Cheating is NOT an accident.💜💯

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  • @kennettabradford6566
    @kennettabradford6566 Рік тому +1138

    This why I will never fight over a dude. Because you don't know what he's telling that other woman

  • @giyawilbourn8653
    @giyawilbourn8653 Рік тому +714

    "U'll never be able to compete with the woman ur guy won't leave alone!!"

    • @msmariapaula23
      @msmariapaula23 Рік тому +24

      This! 💗

    • @sandrawright9004
      @sandrawright9004 Рік тому +52

      She's right you will never be able to compete with a woman or man your man won't leave alone

    • @binkyfaith
      @binkyfaith Рік тому +4

      😮😮😮

    • @krissit1874
      @krissit1874 Рік тому +19

      He’s cheating on both women

    • @Lin-sz7hc
      @Lin-sz7hc Рік тому +28

      Absolutely she can have him. I’m good over here stay the f over there.

  • @southpaw9581
    @southpaw9581 Рік тому +99

    “Lies don’t end a relationship, the truth does” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @DrAyshiaTV
    @DrAyshiaTV Рік тому +323

    “You don’t just trip into someone’s vagina”😮😂

    • @kimmyescada5470
      @kimmyescada5470 Рік тому +26

      I hollered😂😂

    • @mynewname6806
      @mynewname6806 Рік тому +13

      So funny 😂 true too

    • @edwigeguerin894
      @edwigeguerin894 Рік тому +14

      It was my favourite line 🤣

    • @elizabethjordan5755
      @elizabethjordan5755 Рік тому +13

      🎶 "Oops! I did it again!" 🎶 in my Brittney Spears voice.🤤

    • @MegaDede25
      @MegaDede25 Рік тому +12

      Back in the day, it used to be described as "One thing led to another" Lol

  • @dextersmithbsee
    @dextersmithbsee Рік тому +386

    Dang! This lady is from somewhere else! My goodness, I have NEVER seen or heard a woman put it down like this. Intuition is your best friend.

    • @brendamller
      @brendamller Рік тому +20

      She’s not from some where else she’s just a grown azz mature woman just keep living you’re understand bye and bye she been on this earth long enough to know when it comes down to it 😊❤

    • @Nortongroove
      @Nortongroove Рік тому +3

      Ikr? Awesome advice♥️

    • @vivianbraxton4941
      @vivianbraxton4941 Рік тому +2

      ✅🔥

    • @Sophisticated8
      @Sophisticated8 Рік тому +4

      She’s telling telling us all the truth about them knuckleheads who think they’re a can of oil lard anything that slips & slide/slick

    • @disbaby94
      @disbaby94 Рік тому +1

      @@brendamller exactly she has wisdom lol

  • @lolacole5653
    @lolacole5653 Рік тому +424

    She's so right. And it's not her fault. He just wanted to cheat.

    • @Knightryder75
      @Knightryder75 Рік тому +2

      That's not always the case

    • @u-kneeque
      @u-kneeque Рік тому

      ​@@Knightryder75 it always is. No need to stoop low and cheat. Just break up and live like the pIayboy that you are.

    • @kyrianjoseph1403
      @kyrianjoseph1403 Рік тому

      @@Knightryder75 Dest Peter,care to elaborate

  • @monicanorman4681
    @monicanorman4681 Рік тому +456

    A man cheats because he wants to....... Cheating is not an accident.

  • @bigroach4444
    @bigroach4444 Рік тому +109

    Intuition never lies. Trust your gut.

  • @alisarumrum2062
    @alisarumrum2062 Рік тому +286

    Cheating doesn’t start in the bedroom- Cheating starts with a sneaky conversation with a woman you know nothing about 😂 Hey Gurl Preach It and Teach It ❤️💯

    • @trrahr5496
      @trrahr5496 Рік тому +2

      this!!!!!!!!! sneaky conversations.....divorce!

    • @speakrighttogod
      @speakrighttogod Рік тому

      Or that 'he thinks' you know nothing about.

  • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
    @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Рік тому +198

    Once you forgive the cheater, you have just given that person permission to cheat again because you just demonstrated that you’ll still stay by his/her side.

    • @djwin1960
      @djwin1960 Рік тому +20

      It's ok to forgive.... but just because you forgave him does not mean you have to stay wit em......IJS....

    • @Nortongroove
      @Nortongroove Рік тому +3

      You right!

    • @j.rivers3695
      @j.rivers3695 Рік тому +3

      Not everyone continues to cheat

    • @sabir1208
      @sabir1208 Рік тому +2

      ​@DJ Win but women always do, like some clowns

    • @mayanaware2763
      @mayanaware2763 Рік тому +4

      @@sabir1208 some women…stop treating us like we’re a hive mind some of us don’t tolerate this shit either

  • @duffykarlston873
    @duffykarlston873 Рік тому +93

    I have seen women running behind their multiple times cheater husband and creating scenes. Unbelievable. Complete lack of dignity. Once I realised my ex - husband had an affair he had already established before the marriage, I divorced him. The best days of my life followed. Success and happiness. 😉🙂

  • @peninahkarugi9967
    @peninahkarugi9967 Рік тому +83

    "You'll never be able to compete with a women your guy won't leave alone" some damn truth

  • @nattybryan2951
    @nattybryan2951 Рік тому +123

    A man just "don't just tripp into a woman's vagina" that got me 😂😂. God bless you sister ❤️

  • @brwnserenity2351
    @brwnserenity2351 Рік тому +138

    The elders in my family taught me that the cheating won't stop, it'll only get worse than what you first know of it to be. They'd know because it's the life that they chose for themselves. I, for one, will not be. I'm choosing peace and wellness over everything.

    • @zenolad.whilder6641
      @zenolad.whilder6641 Рік тому

      The definitively sad thing is at the time,of our Elders lives many of them had no choices other than to live with either their guilt (the cheater projection of why they did what they did or had already been doing) and would push that bold faced lie down their throat making them feel like they weren't good enough and they had to have more than you were already giving to them and the family pushed down their throats day in and ay out!?!!! I have talked to many Senior Ladies across many creeds to cultures and the one thing that stood out the most was sage advice to never stay with nor deal with anyone who cheats. If they betray you once then they have been doing it for a long time and no amount of recognition or absolution will merit true forgiveness.If you're going to forgive, forgive yourself first for the mistake in dealing with a fool,but be gentle with yourself because you trusted blindly. Be who you are cause no matter what they're doing,you keep on being the wonderful person God or whomever you believe in intended you to be! I really miss these lovely ladies because when they thought ano one was listening I proved them wrong and a couple of other young ladies too!! They were funny ,but they were real GMoms to all of us growing up! May they always be in Green Pastures with fluffy clouds and Azure skies.Thank you for sharing and I hope I've left you some food for thought 💭🤔!Have a Great day

    • @brwnserenity2351
      @brwnserenity2351 Рік тому +3

      @@zenolad.whilder6641 Thank you for the encouraging words! I pray that you have a peaceful and blessed 2023! 🌷💖

    • @zenolad.whilder6641
      @zenolad.whilder6641 Рік тому +4

      ​@@brwnserenity2351 Awwwwwww Thank you Luv and May you have many peaceful days and blessed nights to shinier mornings when you arise my friend!! Wisdom never needs a price because it can be er be measured. Blessing to you Hon and all who read this message and for encouragement! Your reply is greatly appreciated 🥰

  • @wandamajette5000
    @wandamajette5000 Рік тому +76

    You can never compete with a woman that a man will not leave alone.
    So true because if he did not allow it, it would NEVER happen.

  • @reneegraham8509
    @reneegraham8509 Рік тому +190

    Say it again! A grown man does what he makes a conscious decision to do and wants to do. Don't sugar coat the truth. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @nastychizim4564
      @nastychizim4564 Рік тому +1

      Don't put it on just men, it's some no good women out there too.

    • @rominagresely526
      @rominagresely526 4 місяці тому

      ​@@nastychizim4564So true. In the early 70's, my father had an affair with a woman named Nancy. She knew my dad was married and didn't care. Also, she had the audacity to tell my mother she was going to take us kids from her. Major 304.

  • @ValarieEdwards
    @ValarieEdwards Рік тому +123

    Former just asked if we could be friends. I said no, friendships outside of marriage cause havoc. By Felicia!

  • @Popularloner86
    @Popularloner86 Рік тому +33

    Right you can never compete with a woman a man won't leave alone! Ladies do not be tricked into fighting over him because he's still entertaining her.

  • @felnluvwithyou505
    @felnluvwithyou505 Рік тому +45

    I have got zero tolerance when ot comes to cheating because as a human being I KNOW it a choice not an accident.

  • @JayKing4goodwill
    @JayKing4goodwill Рік тому +83

    I love this lady. She’s wise and always on point

  • @musicjunkie31karma
    @musicjunkie31karma Рік тому +230

    My cheating ex said those exact words….it’s easier to ask for forgiveness than permission.

    • @nicky8024
      @nicky8024 Рік тому +34

      Right!? So its easier to say goodbye than to stay!

    • @barbie4170
      @barbie4170 Рік тому +18

      Narcissism at its finest..... you deserve way better girl! In God's time

    • @pirate55hitinc.26
      @pirate55hitinc.26 Рік тому +3

      Well if you actually loved your ex instead of trying to CONTROL the situation as this video is trying to preach! He wouldn't have needed to ask as a grown azz Man for permission, and why ask for forgiveness for something the other person that loves you should already know you like doing! Constructed Love is not Love at all, and going thru all the charades of infatuation claiming it's Love is BS!

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 Рік тому +9

      Act first ask qs later my ex narcissist’s motto I dumped his cheating lying behind !!!!

    • @tawainahollis4770
      @tawainahollis4770 Рік тому +2

      I didn’t quite understand what that phrase actually means. Could someone explain the concept?

  • @sunnatural1272
    @sunnatural1272 Рік тому +245

    Cheaters are for the streets. Leave em alone. Let him join the massive homeless population.

    • @tanekahairston5889
      @tanekahairston5889 Рік тому +13

      💯💯💯💯

    • @pamelastewart7128
      @pamelastewart7128 Рік тому +8

      I like that!!

    • @zenolad.whilder6641
      @zenolad.whilder6641 Рік тому +8

      Actually I'd rather leave them for the Rats because at least a Homeless person won't betray you..?Why because the don't stay in your house foraging around for food whilst they live in your house creating havoc unless you leave them something to eat! 🥝 for thought

    • @veroniccreekmore
      @veroniccreekmore Рік тому +6

      Wow I appreciate this concept! Thank you ❤

    • @oney1911
      @oney1911 Рік тому +7

      In my case, I was done giving him chances had him leave and as i knew it all along he went to the lady he was "not" cheating with and now living with her......but he's her problem now...

  • @pamelastewart7128
    @pamelastewart7128 Рік тому +29

    Young ladies please listen to Ms Natalie. She’s trying to help you. She really is.

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau Рік тому +59

    When you can't control what's happening in your relationship, control the way you respond to it. 💪That's your super power.
    To some, forgiveness is permission to cheat & keep cheating. So yes forgive, END IT & move on. FORGIVENESS GRANTED. ACCESS DENIED.

    • @learningalot231
      @learningalot231 Рік тому +1

      Your comment is the best of all. I divorced mine. My oldest (36) daughter mad bc of it. I cut her off. Go figure.

  • @flowerchild3312
    @flowerchild3312 Рік тому +108

    💯 % Facts !!! Love that , Easier to get forgiveness than permission to cheat . Lies don't end a relationship the Truth does !!!

    • @mrflynn01
      @mrflynn01 Рік тому

      Less nagging and more gagging is the answer!!
      That’s why men cheat.

    • @flowerchild3312
      @flowerchild3312 Рік тому

      ​@@mrflynn01No ! That is not it !!! You give them everything they still want others it isn't about the woman it's on them a character flaw

    • @mrflynn01
      @mrflynn01 Рік тому

      @@flowerchild3312 and giving nothing, is the answer????

  • @hopeausbyn1734
    @hopeausbyn1734 Рік тому +102

    It's only fun for him if you stay around .🤓

    • @Glitter504
      @Glitter504 Рік тому +13

      Totally 💯! Cause the ex narcissist I was with that I dumped cheated lied while wanting to marry me . These dogs with heels 👠 ain’t worth shit!

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Рік тому +1

      exactly !!

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 Рік тому +1

      💯💯💯

  • @Joanjett1013
    @Joanjett1013 Рік тому +68

    Thank you
    I finally left my cheating lying 2 year bf tonight
    Day 1
    Thank you♥️

    • @learningalot231
      @learningalot231 Рік тому

      Good for you. No contact and blocking, no coming to ur door. Cut him off and don’t let him back into your life.

    • @sabir1208
      @sabir1208 Рік тому +9

      Not tryna be rude but please don't be a dummy and go back, no matter how much he might beg and plead

    • @hopeonwubuche9858
      @hopeonwubuche9858 Рік тому +1

      Me too boo dont go back

  • @CLANCY88
    @CLANCY88 Рік тому +32

    I loooooove this woman….. idk how she never runs out of topics and of advice ever

  • @kaceyr3226
    @kaceyr3226 Рік тому +23

    And if your not blessed with a gut feeling, always remember the truth always comes out.

  • @MadAudi
    @MadAudi Рік тому +50

    If your man is cheating… just let him go. If you need to control… there’s serious issues.

    • @genevieveaniko6492
      @genevieveaniko6492 Рік тому +2

      Yes, cheaters need to be left alone... They think that you're a stupid fool, have no respect for you and are willing to risk losing you for a random tumble with another person. Bottom line... They care about themselves only and don't mind traumatising you because they never saw your worth in the first place. Just move on and find your own happiness. 🤷‍♀️

  • @tamb7587
    @tamb7587 Рік тому +15

    I know several women who have had affairs . They will say , “ well he just wasn’t happy”. I wanted to say so bad , “ well it’s not your job to make him happy, it was ur job to support the marriage and not try to break up a marriage “. Thats why in the marriage vows it says ,” what God has joined together let no man put Asunder”. Marriage is holy and ordained by God .. Ladies , those of u who have affairs will stand before God one day and be held accountable for your sin “. Don’t do it ! Your salvation and relationship to God is worth way more than any earthly man.

  • @livvyo2123
    @livvyo2123 Рік тому +35

    The other woman can keep him. He's out.

  • @jomay4871
    @jomay4871 Рік тому +27

    Listen Ladies, falling off your bike is an accident. :) She nailed it!

  • @exquisitekind8055
    @exquisitekind8055 Рік тому +37

    Yep! Very disrespectful. F em! Tighten up Ladies!

  • @byronmartin1840
    @byronmartin1840 Рік тому +7

    I've been saying it for years. Cheating are not mistakes they're choices. Whoever does it should be disposed of immediately.

  • @karinae.schofield5605
    @karinae.schofield5605 Рік тому +98

    Dated a jerk that would break up with me just long enough to sleep with someone else and then want to come back...so disgusting!!

    • @zh1408
      @zh1408 Рік тому +3

      I hope you never took him back !

    • @titanmode3888
      @titanmode3888 Рік тому +2

      @@zh1408 I bet she did, hence she told it

    • @theosaka69
      @theosaka69 Рік тому +3

      Sounds like a narcissist.

    • @Nortongroove
      @Nortongroove Рік тому +1

      That’s just Nasty!

    • @aprillove10
      @aprillove10 Рік тому +2

      So he can claim he did not cheat

  • @dustybuster
    @dustybuster Рік тому +64

    Men always talking about sex isn't personal for men so women shouldn't care about cheating. But what about the flirting, the money and gifts he gives her, and all the sneaking around and lies.

    • @katrinab7657
      @katrinab7657 Рік тому +33

      It's real personal if he gets cheated on. He will act like the world is ending.

    • @taraMimi717
      @taraMimi717 Рік тому +22

      @@katrinab7657 Exactly 😂he can’t take what they diss

    • @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living
      @Jennifer_Lewis_Beach_Living Рік тому +13

      @@katrinab7657This. It’s a blow to their ego and their abilities as a man if the woman cheats. In 99% of the cases where the woman cheats on the man, the man dumps her right away and shows her no mercy.

    • @learningalot231
      @learningalot231 Рік тому

      Getting a std is as personal as it gets.

    • @m1ndymayhem
      @m1ndymayhem Рік тому +14

      I worked at a Starbucks kiosk in the grocery store, and this married guy who worked in the Deli got another Deli employee a large Frappuccino Every👏Fucking👏Day👏! He had like 3 kids and shit income. And I swear, all I could think is that if I found out my husband was spending $6 a day on some chick, there'd be a little snip snip while he was sleeping. He was always telling everyone he and his wife hated each other and couldn't afford to divorce... He was literally ANGRY when this female employee got sent to work at another store... Next thing I know, someone's asking if I knew he was having another baby. They were baffled, when I asked, "with who?!" And said, "his wife." I was like, "his wife he hates so damn much and can't wait to leave?" Wtf

  • @angela-fi6yi
    @angela-fi6yi Рік тому +1

    Man woman I love the way you throw throw the TRUTH! YOU ROCK!

  • @stangerleneblay8260
    @stangerleneblay8260 Рік тому +25

    It easier to ask for forgiveness, than to beg for permission- some man said that

  • @truetomyself2741
    @truetomyself2741 Рік тому +45

    So true preach sister preach

  • @traceybiles2061
    @traceybiles2061 Рік тому +14

    If they will cheat with them they will also cheat on them..WHT happens in the darkness always comes to light

  • @fatcatontario
    @fatcatontario Рік тому +4

    Exactly! A man can never be "stolen" or "tempted" unless he wants to.

  • @amber4027
    @amber4027 Рік тому +3

    Yesssss. Thank you. My husband cheated on me 1 year ago today w a younger secretary. I left w the kids and now he’s begging me back. Nope. I got my super power.

    • @sweetandlovely5721
      @sweetandlovely5721 Рік тому

      Don’t let this setback hold you back. What you experienced is
      a blessing in disguise .In spite
      of the heartache, something good will come out of it.

  • @Epiphany_Amor
    @Epiphany_Amor Рік тому +71

    Yep, once you forgive cheating it's like giving him permission to do it again. Ray J and Princess just got back together... he wil cheat again 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @SmithandWessonismyprotection
      @SmithandWessonismyprotection Рік тому +5

      Didn't he just file for divorce again lol

    • @sadepayne
      @sadepayne Рік тому +2

      ​@@SmithandWessonismyprotection Yea and then he called the courts to dismiss the divorce

    • @yokoyoko748
      @yokoyoko748 Рік тому

      🐕‍🦺🕺🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @sreyen1065
      @sreyen1065 Рік тому

      I'm just curious who's he cheating with??. and also you believe once a cheater always a cheater?

    • @zh1408
      @zh1408 Рік тому

      Oh I thought they officially filed for divorce ! Lmaoo

  • @paulaadeoye987
    @paulaadeoye987 Рік тому +10

    One of the realest things she stated. Men do what they want because they want. Most of them know they will get away with it . Most of them aren’t never sorry. There good at telling you what you wanna. Women be smart choice wisely!

  • @cooladultkidontheblock1882
    @cooladultkidontheblock1882 Рік тому +33

    That is soooooo true! The truth hurts doesn't it. But the lie is even more damaging in the end.

  • @doreenmccormick6620
    @doreenmccormick6620 Рік тому +14

    I DONT COMPETE WITH NOBODY. YES A CHEATER WILL ALWAYS CHEAT. ITS WHO HE IS

  • @Joureyoffaith555
    @Joureyoffaith555 Рік тому +36

    Straight facts 💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @pennie6330
    @pennie6330 Рік тому +14

    Absolutely positively cheating is not an accident it's a choice

  • @karenmorris2239
    @karenmorris2239 Рік тому +18

    Natalie every time I watch any of your you tubes, I just want to hug you and say thanks for being you you’re the very very best and so good for so many women all over the world. You are doing a work that many therapists are not❤

  • @IAmJe
    @IAmJe Рік тому +12

    It's amazing to me how many people STAY with after infidelity. I'd NEVER look at you the same.

    • @empress-5
      @empress-5 Рік тому +3

      Okkk, and never trust him again either. So that would mean the relationship is OVER, because every time he is on the phone or walks out the door I will think he is cheating. And that would be exhausting to me. Trust is number one in a relationship!!

    • @peacefaith560
      @peacefaith560 Рік тому +1

      lonliness, low self esteem, kids involved ...but me i was out of there!!

  • @leoninebenit2595
    @leoninebenit2595 Рік тому +18

    Facts 1000%. Keep dropping these gems my Dear wise woman

  • @bossqueen4944
    @bossqueen4944 Рік тому +3

    That’s why I like the song, “Girls are Players too”. Be careful men what you do to us because you can make a woman not give a damn about your feelings.

  • @carltonthepug
    @carltonthepug Рік тому +1

    It never ceases to make me laugh when someone is caught cheating and their response is, ‘it just happened’😂

    • @carolgreene25
      @carolgreene25 Рік тому

      And it keeps happening over and over and over again...lol

  • @dutchess5519
    @dutchess5519 Рік тому +25

    You are so wise when it comes to relationships it makes sense to me I also know that when people say it’s common sense 🤷‍♀️ also what’s common to you may not be common to the other person I just thank
    God 🙏I have you your wisdom and my Common Sense 😊🎉😇🙏

    • @brwnserenity2351
      @brwnserenity2351 Рік тому +4

      Yes exactly. We have to give grace because we don't know how people were raised. If you're raised in a toxic environment surrounded by horrible relationships then you're more than likely to repeat it. And young people get preyed on and groomed all of the time.

  • @BrandyXxXentrika
    @BrandyXxXentrika Рік тому

    “Because he knows it’s easier to get forgiveness than permission” - Wise words. ❤

  • @nicnothingnice
    @nicnothingnice Рік тому +21

    Women. Please don't call and argue and harass the other women. Go talk to your man...

    • @moniq1553
      @moniq1553 Рік тому +4

      💯 because most of them lie and say they single. How can you harrass someone who doesn't know he has a gf or wife or whatever. The person who did the cheating, without for the other one to know is the 1 to blame. Don't be stupid

    • @binkyfaith
      @binkyfaith Рік тому +3

      Say it louder👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @feliciaallen6228
      @feliciaallen6228 Рік тому +1

      There is no need to harass for any reason, but some women are aware that the guy has a significant other, and some don't know. Bit true some men lie so much

    • @nicnothingnice
      @nicnothingnice Рік тому

      @@feliciaallen6228 That is true. Very good point.

  • @QueenConsious
    @QueenConsious Рік тому +2

    That gut feeling can also be discernment a woman’s intuition is always on point

  • @veronicachapman5682
    @veronicachapman5682 Рік тому +10

    exactly and they don't stop cheating they just get smarter. I can't tell y'all how many of my co workers cheating on their spouse. at first I thought thang everyone working with their spouse but that's their work spouse. seeing that encourage me to stay single because that will hurt if that happened to me.

  • @celestehaynes8261
    @celestehaynes8261 Рік тому

    "It's easier to get forgiveness than permission"…Sista Gurl you dropping golden nuggets

  • @savagehyphen01
    @savagehyphen01 Рік тому +8

    Cheating is a discipline issue.

    • @lydiapetra1211
      @lydiapetra1211 Рік тому +1

      It's a matter of an evil heart ...

    • @savagehyphen01
      @savagehyphen01 Рік тому

      @@lydiapetra1211 could you explain what you mean by that?

  • @randalljohnson3061
    @randalljohnson3061 Рік тому +1

    Echoe is loud and vibrant....revealing her ALONENESS. Don't leave by these angry principles. Or you'll die by them! ALONE😮

    • @ddupree9484
      @ddupree9484 Рік тому

      The just in...Kevin Samuels died alone. Every human being does.
      Threats and fear mongering? That is how men plan to hang onto women who are there because they WANT not NEED to be.
      Shame on you for suggesting a woman has to accept a man demeaning and humiliating her to keep him. This is not 1950.

  • @brittanyedwards6530
    @brittanyedwards6530 Рік тому +28

    Absolute and utter truth!! AMEN

  • @theresacoster7366
    @theresacoster7366 Рік тому +1

    You are dead on accurate!! 💯

  • @KJT1567
    @KJT1567 Рік тому +8

    On point! Again! Thanks for the reminders! You ARE appreciated ❤❤❤

  • @XMAN4708
    @XMAN4708 Рік тому

    This Lady be Killing the Counseling Game to help women and men!!! Straight No Chaser!!!
    Doesn't mean everything she says is 100% accurate in every case, but the foundation of what she says is great wisdom!!!

  • @landrat3481
    @landrat3481 Рік тому +15

    Spot on💯💞

  • @binkyfaith
    @binkyfaith Рік тому +2

    I’m glad I’m on my spiritual journey 🙏🏿
    I’m at peace, self love ladies 🙏🏿🙏🏿💕

  • @tiffanyjohnson4271
    @tiffanyjohnson4271 Рік тому +6

    “A man cheats bc he wants to” say it again. Once i feel like they’re cheating i just leave, i’m not gonna deal with it or compete with another woman

  • @ronaldwashington5715
    @ronaldwashington5715 Рік тому +2

    "YOU don't trip into someone's vagina" I CANNNNTTTTTTTTTTT LMAOOOOOOOOOOO...funniest line I've heard this year...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @deneenrobinson897
    @deneenrobinson897 Рік тому +10

    Yes sneaky conversations

  • @OrgaNyzedKMotion
    @OrgaNyzedKMotion Рік тому

    EASIER TO BE FORGIVEN THAN TO HET PERMISSION!!!!!!!
    LAWTY , THATS A MOUTH FULL!!!……LOVE THIS!!

  • @denisej.smith-perry4949
    @denisej.smith-perry4949 Рік тому +17

    Facts 💯💯💯

  • @loisnorman5374
    @loisnorman5374 Рік тому

    Intuition tells you alot,it's a true feeling.

  • @ginabonds3174
    @ginabonds3174 Рік тому +5

    Periodtt! So true!! Confession: I just ended a relationship I had with a 55 year old married man. He claimed he was Separated and had no type relationship with his wife . He said he lived on one side the house and she lived on the other. He said this was only until the divorce was final! He called me everyday morning, noon and night, spent every weekend together. Lavished me with gifts, money and of course sex whenever! It lasted a few months my intuition told me he wasnt going to leave his wife. I broke it off because I'm worthy of much more and I decided I want my own person. Not someone else's!

  • @kmonroe9053
    @kmonroe9053 Рік тому +1

    She saiiiidddd, "it's easier to get forgiveness than permission". This hit hard and is oh so true which is why it continues to happen in most cases. Forgiveness is one thing your actions and sleeping with him again without consequences is another.

  • @lovelite6737
    @lovelite6737 Рік тому +4

    Nothing can be TAKEN; unless it wanna be TOOK🙄

  • @marrypoppins3004
    @marrypoppins3004 Рік тому

    "you will never be able to compete with a women your guy won't leave alone." Facts

  • @patricebuckner6016
    @patricebuckner6016 Рік тому +4

    Yessss say that can’t say it enough you speak the truth and be on point each and every video love it

  • @mollyjohnson3234
    @mollyjohnson3234 Рік тому +1

    Say it!!! So true 🤣

  • @chercher304
    @chercher304 Рік тому +3

    Sister gave the sermon the benediction and called the church bingo all in one!!

  • @tinkerbelle7650
    @tinkerbelle7650 Рік тому

    This woman is a real genius. She speaks nothing more but wisdom. Winner! ♥️🏅🏆

  • @Shaara1
    @Shaara1 Рік тому +3

    He wants to. Exactly.
    All those experts analysing for decades why men cheat. What are YOU doing wrong to cause him to cheat. Then you bring even more stars down from the sky for him to make him happy and he still cheats.
    Because HE WANTS TO!!
    There is nothing you can do if he wants to cheat.

  • @duaniahall7003
    @duaniahall7003 Рік тому

    "Lies don't end relationships, the truth does" Mercy!

  • @hagar4079
    @hagar4079 Рік тому +16

    “You don’t just trip into someone’s vagina” 😂 Facts !!!

    • @nastychizim4564
      @nastychizim4564 Рік тому

      And you don't just trip into another man's bed either.

  • @heart2heart29
    @heart2heart29 Рік тому

    Lord, you said a whole lot just now! 👏🏾 yes!!!!!! 🙌🏾

  • @LakeishaLifestyle
    @LakeishaLifestyle Рік тому +2

    He knows it is easier to get forgiveness than permission. 👏🏿👏🏿🤯 big facts .
    Thank you Auntie for sharing your wisdom and knowledge❤

  • @nastychizim4564
    @nastychizim4564 Рік тому

    Finally someone is smart enough to know that.

  • @nukeman444
    @nukeman444 Рік тому +9

    How come some cheaters have all the other boxes checked such as money, height, protection e.t.c. but the wondering eye box is unchecked?

    • @annabellademus9719
      @annabellademus9719 Рік тому +7

      ALL CHEATERS AREN'T LIVING THE THUG LIFE, THEY ARE OUTSTANDING TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS GO-TO CHURCH EVERY SUNDAY AND IN THE PULPIT, DON'T LET THE LOOKS ,STATUS, INCOME FOOL YOU.

  • @joelhaynes6409
    @joelhaynes6409 Рік тому

    Now, that truth hurts!! Lol! Omg! God has given you many wisdom.🙏

  • @everythingleanna5468
    @everythingleanna5468 Рік тому +3

    Exactly why I don’t understand why people fight over dudes I’m 23 years old and you’ll never catch me fighting another women over a man😂😂😂 girl take him cause he clearly isn’t shit

  • @lashaun1712
    @lashaun1712 Рік тому

    This is so true! I don't fight over men or accept or forgive cheating. You only get one chance with me.

  • @Birdieflyaway
    @Birdieflyaway Рік тому +3

    ❤So true. I refuse to be disrespected❤

  • @PhindieVicky
    @PhindieVicky 9 днів тому

    Well put ✍️....things that we are not taught at school. And it matters 🤞

  • @robbiediles4242
    @robbiediles4242 Рік тому +4

    Yes ma'am and may I add cheating does not start with a conversation other than the conversation you have with yourself, because as the Bible speaks if a man looks upon a woman he has to make the decision to look upon her and then to decide whether or not to make a move that's a conversation he has with himself and then that's the trash that he uses on women thank you so much for this site I am happily married but I still wish women and primarily young women would listen and not have a life of Heartache. Blessings

  • @Katsplace.
    @Katsplace. Рік тому

    Tell the truth and shame the devil, You told IT!!👍

  • @jeanniepercy194
    @jeanniepercy194 Рік тому +6

    She's on point

  • @WestPhillyblack
    @WestPhillyblack Рік тому

    I love this woman she is strong and don't take shlit off nobody. This type of woman must be protected.

  • @a.d.b535
    @a.d.b535 Рік тому +5

    You're awesome with your advice!

  • @GB-ic1im
    @GB-ic1im Рік тому +1

    ..."sneaky conversations..." 💯