transforming lives is my mission ❤

    • @leahk.chanda4946
      @leahk.chanda4946 3 роки тому

      That's beautiful ma

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +1

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. LOOK INSIDE AND OUTSIDE YOUR RACE PREFERENCES. IT IS NOT ABOUT RACE BUT ABOUT CHRIST CENTERED-NESS. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

  • @LonitaChiquita
    @LonitaChiquita 3 роки тому +43

    I’m 24 😭 still praying and waitin. Trying not to compare my love story to my parents’. My parents had been married 5 years by the time my mommy turned 24 🙃 pray for my patience. Please pray for me. I want to have children soon but I want to be married first

    • @dieuseulphilogene3600
      @dieuseulphilogene3600 3 роки тому +2

      I'm praying for you.

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +5

      SINGLES PLEASE READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @dieuseulphilogene3600
      @dieuseulphilogene3600 3 роки тому

      Hi!

    • @LonitaChiquita
      @LonitaChiquita 3 роки тому

      @@dieuseulphilogene3600 thank you

    • @dieuseulphilogene3600
      @dieuseulphilogene3600 3 роки тому

      @@LonitaChiquita Hey How are you today?

  • @xolilenene3816
    @xolilenene3816 3 роки тому +58

    Listening from South Africa in my late 20th and single. I love the Lord with all my heart and all that I want is for his will to be accomplished in my life. Thank you for this great wisdom on dating. Accountability and godly advise is what I took in from this session.

  • @annabelnduta3824
    @annabelnduta3824 3 роки тому +416

    I believe God will lead my future husband to me. I do pray for him.

    • @imtheprize
      @imtheprize 3 роки тому +6

      Same

    • @saritak4517
      @saritak4517 3 роки тому +11

      Amen! My prayer too , waiting patiently and faithfully.

    • @Jasmyne444
      @Jasmyne444 3 роки тому +4

      Amen and Hallelujah 🙌🏾✨🙌🏾

    • @utamu777
      @utamu777 3 роки тому +15

      Ask your families and communities to help you find a spouse as well. Relying on God alone to meet the right man isn't wrong but it often isnt very effective. The way people got married in the Bible was primarily through family intervention, not praying and waiting for something to happen. Marriage is an earthly institution and some earthly methods are necessary to make it happen in many cases.

    • @imtheprize
      @imtheprize 3 роки тому +7

      @@utamu777 I completely understand what you are saying. It's just that I get so fearful that I'll mess up and choose wrong, that I've found myself completely withdrawn and sitting waiting for a sign.

  • @thetreasuregarden.creates
    @thetreasuregarden.creates 3 роки тому +104

    To the Dear Sisters who watch this and HAVE gone on "55 dates" before finding someone, please know, that doesn't necessarily mean you are not following the Holy Spirit. Everyone's process is different. Many times some look at another's journey and conclude, from their own point of view, that you're not waiting on the Lord. As we see many times in the bible, the road of obedience may look messy and confusing to others, yet it may be the very process God is using for YOUR STORY. Be encouraged, Love! 🕊️💖🙏🏽

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому +1

      🔥💎🔥

    • @greenebond
      @greenebond 3 роки тому

      Really?

    • @blessingsbest6838
      @blessingsbest6838 3 роки тому

      I felt sad tho! When they came for the 55dates. Thought not very nice etc lol

    • @missblessings247
      @missblessings247 3 роки тому +3

      So true sis. Unless u been there, you will not understand. Everyone is different and think different.

    • @Msfruity44
      @Msfruity44 3 роки тому

      Amen!!!

  • @qutie2day
    @qutie2day 3 роки тому +56

    Homegirl with the pink earrings is looking flawless lol hair is beautiful and makeup is on point!!! They all look good but geeesh she's beautiful!

    • @worth943
      @worth943 3 роки тому +6

      Heather always Poppin

  • @jkiablacknell9218
    @jkiablacknell9218 3 роки тому +47

    🙌🏾 praise God. I tell my friends this all the time that when my husband and I see each other we will know. The Holy Spirit let you know who is not for you. I pray over my future husband everyday and I can’t wait to meet him. This message was very powerful

    • @TheManuella3
      @TheManuella3 3 роки тому +3

      Amen thats what i said... ☺️ I will know my partner thats assigned to me by God... Ohh this makes me emotional. Looking forward to that day/night😄.

    • @jkiablacknell9218
      @jkiablacknell9218 3 роки тому +3

      @@TheManuella3 I’m looking forward to it as well. I have a strong feeling it’s on its way.

    • @jkiablacknell9218
      @jkiablacknell9218 3 роки тому +1

      @I T N 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 yes it is definitely time. God is connecting husbands and wives for His Kingdom

    • @carlottabailey5891
      @carlottabailey5891 2 роки тому

      me too

  • @essie420
    @essie420 3 роки тому +38

    I'm so glad they discussed "getting yourself out there". My rule is do not introduce people to something you cannot maintain. You need to find what getting yourself out there means to you personally. I've seen people force themselves into social settings that isn't for them just so they can meet someone.

  • @lianet777
    @lianet777 3 роки тому +64

    I have gone through intensive spiritual warfare and I don’t want to date a man that I have to raise spiritually... he needs to have gone through hell too and understand how important and real God is. Those type of men are hard to find

    • @dashelledisna6239
      @dashelledisna6239 3 роки тому +4

      Girl same

    • @SavySavannah.
      @SavySavannah. 3 роки тому +15

      You’re preaching! It’s so true, there are a lot of good guys out there who just aren’t mature enough for marriage (which is fine because they can grow... we’re all still growing). However, like you I’m not tryna adopt someone’s son or gain a little brother. I want a husband 😆 no child rearing over here, spiritual, mental, emotional or otherwise 🥴🙃

    • @lianet777
      @lianet777 3 роки тому +13

      @@SavySavannah. preaaaach!!!!! You want someone that’s gonna get down and fast with you and wage spiritual warfare with you; not someone who will mock you and say “not everything is spiritual” whenever you discern that something is demonic and call it out

    • @iamniketajewel
      @iamniketajewel 3 роки тому +5

      Literally just tried to explain this to my mom. I need covering out the gate. I’m gonna pray on this. If the Lord leads me to a man who’s willing but not quite there yet, I’ll take heed.

    • @dashelledisna6239
      @dashelledisna6239 3 роки тому +6

      A man that can cover, lead ,provide, protect for me as a wife and my kid is everything. He doesnt need to be super spiritual, speaking in tongues , casting out demons.
      Hear our prayers Lord

  • @the.victorgeorge
    @the.victorgeorge 3 роки тому +23

    I just heard this in my Spirit "God will do the picking, I will do the pursuing." Because I know I am a Bad picker. If I go by myself, I will pick a wife based only on superficial things. But with God, He will give me the discernment, Godly counsel and even how to pursue the girl I intend to marry. I am Hopeful and Eager to see this come to pass in my life. God is the best matchmaker and writes perfect loves stories.

  • @sashtilalbachan4552
    @sashtilalbachan4552 3 роки тому +22

    Nicole Mullen is such an amazing inspiration for us single ladies!!! Thank you so much for your prayers.

  • @jclilstar1973
    @jclilstar1973 3 роки тому +6

    Thank you for sharing this message. I'm 48 and never married. I have had 2 kids out of wedlock do I figured that God possibly dont want me to marry but to live out this life with singleness. I'm praying for Gods will as I prepare my body mind and spirit to be transformed to the women he wants me to be in my singleness.

  • @ShaniceRSmith
    @ShaniceRSmith 2 роки тому +7

    Talking about Nicole. So much can happen in 1 year 🔥 now she’s about to be married or already is 😂 she literally had no idea here. Her heart was definitely in the right place to. This is so cool to see

    • @carlottabailey5891
      @carlottabailey5891 2 роки тому

      which one is Nicole?

    • @ShaniceRSmith
      @ShaniceRSmith 2 роки тому +2

      @@carlottabailey5891 The one who described what she’s looking for in a spouse, Talked about her parents marriage

  • @queenchavette2
    @queenchavette2 3 роки тому +72

    "Sub mission, get under the mission" I about fell out my chair.

  • @mjebony6890
    @mjebony6890 3 роки тому +84

    I met my husband online - through Eharmony. I clearly made it known about my firm Christian walk... he was also a committed Christian.
    We are now going into out 9th year of 💑. Seek first the Kingdom of God, know your boundaries, have biblical standards. God is able to bring you and a God-loving man together.

    • @essie420
      @essie420 3 роки тому +1

      I love this for you!

    • @gerrimiller3491
      @gerrimiller3491 3 роки тому +1

      Congratulations sista💗

    • @acharich
      @acharich 3 роки тому +1

      Hallelujah..! 🔥

    • @aprilragin1591
      @aprilragin1591 3 роки тому +1

      That's wonderful! Congratulations to you all:) I met my husband in eharmony, as well. We've been VERY happily married for 14 years and have 3 children. I am so very grateful for the family and Godly man the Lord gave me. I was definitely the person who was always dating and "putting myself out there", while still serving God/in my career/etc. I think that's important because like the host said, you have to let it be known that you're available. Bianca made some EXCELLENT points about active waiting!

    • @JoeJoSoulChild
      @JoeJoSoulChild 3 роки тому

      Thank you for this testimony ❤️🙏🏽

  • @ForGodsglory77
    @ForGodsglory77 3 роки тому +157

    I love these longer videos vs the 4 minute ones.

  • @AllenNdoli
    @AllenNdoli 2 роки тому +7

    How Laurie met her husband gets me all the time🥰
    God surely works in mysterious ways,wow🤭
    ❤️4rm🇺🇬

  • @ledahimalia
    @ledahimalia 3 роки тому +68

    Laurie's testimony is just incredible - glory to God. Great video - we LOVE these longer clips - thank you for this wonderful channel - it is such a blessing to our daily lives. Please keep 'em coming.

    • @whatweate6739
      @whatweate6739 3 роки тому +3

      I hope she shares the goodness she’s received from God with others by helping other singles as well. Just like her grandmother did for her.

    • @imtheprize
      @imtheprize 3 роки тому +1

      Yes indeed it is

  • @esmeraldaayala8005
    @esmeraldaayala8005 3 роки тому +21

    Nicole thank you for bringing so much hope for all the single ladies

  • @whatweate6739
    @whatweate6739 3 роки тому +19

    I believe there is no one that is beyond God’s redemption. Thank you Nicole for this beautiful reminder of God as a redeemer. Most pastors wives do not think this way. They condemn, ostracize and gossip about you if you are divorced or have made a mistake in the past.

  • @shalom3522
    @shalom3522 3 роки тому +18

    I have made the dumbest mistakes. I am 52. Does God have anything God for me again? Father just meet me at this point of need. Father, wipe away my tears in Jesus Name

  • @tapinwithtiffany538
    @tapinwithtiffany538 3 роки тому +13

    So important to have accountability partners & be willing to listen to wise counsel from friends/family as to what we need to do differently.

  • @과틀로애비
    @과틀로애비 Рік тому +1

    I revisited this video again, I tried online dating but it didn't work out for me but I learned a lot from it. Now I wanted to be more discerning, prayerful and ask God to give me wise counsel of sisters in Christ in my desire for marriage . Thanks again ladies for all the things you shared

    • @jareya
      @jareya Рік тому

      I love how God teaches us through everything - even the ones that don’t work out.

  • @LisaCPerry
    @LisaCPerry 3 роки тому +2

    I'm 39 and still single, and thanking God. I am working on finding Gods purpose for my life, and in that fulfillment. For christians we have an assignment, a work to do on this earth. Let's get busy with our assignment ladies, and I believe if it's Gods will a husband may come, or may Not come, either way we are married to Christ first.

  • @abigailmoodley2309
    @abigailmoodley2309 3 роки тому +3

    Wow Nicole C Mullen, just yesterday someone sent me a video of your song My Redeemer Lives, that was my go to song when I was a new believer in Christ. Its been a long time since I've seen you and I must say you've grown well, at 52 , you look amazing. And I am so encouraged by the way you're still standing in Christ and still waiting on Him to grant you your hearts desires, you are soo precious to Him and I thank God for you. Single or married, you are a blessed woman of God an I love and appreciate you.🙏

    • @victoriamciver9900
      @victoriamciver9900 2 роки тому +1

      I've ALWAYS Loved Nicole she can SING and she looks as beautiful as she did in the early 00s I grew up on that beautiful song!💖

  • @Lisa_1023
    @Lisa_1023 3 роки тому +26

    I thoroughly enjoyed this session. Listening and getting the perspective of all age groups about what to pray for as it relates to marriage.

  • @Christimony222
    @Christimony222 3 роки тому +8

    Loved this video so much. I love how it's edited, as well. I always love when Christian dating is spoken about!

  • @jenniferrivera8627
    @jenniferrivera8627 3 роки тому +11

    What a testimony..how prayers are powerful...only God can do that..!

  • @rosmida1395
    @rosmida1395 3 роки тому +4

    Thank you for your prayer for the youth. I'm an example of that messed up youth with countless mistakes that I feel so unworthy. It's a difficult journey that ibam and I pray so much that I'm a victor at the end. Stay blessed

  • @ShamekaMarshall-SoarUnburied
    @ShamekaMarshall-SoarUnburied 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you ladies. This was encouraging and full of wisdom. I especially appreciate Nicole’s prayer at the end and to see her current relationship today is absolutely AMAZING!! 💛

  • @mattiewilliams1138
    @mattiewilliams1138 3 роки тому +1

    I am glad I watched this. When she prayed for the single people I cried because I thought I was the only person with those feelings. I desire to be married and at 51; still waiting but if GOD never gives me that type of love; I know he still loves me. It is hard not having a soul mate but I can’t be with the wrong person as I have in my past.

  • @adrianalizbette12
    @adrianalizbette12 2 роки тому +5

    God is intentional.
    I needed to listen this message. 🥺❤️
    Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and how you all met or want to have that ideal person.
    I was married for almost 10 years and I thought this was the man of my life.
    I divorced in 2009 and since then I have not been fortunate enough to find a partner with purpose and in the eyes of God.
    I have met many guys But nodody that likes to comment, or loves the Lord like me or more than me.
    I thank God for letting me hear this message because I know that He continues to form me and instruct me, with or without a husband.
    Thanks again.
    Blessings to all of you. 🥰💯

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  2 роки тому

      Thank you for sharing your story and what God is speaking to you. God bless you! 💜

  • @stephanyecjohnson
    @stephanyecjohnson 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks ladies for your transparency. It gives me hope knowing the prayers of my spiritual family that I have who are praying and have been praying for my partner for a decade now. I faith in HIM to work out this part of my life while learning about myself in my time if singleness.

  • @luanna376
    @luanna376 3 роки тому +48

    Amen: A Man Who F.I.N.D.S. A Wife, F.I.N.D.S. A Good Thing.
    If Christ Keeps Me For Himself, Then He's Mine Forever. No Regrets❤🙏👍👋🔥😊

    • @god-loverlisa8120
      @god-loverlisa8120 3 роки тому +2

      Amen. God is only right, always!!! 🙏 🙌

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @purpleroyalty3290
      @purpleroyalty3290 2 роки тому

      Amen

  • @Chuma.N
    @Chuma.N 3 роки тому +7

    I believe that prayer at the end of the video was for me, thank you Nicole!

  • @moniquenjau7575
    @moniquenjau7575 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing. I am listening to this now, December, 2021 and the video has spoken to me. I am 34 and single, I have made damn mistakes of chasing men but now I am at a point in life where I have submitted my will to Gods will. I want what God wants for me and nothing less. Waiting is not easy, but when you are in the Lord, the Grace is sufficient.

  • @GraciaBelievesthatJesusSaves
    @GraciaBelievesthatJesusSaves 3 роки тому +6

    Wise counsel is everything Amen sister Nicole

  • @karenparker06
    @karenparker06 3 роки тому +1

    This is phenomenal. Thanks for having this ministry to assist single women.

  • @sbosh4566
    @sbosh4566 2 роки тому +3

    Lord thank you for this sermon it just confirms what you have been showing me. About my own Boaz....and that waiting on Him it's so worth it 👌🏽 💕

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for the prayer in all my mess ups. Yes, amen.

  • @BEBEBUTTER
    @BEBEBUTTER 3 роки тому +14

    I'm in my 30s would love to get married and have a family. I dont know where the men are. But a lot of christian men want beautiful younger ladies. Been praying for years. 🙏🏾

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +1

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +1

      Men are VISUAL CREATURES. That is the Way they were made. You cannot change that. SO to catch their attention you have to Prepare yourself for them. NOT BE INDECENT but look Visually attractive. You cannot look terrible looking n appearance and expect to impress one. PREPARE.

  • @AuthorDavidHammond
    @AuthorDavidHammond 2 роки тому +3

    Such a wonderful and mature conversation.

  • @siphokaziluzipho4197
    @siphokaziluzipho4197 11 місяців тому

    Thamk you for the prayer..One of those who feel they've missed it.

  • @universallove878
    @universallove878 3 роки тому +34

    💯What a lot of people in the church don't tell you, is that first, not everyone wants to be married and that it's okay if you don't. Secondly, make sure you pursue your individual God-given purpose, and that the purpose aligns with your possible mate's purpose collectively for a more harmonious union as life brings many challenges. Third, the singles ministry is filled with a lot of couples and is not for everyone. Lastly, the church should acknowledge the breakdown of relationships within its walls from the pulpit to the congregation as often it glossed over with the same sayings of forgiving and pray but all the bandaids are peeling off generations of the same wounds with no real accountability and this is why so many are not there. 💯💯

    • @highholbornstreetchurchofg6421
      @highholbornstreetchurchofg6421 3 роки тому +1

      Why have you decided to preach....❤❤....right point

    • @greenebond
      @greenebond 3 роки тому

      God says BE fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth. Its a command. Unless for medical reasons or you are going on dangerous missionary service for the Lord in which having children will be an hinderance, if out of personal choice you decide not to, you are not fulfilling the productivity God wants us to do. The same with Paul, who goes from places to places and faces persecution alot on mission work. It is better to marry than to burn.

    • @priscillachinsembu4669
      @priscillachinsembu4669 2 роки тому +1

      @@greenebond did he say be fruitful and multiply children?it's not specific. Not everyone is called to marriage. Remember Paul said of you can be like me.....but if you can't go ahead least your desires consume you ....

  • @Sanc8344
    @Sanc8344 3 роки тому +3

    These are some beautiful and powerful testimonies.

  • @kahnicacole5692
    @kahnicacole5692 3 роки тому +4

    This was WONDERFUL ladies!!! Also, 52 years old? You look AMAZING!

  • @donnaprince1822
    @donnaprince1822 2 роки тому

    AWESOME Ladies - You all are a blessing

  • @Khanyisile3
    @Khanyisile3 3 роки тому +6

    This episode blessed me a lot, thank you.

    • @BetterTogetherTV
      @BetterTogetherTV  3 роки тому +2

      We are so happy to hear how our conversation has blessed and helped you! Thank you for watching! 💜

    • @Khanyisile3
      @Khanyisile3 3 роки тому

      @@BetterTogetherTV I am grateful to hear women of God share their experiences like this, such a blessing!

  • @syliviasylivita5023
    @syliviasylivita5023 3 роки тому +17

    I am camping here for more testimonies

  • @valenciawood5230
    @valenciawood5230 3 роки тому

    This spoke to me so deeply... I've avoided watching because of the word dating, but I felt the need to watch and I'm so happy I did. I feel God moving in my life, preparing me for whom He has chosen for me. Thank you so much for posting. 🙏🏽

  • @miiotv
    @miiotv 3 роки тому +1

    “If they find us worthy than let them run” a word ❤️

  • @rutendogaura6950
    @rutendogaura6950 Рік тому +1

    This blessed me so much! God bless yall ladies and some more🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @chamberlainokoye1251
    @chamberlainokoye1251 2 роки тому

    I enjoyed watching this episode BT... Very apt nuggets... Shout outs to you beautiful dames.

  • @jacquelineaungnaing7218
    @jacquelineaungnaing7218 2 роки тому

    The Lord spoke me through this! Thank you so much! God bless!

  • @zarahsamantha
    @zarahsamantha 2 роки тому

    Thank you for always putting such liberating truth out there Better Together. I am endlessly blessed by the seed week in and out. I am waiting on God for a husband for almost ten years.. Was feeling downcast.. But this uplifted my spirit.. To believe God still has someone for me. Please keep me in prayer.

  • @amayahsdevotion
    @amayahsdevotion 3 роки тому +101

    this was such a heartwarming conversation. i literally was speaking to the Lord last night about wanting to be chosen/pursued.
    im 19 (will be turning 20 this month) and i’ve never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss (IM UNASHAMED), never been taken on a date, and things of that sort...
    sometimes it can get hard for me and a little lonely but this video has really stilled my heart. hearing you all’s stories gave me goosebumps and hope that the Lord will send the one who is right for me when it’s time.
    what you’ve all discussed allowed me to see the things that is important to ruminant on before marriage. the mission, the man i’d want to lead-having a relationship with the Holy Spirit/being Spirit-led.
    thank you so much for this! 🤍

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 3 роки тому +2

      SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶

    • @dove-1815
      @dove-1815 3 роки тому +3

      Dear AmayahShantel, belated happy birthday. Your testimony is beautiful. You are very loved and cared for by Almighty God🌸🙏🏽. Continue to keep HIM First in your life- HE HAS HIS VERY BEST IN STORE FOR YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE🌸😊. God’s continued blessings and favor be upon you always 🤗🤗🤗🎉🙏🏽🌸

    • @amayahsdevotion
      @amayahsdevotion 3 роки тому +1

      @@dove-1815 thank you so much. i receive it. He surely has my heart, it does belong to Him. im patient in the wait because i know that i am waiting WITH God, not ON God. i found so much beauty in singleness and the things He’s taught me in His Word is something others years older than me are just now learning.
      so, for that i am grateful. this journey is not one i am ashamed by, because when the time is right He will get all of the glory for hiding me in every season and then revealing me to the one who is best suitable for me! 🤍

    • @shammahnomwesigwa7776
      @shammahnomwesigwa7776 2 роки тому +2

      🥰 l love that you are trusting God to bring the right man and not feeling unworthy

  • @Supsup7777
    @Supsup7777 3 роки тому +1

    I am 42 and never married. I do wonder if/when I will meet my spouse. It just takes one! I pray about it!!

  • @janh6097
    @janh6097 3 роки тому +4

    Very insightful and so good to hear about the differences in each woman’s journey on this panel. Patiently waiting for my future husband and I plan to be celibate until we are married 🙏

  • @AllenNdoli
    @AllenNdoli 2 роки тому +1

    Found this platform last year and I feel like am best friends with y'all coz these conversations about God are so authentic and life changing❤️💙💜💛💚🧡Thank u for allowing God to use you because by obeying you are touching so many lives all-over the world including mine🙏🏽
    (❤️4rm🇺🇬)

  • @Apostlesteddynkdivine
    @Apostlesteddynkdivine 2 роки тому +1

    God is the best and perfect march maker it's important to trust Him for the process 🙌🙌🙌

  • @IndigoSass
    @IndigoSass 2 місяці тому

    I love the model that Laurie used on how she met her husband. I'm praying this happens for me i want to witness a love that God naturally places together as a union

  • @collinssian9532
    @collinssian9532 3 роки тому +1

    Women bearing inner beauty of a quiet and a gentle spirit . Virtuous women , of good character are a rare jewel.... Where are they??

    • @knitcreations9837
      @knitcreations9837 3 роки тому

      @Colin's slan: here I am . May the holy spirit lead the right man to my way. I am 53

  • @busimkhumbuzipooe
    @busimkhumbuzipooe 3 роки тому +2

    Incredible testimony Mrs Crouch! Love it!

  • @sebastianblaeck2492
    @sebastianblaeck2492 3 роки тому +8

    Women of God, thank you all so much for this wonderful session. I enjoyed the stories and felt hopeful and empowered after watching. We women truly need this channel. Loved having a longer clip too. God bless!

  • @PS-lg7ue
    @PS-lg7ue 3 роки тому +11

    Sometimes we also need to look outside our races as well . there are options out there

  • @lolobatubo5750
    @lolobatubo5750 3 роки тому +1

    Amen...Thank you Lord!!! I surrender my relationship, my all to you!!!

  • @julietoneill1268
    @julietoneill1268 2 роки тому

    wise counsel for me also Nicole, I'm with you there. Let God choose him for me too 🙌🙏

  • @jcanthony16
    @jcanthony16 3 роки тому +9

    I hate to say I’ve given up on love and relationships. These days it’s too many games & people that can’t stay loyal and faithful even in the church.

    • @apprendrelechinoisavecvivi663
      @apprendrelechinoisavecvivi663 3 роки тому +2

      Normal, not everyone serves God seriously. If you love God with all your heart, you’ll never play with the feelings of other

    • @ehisomorodion2545
      @ehisomorodion2545 3 роки тому

      I’ve washed my hands of love and relationship

  • @zekeniah4260
    @zekeniah4260 2 роки тому

    Been single for 3 years. I was just praying to God a few minutes ago that I'm willing to wait for the guy He has for me, and this video popped up all of a sudden. God's timing is really amazing. 💕

  • @A1glenn838
    @A1glenn838 Рік тому

    I love this. Thank you sisters in Christ.

  • @TJ-mt1jw
    @TJ-mt1jw 3 роки тому +4

    This was so informative and inspirational and I'm so grateful that I tuned in you guys are amazing and I've learned so much thank you thank you thank you💛🙏🏽🙌🏽

  • @TheMaisonshirley
    @TheMaisonshirley 3 роки тому +3

    Amen! And Nicole is married now to an amazing man, wow. Lord Like all women on this table, I receive the man of your will for me. Love you guys.

  • @rosem.9807
    @rosem.9807 3 роки тому +1

    This talk has blessed so much! Oh my God! I believe that God know who's the best for me and He will lead our paths to cross, in Jesus Name. Amen

  • @Carrrnversations
    @Carrrnversations Рік тому

    Cried my eyes out at that story

  • @gratzia
    @gratzia 3 роки тому +3

    I've been frustrated so many times I'm over it! Singleness is better and much less of a headache. Kudos to you women for being bothered and staying hopeful!

  • @sandiswaeltze5622
    @sandiswaeltze5622 3 роки тому +2

    Pursuits and chasing is the man's duty, every woman love to be pursuit, just pray and wait and trusting God in the waiting 🙏💕

  • @delmainbeukes9070
    @delmainbeukes9070 Рік тому

    Thank you Lord Jesus...such a timely message ❤

  • @joycewatt8289
    @joycewatt8289 2 роки тому

    Yesssss
    It’s a beautiful thing to have someone hand picked by God “to do life with”
    I think that we forget that’s exactly what God did for Adam when He “handcrafted” Eve and said, “It’s not good that man be alone.”

  • @stacymiller1860
    @stacymiller1860 3 роки тому +4

    This was wonderful 🥺❤️❤️ I had lost all hope but I know he had to have someone just for me

  • @KayAlexandria283
    @KayAlexandria283 3 роки тому +22

    Any advice for loving yourself despite being rejected and feeling unworthy of being pursued? I'm 21 years old, never had a boyfriend and most of the time I'm fine with being single but sometimes I feel so unworthy of being pursued by someone I'm interested in because I've never been asked out by a guy I'm interested because they don't seem to be interested in me while guys I'm not interested in are the ones who trying to pursue me. I sometimes feel stuck and often times frustrated as if I have to settle for someone I'm not attracted to/interested in.

    • @nikeadebayo2491
      @nikeadebayo2491 3 роки тому +10

      That was me in your shoes many years ago. My advice is to spend time in prayers, reading God’s love letters to us in the bible and fasting ... this is the kind of situations that Christ talked about that will not be solved without these spiritual activities. KJV Matt 17:21
      Praying for you dear one🙏🏽❤️

    • @KayAlexandria283
      @KayAlexandria283 3 роки тому +1

      @@nikeadebayo2491 Thank you! ♥️

    • @jaylenny62
      @jaylenny62 3 роки тому +4

      @@KayAlexandria283 Hey I'm sorry you feeling that way. I understand what you feel. Lets speak about becoming a better you and perhaps address your femininity. I would love to help you out.

    • @dieuseulphilogene3600
      @dieuseulphilogene3600 3 роки тому

      Hi! How are you?

    • @bluebirdie_
      @bluebirdie_ 3 роки тому +1

      When I was your age I felt the same. Some days I still have those thoughts, but after experiencing a long, toxic relationship and continuing to heal from it, I can tell you this: spend time with the Lord and let Him love you first. Do not feel unworthy. He is protecting you from those who appear nice, but who may be toxic or just not fit for you. You can go your own way and settle for someone because you’re tired of waiting and he’s the only one interested who is “decent enough,” but it will most likely be a struggle and may lead to unintended consequences the Lord was wanting to spare you from.
      You are a beautiful young lady. Please remember your worth as God’s precious daughter, and let the Holy Spirit lead you in discerning which paths and relationships are healthy for you. God bless you.

  • @chrisnellemarcelin7725
    @chrisnellemarcelin7725 2 роки тому

    I love all of yall ladies and Thank you for this♥️♥️♥️♥️. Be bless.

  • @allah7618
    @allah7618 Рік тому

    18And the Lord said, it is not good that man should be alone.
    I think everyone just understand and quote that part... here is the most amazing line in that verse "I WILL MAKE HIM A HELPER COMPATIBLE TO HIM" Yes Lord! Yes❤

  • @marymutua5620
    @marymutua5620 Рік тому

    This is quite an interesting topic and timely.