How LOVE Cost Former EXO Member LuHan His Career
Вставка
- Опубліковано 5 жов 2024
- At one point #luhan was dubbed the Chinese Justin Bieber, due to his massive popularity and dedicated fandom in China. So how did one of China’s biggest and brightest pop stars fizzle out? #exo #weareone #guanxiaotong #kriswu #zitao
Dating is not a crime
Falling in love is not a scandal
He is over 30 years old. He is entitled to live his life the way he wants.
The fans are the ones who are crazy.
They called themselves the fans😂😂😂more like enemies to me,and they need to have their heads examined….
@hi_hello_goodbye Luhan is 33. Birthdate is April 20, 1990. So handsome and young-looking!!
Not only did he choose "LOVE", he chose "LIFE", over his former career path!!!! It is so unfortunate that people in these professions are viewed as "PROPERTY", objectified, instead of humanized!!! In the future, I hope that it will become more of the "NORM" for people in the public eye to feel free to make these choices in their lives, without "PERSECUTION"! I wish Luhan a happy and fulfilling life in his life, no matter what his personal choices my be!
i agree with you totally and unfortunately that toxic culture won’t change anytime soon.
It's the most toxic aspect of K-pop Fandom. Really people they aren't going to date or marry you. Let them find love and a real life while you enjoy the music and entertainment.
That's true! 'cause we have our own lives😊💕
Ridiculous, the person who said give the ring to your girlfriend I don't want it! Well sorry dumbazz you weren't going to get it in the first place... damn I can't believe they actually think he's theirs! Even if one of these stars were to marry a"fan" then it would only be 1 they can't marry all of you. I you really loved them, then you'd want them to be happy no matter what!
They are sold as that sadly.
I am proud of Luhan and Chen who choose their love over catering to dululu fans. Bless you my guys
He’s a true man.. he doesn’t want to lie to the world and respects his relationship with GXT and her family. He should be the industry standard and that he prioritized his sanity and health over unsustainable demands of an overlord company is to be commended and replicated! Luhan is a success because is keeps his privacy and still gives his fans awesome music and one of a kind concert experiences… I will pray he continues in this path!!
Seriously??!!!He owes the fans to stay single - WTF!! He entertains his fans and works hard to entertain them. I’m glad he did not back down and persevered with his love and careers.👏👏👏
Delusional fans .
And honestly, who is so dumb to think they have a chance with them? 😂 Most fans are delulu
Sounds like he should marry the f... fans. Fandoms are weird.
Luhan is a Chinese Peter Pan. He doesn't look like he age. I still remember the time when I was crazy about him. He was my bias when he was in EXO. He was talented, good-looking and you just protect him. It's good that he didn't take the same path as Kris did and stayed in a long-term relationship. Him announcing his relationship was a good idea. It's better to be honest than to lie to your fans. Besides, he has been in the idol industry for so long. He deserves some happiness.
Yes my dear
He definitely made the right decision to announce his relationship. Hiding a serious relationship like that is challenging and only a temporary measure. It is better to just give an official notice and loose the fans up front than to deal with even more backlash if the secret comes out later. And, professional entertainers are people. They need downtime and happiness. They work hard bringing fans a product. I believe they earn their personal interests and considerations. I hate that parasocial concept of a relationship that so many stalkers seem to have. Find your sanity, and treat your idols well.
bruh THIS is a fkn idol, stood up against his former agency and exposed their shady xenophobic practices, released the music he wanted and raised as a star, announced his gf like saying i'm a mf human too and continues to be iconic to this day despite the current politics against tabloid idols in China, simply 👏 he won the idgaf war
I also love how he left the group - he finished all the activities, a tour and then announced his leaving, showing all the respect to the company and the members. No drama involved. Aside from other Chinese members. Same thing he did with his love life, with gratitude and self-esteem 😊
I’m so proud of Luhan. I really loved him in EXO, but I continued support him on his new career path in China. ❤
Luhan was my second bias (after Baekhyun) in EXO. Even though it may have cost him money, I think it was brave of him to announce his relationship because the reality is he is human. It’s normal for humans to date and to love. The “fans” that hurt themselves after hearing he was dating need to get over themselves and get immersed in the real world. I hope Luhan is able to make music and star in movies for as long as he wants (if that is what he wants).
The "...he owes it to us to stay single." is one of the craziest mentalities that I ever heard.
Does he owes to stay single or single forever?
Luhan never really did anything wrong. Both times he had to take these crucial decisions, he chose things for valid reasons even if they came with critism to his career but I think in a way its fine cause those are only there for his "pretty boy" imagine will reveal themselves and leave for good. His true fans would love him for his talent. He left Exo due to both mental/physical damage, low salary and discrimination. All of this especially away from your homeland without family can take a toll on anyone. We know of many cases where trainees and idols died because of extreme workload and pressure. Its not like his departure even created any rift for the group cause he chose right timing to leave after their promotions and activities were done unlike what Kris, his leader did by leaving behind their group at crucial moment. Even now Luhan cleared up his relationship status instead of dispatch revealing it. It just shows how much he does care for the fans and that they deserve to know what's he doing in life. We must understand these idols are human too who wish to crave a partner at certain point in time. Luhan is already in his 30s, he was one of the eldest members of Exo. He'd already give 11-13 years of his life as an artist. People need to at least be emphathetic to him as a decent human being. Choosing "life" and "love" over career is something no person should be ashamed off and don't deserve to be guilt trippen by fans. Luhan owns them his talent, not his life and people involved in it. Imagine being shamed for being in love and wanting to spent a happy life with someone forever when in contrast there's cases like Kris too.
Lovely couple. Hope he can come back to the entertainment industry. His acting in crossfire showcased that he can make that idol transition.
He is smart he left company that didn’t treat him well and made himself as solo artist and actor and good for him not letting fans control his life, I wish most idols were strong like him.
He has now married his girlfriend, good luck to both of them, how many people reading this would live their lives because of what someone who they don't know tells them to. They are people not products.❤
Who his girlfriend name 😅
@@ARMYXSEVENactress Xiaotong
@@leleeh she is same actress
Sweetcombet drama
@@ARMYXSEVENsome c list actress names xiaotong I think
@@elithluxe7568 then people don't know who his girlfriend is 🗿
It's very courageous of him to announce his relationship given how c-ent is
He has a right to date. He can't stay single forever. Fans are crazy, fans need to face reality and live their own life and not overly obsessing on idols. Luhan is not responsible for what harm fans do, he is just trying to live his own life, so fans should to.
I remember Mary Pickford and Shirley Temple were stars at a very young age, but their fans never forgave them for growing up. I think Lu Han has already given a lot of his life to his fans and I don't think it is asking too much to have a life and love of his own,
What he did by announcing his relationship shows how honest and noble he is as a man...and seriousness in this relationship..he was sure to spend his rest of his life with this girl rather than juggling multiple women.... He Didn't back away frm that decision at all even after facing such heinous public backlash...still went on overcoming obstacles... Can the public imagine themselves are capable to do such a thing, show this amount of courage,mental strength facing such situations??.. I bet, no...another thing, what right do they have to keep him single forever and grow old alone huh!!! They arent saints..and desires r just sick! Seriously! Yes,in his music career they r biggest supporters,,but they're not supporting him fr nothing..he earned that place with his hard work,effort and.talent.if.they didnt enjoy themselves and liked him they shouldnt have showed support in the first place..what type of support, love was that which shattered in a blink of an eye the moment they knew he fell in love with someone and its a big crime.. How absurd! I admire him for not letting these fake people lead his life or influence him in his decision and wishes,, rather faced it strong handedly... I wish him lots of happiness in his career and marriage life!!
I feel that even tho he is not as popular but i think he is the happiest by sticking to his relationship.
No one own him. Announcing his relationship is the best decision he made. Real Fans should support his idol's personal and private life. Wishing you a life full of happiness and Peace of mind. Only self centered and greedy people will think that way.
“he owes it to us to stay single”! 🤨 Ghat’s just SICK! 🤮
He owes fans nothing. He is an entertainer. Fans had nothing to do with his personal life.
@@charlenemorrisluhan owns fans love
I love and will always support LuHan💜💜💜 I want nothing more than his happiness and health. Wishing him endless fulfillment of love, life, and fortune! Fighting, LuHan!
A real fan is someone who supported him during his tough times. I'm happy he chose love over career. Whatever he wants to do with his life is his right. Why worry about fake fans who aren't interested in your happiness?
It's the lack of boundaries from the fans for me that had me shying away from Kpop in the first place. Hearing stories like this infuriates me. Idols shouldn't be treated like that. NO ONE should be treated like that.
I really think he should be happy. He is an excellent singer and actor. He is still human after all. You all who criticize him forget he is a human and his needs and love life is his. He should be happy. He worked hard to keep his fan base happy. Where is your loyalty. Let him have some happiness.
I have been a fan of LuHan since 2012. I'm so thankful to him. I can't say nothing else. He shined on stage for us, for me, he gave a distraction when I most needed it and I can't ask for more.
After looking at this video I realized LuHan is extremely brave. Even in his predebut, he went to Korea by his own to persue his dream. Then he debuted and his group became worldwide famous in no time, EXO was at the peak of their career but he didn't care about the fame, he wanted justice and peace, so he left the group and the company.
Then he chose love and honesty. He trusted his fans and announce his girlfriend to us, he did something no other idol has done with such an easy-going vibe.
LuHan is a brave man, he always has been. I remeber the day he announced his relationship and, believe me, I remember not being surprised at all. He was true to himself that day and I felt happy for him. I still do.
LuHan is the ultimate idol. ❤
liked luhan since the beginning he did the right thing by announcing to the world .this way his true fans stayed with him and it got rid of his fake fans nd toxic ones i was a fan and ill always be .
I Love Luhan. I don't understand what some Asian people are thinking. Would you not want somebody you adore and admire to be happy for having a partner? I am so happy Luhan made his relationship public, hey he is a good entertainer, Not a cure for somebody's hopelessness.
I don't understand it either....if the fans love the idols so much their happiness should be in the "love" equation. Fans the idols will never be in that kind of relationship with us...right?😄 let's just enjoy the joy they give us😊
@@Nollugs5111Exactly
"He owes it to us to stay single" those fans need to get mental help bc wtf??? He's an idol, his job is to give his fans good songs to listen, shows and movies to watch that's it, that's all he "owes" to them.
He never ages. I just hope he is happier now.
Fans should understand that he maybe a public figure or he was supported by his fans devotedly --he is still human and needs someone to be with. Luhan is grateful with the support he got from them, we need to respect his privacy. He needs happiness, too. He value his life and the surroundings he is in. Give him a break, let him be free and be himself--He loves and care for his fans very positive with that. AS WE CAN WHAT IS HAPPENING TO SOME IDOLS---BECAUSE OF DEPRESSION--THEY DO KILL THEMSELVES. BY COMMITTING SUICIDE--LIKE IN SOME COUNTRIES. PLEASE FANS BE MORE THOUGHTFUL AND CONSIDERATE---IDOLS ARE NOT OUR PROPERTY--❤❤❤❤❤
Definitely yes having a life is not a crime
I think he was my EXO bias at one point and he got me into watching Chinese dramas. I kind of forgot about him, but it's nice to see he is living a good, full life!
"He owes us to stay single"???!!! NO, he does not. I will never understand those countries that think that fans. Sad
I'm EXO-L. When Lunan announced his relationship, I surprised. Not hating, not happiness, just surprise "Oh! Is it rumor? Is it really?". I was even praised him for his bravery. He was brave to confess about his relationship to public not to slander only his GF. I couldn't understand other fans hate him and his GF. They even did shaming to that girl.
Luhan was my all time bias in EXO. I'm so happy for his choice. He's human. Let's all wish him a peaceful life. ❤❤❤
These toxic fans should leave Luhan alone.
I am just happy for him finding someone to love and to be loved. He is still loved by real fans. Understanding him as a human and accepting him as he is just always by those who truly love him. Sending love and support to you LuHan. Never give up.. Stay happy❤
Well he chose love not knowing how toxic and psychotic his fans were-I might get drunk too amid such craziness as watching my career dwindle-he must be a strong boy to stand firm and continue-yes he chose the right balance in life for him-all the best🇨🇦
I'll keep on supporting them as group as solos and with their relationship status too
I wish they can live peacefully without toxic fans drama tbh
And i really look up to luhan for his courage❤
Well I'm glad to see all the EXO members doing great in life and their careers This truly was a group full of talented people and yes it is okay for him to choose love it's stupid people are cutting themselves and jumping off of roofs just because he wants to be happy with a girlfriend I don't understand this with Korea and China obsession with people only being single but how damn long that stuff is lonely you need somebody to hold at night when you're doing bad people need to grow the hell up
I agree with this too! Fans can get pretty crazy like why would you jump of a cliff or cut yourself just because an idol is dating someone. Really???? I'm so happy for Luhan. He picked a sweet girlfriend who loves him. Honestly Luhan is the real winner here. These fans seriously need to get their lives together or even better find a boyfriend or a hobby!!!! Lol again thank you for stating the facts!!!! 🙂
ALL EXO members?? I'm sorry did u forget what kris wu did??
@@Way2go926 just because I didn't mention names I meant the 11 members because I know what happened to him I'm not living under a rock you now so calm down
He's 30+ yo, and it's better for him to marry rather than fuck around with his underage fangirls like Kris or Kun.
Wait. WAYV KUN 🤯🤯🤯
Exactly
@@chengetaimubaiwa2239no not wayv’s kun, I think the person means Cai Cukun
I agree with the comments. I want those idols whom I like to live healthy, balanced & wholesome lives with people to love and be loved by. I want them to have strong marriages & children. Youth won't last. Good looks will fade. Attractiveness will fizzle out by middle age.
He made the right choice.
I love Luhan and support his living life The way he wants. Those crazy people are not "fans" is they think they own him or that he should stay single. I'm glad he's doing what he wants and is prioritizing his life above all else
I am happy for him since the day i heard this … well those fans who expect him to stay single they need a therapist
It is so wise for luhan to announce his love and life, to avoid any fans falling too much on him. Very kind of him.
the video says “fans were devastated” , which means the fans are young teenies or mentally unstable adults. The system in Asia is broken, it produces personae, not real people. No one has a right to another person - slavery has been abolished, at least in law. This dude has guts, and brains - the rabid teenies never stay loyal for long anyway, there is always the next big thing they latch on to
Luhan we love you ❣️ and always do what makes you happy im always support you❣️
live the most fulfilling like Luhan❤
May God bless you in every walk of your life despite the outside worlds
For me, it was a good decision to go public with his dating status. He reclaimed his life. That's more important. He already lives comfortably, better than most people in the world. He has a choice to slow down and be real for himself. A fandom that begrudges a celebrity for having a personal life is toxic and dangerous.
I do think he is a good guy compared to his other bandmate, Kris Wu. He is loyal to Xiaotong, and hardly got into scandals. Who never got drunk though? He got drunk but he didn't drive, it's totally ok. Fans need to learn and understand, supporting idols doesn't mean they belong to them and need to stay single. It's suvh an unhealthy mindset, they need to get a life.
I'm glad he chose love and is still doing well. Don't let those selfish fans hold you back.
Why does asien fans always think they own the idols?... overall he is also just a human like everyone else. I totally respect his decition. Go on Luhan, we (your foreign fans) still love ❤ you
It was a very big news and bad for both of them actor and actress. Xiangtong got a lot of hate due to dating with luhan in past but now they both are getting a lot of support in their career even while dating. Xiangtong is now so popular in China and even most loved actress too. Hope they will have a happy and long journey ahead.💜💜
His girlfriend is so lucky,luhan proves how much he loves her by choosing her over his career,its a big decision for a person like him to announce his love all over the world,eventhough hos career will sacrifice.he choose happiness and im proud of him.❤
Announcing his relationship in public was such a brave but risky move. Still, I guess it's better that way. His fans need to accept the reality and if they truly love and support him, they wouldn't drop him. I think the fans who left are not really a loss. Good riddance to them who just treat him as an object. He's still a human and he definitely knows what truly matters. Prioritizing freedom, love, and life over career and success.
Yes he should choose love and look he has happy ending that’s great ❤
Wow… Luhan doesn’t owe China nor anybody anything. Shouldn’t you the fans love him for his music/acting etc., isn’t that enough for you all. Old world China needs to catch up with Society. There’s fantasy v reality. Congrats Luhan on your happiness, life, freedom to love who you want and I hope you have lots of babies. I’m so happy for you.✌️
I think he's awesome and honesty should be appreciated I think they are a beautiful couple.❤ Also at the end of the day entertainer's are still human they have dreams and goals why should people who are supposed to love and support their Idols not wish them well with a life of Happiness ..
Luhan brought me to exo and wen he left it I continued to love exo making kai my new bias but I never left luhan behind because he was such a true individual he showed love and respect to all and wen he choose love I loved him more luhan will forever be great in my eyes skin to skin love luhan forever
kudos for him. fan culture in china is so toxic and out of this world. while they suppose to be family oriented and hold traditional values yet set diff rule for celebrities. why are they not humans?
idols are humans too ,those fans who don't acknowledge that decision that was unreasonable to them don't deserved to be true fans ,I mean we should all respect each other
Idols are not any non living characters from books...they are humans and have the very right to live a normal human life.Love and life is their decision to chose and true supporters will only be happy for their decision to find happiness
One day fans need to break this norm of 'THEIR IDOLS ARE INNOCENT AND SINGLE' the sooner the better. They are not forever young. Like you look for job and marriage, they do too.
Happy for him to have found love. Proud that he can be honest about it. After all he is human with emotions. Beside he has lots of $ however let not forget, $ can’t buy happiness & love. Definitely he has made the right choice. Fame can rise but for how long…. As long he is happy
to me LUHANis the best good luck
Luhan love ❤
Completely insane, everyone has the right to date and fall in love. There is nothing wrong if they want it to be public. Fans should support artists for the art they provide, not for being single, gosh
If the ones I stan announced their relations I would be so happy that they have someone to enjoy life with
This drives me nuts
this goes out to all the haters of any public figures we love, for all his die hard fans that thinks he owes anyone of you anything is so wrong! he is human and deserves love and a life! if he had pick anyone of those fan they would not be feeling and thinking that he shouldn't be in a relationship.
if you really all care and love him, don't be so selfish and wish him all the best!
He’s successful already.. I don’t think his career is over just because he chose love…it’s part of life cycle..
The fans are crazy Luhan has a life just like everyone else..! I hope his fans understands and comes back to supporting him. For me I am not his fan. ( did not know about him till now ) I wish him the best and long life…!
I've been a fan since he debut with EXO in 2013. I've always loved his voice. When he departed EXO I was happy with it because that decision was taken taking his health into consideration and making his health his priority. And then when he announced his relationship that made me happy and so relieved because he had somone who loved him and cared for him genuinely and whom he loved back sincerely. He wasn't lonely. He deserves that much in his life. He doesn't owe us anything. I am here for his voice. I still listen to my collection of his songs when I feel too stressed, his voice is melodic and soothing and instantly helps me to feel better. He didn't deserve the backlash he got. That was downright ridiculous how some so called fans acted. Pretty sure it was traumatic for him to go through that. I am very glad both of them are still together and their love is still going strong. It was his gentle and healing voice that captured my heart. And I will forever be a fan of that ❤
Definitely yes to your question at the end having a life is not a crime
Oohhh I didn't know that this is the reason why I don't see much about luhan after 2017. I kinda expected the reactions of fans but didn't thought that it will be THAT serious cause after being a fan of him for 4 years in 2017 I was happy for him announcing his relationship specially after everything he experience and work tirelessly before
I support luhan i love you luhan ❤ paparazzi leave luhan alone
I will never understand how netizens think they own their idols. Netizens date and get married all the time!! Why can’t their idols? We don’t own their private lives, and I will never be okay with how many Korean and Chinese fans treat their celebs. They are human beings and deserve to find love and family just as much as anyone else!!
He put himself first!! 👏🙌
I am still a fan. And wish them both the best and happiness ❤❤❤
I am so proud of him for breaking those stereotype
Entertainers should be respected for what they put out and work for during their careers. Their personal lives shouldn't affect their careers.
They're people too and need companionship just like everyone else.
I really am glad he is going his own way ❤ its sad that he was treated so terribly but sometimes its a early death so I hope he is doing well now to bad he couldn't continue because of the bad fans! Who thought he belonged to them and he can have no personal life! That is disgusting that those fans would rather him die than be happy they are terrible so called fans they will have a miserable life probably sad. May he do great!
These fans are crazy 🤪 what kind of psychotic behaviour this? 😳
Well i am sure he is pretty rich already, he probably has enough $$ to live happily fir the rest of his life and he can also make more even if he isnt an idol.
"He owes it to us to stay single" He owes you jack sh!t and f*ck all nothing. If you truly love your idol as a fellow humanbeing you want them to be happy and healthy and also wish them a great love story and one day get married and have a family of their own. Its what we all deserve. It's what your idol deserves, right? You don't own him, they don't even know you on a personal level or you never even met. And even if you did see him, you are a face in a crowd of thousands. I get that it's sad to think about sometimes, that you will never be that close to this idol you are absolutely in love with or adore. But you don't own them.
I'm 💯 percent with him and his choices, his life is only his and he's entitled to choose what is better for him. Being a fan means you should support your idol and be happy for his/her happiness. I'm sorry for all the backlash but I'm glad he stood his ground.
LuHan is THE standard
Be on crazy fans... he needs to live and love for himself . Performance is his job, two different worlds. His real life is his own, and all that stress he must of suffer were due to crazy people who wanted to die alone. His fans and companies that wore him out are serious, selfish, and disturbing .
Its always so crazy to me that some Asian fans are so crazy possessive abour famous people. Like, its a job for them at the end of the day, its cool to have crushes or faves but, you dont own them!! 😂 And who hasn't had a drunk night out with friends? Thats part of being young, most people just dont have the world watching when they do it.
The fact, wherever he on the news the title will be "former EXO member"
Congratulations to him. Everyone deserves to have a life.
Yes, He is wise to choose Love.
True Love last a life time.
Carreer is only temporary.
You are popular when you are young or in demand.
Family first is a wise choice.
At the end of the he needs companionship,will his career be his life companion,Give him a break, everyone needs love
It's truly concerning what some people view as devastating news. It shows how skewed some people's priorities are.
These netizens are craaazzyyyy. lol
What netizens, it Exols who said all this.
All I hope is for this guy's wife to stay loyal to him because he went against the world for her. I hope him happiness.
Good for you Luhan. I feel so happy for him.
Most of the fans of pop idols are very much toxic and that is so disgusting 💔 We have to know every idol is a human being therefore they also posse normal human emotions and needs. Fans have to respect them idols and accept them as humans.
Luhan is characteristic of most Chinese Kpop idols of SM. Once they achieved fame via Kpop, they left the agency complaining they’d been overworked. The truth is that their Kpop fame enabled them to be famous in China so that they’d opt to focus there because it’s a very big market. They’re basically mercenaries.