30:00 I straight up think it's selfish when a guy likes you, but you don't wanna ruin the friendship so you keep stringing him along and being vague. Let him find another girl for him and you move on to find yours... sheesh. Sorry if that was uncharitable btw.
I would say be gentle with your friend. His heart is lurking for a women, which is a great honorable thing. Discuss with him different ways he could interact with women. For women, I would say give a guy the benefit of the doubt, don't label them as "creepy" too often. Women aren't the best at talking to men either. Good topic to discuss!
Thank you for this, Amber. As a young man (23), I can relate to that late 20's guy a lot. I think I feel that desperate for someone when I am idolizing the human relationship over God. In the end, I can't love anybody well if I don't love God. So my goal is to focus on Jesus first, and let whatever happens happen.
A lot of Catholic men even in the TLM have poor social skills. A relationship requires so much. Same values, same beliefs, but also attraction and social skills. And if you do all that and it doesn't work still, maybe God wants you to only be satisfied with him for now or you have issues that need healing and repenting of.
Yeah.... if you're desperate to date others, you're putting so much pressure on yourself that when it doesn't happen, you can get resentful, bitter, and angry. I know it's scary at the idea of being single forever, but relationships are all about self giving, and when you want to move to another city to be with someone before you even actually talk, that's so unwise and desperate. Chill out, and give it to Jesus and trust in him, and better yourself. But don't make an idol out of marriage. I feel like our society has a lot of suffering because we were taught to 'wait till you're 30" to get married and THEN being slammed with "if you're 30 you're too old to have kids" (mostly women)... so I'm not surprised that people are desperate to force it when they're "too old". Society has run us through the mill and back. Sometimes from our own parents and family have led us astray.
Hello, Amber Rose. I'm 44 years old. I'm married. I have 2 young girls 11 & 6. I've been following your UA-cam channel and many others like Gabi@afterhours. .....just in this topic ...your assessment on the issues for guys (10 min and on) I don't believe your message is clear. I think you should address men with this issues specially Catholic young guys, send them to their local priest. "as I women I can say that's really creepy" (14:59) yeah, that's what we all men fear big time perception from women today. It's better to invite the audience to the bishop or local priest, they LITERALLY hold the pulse of their Diosesis. Meaning they have the best information how catholics or any regular young men need to hear. And also. We men don't like to hear advice from girls. Just saying. In marriage we listen to our wife's because she is our main core interest, but when we listen from other women it's just sound aggressive. It's just the same way you women don't take advise from men about PMS. And men we listen to blunt trues since being toddlers. So that thing of "worried about hurting his feelings if I say something " that's girls words. That's not a guy talking. Sound it to me it was a girl pretending to be a guy in her writing. And we men pick that right up. We can tell. I think you went In Circles with the subject and you kept sounding like bias, just for girl talk. I'm not expert. I'm just saying men inner personal enhancements and skills it's way better that we hearing it from guys not girls. Please my intentions are not to discourage you. I'm just arming my self for the possible future battles with my future teen daughter (not yet though). Hopefully you can skip the "what I feel" defense mechanism. I'm a Guy. We are blunt all the time.
I might dare to pose a question of ‘RITE’ mixing. I wouldn’t want to encourage a Maronite or Melkite into the Roman Rite and have her find difficultly connecting to Christ. Adds a new level to ‘compatibility’ in dating.
30:00 I straight up think it's selfish when a guy likes you, but you don't wanna ruin the friendship so you keep stringing him along and being vague. Let him find another girl for him and you move on to find yours... sheesh. Sorry if that was uncharitable btw.
I would say be gentle with your friend. His heart is lurking for a women, which is a great honorable thing. Discuss with him different ways he could interact with women. For women, I would say give a guy the benefit of the doubt, don't label them as "creepy" too often. Women aren't the best at talking to men either.
Good topic to discuss!
What a great video! There’s such a divide between men and women these days and it’s unnecessary, we’re all just people :)
Thank you for this, Amber. As a young man (23), I can relate to that late 20's guy a lot. I think I feel that desperate for someone when I am idolizing the human relationship over God. In the end, I can't love anybody well if I don't love God. So my goal is to focus on Jesus first, and let whatever happens happen.
A lot of Catholic men even in the TLM have poor social skills. A relationship requires so much. Same values, same beliefs, but also attraction and social skills. And if you do all that and it doesn't work still, maybe God wants you to only be satisfied with him for now or you have issues that need healing and repenting of.
Yeah.... if you're desperate to date others, you're putting so much pressure on yourself that when it doesn't happen, you can get resentful, bitter, and angry.
I know it's scary at the idea of being single forever, but relationships are all about self giving, and when you want to move to another city to be with someone before you even actually talk, that's so unwise and desperate. Chill out, and give it to Jesus and trust in him, and better yourself. But don't make an idol out of marriage.
I feel like our society has a lot of suffering because we were taught to 'wait till you're 30" to get married and THEN being slammed with "if you're 30 you're too old to have kids" (mostly women)... so I'm not surprised that people are desperate to force it when they're "too old". Society has run us through the mill and back. Sometimes from our own parents and family have led us astray.
Amber quoting the “looking for a man in finance” 😂 Didn’t know I needed that until now.
Sorry to hear about your dad.
It is absolutely necessary to be a Catholic for salvation. MHFM Most Holy Family Monastery.
She is a whole distraction in the sense of how during Lent we excise such distraction right out of our lives. God help us all
It is not good that man should be alone I will make a helper suitable for him-god
Great topics
Thanks for the chapters.
Hello, Amber Rose. I'm 44 years old. I'm married. I have 2 young girls 11 & 6. I've been following your UA-cam channel and many others like Gabi@afterhours. .....just in this topic ...your assessment on the issues for guys (10 min and on) I don't believe your message is clear. I think you should address men with this issues specially Catholic young guys, send them to their local priest. "as I women I can say that's really creepy" (14:59) yeah, that's what we all men fear big time perception from women today. It's better to invite the audience to the bishop or local priest, they LITERALLY hold the pulse of their Diosesis. Meaning they have the best information how catholics or any regular young men need to hear. And also. We men don't like to hear advice from girls. Just saying. In marriage we listen to our wife's because she is our main core interest, but when we listen from other women it's just sound aggressive. It's just the same way you women don't take advise from men about PMS. And men we listen to blunt trues since being toddlers. So that thing of "worried about hurting his feelings if I say something " that's girls words. That's not a guy talking. Sound it to me it was a girl pretending to be a guy in her writing. And we men pick that right up. We can tell. I think you went In Circles with the subject and you kept sounding like bias, just for girl talk. I'm not expert. I'm just saying men inner personal enhancements and skills it's way better that we hearing it from guys not girls. Please my intentions are not to discourage you. I'm just arming my self for the possible future battles with my future teen daughter (not yet though). Hopefully you can skip the "what I feel" defense mechanism. I'm a Guy. We are blunt all the time.
I might dare to pose a question of ‘RITE’ mixing. I wouldn’t want to encourage a Maronite or Melkite into the Roman Rite and have her find difficultly connecting to Christ. Adds a new level to ‘compatibility’ in dating.
Will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers