Wow - I remember watching this segment a year ago around the same time as now and at the end when Nicole started praying I raised my hand and re-committed my choice, my will, my type of husband to the Lord and gave him the upper hand for my future relationship. I started to be consistent in my prayer for a husband and a few weeks later I met my husband and soon after that we started dating, I am so blessed to say that we are now engaged to be married and I do not know why but today I revisited this video and I am so overwhelmed by God's grace (that after watching and praying - a year later I would have found my life partner). Thank you to the ladies for sharing so much insight and revelation because we are seeing the fruits of it. May the Lord continue to use you mightily and return unto you a thousand-fold. Thank you!
I'm 54 never been married, no kids. I have gotten to a stage in my life where if it happens it happens! I'm living my best life and a big No to online dating!!
I agree with you. I feel like the world is so messed up and everything is dangerous these days. You can't know who is who, people are always fake. We see fake christians all the time and settling for worldly guys is also a vanity and grasping for the wind. So my only care will be to fear God as long as I live and not worry about people.
met my husband via Eharmony... never dated others online... met a Christian man and we are approaching 9 years of a happy marriage. Love God, strive 4 a man who love God. do not put God in a box.
@@mjebony6890 ,wow earlier today I was writing a letter concerning my future husband. I've Prayed to God blessing over and placing Olive Oil on the letter. One of my requirements were for my future husband to love God and put God firstly before anything else. I truly believed that if a man is dedicated and love God more. Well he would truly loved and cherished his family. We truly need to put God first in our lives that is very important. If any men or women doesn't want to put God first. I'll say run far away from dating that person. And continue on Praying and asking God to bring that God fearing person into your life.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
@Dani A IF YOU ARE UNWILLING TO EXPLORE POSSIBILITIES YOU MAY LOCK YOURSELF OUT OF OPPORTUNITIES. ONE MUST BE CAREFUL BUT ONE MUST ALSO CATCH HOLD OF OPEN DOORS.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
@@freddiestranger9783 You are right, but because of painful experiences of abandonement and failures in relationship despite of prayers and good will, efforts, I cant take risks easily anymore...I dont want more pain as I have already gone through abuse...
I just got married for the first time at age 57. Been saved since I was 25, so have been praying most of my life. It should not have taken that long, but I”m very very grateful for this man. Of course, he has been married before. Was not sure if it would ever happen b/c I’ve waited so long. God has been faithful, but it was not the will of God that I waited so long, nor for any others that are waiting. It is the will of God for marriage.
Was your husband divorced? And why are you saying that it wasn't the will of God for you to be married ay that age? Cindy Trimm got married for the first time at age 60 and she is a powerful Woman of God....was this not God's will for her life?
I’m gonna come back here and testify when my husband finds me , but for now while I wait for God’s time I’m gonna get busy with the Lord in the Lord and For the Lord . Thank you for this timely message .
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶ NOTE: I DID NOT SAY EXPERIMENT.
Love this conversation. I will celebrate my 15 year anniversary this month. My husband was around all my life, even though I hadn't met him yet. He saw me with my father when I was a young girl, then I moved to another town as a teenager walking with my best friend and saw this man who had my attention on the other side of the street, walk way past him, I kept looking back. Years later he was around my sister's guy friends driving them to their destination as a favor. When we finally met and started dating, and married, he began to tell me of all the times he remembered meeting me, I said Really?:, He told my father's name & described his personality. He then told me about how he remember me as a teenager, I said what did I have on?(He said a purple shirt)and it was true(now I'm floored). He described my sister's friends and their names(all correct). God can connect you to your spouse Wherever you are, it just HAS to be the right timing and Maturity in Christ.
I want a man that is 1-3 deeper relationship with God. Pursuing his presence. I don't want a man that i should drag to church or prayer or fast. In fact he should be the leader of the house in everything.
It sounds ideal but that's a tall order that's not very likely in this culture. Many men now weren't trained up in this way as boys for that degree of maturity. For some reason families and churches didn't prioritize it. A lot of women are going to be broken hearted if they're seeking that right off the bat. Growth is possible though. It could be a part of God's plan for her growth as well. Ending up with a man that grew up in church with wrong doctrines could bring worse problems than a less matured or new Christian.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
It's not a total order... From a Christian male perspective she has ask for anything out of the ordinary. I am a pentecostal Christian male from africa... And I tell you the truth.... She hasn't ask for too much
When Abrahams servant went to find a wife for Isaac, he prayed that when he got to a well and met a woman who would offer him water and offer to give water to his camels too will be isaacs wife. He got exactly that. God likes it when we are specific. It's good you know what you want and I'm sure you've taken it to God.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
I’m 60 and have never been married. What I’ve learned is, there was some “stuff” God needed to get out of me “before” I got married. I’m soooo thankful God “made” me wait and that I listened to Him. During our season of waiting, there are things God wants us to do. Also, be prepared to “truly” trust God because the season “might” last longer than “you” think. But, trust that He know best and submit to Him first.
This was so good!!! Having videos like this encourages me. I am a 42 year old woman, empty-nester, celibate 9 years and raised my now Marine son as a single parent. The Lord has been faithful. I own my own home and have 100% been preserved. However, there’s been a shift and believe the Lord is preparing me for my husband. I’ve Never been married or even had a long-standing relationship. So it’s all very new. Thank you I was able to hear Holy Spirit clearly while I watched this.
I am 60 year old female, woman of God, I have prayed for a mate sent by God, I have been in the field gleaning like Ruth for a long time. Don't know why it is taking so long but I still have faith for the right man, I wont give up.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
I Am Single Man Of God Iam Your Boaz I Need You To Be By My Side Praying Woman On Fire Fill With Holy Ghost Is That You I Got A Charge With God As A Preacher Your Wait Is Over I Believe My God For His Best It's My Season To Be Bless Love Your Smile You Are Gorgeous Woman Of God Iam Serious Man I Don't Play Games I Thank God For You God Is Good God Bless You Robert
I'm finally enjoying my singleness.....satisfied, serving, and complete. I know God has a man who's been praying for me. .For now, I am staying in my field..... transforming lives is my mission ❤
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. LOOK INSIDE AND OUTSIDE YOUR RACE PREFERENCES. IT IS NOT ABOUT RACE BUT ABOUT CHRIST CENTERED-NESS. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
I’m 24 😭 still praying and waitin. Trying not to compare my love story to my parents’. My parents had been married 5 years by the time my mommy turned 24 🙃 pray for my patience. Please pray for me. I want to have children soon but I want to be married first
SINGLES PLEASE READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Listening from South Africa in my late 20th and single. I love the Lord with all my heart and all that I want is for his will to be accomplished in my life. Thank you for this great wisdom on dating. Accountability and godly advise is what I took in from this session.
Ask your families and communities to help you find a spouse as well. Relying on God alone to meet the right man isn't wrong but it often isnt very effective. The way people got married in the Bible was primarily through family intervention, not praying and waiting for something to happen. Marriage is an earthly institution and some earthly methods are necessary to make it happen in many cases.
@@utamu777 I completely understand what you are saying. It's just that I get so fearful that I'll mess up and choose wrong, that I've found myself completely withdrawn and sitting waiting for a sign.
To the Dear Sisters who watch this and HAVE gone on "55 dates" before finding someone, please know, that doesn't necessarily mean you are not following the Holy Spirit. Everyone's process is different. Many times some look at another's journey and conclude, from their own point of view, that you're not waiting on the Lord. As we see many times in the bible, the road of obedience may look messy and confusing to others, yet it may be the very process God is using for YOUR STORY. Be encouraged, Love! 🕊️💖🙏🏽
🙌🏾 praise God. I tell my friends this all the time that when my husband and I see each other we will know. The Holy Spirit let you know who is not for you. I pray over my future husband everyday and I can’t wait to meet him. This message was very powerful
I'm so glad they discussed "getting yourself out there". My rule is do not introduce people to something you cannot maintain. You need to find what getting yourself out there means to you personally. I've seen people force themselves into social settings that isn't for them just so they can meet someone.
I have gone through intensive spiritual warfare and I don’t want to date a man that I have to raise spiritually... he needs to have gone through hell too and understand how important and real God is. Those type of men are hard to find
You’re preaching! It’s so true, there are a lot of good guys out there who just aren’t mature enough for marriage (which is fine because they can grow... we’re all still growing). However, like you I’m not tryna adopt someone’s son or gain a little brother. I want a husband 😆 no child rearing over here, spiritual, mental, emotional or otherwise 🥴🙃
@@SavySavannah. preaaaach!!!!! You want someone that’s gonna get down and fast with you and wage spiritual warfare with you; not someone who will mock you and say “not everything is spiritual” whenever you discern that something is demonic and call it out
Literally just tried to explain this to my mom. I need covering out the gate. I’m gonna pray on this. If the Lord leads me to a man who’s willing but not quite there yet, I’ll take heed.
A man that can cover, lead ,provide, protect for me as a wife and my kid is everything. He doesnt need to be super spiritual, speaking in tongues , casting out demons. Hear our prayers Lord
I just heard this in my Spirit "God will do the picking, I will do the pursuing." Because I know I am a Bad picker. If I go by myself, I will pick a wife based only on superficial things. But with God, He will give me the discernment, Godly counsel and even how to pursue the girl I intend to marry. I am Hopeful and Eager to see this come to pass in my life. God is the best matchmaker and writes perfect loves stories.
Thank you for sharing this message. I'm 48 and never married. I have had 2 kids out of wedlock do I figured that God possibly dont want me to marry but to live out this life with singleness. I'm praying for Gods will as I prepare my body mind and spirit to be transformed to the women he wants me to be in my singleness.
Talking about Nicole. So much can happen in 1 year 🔥 now she’s about to be married or already is 😂 she literally had no idea here. Her heart was definitely in the right place to. This is so cool to see
I met my husband online - through Eharmony. I clearly made it known about my firm Christian walk... he was also a committed Christian. We are now going into out 9th year of 💑. Seek first the Kingdom of God, know your boundaries, have biblical standards. God is able to bring you and a God-loving man together.
That's wonderful! Congratulations to you all:) I met my husband in eharmony, as well. We've been VERY happily married for 14 years and have 3 children. I am so very grateful for the family and Godly man the Lord gave me. I was definitely the person who was always dating and "putting myself out there", while still serving God/in my career/etc. I think that's important because like the host said, you have to let it be known that you're available. Bianca made some EXCELLENT points about active waiting!
Laurie's testimony is just incredible - glory to God. Great video - we LOVE these longer clips - thank you for this wonderful channel - it is such a blessing to our daily lives. Please keep 'em coming.
I believe there is no one that is beyond God’s redemption. Thank you Nicole for this beautiful reminder of God as a redeemer. Most pastors wives do not think this way. They condemn, ostracize and gossip about you if you are divorced or have made a mistake in the past.
I have made the dumbest mistakes. I am 52. Does God have anything God for me again? Father just meet me at this point of need. Father, wipe away my tears in Jesus Name
I revisited this video again, I tried online dating but it didn't work out for me but I learned a lot from it. Now I wanted to be more discerning, prayerful and ask God to give me wise counsel of sisters in Christ in my desire for marriage . Thanks again ladies for all the things you shared
I'm 39 and still single, and thanking God. I am working on finding Gods purpose for my life, and in that fulfillment. For christians we have an assignment, a work to do on this earth. Let's get busy with our assignment ladies, and I believe if it's Gods will a husband may come, or may Not come, either way we are married to Christ first.
Wow Nicole C Mullen, just yesterday someone sent me a video of your song My Redeemer Lives, that was my go to song when I was a new believer in Christ. Its been a long time since I've seen you and I must say you've grown well, at 52 , you look amazing. And I am so encouraged by the way you're still standing in Christ and still waiting on Him to grant you your hearts desires, you are soo precious to Him and I thank God for you. Single or married, you are a blessed woman of God an I love and appreciate you.🙏
Thank you for your prayer for the youth. I'm an example of that messed up youth with countless mistakes that I feel so unworthy. It's a difficult journey that ibam and I pray so much that I'm a victor at the end. Stay blessed
Thank you ladies. This was encouraging and full of wisdom. I especially appreciate Nicole’s prayer at the end and to see her current relationship today is absolutely AMAZING!! 💛
I am glad I watched this. When she prayed for the single people I cried because I thought I was the only person with those feelings. I desire to be married and at 51; still waiting but if GOD never gives me that type of love; I know he still loves me. It is hard not having a soul mate but I can’t be with the wrong person as I have in my past.
God is intentional. I needed to listen this message. 🥺❤️ Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and how you all met or want to have that ideal person. I was married for almost 10 years and I thought this was the man of my life. I divorced in 2009 and since then I have not been fortunate enough to find a partner with purpose and in the eyes of God. I have met many guys But nodody that likes to comment, or loves the Lord like me or more than me. I thank God for letting me hear this message because I know that He continues to form me and instruct me, with or without a husband. Thanks again. Blessings to all of you. 🥰💯
Thanks ladies for your transparency. It gives me hope knowing the prayers of my spiritual family that I have who are praying and have been praying for my partner for a decade now. I faith in HIM to work out this part of my life while learning about myself in my time if singleness.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Amazing. I am listening to this now, December, 2021 and the video has spoken to me. I am 34 and single, I have made damn mistakes of chasing men but now I am at a point in life where I have submitted my will to Gods will. I want what God wants for me and nothing less. Waiting is not easy, but when you are in the Lord, the Grace is sufficient.
I'm in my 30s would love to get married and have a family. I dont know where the men are. But a lot of christian men want beautiful younger ladies. Been praying for years. 🙏🏾
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Men are VISUAL CREATURES. That is the Way they were made. You cannot change that. SO to catch their attention you have to Prepare yourself for them. NOT BE INDECENT but look Visually attractive. You cannot look terrible looking n appearance and expect to impress one. PREPARE.
💯What a lot of people in the church don't tell you, is that first, not everyone wants to be married and that it's okay if you don't. Secondly, make sure you pursue your individual God-given purpose, and that the purpose aligns with your possible mate's purpose collectively for a more harmonious union as life brings many challenges. Third, the singles ministry is filled with a lot of couples and is not for everyone. Lastly, the church should acknowledge the breakdown of relationships within its walls from the pulpit to the congregation as often it glossed over with the same sayings of forgiving and pray but all the bandaids are peeling off generations of the same wounds with no real accountability and this is why so many are not there. 💯💯
God says BE fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth. Its a command. Unless for medical reasons or you are going on dangerous missionary service for the Lord in which having children will be an hinderance, if out of personal choice you decide not to, you are not fulfilling the productivity God wants us to do. The same with Paul, who goes from places to places and faces persecution alot on mission work. It is better to marry than to burn.
@@greenebond did he say be fruitful and multiply children?it's not specific. Not everyone is called to marriage. Remember Paul said of you can be like me.....but if you can't go ahead least your desires consume you ....
This spoke to me so deeply... I've avoided watching because of the word dating, but I felt the need to watch and I'm so happy I did. I feel God moving in my life, preparing me for whom He has chosen for me. Thank you so much for posting. 🙏🏽
Thank you for always putting such liberating truth out there Better Together. I am endlessly blessed by the seed week in and out. I am waiting on God for a husband for almost ten years.. Was feeling downcast.. But this uplifted my spirit.. To believe God still has someone for me. Please keep me in prayer.
this was such a heartwarming conversation. i literally was speaking to the Lord last night about wanting to be chosen/pursued. im 19 (will be turning 20 this month) and i’ve never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss (IM UNASHAMED), never been taken on a date, and things of that sort... sometimes it can get hard for me and a little lonely but this video has really stilled my heart. hearing you all’s stories gave me goosebumps and hope that the Lord will send the one who is right for me when it’s time. what you’ve all discussed allowed me to see the things that is important to ruminant on before marriage. the mission, the man i’d want to lead-having a relationship with the Holy Spirit/being Spirit-led. thank you so much for this! 🤍
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Dear AmayahShantel, belated happy birthday. Your testimony is beautiful. You are very loved and cared for by Almighty God🌸🙏🏽. Continue to keep HIM First in your life- HE HAS HIS VERY BEST IN STORE FOR YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE🌸😊. God’s continued blessings and favor be upon you always 🤗🤗🤗🎉🙏🏽🌸
@@dove-1815 thank you so much. i receive it. He surely has my heart, it does belong to Him. im patient in the wait because i know that i am waiting WITH God, not ON God. i found so much beauty in singleness and the things He’s taught me in His Word is something others years older than me are just now learning. so, for that i am grateful. this journey is not one i am ashamed by, because when the time is right He will get all of the glory for hiding me in every season and then revealing me to the one who is best suitable for me! 🤍
Very insightful and so good to hear about the differences in each woman’s journey on this panel. Patiently waiting for my future husband and I plan to be celibate until we are married 🙏
Found this platform last year and I feel like am best friends with y'all coz these conversations about God are so authentic and life changing❤️💙💜💛💚🧡Thank u for allowing God to use you because by obeying you are touching so many lives all-over the world including mine🙏🏽 (❤️4rm🇺🇬)
I love the model that Laurie used on how she met her husband. I'm praying this happens for me i want to witness a love that God naturally places together as a union
Women of God, thank you all so much for this wonderful session. I enjoyed the stories and felt hopeful and empowered after watching. We women truly need this channel. Loved having a longer clip too. God bless!
Been single for 3 years. I was just praying to God a few minutes ago that I'm willing to wait for the guy He has for me, and this video popped up all of a sudden. God's timing is really amazing. 💕
This was so informative and inspirational and I'm so grateful that I tuned in you guys are amazing and I've learned so much thank you thank you thank you💛🙏🏽🙌🏽
I've been frustrated so many times I'm over it! Singleness is better and much less of a headache. Kudos to you women for being bothered and staying hopeful!
Yesssss It’s a beautiful thing to have someone hand picked by God “to do life with” I think that we forget that’s exactly what God did for Adam when He “handcrafted” Eve and said, “It’s not good that man be alone.”
Any advice for loving yourself despite being rejected and feeling unworthy of being pursued? I'm 21 years old, never had a boyfriend and most of the time I'm fine with being single but sometimes I feel so unworthy of being pursued by someone I'm interested in because I've never been asked out by a guy I'm interested because they don't seem to be interested in me while guys I'm not interested in are the ones who trying to pursue me. I sometimes feel stuck and often times frustrated as if I have to settle for someone I'm not attracted to/interested in.
That was me in your shoes many years ago. My advice is to spend time in prayers, reading God’s love letters to us in the bible and fasting ... this is the kind of situations that Christ talked about that will not be solved without these spiritual activities. KJV Matt 17:21 Praying for you dear one🙏🏽❤️
@@KayAlexandria283 Hey I'm sorry you feeling that way. I understand what you feel. Lets speak about becoming a better you and perhaps address your femininity. I would love to help you out.
When I was your age I felt the same. Some days I still have those thoughts, but after experiencing a long, toxic relationship and continuing to heal from it, I can tell you this: spend time with the Lord and let Him love you first. Do not feel unworthy. He is protecting you from those who appear nice, but who may be toxic or just not fit for you. You can go your own way and settle for someone because you’re tired of waiting and he’s the only one interested who is “decent enough,” but it will most likely be a struggle and may lead to unintended consequences the Lord was wanting to spare you from. You are a beautiful young lady. Please remember your worth as God’s precious daughter, and let the Holy Spirit lead you in discerning which paths and relationships are healthy for you. God bless you.
18And the Lord said, it is not good that man should be alone. I think everyone just understand and quote that part... here is the most amazing line in that verse "I WILL MAKE HIM A HELPER COMPATIBLE TO HIM" Yes Lord! Yes❤
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For the first time, I understood the word, ‘submission’ makes so much sense!! For the longest I thought and felt it meant to be a slave!
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Wow - I remember watching this segment a year ago around the same time as now and at the end when Nicole started praying I raised my hand and re-committed my choice, my will, my type of husband to the Lord and gave him the upper hand for my future relationship. I started to be consistent in my prayer for a husband and a few weeks later I met my husband and soon after that we started dating, I am so blessed to say that we are now engaged to be married and I do not know why but today I revisited this video and I am so overwhelmed by God's grace (that after watching and praying - a year later I would have found my life partner). Thank you to the ladies for sharing so much insight and revelation because we are seeing the fruits of it. May the Lord continue to use you mightily and return unto you a thousand-fold. Thank you!
Nonkululeko, thank you for sharing your story with us! This is so encouraging and beautiful. God is so good! 💜
This is soooo beautiful! Congratulations mntase ❤
Congratulations sis❤
Amen🙏
I'm 54 never been married, no kids. I have gotten to a stage in my life where if it happens it happens! I'm living my best life and a big No to online dating!!
I agree with you. I feel like the world is so messed up and everything is dangerous these days. You can't know who is who, people are always fake. We see fake christians all the time and settling for worldly guys is also a vanity and grasping for the wind. So my only care will be to fear God as long as I live and not worry about people.
met my husband via Eharmony... never dated others online... met a Christian man and we are approaching 9 years of a happy marriage. Love God, strive 4 a man who love God. do not put God in a box.
@@mjebony6890 ,wow earlier today I was writing a letter concerning my future husband. I've Prayed to God blessing over and placing Olive Oil on the letter. One of my requirements were for my future husband to love God and put God firstly before anything else. I truly believed that if a man is dedicated and love God more. Well he would truly loved and cherished his family. We truly need to put God first in our lives that is very important. If any men or women doesn't want to put God first. I'll say run far away from dating that person. And continue on Praying and asking God to bring that God fearing person into your life.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
@Dani A IF YOU ARE UNWILLING TO EXPLORE POSSIBILITIES YOU MAY LOCK YOURSELF OUT OF OPPORTUNITIES. ONE MUST BE CAREFUL BUT ONE MUST ALSO CATCH HOLD OF OPEN DOORS.
I’m 33 and still praying for my soulmate. It’s important to pray for strength to wait and be hopeful
31 and still waiting🙏🕊💛May God give us strenght and firm faith
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
As your name could implies, all that's yours will come to you.
@@freddiestranger9783 You are right, but because of painful experiences of abandonement and failures in relationship despite of prayers and good will, efforts, I cant take risks easily anymore...I dont want more pain as I have already gone through abuse...
Keep your faith God is faithful he can do It.
I just got married for the first time at age 57. Been saved since I was 25, so have been praying most of my life. It should not have taken that long, but I”m very very grateful for this man. Of course, he has been married before. Was not sure if it would ever happen b/c I’ve waited so long. God has been faithful, but it was not the will of God that I waited so long, nor for any others that are waiting. It is the will of God for marriage.
Blessed be the name of the Lord 🙏.
Was your husband divorced? And why are you saying that it wasn't the will of God for you to be married ay that age?
Cindy Trimm got married for the first time at age 60 and she is a powerful Woman of God....was this not God's will for her life?
Wow God Bless you.I have been saved as well since I was 25 and I am now 54 plus I am still waiting.
@@womanofgod2948 I think what she meant is that the will of God is for us to be married but not that late. I have the same conviction too.
Congrats and very encouraging 💕 May God bless your marriage! I’m 22yrs divorced (53) and still praying... thank you for your post 💕
I’m gonna come back here and testify when my husband finds me , but for now while I wait for God’s time I’m gonna get busy with the Lord in the Lord and For the Lord .
Thank you for this timely message .
Amen 🙏🏾
how is it going are you still hanging in there
@@carlottabailey5891 😂🙏🏾
I’m 48 years old. No kids, no family. Faithfully love God.
The best part about this is the fact that Nicole has since gotten married in December! Blessings!
Oh wow, I didn't know she was engaged! Praise!
Amen!!! Praise report!
Nicole Mullen?? Who did she marry?
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶ NOTE: I DID NOT SAY EXPERIMENT.
Wooooow I'm so happy for her🎉🎉🎉🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
“Don’t lose yourself. Don’t lose your identity.”
Amen.
Love this conversation. I will celebrate my 15 year anniversary this month. My husband was around all my life, even though I hadn't met him yet. He saw me with my father when I was a young girl, then I moved to another town as a teenager walking with my best friend and saw this man who had my attention on the other side of the street, walk way past him, I kept looking back. Years later he was around my sister's guy friends driving them to their destination as a favor. When we finally met and started dating, and married, he began to tell me of all the times he remembered meeting me, I said Really?:, He told my father's name & described his personality. He then told me about how he remember me as a teenager, I said what did I have on?(He said a purple shirt)and it was true(now I'm floored). He described my sister's friends and their names(all correct). God can connect you to your spouse Wherever you are, it just HAS to be the right timing and Maturity in Christ.
This is an amazing testimony
Amen! Emphasis on maturity in Christ 👏
I love to see my sisters in Christ motivating us single ladies! ❤️👏🏽👏🏽
I want a man that is 1-3 deeper relationship with God. Pursuing his presence. I don't want a man that i should drag to church or prayer or fast. In fact he should be the leader of the house in everything.
It sounds ideal but that's a tall order that's not very likely in this culture. Many men now weren't trained up in this way as boys for that degree of maturity. For some reason families and churches didn't prioritize it. A lot of women are going to be broken hearted if they're seeking that right off the bat. Growth is possible though. It could be a part of God's plan for her growth as well. Ending up with a man that grew up in church with wrong doctrines could bring worse problems than a less matured or new Christian.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
It's not a total order... From a Christian male perspective she has ask for anything out of the ordinary. I am a pentecostal Christian male from africa... And I tell you the truth.... She hasn't ask for too much
When Abrahams servant went to find a wife for Isaac, he prayed that when he got to a well and met a woman who would offer him water and offer to give water to his camels too will be isaacs wife.
He got exactly that.
God likes it when we are specific.
It's good you know what you want and I'm sure you've taken it to God.
I continue to pray for my husband even though I have not met him yet!
Amen! Me too! Do not give up
Don't put your heart to meet him. God will send him to you
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
I’m 60 and have never been married. What I’ve learned is, there was some “stuff” God needed to get out of me “before” I got married. I’m soooo thankful God “made” me wait and that I listened to Him. During our season of waiting, there are things God wants us to do. Also, be prepared to “truly” trust God because the season “might” last longer than “you” think. But, trust that He know best and submit to Him first.
This was so good!!! Having videos like this encourages me. I am a 42 year old woman, empty-nester, celibate 9 years and raised my now Marine son as a single parent. The Lord has been faithful. I own my own home and have 100% been preserved. However, there’s been a shift and believe the Lord is preparing me for my husband. I’ve Never been married or even had a long-standing relationship. So it’s all very new. Thank you I was able to hear Holy Spirit clearly while I watched this.
Camille, thank you for sharing your testimony with us! We love hearing how God is at work in our community! 💜
So blessed to here this from you. Your dedication and faithfulness to the Lord.
I am 60 year old female, woman of God, I have prayed for a mate sent by God, I have been in the field gleaning like Ruth for a long time. Don't know why it is taking so long but I still have faith for the right man, I wont give up.
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Will keep you in prayer
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I want to be "chosen" every single day! Yes and Amen! 😁🙏🏻
I'm finally enjoying my singleness.....satisfied, serving, and complete. I know God has a man who's been praying for me. .For now, I am staying in my field..... transforming lives is my mission ❤
That's beautiful ma
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. LOOK INSIDE AND OUTSIDE YOUR RACE PREFERENCES. IT IS NOT ABOUT RACE BUT ABOUT CHRIST CENTERED-NESS. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
I’m 24 😭 still praying and waitin. Trying not to compare my love story to my parents’. My parents had been married 5 years by the time my mommy turned 24 🙃 pray for my patience. Please pray for me. I want to have children soon but I want to be married first
I'm praying for you.
SINGLES PLEASE READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Hi!
@@dieuseulphilogene3600 thank you
@@LonitaChiquita Hey How are you today?
Listening from South Africa in my late 20th and single. I love the Lord with all my heart and all that I want is for his will to be accomplished in my life. Thank you for this great wisdom on dating. Accountability and godly advise is what I took in from this session.
I believe God will lead my future husband to me. I do pray for him.
Same
Amen! My prayer too , waiting patiently and faithfully.
Amen and Hallelujah 🙌🏾✨🙌🏾
Ask your families and communities to help you find a spouse as well. Relying on God alone to meet the right man isn't wrong but it often isnt very effective. The way people got married in the Bible was primarily through family intervention, not praying and waiting for something to happen. Marriage is an earthly institution and some earthly methods are necessary to make it happen in many cases.
@@utamu777 I completely understand what you are saying. It's just that I get so fearful that I'll mess up and choose wrong, that I've found myself completely withdrawn and sitting waiting for a sign.
To the Dear Sisters who watch this and HAVE gone on "55 dates" before finding someone, please know, that doesn't necessarily mean you are not following the Holy Spirit. Everyone's process is different. Many times some look at another's journey and conclude, from their own point of view, that you're not waiting on the Lord. As we see many times in the bible, the road of obedience may look messy and confusing to others, yet it may be the very process God is using for YOUR STORY. Be encouraged, Love! 🕊️💖🙏🏽
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Really?
I felt sad tho! When they came for the 55dates. Thought not very nice etc lol
So true sis. Unless u been there, you will not understand. Everyone is different and think different.
Amen!!!
Homegirl with the pink earrings is looking flawless lol hair is beautiful and makeup is on point!!! They all look good but geeesh she's beautiful!
Heather always Poppin
🙌🏾 praise God. I tell my friends this all the time that when my husband and I see each other we will know. The Holy Spirit let you know who is not for you. I pray over my future husband everyday and I can’t wait to meet him. This message was very powerful
Amen thats what i said... ☺️ I will know my partner thats assigned to me by God... Ohh this makes me emotional. Looking forward to that day/night😄.
@@TheManuella3 I’m looking forward to it as well. I have a strong feeling it’s on its way.
@I T N 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 yes it is definitely time. God is connecting husbands and wives for His Kingdom
me too
I'm so glad they discussed "getting yourself out there". My rule is do not introduce people to something you cannot maintain. You need to find what getting yourself out there means to you personally. I've seen people force themselves into social settings that isn't for them just so they can meet someone.
So true.
I have gone through intensive spiritual warfare and I don’t want to date a man that I have to raise spiritually... he needs to have gone through hell too and understand how important and real God is. Those type of men are hard to find
Girl same
You’re preaching! It’s so true, there are a lot of good guys out there who just aren’t mature enough for marriage (which is fine because they can grow... we’re all still growing). However, like you I’m not tryna adopt someone’s son or gain a little brother. I want a husband 😆 no child rearing over here, spiritual, mental, emotional or otherwise 🥴🙃
@@SavySavannah. preaaaach!!!!! You want someone that’s gonna get down and fast with you and wage spiritual warfare with you; not someone who will mock you and say “not everything is spiritual” whenever you discern that something is demonic and call it out
Literally just tried to explain this to my mom. I need covering out the gate. I’m gonna pray on this. If the Lord leads me to a man who’s willing but not quite there yet, I’ll take heed.
A man that can cover, lead ,provide, protect for me as a wife and my kid is everything. He doesnt need to be super spiritual, speaking in tongues , casting out demons.
Hear our prayers Lord
I just heard this in my Spirit "God will do the picking, I will do the pursuing." Because I know I am a Bad picker. If I go by myself, I will pick a wife based only on superficial things. But with God, He will give me the discernment, Godly counsel and even how to pursue the girl I intend to marry. I am Hopeful and Eager to see this come to pass in my life. God is the best matchmaker and writes perfect loves stories.
May God bless you with the desires of your heart.
@@blackgirljoy8742 Amen 🙏
Yes we and Amen. God is more than able.
Nicole Mullen is such an amazing inspiration for us single ladies!!! Thank you so much for your prayers.
Thank you for sharing this message. I'm 48 and never married. I have had 2 kids out of wedlock do I figured that God possibly dont want me to marry but to live out this life with singleness. I'm praying for Gods will as I prepare my body mind and spirit to be transformed to the women he wants me to be in my singleness.
Talking about Nicole. So much can happen in 1 year 🔥 now she’s about to be married or already is 😂 she literally had no idea here. Her heart was definitely in the right place to. This is so cool to see
which one is Nicole?
@@carlottabailey5891 The one who described what she’s looking for in a spouse, Talked about her parents marriage
"Sub mission, get under the mission" I about fell out my chair.
Felt the same ❤🙏
Lol😊
Me too!
Yes, totally different look at it right?
I met my husband online - through Eharmony. I clearly made it known about my firm Christian walk... he was also a committed Christian.
We are now going into out 9th year of 💑. Seek first the Kingdom of God, know your boundaries, have biblical standards. God is able to bring you and a God-loving man together.
I love this for you!
Congratulations sista💗
Hallelujah..! 🔥
That's wonderful! Congratulations to you all:) I met my husband in eharmony, as well. We've been VERY happily married for 14 years and have 3 children. I am so very grateful for the family and Godly man the Lord gave me. I was definitely the person who was always dating and "putting myself out there", while still serving God/in my career/etc. I think that's important because like the host said, you have to let it be known that you're available. Bianca made some EXCELLENT points about active waiting!
Thank you for this testimony ❤️🙏🏽
I love these longer videos vs the 4 minute ones.
We are so happy to hear that you are enjoying our full episodes! Thank you for watching! 💜
@@BetterTogetherTV you’re very welcome 😊
@@BetterTogetherTV I thought the same
Same here🌺
@@highholbornstreetchurchofg6421 yes 🙏
How Laurie met her husband gets me all the time🥰
God surely works in mysterious ways,wow🤭
❤️4rm🇺🇬
Laurie's testimony is just incredible - glory to God. Great video - we LOVE these longer clips - thank you for this wonderful channel - it is such a blessing to our daily lives. Please keep 'em coming.
I hope she shares the goodness she’s received from God with others by helping other singles as well. Just like her grandmother did for her.
Yes indeed it is
Nicole thank you for bringing so much hope for all the single ladies
I believe there is no one that is beyond God’s redemption. Thank you Nicole for this beautiful reminder of God as a redeemer. Most pastors wives do not think this way. They condemn, ostracize and gossip about you if you are divorced or have made a mistake in the past.
I have made the dumbest mistakes. I am 52. Does God have anything God for me again? Father just meet me at this point of need. Father, wipe away my tears in Jesus Name
So important to have accountability partners & be willing to listen to wise counsel from friends/family as to what we need to do differently.
I revisited this video again, I tried online dating but it didn't work out for me but I learned a lot from it. Now I wanted to be more discerning, prayerful and ask God to give me wise counsel of sisters in Christ in my desire for marriage . Thanks again ladies for all the things you shared
I love how God teaches us through everything - even the ones that don’t work out.
I'm 39 and still single, and thanking God. I am working on finding Gods purpose for my life, and in that fulfillment. For christians we have an assignment, a work to do on this earth. Let's get busy with our assignment ladies, and I believe if it's Gods will a husband may come, or may Not come, either way we are married to Christ first.
Wow Nicole C Mullen, just yesterday someone sent me a video of your song My Redeemer Lives, that was my go to song when I was a new believer in Christ. Its been a long time since I've seen you and I must say you've grown well, at 52 , you look amazing. And I am so encouraged by the way you're still standing in Christ and still waiting on Him to grant you your hearts desires, you are soo precious to Him and I thank God for you. Single or married, you are a blessed woman of God an I love and appreciate you.🙏
I've ALWAYS Loved Nicole she can SING and she looks as beautiful as she did in the early 00s I grew up on that beautiful song!💖
I thoroughly enjoyed this session. Listening and getting the perspective of all age groups about what to pray for as it relates to marriage.
Loved this video so much. I love how it's edited, as well. I always love when Christian dating is spoken about!
What a testimony..how prayers are powerful...only God can do that..!
Thank you for your prayer for the youth. I'm an example of that messed up youth with countless mistakes that I feel so unworthy. It's a difficult journey that ibam and I pray so much that I'm a victor at the end. Stay blessed
Thank you ladies. This was encouraging and full of wisdom. I especially appreciate Nicole’s prayer at the end and to see her current relationship today is absolutely AMAZING!! 💛
I am glad I watched this. When she prayed for the single people I cried because I thought I was the only person with those feelings. I desire to be married and at 51; still waiting but if GOD never gives me that type of love; I know he still loves me. It is hard not having a soul mate but I can’t be with the wrong person as I have in my past.
God is intentional.
I needed to listen this message. 🥺❤️
Thank you very much for sharing your experiences and how you all met or want to have that ideal person.
I was married for almost 10 years and I thought this was the man of my life.
I divorced in 2009 and since then I have not been fortunate enough to find a partner with purpose and in the eyes of God.
I have met many guys But nodody that likes to comment, or loves the Lord like me or more than me.
I thank God for letting me hear this message because I know that He continues to form me and instruct me, with or without a husband.
Thanks again.
Blessings to all of you. 🥰💯
Thank you for sharing your story and what God is speaking to you. God bless you! 💜
Thanks ladies for your transparency. It gives me hope knowing the prayers of my spiritual family that I have who are praying and have been praying for my partner for a decade now. I faith in HIM to work out this part of my life while learning about myself in my time if singleness.
Amen: A Man Who F.I.N.D.S. A Wife, F.I.N.D.S. A Good Thing.
If Christ Keeps Me For Himself, Then He's Mine Forever. No Regrets❤🙏👍👋🔥😊
Amen. God is only right, always!!! 🙏 🙌
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Amen
I believe that prayer at the end of the video was for me, thank you Nicole!
Amazing. I am listening to this now, December, 2021 and the video has spoken to me. I am 34 and single, I have made damn mistakes of chasing men but now I am at a point in life where I have submitted my will to Gods will. I want what God wants for me and nothing less. Waiting is not easy, but when you are in the Lord, the Grace is sufficient.
Wise counsel is everything Amen sister Nicole
This is phenomenal. Thanks for having this ministry to assist single women.
Lord thank you for this sermon it just confirms what you have been showing me. About my own Boaz....and that waiting on Him it's so worth it 👌🏽 💕
Thank you for the prayer in all my mess ups. Yes, amen.
I'm in my 30s would love to get married and have a family. I dont know where the men are. But a lot of christian men want beautiful younger ladies. Been praying for years. 🙏🏾
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Men are VISUAL CREATURES. That is the Way they were made. You cannot change that. SO to catch their attention you have to Prepare yourself for them. NOT BE INDECENT but look Visually attractive. You cannot look terrible looking n appearance and expect to impress one. PREPARE.
Such a wonderful and mature conversation.
Thamk you for the prayer..One of those who feel they've missed it.
💯What a lot of people in the church don't tell you, is that first, not everyone wants to be married and that it's okay if you don't. Secondly, make sure you pursue your individual God-given purpose, and that the purpose aligns with your possible mate's purpose collectively for a more harmonious union as life brings many challenges. Third, the singles ministry is filled with a lot of couples and is not for everyone. Lastly, the church should acknowledge the breakdown of relationships within its walls from the pulpit to the congregation as often it glossed over with the same sayings of forgiving and pray but all the bandaids are peeling off generations of the same wounds with no real accountability and this is why so many are not there. 💯💯
Why have you decided to preach....❤❤....right point
God says BE fruitful, multiply and replenish the earth. Its a command. Unless for medical reasons or you are going on dangerous missionary service for the Lord in which having children will be an hinderance, if out of personal choice you decide not to, you are not fulfilling the productivity God wants us to do. The same with Paul, who goes from places to places and faces persecution alot on mission work. It is better to marry than to burn.
@@greenebond did he say be fruitful and multiply children?it's not specific. Not everyone is called to marriage. Remember Paul said of you can be like me.....but if you can't go ahead least your desires consume you ....
These are some beautiful and powerful testimonies.
This was WONDERFUL ladies!!! Also, 52 years old? You look AMAZING!
AWESOME Ladies - You all are a blessing
This episode blessed me a lot, thank you.
We are so happy to hear how our conversation has blessed and helped you! Thank you for watching! 💜
@@BetterTogetherTV I am grateful to hear women of God share their experiences like this, such a blessing!
I am camping here for more testimonies
This spoke to me so deeply... I've avoided watching because of the word dating, but I felt the need to watch and I'm so happy I did. I feel God moving in my life, preparing me for whom He has chosen for me. Thank you so much for posting. 🙏🏽
“If they find us worthy than let them run” a word ❤️
This blessed me so much! God bless yall ladies and some more🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
I enjoyed watching this episode BT... Very apt nuggets... Shout outs to you beautiful dames.
The Lord spoke me through this! Thank you so much! God bless!
Thank you for always putting such liberating truth out there Better Together. I am endlessly blessed by the seed week in and out. I am waiting on God for a husband for almost ten years.. Was feeling downcast.. But this uplifted my spirit.. To believe God still has someone for me. Please keep me in prayer.
this was such a heartwarming conversation. i literally was speaking to the Lord last night about wanting to be chosen/pursued.
im 19 (will be turning 20 this month) and i’ve never been in a relationship, never had a first kiss (IM UNASHAMED), never been taken on a date, and things of that sort...
sometimes it can get hard for me and a little lonely but this video has really stilled my heart. hearing you all’s stories gave me goosebumps and hope that the Lord will send the one who is right for me when it’s time.
what you’ve all discussed allowed me to see the things that is important to ruminant on before marriage. the mission, the man i’d want to lead-having a relationship with the Holy Spirit/being Spirit-led.
thank you so much for this! 🤍
SINGLES READ THIS: LUKE 11:10 "HE THAT SEEKETH FINDETH" YOU CANNOT JUST WAIT AROUND AND DO NOTHING. YOU HAVE TO PRAY, PREPARE, SEEK, AND FIND IF YOU WANT SOMEONE. GOD SENDS BUT HE ALSO WANTS US TO SEEK IN ORDER TO FIND. THIS "WAITING AROUND" IDEA IS GOOD BUT INCOMPLETE BIBLICALLY ¶¶¶
Dear AmayahShantel, belated happy birthday. Your testimony is beautiful. You are very loved and cared for by Almighty God🌸🙏🏽. Continue to keep HIM First in your life- HE HAS HIS VERY BEST IN STORE FOR YOU IN EVERY AREA OF YOUR LIFE🌸😊. God’s continued blessings and favor be upon you always 🤗🤗🤗🎉🙏🏽🌸
@@dove-1815 thank you so much. i receive it. He surely has my heart, it does belong to Him. im patient in the wait because i know that i am waiting WITH God, not ON God. i found so much beauty in singleness and the things He’s taught me in His Word is something others years older than me are just now learning.
so, for that i am grateful. this journey is not one i am ashamed by, because when the time is right He will get all of the glory for hiding me in every season and then revealing me to the one who is best suitable for me! 🤍
🥰 l love that you are trusting God to bring the right man and not feeling unworthy
I am 42 and never married. I do wonder if/when I will meet my spouse. It just takes one! I pray about it!!
Very insightful and so good to hear about the differences in each woman’s journey on this panel. Patiently waiting for my future husband and I plan to be celibate until we are married 🙏
Found this platform last year and I feel like am best friends with y'all coz these conversations about God are so authentic and life changing❤️💙💜💛💚🧡Thank u for allowing God to use you because by obeying you are touching so many lives all-over the world including mine🙏🏽
(❤️4rm🇺🇬)
God is the best and perfect march maker it's important to trust Him for the process 🙌🙌🙌
I love the model that Laurie used on how she met her husband. I'm praying this happens for me i want to witness a love that God naturally places together as a union
Women bearing inner beauty of a quiet and a gentle spirit . Virtuous women , of good character are a rare jewel.... Where are they??
@Colin's slan: here I am . May the holy spirit lead the right man to my way. I am 53
Incredible testimony Mrs Crouch! Love it!
Women of God, thank you all so much for this wonderful session. I enjoyed the stories and felt hopeful and empowered after watching. We women truly need this channel. Loved having a longer clip too. God bless!
Sometimes we also need to look outside our races as well . there are options out there
Yes indeed! God has open my eyes to that
Amen...Thank you Lord!!! I surrender my relationship, my all to you!!!
wise counsel for me also Nicole, I'm with you there. Let God choose him for me too 🙌🙏
I hate to say I’ve given up on love and relationships. These days it’s too many games & people that can’t stay loyal and faithful even in the church.
Normal, not everyone serves God seriously. If you love God with all your heart, you’ll never play with the feelings of other
I’ve washed my hands of love and relationship
Been single for 3 years. I was just praying to God a few minutes ago that I'm willing to wait for the guy He has for me, and this video popped up all of a sudden. God's timing is really amazing. 💕
I love this. Thank you sisters in Christ.
This was so informative and inspirational and I'm so grateful that I tuned in you guys are amazing and I've learned so much thank you thank you thank you💛🙏🏽🙌🏽
Amen! And Nicole is married now to an amazing man, wow. Lord Like all women on this table, I receive the man of your will for me. Love you guys.
Hi!
This talk has blessed so much! Oh my God! I believe that God know who's the best for me and He will lead our paths to cross, in Jesus Name. Amen
Cried my eyes out at that story
I've been frustrated so many times I'm over it! Singleness is better and much less of a headache. Kudos to you women for being bothered and staying hopeful!
Pursuits and chasing is the man's duty, every woman love to be pursuit, just pray and wait and trusting God in the waiting 🙏💕
Thank you Lord Jesus...such a timely message ❤
Yesssss
It’s a beautiful thing to have someone hand picked by God “to do life with”
I think that we forget that’s exactly what God did for Adam when He “handcrafted” Eve and said, “It’s not good that man be alone.”
This was wonderful 🥺❤️❤️ I had lost all hope but I know he had to have someone just for me
Any advice for loving yourself despite being rejected and feeling unworthy of being pursued? I'm 21 years old, never had a boyfriend and most of the time I'm fine with being single but sometimes I feel so unworthy of being pursued by someone I'm interested in because I've never been asked out by a guy I'm interested because they don't seem to be interested in me while guys I'm not interested in are the ones who trying to pursue me. I sometimes feel stuck and often times frustrated as if I have to settle for someone I'm not attracted to/interested in.
That was me in your shoes many years ago. My advice is to spend time in prayers, reading God’s love letters to us in the bible and fasting ... this is the kind of situations that Christ talked about that will not be solved without these spiritual activities. KJV Matt 17:21
Praying for you dear one🙏🏽❤️
@@nikeadebayo2491 Thank you! ♥️
@@KayAlexandria283 Hey I'm sorry you feeling that way. I understand what you feel. Lets speak about becoming a better you and perhaps address your femininity. I would love to help you out.
Hi! How are you?
When I was your age I felt the same. Some days I still have those thoughts, but after experiencing a long, toxic relationship and continuing to heal from it, I can tell you this: spend time with the Lord and let Him love you first. Do not feel unworthy. He is protecting you from those who appear nice, but who may be toxic or just not fit for you. You can go your own way and settle for someone because you’re tired of waiting and he’s the only one interested who is “decent enough,” but it will most likely be a struggle and may lead to unintended consequences the Lord was wanting to spare you from.
You are a beautiful young lady. Please remember your worth as God’s precious daughter, and let the Holy Spirit lead you in discerning which paths and relationships are healthy for you. God bless you.
I love all of yall ladies and Thank you for this♥️♥️♥️♥️. Be bless.
18And the Lord said, it is not good that man should be alone.
I think everyone just understand and quote that part... here is the most amazing line in that verse "I WILL MAKE HIM A HELPER COMPATIBLE TO HIM" Yes Lord! Yes❤
This is quite an interesting topic and timely.