Filian is hecking blind if she can't see this. She needed Shondo to open her eyes, which she did. Now she can't avoid it anymore, and the only way she could keep ignoring it would be to lie to herself. Fortunately (and unfortunately for her mods), both chat and clip watchers are not completely blind. I dare say, most are even reasonably intelligent. We see what's been happening, plain as day.
@@ethanfreeman1106 she isn't blind she just doesn't care we are talking about a woman who almost got her ass sued for stealing her model from the artist and the only reason the artist didn't go through with it is because she didn't want to deal with the fans and all the effort it would take
@@dadcomeback1470 She didn't "steal" the model. The main issue was making merch for the model, not using it. Maybe don't try to twist the facts quite so hard. Also, not all people love suing as much as Americans.
Banning the word "groomer" after being called out by Shondo is such a petty and comically counter-productive move it honestly almost defies belief. Filian's mods haven't heard of the Streisand effect apparently. Not even seriously trying to fight the accusations with that sort of behavior.
@@esquire9479 love how shondo's market's herself as a discord kitten but she actually can be super mature and responsible when it's needed. Truly imoutodaughterwife material
Filian: why cant you guys say anything nice to me? Her mods when someone says something nice: how dare you be nice to her? That's our job and you're threatening our position.
Bro the dude the said something first was WEIRD. That is exactly the person that does stalk and harm because of some parasocial relationship they made up.
@@robertsommers3540 it was weird but it wasn't harmful in any way. Welcome to the vtuber reality where ppl who need to touch grass say weird shit without actually taking action
@@robertsommers3540 vtubers existed for years bro, not the first time viewers get para social, it rarely gets to the harmful part, and it actually never happens with western audiences, what the guy said isn't motif for ban
To the people who say, “Oh she’s parasocial with her chat, why is she being a hypocrite?” Shondo never said she wasn’t, she’s saying that her mods aren’t and her viewers are because of the power dynamic. Filians mods are parasocial with filian, if you watch her stream then you’d see that but the have a direct issue with anyone else doing it. That is a bit weird. I’ve seen people who were subbed for 6 months get banned for agreeing with filians friends when they said she was cute after filian insulted herself
As we saw, the groomer mods (who get picked by the head groo- I mean head mod) have also successfully gaslit Filian into thinking that any compliment aimed towards her by a chatter is an attempt at killing her or something.
@@FlamingTruth She specified her mods, not her general viewers. One of the conditions of becoming a mod on Shondo's channel, according to her, is to not treat her like her other fans do (aka.: daughter/sister/wife). Her mods are also not people who are frequent chatters, nor have a large presence in the chat. She is on of the most para-social v-tubers out there, and has admitted to this explicitly multiple times.
5:21 It's very convienent that Filian's mods just so happened to notice that UA-cam picks up on bad words in chat immediately after Shondo called them out for being groomers. Hmm, almost like that was an excuse to ban the word groomer in her chat, so that chat couldn't talk about the issue. 🤔
Filian giving power and authority to the weirdos is what concerns me. I have never watched her twitch streams before, so I guess it doesn't change much, but now there's one more thing I know I need to actively avoid. Imagine how many other people are going to feel this way. Completely normal, entertainment-loving internet people. They'll be gone soon, leaving only the weirdos. I'm not saying this will definitely happen, but if it does, it'll be because Filian brought it upon herself.
ill tell you the difference between Filian and other streamers. paying for your model and not ripping it from VRchat and then bragging you did that and then making merch of the stolen model for money illegally and not apologizing and getting a new model commissioned you have merch rights to. FIlian isnt a good person
How did you interpret this moment? I’m trying to understand this conversation and what each person’s thoughts could be. Filian thinks that having parasocial mods is normal and expected from every streamer’s community and asks shondo how her community is somehow more parasocial, manipulative, or controlling. This is evident as Filian mocks Shondo for believing that shondo’s mods are not allowed to be parasocial, going “I’m different from other girls” ironically. Filian thinks that shondo is disconnected from reality, not taking shondo’s words at face value. Shondo says that filian is not different than the other streamers, and trying to imply that filian is just is vulnerable to grooming as anyone else. However, filian interprets shondo’s answer as “my community is normal just like I thought” and then tries to move on. I think there’s a disconnect fundamentally between what filian believes is normal and healthy and what shondo believes is normal and healthy. Ultimately, had shondo tried to address filian’s core belief by being more specific, (ex. “Nothing- you aren’t different than other streamers because you are just as vulnerable as them and need to assert protective measures just like they do.”) maybe they would have been able to see eye to eye instead if assuming they both were talking about the same thing. Filian, at least the on screen persona displayed in this video, lacks the proper specificity and awareness necessary to refute shondo’s claim. Likewise, shondo’s persona is unable to pierce through filian’s veil by keeping to an established goalpost and getting filian to try and refute her claim.
@@metallicarabbit completely off topic, plus the model she's used originally is free and public. Her stupidity lies within the fact that she made a public model her personal thing and tried tried to market it. Fillian isn't a bad person, she's just extremely dumb and irresponsible
A lot of people question why Hololive talents don’t have mods, and they don’t, at least not hires from within the community and fanbase. I uh, I think this is the clear reason why. Shit like this.
Hololive does have in community mods now. At the very least from the EN side, I've seen a few streamer mod interactions. Hololive mods have to sign a contract tho, they filter their mods carefully. Also their mods very rarely chat on stream so you dont really see them out and about. Its more common to see a manager using the talent account to chat than it is to see a mod
Speaking as a person that used to be a mod for some pretty big gaming discords, if your selection process for mods is giving you trash, you won't get rid of the trash by cycling it through faster.
I must be living in the future with all the things going over my head. Can anybody explain this to my normie ass? I know "post-irony" is supposed to be being so invested in the meme that you start to genuinely believe it, but I can't figure out how this fits into the contexts. Please ampersand.
@@wojak-sensei6424 she accused fillian of using post-irony because fillian said that a guy wasn't being a creep and wanted to harm her while he was just expressing his love for her and never really said anything actually creepy. Like you said, she got too invested in the meme of the incel creepy viewer to defend her mods nonsensical ban reason
Oh yea, I forgot about pokimane. She completely fell off the radar. Heard she became a man-hater or something? I'm not sure, she was kinda cute looks-wise, but never that entertaining, so I simply didn't bother. What's the deal with her now?
So basically when Filian becomes a man-hater we'll know it was because she didn't listen to Shondo. I hope Pippa, Kirsche, and Smugalana watches these clips and tells Fillian that Shondo is right.
@@AmuterSI Idk. I liked watching Smugalanas reactions until half her content was just about how miserable men are and her community was just about demonizing women, or being devoid of having any nuanced takes in that matter. I guess thats just the other side of the same coin...
@Mao_Dedong No nuance to have, women are absolute unbridled destructive evil, and the sole reason Western Civilization is going extinct, although I agree with you that Alana's content is way too much of a pity party.
There is no nuance to have. You have two genders, one that tries it's best to provide for everyone, and another that has such a level of narcissism they are incapable to understand other people are actually people and that they are not protagonists in a movie. Alana's reactions are too much of a pity party though.
At this point, Filian’s mods aren’t even trying to hide how corrupt they are anymore. They’ve pretty much gone full mask-off now that they know Filian will never actually do anything about it. Props to Shondo for not even hesitating to call them out on their blatant abuse of power.
"We banned groomer because Yt demonetizes you for random things chat says" If you are capable of reading this comment without entering the "Newest" tab, then that's a lie, because that means it's not considered a No-no word.
Yea I know how terrible yt's censorship is lately but even that is going too far. If I type "groomer groom because they like grooming" and "groomer groomer groomer" and "groomers gonna groom" in quick succession like this and you can still read this comment, it means Filian's mods' excuses were entirely made of fiction and falsehood. 😂
7:04 I'm being personally attacked 7:31 "oh you want a personal attack? " I'm usually not one for drama but it was actually interesting to see shondo rattle the cage a little. considering how casual vtubers usually are this amounts to basically philosophical debate. hopefully all in good fun they're both great.
Shondo is great, she can handle herself-that's how she can even spare the effort to worry about her friend here. Filian is in shambles, and honestly she kinda deserves it. She's been fumbling the bag for too long. I don't hate Filian, I just hate seeing her ruin herself. Shondo is a much needed wake-up call. I wish everyone had a friend like Shondo.
@@ethanfreeman1106 Shondo is the friend that will tell you something you poured blood sweat and tears into is hot garbage, but then spend an entire day helping you make it while sharing her hot garbage project and laughing about it together. Fillian has been hanging out with Pippa and Kirsche often so I hope they have a positive influence. At least hope they let her known when something stinks
@@kroanius8808Filian? Smart? 😂 This woman took her model for granted, which she just randomly pirated off the 'net and thought she could keep using someone else's asset as her own and for free without ever having to ask for permissions. Until the original creator contacted her, anyways, and I guess it's (kinda?) settled for now after they talked and made a deal. My impression of Filian was previously "she's just a little silly hyperactive gal" but now it's gone way past silly. She's entertaining, sure, while her sense of humor is not exactly my cup of tea she does liven up the room, and she always hangs out with a bunch of cool friends, so she's usually pretty fun to watch. But smart... she isn't. Edit: This is the second time I mention Hanlon's Razor this week, but I don't think Filian is smart enough to be manipulative. She's genuinely not very bright and getting taken advantage of.
She definitely needed to hear this. It may not be what she wants to hear, but it's a very reasonable and legitimate criticism. Shondo might not be the friend Filian deserves, but she's the friend Filian needs right now. She just doesn't realize that yet.
Not sure if you're in on the joke, but if not... It's a bit. No one's trying to groom anyone. Mods banned a person who was being wierd and parasocial. Shondo took the opportunity to turn it into more content, and Filian played along with it. Like every other bit of improv done by her or any other streamer. Filian "being defensive" is just part of the entertainment. Yeah, sure, she's probably a little annoyed, but that's the same as with the flat, short, and furry jokes. But I feel like there's no way I have to explain in this level of detail the way streamers do improv comedy.
@@dang.9209Nah Shondo was not joking and the mods behavior is consistent to what she was saying. You are coping hard. The mods are far more parasocial than any viewer in chat lmao. They just get to ban anyone else who expresses it. You are coping.
I think after I cooked the mods in the last video they stayed quiet during this one. Hopefully filian replaces them with peeps who won't call her "my filly" and get uncomfortable when shondo calls out their obvious hypocrisy.
Few people have been dragged through the gutter of life as Shondo has been AND still made it, wisdom is implied at this point, that's all I'm gonna say.
I'm glad she called some mods out, I got permantly banned from ShyLily's Chat just for complementing her new outfit less that 24 hours of its release. And I didn't even say anything sexual about it. Then the mod was mad because I said, wow can't even compliment outfit without offending chat. Like damn, I get giving mods timeouts but allowing them to permantly ban someone like that is crazy. Automatically unfollows and everything.
A number of the most recent mods that were added are long time watchers that were already active on her discord, so it's not surprising of the parasocial allegations here.
she'll change them as soon as she changes to a model she didn't steal and recolor from VRchat without the authors permission :) meaning she wont ever do it
Filian definitely believes in the goodness of her mods (possibly too much so, who knows? I personally am more of a clip watcher so I'm not in danger of getting banned), but more than that she even MORE definitely has an issue with being complimented that's patently obvious to anyone who watches her content. If anyone gives her positive attention beyond a surface level "I think you're cool" she retracts and basically doesn't know how to react.
That's a reaction within itself, I honestly prefer it. People just saying "oh, thank you" to everything almost demotivates from future compliments. Her being flustered feels more genuine and adorable.
Its because most of the time she gets insults even from her friends, yes they are in a joking manner and she even encourages people roasting her. But receiving a genuine compliment would be so awkward for someone who makes her main content off of self deprecating jokes.
I agree with shondo completely. Filian used to be just a little silly, but how she's so defensive towards constructive criticism while letting her mods keep abusing their powers, instead of appreciating her actual audience and letting them express themselves genuinely? Now that's pure cringe. Filian catering to her mods' sense of self-righteousness is not at all unlike the modern gaming and entertainment media industry catering to the activists (who like both censorship on things they don't like, and preaching their own ideologies a little too much) instead of the actual gamers and viewers. If Filian doesn't change her ways soon, she'll eventually have no viewers left. None of the good kind, anyway. You had an incredibly based colleague/friend who bravely pointed it out for you, out of genuine concerns for both you and your audience. It's up to you now, Filian.
Man that got real towards the end, shondo actually made some really good points and was serious for once and fillian just wouldn't take her seriously and she got called out for it. If that's how fillian usually acts irl when you try to have a serious conversation then i can see that getting really annoying like it was for shondo here. banning people for being nice is bizarre and unhealthy and will quickly cultivate an unhealthy chat in the future
Shondo being based as usual, nothing new here but on a serious note I don't think Filian will ever do something about her mods because everyone knows how she can be so lazy sometimes but I really feel for the people that watch Filian and do their best to not say the "wrong" thing so her mods don't ban them because Shondo might farm parasocial viewers but Filian's mods being allowed to be parasocial and those mods not letting her community even send one positive message that isn't even parasocial is just insane
@@whydidtheychangemyname I forgot to mention that it was all allegations from the victim, but it seems like Filian doesnt want anything todo with it, but then it happened literally on her own discord
I'm gonna be real, I completely agree with shondos takes. I've watched filian for 2 years and I have seen people get banned for complimenting filian and or saying positive things about filian. I think it is concerning that the mods ban anyone saying nice things about filian. I also understand that filian has her own boundaries when it comes to chatters being weird but most of the time it just isn't being weird it's just being nice in a non toxic or para-social way. I am starting to believe myself that the para-social ones in filians chat ARE the mods. Look at it this way, the mods have a direct way of talking to filian 1 on 1. That isn't super bad on itself but paired with the mods banning people that are nice to filian it really is undeniably weird and para-social. I think filian should take a look at her mods and decide if they are being weird.
I remember some VTuber said that Filian is: "Actually a very smart girl, and she's just pretending to be stupid for laughs". I absolutely agree with this, because I have seen a lot of stupid people and I can confidently say that she is not like that. So the fact that she's so defensive and trying to change the subject ( 06:45 ) so violently makes me a little worry...
People can have their blind spots, and I’ve never seen people call her stupid. Oblivious at times, reckless, careless, disorganized, and a mess sure, but never stupid. I don’t think that post irony comment shondo made was made for no reason as that does seem like what Filian is doing: masking and exaggerating feelings or flaws to the point people think that it isn’t genuine when it partially is. Then again don’t know the content creator better than their friend so what do I know?
When Filian asked "what makes me different from the rest of twitch?" Shondo should've said "Nothing, but that doesn't mean you should stop doing better."
tbh after seeing the lot of people get banned and timeout for comments that actualpy real concern to filian. Yeah Shondo indeed see something going on here lol.
Filian can pay some rando $100 but cant pay for her stolen model. also Shondo is hella based as always, i only watched this to see her throw shade at filian and her mods
Comparing these two is like comparing a sit down restaurant vs fast food. A long video essay vs a tik tok compilation. A theater production vs a summer blockbuster. Both are similar, but very different at the same time.
The way Filian deflects and defends her mods makes me think she’s a pickme who knows EXACTLY what she’s doing If anything I’d bet she wants her mods to Simp for her so she DOESNT have to pay them and in return they just blanket silence whatever they feel like and to Filian that’s a price she’s willing to pay for moderation. I’d 100% believe Filian is not who she is on camera and knows EXACTLY what she’s doing and that’s why she won’t change.
her mods banned "groomer" is really all the proof you need
Shondo is a legend
Filian is hecking blind if she can't see this. She needed Shondo to open her eyes, which she did. Now she can't avoid it anymore, and the only way she could keep ignoring it would be to lie to herself.
Fortunately (and unfortunately for her mods), both chat and clip watchers are not completely blind. I dare say, most are even reasonably intelligent. We see what's been happening, plain as day.
@@ethanfreeman1106filian doesn't want accountability. It is easier for her to have current mods.
@tengir-too this is how we know she was born a girl. Girls are allergic to accountability
@@ethanfreeman1106 she isn't blind she just doesn't care we are talking about a woman who almost got her ass sued for stealing her model from the artist and the only reason the artist didn't go through with it is because she didn't want to deal with the fans and all the effort it would take
@@dadcomeback1470 She didn't "steal" the model. The main issue was making merch for the model, not using it. Maybe don't try to twist the facts quite so hard. Also, not all people love suing as much as Americans.
Shondo cooking as usual
Filian getting cooked as usual
Perfectly balanced
As all things should be, even during these troubling times, Shondo will roast the Mods.
Banning the word "groomer" after being called out by Shondo is such a petty and comically counter-productive move it honestly almost defies belief. Filian's mods haven't heard of the Streisand effect apparently. Not even seriously trying to fight the accusations with that sort of behavior.
Thats why i like shondo because shes the discord kitten world champion
filians mods are losers lol
@@esquire9479 love how shondo's market's herself as a discord kitten but she actually can be super mature and responsible when it's needed. Truly imoutodaughterwife material
Shondo's incisive clarity about power relations is a bit terrifying.
Shondo is very smart.
Shondo is wife
Filian: why cant you guys say anything nice to me?
Her mods when someone says something nice: how dare you be nice to her? That's our job and you're threatening our position.
Bro the dude the said something first was WEIRD.
That is exactly the person that does stalk and harm because of some parasocial relationship they made up.
@@robertsommers3540 it was weird but it wasn't harmful in any way. Welcome to the vtuber reality where ppl who need to touch grass say weird shit without actually taking action
She really ask her viewers to be nice and at the end of this video she proceeds to say its cringe.
And you wonder why you dont have a boyfriend yet
@sneakyfloppa935 There is a difference in being nice and confessing your love for someone you only know thru the internet...
@@robertsommers3540 vtubers existed for years bro, not the first time viewers get para social, it rarely gets to the harmful part, and it actually never happens with western audiences, what the guy said isn't motif for ban
To the people who say, “Oh she’s parasocial with her chat, why is she being a hypocrite?” Shondo never said she wasn’t, she’s saying that her mods aren’t and her viewers are because of the power dynamic. Filians mods are parasocial with filian, if you watch her stream then you’d see that but the have a direct issue with anyone else doing it. That is a bit weird. I’ve seen people who were subbed for 6 months get banned for agreeing with filians friends when they said she was cute after filian insulted herself
That's seriously messed up. That's just fostering a toxic culture within her own community.
As we saw, the groomer mods (who get picked by the head groo- I mean head mod) have also successfully gaslit Filian into thinking that any compliment aimed towards her by a chatter is an attempt at killing her or something.
Actually Shondo explicitly said she wasn't at 4:05 lol
bro she was trolling. obviously that person should of been banned xD
@@FlamingTruth She specified her mods, not her general viewers. One of the conditions of becoming a mod on Shondo's channel, according to her, is to not treat her like her other fans do (aka.: daughter/sister/wife). Her mods are also not people who are frequent chatters, nor have a large presence in the chat. She is on of the most para-social v-tubers out there, and has admitted to this explicitly multiple times.
"They hated Jesus, for he spoke the truth"
VTubers are the uwu, the simp and the cringe.
True but how is it relavent?
@@ShamdonEndimion shondo
shut up
Whoa chill with anti-biglongnose'ism
5:21 It's very convienent that Filian's mods just so happened to notice that UA-cam picks up on bad words in chat immediately after Shondo called them out for being groomers. Hmm, almost like that was an excuse to ban the word groomer in her chat, so that chat couldn't talk about the issue. 🤔
Filian giving power and authority to the weirdos is what concerns me. I have never watched her twitch streams before, so I guess it doesn't change much, but now there's one more thing I know I need to actively avoid.
Imagine how many other people are going to feel this way. Completely normal, entertainment-loving internet people. They'll be gone soon, leaving only the weirdos.
I'm not saying this will definitely happen, but if it does, it'll be because Filian brought it upon herself.
How can my imouto wife be this smart and based and right about everything she says?! 😭😭😭
She's been through stuff. She's an experienced woman 😂
Emotionally damaged women or women with some mental disorders are often pretty based because they have been through tough times.
“What’s so different between me and any other streamer?”
“Nothing.”
* sound of an arrow sailing over filian’s head *
ill tell you the difference between Filian and other streamers. paying for your model and not ripping it from VRchat and then bragging you did that and then making merch of the stolen model for money illegally and not apologizing and getting a new model commissioned you have merch rights to. FIlian isnt a good person
@@metallicarabbit womp womp
How did you interpret this moment? I’m trying to understand this conversation and what each person’s thoughts could be. Filian thinks that having parasocial mods is normal and expected from every streamer’s community and asks shondo how her community is somehow more parasocial, manipulative, or controlling. This is evident as Filian mocks Shondo for believing that shondo’s mods are not allowed to be parasocial, going “I’m different from other girls” ironically. Filian thinks that shondo is disconnected from reality, not taking shondo’s words at face value.
Shondo says that filian is not different than the other streamers, and trying to imply that filian is just is vulnerable to grooming as anyone else. However, filian interprets shondo’s answer as “my community is normal just like I thought” and then tries to move on. I think there’s a disconnect fundamentally between what filian believes is normal and healthy and what shondo believes is normal and healthy. Ultimately, had shondo tried to address filian’s core belief by being more specific, (ex. “Nothing- you aren’t different than other streamers because you are just as vulnerable as them and need to assert protective measures just like they do.”) maybe they would have been able to see eye to eye instead if assuming they both were talking about the same thing.
Filian, at least the on screen persona displayed in this video, lacks the proper specificity and awareness necessary to refute shondo’s claim. Likewise, shondo’s persona is unable to pierce through filian’s veil by keeping to an established goalpost and getting filian to try and refute her claim.
@@metallicarabbit completely off topic, plus the model she's used originally is free and public. Her stupidity lies within the fact that she made a public model her personal thing and tried tried to market it. Fillian isn't a bad person, she's just extremely dumb and irresponsible
A lot of people question why Hololive talents don’t have mods, and they don’t, at least not hires from within the community and fanbase. I uh, I think this is the clear reason why. Shit like this.
It's corporate, dont they have a dedicated team of mods for all their talents? That's a benefit of more organization.
Hololive does have in community mods now. At the very least from the EN side, I've seen a few streamer mod interactions.
Hololive mods have to sign a contract tho, they filter their mods carefully. Also their mods very rarely chat on stream so you dont really see them out and about. Its more common to see a manager using the talent account to chat than it is to see a mod
Term limits for mods
Speaking as a person that used to be a mod for some pretty big gaming discords, if your selection process for mods is giving you trash, you won't get rid of the trash by cycling it through faster.
Hell yeah, democracy
"Cringe is depending on post-irony instead of being genuine."
Brutal takedown.
I love the irony of the loli imouto wife being the straight man telling Filian "thats a fucked up relationship you have with your mods"
had to pause the video when I heard that, that must've hit Filian like a truck damn
@@Chuito12PRLoli imouto wife is prime gigachad with her mindset ngl
I must be living in the future with all the things going over my head. Can anybody explain this to my normie ass? I know "post-irony" is supposed to be being so invested in the meme that you start to genuinely believe it, but I can't figure out how this fits into the contexts. Please ampersand.
@@wojak-sensei6424 she accused fillian of using post-irony because fillian said that a guy wasn't being a creep and wanted to harm her while he was just expressing his love for her and never really said anything actually creepy. Like you said, she got too invested in the meme of the incel creepy viewer to defend her mods nonsensical ban reason
god shondos point about post-irony was so good, shondo really knows how the internet works
u really don't expect her to be that thoughtful. she is trying to save filian from turning into pokimane
Oh yea, I forgot about pokimane. She completely fell off the radar. Heard she became a man-hater or something? I'm not sure, she was kinda cute looks-wise, but never that entertaining, so I simply didn't bother.
What's the deal with her now?
So basically when Filian becomes a man-hater we'll know it was because she didn't listen to Shondo.
I hope Pippa, Kirsche, and Smugalana watches these clips and tells Fillian that Shondo is right.
@@AmuterSI Idk. I liked watching Smugalanas reactions until half her content was just about how miserable men are and her community was just about demonizing women, or being devoid of having any nuanced takes in that matter. I guess thats just the other side of the same coin...
@Mao_Dedong No nuance to have, women are absolute unbridled destructive evil, and the sole reason Western Civilization is going extinct, although I agree with you that Alana's content is way too much of a pity party.
There is no nuance to have. You have two genders, one that tries it's best to provide for everyone, and another that has such a level of narcissism they are incapable to understand other people are actually people and that they are not protagonists in a movie. Alana's reactions are too much of a pity party though.
At this point, Filian’s mods aren’t even trying to hide how corrupt they are anymore. They’ve pretty much gone full mask-off now that they know Filian will never actually do anything about it. Props to Shondo for not even hesitating to call them out on their blatant abuse of power.
I love that I got an ad for pet grooming supplies for this video lol
Either you like wholesome animal videos too or you're being funneled into the dark YTKids content.😅
Google Adsense is confused and has the wrong spirit.
"We banned groomer because Yt demonetizes you for random things chat says"
If you are capable of reading this comment without entering the "Newest" tab, then that's a lie, because that means it's not considered a No-no word.
The funny part is that Filian's UA-cam channel isn't monetized.
Correct, I can still see your comment perfectly fine.
Yea I know how terrible yt's censorship is lately but even that is going too far.
If I type "groomer groom because they like grooming" and "groomer groomer groomer" and "groomers gonna groom" in quick succession like this and you can still read this comment, it means Filian's mods' excuses were entirely made of fiction and falsehood. 😂
@@ethanfreeman1106 Yup, seeing your comment just fine as well.
Imagine being so full of shit you have to lie about UA-cam censorship to cover your ass. 🤣
7:04 I'm being personally attacked 7:31 "oh you want a personal attack? "
I'm usually not one for drama but it was actually interesting to see shondo rattle the cage a little.
considering how casual vtubers usually are this amounts to basically philosophical debate.
hopefully all in good fun they're both great.
Shondo is great, she can handle herself-that's how she can even spare the effort to worry about her friend here.
Filian is in shambles, and honestly she kinda deserves it. She's been fumbling the bag for too long. I don't hate Filian, I just hate seeing her ruin herself.
Shondo is a much needed wake-up call. I wish everyone had a friend like Shondo.
@@ethanfreeman1106 This is true.
I'm legit worreid she'll hurt herself soon :/
@@ethanfreeman1106
Shondo is the friend that will tell you something you poured blood sweat and tears into is hot garbage, but then spend an entire day helping you make it while sharing her hot garbage project and laughing about it together.
Fillian has been hanging out with Pippa and Kirsche often so I hope they have a positive influence. At least hope they let her known when something stinks
@@Chuito12PR shondo is the friend that nobody deserves but that everybody needs
Never seen Filian being this defensive, like actually annoyed. But maybe she needs to hear this.
filian is way to smart not to know this way before and using the mods trying to groom here to extort free labour out of them.
@@kroanius8808Filian? Smart? 😂 This woman took her model for granted, which she just randomly pirated off the 'net and thought she could keep using someone else's asset as her own and for free without ever having to ask for permissions. Until the original creator contacted her, anyways, and I guess it's (kinda?) settled for now after they talked and made a deal.
My impression of Filian was previously "she's just a little silly hyperactive gal" but now it's gone way past silly. She's entertaining, sure, while her sense of humor is not exactly my cup of tea she does liven up the room, and she always hangs out with a bunch of cool friends, so she's usually pretty fun to watch. But smart... she isn't.
Edit: This is the second time I mention Hanlon's Razor this week, but I don't think Filian is smart enough to be manipulative. She's genuinely not very bright and getting taken advantage of.
She definitely needed to hear this. It may not be what she wants to hear, but it's a very reasonable and legitimate criticism.
Shondo might not be the friend Filian deserves, but she's the friend Filian needs right now. She just doesn't realize that yet.
Not sure if you're in on the joke, but if not... It's a bit. No one's trying to groom anyone. Mods banned a person who was being wierd and parasocial. Shondo took the opportunity to turn it into more content, and Filian played along with it. Like every other bit of improv done by her or any other streamer. Filian "being defensive" is just part of the entertainment. Yeah, sure, she's probably a little annoyed, but that's the same as with the flat, short, and furry jokes.
But I feel like there's no way I have to explain in this level of detail the way streamers do improv comedy.
@@dang.9209Nah Shondo was not joking and the mods behavior is consistent to what she was saying. You are coping hard. The mods are far more parasocial than any viewer in chat lmao. They just get to ban anyone else who expresses it. You are coping.
Christ. That was a deep beat down on the character of Fil's mod team. Shondo's hands are thrown with no mercy.
I think after I cooked the mods in the last video they stayed quiet during this one. Hopefully filian replaces them with peeps who won't call her "my filly" and get uncomfortable when shondo calls out their obvious hypocrisy.
"Am I an idiot?" asked Filian
**Eight straight whole minutes that answers her question right there**
I like how Filian routinely tries to shut Shondo down every time she's called out lol
"We did it for UA-cam" is an empty argument when you see how Pippa and Kirsche talk.
Filian is almost unbearably naive
That comment from Shondo about post irony sticks out to me for some reason.
Filian needs to hear stuff like this. If she got more of it, maybe the Nendroid thing wouldn't have happened.
Few people have been dragged through the gutter of life as Shondo has been AND still made it, wisdom is implied at this point, that's all I'm gonna say.
I'm glad she called some mods out, I got permantly banned from ShyLily's Chat just for complementing her new outfit less that 24 hours of its release. And I didn't even say anything sexual about it. Then the mod was mad because I said, wow can't even compliment outfit without offending chat. Like damn, I get giving mods timeouts but allowing them to permantly ban someone like that is crazy. Automatically unfollows and everything.
I got a time out for recommending psyllium husk
@merick3395 from what I've seen she does talk about pooping a lot so that's kinda wild as well
How can such a smol creature have sooooo much based energy?
Shondo dropping facts
Seriously speaking, Filian needs to reshuffle her mods. They're Moderators not Groomers ffs.
A number of the most recent mods that were added are long time watchers that were already active on her discord, so it's not surprising of the parasocial allegations here.
she'll change them as soon as she changes to a model she didn't steal and recolor from VRchat without the authors permission :) meaning she wont ever do it
Shondo's too real for Filian's mods lol. I wonder if they seethe whenever she comes on the stream. Someone leak the mod chat please lol
When Shondo speaks I shut up and listen
Don't lie, we all know you just loudly sob and scream "uooooooooooh" :p
Can someone explain why Shondo is so fcking based?
She's the collective baseness of the whole British isles.
She's literally schizophrenic and does not care for social norms.
@@RambleOn07 you mean the british emirates
She is schizophrenic, iirc. That buffs her basedness a lot
@@xelpad2379she gave us all a schizo pass.
I guess having a real and brutal mental disorder gives you perspective in life.
the offended mods using alts in this comment section are so funny
They rejected Shondo's message. They hated her because she told the truth.
I was listening to filians responses and then I remembered that she was actually dumb. So that tracks.
Filian definitely believes in the goodness of her mods (possibly too much so, who knows? I personally am more of a clip watcher so I'm not in danger of getting banned), but more than that she even MORE definitely has an issue with being complimented that's patently obvious to anyone who watches her content. If anyone gives her positive attention beyond a surface level "I think you're cool" she retracts and basically doesn't know how to react.
There was a clip of Layna (I think?) complimenting her and she just starts rolling on the floor and leaves. So yeah, that checks out
usually she just starts barking smh
That's a reaction within itself, I honestly prefer it. People just saying "oh, thank you" to everything almost demotivates from future compliments. Her being flustered feels more genuine and adorable.
Its because most of the time she gets insults even from her friends, yes they are in a joking manner and she even encourages people roasting her. But receiving a genuine compliment would be so awkward for someone who makes her main content off of self deprecating jokes.
@@ADrug taruuu. but its a shame chatters are being banned as a result
Her mods have a good chance of doing a Camilla situation
Someone is getting blacklisted from clipping this
I agree with shondo completely.
Filian used to be just a little silly, but how she's so defensive towards constructive criticism while letting her mods keep abusing their powers, instead of appreciating her actual audience and letting them express themselves genuinely? Now that's pure cringe.
Filian catering to her mods' sense of self-righteousness is not at all unlike the modern gaming and entertainment media industry catering to the activists (who like both censorship on things they don't like, and preaching their own ideologies a little too much) instead of the actual gamers and viewers.
If Filian doesn't change her ways soon, she'll eventually have no viewers left. None of the good kind, anyway.
You had an incredibly based colleague/friend who bravely pointed it out for you, out of genuine concerns for both you and your audience. It's up to you now, Filian.
Filian stole her model from VRchat and bragged about it and made merch from the stolen character illegally, Filian has never been a good person
@@metallicarabbitmy guy that issue was resolved with the artist a long time ago. Look up another excuse.
@@genjishim5014 if filian was good that situation wouldn't happen in first place, look up another answer.
Man that got real towards the end, shondo actually made some really good points and was serious for once and fillian just wouldn't take her seriously and she got called out for it. If that's how fillian usually acts irl when you try to have a serious conversation then i can see that getting really annoying like it was for shondo here. banning people for being nice is bizarre and unhealthy and will quickly cultivate an unhealthy chat in the future
Shondo being based as usual, nothing new here
but on a serious note I don't think Filian will ever do something about her mods because everyone knows how she can be so lazy sometimes but I really feel for the people that watch Filian and do their best to not say the "wrong" thing so her mods don't ban them because Shondo might farm parasocial viewers but Filian's mods being allowed to be parasocial and those mods not letting her community even send one positive message that isn't even parasocial is just insane
Shondo is correct, but filian and her chat are alike. Parasocial and immature. The bullying is how affection is shown.
They react negatively towards compliments. They want banters
adding the fact that one of her mods are a literal predator, and filian have yet to address it.
@@Volkevism Wait really? This is the first I've heard of that, what happened?
@@whydidtheychangemyname I forgot to mention that it was all allegations from the victim, but it seems like Filian doesnt want anything todo with it, but then it happened literally on her own discord
@@Volkevismokay can you share more info? I am hearing about this for the first time. Is there a video about it?
Shondo dropping the nuke.
Best way to test this theory is have all of chat spam compliments at fillian, the mods can't ban all of them
Wait, she still getting groomed by them?
First song is "Who's there?" from the Persona 4 OST - in case you were wondering where you know this from.
Hope Filian cheap ass about mods don't bite her ass later like about her model. Nothing is free, you pay one way or another.
God, Filian's so naive sometimes. It's genuinely hard to watch.
Naive?
@littlebabyman8494 adjective. having or showing a lack of experience, judgment, or information; credulous
More like willfully ignorant
Shando the Queen of parasocials. Based scitzo farming
Good dammit, how are you not supposed to love based shondo.
I'm gonna be real, I completely agree with shondos takes. I've watched filian for 2 years and I have seen people get banned for complimenting filian and or saying positive things about filian. I think it is concerning that the mods ban anyone saying nice things about filian. I also understand that filian has her own boundaries when it comes to chatters being weird but most of the time it just isn't being weird it's just being nice in a non toxic or para-social way. I am starting to believe myself that the para-social ones in filians chat ARE the mods. Look at it this way, the mods have a direct way of talking to filian 1 on 1. That isn't super bad on itself but paired with the mods banning people that are nice to filian it really is undeniably weird and para-social. I think filian should take a look at her mods and decide if they are being weird.
Filian: There's a wolf inside me.
Shondo: We know you're a white woman...
IYKYK...
Perhaps Filian should move to Denmark, it's legal there.
How she sneaked that furry (or something worse) allegation in there completely slipped my mind. 😂
You just know
Super Detective Wife Shondo solves another case.
I remember some VTuber said that Filian is: "Actually a very smart girl, and she's just pretending to be stupid for laughs". I absolutely agree with this, because I have seen a lot of stupid people and I can confidently say that she is not like that.
So the fact that she's so defensive and trying to change the subject ( 06:45 ) so violently makes me a little worry...
People can have their blind spots, and I’ve never seen people call her stupid. Oblivious at times, reckless, careless, disorganized, and a mess sure, but never stupid. I don’t think that post irony comment shondo made was made for no reason as that does seem like what Filian is doing: masking and exaggerating feelings or flaws to the point people think that it isn’t genuine when it partially is.
Then again don’t know the content creator better than their friend so what do I know?
Mizkif on the Math Question Show
I used to think that, until she almost got herself killed with a lava lamp.
@@shindracDidn't she also drink her wisdom teeth?
The fact that Fillian calls out to her mods whenever Shondo makes a good point. Like what're they gonna do? Lol
That is my wife Shondo
shondo dog joke hit me like a left hook
Got a bit to real for Fillian there by the end.
Trying to "brush the hair" of Shondo would be impossible, she would know all the tricks, and trick you instead...
Chat is being groomed so hard by the mods.
They'd groom us clip watchers too if they could. Be careful out there mate 😂
Shondopoints be salient, yo.
Shondo understands the rules of power. She's a British Queen
Nobody works for free. Filliana's mods are working to use her, Shondo is based as hell.
My knees?... I'm kneeling to Shondo automatically?... Nani?
Imagine being sassed up and dissed by a cute and funny silly girl, *and* being a mod
Bros are stacking Ls kek
I don't know what to say. Feels like Fillian lied way too much to protect her mods or she is ignorant about what her mods do behind her back.
The dissonant Persona 4 music really added
I love shondo for speaking the truth.
Filians mods are shondo's biggest haters
Wow, Filian was legit getting mad and defensive over Shondo.... Wild
Shondo being based, again. Filian really does need to curate mods
When Filian asked "what makes me different from the rest of twitch?" Shondo should've said "Nothing, but that doesn't mean you should stop doing better."
3:03 Good aside from the huge flashbang, but it's nothing we haven't seen before.
Shondo is still too based for Filians world view.
Filian is practically stepping into UA-cam Kids territory with her mindset
Wife
Is it just me or does it seem that Filian doesnt understand the 1984 reference?
Shondo is still on the dot
Dude Shondo is so real i want her to marry me
Goddamn we really encourage this shit
Shondo should be chief mod
Well shit if the mods haven't got better i guess that means i gotta continue staying away from her channel rip
7:02 Back in the Day being abusive was a no-no
fillians mods are overly protective
they ban people for the dumbest things
Shondo speaking the truth
tbh after seeing the lot of people get banned and timeout for comments that actualpy real concern to filian. Yeah Shondo indeed see something going on here lol.
Good music choice. A lot of vtuber shorts have persona music
Subbing to Shondo now lol
Shondo is unfathomably based bro
2:38. Good thing Filian didn’t overreact 👍
Filian can pay some rando $100 but cant pay for her stolen model. also Shondo is hella based as always, i only watched this to see her throw shade at filian and her mods
That issue was resolved you retard
@@genjishim5014 Because it had to be, otherwise things could’ve been taken to court and Filian would’ve stood no chance there.
Filian has a TERRIBLE support group
Comparing these two is like comparing a sit down restaurant vs fast food. A long video essay vs a tik tok compilation. A theater production vs a summer blockbuster.
Both are similar, but very different at the same time.
Wait how old is filian?
The way Filian deflects and defends her mods makes me think she’s a pickme who knows EXACTLY what she’s doing
If anything I’d bet she wants her mods to Simp for her so she DOESNT have to pay them and in return they just blanket silence whatever they feel like and to Filian that’s a price she’s willing to pay for moderation.
I’d 100% believe Filian is not who she is on camera and knows EXACTLY what she’s doing and that’s why she won’t change.
did they ban groomer word? its instantly disappear when someone chat that
Based Shondo
MODS = BRITISH WORD FOR CIGARETTES