I remember when my grandpa passed. We gathered at the house. My grandma was being comforted by my mom and her siblings. A 12 yr old step cousin was walking around saying he wants this and that. I was livid, at 15, and went off on him.! "Who do you think you are? IF you get anything it'll be up to grandma! You're greedy. Have some respect!"
Good for you, little bastard needed to hear that. My mother-in-law died of metastatic ovarian cancer, and when my partner and I got home from the hospice, literally one hour after her death, we found her three middle-aged siblings, two sisters and her brother, going through her closet and all of her drawers and her jewelry boxes. My partner exploded, and told them, "my mother's not even cold and you lowlife they're stealing from her. Get the fuck out of my house!" (He bought that house before he and I moved in together, and let his mother move in and live there rent-free several years earlier.) I could not believe their gall! As it happens she left them nothing. She left most of her personal effects to another sister who lived on the other side of the country, and was the only sibling to whom she was close. She didn't even have a relationship with any of the thieves who were looting her bedroom!
I had an adult cousin who was going thru grandpas thing to claim them and was looking for gramps' pocket watch. I hid it. The cousin was escorted out with nothing. Grandma would decide who got what.
Sandra: "I'm going to move into your house, and I expect you to be a good little boy and let me move in with no complaints. Understand?" Me: "If you try to invite yourself or move into my house, I will have the State Police remove you from the property."
Right from the get go, I would have told Sandra ‘This is none of your business!’ Yet when _she’s_ asked why she’s in desperate need of money and how is it she’s struggling, Sandra tells her that’s none of her business. Well when you’re trying to steal a house that has nothing to do with you it is!
they don't, but many think that because you inherit the money after the marriage that said money (or property) also belongs to them as well due to being married to the person who got the money. here's what these gold diggers forget: the person who inherits the money gained the ability to said inheritance by birth. that precedes marriage. so, unless there's a will that mentions them by name and how much or little they get, the answer is they don't get jack.
Hey Sandra, you have ZERO claim to any inheritance. It's strictly between the siblings and anyone else named in the will. No, it isn't his 'birthright', those days are long gone. And Sandra, I would meet you at the door with a friend named Mossberg, followed by government employees to remove you. Then you'll get to explain to the judge your little theories of ownership.
I'd tell her very firmly in writing that she is NOT getting to move in, she is NOT getting to claim any share, she does NOT have a say in what my brother & I decided between ourselves, and that I will call the cops and have them ready to arrest her for trespassing on her moving-in day. Screenshot, BCC all over the place, and get ready to press charges.
What’s with all these people thinking the son always inherits the house? That’s so anachronistic. What century is this? With no will, assets are split equally between the heirs.
Most of these originate in Japan. What's normal in the US does not always apply in Japan. They hire mostly English language voice actors, but the script writers don't always understand the cultural differences. In many cases Japan is still a patriarchy. And their inheritance laws, in absence of a will, tend to favor primogenitor with males given precedence.
@@deaniej2766 , Spot on. BTW, one of the text sites seems to originate from Vietnam. Cultural differences definitely explain many of the weird scenarios.
You cant just "take" someone's house.. whoever name is on deed/loan papers is who the house belongs to.. sandra is a bobble head. How did she think she could move her lover into her SIL house without her husband knowing? Is she ok?😂😂😂
Is she okay? Considering what she does when her husband is away on business trips, considering that she assumes and presumes that Cathleen will take care of her son for her after she invades the house, while she goes out and does as she pleases, I would venture to say “not at all”: major airhead.
Having a grip on reality is not a strong point for some people. I've known people whose reality is that which they want to be the case. The wailing and raging when reality smacks them upside the head.
@@silkandstones5964she may not have needed his input, but the house wasn't his either for her to move into. Sisterinlaw just jumping the gun quite a little bit. 😮
As long as the children of the deceased are present, no one else can, especially spouses of the children poke their nose in the inheritance matter. Until and unless they have been authorized by the concerned inheritor. Never entertain BIL's or SIL's to discuss about your parents inheritance. They only have the authority when their spouse are deceased.
He's punishing you by not talking to you My ex-husband informed me with the divorce that he had been punishing me by withholding sex when you get done laughing and you can get yourself off the floor then you finish the paperwork for the divorce
If Mom has two kids and doesn't leave a will everything is evenly divided between the children are in agreement between the children otherwise everything is sold and the money divided between the children it's none of s i l's business unless she talks to her husband about something specific
I was terrified my sister-in-law would try to take my parents house, because she always felt the “son” should get it and most everything. I ended up getting the house and all money was split 50/50, mind you, she made these comments to our parents 🤦♀️ My brother is very sweet, but never will stand up to his wife
Common in Japan and China at least. I knew someone who lived in a business’s company dorm when I lived in Japan. And some colleagues who worked for other schools lived in faculty apartment complexes owned by their schools. Really cheap. I wasn’t so lucky!
I've seen something in some of these stories talking about dorms at their job, is that a thing in some jobs? Or is it something in other countries? I haven't worked a lot of jobs so maybe it's just something I'm not aware of.
My mom has the same name as OP, although she spells it with a "K" and goes by "Kathy." And my stepmom's first name is "Sandra," although she goes by "Sandy."
hay it's better with 2 siblings I have like 4 other siblings one of them Is living with me and he put me in a group not knowing my phone number so I'm in a chat with two of my sister and probably 2 of my brothers idk
I remember when my grandpa passed. We gathered at the house. My grandma was being comforted by my mom and her siblings. A 12 yr old step cousin was walking around saying he wants this and that. I was livid, at 15, and went off on him.! "Who do you think you are? IF you get anything it'll be up to grandma! You're greedy. Have some respect!"
Rude little twit!!! I would have smacked him upside his head!! But that’s me💁🏽♀️
Perfection good!
Good for you, little bastard needed to hear that.
My mother-in-law died of metastatic ovarian cancer, and when my partner and I got home from the hospice, literally one hour after her death, we found her three middle-aged siblings, two sisters and her brother, going through her closet and all of her drawers and her jewelry boxes. My partner exploded, and told them, "my mother's not even cold and you lowlife they're stealing from her. Get the fuck out of my house!" (He bought that house before he and I moved in together, and let his mother move in and live there rent-free several years earlier.) I could not believe their gall! As it happens she left them nothing. She left most of her personal effects to another sister who lived on the other side of the country, and was the only sibling to whom she was close. She didn't even have a relationship with any of the thieves who were looting her bedroom!
@@cynaraslover deepest condolences to you on your loss. I was just explaining this to my aunt. How incredibly sad and heartbreaking.
I had an adult cousin who was going thru grandpas thing to claim them and was looking for gramps' pocket watch. I hid it. The cousin was escorted out with nothing. Grandma would decide who got what.
Sandra: "I'm going to move into your house, and I expect you to be a good little boy and let me move in with no complaints. Understand?"
Me: "If you try to invite yourself or move into my house, I will have the State Police remove you from the property."
Right from the get go, I would have told Sandra ‘This is none of your business!’ Yet when _she’s_ asked why she’s in desperate need of money and how is it she’s struggling, Sandra tells her that’s none of her business. Well when you’re trying to steal a house that has nothing to do with you it is!
Sell everything and divide equally between siblings. I don't think in-laws have any claims to inherit unless they are owed money by the estate .
they don't, but many think that because you inherit the money after the marriage that said money (or property) also belongs to them as well due to being married to the person who got the money. here's what these gold diggers forget: the person who inherits the money gained the ability to said inheritance by birth. that precedes marriage. so, unless there's a will that mentions them by name and how much or little they get, the answer is they don't get jack.
So, Sandra wants a house she is not entitled to, and cancel
canceling her lease will make her homeless.
Hey Sandra, you have ZERO claim to any inheritance. It's strictly between the siblings and anyone else named in the will. No, it isn't his 'birthright', those days are long gone.
And Sandra, I would meet you at the door with a friend named Mossberg, followed by government employees to remove you. Then you'll get to explain to the judge your little theories of ownership.
I'd tell her very firmly in writing that she is NOT getting to move in, she is NOT getting to claim any share, she does NOT have a say in what my brother & I decided between ourselves, and that I will call the cops and have them ready to arrest her for trespassing on her moving-in day. Screenshot, BCC all over the place, and get ready to press charges.
Is it common for the eldest to inherit everything? Where I come from, the parent's assets are equally divided amongst the children.
What’s with all these people thinking the son always inherits the house? That’s so anachronistic. What century is this? With no will, assets are split equally between the heirs.
Most of these originate in Japan. What's normal in the US does not always apply in Japan. They hire mostly English language voice actors, but the script writers don't always understand the cultural differences. In many cases Japan is still a patriarchy. And their inheritance laws, in absence of a will, tend to favor primogenitor with males given precedence.
@@deaniej2766 , Spot on. BTW, one of the text sites seems to originate from Vietnam. Cultural differences definitely explain many of the weird scenarios.
You cant just "take" someone's house.. whoever name is on deed/loan papers is who the house belongs to.. sandra is a bobble head. How did she think she could move her lover into her SIL house without her husband knowing? Is she ok?😂😂😂
Is she okay? Considering what she does when her husband is away on business trips, considering that she assumes and presumes that Cathleen will take care of her son for her after she invades the house, while she goes out and does as she pleases, I would venture to say “not at all”: major airhead.
Having a grip on reality is not a strong point for some people.
I've known people whose reality is that which they want to be the case. The wailing and raging when reality smacks them upside the head.
LoL she is a fruit loop I don't think she is ok she is a air head who needs to be in a mental hospital 😂
The SIL is a witch! She is moving in without any input from her husband.
@@silkandstones5964she may not have needed his input, but the house wasn't his either for her to move into. Sisterinlaw just jumping the gun quite a little bit. 😮
Don’t understand how some spouses think they can control their spouse inheritance & think it’s theirs when it’s not? Karma
As long as the children of the deceased are present, no one else can, especially spouses of the children poke their nose in the inheritance matter. Until and unless they have been authorized by the concerned inheritor. Never entertain BIL's or SIL's to discuss about your parents inheritance. They only have the authority when their spouse are deceased.
Nice actresses. The way the dialogue and expression good and interesting to listen. Good job you guys. Keep it up.
How do some people make it to adulthood when they completely clueless about how the world works ?
He's punishing you by not talking to you My ex-husband informed me with the divorce that he had been punishing me by withholding sex when you get done laughing and you can get yourself off the floor then you finish the paperwork for the divorce
10:25 Mobile banking in the 21 century, Yes you can. XD
Why is thr op being nice to the trash,SIL who seems to be a thief as well
If Mom has two kids and doesn't leave a will everything is evenly divided between the children are in agreement between the children otherwise everything is sold and the money divided between the children it's none of s i l's business unless she talks to her husband about something specific
You still have to pay property tax on the house.
Companys have dorms for employees? I don't think that happens in the US. ...maybe logging companys or the military.
Sandra should have not been ever get married
She gives me a bad name 😂. I'd just mind my own business
Just another ĝreedy in-law!
I was terrified my sister-in-law would try to take my parents house, because she always felt the “son” should get it and most everything. I ended up getting the house and all money was split 50/50, mind you, she made these comments to our parents 🤦♀️
My brother is very sweet, but never will stand up to his wife
Where are all these businesses that have dorms for their employees? I’ve never heard of that, except for in these stories.
Common in Japan and China at least. I knew someone who lived in a business’s company dorm when I lived in Japan. And some colleagues who worked for other schools lived in faculty apartment complexes owned by their schools. Really cheap. I wasn’t so lucky!
How is it sister in laws business?
Because she thinks that since she's married to the older brother that she has a right to do so when she actually doesn't she's just an idiot
I've seen something in some of these stories talking about dorms at their job, is that a thing in some jobs? Or is it something in other countries? I haven't worked a lot of jobs so maybe it's just something I'm not aware of.
Ummm, I'm nearly 80, and I do almost ALL my banking thru my phone!
In what country is this story supposed to be? Work dorms for part time jobs? Not in the US for sure.
Japan.
Interesting.
That’s the plan not that’s the story right now.
Financial abuse is a thing too
My mom has the same name as OP, although she spells it with a "K" and goes by "Kathy." And my stepmom's first name is "Sandra," although she goes by "Sandy."
Its not free. Taxes & insurance are just the start even after the house is paid off
Move into Kenny's place.
In laws (outlaws) have no say in anything after the spouses parent dies. I’d have told SIL to step back. She has no say in anything.
When has it ever cost money to renew a contracr/lease. I have never had to pay to renew my lease ever.
hay it's better with 2 siblings I have like 4 other siblings one of them Is living with me and he put me in a group not knowing my phone number so I'm in a chat with two of my sister and probably 2 of my brothers idk
This is fake, but the conversation would have been a lot shorter with me followed by a letter from an attorney and maybe a no trespassing demand
SANDRA LISTEN UP AND LISTEN GOOD THERE TOO CUPCAKE